We shouldn’t compare our lives to others.. I’m single n I don’t compare myself to other because it just make u depressed ... We have to just be grateful to Allah for what we have
Yes, it is hard not to feel lonely when it seems like everyone around me has someone and family just keep reminding me that I have not reached the next milestone yet. It is a struggle mentally. I would like to enjoy this time cause I know Allah swt plans the best and instead of looking ahead and yearning for future happiness, I want to be contented and at peace now.
Except for youtube and whatsapp, i don't use social media and I still feel like life is too hard for me. That thought is crippling. I don't think I can do this. Im overwhelmed. The level of being tired is at my maximum I feel like and I wonder if you can die just from being tired. I know it sounds insane but I'm there, near insanity I feel like. What's kept me going was trusting that Allah doesn't give someone things they cannot handle. But somehow I'm just not empowered enough to know what to do to make life easier. I think i need to change my life and not rely on trusting I can make it in this situation. Maybe im depresser or burned out, i don't know. All i know is I need to save myself because I need a break. I need to get out of survival mode.
I get what you mean. I'm going through something similar. I just want to do nothing and just be alone and just get through this life. May Allah help you. You should try to get help. Talk to your family or friends or see a professional
Zeyna Nd May Allah make it easy on u .. Just try to remember sister that this life is just a test for us ... Stay strong this life is temporary just strive to be the best muslimah u can be ... May Allah bless us to enter Jannah to see him 😄😄😄.. that’s my focus not this fake life
Assalam alaikum ! Zeyna I guess you might be overthinking certain issues you are facing. I am saying it because I have been through exactly what you have said. I still feel that I am burdened with weights which I can't handle and the worst part is that I have to carry all the burdens simultaneously ! But there is one specific coping mechanism which I try and believe me it works. The first thing is that you have to remind yourself that there has been times when life was easy. You were were strong and you were positive. You frame of thinking was such that you would think that any problem you ever face, Allah will definitely help you. And then did actually tackle some hardships with the will of Allah. Now you have to practice to put your thinking in that mind frame again. Just like you practice for an exam or a speech at college or any thing of challenging nature.... That's the first step. Let me know if it makes sense and you heart buys it. Then I will try to explain further steps InshaAllah. Let me know if I can help in any way or form.
@@makiyam2702 yes sister its called ghitbah...you want good for that person in what they have but you also desire the same for yourself without any ill will towards the person
We shouldn’t compare our lives to others.. I’m single n I don’t compare myself to other because it just make u depressed ... We have to just be grateful to Allah for what we have
Yes, it is hard not to feel lonely when it seems like everyone around me has someone and family just keep reminding me that I have not reached the next milestone yet. It is a struggle mentally. I would like to enjoy this time cause I know Allah swt plans the best and instead of looking ahead and yearning for future happiness, I want to be contented and at peace now.
How are you now ? 💞
May Allah guide us all Forgive us All and grant us good in this life and the next Allahumma Ameen
I think oversharing is an evil that is rarely noticed.
So much truth
This series is so amazing and helpful.
Except for youtube and whatsapp, i don't use social media and I still feel like life is too hard for me. That thought is crippling. I don't think I can do this. Im overwhelmed. The level of being tired is at my maximum I feel like and I wonder if you can die just from being tired. I know it sounds insane but I'm there, near insanity I feel like.
What's kept me going was trusting that Allah doesn't give someone things they cannot handle. But somehow I'm just not empowered enough to know what to do to make life easier. I think i need to change my life and not rely on trusting I can make it in this situation. Maybe im depresser or burned out, i don't know. All i know is I need to save myself because I need a break. I need to get out of survival mode.
I get what you mean. I'm going through something similar. I just want to do nothing and just be alone and just get through this life. May Allah help you. You should try to get help. Talk to your family or friends or see a professional
Zeyna Nd May Allah make it easy on u .. Just try to remember sister that this life is just a test for us ... Stay strong this life is temporary just strive to be the best muslimah u can be ... May Allah bless us to enter Jannah to see him 😄😄😄.. that’s my focus not this fake life
Assalam alaikum ! Zeyna I guess you might be overthinking certain issues you are facing. I am saying it because I have been through exactly what you have said. I still feel that I am burdened with weights which I can't handle and the worst part is that I have to carry all the burdens simultaneously ! But there is one specific coping mechanism which I try and believe me it works.
The first thing is that you have to remind yourself that there has been times when life was easy. You were were strong and you were positive. You frame of thinking was such that you would think that any problem you ever face, Allah will definitely help you. And then did actually tackle some hardships with the will of Allah.
Now you have to practice to put your thinking in that mind frame again. Just like you practice for an exam or a speech at college or any thing of challenging nature....
That's the first step. Let me know if it makes sense and you heart buys it. Then I will try to explain further steps InshaAllah. Let me know if I can help in any way or form.
NN O May Allah make it easy for you ! I wish I could help
God will never let us alone we just need to trust him. read Surat Al-baqarah every day.
Jazakallah for this ☺
Thank you
wanting something that someone else something else has isnt necessarily always jealousy/hasad...think that this needs to be address but jzk
Exactly!! I thought I was the only one thinking that. Just because you want something doesn’t necessarily mean you’re automatically jealous.
@@makiyam2702 yes sister its called ghitbah...you want good for that person in what they have but you also desire the same for yourself without any ill will towards the person
zaq exactly!! Exactly what I was thinking word to word. Thank you!
Jazakallah
I need more videos that will help me, pls I really need help everything around me is crumbling and I feel like not even alive
Can you guys put subtitle because I'm non English-speaker. Jazakallahu khayran.
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