No communication since Feb 25th. Just ghosted me after claiming he didn't want to lose me, that I was rhe one, that im to special to lose. Then he just left me. It hurt and im bewildered. He was in and out and I always went after him because I know he was afraid to be vulnerable. He broke my heart. 10 months long distance video chats, lots of promises and I just don't understand. He said I was rhe only person in his whole life that ever "got him". Hes 67. Im 50. I wasn't expecting him. He caused me hard in the beginning and now, after being so close there nothing. Its hard to understand and overcome the hurt. I invested a lot in him
@@jasonfitzpatrick414 sadly as much as it hurts mt heart and all the promises he made, I believe you are correct. I wish it didn't hurt so much. I believed what he said as I had no reason not to. I feel stupid for falling in love. Thank you for taking the time to reply
Look up information about avoidant attachment style. I think that knowing aboit that will give you answers. It helped me a lot to understand this. Because the hurt you a lot saying how they care and how much you mean to them and then they just leave Because of there intens fair of getting hurt. Its no excuse, but it did help me
No communication since Feb 25th. Just ghosted me after claiming he didn't want to lose me, that I was rhe one, that im to special to lose. Then he just left me. It hurt and im bewildered. He was in and out and I always went after him because I know he was afraid to be vulnerable. He broke my heart. 10 months long distance video chats, lots of promises and I just don't understand. He said I was rhe only person in his whole life that ever "got him". Hes 67. Im 50. I wasn't expecting him. He caused me hard in the beginning and now, after being so close there nothing. Its hard to understand and overcome the hurt. I invested a lot in him
Women are full of love. Please fund someone new to give your love to. This guy is not serious. Good luck to you.
@@jasonfitzpatrick414 sadly as much as it hurts mt heart and all the promises he made, I believe you are correct. I wish it didn't hurt so much. I believed what he said as I had no reason not to. I feel stupid for falling in love. Thank you for taking the time to reply
Look up information about avoidant attachment style. I think that knowing aboit that will give you answers. It helped me a lot to understand this. Because the hurt you a lot saying how they care and how much you mean to them and then they just leave Because of there intens fair of getting hurt. Its no excuse, but it did help me
It has been 2 years and 2 months. We still talk alomost every day.
I guess it is going to be hard to find the courage to get together. But, it might be worth it to stop playing games and get serious.