And the woman is so freaking petty she'll whine, lie and bitch over nothing when all this guy wants is be in his baby's life. It's disgusting how she's doing him just because she knows this is the one thing that will completely break his heart.
The last man made me tear up. The absolute joy he got just from seeing her😭🥹🥺 I hope he gets to see his kids all the time. Mother seemed so mad and bitter that he passed. There’s guys out here that don’t gaf about their kids, let alone seeing them and he gets so much joy just from being around his daughter. Petty woman!
My father was an amazing and loving dad. Always made my sister's and I strong mentally, emotionally, ect. Told us he loved us and how proud of us he was everyday. When my dad died from bone cancer, I ended up in an abusive relationship a few months later. My ex husband hid it well and didn't get violent for almost a year and then it was torture and I was trapped. I got away a year later by leaving and going to a domestic violence shelter with my son. From that moment on, I stayed the hell away from him and got a divorce. My point is that it's not necessarily whether or not the daughter has a loving father growing up. Yes, sometimes it's a factor and I know that's how I got my strength to leave but sometimes a woman is trapped. This girl could have left a while before being on this show but she didn't. I agree that she has low to no self esteem but having loving parents isn't always the case. If my father would have been alive when I was with my abusive ex, he would have killed him. I think at the time I was also so broken from losing my father that I was even more vulnerable.
@@taushasonly yes, I'm going to agree, you were vulnerable from the loss of your Father, may he rest in peace. My cousin grew up with her Dad and has been involved with nothing but pretty worthless, non protective scummy guys.
mainly just parents in general need to learn how to raise their kids with values and morales they'll never give up no matter the situation and such but that's just me
I cried for the last man. He truly cares and just went through a rough patch. I'm glad he got clean and gets to see his baby. Her little face cracked me up looking around like "Wuddafuq going on?" 🤣🤣
The likelihood of this woman ending up in the ground is frightening, when partners abuse their spouses the likelihood of that spouse's life-ending which is sad to hear from these women
People want to talk about women empowerment, buy a woman you love a pistol and pay for her to take a firearms class. These piles of garbage are all tough until they're on the ground with four .38 caliber slugs in their pelvis.
@@lucyw.7597 I can only speak to how my kids are raised. I don't have a lot of faith in other parents. I won't, however, raise my daughter to expect men to treat her badly.
" I don't jump from man to man, I stay and try and give it my all " *Give your all to someone that gives their all back, you don't stay and give loyalty and strength to a man who doesn't give it too you also 100%* Staying with him is putting her feelings before her child's
@@caylajohnson8825 I’m sorry to hear youre going through something. My thoughts are with you right now. Don’t put your light out trying to keep someone else’s alight, especially with children, they see more than we know. We where once kids, we know they hear and see the light we put out, let it be great, Just as you are! 🌟
Wrong. There are people who deserve to be beat imo. Child molesters, hardcore pedophiles etc. But that’s a different scenario. But no innocent man or woman deserves the absolutely torture & anguish & violence he puts her though.
@@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083 if the relationship is so toxic that people are hitting each other and always arguing-GET OUT. Why stay? No law is making a person stay in such toxicity. And we are saying no one deserves it man or woman but if you are hitting one another -that’s not love. Let go of the “love hurts “ concept ( speaking in general)
I have NEVER heard the crowd clap so loud to get someone off the stage!! Steve see's right through his crap, yet this silly woman tries to stand by him. What a fool!! If she can't see it's abuse to her child putting up with his actions she doesn't deserve to be a parent. GOD HELP THIS CHILD
Am I the only That thinks Steve’s wife is one lucky woman!!! She got sooo lucky to be blessed with such an amazing man!!! I love How he always looks her way!!!
I think 🤔 he misses his children.. HOWEVER he does act a little SLOW... Perhaps he has something wrong, mentally??. MERRY CHRISTMAS to EVERYONE 🥧❤️🥰🙃🤗🙏😊🎄⛄🎄⛄🎄⛄🙏🙏⛄🎄🙏🙏 love And God bless Everyone, grandma Victoria 🙏🤗🙃🙏😊🙏
You know who else believes in second changes? The women in the first case. And she is insane. Most of the times is better to let go than to stay and fool around believing that someone won't stumble trying to make right.
@@ezratehzib2168 I agree, however it wouldn't be classed as a 'second chance' in any of the abused women cases (on this episode), it would be more like 100th+ chance. I could maybe accept it being a second chance if someone (not just a man, any gender) hit their partner/spouse once and then regretting it and never doing it again - that would be my definition of a second chance (one minor incident and a whole lot of apologising and self-reflection).
The second woman was PISSED when he passed both tests. Clearly hoping he'd fail so her absence was justified. I'm not condoning drugs or violence on/around kids, but her vibe is sus 😒
I agree, something about that lady is sus. Yes the drug use is bad but she made this man out to be a true monster. She looked so disgusted with him and I think it's because she doesn't love him and wanted to make an excuse for taking his daughter away. I wouldn't be surprised if she continued to disappear like that after the show.
Yea frfr did you see her mad stare at him I would see she really had hate for him but at the end she did look that mad anymore after he started to breakdown after seeing his daughter
He gives me bad vibes. I think more went on in his drunk drugged haze. Some of her behavior might be because she was not a hundred percent clean. He likely doesn't remember the extent of his behavior if he got that bad. Consider this scenario.... Not many straight people Re drugs/alcohol get together with druggies and drunks. So lets assume she probably was also getting high as a kite and drunk as a skunk.... But realized things are getting out of hand. She goes straight but he doesn't. Abuse gets worse. Good chance he wouldn't even know he did half that shit while off with the fairies. She might not want to tell the entire story because then people would be looking at her also. I believe what she was saying i just believe she has trapped herself into not being able to say everything.
What scares me about the first relationship, one may not end up alive, and their poor beautiful sweet child with his brain developing, and hearing how they fight, the sounds, all, this is disturbing on every level, very unhealthy on every level.
It makes me SICK to hear "he can change"; IF he was going to change, it already would've happened. She will realize that he won't change *after* he's already hurt her so bad the damage lasts permanently. Nobody needs to put up with that shit, no man is worth that.
If a man hits you right off the bat in the relationship and gets away with it for 3 years, why would he change now? He won't. She needs to move on to someone who treats her and her child beautifully..
Is it gonna take being found dead to leave an abusive boyfriend/fiancé/husband? Watch a movie like The Invisible Man. I LOVED it when Elizabeth Moss’s character in that film leaves her abusive husband while he was sleeping.
I don't get it. She was with him for one month and got beat down by this fool and three years later, still together. She can't say that she was in love with him already. Why would you plan to have a baby with this guy? Bad choice after bad choice. She stays home and he is out and about sleeping around. I can't say that I feel sorry for her. They both need to keep their hands to themselves, but they will not.
My husband of over 25 years was a functioning Crack addict when we married. To make a long story short, He's been clean and sober for 17 years and is the most loving, caring, devoted husband and father u could ever imagine. I've been retired for 13 years now and was able to be a round the clock mom to our 2 children. People can and do change. I wish him the best and hopes he stays clean so that he can be in his children's lives.
it is truly heartbreaking seeing a “man” hit a women. if you hit your girl you will never be a man. he’s a lowlife and she deserves so much better than him.
If a man hits woman's without provocation he needs to be put down. Let me be clear about that, but...If woman want to act like men, they better be prepared to be treated like one...Woman hits me, I hit back.
@@jeanmariebuzan8851 and it doesn't even stop there. Not only will the man go to jail if he hits back but if he sits there and takes it and gets beaten on by his woman all the time and people find out they'll laugh at him and make fun of him whereas if a woman is being beaten by her husband or whatever society takes their side 98% of the time. No matter what in a domestic abuse situation the man is either a joke or the bad guy
I know the lady gets away with it and the man is called name's and it isn't far.But I tell y'all I have seen these lady's Walk up to A man and pouch him in the face and go to jail...And they blamed it on the guy .But I myself believe that like with everything that guy should be able to hit her back ..But some of these lady's fight like A man.And just as mean.
Wow. She is so beautiful. She seems to have low self-esteem but a good heart. He seems to be a very very sick individual and a narcissist and bully and woman beater. I pray she leaves him and gets out safely. People that hurt you don't love you. He doesn't even love his self. He has the devil and demons in him.
The first couple isn’t breaking up. They’re hitting each other and she’s saying she’s going to stick beside him. Why they even came on the show in the first place is beyond me honestly.
The last guy...I could not imagine not being able to see my daughter. I bet that woman has made her daddy out to be an absolute monster to his daughter.
Five words that make me flinch, I know he can change. Right out of the gate if you're with someone because you think you can change them you're with the wrong person. Being a relationship people do change over time, but if you set out to change that person from the go then you're not in love with that person. You're in love with who you think that person could be and that's always bad. Because most people are not going to drastically change. There are exceptions to the rule but they are few and far between. And this woman is in love with who she thinks this man can be, not the reality of who he is. My grandma gave me a great piece of advice when I was a kid about bullies. She said if you fight back they back down. Because a bully is all about the power, and you have to take that away. There's nothing in this man that's redeemable at this point. And she is not the person to fix him. He's got to choose to fix himself nothing will ever change. And one day he's going to go after one of those kids hard and she's going to find herself in the position of killing him to protect her child.
I agree, she is in love with what she thinks he could be. She is in love with a fantasy, a mirage, not his real self. I think she could end up dead or one of her children may end up dead, but I doubt she would ever kill him to protect her children. I think she already chose him before her children and she would do that again in a heartbeat. Those types of women always chose the man before the child.
This woman is so broken down. I look at pathetic young me and see myself in her . She’s gonna watch this footage 10 years from now when she’s gotten herself back and be like “damn”. Cause when you’re that low, people can be screaming in your face how bad of a situation you are in and you still don’t see it. “Love conquers all” “he’ll change” the biggest lies women tell ourselves .
@@iamthegoat2359 yahh it’s deff a throwback Lmao omg I just realized “way back Wilkos” the name! I wonder too. Moving on with better relationships* after sh*t like that is hard 😩
He can change, but he needs tp want to change. Love does conquer all, but it has to be mutual love, not onesided love. She can keep loving him, but from a distance. He clearly does not love her at all. He is cheating on her. They should really end this toxic relationship that is not even a marriage. She should never have gotten involved with such a man and have a child out of wedlock with him. Big mistake and now she is paying the consequences.
I’ve missed a lot of Steve Wilkos over the years . I always say if there’s one thing I hate about relationships is the abusiveness I just can’t stand that shit .
That last one really hurt my heart 😭 you can tell the mother was just being bitter, he truly loves his child and wants to be there for her. It’s sad how parents will use their kids as pawns or act like the other parent is this horrible person just because they didn’t work out. If they are a good father/mother then there is no reason to keep a child away ❤
She IS bitter. Her perception is he is an abusive crackhead. To me he is a douchebag who has cleaned up his act. Supervised visitations are appropriate. I don’t blame her for wanting nothing to do with him but he does deserve some visitation. He is totally wrong to spank a child that young. He needs parenting classes and a court order for no corporal punishment.
I really hate the way the first woman talked about herself being a real woman. She believes that staying loyal is what she needs to do because of love. We need to instill in all boys and girls that at the first sign of violence it's over. You leave and love will not save you. And cheating? Honey that is the least of your problems when your so called love of your life is beating you to the point of not being able to move! Makes me so steamed!!!
That first lady so beautiful. I hate how people have to feel they need someone like that. Woman or man🥺 especially when having kids, that don't pick up the que hey he/she might do this to my kid. Or their kid grows up thinking this is how I treat people I love or this is who people love
On a better note, the second half of this episode was A1, chefs kiss AWESOME. Gorgeous little baby and hopefully now a great father, as he seems like he genuinely wants to stay changed.
She is giving every excuse in the book: "He isn't always like that....," "He's good to me.....," "I love him.....," "It's not always this bad....." If he hasn't killed her or her child isn't dead or he isn't in prison right NOW, I'll be shocked.
"As a female in love it's hard to just break loose like that.." Wtf... It's going to be hard for your kids to break loose from them watching you be buried six feet under from one of these fights your having.. Your not immortal sis.. If you won't do it for yourself then do it for them innocent children..
She needs her child removed if she stays with him and continues to expose the child to domestic abuse. Abuse comes in many forms and has nothing to do with love. It's about control and the abuser's own fears and self-loathing. The mother mentioned being physically violent also, so this poor child needs peace and stability.
The second story, the mother seemed heartless and emotionless. I really think the man has issues also, may be from previous drug use but may not be. I felt bad for him. I knew he was going to pass even before the results came in. I hope he gets to see his daughter and that the girls mother backs off and stops hanging threats of lies over his head.
His issues are most likely from him not having a father himself. He looks over worked. He looks to me like he has Tried everything to provide and make it work for The kids.
I been thru this before from age 17 to 27 I feel compassion for that girl cus sometimes you can't help who u love it's fucked up but eventually it's gets old nd she'll leave
There can be no salvaging ANYTHING from this shattered relationship. It's already gone too far downhill to be saved at this point. It was ill fated from the beginning. It was already over BEFORE it even started.
I NEVER EVER LEAVE A THUMBS 👍 UP OR LIKE.... BUT THIS TIME I DID CAUSE IT WAS SO CLOSE TO HOME. I ALSO WAS IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT, AND I ALSO PICKED MYSELF BACK UP TO BE A MAN. KEEP STRONG FATHERS AND DADS DO IT FOR YOURSELF AND THOSE U LOVE. AIM HIGHER NO MATTER WHAT ANY 1 SAYS .... IF YOUR AIM IS TRUE U WILL PREVAIL. THANKS STEVE FOR RAISING US AND RESETTING OUR AIM. KEEP LIFTING US AND SETTING THINGS RIGHT. U ARE A TRUE HERO BEAUTY MATE. OUTSTANDING.
When she said he's not a bad guy, why is she there on Steve's show??? IHATE when people are asked.... why do you stay with that person??? And they say, I LOVVVVVEEEEEEE EMMMM!!!.... Common, when you're getting a bused, that's the worst reason to stay..... I know that there are people that have no where to go. But the ones that have a place to go...... then gooooo runnnnnnn don't look back.
6 years ago I called the cops bc my ex husband was smoking crack in the bathroom and the police literally took his side and said that it's not illegal to do drugs in your own home. At the time I was 9 months pregnant and the cop told me as he left that if they had to come back again they were taking me in! The crackheads get away with a whole f lot!!! Thank God I was able to get away and get full custody on my kids... And never go on looks ppl he was fine when I met him 5 years before he started doing that but once he started crack he quickly deteriorated!!!! He started looking like a dried up old raisin with big wide eyes ugh so NASTY! SAY NO TO DRUGS KIDS!
I hate how that last woman got off so easy. She lied about him abusing her daughter. Just because she was bitter and mad at him, she tried to cut him out of his daughter's life just so she didn't have to see him. That's pathetic..
Steve saying "I've been to your door a thousand times" ...that's deep. They need to get the hell away from each other. Kids growing up watching and learning this just continuing the cycle.
I don’t understand how women will go on and on about all the bad and abusive things their partners are doing to them with such emphasis to prove how abusive they are and then in the same breath say “but I know they’re a good person and I love them”
I feel sorry for her children because they have no say in their mother who obviously loves misery & negativity. She looks pissed that he passed the LDT!
I was also in an abusive relationship with my kid's father for 7 years. He also hit me when i was holding my babygirl. It doesn't get better. I eventually threw him out. He landed up in state prison for abusing another woman. THEY DON't CHANGE GIRL. U just have low self esteem gurl u can move on.
I feel so bad for those children having a dad who beats their mother and a mother who tolerates being beaten. You know the abuse will extend to the children.
It takes a complete coward, for someone to put their hands on a woman. Calling a women you "love" names & mentally abusing her, is just as bad as someone cheating. Shoulda left the moment he started acting up, before you or your child end up dead.
The first girl is almost asking for it. Not even saying if he doesn't change I'm leaving, she literally saying it doesn't matter what he does she's staying. How do you help someone like that? He a child you can't even talk to.
I have been with my now husband for almost 12 years now he hits me once I'm done I don't care how long we have been together you don't put your hands on people you love
I can imagine a councilor seeing this show then seeing these two get out their car and walk towards his office. I be he or she is gonna lock their doors.
@@jamesdick2580 exactly. I have a younger sister who’s just like this fool. She’s married to a single mother. I hope and pray that she is not controlling her wife.
"I told you i"m a good DA....darn father "... I am thinking straight out a " Leave It To Beaver" episode ...or any show from the 50"s LOL...glad he cleaned up his act.. honestly best recovered addict i have seen...made me giggle ... glad for his life to be going back up hill..
"he's a good person" no honey, a good man protects his family. I hope this lady grows up and puts her baby first. Forget about "I'm in love with him" love yourself and love your children. Protect your children, they rely on you. (first guy)
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the last dude made me cry with the amount of love in his voice and it's just overwhelming
And the woman is so freaking petty she'll whine, lie and bitch over nothing when all this guy wants is be in his baby's life. It's disgusting how she's doing him just because she knows this is the one thing that will completely break his heart.
@@brittany7jeffrey4mhm hmm, there's ways 2 sides to a coin and not everyone deserves to be parents but all kids deserve parents
@@maxforde3740 Are you talking about the man or woman?
@@brittany7jeffrey4 the woman, she's a terrible excuse of a human being, let alone a mother
@@maxforde3740 Thanks! I thought you were but I wanted to make sure it was about her. 😄
The last man made me tear up. The absolute joy he got just from seeing her😭🥹🥺 I hope he gets to see his kids all the time. Mother seemed so mad and bitter that he passed. There’s guys out here that don’t gaf about their kids, let alone seeing them and he gets so much joy just from being around his daughter. Petty woman!
I agree mine ex dont see his kids at all
@@krystleparrott7340 folks don’t realize they can take a present parent for granted
The last girl lied
Agreed she is evil using the baby to destroy him .pure evil
The last time I saw my son 😢 Jayden when he was 3and a half and now he is 13 years old
“ this is your man” “ look at the screen “ will always take me out 😂
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I was looking for this comment lol
"....That's mine...."
...Girl needs to get a grip
Yeah she silly, I'm like why is she here to promote dv because she loves getting beat apparently.
I honestly don't know why she is on the show 😂
This is why good Fathers need to love their daughters, so that their self esteem is strong.
My father was an amazing and loving dad. Always made my sister's and I strong mentally, emotionally, ect. Told us he loved us and how proud of us he was everyday. When my dad died from bone cancer, I ended up in an abusive relationship a few months later. My ex husband hid it well and didn't get violent for almost a year and then it was torture and I was trapped. I got away a year later by leaving and going to a domestic violence shelter with my son. From that moment on, I stayed the hell away from him and got a divorce. My point is that it's not necessarily whether or not the daughter has a loving father growing up. Yes, sometimes it's a factor and I know that's how I got my strength to leave but sometimes a woman is trapped. This girl could have left a while before being on this show but she didn't. I agree that she has low to no self esteem but having loving parents isn't always the case. If my father would have been alive when I was with my abusive ex, he would have killed him. I think at the time I was also so broken from losing my father that I was even more vulnerable.
@@taushasonly yes, I'm going to agree, you were vulnerable from the loss of your Father, may he rest in peace. My cousin grew up with her Dad and has been involved with nothing but pretty worthless, non protective scummy guys.
praise, them, pick their battles and be paitent as well as love them from NZ x
@@taushasonly thank you for sharing your experience with your daddy. Sorry for your loss.
Glad for you that you made it out of that relationship.
mainly just parents in general need to learn how to raise their kids with values and morales they'll never give up no matter the situation and such but that's just me
Wanting to be a loyal woman and having some self-respect are two different things.
I cried for the last man. He truly cares and just went through a rough patch. I'm glad he got clean and gets to see his baby. Her little face cracked me up looking around like "Wuddafuq going on?" 🤣🤣
😢me too
😢me too
The likelihood of this woman ending up in the ground is frightening, when partners abuse their spouses the likelihood of that spouse's life-ending which is sad to hear from these women
Yep and then who's going to take care of that baby ..Come on
I agree...
People want to talk about women empowerment, buy a woman you love a pistol and pay for her to take a firearms class. These piles of garbage are all tough until they're on the ground with four .38 caliber slugs in their pelvis.
@@nimbly1693 or just bring up their sons a bit better in the first place...and bring up their daughters to expect better!
@@lucyw.7597 I can only speak to how my kids are raised. I don't have a lot of faith in other parents. I won't, however, raise my daughter to expect men to treat her badly.
" I don't jump from man to man, I stay and try and give it my all "
*Give your all to someone that gives their all back, you don't stay and give loyalty and strength to a man who doesn't give it too you also 100%*
Staying with him is putting her feelings before her child's
I needed that comment right now. I actually teated up a little bit.
@@caylajohnson8825 I’m sorry to hear youre going through something. My thoughts are with you right now.
Don’t put your light out trying to keep someone else’s alight, especially with children, they see more than we know.
We where once kids, we know they hear and see the light we put out, let it be great, Just as you are! 🌟
How could anyone be abusive to someone they say that they love. It's disheartening seeing people in this situation. No one deserves to be beat.
They don’t love them that’s why. Or they were abused and in their mind that’s love. They know no other way. But this guy is awful.
Wrong. There are people who deserve to be beat imo. Child molesters, hardcore pedophiles etc. But that’s a different scenario. But no innocent man or woman deserves the absolutely torture & anguish & violence he puts her though.
The man shouldn't be abused either.
@@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083 if the relationship is so toxic that people are hitting each other and always arguing-GET OUT. Why stay? No law is making a person stay in such toxicity. And we are saying no one deserves it man or woman but if you are hitting one another -that’s not love. Let go of the “love hurts “ concept ( speaking in general)
Neither one was raised in a normal home……… I’ll lay odds!!
I have NEVER heard the crowd clap so loud to get someone off the stage!! Steve see's right through his crap, yet this silly woman tries to stand by him. What a fool!! If she can't see it's abuse to her child putting up with his actions she doesn't deserve to be a parent. GOD HELP THIS CHILD
CPS will take that baby away from that BS. And don't give that baby back unless she stays away from that shit head
Yes, Melissa! Jesus PLEASE take the wheel!! 🙏🙏
CPS may end up taking the child if she stays with that monster thug. 😪
Steve ain't wanted the action
This POS needs to be taken out of the equation...he is going to kill her.
Am I the only That thinks Steve’s wife is one lucky woman!!! She got sooo lucky to be blessed with such an amazing man!!! I love How he always looks her way!!!
That dude repeats whatever Steve says like a little kid getting an attitude with their parent and they're learning how to speak.
All i could imagine was SpongeBob Chicken
like the worlds most problematic parrot.
Its a deferring tactic... He's doing that yo be able to give himself time to think of an answer!!!
Right 😂 like someone suppose to be scared of him . Boy please lol
I think 🤔 he misses his children.. HOWEVER he does act a little SLOW... Perhaps he has something wrong, mentally??.
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I'm so happy the man was able to see his daughter, it made me cry when I saw his reaction. Ppl make mistakes and I believe in second chances 💯 🥰
You know who else believes in second changes? The women in the first case. And she is insane. Most of the times is better to let go than to stay and fool around believing that someone won't stumble trying to make right.
@@ezratehzib2168 I agree, however it wouldn't be classed as a 'second chance' in any of the abused women cases (on this episode), it would be more like 100th+ chance. I could maybe accept it being a second chance if someone (not just a man, any gender) hit their partner/spouse once and then regretting it and never doing it again - that would be my definition of a second chance (one minor incident and a whole lot of apologising and self-reflection).
The deadliest six words an abused woman can utter when confronted with why they stay with their abuser: 'I love him' and 'he can change'
Thank you.
CAN but WON'T
My husband has never even yelled at me in 16 years... love shouldn't hurt, belittle or frighten.
period!!!
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I yell but it doesn’t mean I’m a bad person
@Idalis Stigall i truly am blessed for sure, with a great man and beautiful children.
I don't believe for one second that he never yelled at u not even one time. Come on. That doesn't make him a bad person.
That thing is out of control. He needs to be locked up. The first guy.
He wasn’t raised right that’s the problem, probably had terrible role models the whole time
@@Jane5720then he decided not t change
The second woman was PISSED when he passed both tests. Clearly hoping he'd fail so her absence was justified. I'm not condoning drugs or violence on/around kids, but her vibe is sus 😒
She's probably been thru more with that guy than any of us could ever know. I just hope it works out for him to prove he wants to be a good dad now.
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I agree, something about that lady is sus. Yes the drug use is bad but she made this man out to be a true monster. She looked so disgusted with him and I think it's because she doesn't love him and wanted to make an excuse for taking his daughter away. I wouldn't be surprised if she continued to disappear like that after the show.
Yea frfr did you see her mad stare at him I would see she really had hate for him but at the end she did look that mad anymore after he started to breakdown after seeing his daughter
He gives me bad vibes. I think more went on in his drunk drugged haze. Some of her behavior might be because she was not a hundred percent clean. He likely doesn't remember the extent of his behavior if he got that bad. Consider this scenario.... Not many straight people Re drugs/alcohol get together with druggies and drunks. So lets assume she probably was also getting high as a kite and drunk as a skunk.... But realized things are getting out of hand. She goes straight but he doesn't. Abuse gets worse. Good chance he wouldn't even know he did half that shit while off with the fairies. She might not want to tell the entire story because then people would be looking at her also. I believe what she was saying i just believe she has trapped herself into not being able to say everything.
What scares me about the first relationship, one may not end up alive, and their poor beautiful sweet child with his brain developing, and hearing how they fight, the sounds, all, this is disturbing on every level, very unhealthy on every level.
Her son will be a woman beater just like dad with him being in the picture shits sad asl.
It makes me SICK to hear "he can change"; IF he was going to change, it already would've happened. She will realize that he won't change *after* he's already hurt her so bad the damage lasts permanently. Nobody needs to put up with that shit, no man is worth that.
He should be in jail
If a man hits you right off the bat in the relationship and gets away with it for 3 years, why would he change now? He won't. She needs to move on to someone who treats her and her child beautifully..
Right! How long is she going to wait for him to change and what should Steve do to help her?
Is it gonna take being found dead to leave an abusive boyfriend/fiancé/husband? Watch a movie like The Invisible Man. I LOVED it when Elizabeth Moss’s character in that film leaves her abusive husband while he was sleeping.
I don't get it. She was with him for one month and got beat down by this fool and three years later, still together. She can't say that she was in love with him already. Why would you plan to have a baby with this guy? Bad choice after bad choice. She stays home and he is out and about sleeping around. I can't say that I feel sorry for her. They both need to keep their hands to themselves, but they will not.
@@pebblesceleste1633she literally puts her hands on him first
@@pebblesceleste1633not all the time but a lot of times
This girl the minute she says I love him I want to scream 🙆
My husband of over 25 years was a functioning Crack addict when we married. To make a long story short, He's been clean and sober for 17 years and is the most loving, caring, devoted husband and father u could ever imagine. I've been retired for 13 years now and was able to be a round the clock mom to our 2 children. People can and do change. I wish him the best and hopes he stays clean so that he can be in his children's lives.
That first guy is a child in the mind. That lady is an immature little girl who will fight over some guy that’s no good.
The dad at the end is so heart warming. “I don’t want to wake her”
Everytime I see two people fighting and their faces get really close my mind goes off chanting "KISS KISS KISS KISS" And I don't know why.🤣😅
So do I!! 🤗🤣😂😛🤼💋👄💋
So stupid 😂😆😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Because you’re immature
it is truly heartbreaking seeing a “man” hit a women. if you hit your girl you will never be a man. he’s a lowlife and she deserves so much better than him.
If a man hits woman's without provocation he needs to be put down. Let me be clear about that, but...If woman want to act like men, they better be prepared to be treated like one...Woman hits me, I hit back.
I just can't stand a young lady saying "I love him n im going to stand by him no matter what "what the f hell no way that happening
@@Pepe-rf1zg Yes so true what I told my guys .But they go to jail not the girl.And girl hits first.They should be going to jail
@@jeanmariebuzan8851 and it doesn't even stop there. Not only will the man go to jail if he hits back but if he sits there and takes it and gets beaten on by his woman all the time and people find out they'll laugh at him and make fun of him whereas if a woman is being beaten by her husband or whatever society takes their side 98% of the time. No matter what in a domestic abuse situation the man is either a joke or the bad guy
I know the lady gets away with it and the man is called name's and it isn't far.But I tell y'all I have seen these lady's Walk up to A man and pouch him in the face and go to jail...And they blamed it on the guy .But I myself believe that like with everything that guy should be able to hit her back ..But some of these lady's fight like A man.And just as mean.
Wow. She is so beautiful. She seems to have low self-esteem but a good heart. He seems to be a very very sick individual and a narcissist and bully and woman beater. I pray she leaves him and gets out safely. People that hurt you don't love you. He doesn't even love his self. He has the devil and demons in him.
She puts hands on him first
The second episode, the lady seemed like she wanted to throw everything she could at this guy and let him suffer.
That is such a weak woman, she defends her abuser and thinks of that fairytale that abusive men can change.
.... and she brought babies into that abusive situation. 🤯
@@Katrielible Sorry but she doesn't deserve the baby if this is how she chooses to live. POOR CHILD HAS NO CHOICE.
She will lose this baby before too long. Silly, silly girl, choosing him over her own baby?!!! Poor child 😞
not weak, severely brainwashed and abused.
the dude is a weak man, to prey on a weak woman. he should protect her. smh :(
The first couple isn’t breaking up. They’re hitting each other and she’s saying she’s going to stick beside him. Why they even came on the show in the first place is beyond me honestly.
The last guy...I could not imagine not being able to see my daughter.
I bet that woman has made her daddy out to be an absolute monster to his daughter.
Five words that make me flinch, I know he can change. Right out of the gate if you're with someone because you think you can change them you're with the wrong person. Being a relationship people do change over time, but if you set out to change that person from the go then you're not in love with that person. You're in love with who you think that person could be and that's always bad. Because most people are not going to drastically change. There are exceptions to the rule but they are few and far between. And this woman is in love with who she thinks this man can be, not the reality of who he is. My grandma gave me a great piece of advice when I was a kid about bullies. She said if you fight back they back down. Because a bully is all about the power, and you have to take that away. There's nothing in this man that's redeemable at this point. And she is not the person to fix him. He's got to choose to fix himself nothing will ever change. And one day he's going to go after one of those kids hard and she's going to find herself in the position of killing him to protect her child.
I agree, she is in love with what she thinks he could be. She is in love with a fantasy, a mirage, not his real self. I think she could end up dead or one of her children may end up dead, but I doubt she would ever kill him to protect her children. I think she already chose him before her children and she would do that again in a heartbeat. Those types of women always chose the man before the child.
I hope the woman in the first story gets some self esteem to leave this dude cause he ain't gonna change.
The guy in the second story seems like a genuine good man. No one is perfect.
This woman is so broken down. I look at pathetic young me and see myself in her . She’s gonna watch this footage 10 years from now when she’s gotten herself back and be like “damn”. Cause when you’re that low, people can be screaming in your face how bad of a situation you are in and you still don’t see it. “Love conquers all” “he’ll change” the biggest lies women tell ourselves .
I think this vid was like 10 years old lol or more , Steve looks skinny here lol so I wonder what she’s doing now
@@iamthegoat2359 yahh it’s deff a throwback Lmao omg I just realized “way back Wilkos” the name! I wonder too. Moving on with better relationships* after sh*t like that is hard 😩
If she's still alive.
He can change, but he needs tp want to change. Love does conquer all, but it has to be mutual love, not onesided love. She can keep loving him, but from a distance. He clearly does not love her at all. He is cheating on her. They should really end this toxic relationship that is not even a marriage. She should never have gotten involved with such a man and have a child out of wedlock with him. Big mistake and now she is paying the consequences.
@@TeaCup1940Nah the love conquers all thing is bullshit lol.
I’ve missed a lot of Steve Wilkos over the years . I always say if there’s one thing I hate about relationships is the abusiveness I just can’t stand that shit .
She doesn't want any help 🤨 he's not going to change ! He was abusing her from the beginning, he already showed her who he is 🤦
If they show you who they are, believe them, right?!
That last one really hurt my heart 😭 you can tell the mother was just being bitter, he truly loves his child and wants to be there for her. It’s sad how parents will use their kids as pawns or act like the other parent is this horrible person just because they didn’t work out. If they are a good father/mother then there is no reason to keep a child away ❤
Women like that should get prison time.Very dangerous people.
She IS bitter. Her perception is he is an abusive crackhead. To me he is a douchebag who has cleaned up his act. Supervised visitations are appropriate. I don’t blame her for wanting nothing to do with him but he does deserve some visitation. He is totally wrong to spank a child that young. He needs parenting classes and a court order for no corporal punishment.
It's impossible these days to find a kind, loving life partner. It seems
that everyone is suffering for no real reason.
You can see it’s taking EVERYTHING in steves power not to crush this clown!!!
wow good for him, im glad he didn't abuse her older daughter and that he's clean. He should be able to see his daughter
I really hate the way the first woman talked about herself being a real woman. She believes that staying loyal is what she needs to do because of love. We need to instill in all boys and girls that at the first sign of violence it's over. You leave and love will not save you.
And cheating?
Honey that is the least of your problems when your so called love of your life is beating you to the point of not being able to move! Makes me so steamed!!!
He's very disrespectful to Steve..
First guy was cringe. Steve wasn't even scared. 😂
That first lady so beautiful. I hate how people have to feel they need someone like that. Woman or man🥺 especially when having kids, that don't pick up the que hey he/she might do this to my kid. Or their kid grows up thinking this is how I treat people I love or this is who people love
How dare that woman take that baby's dad away from her, she is so lucky to have someone love her children like that.
Love doesn't hurt. Sounds like conditions. Love is supposed to be unconditional. That's the only way love works. Love with conditions is bondage
EXACTLY
Agreed you love someone or you dont. Period.
Seeing the lady's face when dude passed his test is wild she should have got tested for lying.
The fact that the first couple became a trending sound, " that's mine. Ima stick besides him" 🥴🥴.. is actually sick asf but ok
EXACTLY Like do y’all know where that came from…..
My jaw DROPPED when I heard that part. That is where that came from??? Not cool AT ALL.
On a better note, the second half of this episode was A1, chefs kiss AWESOME. Gorgeous little baby and hopefully now a great father, as he seems like he genuinely wants to stay changed.
She is giving every excuse in the book: "He isn't always like that....," "He's good to me.....," "I love him.....," "It's not always this bad....." If he hasn't killed her or her child isn't dead or he isn't in prison right NOW, I'll be shocked.
The first story is not love, it's a Trauma Bond!
I ever bump into Steve, meal on me for him and however meany people he's with. What a man, in every sense of the word
I really want to meet Steve wilkos in real life he's awesome 😎 he's inspired me to be braver and smarter
We gotta give Steve props for his patience. I would’ve rocked that first dudes shit. I was waiting for Steve to just head butt him. Lol
Love doesn’t hurt honey, I wish her self-esteem was where it needed to be to realize this is in no way, shape, or form love
He’s got short guy syndrome.!! Just a punk.!!
Troy looks like the mad scientist in Nightmare Before Christmas.
His teeth for some reason give me a Willem Dafoe vibe
Haha y'all are HILARIOUS
He does 😂 but he’s just an awkward guy . I think he has autism
"As a female in love it's hard to just break loose like that.."
Wtf... It's going to be hard for your kids to break loose from them watching you be buried six feet under from one of these fights your having.. Your not immortal sis.. If you won't do it for yourself then do it for them innocent children..
She needs her child removed if she stays with him and continues to expose the child to domestic abuse. Abuse comes in many forms and has nothing to do with love. It's about control and the abuser's own fears and self-loathing. The mother mentioned being physically violent also, so this poor child needs peace and stability.
The second story, the mother seemed heartless and emotionless.
I really think the man has issues also, may be from previous drug use but may not be. I felt bad for him. I knew he was going to pass even before the results came in.
I hope he gets to see his daughter and that the girls mother backs off and stops hanging threats of lies over his head.
His issues are most likely from him not having a father himself. He looks over worked. He looks to me like he has Tried everything to provide and make it work for The kids.
They should have tested her for making it up....
"He can change" and "Because I love him" are the mottos of the professional victim.
I been thru this before from age 17 to 27 I feel compassion for that girl cus sometimes you can't help who u love it's fucked up but eventually it's gets old nd she'll leave
No joke. That last guy had me almost in tears
He showed her who he was on day 1. In 3 years he hasn't changed, he's never going to change. There is nothing you can do or say to make him change.
His pants are scrunched down in the right position that he won't have to change to go to prison. IQ in single digits.
This is the classic case of having an abusive up-bringing and daddy issues.
There can be no salvaging ANYTHING from this shattered relationship. It's already gone too far downhill to be saved at this point. It was ill fated from the beginning. It was already over BEFORE it even started.
She loves him more than she loves herself 😒 if you have to get someone else to change or talk sense into your man, you don’t need to be with him 👌🏾👊🏾
I NEVER EVER LEAVE A THUMBS 👍 UP OR LIKE....
BUT THIS TIME I DID CAUSE IT WAS SO CLOSE TO HOME.
I ALSO WAS IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT, AND I ALSO PICKED MYSELF BACK UP TO BE A MAN.
KEEP STRONG FATHERS AND DADS DO IT FOR YOURSELF AND THOSE U LOVE.
AIM HIGHER NO MATTER WHAT ANY 1 SAYS ....
IF YOUR AIM IS TRUE U WILL PREVAIL.
THANKS STEVE FOR RAISING US AND RESETTING OUR AIM. KEEP LIFTING US AND SETTING THINGS RIGHT.
U ARE A TRUE HERO
BEAUTY MATE.
OUTSTANDING.
Men like him never change nor learn the error of their ways
When she said he's not a bad guy, why is she there on Steve's show??? IHATE when people are asked.... why do you stay with that person???
And they say,
I LOVVVVVEEEEEEE EMMMM!!!....
Common, when you're getting a bused, that's the worst reason to stay..... I know that there are people that have no where to go. But the ones that have a place to go...... then gooooo runnnnnnn don't look back.
The look on the woman's face when the results revealed the boyfriend was letting the truth.
6 years ago I called the cops bc my ex husband was smoking crack in the bathroom and the police literally took his side and said that it's not illegal to do drugs in your own home. At the time I was 9 months pregnant and the cop told me as he left that if they had to come back again they were taking me in! The crackheads get away with a whole f lot!!! Thank God I was able to get away and get full custody on my kids...
And never go on looks ppl he was fine when I met him 5 years before he started doing that but once he started crack he quickly deteriorated!!!! He started looking like a dried up old raisin with big wide eyes ugh so NASTY! SAY NO TO DRUGS KIDS!
I hate how that last woman got off so easy. She lied about him abusing her daughter. Just because she was bitter and mad at him, she tried to cut him out of his daughter's life just so she didn't have to see him. That's pathetic..
Steve saying "I've been to your door a thousand times" ...that's deep. They need to get the hell away from each other. Kids growing up watching and learning this just continuing the cycle.
Hate the way she calls herself a « good female » and how it’s because she stays with the same dude even if he’s an abusive POS
I don’t understand how women will go on and on about all the bad and abusive things their partners are doing to them with such emphasis to prove how abusive they are and then in the same breath say “but I know they’re a good person and I love them”
First girl has no self respect and has no business being a mother, she putting her child at risk
The MOST abused word in the dictionary is LOVE. 😢😮
I feel sorry for her children because they have no say in their mother who obviously loves misery & negativity.
She looks pissed that he passed the LDT!
I was also in an abusive relationship with my kid's father for 7 years. He also hit me when i was holding my babygirl. It doesn't get better. I eventually threw him out. He landed up in state prison for abusing another woman. THEY DON't CHANGE GIRL. U just have low self esteem gurl u can move on.
Troy looks as if his liver has already given up...
I love it when Steve gets rid of the chairs, get of my stage and stand up 😅😂😅❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
NEED UPDATE!! First couple!! Smh
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Same. But no doubt they probably in the same rut.
I feel so bad for those children having a dad who beats their mother and a mother who tolerates being beaten. You know the abuse will extend to the children.
He ned happy ro go j
It takes a complete coward, for someone to put their hands on a woman. Calling a women you "love" names & mentally abusing her, is just as bad as someone cheating.
Shoulda left the moment he started acting up, before you or your child end up dead.
The first girl is almost asking for it. Not even saying if he doesn't change I'm leaving, she literally saying it doesn't matter what he does she's staying. How do you help someone like that? He a child you can't even talk to.
Unfortunately the first one is gonna end up in a casket and her kids grieving her.
She asked for Steve's help then sets back and defends the guys actions
I have been with my now husband for almost 12 years now he hits me once I'm done I don't care how long we have been together you don't put your hands on people you love
OMG! I’m so afraid for her. 🙏🏾
I give Steve the upmost respect for his patience
I can imagine a councilor seeing this show then seeing these two get out their car and walk towards his office. I be he or she is gonna lock their doors.
I'm not sure why they're here, she said she's not leaving no matter what he does so he knows he can treat her any way he wants... It's a lost cause
Sorry, not sorry, the people in the first story SUCK! They are both terrible people and that baby deserves so much better!
Leave him ASAP! NO MAN is worth what you're putting yourself through! 😢 😮 😢 😮
I love it when Steve said that the only thing that abusive punk running is his mouth. You don’t run anything on his show except your mouth!!!!
guy was talking like a wannabe gangsta
@@jamesdick2580 exactly. I have a younger sister who’s just like this fool. She’s married to a single mother. I hope and pray that she is not controlling her wife.
@@johnub4 i hear ya.
"I told you i"m a good DA....darn father "... I am thinking straight out a " Leave It To Beaver" episode ...or any show from the 50"s LOL...glad he cleaned up his act.. honestly best recovered addict i have seen...made me giggle ... glad for his life to be going back up hill..
Anyone else feel like the woman in the last part of the clip knew he was a good dad? And was just trying to be petty or something??
Duh?
@@kadeelacayo4806 K
Definitely got the same vibe
"he's a good person" no honey, a good man protects his family. I hope this lady grows up and puts her baby first. Forget about "I'm in love with him" love yourself and love your children. Protect your children, they rely on you. (first guy)
BRO I FINALLY FOUND IT 13:47
I nicknamed him NO NONSENSE STEVE. We need more guys like him to put bad guys in their place! 😢 😮 😢 😮