What message do you have for Evangelist Nancy Kolomani you can reach her through 0723442439 Subscribe to her RUclips channel here: ruclips.net/channel/UC7VLrj62FWEqcH-LbtNW5Bw To share your story on Tuko Talks, send an email to ann.nyathira@tuko.co.ke Remember to subscribe to Tuko if you haven't already.☺ Thanks for watching.🙏
No matter how many times you've fallen, just rise up dust yourself and keep on moving, there's know one who is perfect, we're on the road towards perfection, much love girl 🥰🥰
u have spoken my mind we all start from somewea watu nao wamwmuingilia🥺🥺but i also believe the corrections will make her learn atasoma comments n improve❤
Vijanaa ndio tujifunze...Sex before marriage is a deadly sin and always youths losts or dirtyfy their stars and destinations...sex is spiritual take care ladies and gents!!!
It doesn’t matter wether married or not. Even married people get HIV. Just pray that you end up with a faithful man or woman who doesn’t jump from one person to another.
We need to incorporate sex education (including safe sex, abstinence, consent, family planning, etc) into our curriculum instead of burying our heads in the sand like the proverbial ostrich. Very young people are obviously engaging in sex. No amount of religion, scare-mongering and threats will ever beat a (sexually and otherwise) well-educated person. So, information, imformation, information.
children get really traumatized from their mother staying in bad marriages, even if there is no violence. it is very traumatizing. just leave. even if you have nothing it is better to have peace for your children.
Nancy, you have surmounted many mountains and you keep winning. It would be advisable to seek professional counselling to ground you further and help you overcome the "father deficit" issues that follow your life choices and circumstances. To all father's out there, please allow yourselves to be a safe place for your daughters throughout their lives so that they don't end up falling prey to wolves dressed as men.
I can relate to you my dear when it comes to father....I too was pregnant @17yearsold ...my father drove me away....he made me uncomfortable all the time....I had to get married and by the time I get out of that marriage, I had 2 kids at 19 years....that was way back..... anyway as a single mum I can never push my kids to get married...*mistakes always happens and we learn from them if you are given a room to...* I'm glad you are doing great,grace of the Lord is upon you and your family....
Am really wondering why she refers to boyfriends as husbands & a common visit to a random man's house as marriage. It's not right. There is a delusion with young girls & some women today about what marriage is. None of these men paid her dowry for heaven's sake or even met her parents. Anne please next time ask relevant questions. What marriage??? These were random visits. The story is a lesson on bad decisions because of desperation to be with any man. Am hoping she realizes this as well because it appears she's in denial about the role she played in all these. She seems to see herself as a victim of bad men in society. No my dear. You were a victim of your own bad decisions. The lesson is not on HIV. She needs counseling & self-reflection. Otherwise hiding under the 'reverend' umbrella without confronting the why and how questions is another way of deceiving herself.
Thanks for stretching out this point… I have noted cohabitation in Kenya is automatically classified as marriage, well bad decisions. Hope she gets counseling.
She is overly nice and naive,she hopped to so many unhealthy relationships I just can't understand how many disappointments she needed to avoid rushing into the relationships
The far I have watched the video, she has not given much background on her parenting or type of childhood she had. She clearly has an attachment style that leads her to seek validation from men. Makes her make all the wrong choices in life.
I am glad is taking charge of her journey unlike msny of u hypocrites. She has not once said she is victim. She just related her journey Perfect stone throwers
@@nankihoaeane4396it's not about hypocrisy. We all make mistakes but we have to own the past & be honest about the choices we made so we don't repeat the same destructive patterns. Still referring to random boyfriends as husbands at this stage in her life is misleading and makes one wonder if she truly believes those relationships were marriages or she's just in denial. She did not have to say she's a victim. It's littered all over the story. The entire narration seems to blame the men who mistreated her. Not once does she talk about why she put herself in those situations. What's the end? Does she still believe that being with a man makes her complete?
As women, if you expect that a man would be the one to solve your problems hautatoboa. This lady should have just raised her first child and awekewe family planning... But I like how beautiful and optimistic she is. Good job Ann
Ann nyathira you are here wondering how young she looks, we are here wondering same about you baby face😊.Everyone has a story to tell woooiii🙆♀️🙆♀️, Nice interview it was amazing.
There were so many red flags in all these relationships. What I see is a woman who was too desperate and too naive from shags who was never properly taught about self love and self worth but rather choose to seek that validation from other men. Yeye tu bora akona bwana. In a way her kids suffering are as a result of her own bad decisions and lack to think thoroughly through whom to be with.
Did you say bwana? Hapana those were common men in her life , coming n going ..she never loved any of them hata ..she was extra naive .may God be with her.
Hii yako nayo ni ya kujitakia,the best weapon in life is the power to say NO.its unfortunate if you lack it especially if you are a young beautiful woman like you,coz you will always be a prey
And I think that as much as Nancy appears so strong and composed, you listen to her keenly you realize she also needs more counseling to keep her composed
A lot of people are judging her harshly yet she has clearly improved over time and is even reaching out to others who may find themselves trapped in abusive relationships. She hasn't blamed her mum for basically abandoning her nor has she blamed her father for being too harsh even though it's clear both of them have had a role to play and could have done better. She also hasn't hidden the truth about how she got into those relationships, she's being as honest as it gets, people are just pretending yet they know dozens of people who have found themselves in marriages and relationships in similar circumstances but never admit it. She's also to be commended for starting her ARV treatments as soon as possible and informing her partner, that shows she cares for those in her life even though that might be a reason why she got into relationships with parasitic and abusive men in the first place. Those men know who to target. I also admire her for being a very honest evangelist, she hasn't hid her faults and struggles and even admits her failings as a parent and that the consequences of staying in a violent relationship have started to catch up with her. Very many evangelists or pastors or priests are out here pretending to live perfect lives yet a month doesn't pass without a new scandal of a pastor drunk driving or raping a child or engaging in adultery or cleansing corrupt politicians or land grabbing etc It's better to have an evangelist like her who is open with her journey and is making progress day by day. After all, we are only human. I do hope she can get more therapy together with her children and her husband and I hope she never gives up. She is saving lives today of people who are in similar situations and believe no one can relate. Lives which would have been lost had she kept quiet for 10 more years.
Don't worry Nancy, you are not alone in this situation, tuko wengi, bt tafuta pesa, nunua point moja huko kky, kaa hapo na watoto utulie, atlist watoto wapate where they can call home
How is this story ending seriously?? She's pregnant and we haven't been told who's the father.. is she still together with that man? Who's this man you are saying she finally found love in.. actually what's the purpose of this story😡😡
@Nancy Samuelson Oh... so low self esteem is for dark skinned people? wow colorism at its best. Anyone can be a victim. Its in the upbringing. Seems her dad was very harsh and she sought male attention from all the wrong places.
@Nancy Samuelson what men are you talking about? 'Men' who look at colour don't rank as real men. It wouldn't bother me what their opinion is. They don't qualify to be counted as men.
Nancy it's our church where you came and we helped you when you delivered your baby and could not even buy food to eat. I am glad you are born again and an evangelist. I am pastor Nancy.
I don't want to judge her coz people go through a lot but i think she should have given herself time before moving from one man to another. I feel she made quick decisions...
It’s not judging. It’s correcting with love. She doesn’t seem to have grasped the seriousness of her actions and the consequences, even now as she tells the story. The cycle of abuse will continue with her children. She needs to find herself and her identity, first, then seek therapy for her and her children. Hiding behind religion will not help her. She needs to unlearn whatever twisted ideas she had in her head about herself through therapy. Her kids need the therapy even more, or the cycle will continue. This stupidity most stop!
Jumping from one man to another is a big problem women should change na kuekelea mungu kila kitu you don't even know even the devil can answer your prayers
@@amachildofGod yes devil can answer your prayers just because he wants to destroy everything about you marriage ya kwanza na ya pili ikishidikana lea watoto kwa amani achana na wanaume kwasababu watoto wako wataumia
When she laughs you know it was an anxious|akward moment for her (hugs). Now on the lessons;- ° Self love, ° Self confidence = self esteem, ° Sexual health (STDs n Is, Contraceptives, Reproduction) education are VERY IMPORTANT. These education starts with the parents....please love your children, protect your children, be open - educate your children.
I will not judge.. Bt this if not the greatest personality in the world of living today is much more.. Congrats mum..How you narrate your violence is just class... Can only wish you good life n nothing less n may the almighty grtly step into ur life n let's hear a Grt testimony of you in the near future..(God is the giver of life)
Aaiii first of all hakuna mtu huolewa cha nguvu..ulijipata western ata afathali ukope mahali urudi kwenyu na already ulikua na mtoi kwenyu..the fact that ulipata ball nikumaanisha ulikubali mambo ya kuolewa the first time,so usiseme uliolewa kama hujui..second of all ..ukapata a good job badala uache the guy alikua anacheat unaendelea nayeye kwani ulikua mjinga aje juu apo ndio ulipata ukimwi..hii mashida yote ni ya kujiletea..anyway..watu wajichunge and make right decisions..
Some people are naive....and desperate you cant blame that on her.....shit happens and its life....kuna watu wamechanuka others dont know things.....reason...maybe hawakuambiwa....so they face life without much guidance...for example thinking she could change a man... Basically the point am trying to drive home is she was simply naive...it happens...dont judge.
You said she found love again,where? Are they still together? Did abusive stop? Pregnant with the same man or who? Any counseling for the kids?is she okay right now? You could have done part 2...
Thank you Ann for this episodes,,,, but imetuwacha hanging,,,is she still with the husband or she got married again because I can sew she is pregnant,,,
Atleast hii interview nime watch yote Sio kama ya previous, Ann kudos 👊 hii umeifanya poa umempea time ajieleze poa❤❤❤. Hao watoto wanafaa Counselling wamejionea mengi 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Nancy has sweet spirit ..O God bless her n keep lifting her from glory to glory ..True Nancy you are doing n amazing job .to eradicate this HIV stigma ..O God let your perfect done b done upon Nancy ..n bless her children n heal them emotionally O God . Keep up the good work of Evangelism too wao ! Servant of God talented amazingly ..ie with coat of many colours like Joseph of the bible ..more favor, anointing , grace , healings in Jesus precious mighty name!
So many questions to ask but nyathira is not asking like whether how she came to get the baby this story can go up three episodes if it was narrated and questions asked i wish mumanyi did it like we could understand all this has taken place in adulation of how many years waa and the pregnancy now.
I agree with you. She should have asked her how she transitioned from the previous relationship to the current one, especially considering she is already pregnant.
Such a touching and encouraging story. Nancy its clear you have been through alot however i must admit that you are such a stronng soul especially the fact that you have neva been suicidal, kudos! may God widen your paths. on the other hand i'd advise if you can get a professional counselor who can take your kids through the sessions to prevent them from future trauma. Great story though.
I miss Lynn...hapa kuna maswali mingi za kuuliza but seems the interviewer amekuwa listener just like me. Without further adooo...tunataka maswali kieleweke my dear.
What you were never taught/told is that there's more to life than being married, having a boyfriend or being proposed to. Baby gal, you failed yourself. Life is not a big joke as you take it. Anyway, I wish you wisdom.
She did not failed herself... one thing you have to know we all came from different backgrounds. We were all taught different the way you was taught by your mom and dad it's different from the way she was taught.. this lady she's not asking anyone for help infact we are learning from her my dear... she can do better all by herself.
Me listening to this conversation but I can not continue beauty with no braids👎I got pregnant when I was 17yrs and i learnt my lesson now 10yrs later here iam abroad working and paying all my daughters Bill's !Am I dating yes did I get pregnant again no! Use condoms or family planning until he puts aring on it period.
Some men will put a ring on it and still make you go through hell. The best thing is for women to have kids that they can comfortably raise with or without a man.
We need part two of her story pliz. Is she still with that drunkard violent man? Did she blood test her children? Is that pregnancy for her violent man? Did the husband finally change and how?
Asking for my neighbour is the Evangelist still with this man who puts basin kwa kichwa ....is the marriage there...she's expecting bado...am not judging her at all. But you have energy to overcome and very strong... therapy for your children needed
Too many references of boyfriends as husbands and random visits to a man's house as marriage. Am wondering whether she knows she made bad decisions or she's blaming the men who mistreated her.
Its a good story...but this gal doesn't know whats marriage, staying with a man doent make him a husband...starting to preach doent make you an evangelist....gal you and the kids need counselling i pray and hope you get help.
Just trust in God pray and go again and test u will be shocked God can heal u and no matter what never give up keep moving the chapter can be sad but next to be the best🙏
You put yourself in a very sad situation. Girl child can really stress parents when they start doing things against the norms. Actually i don't understand why you put yourself in such marriages , you messed yourself big and lowered your value totally. you can't be just married by strangers just Kienyeji. Without the guys visiting your parents first no introductions no nothing. You acted so desperately and foolishly. Mother's will always advise their daughters marriage basics unless ukatae kusikia na ujute baadaye. You're very lucky you had both parents ingine ni msiba wakujitakia
Waah am here 34 of age, and outside country working, wondering when will I make family, but some story cool me down. Congrats lady coz every story we pass through, it has leeson to learn.
take a step of faith. buy a gown and trust God for a spouse. im serious by the way. heard this testimony with a lady who was featured in the wedding show. this year i bought a jumpsuit for a baby and told God i want Him to give my sister a baby. now she is pregnant.
Poor choices why going about sleeping with random men? I can imagine the effect of the trauma on the kids. Like her daughter asked, why keep getting into these relationships with abusive partners 🤯🤯🤯
The Question is touching but my Question is !,the lady is on the fourth marriage and still pregnant how sure is she that handsome guy is the perfect one,,and if it came again and separate will she remarry again ,,,to me it does not makes any sense Many of us tumepita along the journey and we surrender at first sight tumestraggle kulea until God intervine
But aki Kenyans can make one drop a career. In a previous interview every one complained Ann did ask alot of questions and never gave her guest time to talk. Now today she chooses to listen more and you are here complaining about it. Ann do you,we will all accept it with time.
Which one ametoka from one man to another hapa watoto ndio wameumia she was after good marriage akasahau watoto then mamake alichangia pia kumwambia ukienda kwa baba yako ukiwa na mimba atakuuwa so kile kimekosekana hapa ni wisdom I pray and hope watoto wake hawataishi maisha kama ya mama
For ones saying we shouldnt do comparisson btwn ann and lyn we will do coz i can feel ann interviews are incomplete and not satisfying coz right now am asking my self questions that she is assigned to ask lol
Sio kwa ubaya but at 44:00 the lady is already married some countable times. A human being only gets married ONCE! There is a SPIRIT! that is not good. Only God MUST come down.
For me l don’t know how someone would just dump me in his home just like that and I just remain normal……that was a red flag about how the man would treat you in future…he acted like someone who makes rules and no arguing
Thanks for your time highlighting things that many in Journalism will not. My heart goes out to those that are interviewed and I pray for their healing. Seeking healing for my family too and taking this opportunity to follow up here in the hopes that I may perhaps grab a few minutes of your time here. I submitted my story on the challenges we Kenyans are faced with at the hands of foreigners but never heard back from you. Perhaps you feel it is not that good of a story, but my family is struggling with this (twice now) and so are many other Kenyans and I believe this story needs to be told. Please let me know if this is something you can feature on your show. I continue to look for other avenues to get our story out. Thank you for your time.
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I feel this story need a part two....Kindly.we have alot to learn from her
Being desperate for something can lead to many regrets in life...her desperation to get a man who could marry her,!!!!wah
Woman of God, thanks for sharing this. God's purpose in your life is being fulfilled 🙏🙏🙏
Llpo
I love this show, the interviewers on this show are so kind and understanding.
No matter how many times you've fallen, just rise up dust yourself and keep on moving, there's know one who is perfect, we're on the road towards perfection, much love girl 🥰🥰
Let's give Ann time to build her own ground she is learning and improving day by day. She can't copy what the former host used to do.
u have spoken my mind we all start from somewea watu nao wamwmuingilia🥺🥺but i also believe the corrections will make her learn atasoma comments n improve❤
stop with this time nonsense. watch the video n move on let Ann be Ann
Sure
Ata she’s changed alot so far .. growing better 🥰
You're now saliting Lynn yet while she was at Tuko-likes mnampea 276 per session
Vijanaa ndio tujifunze...Sex before marriage is a deadly sin and always youths losts or dirtyfy their stars and destinations...sex is spiritual take care ladies and gents!!!
Sex is not the only way you can get HIV, some people are born with the virus, get tested, be faithful .
If you have virus take medicine
Thankyou. I will keep myself till marriage
@@azamtn 😂😂😂😂wah
It doesn’t matter wether married or not. Even married people get HIV. Just pray that you end up with a faithful man or woman who doesn’t jump from one person to another.
We need to incorporate sex education (including safe sex, abstinence, consent, family planning, etc) into our curriculum instead of burying our heads in the sand like the proverbial ostrich. Very young people are obviously engaging in sex. No amount of religion, scare-mongering and threats will ever beat a (sexually and otherwise) well-educated person. So, information, imformation, information.
children get really traumatized from their mother staying in bad marriages, even if there is no violence. it is very traumatizing. just leave. even if you have nothing it is better to have peace for your children.
Amazing the way she tells this painful story gracefully.
She is healing and uducating herself in the process
How many feel there should be a part tow of this amazing story?
Nancy, you have surmounted many mountains and you keep winning.
It would be advisable to seek professional counselling to ground you further and help you overcome the "father deficit" issues that follow your life choices and circumstances.
To all father's out there, please allow yourselves to be a safe place for your daughters throughout their lives so that they don't end up falling prey to wolves dressed as men.
I can relate to you my dear when it comes to father....I too was pregnant @17yearsold ...my father drove me away....he made me uncomfortable all the time....I had to get married and by the time I get out of that marriage, I had 2 kids at 19 years....that was way back..... anyway as a single mum I can never push my kids to get married...*mistakes always happens and we learn from them if you are given a room to...*
I'm glad you are doing great,grace of the Lord is upon you and your family....
Am really wondering why she refers to boyfriends as husbands & a common visit to a random man's house as marriage. It's not right. There is a delusion with young girls & some women today about what marriage is. None of these men paid her dowry for heaven's sake or even met her parents. Anne please next time ask relevant questions. What marriage??? These were random visits. The story is a lesson on bad decisions because of desperation to be with any man. Am hoping she realizes this as well because it appears she's in denial about the role she played in all these. She seems to see herself as a victim of bad men in society. No my dear. You were a victim of your own bad decisions. The lesson is not on HIV. She needs counseling & self-reflection. Otherwise hiding under the 'reverend' umbrella without confronting the why and how questions is another way of deceiving herself.
Thanks for stretching out this point… I have noted cohabitation in Kenya is automatically classified as marriage, well bad decisions. Hope she gets counseling.
She is overly nice and naive,she hopped to so many unhealthy relationships I just can't understand how many disappointments she needed to avoid rushing into the relationships
The far I have watched the video, she has not given much background on her parenting or type of childhood she had. She clearly has an attachment style that leads her to seek validation from men. Makes her make all the wrong choices in life.
I am glad is taking charge of her journey unlike msny of u hypocrites. She has not once said she is victim. She just related her journey
Perfect stone throwers
@@nankihoaeane4396it's not about hypocrisy. We all make mistakes but we have to own the past & be honest about the choices we made so we don't repeat the same destructive patterns. Still referring to random boyfriends as husbands at this stage in her life is misleading and makes one wonder if she truly believes those relationships were marriages or she's just in denial. She did not have to say she's a victim. It's littered all over the story. The entire narration seems to blame the men who mistreated her. Not once does she talk about why she put herself in those situations. What's the end? Does she still believe that being with a man makes her complete?
How can your mum encourage u to get married to a total stranger so that u could run away from your dad? Some mothers are doomed
As women, if you expect that a man would be the one to solve your problems hautatoboa. This lady should have just raised her first child and awekewe family planning... But I like how beautiful and optimistic she is. Good job Ann
Dear person reading this,I wish you nothing but God's blessings
Amen
Ann nyathira you are here wondering how young she looks, we are here wondering same about you baby face😊.Everyone has a story to tell woooiii🙆♀️🙆♀️, Nice interview it was amazing.
@ann nyathira uko chonjo my dear today you related so well with the guest. Uko chonjo. Endelea hivyio hivyio.
Hapo pa ukimwi apana
Mzee haambiwangi hivyo
Ann Nyathira! You are....
@ann nyathira 😘😘
There were so many red flags in all these relationships. What I see is a woman who was too desperate and too naive from shags who was never properly taught about self love and self worth but rather choose to seek that validation from other men. Yeye tu bora akona bwana.
In a way her kids suffering are as a result of her own bad decisions and lack to think thoroughly through whom to be with.
👏👏👏👏👏👏
Riiight
Exactly! And she's pregnant again...smh
@@brilliantmind9729 - - that’s what I was wondering about! Thank God i am not the only one who thought about that.
Did you say bwana? Hapana those were common men in her life , coming n going ..she never loved any of them hata ..she was extra naive .may God be with her.
learn not to open up very fast until u have known someone well enough pole girl 🥺keep going ur strong
The moment i see this red chairs my mind can't stop thinking about lynn😭
Follow her in her channel
stop being a cry baby move on puga
@@azamtn 😂🤣😂
Her channel is ..,tales of Wanjiku 🥰🥰 I follow both because of her … she is amazing 🤩
Stop comparing
Hii yako nayo ni ya kujitakia,the best weapon in life is the power to say NO.its unfortunate if you lack it especially if you are a young beautiful woman like you,coz you will always be a prey
Really
Every time she says "one day i met this guy..." I am like noo noo please
Am asking myself too many questions ,am even angry ..😭
And I think that as much as Nancy appears so strong and composed, you listen to her keenly you realize she also needs more counseling to keep her composed
Honestly, her intonation is bothersome. Na si kwa ubaya!
Very true
You have a great dad girl.He was always there for you.always accept you as you are.
This was lovely enlightening sad story...big up Ann nyathira you’ve really done a good interview in this video.
So many lessons to learn from this story, may you live longest my dear
So many indeed
Am proud of Ann she's doing amazing
True
A lot of people are judging her harshly yet she has clearly improved over time and is even reaching out to others who may find themselves trapped in abusive relationships.
She hasn't blamed her mum for basically abandoning her nor has she blamed her father for being too harsh even though it's clear both of them have had a role to play and could have done better.
She also hasn't hidden the truth about how she got into those relationships, she's being as honest as it gets, people are just pretending yet they know dozens of people who have found themselves in marriages and relationships in similar circumstances but never admit it.
She's also to be commended for starting her ARV treatments as soon as possible and informing her partner, that shows she cares for those in her life even though that might be a reason why she got into relationships with parasitic and abusive men in the first place. Those men know who to target.
I also admire her for being a very honest evangelist, she hasn't hid her faults and struggles and even admits her failings as a parent and that the consequences of staying in a violent relationship have started to catch up with her.
Very many evangelists or pastors or priests are out here pretending to live perfect lives yet a month doesn't pass without a new scandal of a pastor drunk driving or raping a child or engaging in adultery or cleansing corrupt politicians or land grabbing etc
It's better to have an evangelist like her who is open with her journey and is making progress day by day.
After all, we are only human.
I do hope she can get more therapy together with her children and her husband and I hope she never gives up.
She is saving lives today of people who are in similar situations and believe no one can relate.
Lives which would have been lost had she kept quiet for 10 more years.
Don't worry Nancy, you are not alone in this situation, tuko wengi, bt tafuta pesa, nunua point moja huko kky, kaa hapo na watoto utulie, atlist watoto wapate where they can call home
Kabisa
How is this story ending seriously?? She's pregnant and we haven't been told who's the father.. is she still together with that man? Who's this man you are saying she finally found love in.. actually what's the purpose of this story😡😡
Wondering too but I think is now the older one who used to throw her medicines at 2:45 am shouting at her...So sad!
@Nancy Samuelson wondering kabisa.,hawa baby girls some of them ujinga ni mingi sana.
This ka girl should learn to ask questions like Lynn,how did she end up getting PG again?
@Nancy Samuelson Oh... so low self esteem is for dark skinned people? wow colorism at its best. Anyone can be a victim. Its in the upbringing. Seems her dad was very harsh and she sought male attention from all the wrong places.
@Nancy Samuelson what men are you talking about? 'Men' who look at colour don't rank as real men. It wouldn't bother me what their opinion is. They don't qualify to be counted as men.
Nancy it's our church where you came and we helped you when you delivered your baby and could not even buy food to eat. I am glad you are born again and an evangelist. I am pastor Nancy.
Representing Kenyans in sweden..Ann you are doing a great job..keep it up gal
I support this. Doing great Ann. Keep it up.
Ann for real congrats..I'm enjoy watching ur shows ...ur are unique and best in what you do
I don't want to judge her coz people go through a lot but i think she should have given herself time before moving from one man to another. I feel she made quick decisions...
It’s not judging. It’s correcting with love. She doesn’t seem to have grasped the seriousness of her actions and the consequences, even now as she tells the story. The cycle of abuse will continue with her children. She needs to find herself and her identity, first, then seek therapy for her and her children. Hiding behind religion will not help her. She needs to unlearn whatever twisted ideas she had in her head about herself through therapy. Her kids need the therapy even more, or the cycle will continue. This stupidity most stop!
@@jinnybikini exactly
The lady bado ako na huyo hubby then naona she is preg...huyu Ann aulizi maswali venye inafaa
kabisaa ..sasa hii mimba ni ya nani kweli..is it for the guy who was singing for her at 3am
Adi mm nko a maswali mingi sana
Yes huyu Ann hajui kuhoji mtu vizuri
Jumping from one man to another is a big problem women should change na kuekelea mungu kila kitu you don't even know even the devil can answer your prayers
Waaaah oky
i am also questioning some of the decisions here
@@amachildofGod yes devil can answer your prayers just because he wants to destroy everything about you marriage ya kwanza na ya pili ikishidikana lea watoto kwa amani achana na wanaume kwasababu watoto wako wataumia
When she laughs you know it was an anxious|akward moment for her (hugs). Now on the lessons;-
° Self love,
° Self confidence = self esteem,
° Sexual health (STDs n Is, Contraceptives, Reproduction) education are VERY IMPORTANT. These education starts with the parents....please love your children, protect your children, be open - educate your children.
I will not judge.. Bt this if not the greatest personality in the world of living today is much more.. Congrats mum..How you narrate your violence is just class... Can only wish you good life n nothing less n may the almighty grtly step into ur life n let's hear a Grt testimony of you in the near future..(God is the giver of life)
Aaiii first of all hakuna mtu huolewa cha nguvu..ulijipata western ata afathali ukope mahali urudi kwenyu na already ulikua na mtoi kwenyu..the fact that ulipata ball nikumaanisha ulikubali mambo ya kuolewa the first time,so usiseme uliolewa kama hujui..second of all ..ukapata a good job badala uache the guy alikua anacheat unaendelea nayeye kwani ulikua mjinga aje juu apo ndio ulipata ukimwi..hii mashida yote ni ya kujiletea..anyway..watu wajichunge and make right decisions..
Some people are naive....and desperate you cant blame that on her.....shit happens and its life....kuna watu wamechanuka others dont know things.....reason...maybe hawakuambiwa....so they face life without much guidance...for example thinking she could change a man...
Basically the point am trying to drive home is she was simply naive...it happens...dont judge.
@@suntit.omwangi weh mimba tatu different men hakuna shule itakufunza iyo ni upuzi..jipendeni bana
Kweli even me I'm wondering kwani hizi ujinga zinakuwaga na class ngapi?
Kwa mapenzi hakunanga ujanja..
yeah we must take our life so serious also to teach our daughters how to dependent on themselves
Please ask the therapist in the house to counsel the kids 🙏🏼
You said she found love again,where? Are they still together? Did abusive stop? Pregnant with the same man or who? Any counseling for the kids?is she okay right now? You could have done part 2...
Thank you Ann for this episodes,,,, but imetuwacha hanging,,,is she still with the husband or she got married again because I can sew she is pregnant,,,
My sentiments too
Atleast hii interview nime watch yote Sio kama ya previous, Ann kudos 👊 hii umeifanya poa umempea time ajieleze poa❤❤❤.
Hao watoto wanafaa Counselling wamejionea mengi 🤦♀️🤦♀️
The host seems not to understand what we need from this interview most questions were left unanswered
I thought I was the only one who noticed
Very true.
Its a gab true.
I thought nimeona pekee yangu pia
Yeah.. She's just there..she should guide the interview
Nancy has sweet spirit ..O God bless her n keep lifting her from glory to glory ..True Nancy you are doing n amazing job .to eradicate this HIV stigma ..O God let your perfect done b done upon Nancy ..n bless her children n heal them emotionally O God . Keep up the good work of Evangelism too wao ! Servant of God talented amazingly ..ie with coat of many colours like Joseph of the bible ..more favor, anointing , grace , healings in Jesus precious mighty name!
Amen
So many questions to ask but nyathira is not asking like whether how she came to get the baby this story can go up three episodes if it was narrated and questions asked i wish mumanyi did it like we could understand all this has taken place in adulation of how many years waa and the pregnancy now.
I agree with you. She should have asked her how she transitioned from the previous relationship to the current one, especially considering she is already pregnant.
Couldn't agree more!...sooooo many questions not asked so the viewer is left with a half told story...
Such a touching and encouraging story. Nancy its clear you have been through alot however i must admit that you are such a stronng soul especially the fact that you have neva been suicidal, kudos! may God widen your paths. on the other hand i'd advise if you can get a professional counselor who can take your kids through the sessions to prevent them from future trauma. Great story though.
There was a pattern in her choices whether knowingly or unknowingly. She looked for a certain security in men.
True
I miss Lynn...hapa kuna maswali mingi za kuuliza but seems the interviewer amekuwa listener just like me. Without further adooo...tunataka maswali kieleweke my dear.
She is learning
True
@@serah_Ke thank you
Me too.. lynn was a vibe
Maliha A nonsense. move on
I hv listened vto this story...its hard to comprehend.....its stranger than fiction..aki wacha Mungu amuonekanie .
What you were never taught/told is that there's more to life than being married, having a boyfriend or being proposed to. Baby gal, you failed yourself. Life is not a big joke as you take it. Anyway, I wish you wisdom.
Very true,,
Very true
She did not failed herself... one thing you have to know we all came from different backgrounds. We were all taught different the way you was taught by your mom and dad it's different from the way she was taught.. this lady she's not asking anyone for help infact we are learning from her my dear... she can do better all by herself.
Ann my girl! you are doing an amazing job!
Love it! Love it Love it! keep up!
@ann nyathira lol
@ann nyathira lol
All things... Good or bad work for good. It's not over until God say so.. 🙏
Anything good or bad is for a reason he knows and understands best.
Wah,,,for the first time am watching a story of a person I know... Nancy kolomani
Kindly tell ur friend to seek counseling Na afanye family planning
I know her too, we used to work together. May God bless you Nancy
@Tamira mutunga.sure,though she seems happy narrating her story...
Carelessness. Stop depending on men. Smh
Thanx
Right
I agree
Ukweli
Eti carelessness this life be carefull khadija coz no one wants to live vibaya
Ann you're doing a great job you have really improved well done ✅ gal
Without farther ado Lee me listen to this story be strong Nacy
She's very beautiful 🥰
Relationship to another relationship. 🤔🤔🤔this life no balance
😂😂😂😂
I always say the day I will walk away from fast marriage men watakuwa wakinionea viusasa siwezi olewa tena all men were trained in the same field
And men don't care about your decision. If men are trained in the same field Then your father is included in them
Born of the same mother
Ann you have greatly improved. Keep it up.
Guest waleo amenifurahisha no matter what, May you live long 🙏🙏
Nancy, you are a blessed lady. I love your courage . May God bless you abundantly
Has she ever visited vct with the hubby it's always good for couples to do this together
Me listening to this conversation but I can not continue beauty with no braids👎I got pregnant when I was 17yrs and i learnt my lesson now 10yrs later here iam abroad working and paying all my daughters Bill's !Am I dating yes did I get pregnant again no! Use condoms or family planning until he puts aring on it period.
👏👏👏 That's the way to go mama 😗 some of my sisters don't learn
Some men will put a ring on it and still make you go through hell. The best thing is for women to have kids that they can comfortably raise with or without a man.
@@happyplace531 well said
Wow congrats I think women should use their brains and not the heart
Annie keep it up.Good job.Evangelist...for the sake of the children look for a counsellor. It shall be well.
We need part two of her story pliz. Is she still with that drunkard violent man?
Did she blood test her children?
Is that pregnancy for her violent man?
Did the husband finally change and how?
Asking for my neighbour is the Evangelist still with this man who puts basin kwa kichwa ....is the marriage there...she's expecting bado...am not judging her at all. But you have energy to overcome and very strong... therapy for your children needed
Her mum was not a good advisor to some extent,, she contributed to her problems some how,,, the advices were not the good ones....
Thought so too
I would like to challenge Tuko on this one, don't just give us a thrilling story. We need a story with a purpose
Too many references of boyfriends as husbands and random visits to a man's house as marriage. Am wondering whether she knows she made bad decisions or she's blaming the men who mistreated her.
Tuko u hv done well
..your record speaks for itself. Leave Millie and her floor of chsllenging you. Millie stick arnd snd know what Tuko stands for
Its a good story...but this gal doesn't know whats marriage, staying with a man doent make him a husband...starting to preach doent make you an evangelist....gal you and the kids need counselling i pray and hope you get help.
I fully agree that she needs help. Good intentions but negative results
Ati evangelist 😂😂😂😂😂
I agree she needs it, alafu cohabiting is not marriage
@@evelynbrenda7373 true
Just trust in God pray and go again and test u will be shocked God can heal u and no matter what never give up keep moving the chapter can be sad but next to be the best🙏
You put yourself in a very sad situation. Girl child can really stress parents when they start doing things against the norms. Actually i don't understand why you put yourself in such marriages , you messed yourself big and lowered your value totally. you can't be just married by strangers just Kienyeji. Without the guys visiting your parents first no introductions no nothing. You acted so desperately and foolishly. Mother's will always advise their daughters marriage basics unless ukatae kusikia na ujute baadaye. You're very lucky you had both parents ingine ni msiba wakujitakia
I watched your other clip and realized you reffer to your first daughter as adapted.. trying to connect the dots
This so sad Nancy I never new this story she was my friend in choir in winners chapel so so sad ... what in shock
Waah am here 34 of age, and outside country working, wondering when will I make family, but some story cool me down. Congrats lady coz every story we pass through, it has leeson to learn.
take a step of faith. buy a gown and trust God for a spouse. im serious by the way. heard this testimony with a lady who was featured in the wedding show. this year i bought a jumpsuit for a baby and told God i want Him to give my sister a baby. now she is pregnant.
,same age with me this is exactly what iwent the through
@naomy mose can we talk please same situation here🥺
@@everindimuli3449 can we talk aki
@@swtshaniz9910 sure
Girls think being beautiful is enough.Tembea na akili
I support you ,you can't mess trice why ladies
👍
N.a. amesoma kiasi
Poor choices why going about sleeping with random men? I can imagine the effect of the trauma on the kids.
Like her daughter asked, why keep getting into these relationships with abusive partners 🤯🤯🤯
Thanks for your advice dia may God bless you and may God continue strengthen you
Children are very protective of their parents, especially their mother. We've seen in movies sons fighting or shooting violent fathers 😳
You can't watch this story while seated. The moment she says "I moved in with him".......
The Question is touching but my Question is !,the lady is on the fourth marriage and still pregnant how sure is she that handsome guy is the perfect one,,and if it came again and separate will she remarry again ,,,to me it does not makes any sense
Many of us tumepita along the journey and we surrender at first sight tumestraggle kulea until God intervine
Wow Ann you've really improved I enjoyed watching keep on going
But aki Kenyans can make one drop a career.
In a previous interview every one complained Ann did ask alot of questions and never gave her guest time to talk.
Now today she chooses to listen more and you are here complaining about it.
Ann do you,we will all accept it with time.
That's like getting in a new relationship after getting out of a longtime one. You keep comparing 😒!
They will send one to Menopause before time ⏲ 😉
Family issues should be uploaded while both parties are around not one side...The man side of the story kindly
Which one ametoka from one man to another hapa watoto ndio wameumia she was after good marriage akasahau watoto then mamake alichangia pia kumwambia ukienda kwa baba yako ukiwa na mimba atakuuwa so kile kimekosekana hapa ni wisdom I pray and hope watoto wake hawataishi maisha kama ya mama
Ann dust everywhere With questions don't leave your audience hanging,so many questions unanswered.
Who is interviewing who here?
For ones saying we shouldnt do comparisson btwn ann and lyn we will do coz i can feel ann interviews are incomplete and not satisfying coz right now am asking my self questions that she is assigned to ask lol
about the current pregnancy 😁
@Ann Nyathira is my mum's namesake I love you dear
All the best in Tuko💓
When she said she had 5 kids 4 biologically hers, I was like too young, then she said she's 33, like what?? 🤣🤣🤣She look like below 24.
Huyu ako 22 🤣😂
Congratulation Ann you have improved sana.
Shes beautiful, and looks so young
You are a strong woman Ann
Congrats tuko road to 800k
Sio kwa ubaya but at 44:00 the lady is already married some countable times. A human being only gets married ONCE! There is a SPIRIT! that is not good. Only God MUST come down.
Hii ni Malaysia tu
True, this reverend needs deliverance,she can get married a thousand times but the alters that fought her first relationship will still locate her.
Soo much to learn from this story ahki, she has made a lot of mistakes 💔 gone through soo much and still affording a smile
For me l don’t know how someone would just dump me in his home just like that and I just remain normal……that was a red flag about how the man would treat you in future…he acted like someone who makes rules and no arguing
I agree with you and I am wondering do these things happen in this century?
I swear I would borrow money even from the neighbors ana niende kwa chief.
I wonder how a girl accept to be cornered that way to be married
Aki halafu that same night you two have a thing... feelings hata inatoka wapi wueeeh boom before you realize anything you're pregnant eniwei
Beautiful interviewer there❤️❤️❤️good job Ann
Evangelist, Pastors, Bishops, Reverends, fathers require deliverance. This "Evangelist" Nancy Kolomani needs deliverance for sure.
Thanks for your time highlighting things that many in Journalism will not. My heart goes out to those that are interviewed and I pray for their healing. Seeking healing for my family too and taking this opportunity to follow up here in the hopes that I may perhaps grab a few minutes of your time here. I submitted my story on the challenges we Kenyans are faced with at the hands of foreigners but never heard back from you. Perhaps you feel it is not that good of a story, but my family is struggling with this (twice now) and so are many other Kenyans and I believe this story needs to be told. Please let me know if this is something you can feature on your show. I continue to look for other avenues to get our story out. Thank you for your time.
What the essence of this story jowa
Her mom told her to stay where she was? Tf.
Leo ndio nimeamini ukweli kwamba people are so desperate of marriage out here...weeh🤔🤔 ..
Wow you are very strong woman,i like the way you are talking and you are very beautiful