How grief changed our greatest US presidents

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @JulieEllis-r7h
    @JulieEllis-r7h 13 дней назад +49

    Thank you Doris and Anderson. What a helpful and healing conversation.

    • @maryann5413
      @maryann5413 13 дней назад +6

      I didn't want it to end.

    • @Odanti
      @Odanti 10 дней назад +1

      ​@@maryann5413
      Me neither!!!

  • @Finnswife3
    @Finnswife3 13 дней назад +28

    This series is so good. I’m in the throes of grief now and it just gives me a glimmer of hope. ❤

  • @joymcguire
    @joymcguire 13 дней назад +28

    Doris is a national treasure! Thank you!

  • @jonwheels89
    @jonwheels89 11 дней назад +13

    Anderson said I love you. That made me cry ❤
    What a beautiful man he is. He's a real witness, and a gift to us.

  • @colleen6050
    @colleen6050 13 дней назад +37

    When my brother died I visited his grave every week for two years. I clipped the lawn, arranged the flowers, and laid down on the lawn beside or on top of his grave. I even began to know other loved ones who visited their loved ones' grave sites at the cemetery. There were picnics, music, and celebrations. It was the best grief processing I knew.

  • @maryann5413
    @maryann5413 13 дней назад +21

    I could have listened to them for so much longer....

  • @robinmilner8905
    @robinmilner8905 13 дней назад +15

    Thank you for this conversation. It touched me in many ways.

  • @bathhousebabylonbook
    @bathhousebabylonbook 13 дней назад +9

    These episodes bring a wealth of healing for everyone. Thank you!

  • @andyanderson3628
    @andyanderson3628 13 дней назад +15

    It's been 30 years since my mom died. Cancer, too early. And after all this time I can still feel the wave of grief hitting me. Tries to pull me out into the deep water. Have to keep my head up and fight.

    • @singularseeker
      @singularseeker 12 дней назад +1

      @@andyanderson3628 I know I will never recover

  • @SirPolitico
    @SirPolitico 13 дней назад +6

    The way that these conversations about grief can be both super personal for each guest, yet equally relatable is so powerful. I am such an admirer of Doris Kearns Goodwin’s work and to hear Anderson and her talk through their own grief brought so close to home how humbling and humanizing death is to all of us. None of us can shield our loved ones or ourselves from the inevitability of death, but there is a tremendous amount of personal growth that can come from finding healthy ways of grieving our loved ones who’ve passed.

  • @monarusch4087
    @monarusch4087 13 дней назад +8

    I was very close to my mother-in-law. She lived in a house with 3 generations - her mother, her and her daughter. She was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. For 6 months, I spent almost every weekend helping her go through the house - this goes to xxx person, this can be donated, this is trash. While unbelievably hard, it's some of the best memories I have with her. Her stories, memories of her kids, personal thoughts can never be replaced.

  • @joanneg460
    @joanneg460 10 дней назад +5

    These are terrific programs. I lost parents and siblings to cancer. I used to get told you can’t speak ill of the dead. However, these people were human. They had lives that weren’t perfect. They did dumb things at times. I believe my grief requires telling the whole story.

  • @cynthiamason4069
    @cynthiamason4069 13 дней назад +8

    I lost my sweet husband, Philip, to early on-set Alzheimers. I was his sole caregiver. We met in our late 20s and became fast friends for years until we became a couple in our late 40s. What Dolores said about the talking is right to the point of the connection and the profound loss. We covered every topic with our shared curiosity and love for this amazing world. The passing of time removed his ability to tell me what was on his mind, but I swear, until the end, I could still see it in his eyes. He was a wonder❤

  • @patriciaavery4482
    @patriciaavery4482 13 дней назад +7

    What a wonderful interview! Informative and insightful. Thank you both!

  • @deborahsobel3314
    @deborahsobel3314 12 дней назад +4

    That is the hardest part; when death comes we have so many questions. What a beautiful way to get those questions asked and answered.

  • @lynnfindlay1895
    @lynnfindlay1895 9 дней назад +2

    Excellent interview.. thank you

  • @shutupshelley1793
    @shutupshelley1793 13 дней назад +9

    Outstanding. Remarkable. Laudable. Movingand profound. Terrific interview. Thank you both. 🤗👌🥰

  • @amberhuff9810
    @amberhuff9810 11 дней назад +3

    The way she describes her experiences and the love she had for her husband is absolutely beautiful. I want to know more about this awesome woman!

    • @barbaramccolgan8692
      @barbaramccolgan8692 2 дня назад

      Her latest book, "An Unfinished Love Story" is about her and her husband's life together.

  • @shelleymalone4427
    @shelleymalone4427 12 дней назад +4

    Such a beautiful conversation. Thank you.

  • @marciabeth1763
    @marciabeth1763 11 дней назад +2

    i need to listen to all these podcasts. Thank you Doris Kearns Goodwin and Anderson Cooper...for being so open about grieving...I haven't been able to grieve since I first experienced death at age 15. Anderson: I loved your documentary about your mom, "nothing left unsaid". I loved your mother...my mother had told me what a wonderful writer your Dad was. x

  • @singularseeker
    @singularseeker 13 дней назад +14

    I understand Anderson...Me too..Mom died in 2022 and Dad just passed Novmber11, 2024.....I have started to write a book on my Mothers lineage...but I srill cry everyday...

    • @rosewest3536
      @rosewest3536 13 дней назад +4

      Please keep crying, but writing. It shall help you heal; I know the beauty of loved ones is a true gift...it hurts to realize the space they held in our lives when they are gone. Bless you, bless you. 💜

    • @singularseeker
      @singularseeker 13 дней назад +3

      @@rosewest3536 Kind

    • @bayoubabe6698
      @bayoubabe6698 13 дней назад +2

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @maryann5413
      @maryann5413 13 дней назад +3

      Tears are liquid memories.

    • @singularseeker
      @singularseeker 12 дней назад

      @@maryann5413 and Extreme Pain

  • @Odanti
    @Odanti 10 дней назад +2

    Your interview Anderson with Doris Kearns was so interesting I did not want it to end.
    You could have done a full hour or more with her.
    I love Doris's books. I liked when she taled about Lincoln and Mary. She talks like Lincoln was her friend. She knows everything about her subject when she write, so Lincoln and Teddy Roosevelt, and Mary are her friends. Doris has many friends.
    Thank you Doris Kearns ❤️🎉
    God Speed,
    Blessings,
    ❤️🙏❤️

  • @carolynhegarty
    @carolynhegarty 11 дней назад +2

    Doris you are a National treasure. Death is so hard. Thank you for the conversation.

  • @kristincadwell1844
    @kristincadwell1844 7 дней назад

    This was such a special interview! I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @elizabethbeckman1947
    @elizabethbeckman1947 8 дней назад

    Wonderful! Thank you. My father's mother died when I was four. I have no memory of her. Visiting my father's mother's grave (for me it is knowing she IS there) on/near her birthday became an annual ritual for my mother and me - a memory treasured. Mother loved her own parents oh so much.

  • @deborahmcnaughton3276
    @deborahmcnaughton3276 2 дня назад

    I love this series and I think this episode is one of my favorites. Doris Kerns Goodwin has a 'secret sauce' that makes her special. I think I would describe her as a wisdom keeper. Her audio book about Dick's life is in my top 10 for non-fiction. Anderson, your conversations with Doris (and your other guests) are so honest and open. Keep this series going!

  • @LivinginCentralNewJersey-ep4bq
    @LivinginCentralNewJersey-ep4bq 8 дней назад

    My Dad having passed 1/2019.... I went to grief counseling and now I find myself getting involved in the community that I grew up in just like Dad in our community coaching baseball, Scouts. It is one way I honor him and the memories come back on my hometown where we grew up

  • @georgemendezjr.2353
    @georgemendezjr.2353 7 дней назад

    Amazing dialogue, conversation, satsanga on such an important subject…..thank you….God love you……❤️💜

  • @angelinahunter182
    @angelinahunter182 12 дней назад +1

    Around 2015 or 2016 I met Doris Kearns Goodwin rather by accident while I was volunteering as a Big Apple Greeter. I knew I'd be leaving Manhattan after 50 years living there so I took visitors from all over the world to see "My Manhattan." We were both with young females who were trying on clothes in the former Lord & Taylor on Fifth Avenue and we spoke for over a half hour as the girls tried on dress after dress. What I noticed most about her was her overarching kindness and I was trying to figure out why I knew her face. So very graciously before we said our goodbyes she said something to the effect: "It's been so nice spending time with you -- I'm Doris" as she held out her hand to shake mine. I'd read her books before but after meeting her I made sure that I read more of them!

  • @guillerminastover7099
    @guillerminastover7099 12 дней назад +1

    I was 18 when my mother died from colon cancer when se was 48. It took me 30 years to process the grief, which, ironically and appropriately, meant I was her age when she died. For the longest time, I thought I would died at 48. I am 73 and EVERY year of my life is a HUGE plus. I am Mexicana, and death was always a family affair. My mother took me to my first funeral when I was FOUR in a small Mexican village where there is no embalming-I was enthralled and fascinated. I started building Altar for Day of the Dead fourteen years ago. In November, I erected two Altars to honor my husband who died in February 2024. I am enriched by these types of videos. Thank you, Anderson Cooper an Doris Kearns Goodwin. And I have been meaning to read her latest book-I am now heading to my library to check it out.

  • @lorihanby6733
    @lorihanby6733 12 дней назад +1

    Thank you for such a lovely discussion.

  • @GezeGMAN
    @GezeGMAN 13 дней назад +8

    Great show

    • @randysmith3654
      @randysmith3654 13 дней назад +1

      Yes, it reminds me of the Howdy Doody show.

    • @GezeGMAN
      @GezeGMAN 13 дней назад

      @randysmith3654 how old is that show you mentioned I'm 44/m

  • @revvyhevvy
    @revvyhevvy 8 дней назад

    Reminds me of a very similar experience I had! Thanks, AC and DKG!

  • @brieb4317
    @brieb4317 12 дней назад +2

    Her husband was right, she is a wonder. ❤️

  • @joecesa
    @joecesa 12 дней назад +1

    Goodwin is an incredible gem of a historian, and Anderson's a great interviewer.

    • @frederickrapp5396
      @frederickrapp5396 11 дней назад

      I’d still like to ask Doris Kearns Goodwin about LBJ reportedly getting into her bed when she interviewed him many years ago. And most importantly: Did she get into her bed with him?

  • @mandcbruce
    @mandcbruce 12 дней назад +1

    Every time I watch all there is, I think, "This is the best conversation I've ever heard."
    Stephen Colbert, Alex Van Halen, David & Amy Sedaris and now this...

  • @crystalhoward8526
    @crystalhoward8526 8 дней назад

    What a great video. I loved both Doris and Andersons' perspectives. Thank you. 🫂🙏❤️💕💕

  • @marywolters3612
    @marywolters3612 6 дней назад

    Have lost so many family members, but never a child thank God.

  • @irene1804
    @irene1804 11 дней назад

    One of the best books I’ve read on our generation. Have also read his book written earlier. Thanks!!!

  • @carlahayden2461
    @carlahayden2461 13 дней назад +1

    I lost my son in 1996, and my mother is 2022. They are buried next to each other. My father will be buried next to Mom when he goes. I go 2 to 3 times a year to replace the flowers. I will be cremated and scattered when my time comes. I never want anyone to feel guilty for not visiting my grave or obligated to keep my ashes. I know that in a short time, there will be no one left who even remembers me. There is no point in taking up space.

  • @marywolters3612
    @marywolters3612 6 дней назад

    Being of Irish heritage, we do tend to celebrate their lives many times.

  • @denisecrawford5289
    @denisecrawford5289 12 дней назад

    Two years was all I felt graveside comfort for my mother. Went about four times a year at that time.

  • @williamroyer4669
    @williamroyer4669 13 дней назад +19

    Dumold Trump would never make America's greatest presidents list 🇺🇸🙄👎

    • @randysmith3654
      @randysmith3654 13 дней назад +4

      Still trying to cope, eh? I believe you can buy tissues in bulk at Costco.

    • @Adade999
      @Adade999 13 дней назад +3

      Quite the contrary, the man has had a very storied life career and presidency, he'll be studied and remembered long after he is gone

    • @PocoGarcia
      @PocoGarcia 13 дней назад

      You have to admit - if we go by how many tears produced - Trump is the GOAT. You Communists have been crying non-stop since 2015.

    • @gen_z_hippichikk
      @gen_z_hippichikk 13 дней назад

      @@Adade999 yes they will study how he got re-elected after destroying millions of jobs and tripling the deficit.

    • @richardrobbins387
      @richardrobbins387 13 дней назад

      ​@Adade999
      They should put him in a cage and study him now.

  • @3ريهان
    @3ريهان 13 дней назад +3

    وبقينا بننام والدموع ف عنينا من كتر الجوع انقذنا قبل ان نموت من شدت الجوع آٍنًـي آٍنًـتـََخـيـٍك آٍنًـي دًآٍَخـلـٍـًـٍة عِلى ٍآٍلـٍـًلـٍـًه ثَـمٌ عِلـٍـًيـٍك آٍنًـي فـٍي وجـِهـك آٍنًـي آٍَخـتـَك آٍتـَرٍجـِآٍك آٍتـَوسَل إلـٍـًيـٍك آٍنًـقـذٍنًـآٍ لـٍـًوجـِه آٍلـٍـًلـٍـًه يـٍشـهـدًآٍلـٍـًلـٍـًه يـٍآٍآٍَخـي آٍنً مٌنً آٍلـٍـًصـبـُآٍح حتا الان ً يحرم علينا الاكل غير الماء((استغاثه انسانيه ايلا كل قلب رررحيم وْالْلْهّْ مْا كْتْبْتْ هّْذْا الْكْلْامْ الْا مْنْ الْضْيْقْ وْقْسْوْتْ الْضْرْوْفْ انْيْ طْالْبْهّْ مْنْ الْلْهّْ ثْمْ مْنْكْ لْاتْرْدْنْيْ خايبة''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه دخلة على الله ثمَّ عليكِ اني في وجه الله ثم في وجهك اني اترجاك اتوسل اليك تساعدني لوجه الله. يااخي اني وامي واخواني اسره ايتام ونازحين بسبب الحرب بيتنا ايجار والمطبخ حقنا فاضي وصاحب البيت يشتي الايجار وحنا مافي معنا حد يمد لنا يد العون ويساعدنا في هذا الضروف الصعبه والله العظيم اني طلبتك واني خجلانه ولكن الضروف القاسيه اجبرتني يشهد الله يااخي اني صادقه واذا ماانت مصدق كلامي هذا رقمي واتس اب967،735964727+ اتصلبي فديو وشوف حالتنا بنفسك واذا تقدر تجه لعندنا وتشوف حالتنا بنفسك تعال ماعندي مشكله جزاك اللهخيراالتلا❤ناناام=°×🎉😮🎉😮😢😢😢😢😢:::::[[[[[:::::[[[[[:::::[[[[[:::::[[[[[:::::~~~♡♡♤؛؛؛؛;,;;,>]♡]:-)>:-)>:-)>×\♡×>×>♡+>>>+♡+>♡

  • @singularseeker
    @singularseeker 13 дней назад +2

    Mom died in the Hospital......Dad died at my home....

  • @michaelobrien8661
    @michaelobrien8661 12 дней назад

    So glad Doris had such important closure with her husband.

  • @ljclauson
    @ljclauson 12 дней назад

    Wow!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @PetitChef29
    @PetitChef29 12 дней назад

    you learn to live with it

  • @DeborahBackrak
    @DeborahBackrak 10 дней назад

    💙🙏🕊

  • @tedtimothy9074
    @tedtimothy9074 13 дней назад

    This is slightly different, but I think the push back that Justice Roberts got in the George Bush Case really changed him.

  • @faybyshe
    @faybyshe 12 дней назад

    “all there is” with Anderson Cooper

  • @gen_z_hippichikk
    @gen_z_hippichikk 13 дней назад +9

    Trump sure is embarrassing! 😭

  • @loridavison6672
    @loridavison6672 10 дней назад

    Thank you wonderful story

  • @tomsampson8084
    @tomsampson8084 9 дней назад

    Wow! So much to unpack here. I will watch this again but I just want to say that I have been a fan of Ms. Goodwin for many years. I can only hope that my death will be as peaceful as her husbands. In terms of the caption of this story, I would like to put forth the thought of Biden. Biden did not run in 2016 because of his grief over losing his son Bo. Had Biden run in 2016 instead of Hillary he would have easily defeated Trump. He would have served 8 years when he was still capable and Trump would be nothing.

  • @lieuphuongmai9592
    @lieuphuongmai9592 13 дней назад

    ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊

  • @gregschneider4566
    @gregschneider4566 13 дней назад +5

    Jan 20th is going to be Epic, cnb to have Therapists on site. HILARIOUS

  • @Chalky.
    @Chalky. 13 дней назад +1

    Trump needs more grief

    • @myridean2k4
      @myridean2k4 13 дней назад +2

      His brother passed during his first term in office. Wasn't phased by it. His first wife and mother to his three kids had become friends years after the divorce so when she died, he had buried her body at one of his golf courses so he wouldn't have to pay property taxes on it.

    • @andreaski100
      @andreaski100 12 дней назад

      Bold of you to assume he's capable

    • @NoOne-kr4jc
      @NoOne-kr4jc 7 дней назад

      ​@@myridean2k4Sums him up well.

    • @NoOne-kr4jc
      @NoOne-kr4jc 7 дней назад

      ​@@andreaski100What did you think of him during COVID?

  • @usuckthereturn
    @usuckthereturn 13 дней назад +3

    Hahaha….to study U.S. presidents to this day and age must be soooooooo depressing

    • @PocoGarcia
      @PocoGarcia 13 дней назад

      IKR? Look at Biden. Amazing he ever made it. The man has done nothing with his life.

    • @NoOne-kr4jc
      @NoOne-kr4jc 7 дней назад

      It's still pretty interesting lol.

    • @PocoGarcia
      @PocoGarcia 7 дней назад +1

      Why didn't they mention Trump's grief?

  • @RRKeitz
    @RRKeitz 13 дней назад +1

    SHOULD I STOP RAPPIN NEW SONG OUT NOW !?

    • @PocoGarcia
      @PocoGarcia 13 дней назад +2

      🎤 "Mic Check... Nah" 🎤
      (Intro)
      Yo, yo, turn me up in the headphones... wait, nah, turn me down.
      Bass too heavy, lyrics too light-let’s go!
      (Verse 1)
      Yeah, I’m droppin’ bars like a clumsy chef,
      Mic so cheap, it’s outta breath.
      Beats from a free app, soundin’ like trash,
      Rhymes so weak, they forgot to clash.
      Hooked on rhymes from a cereal box,
      Flow’s so slow, man, it barely walks.
      Auto-tune screamin’, outta control,
      Lyrics deep as a kiddie pool hole.
      (Chorus)
      Low-tier beats and a busted mic,
      Rappin' ‘bout nothin’, but thinks it's tight.
      No rhythm, no reason, no lyrical fight,
      But it’s blowin’ up online overnight!
      (Verse 2)
      Spit fire? Nah, more like spit glue,
      Words stick together but don’t stick to you.
      Flexin' fake chains in a mom’s backyard,
      Shootin’ music vids on a MetroCard.
      Bars so flat, they could iron clothes,
      Punchlines miss like a broken nose.
      Catch me in the comments, scrollin’ past,
      Next SoundCloud rapper thinkin' he’s fast.
      (Chorus)
      Low-tier beats and a busted mic,
      Rappin' ‘bout nothin’, but thinks it's tight.
      No rhythm, no reason, no lyrical fight,
      But it’s blowin’ up online overnight!
      (Bridge)
      Yeah, drop a mixtape on a USB,
      Hand it out free but still owe me.
      "Yo, this track finna blow!"-no way,
      Man, your whole verse got nothin’ to say!
      (Verse 3)
      Got six ad-libs, all sayin’ “Yeah!”
      Every other line? Man, it’s just hot air.
      Talkin’ 'bout stacks but they rent overdue,
      Borrowed that car, man, who you foolin’, dude?
      Instagram flex with a filter glitch,
      Rappin’ in a closet, call it "gettin’ rich."
      No hooks, no books, just vibes and noise,
      Another viral flop for the internet's toys.
      (Final Chorus)
      Low-tier beats and a busted mic,
      Rappin' ‘bout nothin’, but thinks it's tight.
      No rhythm, no reason, no lyrical fight,
      But it’s blowin’ up online overnight!
      (Outro)
      Yeah, mixtape droppin’ never, stay tuned.
      Recorded in a bathroom with the door wide open.
      Platinum in my mind, tin foil in real life.
      Mic drop… nah, mic broke.

    • @sydneyevans2637
      @sydneyevans2637 13 дней назад

      You covered it all.

    • @PocoGarcia
      @PocoGarcia 13 дней назад

      @ Ayy yo, real talk, I gotta give it up to you, fam. You the truth, no cap. Ain’t too many out here movin’ solid, but you? You built different. Always ten toes down, ridin’ with ya day ones, never switchin’ lanes.
      You the type that keep it 💯 when most fold under pressure. Got that loyalty in your DNA, feel me? You show love without a second thought, and that’s rare. You ain’t out here for clout or show-nah, you authentic with it.
      Big respect for always keepin' it solid, for standin’ tall and holdin' the squad down. You the MVP in this game of life, my G. Straight up. Ain’t no fakin’, just pure vibes and loyalty.
      Mad love for that, real one. Keep shinin’ and movin’ how you move. You inspire folks to be better without even tryin’. Salute! 🙌💯

  • @gregschneider4566
    @gregschneider4566 13 дней назад +4

    What's cnn Lying about tonight 🤔 🙄 😂

    • @andyanderson3628
      @andyanderson3628 13 дней назад

      Rupert Murdoch, the owner of Fox, testified under oath that neither he nor any of his staff believed Trump's claims of election fraud. But they went along with it. That cost them 800 million in defamation with more to come. What is Fox lying about tonight? Everything.

  • @DavidJ2222
    @DavidJ2222 13 дней назад +2

    Thank you America for the GOP HOUSE AND SENATE MAJORITY

    • @randysmith3654
      @randysmith3654 13 дней назад +1

      ​@rogerdebougainville889 oh look at you trying to cope! Good for you! There is nothing wrong with wishful thinking.

  • @ltd196
    @ltd196 12 дней назад

    Love her, but this conversation is depressing.

  • @carolynbliss8923
    @carolynbliss8923 11 дней назад +2

    "You are a wonder."
    I agree.
    Thank you both for this wonderful conversation.
    ❤🫂

  • @josephsonora3787
    @josephsonora3787 13 дней назад

    IT DIDN'T CHANGE BYE BYE BYDEN BCUZ HE SAID KAMALA CUD HAVE W0N THE ELECTION! WTF? 😂 HE'S DELUSIONAL!

  • @tyson3577
    @tyson3577 13 дней назад +3

    I know one president who lacks the empathy to feel grief but definitely needs to learn the lesson. Starts with T and ends with RUMP. Fool would only grieve his own death and no one else's.

  • @kulio1214
    @kulio1214 13 дней назад

    Jimmy Carter was one of the worst Presidents of all time.

    • @andyanderson3628
      @andyanderson3628 13 дней назад +5

      But a damned site better person and president than Trump.

    • @NoOne-kr4jc
      @NoOne-kr4jc 7 дней назад

      Lmao. You know nothing about Carter.

    • @NoOne-kr4jc
      @NoOne-kr4jc 7 дней назад

      ​@@andyanderson3628You got that right.