1. Keep your focus on yourself 2. Start saying 'No' 3. Repeat 'All is well' 4. Set your boundaries 5. Invest your energy wisely (my pov- see energy = time) 6. Share your emotions with someone you feel safe with or start a journal 7. Trust your instincts 8. Listen actively and expect vice versa 9. Pull back (my pov- Stop getting further involved/let go of situations and people)
Focus on yourself ❤ Start Saying No 😡 No Means No . All is well 😊 Set your boundaries ❤ Invest your energy with Right People. Share Your emotions ... Trust your instincts. Intuition. Listen Actively. Pull back ...
I used to be a charming and Sparky , ambitious girl... always top in school.. but then I fall in love... Eventually I lost my energies my goals and he started growing, he got his dream college , got a job last yr and he is 21now but before we met he used to be a backbencher, always playing games and having no goals,,...now i'm just experiencing failures..... It's like we exchange our fate...... Although it has been 6yr now, we r in relationship... We both love eachother and he always says " whatever it's all because of u".... But somewhere in my heart, I feel like " i can't accept myself like this"..
Yes, sometimes to fit in others idea of love or care, we go lenghts to make them happy loosing ourselves, coming out of our authentic self. In the end, we self abondon while they walk all over us. Protect ourselves from everything
I desperately needed this video mam. I was badly disturbed with my friends behavior and had some days back was thinking the same way you suggested and have started living like that. Listening to your video gave me good vibes and i thought iam in अ right way 😊🥰 gratitude mam 🙏
I am 18 years old i am following you since past 6 months, i dont know why but you have a feeling and guidance as of my mom. You have a very motherly nature❤Thank you for always guiding us😇🙏🏻🙇♂️
As you rightly said in one of your previous videos, Universe has been sending me the exact thing that worried me yesterday in the form of your thoughts, May it be this one or about name starting from P. Thank you so much for being there .May you be always blessed with positivity and right guidance the way you are giving it away every day to millions
You have such a positive aura and the way you explain things to make our life better is just so beautiful I feel so good after watching your videos You're just like my mother who is guiding me in my life God bless you Thank you ❤
Love it!❤ last point pull back, I have done it so many times that now I have started doubting myself that m I from a different world 😂. I hardly met people who really listen, match the understanding at mental level or have spiritual goals. Sometimes they perceive things so differently that the entire intent of the context is twisted and that’s when you feel..are yaar iski samjh hi uthni nahi hai.
very important 9 steps / checklist 🙏 to protect self aura +energy Many thanks for calling it out so loud and clear in this video btw the phrase "All iz Well" is from the movie 3-Idiot 😅
Thank you so much for such an enlightening video, mam. These are the exact words I wanted to hear. Immense gratitude for your kind words and guidance ❤
HAR HAR MAHADEV Thankyou ma'am for sharing your immense knowledge and wisdom to one and all on this channel For showing us to walk on the right path Thankyou ma'am God bless you
Thank you very much Maam for sharing this valuable video,.... some of the above points life taught me already. ....i wish i could watch this video 10 years ago so that i could protect my energy properly. ....but it's ok, better let than never. ...but the problem is now my surrounding is really reduced, i can communicate only with my father n brother. ....so how to apply these....??? "3 idiots" is one of my favourite films too.....i really enjoy it learned many things. ... Once again Thank you 😊
Thankyou so much ma'am i was really looking for something like this in order to protect my energy and u came up with one u have been my mentor since 2020 a heart warming gratitude for energising me and many ones like me .... THE WAY YOU SAY GOD BLESS U LOVE U ALL LITERALLY I FEEL LIKE U ARE SITTING IN FRONT ME GUIDING THROUGH ND OUT...❤❤❤
Pranaam Neeti ji 🙏. I'm aware of most of the things you mentioned and I thank you for this video as it is like a reminder. This is very helpful. Since, you are a teacher you have an amazing knack of explaining that the whole thing in itself reveals its importance.❤ Lots of dhanyawaad and blessings.
I feel like it's absolutely a cosmic thing that i started working on my mother wound and the first thing that i was taught in this video by a therapist was to find a substitute for that energy of a mother and have that heal you, and then i found your videos.
This video is much needed... In these days I started to set boundaries too... I act accordingly my way..and confront my rules to other people too..and today I said no..I argued but I said no.. I stand strong for myself.. instead of accepting their one sided demand..and I also told them why I'm behaving these way...if they can't give me their time..then my time also precious.. I'll decide how I'll spend it.. u don't have right to told me what to do.. and I feel most of burden left from me... Now I will started following your others things too...
This can only be done, jb apko 2nd person ki soch ya uske hone na hone se farak nhi padta.. nhi to pura din ya ane wale kch din bs usi behes or kalesh ko sochne me nikal jate hn... 3 years of marriage and the way my MIL treats me has brought me to anxiety attacks, mental trauma and psychiatrist visits.. vo to bol deti hn, but me kch bol nhi pati na apni bat rakh pati kyuki mje unse bht darr lagta h, thereby I end by overthinking the situatn in my mind for days, me apni mind pe unse ladti rehti hu, or unhe jee bhar k sunati hu kyuki samne to kch bol nhi skte... this is how I am at dead end.. me bol paungi nhi, 3 saal me mne saturation point pe 3 bar apni awaz uthayi h or me buri bani hu, agar unke hr argument ka jawab deti to pta nhi kya krti vo... thanks to God that I have supporting parents but they are getting old, me apni pareshaniyon ka bojh unke thake hue kandhon pe nhi zada daal skti... its a dead end jiska koi solution h... EVEN IF YOU DON'T READ MY COMMENT, MERA DIL HALKA HO GYA YE LIKH KR..
I want to be very positive n want to be a successful person in my life expecting anything from anyone. I want to be confident. Ur video is good i like it
❤ I saw your video and find it very accurate..! And your voice is very smooth you are doing good karma to heal people & you heal me thank you for sharing your knowledge 🙏❤️
Oh god I really wanted this and I can resonate especially at work place my energy is depleted managing staff I will write these points and place on my desk MNy thNks
Mam, what you said are correct and except point 5 (i had to rewind to understand it correctly), i was aware of rest and really improved my life implementing them. They are facts but people will definitely respect us.
Good Morning !! Whatever you said, I fully agree. I too have lot of experiences. I never bother about such horrible people. It's like.... "Ungli Pakadne Do, Tho Haath Hi Kheench Lethe Hein". Thanks. 👌🌹
Really liked point no.6,the video shows 2 men sharing their talks,its a myth that only women have emotions,men too have emotions i guess,and it's also okay to cry.
Dear Mam, The way you spoke..I literally recalled my dearest educators at school who used to give us life lessons alike...with equal polite and calm nature..Thankyou very much... And yes, the movie was...3 idiots..😅
1. Keep your focus on yourself
2. Start saying 'No'
3. Repeat 'All is well'
4. Set your boundaries
5. Invest your energy wisely (my pov- see energy = time)
6. Share your emotions with someone you feel safe with or start a journal
7. Trust your instincts
8. Listen actively and expect vice versa
9. Pull back (my pov- Stop getting further involved/let go of situations and people)
L pl qz संपन्न फंड्स फममझब
Thanks @Tithi
I already do this every single thing 😊
intutions hamesha sahi hoti hain...... dimag hamesha gumraah karta hain.... trueeee 100000%
Absolutely, trust your gut feeling
"Apko carpet banayenge or aap pe chalte banege".. Wonderfully said... ❤
खूप छान धन्यवाद
I m soft spoken nd lonely person , but now I enjoing it and living without toxic people, thak u madam fr yr valuable advice
Same here
Focus on yourself ❤
Start Saying No 😡 No Means No .
All is well 😊
Set your boundaries ❤
Invest your energy with Right People.
Share Your emotions ...
Trust your instincts. Intuition.
Listen Actively.
Pull back ...
I used to be a charming and Sparky , ambitious girl... always top in school.. but then I fall in love... Eventually I lost my energies my goals and he started growing, he got his dream college , got a job last yr and he is 21now but before we met he used to be a backbencher, always playing games and having no goals,,...now i'm just experiencing failures..... It's like we exchange our fate...... Although it has been 6yr now, we r in relationship... We both love eachother and he always says " whatever it's all because of u"....
But somewhere in my heart, I feel like " i can't accept myself like this"..
So dear, u also think abt yourself be selfish... love is part of life don't be so emotional...try try for your betterment
Yes, sometimes to fit in others idea of love or care, we go lenghts to make them happy loosing ourselves, coming out of our authentic self. In the end, we self abondon while they walk all over us. Protect ourselves from everything
Thank you for soothing advice ,God bless you always 🙏 😘
Msg ka jabab na aana bhi ek jabab hai....💯💯
I desperately needed this video mam. I was badly disturbed with my friends behavior and had some days back was thinking the same way you suggested and have started living like that. Listening to your video gave me good vibes and i thought iam in अ right way 😊🥰 gratitude mam 🙏
Same here
Aap ek gift ho mam.maine apni jindagi mein esa kuch kabhi way dekhahi nahi.thamk you so much mam.
I am 18 years old i am following you since past 6 months, i dont know why but you have a feeling and guidance as of my mom. You have a very motherly nature❤Thank you for always guiding us😇🙏🏻🙇♂️
Message na ana bhi ek message hai kya bat hai❤❤❤
Very very helpful video Mam
*Set boundaries ✅️
*Trust your instinct & Pull back
Absolutely 100 % correct point
Thank you so much 🌟
Ek msg ka reply na ana bhi ek msg hai.... wonderful words...
As you rightly said in one of your previous videos, Universe has been sending me the exact thing that worried me yesterday in the form of your thoughts, May it be this one or about name starting from P. Thank you so much for being there .May you be always blessed with positivity and right guidance the way you are giving it away every day to millions
Maam aapki baatein sunkar ekdam peaceful feel hota hai...it's not looks...or appearance..it's the aura that each person carries
Literally I did all this today and then I’m watching this video this is so relatable now I’m feeling so free so light ✨
Yek msg ka jawab na ana bhi yek msg h 100% Right 👍
Thank you sooo much for making us aware of our negativity. Thats exactly we do to ourself....give importance to some one else more than required
Aap smart hai sath main inteligent n beutiful..beauty with brain.😊❤️
You have such a positive aura and the way you explain things to make our life better is just so beautiful
I feel so good after watching your videos
You're just like my mother who is guiding me in my life
God bless you
Thank you ❤
Msg na aana bhi, ek aapake liye msg hi hai...... What a deep meaning of this sentence.... I understand ma'am
Love it!❤ last point pull back, I have done it so many times that now I have started doubting myself that m I from a different world 😂. I hardly met people who really listen, match the understanding at mental level or have spiritual goals. Sometimes they perceive things so differently that the entire intent of the context is twisted and that’s when you feel..are yaar iski samjh hi uthni nahi hai.
Same here !!! People aren't on same frequency .
We feel left out .
Awasome..aisa laga jaise mere mann ke sare question..aap bina puche de diya..thankyou for enlightenment 😊
very important 9 steps / checklist 🙏 to protect self aura +energy
Many thanks for calling it out so loud and clear in this video
btw the phrase "All iz Well" is from the movie 3-Idiot 😅
"Message ka jawab naa dena bhi ek message hai", aapne vo sunaya jo hume sunne ki sakt zaroorat thi! Thank you ma'am!
Thank you so much for such an enlightening video, mam. These are the exact words I wanted to hear. Immense gratitude for your kind words and guidance ❤
Thanks Madam
Mei khud hi aisi hun Aaj se jo.Aapne bola wo Apni jindgi mei utarungi Thaknu
Thank You 🙏🙏, Immense Gratitude for Enriching our Lives with your wisdom
You are so welcome
After hearing your my life changed
Thanks Neeti ji for finding amazing solutions that are very helpful and advantages and useful as well much considering as life improvements
Thanks a lot
I have seen all these are absolutely true ma'am. Par implement karna mushkil hai. Especially confusing is baat ki hi ke dil ka sune ya dimaag ki.
HAR HAR MAHADEV
Thankyou ma'am for sharing your immense knowledge and wisdom to one and all on this channel
For showing us to walk on the right path
Thankyou ma'am God bless you
Thank u so much hume pata he ae chije but motivation apki batein aur apki oora se milti he,love u
Thank you so much for this valuable information ☺️
You are an Angel in disguise 🙏 You are the calm to my soul 💕
TQ mam mai bahut parisan thi par ap ke bato ne jese meri parisani hii Mita dii asa laga mujhe TQ so much mam ❤
Thank you very much Maam for sharing this valuable video,.... some of the above points life taught me already. ....i wish i could watch this video 10 years ago so that i could protect my energy properly. ....but it's ok, better let than never. ...but the problem is now my surrounding is really reduced, i can communicate only with my father n brother. ....so how to apply these....???
"3 idiots" is one of my favourite films too.....i really enjoy it learned many things. ...
Once again Thank you 😊
Really Bhut kuch seekhne wala hai is video se ❤
Thankyou so much ma'am i was really looking for something like this in order to protect my energy and u came up with one u have been my mentor since 2020 a heart warming gratitude for energising me and many ones like me .... THE WAY YOU SAY GOD BLESS U LOVE U ALL LITERALLY I FEEL LIKE U ARE SITTING IN FRONT ME GUIDING THROUGH ND OUT...❤❤❤
Aapka 9 tips bhut hi asar karek rhi..
Pranaam Neeti ji 🙏. I'm aware of most of the things you mentioned and I thank you for this video as it is like a reminder. This is very helpful. Since, you are a teacher you have an amazing knack of explaining that the whole thing in itself reveals its importance.❤ Lots of dhanyawaad and blessings.
I feel like it's absolutely a cosmic thing that i started working on my mother wound and the first thing that i was taught in this video by a therapist was to find a substitute for that energy of a mother and have that heal you, and then i found your videos.
Sorry for asking but can you tell me what your mother wound was?? Coz I'm going through same situation.
Excellent unbelievable unbeatable unparalleled efforts to safe human
Super
Needed to learn to say no
N set boundaries
but i do now
I feel i am the one talking about all these points. Thank you madam cuz i feel what i am.
Aapke sabhi tips bahut acche lage.
You are a womderful being, A precious gift the God yo yhr humans.
Thnq so much Di....apne apko kysa grow kore / aure ko safe rakhe ...this vdo bahat helpful rahegi...thnq so much again Di ❤❤❤❤
Till now I have used the last one
Most of the time
Mam,so many times ,I surprised jo sochaaa vahi naa jaane kaise huvaa,samaj nahin aaathaa .jo khaanaa chaahathi hoon,vo achaanak mil jaathaa hain.bina kisee koshishke sub apne aap hone lagthaa hain...I Really feel ,I am really Blessed..nd .y apne aaapmein khush hoon...
This video is much needed... In these days I started to set boundaries too... I act accordingly my way..and confront my rules to other people too..and today I said no..I argued but I said no.. I stand strong for myself.. instead of accepting their one sided demand..and I also told them why I'm behaving these way...if they can't give me their time..then my time also precious.. I'll decide how I'll spend it.. u don't have right to told me what to do.. and I feel most of burden left from me... Now I will started following your others things too...
हमेशा की तरह बहुत अच्छे से समझाया,थैंक्यु मैम❤
वाह,, बहुत बढ़िया समझाया आपने,ढेर सारा प्यार आपको 🌺❤🙏🌹🌻💜🧡💚🌷🌹🙏❤🌺🌻💜🧡💚
This can only be done, jb apko 2nd person ki soch ya uske hone na hone se farak nhi padta.. nhi to pura din ya ane wale kch din bs usi behes or kalesh ko sochne me nikal jate hn... 3 years of marriage and the way my MIL treats me has brought me to anxiety attacks, mental trauma and psychiatrist visits.. vo to bol deti hn, but me kch bol nhi pati na apni bat rakh pati kyuki mje unse bht darr lagta h, thereby I end by overthinking the situatn in my mind for days, me apni mind pe unse ladti rehti hu, or unhe jee bhar k sunati hu kyuki samne to kch bol nhi skte... this is how I am at dead end.. me bol paungi nhi, 3 saal me mne saturation point pe 3 bar apni awaz uthayi h or me buri bani hu, agar unke hr argument ka jawab deti to pta nhi kya krti vo... thanks to God that I have supporting parents but they are getting old, me apni pareshaniyon ka bojh unke thake hue kandhon pe nhi zada daal skti... its a dead end jiska koi solution h... EVEN IF YOU DON'T READ MY COMMENT, MERA DIL HALKA HO GYA YE LIKH KR..
Yes Nittyji i also applied No and i am feeling better now and graceful to me
I needed this video mam. My family is so negative. No one wishes good for my parents.
Ye hi video ka soch ke RUclips Koli kolte hi apka video samne aya❤❤❤❤❤ thank you so much
I want to be very positive n want to be a successful person in my life expecting anything from anyone.
I want to be confident.
Ur video is good i like it
Bahot hi acchi baate Batali aapane
Mam even your voice made my mind very calm
❤ I saw your video and find it very accurate..! And your voice is very smooth you are doing good karma to heal people & you heal me thank you for sharing your knowledge 🙏❤️
Chal padi hun aapke bateye huye raste par.❤ I will achieve all my goals this year. All is well from 3 idiots 😊. Stay blessed ❤️
Oh god I really wanted this and I can resonate especially at work place my energy is depleted managing staff
I will write these points and place on my desk
MNy thNks
Thank you for your support
Mam, what you said are correct and except point 5 (i had to rewind to understand it correctly), i was aware of rest and really improved my life implementing them. They are facts but people will definitely respect us.
Good Morning !!
Whatever you said, I fully agree.
I too have lot of experiences. I never bother about such horrible people.
It's like....
"Ungli Pakadne Do, Tho Haath Hi Kheench Lethe Hein".
Thanks. 👌🌹
Thank you so much 💓 for sharing n helping
Dear Neeti, you are always trying to balance people . And you are so convincing! I remember one line of a song." जहाँ नहीं चैना, वहां नहीं रहना।"
My son is 23 year old l share this vedio to my son because l feel difficult to teach these sensitive points tq
Really liked point no.6,the video shows 2 men sharing their talks,its a myth that only women have emotions,men too have emotions i guess,and it's also okay to cry.
Ma'am it's 3 idiots n u r amazing n u hv pure heart stay happiest always 💖
You are the sweetest person seen online❤
Hats off to your upbringing 😊
आपकी बात शत् प्रतिशत सही है,,By money we can, have medicine,,but not,health,,,,,❤❤❤❤❤❤,se,ma Bhavani kaushika ko, pranam,,,
Same meri situation pe baat karne k thanks pata nhi shyad yahi Bholenath batana chahte ho thnku thanku thanku
Dear Mam,
The way you spoke..I literally recalled my dearest educators at school who used to give us life lessons alike...with equal polite and calm nature..Thankyou very much...
And yes, the movie was...3 idiots..😅
mam you are the great teacher for guiding us in every part of life.
All ur 9 points were right on and sometimes seems like we need to hear from someone 😊Thanks for sharing and u speak very beautifully 😊
beautiful Tips with beautiful smile❤..Thanku ma'm🙏🏻
Through this video we learn many things how we can detach from these such situations
I should be a good listener
I learned set to my boundaries
Very important points follow in our daily life to protect our aura. Thank u 🙏 & gratitude 🙇♀️
Mam really amazing pieces of tips. These all we faces in office and now I got answer how I manage d situation. Really thanks mam 🙏
🙏🌹Om Sai Ram 🌹🙏Thanku so much mam for sharing
Thank you.I will keep this video in my favorites and will watch multiple times.
The most wanted advices for me. 🙏 Thank you so much maam. God bless you.. ❤ Love from Sri Lanka..!
Thnk u mam hum zaroor amal kerenge
Wow....thank you So much mam 🙏🏿
Ma'am very good advise God bless u .
Thank you so much Ma'am
God bless you
Tqwm DR.for sharing this Beautiful Information about Live Life Well..🙏
THANK U So much for wonderful tips
Very Powerful Topics ,🙏Thank u so much mm
Very nice vedeo thx Mam for your vedeo dharing
Excellent Ma,am I am really Thanks to God and you ❤
Aap ne samjaya ,very thankful, koi b bada nahi hai jo samja sake,
Wonderfull thoughts mam thanx for sharing 😇👍
That's very nice to cut away from negative people n talk 😊
Thank you for dis wonderful information
Excellent guidance... Thank you so much❤
Thank you so much mam, you have been a great help for us.
Mam, you are mother for Languishing minds. Explained with examples, Thanks.