Tap to unmute

Our Gender Reveal

Share
Embed
  • Published on Feb 13, 2026
  • We hope you enjoy our gender reveal video! Did you guess correctly? We had a lot of fun making this video and it was great to design some flowers again. We can't wait to meet this incredible blessing to our family, and as always, we are sending you guys all our love. We truly don't know what we would do without the beautiful community we have here on RUclips.
    Thank you for all of your love and support! Don't forget to subscribe and turn on the bell so you never miss a new video! You can also follow us on our other socials below! Ciao for now! -Jessi and Alessio
    Jessi & Alessio Extra Videos
    • Members-only videos
    Join this channel to get access to perks:
    / @thepasinis
    Our favorite olive oil brand- entimio.com/pa...
    discount code "pasinis10 or pasini10"
    Business Inquiries: jessi.h.pasini@gmail.com
  • EntertainmentEntertainment

Comments •

  • @dianaluciani4992
    @dianaluciani4992 3 months ago +649

    I will continue to pray for a healthy pregnancy, delivery and healthy baby. I’m a labor and delivery nurse and have followed you from the beginning. ❤️

    • @lindaseel9986
      @lindaseel9986 3 months ago +12

      Amen and Amen. 😃🙏🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️🌞♥️🤗

    • @MarciaReilly-i9c
      @MarciaReilly-i9c 3 months ago +4

      Same here and I loved being a labor Nurse and post partum

    • @danielapearls1491
      @danielapearls1491 3 months ago +3

      So special. Just thrilled for them❤️✝️

    • @TheJanice52
      @TheJanice52 3 months ago +3

      Me too

  • @garglerawr
    @garglerawr 3 months ago +2332

    This was maybe the loveliest gender reveal I've ever watched. I love the flower arranging. This is so mindful and gentle compared to shooting off a Canon that maybe shoots someone in the face.

    • @KarenYL1234
      @KarenYL1234 3 months ago +8

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @stacyrodriguez9234
      @stacyrodriguez9234 3 months ago +27

      @stacyrodriguez9234 You've said that so perfectly. Jessi & Alessio, you are such a beautiful couple inside and out and I could not be happier for you both

    • @raebrown5017
      @raebrown5017 3 months ago +35

      Keep a stack of baby washcloths on the changing table. As soon as you undo the dirty diaper, put a washcloth over him.

    • @maryannvancleave809
      @maryannvancleave809 3 months ago +39

      This is the sweetest and most beautiful gender reveal ever. Congratulations!! I can't wait to see him.

    • @melissarusso6945
      @melissarusso6945 3 months ago +14

      Congrats!! Loved this reveal. 💙

  • @psleep4255
    @psleep4255 3 months ago +726

    This is how a gender reveal should be. Private, personal and lovely. I’m so happy for you. Congratulations!!!!!❤💙💙💙💙🙌🤗😍🥰😊

    • @lindafoster2141
      @lindafoster2141 3 months ago +5

      Oh so happy for you!!!😊😊😊 for all you you have i'm so glad! I was never able to have children, what a blessing!you will do great! As long as it is healthy that is beautiful! Love, linda in indiana!!!!!

    • @lindafoster2141
      @lindafoster2141 3 months ago +8

      I was a floral desiner for 40 years! God bless ypu

    • @EleanorNeville618
      @EleanorNeville618 3 months ago +2

      Agree. Well done! Congratulations!!

    • @carolinedavis1277
      @carolinedavis1277 3 months ago

      I feel like a gender reveal "should" be however the parents choose 🥰 if people want a big party and public celebration, that's great! If they want the sonographer to tell them during the scan, that's great! If they want to wait until birth and have the doctor yell it out, that's great! I don't feel we should gatekeep how other's choose to celebrate their experience

  • @YourFavoriteSwiftie
    @YourFavoriteSwiftie 3 months ago +117

    My heart is so happy and relieved for you two. Watching you over these past few years have left me thinking that if there's anyone I could grant a wish for, it would be for you both. Congratulations on your sweet baby boy!
    Jessi, I never imagined I'd have a boy. I couldn't imagine how such a girlie-girl could know what to do with a boy. I cried not knowing how I'd manage. When I had my son, the next thing I knew, I had watched Star Wars, the Cars movie, and was suddenly overtaken with Legos and Dinosaurs. I loved dressing my son up like a mini-me of my husband. It was such a comfort when my husband was deployed to have a piece of him in every way. After IVF once again wirh our next pregnancy, I just knew right away instinctively I was having another boy. We now each have our mini-me's in our sons. They are as different as can be from one another, but I'm just so happy they have a wonderful father to show them how to be good men. Just like you and Alessio, that was so important to us, that they were good, kind, empathetic, loving human beings. I can't wait to see you both with your healthy, gorgeous son. I sincerely hope that you'll do a public baby wishlist. So many of us would LOVE to share in your joy! Sending you both so much love and support! Congratulations! 💙🤍🤰👶👨‍👩‍👦💙🤍

    • @StarrySkiesTwo
      @StarrySkiesTwo 3 months ago +6

      That’s a beautiful message

    • @h8llo394
      @h8llo394 3 months ago +4

      Love idea off a public wish list and unwrapping video off it im pretty sure lots off laughs and fun

  • @michellekelly2937
    @michellekelly2937 3 months ago +119

    The gender reveal was so beautiful. You chose the perfect way to announce it. I'm picturing a photograph of the new baby surrounded by all those beautiful flowers!! How wonderful it is that your sister has a son and will be able to offer you guidance and support. I couldn't be happier for you. ♥

  • @newjoiseygirl52
    @newjoiseygirl52 3 months ago +334

    I went through ‘unexplained infertility’ over 50 years ago, in my early 20’s! We adopted a 3 week old baby boy in September of 1980 and 9 months later I got pregnant! The surprise of my life! We had a baby boy in February of 1982 and our family was complete! To this day, when I hear stories of others going through infertility and then eventually having a baby I cry happy tears! I may be 73 now, but I’ve never forgotten those 7 years of wanting children and being heartbroken every month. I wish you all the best…you will both be wonderful parents!! ❤

    • @workinprogress3609
      @workinprogress3609 3 months ago +4

      I remember those years, also. Tears whenever anyone became pregnant, got an abortion, abused their child or abandoned them.

    • @stephanievrettos9954
      @stephanievrettos9954 3 months ago +19

      We tried for years to have a baby, finally got pregnant through ivf. When our daughter was 6 months old I took a pregnancy test, we got pregnant naturally with our son! They are 14 months apart and the best blessings ever!!

    • @lorijohnson1478
      @lorijohnson1478 3 months ago +4

      My two daughters are my biggest accomplishments. I know I wanted to have children always. I loved taking care of my younger siblings and I'm so grateful I had my own miracles! ❤️. You will be a most loving family and I know your parents are thrilled too❤

    • @marniecarr1194
      @marniecarr1194 3 months ago +3

      Your gender reveal was the best one I have ever seen. What a unique special way to reveal❤😊. Congratulations to you both having baby boy. What wonderful parents he has. ❤😊

    • @Sylvanas07
      @Sylvanas07 3 months ago +1

      stress can totally be a real obstacle, though not the only one, i also know couples who were struggling for years and when they let it go and focused on other things, they got pregnant too.

  • @Andie_Sky
    @Andie_Sky 3 months ago +570

    This was the most tasteful and beautiful gender reveal I have ever seen so far! I love the idea of the flowers and it shows the passion and your gentle hearts all the way through. Nothing too crazy, nothing too loud, just pure joy and happiness. Congratulations!

    • @ThePasinis
      @ThePasinis  3 months ago +90

      Thank you so much! We are so glad you enjoyed it 💙

    • @danielapearls1491
      @danielapearls1491 3 months ago +15

      Well said. So beautiful, pure and gentle.🪺🧸🩵💙

    • @katmartin7203
      @katmartin7203 3 months ago +9

      Perfectly said, it was so beautiful. 🤍💙

    • @lisaizzo2121
      @lisaizzo2121 3 months ago +1

      Congratulations 🎉

    • @bobbylacy2374
      @bobbylacy2374 3 months ago +3

      ​@ThePasinisIt was perfect! Just the two of you making something beautiful together that represents who you are and your story together. ❤ Congratulations on your coming baby boy Pasini! 💙

  • @kokacolacowgirl4195
    @kokacolacowgirl4195 3 months ago +18

    He spoke it into existence with Bambino. I'm very happy for you both! My children are both boys and I'm very happy to be a boy Mom. Boys are easy, I promise. My wish is for a happy, healthy baby!

  • @Athenz98
    @Athenz98 3 months ago +932

    Knowing that you were both floral designers and chose this as they was to announce was beyond touching, personal, and intimate. Just like flowers, you BOTH spread such beauty in the way you do things. Thank you, Papa Pacini, for your heart in KNOWING that the world needs good men. Can’t wait to see your journey as parents! ❤️🥰

    • @judyann4394
      @judyann4394 3 months ago +16

      Wow amazing congrats you two what a blessing many years of love, peace and happiness

    • @kathleenastley2584
      @kathleenastley2584 3 months ago +4

      Congratulations 🥰

    • @Prof.S.Martass
      @Prof.S.Martass 3 months ago +12

      They are flower designers? I thought they said in one of their videos they used to be actors? Or am I confusing something 🤔

    • @nelzzz89
      @nelzzz89 3 months ago +5

      ​@Prof.S.Martassyes they met on set. Never heard about them being flower designers but perhaps

    • @katkimba
      @katkimba 3 months ago +11

      @Prof.S.MartassThey said they used to be Wedding Florists in the video at 11:13

  • @TheFacelessTraveller
    @TheFacelessTraveller 3 months ago +355

    If there are people I root for on this platform it is both of you. I am 100% SURE that this baby will be loved and adored because he was wanted and he is lucky to have you two as his parents. God bless you and we pray for a safe delivery!

    • @leahrutberg5811
      @leahrutberg5811 3 months ago +3

      It just goes to show how important it is that the parents WANT to have a baby and to plan parenthood. The contrast between this and unplanned pregnancies is stark and the outcomes of the resulting lives is also stark.

    • @vickigiff9396
      @vickigiff9396 3 months ago +4

      Yay! I'm so happy for you! I guessed boy by the way😊. I loved the way you did your gender reveal, very classy and not over the top ridiculousness.

    • @elle91711
      @elle91711 3 months ago +1

      @leahrutberg5811 I must say, I’ve known many people who experienced an unplanned pregnancy and they are some of the most amazing parents I know ❤

    • @lauraburke7162
      @lauraburke7162 3 months ago +2

      Enzo

    • @TheFacelessTraveller
      @TheFacelessTraveller 3 months ago

      @leahrutberg5811 100%

  • @meganmckissick2281
    @meganmckissick2281 3 months ago +97

    OMG! This is the best gender reveal EVER for transitioning black & white photos to color!

  • @candaceflores1528
    @candaceflores1528 3 months ago +13

    The most beautiful, loving gender reveal !!! Watching you both arranging the flowers in black and white, and then the color. I am so happy for you. 🩵👣🩵 🙏🙏🙏

  • @emdavis
    @emdavis 3 months ago +76

    The loveliest gender reveal! I am so, so happy for you both!! Please take a lovely photo under that gorgeous gazebo and frame it in the nursery! :) Congratulations again, friends!

  • @kristinhoover3102
    @kristinhoover3102 3 months ago +545

    Alessio touched my Girl Mom heart talking about raising a good boy and how much the world needs good men right now. Thank you ❤ So happy for yall and I have been thinking of your baby is Leo since your pregnancy announcement!!

    • @Puglover130
      @Puglover130 3 months ago +16

      Me too 🥰🥰
      I’m a boy mom and I’ll tell you proudly, both of them are empathetic, compassionate and aren’t sexist.
      My son actually had an issue on Friday at college, another male student had an absolute fit over a misunderstanding in a group game. Toxic masculinity was the root of it 😢 my son came home crying.
      I will say though I noticed Jessi immediately changed the subject- I’m sure it’s tough when you have a large audience and don’t want to alienate half the viewers. But I could always tell the way they spoke, and the way Alessio treats Jessi quite frankly, that they have similar value system to me ❤

    • @lceec7012
      @lceec7012 3 months ago

      So well said…lovely

    • @Cathy.gatti41
      @Cathy.gatti41 3 months ago

      😅

    • @Cathy.gatti41
      @Cathy.gatti41 3 months ago

      Je suis très heureuse pour vous et voir votre bonheur d’attendre un garçon. Le dernier né de ma famille me rend si heureuse il a 7 mois il s’appelle Liam il est mon 3eme arrière petit-fils, je suis une grand-mère comblée. Il a le charme italien de son papa, il sourit à tout le monde. ❤️👩‍🌾❤️

  • @genesismanzano794
    @genesismanzano794 3 months ago +530

    Who else CRIED 🙏🏼🤍😭

  • @ra-chellevance876
    @ra-chellevance876 3 months ago +26

    Mom of 2 boys, aunt of 5 boys and here's a pro tip. When you change his diaper, lift the front of the diaper up just so the wind hits his skin and immediately put it back down and usually they will pee right away. Once I figured that trick out I didn't get peed on again.

  • @nancyosgood777
    @nancyosgood777 3 months ago +144

    When my Sons were little I always told them "I will not have mean boys!" They are 41 and 39 now and they are good men and wonderful Fathers like their own Father. I'm so happy for you.

    • @mepo920
      @mepo920 3 months ago +2

      🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼 I raised 2 boys as well. Every day I pray Ive done them justice and that theyre getting the most out of life at 29yrs and 24 yrs old

    • @AmarieFF51212
      @AmarieFF51212 3 months ago +1

      I love this!! I have a 9 month old son. He will be a kind boy and a wonderful young man. ☺️

  • @spazzbabyboy
    @spazzbabyboy 3 months ago +81

    Alessio's message at the end is so sweet, i cried!!! Currently facing down secondary infertility and it is tough sometimes seeing people reach success simply without trying but you guys have worked so hard for this I have nothing but joy and excitement for the two of you and your entire family. My boy is currently 4.5 and it is amazing watching him grow. I feel like anyone that wants to experience having a child should get to. Its one of the most challenging but delightful things we get to do as humans.

  • @islandgirl45
    @islandgirl45 3 months ago +66

    Congratulations to you two! One thing for sure is that your son has hit the lottery having you as his parents, I am so happy for you and your growing beautiful family. ❤ 💙

  • @momma2thewilds88
    @momma2thewilds88 3 months ago +8

    We have 5 boys and now have a baby girl. Our home is never silent, I never have a moment where I am like "I'm so bored" or "I wish I had some more excitement in my life" 😂😂 boys are amazing.

  • @helenemalenfant5435
    @helenemalenfant5435 3 months ago +34

    What a beautiful display of flowers! That is such a wonderful way to do a gender reveal. Congratulations to both of you!

  • @DKM-f6m
    @DKM-f6m 3 months ago +50

    I have one child and when I found out I was having a boy, I was initially upset (I know so ridiculous) because I had dreamed of having a girl but once we picked out his name and I started talking to him in my womb, the disappointment quickly subsided. He’s now 19 year old college student and I could not be more proud to be a boy-mom. I understand what Alessio is saying about raising a “good” boy and I think I’ve done just had (not that I haven’t made my fair share of parenting mistakes). He’s the greatest blessing in my life. Congratulations to you both. Your son will be so fortunate to have such loving parents.

    • @KitKat10281
      @KitKat10281 3 months ago

      I was initially the same when I found out my son was a boy! Id dreamt up/imagined the baby being a daughter, so had to grieve (momentarily) the "loss" of that "daughter." I love my son more than anything though! He's 1.5 now!

  • @tgoodric
    @tgoodric 3 months ago +51

    Congratulations! Your gender reveal was beautiful! ❤

  • @marykaymitchell6664
    @marykaymitchell6664 3 months ago +2

    Your gender reveal was precious. So special and perfect. Especially learning about your history of flower arranging together! Many continued prayers for your journey and your sweet little family. Thanks for sharing everything you share. You are two special people💙

  • @GeorgieB1965
    @GeorgieB1965 3 months ago +230

    That is definitely an excellent way to do a gender reveal: B&W until the moment of truth.🎉

  • @sonjapapst5563
    @sonjapapst5563 3 months ago +46

    No matter what, just stay healthy the three of you! All the best from austria!

  • @AlthaeaGalavir
    @AlthaeaGalavir 3 months ago +61

    Congratulations!!!! ❤ How wonderful and sweet! Blessings to you both!

  • @ipacarrollread
    @ipacarrollread 3 months ago +3

    Your words of support for others was so beautiful. Your spirits are just so wonderful. Congratulations again on your baby boy!

  • @kathykaehler7304
    @kathykaehler7304 3 months ago +73

    So so happy for you would have been just as happy if a girl!!! Just thrilled that you are pregnant, healthy and your dream is coming true!!!!!

  • @gregorypecksfriend
    @gregorypecksfriend 3 months ago +76

    That was a lovely way to reveal. A blue jay is calling around 14:40 as Alessio is talking. Continue to live one day at a time. So happy for you.

    • @billpegkrueger3376
      @billpegkrueger3376 3 months ago +1

      I went back & re-watched, hadn't noticed the bird call while listening to Alessio's touching message, but there it is! Thank you for catching that!

    • @kristhymorales5526
      @kristhymorales5526 3 months ago

      I clocked the blue jay but didn’t put the two together - how lovely!🥹

  • @katetownsend9655
    @katetownsend9655 3 months ago +56

    You two exude kindness and grace. I have no doubt you will raise a wonderful boy. My first child was a boy. I cannot explain in words how much joy he has brought to my life. I know your son will exceed your expectations and amaze you more as he grows. I am so happy for you two!

  • @carmenhbell
    @carmenhbell 3 months ago +2

    I didn't know your history with floral arrangements, but the connection between the roses you counted during the ivf was so lovely. Beautiful, all of it ❤

  • @MimiN-sv9sw
    @MimiN-sv9sw 3 months ago +161

    I’m one of five sisters, my mom is one of eight sisters. I’m the mom of three boys and now have three grandsons. Jesse, don’t worry about being a boy mom! Clearly, I went into it with no experience. Parenting has very little to do with your exposure/experience with the gender. It’s all about raising your child in an environment of love, respect and joy. You and Allessio clearly have that in abundance!

    • @katuu4
      @katuu4 3 months ago +2

      What about your huspand side ? Boys or girls ?

    • @MimiN-sv9sw
      @MimiN-sv9sw 3 months ago +1

      @katuu4 lots and lots of boys! I pretty much knew what I was in for when I married him and we decided to have kids 😂

    • @Puglover130
      @Puglover130 3 months ago +2

      Yep I come from 3 sisters and always babysat a family of 5 girls! I was a little nervous to be having a boy but tbh I could never picture myself as a girl mom. It would have been fine, I just mean, it never felt like that was my future. It felt “false” every time I imagined being mom to a girl.
      And I have 2 boys now.

    • @madisonrose1576
      @madisonrose1576 3 months ago

      @MimiN-sv9swmy husbands side definitely has more boys. His dad has 2 brothers 1 sister. My husband is 1 of two boys. We got two boys and then a girl

  • @kslm89
    @kslm89 3 months ago +89

    I've been following you for ages as I was also going through IVF. There are already thousands of comments so you likely won't see this but I just gave birth to our miracle IVF baby BOY back in August. I also come from a girl family and am very girly and wasn't sure what I would do with a boy but it's honestly so natural. We also had tons of girl names and really struggled with coming up with a boy name and ended up using an Italian name to honour my husband's uncle - Enzo! We love it and get so many compliments on it. Good luck in picking out a name and sending so many wishes for a healthy rest of your pregnancy.

    • @mabanobi
      @mabanobi 3 months ago +1

      Congrats on your baby boy! I too went through IVF and also had my boy in August! ❤

    • @shoreinsight
      @shoreinsight 3 months ago +1

      Congratulations to you too! Love the name Enzo!

    • @maryellensnyder1585
      @maryellensnyder1585 3 months ago

      Probably one of the most beautiful gender reveals I have ever seen.

    • @laurieanneanderson9888
      @laurieanneanderson9888 Month ago

      Congratulations ✝️🕊️🙌🏻❤️🎉!!

  • @karenwalker3233
    @karenwalker3233 3 months ago +33

    Congratulations !!!!! You guys are gonna be great parents!!!!

  • @SusanBullock62
    @SusanBullock62 3 months ago

    Beautiful gender reveal 😍
    As a mom of 3 now men ❤️ I have to say boys are great.
    My very 1st "fun" experience was when my oldest son after his very first bath had pooped all down the towel and me lol and while you change him in the first few weeks at least it may be handy to have a cloth diaper or a burp cloth or something in hand to cover and catch lol at least until he's a bit older and the pee urges are somewhat more controlled lol and with 3 boys I've got straight shots right at the face on more occasions then I care to remember but what can you do when their little faces just scream im so cute 😍 Many Blessings to you both, so glad you're joining the boy train ❤

  • @majobis
    @majobis 3 months ago +14

    That black and white opening was great and is a priceless moment.
    I hope you get a nice picture framed of it to hang up in one of your rooms of the black and white image
    The floral arraignments with the colors is spectacular in itself with the gazebo.
    Some nice floral vining plants that grow every year would be great on the gazebo.
    Congrats on having a boy and I know you will be great parents that will teach him the value of good Italian cooking.
    Yes raising any kids in todays world is scary enough, but the love from the both of you will raise a very kind boy.

  • @sweetrhythms23
    @sweetrhythms23 3 months ago +289

    So so happy for you!! Alessio is right, we absolutely need more good boys and boy parents making the world a better place, especially right now! 💕

    • @sabi_creations3625
      @sabi_creations3625 3 months ago +8

      This! As a girl mom, I can only hope somewhere out there her little soul mate is being raised to be a kind little soul just like her. I dont care who she wants to be with as long as they're kind to her and treat her right one day

    • @donnakhouri3859
      @donnakhouri3859 3 months ago

      Amen

    • @Tired_Momma
      @Tired_Momma 3 months ago +1

      As a boy mom, that’s the prayers I’ve said over my three sons.

  • @o.m.6374
    @o.m.6374 3 months ago +26

    What a beautiful and original way for a gender reveal. So many blessings and well wishes and warm hugs are coming your way and I hope you can feel all that joyful energy.

  • @debramoore7458
    @debramoore7458 3 months ago +1

    Truly lovely! Congratulations!

  • @elleminnowpee
    @elleminnowpee 3 months ago +28

    I was going to cry either way. Thank you for the beautiful reveal for us! Congratulations!

  • @valerieg9494
    @valerieg9494 3 months ago +26

    Congratulations!!!! I am so happy for you! God bless you.🙏💙

  • @mommabird2813
    @mommabird2813 3 months ago +22

    I love this. I’ve seen some gender reveal that are so over the top that it truly takes away from what I think it is supposed to be about and that is the baby it’s self. Y’all made it all about the baby. Nothing so over the top, etc, just lovely.

  • @littlenewthings2662
    @littlenewthings2662 3 months ago

    Congratulations! I agree of bringing up a strong, healthy boy in such a season is important. Praying everything will be smooth!

  • @pennyauffert3847
    @pennyauffert3847 3 months ago +19

    Beautiful reveal… so calming and sincere. Congratulations

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 3 months ago +13

    I had no idea you both were/are floral designers! I love love love flowers! At one time I put floral designs in vases at a senior home. Flowers brings people together. I read a beautiful book last year called The Language of Flowers - Vanessa Diffenbaugh - I’ll keep it forever. Explains so much about the meaning of flowers.
    I love the origins and meaning of names - I have my entire life. So I’m excited for you both to begin the name process.
    Again congratulations (I picked girl but I always do)!

  • @BlindSquirrel425
    @BlindSquirrel425 3 months ago +50

    Our son was born before the days of gender reveals. On the delivery, an arc of urine flew over me as the doctor said, "It's a boy!" He's a wonderful person.☺️

  • @TheJtyork420
    @TheJtyork420 3 months ago

    Im so happy for yall. I know its been a struggle and its awesome when good things happen to good people. We can all get some joy and happiness out of this.

  • @OlliesGrandma
    @OlliesGrandma 3 months ago +19

    Congratulations!!! You will love being a boy mom Jessi❤️

  • @o.m.6374
    @o.m.6374 3 months ago +34

    With only a sister and female cousins, I too had initial thoughts like you did, Jessi, when my first born was a boy, but I can assure you that those concerns immediately disappear when you hold him in your arms. The truth is that when you are raising that infant, you will not be holding him, or nurturing him, or teaching him any differently than if the baby was a girl, The issues that Alessio mentions will come much later on, and by that time you will understand just how wonderful a son's bond with his mother is. Don't overthink things you two, this little one is already ahead of the game with parents like you two.

    • @MariaPapanikolaou-h1s
      @MariaPapanikolaou-h1s 3 months ago

      With the exception of diaper changing, where a second one is advisable for geysers, I was coming on to say exactly this. One of two sisters, first born girl, and taking care of an Infant boy was same

  • @Janknitz1
    @Janknitz1 3 months ago +14

    Congratulations! It’s nice to know. And thank you for not doing any crazy gender reveal shenanigans. An arch of flowers made with love is a beautiful way to announce it.
    This child will be so loved.
    Yesterday my IVF “baby” (32 years old) and I took a road trip, and the “theme song” I sang to her every day before she was born came on the Radio. “Dream a Little Dream of me.”
    Sweet dreams of your little boy ‘til sunbeams find him in your arms. “Sweet dreams that leave all worries behind you. Dream a little dream of [ him]. 💕

  • @kellinazagouras4927
    @kellinazagouras4927 3 months ago

    My heart is so happy for you.God bless you and keep you safe and loved.And enjoy for your little child on the way what a blessing

  • @classicashley3925
    @classicashley3925 3 months ago +113

    8:18 This was so touching! It’s very important as a parent to raise kind children, accepting and loving of others. Boys can be soft and caring, just as much as they can be strong and brave.

  • @Caranora
    @Caranora 3 months ago +67

    What a beautiful gender reveal! When the video switched from black and white to color and the lovely baby blue flowers were revealed instant tears! I knew you were having a boy! Something just gave off boy energy. I'm so happy for you both!! God bless this beautiful baby boy

    • @zeeechannel-y4m
      @zeeechannel-y4m 3 months ago

      I read your comment before I saw the video
      And yet I had instant tears.
      Congrats to them!

  • @cindyschenk6824
    @cindyschenk6824 3 months ago +21

    What an adorable reveal!! Congratulations! I’m so happy for you both, you deserve such a blessing❤

  • @lourdesarocho5511
    @lourdesarocho5511 3 months ago

    What a happy News… I will continue to pray for your family … Bendiciones

  • @tammymarie5016
    @tammymarie5016 3 months ago +165

    I KNEW IT!!!! 💙💙💙💙💙 CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Now it’s time to plan the virtual baby shower! I already have my boy gift!!!💙💙💙💙

    • @ThePasinis
      @ThePasinis  3 months ago +38

      you are so nice , you guys do already so much supporting us in all this with your bellissimi messaggi .
      Alessio

    • @gigiray7413
      @gigiray7413 3 months ago

      @tammymarie5016 I want the details if someone organizes a virtual baby shower. I already have an outfit picked out!

    • @christypait4876
      @christypait4876 3 months ago +7

      I’ve never been so excited for such a lovely couple! Wishing you all the best of luck!!
      Congratulations 💙💙

    • @conniejohnson1552
      @conniejohnson1552 3 months ago +12

      Im in! As a Mama of 7, 5 adopted, baby always needs something. I never participate in things like this online. But! This one, I am in. Congrats sweet couple.💙

    • @GriselysMartinezLuna
      @GriselysMartinezLuna 3 months ago +2

      Me too! 💙💙💙

  • @debbiegray9911
    @debbiegray9911 3 months ago +13

    Congratulations! I am so happy for the two of you. I am the mom to 7 kids! My husband and I had two biological daughters and 20 years later we adopted five children out of the foster care system. We have 5 girls and 2 boys. I had 2 sisters growing up so having boys was a totally new experience for me. I never realized how much I wanted a son until my two came into our lives and into our family. I LOVE my sons so much and they have enriched my life beyond measure. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🥳🎉❤️🙏🏼

  • @Underboss1968
    @Underboss1968 3 months ago +24

    Congratulations…I’m very happy for you both and thank you for bringing us along with you on this amazing journey.

  • @27clou
    @27clou 2 months ago

    Congratulations!!!! WOWO - so excited for you both. Yes will pray for you.

  • @strengthcomfortmedia6104
    @strengthcomfortmedia6104 3 months ago +10

    Our prayers continue. Thank you for your beautiful video!🎉

  • @hollielogue7554
    @hollielogue7554 3 months ago +13

    Lovely reveal. Blessings to the 3 of you.

  • @TheBeautyLeague
    @TheBeautyLeague 3 months ago +98

    5:22 Alessio is 100% correct. As first time parents, you’re going to learn as you go. HOWEVER. As soon as the baby is born, your mama instincts are going to kick in. Everyone told me this as a first time mom because I was PANICKING, but they were right. It’s like you just know what to do even though you’ve never done it before.

    • @rosemarielee7775
      @rosemarielee7775 3 months ago +2

      The protection cuts in, but I was panicking about what to do with this little alien! After the first bath etc the confidence comes.

    • @chinacetacean
      @chinacetacean 3 months ago

      Motherly instinct has long been debunked.

    • @balconiesandbellinistravel4034
      @balconiesandbellinistravel4034 3 months ago +1

      @chinacetacean You sound like you're fun at parties.

    • @CarolanIvey
      @CarolanIvey 3 months ago

      I’m with Jessi, my second as a boy and I had no idea what to do with him! 🤣

    • @lissamtate66
      @lissamtate66 3 months ago

      It will be easier than you think! Read everything you can get your hands on. Decide what sounds like will fit your family best when it comes to every thing. lol But remember to remain humble and accept help. I managed to figure out three very different boys lol and they’re all flourishing. Congratulations on having a son. ❤. Best of luck, always!! 🎉

  • @maladylife
    @maladylife 3 months ago

    Absolutely beautiful! Congratulations on your new little one on the way. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @elle91711
    @elle91711 3 months ago +12

    Beautiful reveal ! Little boys are special, very special!
    Enjoy the excitement and anticipation.
    No doubt your son will be a good boy & good man with the guidance of his Father

  • @OFD56
    @OFD56 3 months ago +16

    My take on why many thought it was a girl...is because of the power of perception. Many of your followers have been so gravitate towards your journey....but more importantly that of Jessi's. That is why I think many felt it would have been a girl. Regardless....your son will be raised by two beautiful parents who understand the journey and miracle it took. For now....you still have 2 more trimesters. Keep taking it one small step at a time..❤❤

  • @DrenaRapp
    @DrenaRapp 3 months ago +10

    Awe I just knew it! Made me tear up for sure.....Congratulations and be well and thrive! This little boy will be the love of both of your lives...although I am 64 I know first hand about what you went through. I had 5 years of infertility and numerous surgeries from terrible endometriosis. IVF was not even a choice back then. My first son was a true miracle for me, and the second was an unexpected, unbelievable gift from god. I prayed for you for sure....Just like I prayed for myself. Treasure every single moment of it. Bless you all.....

  • @byankaree91
    @byankaree91 3 months ago

    It’s crazy how deeply you can feel invested in someone else’s pregnancy someone you don’t even know yet feel close to in a strange way every time I see a video of you I find my hand over my heart hoping everything is going well and that you’re okay I honestly can’t wait for the baby’s arrival it feels like waiting for family like a nephew or a grandchild!

  • @sandrak.robbins6305
    @sandrak.robbins6305 3 months ago +7

    :) So happy for you two! It doesn't matter which one, but it now is more and more real. A wonderful news! A baby boy! :) Thank you for sharing this news with us! Such a beautiful flower reveal! Gorgeous!

  • @ciaobella8963
    @ciaobella8963 3 months ago +22

    Congratulation, a son! I moved to Italy about 13 years ago and my favorite names for boys are Luca and Gabriele.

  • @caroleshaffer2243
    @caroleshaffer2243 3 months ago +74

    Absolutely beautiful reveal. I have 7 boys, I wanted a girl, thought my 6th was a girl, then got pregnant with number 7 and found out another boy. I would not change anything. Now I have 6 grandkids and three of them are girls. So many blessings to you all.

  • @trishawaddell564
    @trishawaddell564 3 months ago

    This is truly the most gender reveal I’ve ever seen! Im so happy for you! I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and caused quite a bit of damage and I had PCOS already so it was amazing to actually get pregnant. They did surgery to try to clean up what they could but I never could get pregnant again. We have chosen to surround ourselves with animals but I am always so happy when I see other people actually end up with babies after fertility issues b/c I understand the toll it takes. Congratulations on your growing baby boy

  • @Maria.j1984
    @Maria.j1984 3 months ago +14

    SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL!!! I can honestly say I've never seen a gender reveal of this nature before. How creative! 😍 And congratulations!!!!! Of course he'll be a good boy. Alessio, you're such a wonderful man and human being. You have strong morals and values, and, you are an amazing husband to your beautiful wife. I know you will both be incredible parents. And your son will be a reflection of your love and goodness. I'm so happy for you both. Thank you for the tears of joy....bc those are airways the best ones the cry. 💙💙💙💙💙 May God bless you and keep you safe. 🙏

  • @carolvicenzi6906
    @carolvicenzi6906 3 months ago +21

    Guys, I have a cat too, female. And they just know things! She started to be so different with me, rubbing the face in my belly for no reason, then in a couple weeks I found out I was pregnant. She stayed with me the whole time, started to sleep very close to my chest and belly, and she was also more lovable than before . And in the moment I started to feel pain and contractions, she was by my side until the very moment we went to the hospital ❤ And in fact when your cat started to appear more frequently in your videos I was so sure that this was gonna go right ❤ they just know things that we don't have a clue ❤

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 3 months ago +1

      Pets know when people are going to pass, when they have cancer, when they're pregnant... they just know

  • @JackieGiacomelli
    @JackieGiacomelli 3 months ago +16

    Lovely, lovely, lovely gender reveal. My absolute favorite of the many that I have seen. Now...did everybody notice that Jessi is beginning to "show" a little bit. That waistband on her skirt is hitching up high a bit. BabyBoy is making his presence known by something other than that horrendous morning,noon,and night sickness. Gotta love seeing that first little belly pooch. Thanks for including us, Pasini Family,

  • @spacenova117
    @spacenova117 3 months ago

    So excited for you both! What a beautiful reveal! Praying for a safe rest of your pregnancy, delivery, and recovery!

  • @pj2290
    @pj2290 3 months ago +15

    Sweet reveal! You both will make great parents and I have a feeling your boy will grow up to be a fine boy! You both are true inspirations to couples suffering from infertility.

  • @SpAxley
    @SpAxley 3 months ago +12

    Yep, definitely cried! I am so beyond elated for yall ❤.
    With my 2nd pregnancy, our cat would NOT leave me. Anytime I was sitting down or laying, she had her head nuzzled into my belly. After baby was born, she wouldn't leave the room. All of a sudden she had a baby to watch out for. 4 years later, Eva is still attached to our girl and always tell our daughter that she is Eva's baby. They have a special bond. ❤

  • @TheresaGirdler
    @TheresaGirdler 3 months ago +7

    Oh my goodness!!! I am so happy for you! As a parent who went through infertility, losing a baby and giving birth at 28 weeks, I can understand your joy. It is WONDERFUL having a boy! Ian is 34 years old and is the best son possible. He is smart, kind, funny and hard working. He came through all his difficulties, including major surgery to repair a severe club foot at 18 months very successfully He is a nurse in a large hospital treating patients with cancer and other serious problems. I am so proud of him. I know you both will be terrific parents, and raise your son to be "a good boy.* Sincere congratulations to you. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @TTL47
    @TTL47 3 months ago

    This is a beautiful idea for a gender reveal!! The fact that it has a personal connection is even better! It is beautiful! Thank you for taking us along on your journey! You will be wonderful parents!

  • @2010kimw
    @2010kimw 3 months ago +52

    Congratulations!!! That was the loveliest gender reveal I've ever seen. And I did guess correctly! As mom to two amazing boys, now young adults, I'm so thrilled for you both! What a lucky little boy, to have you as Mommy & Daddy! ♥️

  • @Zoe-m4h6e
    @Zoe-m4h6e 3 months ago +106

    I love the way you two share so genuinely without the long drawn out drama.
    Your little boy will definitely be (“a nice boy!) as he has the nicest parents.
    By the way, this was the most beautiful gender reveal I have ever seen!
    Congratulations! 💙

    • @angietackett6626
      @angietackett6626 3 months ago +1

      Ha I said from the start it was a boy! Congratulations and God's blessings to you both!!!!

  • @rebeccar4449
    @rebeccar4449 3 months ago +15

    Congratulations!! What a lovely gender reveal! 🎉❤

  • @catherinemccarty1147
    @catherinemccarty1147 3 months ago

    I am truly happy for you. Sending love and prayers.

  • @DebA-318
    @DebA-318 3 months ago +14

    Congratulations!!! So happy for you!

  • @desertcole4213
    @desertcole4213 3 months ago +14

    Congratulations 🙌 so very exciting 🌸the arch is absolutely gorgeous! Now how to make that magic garden permanent 🤔 ❤

  • @lorisullivan327
    @lorisullivan327 3 months ago +12

    Yaaay! What a cool gender reveal! Praying God’s best for you and your little one 💫🙏🏻🩵

  • @sooh6299
    @sooh6299 3 months ago

    I've been following you for ages, but somehow the past couple of months slipped by my for you page until today, and I'm so happy for you!!!! Congratulations

  • @joyterry3018
    @joyterry3018 3 months ago +14

    I knew it!!! I’m so so happy for you both. God has blessed you and will continue to do so because your faith is so strong. Enjoy this new adventure my loves❤❤❤❤

  • @Dawn.aka.smileygrl814
    @Dawn.aka.smileygrl814 3 months ago +26

    Beautiful reveal!! Congratulations!! When I saw how you were feeling, I guessed a boy because I had the same symptoms!! Praying the rest of your pregnancy is smooth sailing!! 💙💙

    • @michellewilson1419
      @michellewilson1419 3 months ago +2

      Congratulations! A baby boy. How sweet. I'm a boy mom. I'm so excited for you and Alessio.

  • @frann.8879
    @frann.8879 3 months ago +10

    Congratulations…all the best for a healthy and happy baby boy!😁❤️👌😁❤️👌

  • @CariSykes
    @CariSykes 3 months ago

    Very classy reveal and quite stunning. So happy for you. Here's to an easy, healthy rest of your pregnancy and delivery.😊

  • @cagoalie
    @cagoalie 3 months ago +7

    I was more scared of being a girl mom than a boy mom. I have a daughter, who is a tomboy, and she is just like me. She is my only child and I am so happy. She is also the only granddaughter on my side and the only grandchild on his side. You will be wonderful parents. Don't sweat the small stuff, pray for the child daily (even after they are born), and just take it day by day. Alessio will show him how to treat women properly and be a great role model. So happy for the both of you!

  • @Nonameforyoudangit
    @Nonameforyoudangit 3 months ago +14

    I whooped with joy for your news! A bouncing baby boy - how exciting, ragazzi ❤

  • @ramonaalvarez7559
    @ramonaalvarez7559 3 months ago +8

    As u know, there's no parent manual, babies don't come with one. AND eventually you'll get kinda tired of hearing ALL the "advice". Don't be nervous tho, motherhood to one who truly wants to be a good mom .. most of it will come naturally. I want to thank y'all for setting up that unique "reveal" just for us/ur channel. It was just perfect. So happy for y'all .. b well. Hoping the nausea is beginning to subside. Blessings🙏🏼✝️💞

  • @amandaturner617
    @amandaturner617 3 months ago

    Congratulations! What a lucky little boy to have you both! Cheering for you!

  • @StarryVelvetSky15
    @StarryVelvetSky15 3 months ago +63

    Cats are very empathetic and maternal. She knows there's a human kitten coming. She's going to be a total little support helper.

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 3 months ago

      They can smell, too. There are cats who can tell when people are going to pass, when people are pregnant, when people have cancer....they can detect all sorts of things

  • @DBarney
    @DBarney 3 months ago +12

    Again CONGRATS TO BOTH OF YOU. 🎉🎉 You both will make GREAT parents. I say the MOST IMPORTANT thing is that the baby is HEALTHY. Just RELAX and REST. Take one day at a time. 🎉🎉💕🫂🙏

  • @ItalianGirl90
    @ItalianGirl90 3 months ago +6

    Congrats 🎉🎉 like the majority I thought you were expecting a girl 🎀 I had a boy this year in April ❤ I’m as old as Jessy and we’ve experienced some difficulties conceiving too (3/4 years trying). For me, I’ve known he was a boy the day I found out I was pregnant. I was scared at first because I didn’t have any experience with boys and I’ve always imagined myself as a girl mom… but the day he was born all my fears went away, it was love at first sight! He’s almost 7 months, he’s so quiet and sweet ❤ I wish you all the best ❤❤❤

  • @duaneselby6743
    @duaneselby6743 3 months ago

    It’s just so exciting to hear that you are doing so well and now to know you are having a boy that’s so exciting ! Congrats I can’t wait to see the videos of delivery day and meeting your answered prayer.