Cheating is in a man's "nature?" NONSENSE!! To me, cheating speaks to a person's character. That person shows that he/she is NOT respectful, lacks integrity, demonstrates dishonesty ,and is untrustworthy, PERIOD!!
Let me ask u a question, is it still cheating if u tell her from day one that u gonna be with other women? because there are women in relationships like that
No one can force someone to be monogamous. If it’s in your “nature” to be with multiple people and you don’t have discipline or self control, then DONT BE MONOGOMOUS. It’s not that hard 🙄
Exactly, it isn't cheating if the other person is okay with it. Or if you are in an open relationship, etc. But for these men, they don't want those because they can't handle what they dish out. They are weak and could not handle competing with other men in that way. This is why they stay talking to women. Half the time, these men like to cheat because they are insecure and need constant validation from different people, and they like hurting the other person. A lot of these guys get off on hurting their partner. They want you to be bothered they get something from hurting you. That is why you don't care and leave.
That's true. And on the flip side, you also can't force a monogamy inclined person to accept you going out and sleeping around with other people, but they're expected to remain faithful to you. This is why honest disclosure about desires, expectations, and boundaries within a relationship is so important, and should be done early on.
My college professor used to say “If you will cheat on an assignment, you will cheat on a exam, and if you cheat on a exam, you will cheat on your business partner/colleague or job and, if you will cheat on your job, you will cheat on your marriage, and if you cheat on your marriage, you will get a nasty divorce, so don’t make cheating apart of your character. “ In other words, integrity is something you carry constantly or not at all. Your character remains consistent no matter what the circumstances are and I feel a lot of people have cognitive dissonance when discussing character and morals
Amusing She gains and keeps 50 lbs so sex difficult or akin to a part tie job. He goes out and finds a 105 lb asian and has a sex party living as a teen again. She calls it cheating then gains another 25 lbs angry eating to ready for the battle at home. He of course cannot stand her big arrogant ass and does DTB never having sex with her again. Her food and calorie intake increases as does his time with asian girls slip slidin like a champ. How does it end well.?She drops dead from a stroke or heart attack or just falls down and cannot get up and is left there. Usually though she calls someone either a COP or street thug and has him murdered using lies.
My best friend was engaged but she kept catching him cheating. She was fed up with his bs. She gave him his ring back, aborted their baby and moved out of the state. He was sooooo crushed. Cheating ain’t worth it!
Wow, what a powerful, wise woman!She walked away without any ties, when im sure he assumed he could ensnare her with a child. I hope your friend is doing well and is happy!
If you cheat on your wife, it’s not a mistake. It’s a bad choice. We need to stop Champion un-godly behavior and blame it on the weak flesh. It’s a mindset. We have to change our mindset to be more devoted husbands and men so we can be better leaders in our own household.
Women end the relationship and cut off all contact if he cheats. Stop accepting poor treatment and make them feel your absence. You can't make a man faithful but you can assert a boundary. A man should never feel comfortable disrespecting you. By disrespecting you he shows he doesn't value you so it's important for your well-being to leave because the abuse will continue until you stop it.
It's facts. Why he said give her a choice when you tell her you don't want to be monogamous. Majority of women especially in our part of the world are not going for that. And the men know this so that's why they'll gaslight the "its in our nature" talk. I'll admit as a man with a strong libido stuff does catch your eye; it's just your key not to act on it and honor the person who loves you and would be hurt/doesn't deserve to be cheated on.
as a young man in his early 20s I don’t condone cheating at all whether it’s men or women ..I don’t believe in being taken for granted Either..I’ve never cheated myself nor have I thought about cheating & im all about being faithful loyal & respectful & I like how you include the Lord🙌🏽
These cheating men can't speak for all men, nor all men cheat. Why do these guys cheat and want women to forgive them but if a woman cheats he doesn't forgive and kicks her out on the street? Nobody should be cheating, period! If you can't be faithful then don't get into relationships and marriages.
@@cocoblessings Ok, a girl can walk into a club and yell who wants to bang, a lot of guys gonna say yes if not most, but if a guy goes into a club and say that, he's gonna be called creepy, women bang who they want, guys bang who they can, it's common sense, women can easily get sex, even the not so attractive ones. If u didn't know, around 20 percent of men get most of the women, rappers, pro athletes, entertainers, rich people in general get a lot of women, theres a reason for that
I busted out laughing when I heard that “so called” man say “it’s my nature.” Boy bye. Excuses, excuses and more excuses. A mature man who loves his woman exercises self control in all aspects of his life. Period. Attraction is not an excuse for cheating. Cheating is a choice regardless of your reasons for doing so. Much love ❤️
I agree, but it's hard especially when you have fame and riches, doesn't make u a bad person or irresponsible, imagine growing up and a guy didn't get any attention from women, then he works hard and makes it big and women start throwing themselves at him, u think thats easy?
The unwavering rule. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Men will feel the hurt if it comes their way but expect women to soak it up like a sponge and move on, but they would move out at the drop of a dime.
Having no sexual discipline has jacked a lot of our people up. And it continues to do so.. And a lot of us can't even see or understand it. I bet if the majority of our people really thought on it, they'd find a lot of their issues stem from having a lack of sexual discipline. I hope we get it together. Because 10-20 seconds of pleasure is totally not worth a lifetime of misery. I personally know someone suffering for their actions from years ago.. can't get his family back because he acted a fool smh.
Point #1 Temptation goes both ways. Women see men theyre attracted to while theyre in a relationship all the time too. Point #2 If you want to be able to have sex with whoever you want whenever you want just be single
I'm 16 and watching your videos actually helped me switch up my mentality of how relationships are supposed to work as a man of God, my dad couldn't really teach me when I became of age because he had a seizure and he wasn't in the right mental state and now that he's getting better he tries his best to explain but can't because he forgot his English a little bit 😂 but watching you helps me understand what he really wanted to say
Yes Joseph, don’t let these obnoxious dudes fool you. Notice that most of them don’t even have girlfriends and none of them have wives. Christ said you will know them by their fruit-they show us who they are by their childish speech. Focus on you education. Get into tech, STEM, finance, or doctor/lawyer. You’ll find you a great wife who loves you and have a family. Love and take care of your wife and children. Don’t let no one tell you any different.
I will never be with someone who tries to convince me that I should stay in a relationship for doing things to them that they themselves would not tolerate. Most men would not be able to handle knowing their wife/ girlfriend lusted after another man (or woman) and gave in! If he didn’t try to actually kill you, he would definitely leave you after the first time.
If a man knows he is a cheat then stay single and give your body away to everyone, no one is forcing you to be in a relationship.Don't ruin someone's mental and physical health for your own pleasure.
I've cheated and I'll tell you 100 percent it's a CHOICE. I was lost confused insecure n selfish when I was doing it and was in some pretty bad relationships tht had me emotionally exhausted and coulda ended up in jail. Its not worth it. U can get a woman who's OK with it or stay single. It's not tht serious to bring down another person and destroy ur partner due to selfishness. Too many STDs out here to be out here like tht..my girl rn is amazing. Never even got close to steppin out. She's too good to me to be playin like tht. There's no philosophical reason . U don't hurt ppl u love continuously. I'm good over here💯
From my experience in the dating world, men catch feelings just as much. Women aren’t the ones who ghost and then return randomly 2 years later. While women may experience the feelings more upfront and the start of a break up, men experience that as well they just don’t know how to heal properly.
Nobody accounts for the fall of man. It is mans fallen nature (namely a corruptible will) that inclines him to be unfaithful to God and his fellow man. Great points made in this video brother, love from the UK, Christ is in our midst. ☦️
We are supposed to lead our body and not our bodies lead us. You are exactly right cheating is what weak people do. People who have no control of themselves.🤨
You don't make a "mistake" when you cheat, you make a "decision", you "choose" to make that move and there's no excuse or explanation for it, so please stop saying that "they made a mistake".. no mistakes where made, they were fully aware and in agreement with their choice to cheat and they "intentionally" aligned themselves to do it!
THANK you ‼️ that's the same thing I said cheating is definitely a decision because it was something you choose to do simple as that and these men running around here always blaming women for their problems stop with all that crying and take accountability
@@RavenMarie2001 🔥💯 They prolly never had a decent truly masculine father figure in their lives to learn from and among all else, to learn taking accountability! It is a vital quality!
@@AmericanDreamer It is a vital quality and alot of people need to learn it instead of using excuses to do what they want to do I understand most men and women didn't have great role models to show them but most adults can't take accountability for the things they do that's all I'm saying 💯
Thank you for being a good man to your wife and family! So many of us get embarrassed by our men and don't even know it! Thank you for keeping it real with us too! The argument has to stop. We have the right to choose what we want to deal with!
Nothing but the Dawg in me. That lil middle 🦵leg. No morality no values no integrity. Thats why so many kids running around here with no fathers. And they have the audacity to complain about child support. Those brothers like that they are in denial.
No one is falling for the okey doke any more ... These people should just say that they're happy being weak in this area, instead of trying to convince others to cosign the foolishness.
Brothers just gotta be honest with themselves. If you ain’t a one woman type of dude let it be known. Best advice my dad told me was not to lie to women. If I start dealing with a woman I tell her from the get go that I’m not ready for a relationship. Some women decide to no longer deal with me afterwards, some women still deal with me. I just stress honesty and communication. There’s no way I’d agree to be in a monogamous relationship if I know I’m not willing to be faithful.
Thts what's up. I agree. it's not tht serious to lie and manipulate ur way into someone's life just to tear them down behind ur lack of s3xual discipline. Stay safe bro, it's a warzone out here tho....salute🫡💯
because they have not yet grown out of their boyhood and stepped into manhood. And ability and willingness to take responsibility and accountability is probably the biggest sign of such transformation! Kids point fingers, they don't look at themselves, they actually cannot, they need to be taught and trained!! Guys on those podcasts are that - boys, lil children in grown bodies!
I literally told some guy 2 days ago, "It's sad how you a grown man are trying to justify this immoral behavior..." Imagine a woman saying that if she goes out and find other men attractive she feels as tho she wants to fck him.
Men and women may have their different "reasons" for cheating, but regardless of that it's never ok to cheat. And it's most definitely a choice. I agree that it's weakness, people act like they don't have discipline or self control. If you love someone, you wouldn't disrespect the boundaries of the relationship or break your marriage vows. You would think about what you have to lose before you act on that impulse. And it's definitely not worth it. People don't think about the consequences and damage infidelity causes. The grass is never greener on the other side.
I hate this attitude that it's in men's nature to be disloyal. It's disrespectful to men and to women. Men like that claim Men should be disciplined in all areas of their life, but this? There's something fundamentally wrong with that attitude.
Me and my husband just got through talking about stuff like this! I'm tired of men like that putting all men in one category and all women in another. Like it's only one a man and a woman can be! That's why I like your content because you think more like my hubby and don't subscribe to that foolishness
I always see men make the comment that men with options will never be faithful- but someone added especially if that person never really got “play” before. So now they’re older, they cannot control their temptations and therefore rationalize sleeping with everyone they can
Not all of them but yes, a lot of rich men, especially athletes cheat, don't make them bad people, when u got people throwin themselves at u, it's hard
@@juniorbeckham2928 you know for me, I don’t like liars. Liars and cheaters are the same to me. Just be upfront! Why is that so hard for people to do? I teach my kids that lying is one of the worst things you can do. When you’re a liar, you lose all credibility. Trust is important.
@@juniorbeckham2928 It does make him a bad person and any man that does this is. Men have been lying to themselves and society forever to try to male everybody excuse their devil ways. It is funny how if womem cheat they are considered bad withoutll forgiveness ever again though which is straight up bs. See you men always tell on yourselves. Men can't stand when women think they are better than men yet men expect women to be "better" than men whenever it is convenient for men and men wonder why they get no respect in society. Men want every excuse in the world to be dereclict nasty trash.
@@SupaStar100 sorry i disagree with you, don't get me wrong some men out there are scumbags, let me tell you why i said what i said, you're never gonna fully understand because you're a woman, but i'll try to explain as best as i can. Just an example, not actually talking about myself, so i grow up in a low income family, i'm ugly, out of 10 I'm a 5 at most, i get bullied in school, girls don't want me, but i am good at rapping, i grind hard and go through adversity and now i make it big, sell millions of records and women start throwing themselves at me. I do get a girlfriend, mainly because i never had one growing up because women didn't want me. Ok, if you expect that guy to be faithful to one woman, you're insane i'm sorry, he couldn't get any girls growing up, why shouldn't he have all the fun he wants now and play the field if he chooses to? he's not a bad guy, he just wants to experience what he never experienced growing up, no offense to you but you wouldn't understand, women have easy access to sex, i don't know what you look like, but you can walk into a bar and yell who wants to bang, a whole bunch of dudes will gladly oblige to that, men on the other hand can't do that, do you understand where i'm coming from? Btw i wouldn't want any man cheating on my daughter, let me make that clear. I'm not saying men should cheat on their women, but rather I understand why men cheat and cheating doesn't necessarily make them bad people, try to insert yourself in the example and think about it then get back to me please.
CHEATING IS A DECISION ‼️People know exactly what they be doing for it to even come across their minds they knew ! So to people out here making excuses and trying to justify it is beyond me that's why I am not so easy to give in to trust anybody because a person will hurt you and then blame it on you for their fuck up NAHH take accountability for what you did instead of making excuses Period 💯
You are absolutely correct! Its an excuse that they use for bad behavior. But, the one thing I have noticed for men and women that I have personally viewed myself between husbands and wives, or even couples. Its that they don't want to have interactions with the person that they slept with, or slipped up with......in public......especially if they didn't want the person. That's a part of their life that they don't want to look at.
That’s even worst that a man with wife go around shaming women he sleeps with behind his wife back! Delusional deceit liar evil and fake 🥷 don’t you have daughters
One thing I have realized is men and women alike have been conditioned to accept this "it's men's nature" as an excuse. Why conditioned? Because there is no such thing... all it is, is sinful behaviour. These men call "sinning" their nature. It is not natural you are engaging in bad behaviour and trying to excuse it.
Thank you for being here and speaking truth . We are saying the same things just like you in this video ! You are outstanding and you are worthy of praise! 🔥
He packaged it up so good. If you are not grounded in the word of God and know what’s right, he could easily fool someone. He sounded right for 3 seconds 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
N guys like this should be paying for everything… u can’t want to cheat n want to go 50/50 LoL I dealt with a dude like this… I eventually had to let it go…. Some guys are really crazy n delusional 😵💫
"Variety is the spice of life "they say. Meaning , it is in the nature of humans{ men and women }to wanna experience or taste difference things but when it comes to the game of sex{ or should I say sex abuse } ,they would want to rule one gender out . They make it seem or look like it is only the men that have urges to sleep around with anything in skirt or with the shape of the opposite sex . MANY FOLKS ARE JUST SO CONFUSED OR MISINFORMED IN THIS AGE AND TIME .
It is in everyone's nature to sin, period. No matter what type of package that the sin comes in. Whether it's cheating, stealing, etc... So yes, it is in everyone's nature to do wrong. You choose to make the right decision and you choose to do right, period!
I had to comment again and let you know your wife is a blessed woman and I am sure you are a blessed man too to have her in your life. Keep up the great work for the Kingdom. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Pertaining to that clip, I CALL B.S.!!!! All men not running around cheating! Also, we women see nice looking men but will not leave our good thangz to "get at" that 👁️ candy!
Dig that. Don't know why they don't act like for a woman another man can be attractive and good-looking to them. Especially, when there man is acting a fool and not loving and appreciate women like they should be.
If a man ever cheat on me in a marriage he will leave with 10% of anything from that marriage. Whoever inflicts trauma on the other will need to pay a heavy price
@Ru 1 now going through a D after 27 yrs of marriage this man did everything to me under the sun. His BM and I had babies the same day. He had a stroke I was the only one that nursed this man, no side chick's around to help. This man got better and continued where he left off. Fast forward left him in 2020 all my teen, 20s, 30s, n part 40s I squandered on this man and hardly gave me the bare minimum. Today this man have the nerves to fix his mouth to say he wants half of everything. When I left him Ieveled up bought a house and everything. Im at so much oeace now. That rocked his world thought I needed him and I was never going to leave, because I put up with his dusty behavior. He said he will win in court and everything. I said yes I'm not fighting him. It's the entitlement.
People cheat when they are not discontented with what they have and this is nothing to do with the partner. If you are not satisfied then it really is on you to try and have a conversation with your partner to see if you want to resolve and work on it or just call it quits.
I know you don't think your a unicorn, but the reason we think that is because there's not enough good men showing themselves. I'm married to a great man but his brother's and friends are not like him. He's the only one that's married and faithful. It's sad to see with my own two eyes!
In the old testament God says to kill the adulterer AND the adultress. Don't matter the reason! In the new testament it says the whore AND the whoremongerer will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven. And again, it doesn't matter the reasons. But many ppl are spiritually dead or asleep!
Yea no thank you ☺️ I don’t want nb who think like this… if you catch something that can’t be cured it will decrease your chances of finding sb even more so leave these types of guys alone… it’s not worth risking your health to deal with them…
I believe that men have less sexual control than women. The crazy thing is they feel they can do it and walk away easy as opposed to women due to having feelings. That can’t be true unless they are sleeping with other men. The reason I say that is because doesn’t the woman they cheat with have the same mind or feelings as their partner? What makes that a woman different? If she can just walk away can’t the partner do the same thing? It’s just a conditioning tactic that men use towards women.
Men always have just as much control of themselves as women but why would they want to give up their male entitlement that they have brainwashed everybody with since forever? Stop falling for men lies.
I had to change my algorithm to more more content, such as yours thank you for what you doing, and you inspire me to double down on what you’re doing so we can have more men out here speaking against the nonsense. I will never cheat on my wife i just did a show is cheating a choice or a mistake. youtube.com/@OPDNETWORK Great show fam
If men and women would not allow themselves to get in compromising situations..like hemped up in some dark room together 🤔. What do they expect next to happen? Temptations are real and we must not think that our flesh is above our natural sensual desires that God did give us.
First off, you are from a tribe of unicorns. Ones who seem to understand basic decency, morality, loyalty, and faithfulness. Yet, men like the podcast guest and host himself will use the scripture ad say "well God said be fruitful and multiply\ God allowed such and such to have more than one wife\concubines" To which their notion of faithfulness, self control, and reasoning goes out the window. Also, most of these men think cheating isn't in a woman's nature; but saying 'what's good for thee is not for thee" just points their worldview that women have two purposes: wives and 'toys". One is at home being subservient; the other is for my gratification and consumption only.
I’m red pilled to the core. Have been since I was in my early 20s… And the notion that it’s okay for men to cheat but not for women is absolutely crap. I couldn’t cheat on a woman(my ex had no problem telling me should would cheat on me to my face). I thought men were duty bound to their families.
@@whenyouwishuponastar6643 merely understanding female nature, and how men ought to be vs how men are in today’s society. A lot of red pill should be about men becoming the best versions of themselves which SHOULD benefit society(that they want to change), and the women around them. A lot of it is toxic nonsense.
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience some channels do. Most focus on the women, and very few focus on actual self approvement. Those videos don’t get the traction, dudes flock to the videos that confront women.
I think this is more of a matter of ego all men have ego and it needs to be fed if you're not wanting to be a woman and a wife a packed lunch for work goes a long way
All I heard from that guy is cheating is premeditated…he’s getting results he doesn’t like so his behavior shifts to the results he wants. Yeah, like when people steal and kill smh. Sounds like sin to me period mixed in with some confusion from the enemy, all to steal, kill, and destroy
Your a unicorn dude because we have a lot of men who just want to follow the shiny ball. No insult to you or disrespect just saying. There are really nasty ones and there are a lot. It's like if you want a red mm and stick your hand in a bowl of green mm. God bless you and your family
I hear you, brother. But you must know it is far easier for a man to remain faithful than a woman. A man who, like you, has made up his mind to be faithful will not be swayed. I don't think women can be like this, though. Even if a woman has resolved to remain faithful. If the right man comes along, she can be seduced. That's my fervent belief. I have too many so-called good women do good men bad, for bad boys
Spewing stupidity and none of the women stopped him in his tracks?? He'd have met all kinds of pushback. You teach people how to treat you, and they will only do what you allow. If you don't love and respect you, no one else will. 🤷♀️
Cheating is in a man's "nature?" NONSENSE!!
To me, cheating speaks to a person's character.
That person shows that he/she is NOT respectful, lacks integrity, demonstrates dishonesty ,and is untrustworthy, PERIOD!!
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And lacks self discipline. And disrespects themselves. Thank you.
Let me ask u a question, is it still cheating if u tell her from day one that u gonna be with other women? because there are women in relationships like that
@@juniorbeckham2928 if she agrees to this, she’s also cheating on u. Men must think women are stupid
Agreed!
Cheating is a choice period. There is no difference between a man and woman cheating. Some people catch feelings and some don't 🤷🏾♀️
I agree 100% as a man who has cheated...I made the final decision and the final result was a divorce.
I'd also say there are feelings on both sides no matter how much of a front we men might put on when it comes to sex with women.
@@SCALES1992 thanks for your honesty
@@sixsixallen8865 I've gotten better feedback from women when I've been honest...case in point ma'am.
@@SCALES1992 thanks for your candidness
This dude: "Cheating is a man's nature."
Also this dude: "Wah men are lonely! Women want nothing to do with us! Society needs to fix this!"
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😲🤦🌴🔥 exactly
No one can force someone to be monogamous. If it’s in your “nature” to be with multiple people and you don’t have discipline or self control, then DONT BE MONOGOMOUS. It’s not that hard 🙄
Finally the good men are telling the truth
Its simple as f**k,... monogamy is not for those who are not monogamous, hence women who desire monogamy are NOT for men who don't!
Exactly, it isn't cheating if the other person is okay with it. Or if you are in an open relationship, etc. But for these men, they don't want those because they can't handle what they dish out. They are weak and could not handle competing with other men in that way. This is why they stay talking to women.
Half the time, these men like to cheat because they are insecure and need constant validation from different people, and they like hurting the other person. A lot of these guys get off on hurting their partner. They want you to be bothered they get something from hurting you. That is why you don't care and leave.
That's true. And on the flip side, you also can't force a monogamy inclined person to accept you going out and sleeping around with other people, but they're expected to remain faithful to you.
This is why honest disclosure about desires, expectations, and boundaries within a relationship is so important, and should be done early on.
My college professor used to say “If you will cheat on an assignment, you will cheat on a exam, and if you cheat on a exam, you will cheat on your business partner/colleague or job and, if you will cheat on your job, you will cheat on your marriage, and if you cheat on your marriage, you will get a nasty divorce, so don’t make cheating apart of your character. “ In other words, integrity is something you carry constantly or not at all. Your character remains consistent no matter what the circumstances are and I feel a lot of people have cognitive dissonance when discussing character and morals
Very well said. I will steal this for my kids!!!
I've cheated on tests before, but I'll never cheat on my partner.
Amusing
She gains and keeps 50 lbs so sex difficult or akin to a part tie job. He goes out and finds a 105 lb asian and has a sex party living as a teen again. She calls it cheating then gains another 25 lbs angry eating to ready for the battle at home.
He of course cannot stand her big arrogant ass and does DTB never having sex with her again. Her food and calorie intake increases as does his time with asian girls slip slidin like a champ.
How does it end well.?She drops dead from a stroke or heart attack or just falls down and cannot get up and is left there. Usually though she calls someone either a COP or street thug and has him murdered using lies.
My best friend was engaged but she kept catching him cheating. She was fed up with his bs. She gave him his ring back, aborted their baby and moved out of the state. He was sooooo crushed. Cheating ain’t worth it!
Smart woman!!
Wow, what a powerful, wise woman!She walked away without any ties, when im sure he assumed he could ensnare her with a child. I hope your friend is doing well and is happy!
@@bekky2ks I feel bad. As a christian I should have not laugh so hard reading this. But sis was done with him.🤣
I’m glad she left but hopefully she didn’t abort due to lack of support or abandonment
Smart women! Sad about the abortion but he doesn’t deserve his seed on this earth.
If you cheat on your wife, it’s not a mistake. It’s a bad choice. We need to stop Champion un-godly behavior and blame it on the weak flesh. It’s a mindset. We have to change our mindset to be more devoted husbands and men so we can be better leaders in our own household.
Women end the relationship and cut off all contact if he cheats. Stop accepting poor treatment and make them feel your absence. You can't make a man faithful but you can assert a boundary. A man should never feel comfortable disrespecting you. By disrespecting you he shows he doesn't value you so it's important for your well-being to leave because the abuse will continue until you stop it.
Men: Women can't handle the truth
Me: No, you can't handle the decision she'll make when you give her a CHOICE
Exactly
It's facts. Why he said give her a choice when you tell her you don't want to be monogamous. Majority of women especially in our part of the world are not going for that. And the men know this so that's why they'll gaslight the "its in our nature" talk. I'll admit as a man with a strong libido stuff does catch your eye; it's just your key not to act on it and honor the person who loves you and would be hurt/doesn't deserve to be cheated on.
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Well, most women go back to guys who cheat on them, especially the rich ones
@Junior Beckham not talking abt rich ones. The average person ain't rich. And mist women don't go back. Where u get thar at?
Men who insist on cheating must not want real love. If that's your game then I'll play but you're finna find out how cold a woman's heart can be
He finna mess around and find out.. Men don’t understand once a woman is done, she’s done
I am there with someone right now. He better leave me alone. I gave him 3 years. Now I'm done. He finding out now.
@lena that's right girl what heart you mean ice box and game will be played like Chess👀😂
@@Beautybizz28 ice box where my heart use to be!!🤣😂🤣
as a young man in his early 20s I don’t condone cheating at all whether it’s men or women ..I don’t believe in being taken for granted Either..I’ve never cheated myself nor have I thought about cheating & im all about being faithful loyal & respectful & I like how you include the Lord🙌🏽
That part. If God isn't a part of your resolve, then of course you find any excuse that the devil gave you...
@@sabir1208 Whew!! You gone trigger some folks with that comment, but you ain’t lie at all!!
@@sheenabean222 that's a them problem boo!
That's right, young King! A righteous man you are.
@@sabir1208 Period!! 👏
100% agree. Cheating is cheating regardless of gender
These cheating men can't speak for all men, nor all men cheat. Why do these guys cheat and want women to forgive them but if a woman cheats he doesn't forgive and kicks her out on the street? Nobody should be cheating, period! If you can't be faithful then don't get into relationships and marriages.
Men can dish it but they can’t take it. I always been taught that and it’s true.
@@Sunny-tc3ul that the thing that irks me .
I think it's because it's a lot harder for men to pull chicks, but very easy for women
@@juniorbeckham2928 Please elaborate.
@@cocoblessings Ok, a girl can walk into a club and yell who wants to bang, a lot of guys gonna say yes if not most, but if a guy goes into a club and say that, he's gonna be called creepy, women bang who they want, guys bang who they can, it's common sense, women can easily get sex, even the not so attractive ones. If u didn't know, around 20 percent of men get most of the women, rappers, pro athletes, entertainers, rich people in general get a lot of women, theres a reason for that
I hate when men say, “men are visual creatures.” And women are Stevie Wonder?!😎
😂😂😂
What was Ray Charles' excuse?
I'm probably more visual than men haha
I fucking love it hilarious 😅😅😂!! Like we don't see all these other Hot Dudes out here 👀👀👀 lolzzzz
I busted out laughing when I heard that “so called” man say “it’s my nature.” Boy bye. Excuses, excuses and more excuses. A mature man who loves his woman exercises self control in all aspects of his life. Period. Attraction is not an excuse for cheating. Cheating is a choice regardless of your reasons for doing so. Much love ❤️
He sounded so dumb tryna be smart 😭😭😭😭😭
I called bs on that joker!
@@Lexlex11848 those types usually do 😂😂😂
@@denesejamerson2356 🙌🏾
I agree, but it's hard especially when you have fame and riches, doesn't make u a bad person or irresponsible, imagine growing up and a guy didn't get any attention from women, then he works hard and makes it big and women start throwing themselves at him, u think thats easy?
The unwavering rule. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Men will feel the hurt if it comes their way but expect women to soak it up like a sponge and move on, but they would move out at the drop of a dime.
exactly!
Having no sexual discipline has jacked a lot of our people up. And it continues to do so.. And a lot of us can't even see or understand it. I bet if the majority of our people really thought on it, they'd find a lot of their issues stem from having a lack of sexual discipline. I hope we get it together. Because 10-20 seconds of pleasure is totally not worth a lifetime of misery. I personally know someone suffering for their actions from years ago.. can't get his family back because he acted a fool smh.
Point #1 Temptation goes both ways. Women see men theyre attracted to while theyre in a relationship all the time too. Point #2 If you want to be able to have sex with whoever you want whenever you want just be single
Amen 👏🏼
Hack, they even ask us out many many times
EXACTLY
I'm 16 and watching your videos actually helped me switch up my mentality of how relationships are supposed to work as a man of God, my dad couldn't really teach me when I became of age because he had a seizure and he wasn't in the right mental state and now that he's getting better he tries his best to explain but can't because he forgot his English a little bit 😂 but watching you helps me understand what he really wanted to say
Yes Joseph, don’t let these obnoxious dudes fool you. Notice that most of them don’t even have girlfriends and none of them have wives. Christ said you will know them by their fruit-they show us who they are by their childish speech.
Focus on you education. Get into tech, STEM, finance, or doctor/lawyer. You’ll find you a great wife who loves you and have a family. Love and take care of your wife and children. Don’t let no one tell you any different.
I didn’t think I’ll see another 16 year old here, but I’m glad.
It doesn't make any sense. Imagine saying to someone "Just because I betray your trust doesn't mean I don't love you". What?!
I will never be with someone who tries to convince me that I should stay in a relationship for doing things to them that they themselves would not tolerate. Most men would not be able to handle knowing their wife/ girlfriend lusted after another man (or woman) and gave in! If he didn’t try to actually kill you, he would definitely leave you after the first time.
Even if he's rich and u don't pay any bills? just curious
@@juniorbeckham2928 she can take half of his assets during divorce
@@Akkatlah what? and that's only if they're married and have no prenup
@@juniorbeckham2928 yes
@junior Beckham so if your girlfriend rich and pay the bills can she cheat?
If a man knows he is a cheat then stay single and give your body away to everyone, no one is forcing you to be in a relationship.Don't ruin someone's mental and physical health for your own pleasure.
Thank you for being a great example for other men. The safety your woman feels is priceless.
I've cheated and I'll tell you 100 percent it's a CHOICE. I was lost confused insecure n selfish when I was doing it and was in some pretty bad relationships tht had me emotionally exhausted and coulda ended up in jail. Its not worth it.
U can get a woman who's OK with it or stay single. It's not tht serious to bring down another person and destroy ur partner due to selfishness. Too many STDs out here to be out here like tht..my girl rn is amazing. Never even got close to steppin out. She's too good to me to be playin like tht. There's no philosophical reason . U don't hurt ppl u love continuously. I'm good over here💯
From my experience in the dating world, men catch feelings just as much. Women aren’t the ones who ghost and then return randomly 2 years later. While women may experience the feelings more upfront and the start of a break up, men experience that as well they just don’t know how to heal properly.
Saying things like this is Another way people are trying to get women to lower their standards to an all time low.
Nobody accounts for the fall of man. It is mans fallen nature (namely a corruptible will) that inclines him to be unfaithful to God and his fellow man. Great points made in this video brother, love from the UK, Christ is in our midst. ☦️
My Dad is not a perfect man, but I still have respect for him because he’s an example for me that a man can be faithful to his wife.
We are supposed to lead our body and not our bodies lead us. You are exactly right cheating is what weak people do. People who have no control of themselves.🤨
It’s not in ur nature its in ur character. It takes two to tangle.
You don't make a "mistake" when you cheat, you make a "decision", you "choose" to make that move and there's no excuse or explanation for it, so please stop saying that "they made a mistake".. no mistakes where made, they were fully aware and in agreement with their choice to cheat and they "intentionally" aligned themselves to do it!
THANK you ‼️ that's the same thing I said cheating is definitely a decision because it was something you choose to do simple as that and these men running around here always blaming women for their problems stop with all that crying and take accountability
@@RavenMarie2001 🔥💯 They prolly never had a decent truly masculine father figure in their lives to learn from and among all else, to learn taking accountability! It is a vital quality!
@@AmericanDreamer It is a vital quality and alot of people need to learn it instead of using excuses to do what they want to do I understand most men and women didn't have great role models to show them but most adults can't take accountability for the things they do that's all I'm saying 💯
Thank you for being a good man to your wife and family! So many of us get embarrassed by our men and don't even know it! Thank you for keeping it real with us too! The argument has to stop. We have the right to choose what we want to deal with!
Thanks for this because some of these guys out here are so wrong.
Nothing but the Dawg in me. That lil middle 🦵leg. No morality no values no integrity. Thats why so many kids running around here with no fathers. And they have the audacity to complain about child support. Those brothers like that they are in denial.
No one is falling for the okey doke any more ... These people should just say that they're happy being weak in this area, instead of trying to convince others to cosign the foolishness.
cheating can not be excused ever for me, love your channel, ive learned a lot
Brothers just gotta be honest with themselves. If you ain’t a one woman type of dude let it be known. Best advice my dad told me was not to lie to women. If I start dealing with a woman I tell her from the get go that I’m not ready for a relationship. Some women decide to no longer deal with me afterwards, some women still deal with me.
I just stress honesty and communication. There’s no way I’d agree to be in a monogamous relationship if I know I’m not willing to be faithful.
If you're not ready for a relationship then why are you dealing with women?
@@cocoblessings I worded that incorrectly. More so that I am dealing with other women and not willing to get into a monogamous relationship.
Thts what's up. I agree. it's not tht serious to lie and manipulate ur way into someone's life just to tear them down behind ur lack of s3xual discipline.
Stay safe bro, it's a warzone out here tho....salute🫡💯
@@rellfacts279 Oh, okay. I didn’t understand. Thank you for the clarification.
Every other month I see a podcast on RUclips where men keeping making new excuses. It's ridiculous.
because they have not yet grown out of their boyhood and stepped into manhood. And ability and willingness to take responsibility and accountability is probably the biggest sign of such transformation! Kids point fingers, they don't look at themselves, they actually cannot, they need to be taught and trained!! Guys on those podcasts are that - boys, lil children in grown bodies!
I literally told some guy 2 days ago, "It's sad how you a grown man are trying to justify this immoral behavior..." Imagine a woman saying that if she goes out and find other men attractive she feels as tho she wants to fck him.
Men and women may have their different "reasons" for cheating, but regardless of that it's never ok to cheat. And it's most definitely a choice. I agree that it's weakness, people act like they don't have discipline or self control. If you love someone, you wouldn't disrespect the boundaries of the relationship or break your marriage vows. You would think about what you have to lose before you act on that impulse. And it's definitely not worth it. People don't think about the consequences and damage infidelity causes. The grass is never greener on the other side.
I hate this attitude that it's in men's nature to be disloyal. It's disrespectful to men and to women.
Men like that claim Men should be disciplined in all areas of their life, but this? There's something fundamentally wrong with that attitude.
Good point!
The bible says “every man proclaims he’s a good man but who can find a faithful man?’ Proverbs 20:6
Me and my husband just got through talking about stuff like this! I'm tired of men like that putting all men in one category and all women in another. Like it's only one a man and a woman can be! That's why I like your content because you think more like my hubby and don't subscribe to that foolishness
I always see men make the comment that men with options will never be faithful- but someone added especially if that person never really got “play” before. So now they’re older, they cannot control their temptations and therefore rationalize sleeping with everyone they can
Not all of them but yes, a lot of rich men, especially athletes cheat, don't make them bad people, when u got people throwin themselves at u, it's hard
@@juniorbeckham2928 you know for me, I don’t like liars. Liars and cheaters are the same to me. Just be upfront! Why is that so hard for people to do? I teach my kids that lying is one of the worst things you can do. When you’re a liar, you lose all credibility. Trust is important.
@@juniorbeckham2928 It does make him a bad person and any man that does this is. Men have been lying to themselves and society forever to try to male everybody excuse their devil ways. It is funny how if womem cheat they are considered bad withoutll forgiveness ever again though which is straight up bs. See you men always tell on yourselves. Men can't stand when women think they are better than men yet men expect women to be "better" than men whenever it is convenient for men and men wonder why they get no respect in society. Men want every excuse in the world to be dereclict nasty trash.
@@SupaStar100 sorry i disagree with you, don't get me wrong some men out there are scumbags, let me tell you why i said what i said, you're never gonna fully understand because you're a woman, but i'll try to explain as best as i can. Just an example, not actually talking about myself, so i grow up in a low income family, i'm ugly, out of 10 I'm a 5 at most, i get bullied in school, girls don't want me, but i am good at rapping, i grind hard and go through adversity and now i make it big, sell millions of records and women start throwing themselves at me. I do get a girlfriend, mainly because i never had one growing up because women didn't want me. Ok, if you expect that guy to be faithful to one woman, you're insane i'm sorry, he couldn't get any girls growing up, why shouldn't he have all the fun he wants now and play the field if he chooses to? he's not a bad guy, he just wants to experience what he never experienced growing up, no offense to you but you wouldn't understand, women have easy access to sex, i don't know what you look like, but you can walk into a bar and yell who wants to bang, a whole bunch of dudes will gladly oblige to that, men on the other hand can't do that, do you understand where i'm coming from? Btw i wouldn't want any man cheating on my daughter, let me make that clear. I'm not saying men should cheat on their women, but rather I understand why men cheat and cheating doesn't necessarily make them bad people, try to insert yourself in the example and think about it then get back to me please.
@@juniorbeckham2928 Of course you won't agree with me. You just another entitled male that want to persecute women and excuse men.
It’s disrespectful to one self and displays lack of discipline.
Lot of gaslighting on them a young girls! SMFH
CHEATING IS A DECISION ‼️People know exactly what they be doing for it to even come across their minds they knew ! So to people out here making excuses and trying to justify it is beyond me that's why I am not so easy to give in to trust anybody because a person will hurt you and then blame it on you for their fuck up NAHH take accountability for what you did instead of making excuses Period 💯
People make a conscious decision to cheat. It’s a choice. It’s definitely not a mistake. In my opinion the person knows exactly what they are doing.
You are absolutely correct! Its an excuse that they use for bad behavior. But, the one thing I have noticed for men and women that I have personally viewed myself between husbands and wives, or even couples. Its that they don't want to have interactions with the person that they slept with, or slipped up with......in public......especially if they didn't want the person. That's a part of their life that they don't want to look at.
That’s even worst that a man with wife go around shaming women he sleeps with behind his wife back! Delusional deceit liar evil and fake
🥷 don’t you have daughters
One thing I have realized is men and women alike have been conditioned to accept this "it's men's nature" as an excuse. Why conditioned? Because there is no such thing... all it is, is sinful behaviour. These men call "sinning" their nature. It is not natural you are engaging in bad behaviour and trying to excuse it.
Thank you for being here and speaking truth . We are saying the same things just like you in this video ! You are outstanding and you are worthy of praise! 🔥
He packaged it up so good. If you are not grounded in the word of God and know what’s right, he could easily fool someone. He sounded right for 3 seconds 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
N guys like this should be paying for everything… u can’t want to cheat n want to go 50/50 LoL I dealt with a dude like this… I eventually had to let it go…. Some guys are really crazy n delusional 😵💫
This is also why should always pay for women entertaining them. Men will take advantage and destroy everything given to them.
"Variety is the spice of life "they say.
Meaning , it is in the nature of humans{ men and women }to wanna experience or taste difference things but when it comes to the game of sex{ or should I say sex abuse } ,they would want to rule one gender out .
They make it seem or look like it is only the men that have urges to sleep around with anything in skirt or with the shape of the opposite sex .
MANY FOLKS ARE JUST SO CONFUSED OR MISINFORMED IN THIS AGE AND TIME .
I will leave FACT I won't SETTLE!
Thank you for using your platform RESPONSIBLY!!!
It is in everyone's nature to sin, period.
No matter what type of package that the sin comes in. Whether it's cheating, stealing, etc...
So yes, it is in everyone's nature to do wrong.
You choose to make the right decision and you choose to do right, period!
I had to comment again and let you know your wife is a blessed woman and I am sure you are a blessed man too to have her in your life. Keep up the great work for the Kingdom. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Pertaining to that clip, I CALL B.S.!!!! All men not running around cheating!
Also, we women see nice looking men but will not leave our good thangz to "get at" that 👁️ candy!
Dig that. Don't know why they don't act like for a woman another man can be attractive and good-looking to them. Especially, when there man is acting a fool and not loving and appreciate women like they should be.
Alot of them cheat tho, especially athletes, and guess what, the women go back almost all the time
If cheating was mans “nature” then God would have made Adam 5 woman one time 🚮 If he cheats get out ASAP!!!!
Very well said!!!
If you cheat on me I assume you hate me.
He's sounding like men don't fall off as well...so what women don't have nature, chileeee.
Yeah but they have this notion that a woman's nature is love, forgiveness, nurturing, and long-suffering in this case. GTFOH.
If a man ever cheat on me in a marriage he will leave with 10% of anything from that marriage. Whoever inflicts trauma on the other will need to pay a heavy price
@Ru 1 now going through a D after 27 yrs of marriage this man did everything to me under the sun. His BM and I had babies the same day. He had a stroke I was the only one that nursed this man, no side chick's around to help. This man got better and continued where he left off. Fast forward left him in 2020 all my teen, 20s, 30s, n part 40s I squandered on this man and hardly gave me the bare minimum. Today this man have the nerves to fix his mouth to say he wants half of everything. When I left him Ieveled up bought a house and everything. Im at so much oeace now. That rocked his world thought I needed him and I was never going to leave, because I put up with his dusty behavior. He said he will win in court and everything. I said yes I'm not fighting him. It's the entitlement.
❤ to you and your family. Keep doing what you are doing. You will be blessed for it. I know it.
You are speaking the truth!💯💯
Lol wow I don't even watch those videos man finding you two years ago has been really helpful
People cheat when they are not discontented with what they have and this is nothing to do with the partner. If you are not satisfied then it really is on you to try and have a conversation with your partner to see if you want to resolve and work on it or just call it quits.
I know you don't think your a unicorn, but the reason we think that is because there's not enough good men showing themselves. I'm married to a great man but his brother's and friends are not like him. He's the only one that's married and faithful. It's sad to see with my own two eyes!
Men can dish it, but can’t take it!?? But it’s suppose to be in their nature?🤣🤣 bs! Cheating is a selfish act and a choice.
In the old testament God says to kill the adulterer AND the adultress. Don't matter the reason! In the new testament it says the whore AND the whoremongerer will not inherit the Kingdom of Heaven. And again, it doesn't matter the reasons. But many ppl are spiritually dead or asleep!
On point every time 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 cheating is cheating it’s not cool from either party.
Yea no thank you ☺️ I don’t want nb who think like this… if you catch something that can’t be cured it will decrease your chances of finding sb even more so leave these types of guys alone… it’s not worth risking your health to deal with them…
Great message
BRUH HEARING CHARLESTON WHITE TALK GOT ME CRYIN BRUH 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
This man preachin nonsense in a “I’m saying something profound” way
I believe that men have less sexual control than women. The crazy thing is they feel they can do it and walk away easy as opposed to women due to having feelings. That can’t be true unless they are sleeping with other men. The reason I say that is because doesn’t the woman they cheat with have the same mind or feelings as their partner? What makes that a woman different? If she can just walk away can’t the partner do the same thing? It’s just a conditioning tactic that men use towards women.
Men always have just as much control of themselves as women but why would they want to give up their male entitlement that they have brainwashed everybody with since forever? Stop falling for men lies.
Dusty guys want to cheat and have loyal idiots. 😅 Guys guys! Grow up! 😮
I am so happy you show this clip
I had to change my algorithm to more more content, such as yours thank you for what you doing, and you inspire me to double down on what you’re doing so we can have more men out here speaking against the nonsense. I will never cheat on my wife i just did a show is cheating a choice or a mistake. youtube.com/@OPDNETWORK
Great show fam
Great video, keeping speaking the truth.
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Thank you brother 🙏
If men and women would not allow themselves to get in compromising situations..like hemped up in some dark room together 🤔. What do they expect next to happen? Temptations are real and we must not think that our flesh is above our natural sensual desires that God did give us.
I agree
UNDERRATED CHANNEL!
First off, you are from a tribe of unicorns. Ones who seem to understand basic decency, morality, loyalty, and faithfulness. Yet, men like the podcast guest and host himself will use the scripture ad say "well God said be fruitful and multiply\ God allowed such and such to have more than one wife\concubines" To which their notion of faithfulness, self control, and reasoning goes out the window. Also, most of these men think cheating isn't in a woman's nature; but saying 'what's good for thee is not for thee" just points their worldview that women have two purposes: wives and 'toys". One is at home being subservient; the other is for my gratification and consumption only.
the guy speaking in the clip is Charleston White. Look dude up; he's a triiiiiiip!
extremely underrated channel
Your a real one ❤and I appreciate your wisdom knowledge and intelligence
its a boundary if i tell you i cant love you if you cheat on me idc if your a man respect my boundaries or ill leave or ill say fk your boundaries
It isnt a mistake. Big difference between mistakes and poor decision making. Great video besides that.
I’m red pilled to the core. Have been since I was in my early 20s…
And the notion that it’s okay for men to cheat but not for women is absolutely crap.
I couldn’t cheat on a woman(my ex had no problem telling me should would cheat on me to my face).
I thought men were duty bound to their families.
What does it mean to be red pilled?
@@whenyouwishuponastar6643 merely understanding female nature, and how men ought to be vs how men are in today’s society. A lot of red pill should be about men becoming the best versions of themselves which SHOULD benefit society(that they want to change), and the women around them.
A lot of it is toxic nonsense.
They don't even preach that in redpill
Men are boys aren’t. Now you know the difference!
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience some channels do. Most focus on the women, and very few focus on actual self approvement. Those videos don’t get the traction, dudes flock to the videos that confront women.
I think this is more of a matter of ego all men have ego and it needs to be fed if you're not wanting to be a woman and a wife a packed lunch for work goes a long way
Amen Amen Amen!
Cheating is cheating for sure... But it is a bit different
Couldn't explain it better than you.
All I heard from that guy is cheating is premeditated…he’s getting results he doesn’t like so his behavior shifts to the results he wants. Yeah, like when people steal and kill smh. Sounds like sin to me period mixed in with some confusion from the enemy, all to steal, kill, and destroy
Your a unicorn dude because we have a lot of men who just want to follow the shiny ball. No insult to you or disrespect just saying. There are really nasty ones and there are a lot. It's like if you want a red mm and stick your hand in a bowl of green mm. God bless you and your family
Looking at adult videos can be included in this also
You're only as faithful as your options bruh 8:42
Them boys! With no discipline nothing more
I hear you, brother. But you must know it is far easier for a man to remain faithful than a woman. A man who, like you, has made up his mind to be faithful will not be swayed. I don't think women can be like this, though. Even if a woman has resolved to remain faithful. If the right man comes along, she can be seduced. That's my fervent belief. I have too many so-called good women do good men bad, for bad boys
Spewing stupidity and none of the women stopped him in his tracks?? He'd have met all kinds of pushback. You teach people how to treat you, and they will only do what you allow. If you don't love and respect you, no one else will. 🤷♀️