You can hire part time to clean to cook to wash then she don’t need to stay in your home since you have limited space. This is what we are doing abroad we pay per hour.
I agree with her. Dapat kilala nyo at mapagkakatiwalaan at malapit lng jan para di delikado sa covid 19. Basta pagdating jan sa condo wash hands sya if possible magpalit ng damit para sure to protect everyone.
No need for neither, you can both manage, it's just a matter of adjustment, sooner or later you"ll get by. Save the salary for helper to your baby"s essentials instead.
Pwede all around maid na uwian, all around ibig sabihin pwede cya magyaya at pwede din cya maglinis o luto, uwian meaning punta cya ng 7am tapos uwi cya ng 5pm or after ng chores nya, di matutulog dyan sanyo. Pwede daily o pwede 3x a week. U can hire thru agency or by advertising. Suggestion ko lng naman :) Or pwedeng ring hindi nlang, kunting tiis pa coz u will eventually get use to the situation in the long run.
No, when your thinking of having babies there’s good and bad consequences. You made a choice to have a baby and then thinking for a third party to help out ‘yaya’. What is the point of having one when you can or can’t handle the situation. The best option is go to your parents and help this kid bond with his grandparents. It’s good that your giving someone a job but it’s also good that from the beginning of your kidgrowing up you both have the chance to get involved of him emotionally physically and mentally. Not all goes well to plan but when you guys grow older you will missed and remember everything why this kid was born ❤️ love from Australia
It's okay to hire a helper to lessen the chores that you are doing and it allows you to have time for bebe Nitro. Stay healthy and patient Mommy Shanta and Daddy Dwaine
I think his being clingy has something to do with him spending a long time at the hospital after he was born. I was also like that. My mom said I was premature so I had to stay in the hospital for almost a month. When they brought me home, I keep crying whenever they put me down and I just wanted to be held. It became a bit of a trauma. So just hold him constantly, kuya Dwayne. I think he still needs assurance that he’s no longer alone, and that you are near him now. You can go through this. Fighting! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Just get only a helper lang po, mother still the BEST to look after the baby specially at that age, just suggesting po, 😄 Ung house nyo po pwede naman po lagyan ng detachable/folding divider sa part ng bed nyo po, para at least may a bit privacy po kau, habang hindi pa kau nkakalipat, para hindi po agad kitang-kita ang bed pagpasok pa lng ng pintuan hehe..
Laban lng Dady Dwaine ganyn tlaga Ang buhay , I'm so proud of you mommy Shanta ayaw mo ipaalaga SA iba si Baby Nitro ... Ganyan Kasi Ang buhay ng isang Nanay .. ❤️🙇👨👩👦👪👨👩👧👨👨👦
you are so blessed to have shanta as your wife. She is so responsible & very hands on sa baby unlike other new mother that they depend on yaya or other people to take care of their child. Salute to mommy shanta 😊❤️
Kuha na lng po muna kayo ng apartment na within metro manila lng para d kayo ma quarantine for 14 days, kahit maliit lng basta may room kayo for your own privacy, then saka kayo kukuha ng helper, para d nman kayo puyat, pagod, at na iistress, i feel you guys kc mahirap tlaga ang may new born baby, tpos ang work nyo na vvlog.. (suggestion lng😊)..God Bless your Family..🙏🙏🙏
Mahirap sa umpisa pero worth it. Kasi di nio na maibabalik yung time na maliit siya. Time manage is needed and alternate kayo ni Shanta sa pag aalaga kay baby Nitro, para nakaka pag energize yung isa while the other is looking after Baby Nitro. I recommend to just get a cleaner once or twice a week so you can keep the house tidy and cook one dish every day.
Definitely need a Yaya when you want time out together on date nights and easy to go shopping without bringing 👶 Nitro (sometimes better too now a days just to keep him safely at home) Yayas are the best.
Gustong gusto ko talga to si Shanta, real talk. Totoong tao. Hindi plastik. Hahaha. Natutuwa akong manuod ng videos niyo kasi nagkakaroon ako ng idea kung anu mangyayari sa amin bilang 1st time parents din since manganganak na ko this July. We're expecting a baby girl. ❤❤❤ sana makayanan din namin na walang yaya or support sa relatives. Ang hirap talaga ngayong may Covid. Nakaka stress.
Better na wag na lang kayo kuha, it is not always easy lalo na first time parents kayo pero trust me, everything will be worth it. Iisa pa lang si baby kayang kaya nyo yan, sa una lang pero masasanay din kayo. Just an inspiration para senyo. I am married to a Canadian, I can’t truly do it alone without the help ni hubby pero kinaya namin. We have ages 4, 3, 2 and currently pregnant sa 4th baby namin( 16 weeks). If we did it, for sure mas makakaya nyo, you can always do it. God bless!
Shanta is right, you just need someone to help with the house hold chores. She wants to enjoy taking care of her baby like most moms do, they’re babies only once.
division of labor at time management naging sangkap namin mag asawa nung nagkababy kami .. mas maganda kc kau dalawa hands on lalo na first baby nyo c Baby Nitro .. I agree with Mommy Shanta " Hindi !" hehe... kaya nyo yan sa umpisa lng naman esp first time parents kau .. sacrifice lng ... loveyou both ang baby Nitro 🤗🤗🤗🍼🍼🍼
If they can afford to get a helper or yaya, why not? Nothing wrong in getting help. It doesn't mean they are lazy. They are still adjusting, hello! New parents! Dumaan din kayo sa ganyan and for sure you felt the same way. A complete change in what you were used to. Just because something has worked for you, it does not mean that it will work for everyone else. They have to take care of their mental wellness, too, apart from taking care of baby Nitro. Ayan, nag labasan na po ang mga magagaling at expert sa parenting. Love you shanta, dwaine, and baby Nitro. 🥰🥰🥰
Mas maganda pa rin tayo ang mag aalaga sa kanila. Masasanay din kayo guys. Ganon talaga pag may baby na. Mahirap matulog nang mahimbing at Gigising pa nang maaga. Magluluto mag lilinis pa. Multi tasking lng tayo. KAYANG KAYAN YAN!☺️ got 2 kids here but malalaki na (7 and 10 yrs old.) No Helper talaga 😁😘.tke care
Helper na lang po kunin nyo, para taga linis, luto, laba tapos kayo po focus sa baby pag tulog po si baby sabayan nyo kahit ilang oras lang sya matulog kahit papano may energy din po kayo. Pwede din po mag electric pump na lang si ate shanta may plastick storage naman po para yung mga left over dun ilalagay and then sa fredge ilagay. Para po kahit papano makapag pahinga si ate shanta makatulog ng maayos mas mahirap po mabinat . Advice lang po im teenager mom 🤗
Tama ka Shanta' ganyan tlga ung Mom' khit puyat na puyat' tiyaga kparin alagaan ang anak mo' ang sarap ng maging ina' lalo na so healthy n so cutie your baby" blessing cya sa inyo' nagbibigay ng say a at katuwaan ang magkaroon ng baby sa buhay natin... Tiyaga lng tlaga sa pag aalaga...
Just to share po ..18years old po ako nung first baby ko..at ako po lahat gumagawa ng gawain sa bahay ..pero nkayanan ko nmn .so makakayanan nyo po yan ..godbless po sa inyo..
I'm willing to help you guys I'm work nine years with Christian family but I Ned to process my papers but is closed us embassy I can extra while waiting I'm here at manila. Because I want Shanta sleep well Kawawa.
Adjustment period lang yan. You dont need yaya or helper po, lalo na po kung pareho kayong nasa bahay lang. Shanta sa baby, daddy sa house focus. Isipin niyo po karamihan may full time work outside sa house kinaya at kinakaya naman. You're house is not that big, sobrang dali linisin, cooking only takes 30 mins while washing clothes.
You can do that guys! Me and my husband are both working. I am WFH and my husband is working outside. It's about time management. Pag tulog si baby sasabayan ko lang kahit 1 hour then back to house chores. I'm trusting no one that's why we decided not to get yaya/helper. I enjoyed our me and baby time because time flies fast.
Suggestion ko lng guys pwdi naman kayo kumuha ng helper pero yung uwian lng sya kumbaga sa araw gang dependi kung until what time nyo sya gusto jan magstay pero uuwi lng sya sa gabe,para lng sa araw my maglinis or magluluto para sainyo diba🙂 suggestions ko lng po yun,Godbless and keepsafe❤
Hello DWANTRO FAM! I love you...I will appreciate if you will include me in your videos for shoutouts..Taga subaybay here since FEB 2019! More videos for filipinos!
Kaya nyo yan👍🏼🙏🥰... Mabilis tumatakbo ang araw.... temporary lang ang pagka maiyakin sa baby.... Dumating din ang araw na tulog lang ng tulog sa gabi .... Para sa akin tama ang sabi ni shantal na mas mabuti yong may privacy.... Mahirap kumuha ng katulong na may love and sacrifice din sa kanyang trabaho.... Just embrace the moment, hold on your love and prayers ❤️😍🥰. God bless. Happy blessed Sunday 🙏😇
Mas ma ganda pag hands on ka sa pagpapalaki nang anak mo, kung wala ka lang rin namang trabaho.. Ganyan talaga yan pag first baby mo.. Mahirap pero pag a cuddle muna bb mo,ma wa wala lahat nang pavod mo.. Worth it talaga.. 👌👍💯❤️❤️❤️❤️ #dwantrofam..
For me is wag na both yaya at helper..just enjoy ur parenting with bebe nitro kz time will come mamimiss nyo ung moment n yn pg malaki na..kaya nyo yn guys aqo nga noon solo lng nkayanan qo eh😅tsaka s pnahon ngaun mas maigi n totok kau at hands on ky bebe nitro pra mas feel nyo pgiging parent habang lumalaki xia..nkakaproud kya s feeling😍
Shanta has a point. Privacy is important and the space is small. She’s really a mother material bec she would prefer to take care of Nitro herself. Hope you can be in your home town soon. There’s no place like home ika nga. Wish I can have the chance to meet ur awesome family in Leyte. Just a fan from Tacloban here. Maupay nga adlaw ha iyo ❤️
Good day! Suggestion lang po why dont' you look for cleaning services or helper na stay out. Like mapunta lang sya to clean, do the laundry,cook the food then after mauwi na sya. Make sure lang na properly protected kayo at covid free sya.
May-ada katabang makuri kutob wala kamo privacy, kung matulog kamo. At kung magluto , maglimpyo, at magglaba ang katabang no create saba. Korek ka Shanta, it is a big responsibility for the mother to take care her own child, this why God give you a bb Nitro. To guide and to teach a proper Filipino values in a christian life.
Just be patient. In the next month mawawala din yang pagkaiyakin ni baby. Always talk to your baby. Tell him you love him. He needs comfort and assurance of love. Then mild music may also help.
Helper 75% cum yaya 25%. Support only for few months. Temporary lng nman eh. Pasok sa morning, uwi sa gabi. Para makatulog lng kayo. You need rest.. don’t give the full responsibility sa yaya.. You need this. That’s why sometimes, humihingi ng tulong mga new parents sa parents din nila in pansamantala.
Kaya niyo po iyan mommy and daddy! 😊 Im a first time parent as well and solo parent also. Just for a month ang struggle ng puyat pero after that makakaadjust na unti unti😊 Mahirap po talaga maging parents but its a good experience😊
Pwede kayo kumuha ng day cleaner lang, yung mag ggeneral cleaning sa bahay nyo lang. Mas tipid and efficient. Mababantayan nyo rin habang naglilinis👍 Or pwede na Mommy ni Shanta ang magvisit sa inyo para maghelp sa pag-alaga kay Baby Nitro 😊
Hello po. I suggest you hire a private nurse during night shift, for example from 8pm to 8am (or watever time you prefer) just to watch over baby Nitro. So that you both could have a good rest all night long. Then during the day you both take good care him. 😊
Wowwwww.. didn’t know that piano master pala si Shanta. Kakamangha. Tapos polyglot naman si Dwayne. Nitro will be super smart from his parents genes..🙌😍
The best thing is to have a helper who can do the household chores who would go to the condo daily like an 8-5 job. 😊 It would help you concentrate on Nitro and do other things na. 🥰 God bless this family. Love love.
pag usapan nyo na lang kung paano kayo mag palitan ng mga gawaing bahay at alaga sa bata. pag sabay kayo mag alaga at gawaing bahay same kayo mapagod. mag-salitan kayo ng mga komportableng oras na pahinga at alaga sa bata at gawaing bahay. ex. kung sino mas matibay sa puyatan sya alaga sa gabi, yong di sanay sa puyat sya alaga sa umaga. tas mag palit din paminsan minsan yung taga bantay sa gabi para makatulog din sya ng mahimbing sa gabi. kaya nyo yan kahit walang katulong mas madami pa kayong madidiskobre na kaya nyo pala kung kayo lng. mga ilang bwan lng hahaba na din tulog ni baby dipende din kasi sa bata may mga bata na 6 to 8 months mahaban na tulog pero may iba na umaabot ng 1yr bago humaba tulog. basta magkaroon kayo ng schedule ng pahinga ninyo na di sabay para di sabay na pagod. pag nalagpasan nyo yan sa 2nd baby nyo expert na kayo. madami na nga kayong alam sa pag alaga sa baby na di nyo alam dati di ba? mas madagdagan pa yan tas ma ishare nyo na din sa ibang mga soon to be na magulang 😊
nice answer shanta.... helper lng kunin nio pansamantala... mhirap kc mgtiwala now jusme super nkakatakot... kmi ganyan din nung ngk baby kmi... pro nkayanan nman nmin ng walang yaya o katulong... tiis tiis lng guys.
Neither. This stage of life is temporary. Work it out plus embrace this stage in your lives. You'll go back one day and say to each other "We did it". If others managed why can't you? Its life. We did it as young new parents with no help. I cried a lot for being tired but all worth it. Just hang in there and save the money for something you'll need for Nitro in the future.
I'm an Archt by profession pero Wala akong Yaya hanggang lumaki anak ko Wala Rin akong helper I do all the work meron pa akong kasama dalawang senior my mom and Dad my hubby is working ..it's just prioritizing everything At sa bago Lang Yan Pag laki Ng baby magaang na syang alagaan .. watch nyo Ang vvlog ni jennica uytingco marami kayong ma222nan madalas kasi akala nyo okay Pag may Yaya pero Hindi Rin maganda mawawalan kayong mag asawa Ng privacy 🤗 oh by the way my daughter Now is 21 yrs old and she's working APC graduates of MMA Ako din Ang nag turo sa kanya homeschooling In grade school🙏 kaya nyo Yan Shan and woo Basta huwag Lang kayong mag aaway you can do it 🤗
I’m sorry, but I had no help when I had my first baby. I was on maternity leave from work for three months. I cooked, cleaned, did the laundry and took care of the baby. And when I went back to work I still did it all. You just need to do as much as you can while baby is sleeping. It will get better as he gets older. Hang in there.
Hanggat d pa kyo nkka uwi sa Leyte kuha muna kyo nang partime job,3 or 4 hours a day para maykatulong kyo sa paglinis,luto,and wash all your clothes,so that you can have a peaceful and less stressful everyday ,God bless to both of you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I like shanta's perspective about "yaya" which is for taking care of the baby kasi kung ako rin I would get someone who'd clean and cook but I won't entrust my baby with anybody else 💕 tsaka it's still the best to cherish intimate moment of parents and the baby💕
Ok po ung sinabi ni mommy shanta.. Mas kelangan kumuha kau ng helper para at least may katuwang kau sa cleaning and cooking.. So at least makapag focus po kau kay baby Nitro.. Much better if makakuha kau ng leave out helper.. She comes in the morning then uwi na ng evening since wala kaung space for privacy.. 😊😊😊
Time management lang po yan mommy & daddy. Kc ako nga po na single mom nakayanan ko pagsabayin ang work ko then ang pag-alaga sa baby ko. Kahit wala masyadong tulog go padin sa work.
it can help actually.. to have someone to help you out guys.. BUT u have to move place 1st because kung stay in where she will stay? if leave out hirap din kasi walang privacy sa space ng place nio guys.. so for now PATIENCE is a VIRTUE
Just subscribed to your Channel. I'm a new parent as well. Sobrang hirap po, walang tulog walang pahinga. Pero worth it po lahat. My Baby just turned 6 months, sobrang daming nagbago nakakapanood nako ng videos nyo. Hahaha. Tiis tiis lang po talaga. Kay Shanta, palatch ka lang po ng palatch. Mahirap po pag may yaya. Mas okay po kayo mismo mag alaga sa kanya, lalo na po sa panahon ngayon. 😊
magschedule nalang kayo ni ms. shanta na ikaw gantong oras tapos eto naman akin. kumbaga, magsplit kayo ng oras. wag niyong alagaan si nitro ng sabay. mag-schedule nalang kayong dalawa. it's so hard to get nannies rn bc trust issues etc. tsaka ask kayong advice sa mga nanay niyo kung ano gagawin para may idea kayong pareho.
For now, i suggest you cook once a week for the whole week. Freeze or ref the ulam. You will only have to clean the kitchen that day. Its so much better than doing it everyday. We have no yaya and helper right now. Thats what we do. Then weekends food delivery. Hope it helps
Very helpful nmn po yung yaya para dn mabigyan nyo ng malaking oras si baby or yung gusto nyo gawin pero mahirap dn nmn kukuha ng yaya pag matagal na kayong nagsasama dahil magloloko nayan,at na victim po kami noon,ADVICE KO LNG PO YAN HA HIHI ,GOD BLESS DWANTA FAM!
Its not bad to get yaya..it will help you a lot..you will have enough time for yourself too..naranasan ko din mgalaga ng ngiisa kong anak..ang hirap maging ina...kaya saludo ako sa maraming anak!!!😁😁
Hi Dwanta Fam! Advise ko lang po pag hawak nyo si baby nitro, maglagay po ng lampin sa shoulder ng nagkakarga for hygiene purposes po. Para may barrier si baby ..💖
Wow! Nice plan to move to Leyte, baka ma spoil si Nitro kay wowa. Hi hi hi. I love that Shanta is sort of a mininmalist. I agree with your two sets of bedsheets. Keep life simple and you will be more relaxed as you raise baby Nitro. God bless Shanta as you pursue teaching piano at the same time raising Nitro.
A hjelper pero much better ang mama ni shanta makatuwang nya or tyaga konti kakayanin nyo yan magagamay nyo rin yan SOON every parents go through it👌☺️
Just a thought what if you move out to a new apartment habang asa manila kayo.. apartment like 2 bedrooms ung malaki laki makakamove kayo and mapapaarawan ng okay si nitro and andcmakakuha kayo ng helper. So you can both rest. Goodluck dwanta fam! God bless ❤
Hi Dwanta fam wagna kayo kukuha ng yaya para ky nitro enjoy nyo nalang every single moment with your baby nitro every puyatan its a good memory being a parents😘👍 god bless
Konti nalang talaga loka-loka na ako dati haha! Mag-isa lang ako mag alaga kay baby. Pero nung nag 3 months si baby napansin ko nabawasan ang pag iyak nya. Kaya nyo yan! tiis-tiis lang konti pa.
Someone who can do the chores (cooking, cleaning) and relyebo in watching the baby so the mom can shower, rest and just have some time to herself (feel like a person again haha) will really make a huge difference in the quality of your life and your relationship din. Kaya consider having someone during the day if available yan dyan.
Helper po iba pa rin po ang tender loving care ng mga magulang 😊❤️Pero kayang-kaya nyo po yan mag-asawa. Tita po namin Triplets ang mga anak nasa Saudi, pero nakayanan po nilang mag-asawa parehas din po sila may work 😃 God bless Dwantro Fam 😊
Hi Dwaine and Shanta! Pwede naman kayo kumuha ng helper na stay-out para magluto and maglinis ng bahay. Mostly mga client ko Filipino-Chinese ganyan ginagawa nila Stay-out helper, depende sa inyo kung gusto nyo everyday pupunta,once, twice or thrice a week...that way, my privacy pa rin kayo at malaking tulong na may kasama kayo sa bahay...make sure someone trusted or referral ang kukunin nyo...Ingats and God bless
for me po helper... medyo mhirap lng now kz adjust p lng din s outside world si baby..pero time flies so fast.. msrap n ikaw ang mkkkita at mkk experience ng mga lahat ng developement ni baby..
Mga 6 months old, calmer na yan si baby. For now house help is ok. However may covid, you have to make sure kapag stay out may rules upon arrival sa place nyo etc.
Yes Try nyo muna mag kuha ng Yaya malaking tulong para sa inyo pero e check nyo ng mabuti kasi di naman lahat kasama pero make it sure namaasahan Dwantro God bless u all.
Ako po full-time mom. Lagi po ako puyat. Wala po ako katulong. Ako lang po mag-isa magtaguyod sa anak ko. Time management po at plan ahead po ang solusyon. Mahirap po talaga sa Una. Wag nyo po sanayin sa karga si baby. Lagay niyo po sa kuna or sa duyan. Time management po ang solusyon
Hello po. Siguro magkuha kayo ng helper kahit during weekends lang po. Like rest day nyong dalawa kumbaga. It would still be best kasi if you have so much time with the baby, get to adjust with the new situation cause eventually in 3 months time, the baby’s biological clock will change po.
Ano sa tingin nyo guys... Yaya, helper o wag na at bakit?
yaya
Helper para naa mu kaabag sa balay labi na mag limpyo sa balay 😃
Yaya po😊 ako nalang magalaga 😂
yaya po
Yaya na Lang po. Pwede Po Ang mama ko . Matutulungan niya Po Kayo sa lahat Ng Gawain bahay .
You can hire part time to clean to cook to wash then she don’t need to stay in your home since you have limited space. This is what we are doing abroad we pay per hour.
Delikado ang part time, labas pasok sa bahay mo lalo pa ngayon na may COVID Virus.
Dapat mag take turns sila. Pagtulog ung isa gising nman ang isa. Nsa diskarte lang yan
I agree with her. Dapat kilala nyo at mapagkakatiwalaan at malapit lng jan para di delikado sa covid 19. Basta pagdating jan sa condo wash hands sya if possible magpalit ng damit para sure to protect everyone.
No need for neither, you can both manage, it's just a matter of adjustment, sooner or later you"ll get by. Save the salary for helper to your baby"s essentials instead.
I agree :) it is normal for them to struggle, but ofcourse its their decision hehhehe
No need to have helper or yaya..mkapag adjust din kayo later. Never mind if the house is messy. Just focus for the baby. You can do it guys.
Agree...
Pwede all around maid na uwian, all around ibig sabihin pwede cya magyaya at pwede din cya maglinis o luto, uwian meaning punta cya ng 7am tapos uwi cya ng 5pm or after ng chores nya, di matutulog dyan sanyo. Pwede daily o pwede 3x a week. U can hire thru agency or by advertising. Suggestion ko lng naman :) Or pwedeng ring hindi nlang, kunting tiis pa coz u will eventually get use to the situation in the long run.
No, when your thinking of having babies there’s good and bad consequences. You made a choice to have a baby and then thinking for a third party to help out ‘yaya’. What is the point of having one when you can or can’t handle the situation. The best option is go to your parents and help this kid bond with his grandparents. It’s good that your giving someone a job but it’s also good that from the beginning of your kidgrowing up you both have the chance to get involved of him emotionally physically and mentally. Not all goes well to plan but when you guys grow older you will missed and remember everything why this kid was born ❤️ love from Australia
I agree. Kung uuwi lng naman kayo sa Leyte, you wouldn't need a yaya and it's indeed a matter of adjusting to you new routine.
It's okay to hire a helper to lessen the chores that you are doing and it allows you to have time for bebe Nitro. Stay healthy and patient Mommy Shanta and Daddy Dwaine
I think his being clingy has something to do with him spending a long time at the hospital after he was born. I was also like that. My mom said I was premature so I had to stay in the hospital for almost a month. When they brought me home, I keep crying whenever they put me down and I just wanted to be held. It became a bit of a trauma. So just hold him constantly, kuya Dwayne. I think he still needs assurance that he’s no longer alone, and that you are near him now. You can go through this. Fighting! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Just get only a helper lang po, mother still the BEST to look after the baby specially at that age, just suggesting po, 😄
Ung house nyo po pwede naman po lagyan ng detachable/folding divider sa part ng bed nyo po, para at least may a bit privacy po kau, habang hindi pa kau nkakalipat, para hindi po agad kitang-kita ang bed pagpasok pa lng ng pintuan hehe..
Laban lng Dady Dwaine ganyn tlaga Ang buhay , I'm so proud of you mommy Shanta ayaw mo ipaalaga SA iba si Baby Nitro ... Ganyan Kasi Ang buhay ng isang Nanay .. ❤️🙇👨👩👦👪👨👩👧👨👨👦
you are so blessed to have shanta as your wife. She is so responsible & very hands on sa baby unlike other new mother that they depend on yaya or other people to take care of their child. Salute to mommy shanta 😊❤️
it's really hard to trust someone easily, but still an extra help would be beneficial to you both.
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You really need help especially first time parents. Our mother (bless her heart) came & helped me with 3 of our newborns. It really made a difference.
You should think of moving in a normal house if you want house help. You need your privacy.
Kuha na lng po muna kayo ng apartment na within metro manila lng para d kayo ma quarantine for 14 days, kahit maliit lng basta may room kayo for your own privacy, then saka kayo kukuha ng helper, para d nman kayo puyat, pagod, at na iistress, i feel you guys kc mahirap tlaga ang may new born baby, tpos ang work nyo na vvlog.. (suggestion lng😊)..God Bless your Family..🙏🙏🙏
Mahirap sa umpisa pero worth it. Kasi di nio na maibabalik yung time na maliit siya. Time manage is needed and alternate kayo ni Shanta sa pag aalaga kay baby Nitro, para nakaka pag energize yung isa while the other is looking after Baby Nitro. I recommend to just get a cleaner once or twice a week so you can keep the house tidy and cook one dish every day.
I'am always watching. God Bless po. and Hello Baby Nitro.
Definitely need a Yaya when you want time out together on date nights and easy to go shopping without bringing 👶 Nitro (sometimes better too now a days just to keep him safely at home) Yayas are the best.
Kuha kayo helper. So pwede kayo magfocus kay baby nitro
Gustong gusto ko talga to si Shanta, real talk. Totoong tao. Hindi plastik. Hahaha. Natutuwa akong manuod ng videos niyo kasi nagkakaroon ako ng idea kung anu mangyayari sa amin bilang 1st time parents din since manganganak na ko this July. We're expecting a baby girl. ❤❤❤ sana makayanan din namin na walang yaya or support sa relatives. Ang hirap talaga ngayong may Covid. Nakaka stress.
Better na wag na lang kayo kuha, it is not always easy lalo na first time parents kayo pero trust me, everything will be worth it. Iisa pa lang si baby kayang kaya nyo yan, sa una lang pero masasanay din kayo. Just an inspiration para senyo. I am married to a Canadian, I can’t truly do it alone without the help ni hubby pero kinaya namin. We have ages 4, 3, 2 and currently pregnant sa 4th baby namin( 16 weeks). If we did it, for sure mas makakaya nyo, you can always do it. God bless!
i think it is good to move to a bigger/spacious place before getting a yaya or helper so you’ll have more privacy at home.
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Shanta is right, you just need someone to help with the house hold chores.
She wants to enjoy taking care of her baby like most moms do, they’re babies only once.
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division of labor at time management naging sangkap namin mag asawa nung nagkababy kami .. mas maganda kc kau dalawa hands on lalo na first baby nyo c Baby Nitro .. I agree with Mommy Shanta " Hindi !" hehe... kaya nyo yan sa umpisa lng naman esp first time parents kau .. sacrifice lng ... loveyou both ang baby Nitro 🤗🤗🤗🍼🍼🍼
If they can afford to get a helper or yaya, why not? Nothing wrong in getting help. It doesn't mean they are lazy.
They are still adjusting, hello! New parents! Dumaan din kayo sa ganyan and for sure you felt the same way. A complete change in what you were used to. Just because something has worked for you, it does not mean that it will work for everyone else.
They have to take care of their mental wellness, too, apart from taking care of baby Nitro.
Ayan, nag labasan na po ang mga magagaling at expert sa parenting.
Love you shanta, dwaine, and baby Nitro. 🥰🥰🥰
I'm early todayyyy yayyyy. Anyway I'm using my Papa's account. Nitro's gettin cuter each day, pwera usog.
Pwede po mag apply ng helper😀
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Not at this time of pandemic. You need to protect the child. How will you do the social distancing.
Mas maganda pa rin tayo ang mag aalaga sa kanila. Masasanay din kayo guys. Ganon talaga pag may baby na. Mahirap matulog nang mahimbing at Gigising pa nang maaga. Magluluto mag lilinis pa. Multi tasking lng tayo. KAYANG KAYAN YAN!☺️
got 2 kids here but malalaki na (7 and 10 yrs old.) No Helper talaga 😁😘.tke care
Helper na lang po kunin nyo, para taga linis, luto, laba tapos kayo po focus sa baby pag tulog po si baby sabayan nyo kahit ilang oras lang sya matulog kahit papano may energy din po kayo. Pwede din po mag electric pump na lang si ate shanta may plastick storage naman po para yung mga left over dun ilalagay and then sa fredge ilagay. Para po kahit papano makapag pahinga si ate shanta makatulog ng maayos mas mahirap po mabinat . Advice lang po im teenager mom 🤗
Stay out helper the whole day just to cook and to clean your house. Wash clothes.just advice if you can't do everything
Tama ka Shanta' ganyan tlga ung Mom' khit puyat na puyat' tiyaga kparin alagaan ang anak mo' ang sarap ng maging ina' lalo na so healthy n so cutie your baby" blessing cya sa inyo' nagbibigay ng say a at katuwaan ang magkaroon ng baby sa buhay natin... Tiyaga lng tlaga sa pag aalaga...
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Yaya lang po kukunin nyo yung stay out para mkapahinga kayo yung my edad konti ang kunin nyo
Just to share po ..18years old po ako nung first baby ko..at ako po lahat gumagawa ng gawain sa bahay ..pero nkayanan ko nmn .so makakayanan nyo po yan ..godbless po sa inyo..
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Hi pa hug din naman Po and will subscribe din sa inyo 💕🙏🏻
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I'm willing to help you guys I'm work nine years with Christian family but I Ned to process my papers but is closed us embassy I can extra while waiting I'm here at manila. Because I want Shanta sleep well Kawawa.
Adjustment period lang yan. You dont need yaya or helper po, lalo na po kung pareho kayong nasa bahay lang. Shanta sa baby, daddy sa house focus. Isipin niyo po karamihan may full time work outside sa house kinaya at kinakaya naman. You're house is not that big, sobrang dali linisin, cooking only takes 30 mins while washing clothes.
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You can do that guys! Me and my husband are both working. I am WFH and my husband is working outside. It's about time management. Pag tulog si baby sasabayan ko lang kahit 1 hour then back to house chores. I'm trusting no one that's why we decided not to get yaya/helper. I enjoyed our me and baby time because time flies fast.
Suggestion ko lng guys pwdi naman kayo kumuha ng helper pero yung uwian lng sya kumbaga sa araw gang dependi kung until what time nyo sya gusto jan magstay pero uuwi lng sya sa gabe,para lng sa araw my maglinis or magluluto para sainyo diba🙂 suggestions ko lng po yun,Godbless and keepsafe❤
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Hello DWANTRO FAM! I love you...I will appreciate if you will include me in your videos for shoutouts..Taga subaybay here since FEB 2019! More videos for filipinos!
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Kaya nyo yan👍🏼🙏🥰... Mabilis tumatakbo ang araw.... temporary lang ang pagka maiyakin sa baby.... Dumating din ang araw na tulog lang ng tulog sa gabi .... Para sa akin tama ang sabi ni shantal na mas mabuti yong may privacy.... Mahirap kumuha ng katulong na may love and sacrifice din sa kanyang trabaho.... Just embrace the moment, hold on your love and prayers ❤️😍🥰. God bless. Happy blessed Sunday 🙏😇
Mas ma ganda pag hands on ka sa pagpapalaki nang anak mo, kung wala ka lang rin namang trabaho..
Ganyan talaga yan pag first baby mo.. Mahirap pero pag a cuddle muna bb mo,ma wa wala lahat nang pavod mo.. Worth it talaga.. 👌👍💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
#dwantrofam..
For me is wag na both yaya at helper..just enjoy ur parenting with bebe nitro kz time will come mamimiss nyo ung moment n yn pg malaki na..kaya nyo yn guys aqo nga noon solo lng nkayanan qo eh😅tsaka s pnahon ngaun mas maigi n totok kau at hands on ky bebe nitro pra mas feel nyo pgiging parent habang lumalaki xia..nkakaproud kya s feeling😍
Shanta has a point. Privacy is important and the space is small. She’s really a mother material bec she would prefer to take care of Nitro herself. Hope you can be in your home town soon. There’s no place like home ika nga. Wish I can have the chance to meet ur awesome family in Leyte. Just a fan from Tacloban here. Maupay nga adlaw ha iyo ❤️
Good day! Suggestion lang po why dont' you look for cleaning services or helper na stay out. Like mapunta lang sya to clean, do the laundry,cook the food then after mauwi na sya. Make sure lang na properly protected kayo at covid free sya.
May-ada katabang makuri kutob wala kamo privacy, kung matulog kamo. At kung magluto , maglimpyo, at magglaba ang katabang no create saba. Korek ka Shanta, it is a big responsibility for the mother to take care her own child, this why God give you a bb Nitro. To guide and to teach a proper Filipino values in a christian life.
Just be patient. In the next month mawawala din yang pagkaiyakin ni baby. Always talk to your baby. Tell him you love him. He needs comfort and assurance of love. Then mild music may also help.
Helper 75% cum yaya 25%. Support only for few months. Temporary lng nman eh. Pasok sa morning, uwi sa gabi. Para makatulog lng kayo. You need rest.. don’t give the full responsibility sa yaya..
You need this. That’s why sometimes, humihingi ng tulong mga new parents sa parents din nila in pansamantala.
Kaya niyo po iyan mommy and daddy! 😊 Im a first time parent as well and solo parent also. Just for a month ang struggle ng puyat pero after that makakaadjust na unti unti😊 Mahirap po talaga maging parents but its a good experience😊
Pwede kayo kumuha ng day cleaner lang, yung mag ggeneral cleaning sa bahay nyo lang. Mas tipid and efficient. Mababantayan nyo rin habang naglilinis👍 Or pwede na Mommy ni Shanta ang magvisit sa inyo para maghelp sa pag-alaga kay Baby Nitro 😊
Hello po. I suggest you hire a private nurse during night shift, for example from 8pm to 8am (or watever time you prefer) just to watch over baby Nitro. So that you both could have a good rest all night long. Then during the day you both take good care him. 😊
Wowwwww.. didn’t know that piano master pala si Shanta. Kakamangha. Tapos polyglot naman si Dwayne. Nitro will be super smart from his parents genes..🙌😍
The best thing is to have a helper who can do the household chores who would go to the condo daily like an 8-5 job. 😊 It would help you concentrate on Nitro and do other things na. 🥰 God bless this family. Love love.
Good job Dwanta... tahimik na baby Nitro... remember body heat lang needed ni Baby.
pag usapan nyo na lang kung paano kayo mag palitan ng mga gawaing bahay at alaga sa bata. pag sabay kayo mag alaga at gawaing bahay same kayo mapagod. mag-salitan kayo ng mga komportableng oras na pahinga at alaga sa bata at gawaing bahay. ex. kung sino mas matibay sa puyatan sya alaga sa gabi, yong di sanay sa puyat sya alaga sa umaga. tas mag palit din paminsan minsan yung taga bantay sa gabi para makatulog din sya ng mahimbing sa gabi. kaya nyo yan kahit walang katulong mas madami pa kayong madidiskobre na kaya nyo pala kung kayo lng. mga ilang bwan lng hahaba na din tulog ni baby dipende din kasi sa bata may mga bata na 6 to 8 months mahaban na tulog pero may iba na umaabot ng 1yr bago humaba tulog. basta magkaroon kayo ng schedule ng pahinga ninyo na di sabay para di sabay na pagod. pag nalagpasan nyo yan sa 2nd baby nyo expert na kayo. madami na nga kayong alam sa pag alaga sa baby na di nyo alam dati di ba? mas madagdagan pa yan tas ma ishare nyo na din sa ibang mga soon to be na magulang 😊
nice answer shanta.... helper lng kunin nio pansamantala... mhirap kc mgtiwala now jusme super nkakatakot... kmi ganyan din nung ngk baby kmi... pro nkayanan nman nmin ng walang yaya o katulong... tiis tiis lng guys.
Neither. This stage of life is temporary. Work it out plus embrace this stage in your lives. You'll go back one day and say to each other "We did it". If others managed why can't you? Its life. We did it as young new parents with no help. I cried a lot for being tired but all worth it. Just hang in there and save the money for something you'll need for Nitro in the future.
I'm an Archt by profession pero Wala akong Yaya hanggang lumaki anak ko Wala Rin akong helper I do all the work meron pa akong kasama dalawang senior my mom and Dad my hubby is working ..it's just prioritizing everything
At sa bago Lang Yan Pag laki Ng baby magaang na syang alagaan .. watch nyo Ang vvlog ni jennica uytingco marami kayong ma222nan madalas kasi akala nyo okay Pag may Yaya pero Hindi Rin maganda mawawalan kayong mag asawa Ng privacy 🤗 oh by the way my daughter Now is 21 yrs old and she's working
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Ako din Ang nag turo sa kanya homeschooling
In grade school🙏 kaya nyo Yan Shan and woo
Basta huwag Lang kayong mag aaway you can do it
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Agree Po, either Yaya or helper as much as Possible because may katulong na kyo nattulong😇🥰
I’m sorry, but I had no help when I had my first baby. I was on maternity leave from work for three months. I cooked, cleaned, did the laundry and took care of the baby. And when I went back to work I still did it all. You just need to do as much as you can while baby is sleeping. It will get better as he gets older. Hang in there.
Parent’s care is the best for our child. Goodluck sa pag aalaga kay baby.
Hanggat d pa kyo nkka uwi sa Leyte kuha muna kyo nang partime job,3 or 4 hours a day para maykatulong kyo sa paglinis,luto,and wash all your clothes,so that you can have a peaceful and less stressful everyday ,God bless to both of you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I like shanta's perspective about "yaya" which is for taking care of the baby kasi kung ako rin I would get someone who'd clean and cook but I won't entrust my baby with anybody else 💕
tsaka it's still the best to cherish intimate moment of parents and the baby💕
Ok po ung sinabi ni mommy shanta.. Mas kelangan kumuha kau ng helper para at least may katuwang kau sa cleaning and cooking.. So at least makapag focus po kau kay baby Nitro.. Much better if makakuha kau ng leave out helper.. She comes in the morning then uwi na ng evening since wala kaung space for privacy.. 😊😊😊
Time management lang po yan mommy & daddy. Kc ako nga po na single mom nakayanan ko pagsabayin ang work ko then ang pag-alaga sa baby ko. Kahit wala masyadong tulog go padin sa work.
it can help actually.. to have someone to help you out guys.. BUT u have to move place 1st because kung stay in where she will stay? if leave out hirap din kasi walang privacy sa space ng place nio guys.. so for now PATIENCE is a VIRTUE
Just subscribed to your Channel. I'm a new parent as well. Sobrang hirap po, walang tulog walang pahinga. Pero worth it po lahat. My Baby just turned 6 months, sobrang daming nagbago nakakapanood nako ng videos nyo. Hahaha. Tiis tiis lang po talaga. Kay Shanta, palatch ka lang po ng palatch.
Mahirap po pag may yaya. Mas okay po kayo mismo mag alaga sa kanya, lalo na po sa panahon ngayon. 😊
magschedule nalang kayo ni ms. shanta na ikaw gantong oras tapos eto naman akin. kumbaga, magsplit kayo ng oras. wag niyong alagaan si nitro ng sabay. mag-schedule nalang kayong dalawa. it's so hard to get nannies rn bc trust issues etc. tsaka ask kayong advice sa mga nanay niyo kung ano gagawin para may idea kayong pareho.
For now, i suggest you cook once a week for the whole week. Freeze or ref the ulam. You will only have to clean the kitchen that day. Its so much better than doing it everyday. We have no yaya and helper right now. Thats what we do. Then weekends food delivery. Hope it helps
Very helpful nmn po yung yaya para dn mabigyan nyo ng malaking oras si baby or yung gusto nyo gawin pero mahirap dn nmn kukuha ng yaya pag matagal na kayong nagsasama dahil magloloko nayan,at na victim po kami noon,ADVICE KO LNG PO YAN HA HIHI ,GOD BLESS DWANTA FAM!
Its not bad to get yaya..it will help you a lot..you will have enough time for yourself too..naranasan ko din mgalaga ng ngiisa kong anak..ang hirap maging ina...kaya saludo ako sa maraming anak!!!😁😁
Hi Dwanta Fam!
Advise ko lang po pag hawak nyo si baby nitro, maglagay po ng lampin sa shoulder ng nagkakarga for hygiene purposes po.
Para may barrier si baby ..💖
Pinahanga mo ako momi Shanta ng sinabi mo na "ayaw mo ng Yaya kasi gusto mo ikaw ang mag-alaga sa baby mo" 💚 tapusin ko mo na ang video.
Wow! Nice plan to move to Leyte, baka ma spoil si Nitro kay wowa. Hi hi hi. I love that Shanta is sort of a mininmalist. I agree with your two sets of bedsheets. Keep life simple and you will be more relaxed as you raise baby Nitro. God bless Shanta as you pursue teaching piano at the same time raising Nitro.
A hjelper pero much better ang mama ni shanta makatuwang nya or tyaga konti kakayanin nyo yan magagamay nyo rin yan SOON every parents go through it👌☺️
Just a thought what if you move out to a new apartment habang asa manila kayo.. apartment like 2 bedrooms ung malaki laki makakamove kayo and mapapaarawan ng okay si nitro and andcmakakuha kayo ng helper. So you can both rest. Goodluck dwanta fam! God bless ❤
Mabuni yan Plano nyo ganyan talaga chill Lang ang balik nyan ginhawa talaga at Saya na bnigay ng angel NITRO GODBLESS
Hi Dwanta fam wagna kayo kukuha ng yaya para ky nitro enjoy nyo nalang every single moment with your baby nitro every puyatan its a good memory being a parents😘👍 god bless
Konti nalang talaga loka-loka na ako dati haha! Mag-isa lang ako mag alaga kay baby. Pero nung nag 3 months si baby napansin ko nabawasan ang pag iyak nya.
Kaya nyo yan! tiis-tiis lang konti pa.
Ciao, po sa inyo, at sa Bby Nitro ingat kayo parati, God Bless you always and Good Health.
Have patience...a first born child is a blessing you need to bond with...a new parents need more time with their baby.
Hello dwanta ganyan tlga tiis tiis lng sa pag aalaga ni baby nitro makakaraos din kau niyan...god bless guys
Someone who can do the chores (cooking, cleaning) and relyebo in watching the baby so the mom can shower, rest and just have some time to herself (feel like a person again haha) will really make a huge difference in the quality of your life and your relationship din. Kaya consider having someone during the day if available yan dyan.
Cute ni Baby Nitro! 😊 God Bless your family! 😊💕
Helper po iba pa rin po ang tender loving care ng mga magulang 😊❤️Pero kayang-kaya nyo po yan mag-asawa. Tita po namin Triplets ang mga anak nasa Saudi, pero nakayanan po nilang mag-asawa parehas din po sila may work 😃 God bless Dwantro Fam 😊
God bless you both😇
Di bale kahit puyat at pagOd si momi shanta mganda prin😍
Hi Dwaine and Shanta! Pwede naman kayo kumuha ng helper na stay-out para magluto and maglinis ng bahay. Mostly mga client ko Filipino-Chinese ganyan ginagawa nila Stay-out helper, depende sa inyo kung gusto nyo everyday pupunta,once, twice or thrice a week...that way, my privacy pa rin kayo at malaking tulong na may kasama kayo sa bahay...make sure someone trusted or referral ang kukunin nyo...Ingats and God bless
for me po helper... medyo mhirap lng now kz adjust p lng din s outside world si baby..pero time flies so fast.. msrap n ikaw ang mkkkita at mkk experience ng mga lahat ng developement ni baby..
Mga 6 months old, calmer na yan si baby. For now house help is ok. However may covid, you have to make sure kapag stay out may rules upon arrival sa place nyo etc.
Yes Try nyo muna mag kuha ng Yaya malaking tulong para sa inyo pero e check nyo ng mabuti kasi di naman lahat kasama pero make it sure namaasahan Dwantro God bless u all.
Watching here in Canada, good job and good mother you are Shanta, for being honest and devoted person, especially for your Family,Bless you!!
Ako po full-time mom. Lagi po ako puyat. Wala po ako katulong. Ako lang po mag-isa magtaguyod sa anak ko. Time management po at plan ahead po ang solusyon. Mahirap po talaga sa Una. Wag nyo po sanayin sa karga si baby. Lagay niyo po sa kuna or sa duyan.
Time management po ang solusyon
Hello po. Siguro magkuha kayo ng helper kahit during weekends lang po. Like rest day nyong dalawa kumbaga. It would still be best kasi if you have so much time with the baby, get to adjust with the new situation cause eventually in 3 months time, the baby’s biological clock will change po.