8 Laws Of Psychological Power (Command Respect)
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How Tywin Lannister Commands Respect in Game of Thrones
Tywin Lannister is a beast. He effectively served as king for many years under Aerys and wielded massive influence over Robert and Joffrey. He would have continued to be the power behind the thrones had he not been so horrible to Tyrion - more on that later - but that’s not the point.
In this video I want to explore why Tywin was able to command so much respect, breaking down everything from his body language to his strategy.
00:28 Game of Thrones of HBO shows this Tywin Lannister epic king outlook
04:40 One of the analyses of GOT Tywin Lannister dominance
10:20 Towering Tywin Lannister over Cersei and Tyrion Lannister
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Charles Dance as Tywin Lanniseter is as perfect a casting as Heath Ledger was to play the Joker or Marlon Brando to play the Godfather. They dont get much better than this.
So true .
James Gandolfini as Tony Soprano
Robert Downey Jr as Iron man aswell
J K Simmons as J Jonah Jameson is the most perfect casting of all time.
Or, Mark Hamill as the Joker, good Joker
So I tried the "THEY HAVE MY SON" at work the other day
Needless to say, it worked!
A.J. Haamid 😂😂
Did you get your son back?
You mean you just randomly yelled out “they have my son!!” Yeah, I imagine that would turn a few heads
I use "get in my belly"
They took my son will do too hahaha
Tywin Lannister:
*The King who wore no crown*
The king who didnt need the crown
Ooooooooooooooh... I like that.
That feeling when 90% of the people who read this comment don't get that it's a quote
I do
Crownless king?
Thanos: I..AM..INEVITABLE!!
Tywin Lannister: Any man who must say he is inevitable is not truly inevitable
Lolll
@Pedro Correia
Thanos: Destiny arrives all the same
Tywin Lannister: The mad Titan is tired, see him to his bed chamber
Daggett: I’m in charge.
Bane: Do you feel in charge?
Right ...
In Thanos' case, he is inevitable =))))))))))
The next time I keep getting cut of in a conversation I will simply say:
“tHEy HAvE my sON”
aina-louisa carter 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
combine it with the voice of dutch van der linde and everyone will listen 101%
@@saikopiratos I HAD A GODDAMN PLAN!!!!!
Liam Neeson be like "ThEy hAvE mY dAuGhtEr!"
Then quietly tell everyone to get out
Sorry i'm just in awe at the guy who didn't flinch at the charging gorrila
Fear is a powerful tool, but when you're dealing with someone who has no fear, the loss of such a great tool leave you with few options, back away, or go to war.
Since animals aren't self-aware as we are, and have no deep notion of their actual physical power, the gorilla's response was entirely reasonable, it's only logical to back away if you're facing someone who's power you don't know, and who also does not fear you.
It happened so fast that his brain didn't even have the time to process everything and respond accordingly, and flinch.
@@gigicestone4902 Do you really believe the ape has no notion of is own strength? the beast fights other males and leopards for a living, man!
seemed to me that the guy was just stunned
it's pretty common.. when people get shocked/surprised in fear, they'll freeze in place momentarily
the reason i think this is being stunned and not self control, is because you can clearly see him move backward away from the gorilla while he's trying to figure out wtf is happening and what to do about it
@@vugarfataliyev6544 This would not work with all animals. This is due to motivation - Gorillas are not predators, they are herbivores. Fighting for them is a social activity, to determine dominance. If that does not work, the Gorilla will not usually kill a human, in the same way that they do not kill each other when fighting. A hunting polar bear, on the other hand, does not have any interest in dominance - it sees a human (or anything else it encounters) as a mobile bag of calories, and the 'assert dominance by not reacting' technique would not work. Of course Humans as a species are the 'planetary apex predator' but that does not always apply down to the individual scale - go up against a hunting polar bear in the Arctic Circle, or a large crocodile or alligator ambushing from the water's edge, and no strategy of posturing or 'asserting dominance' will cut it.
Charles Dance/Tywin has an incredible and authoritative voice.
He's a stage actor, not a film star. There is a huge difference between the two. Charles Dance isn't a chameleon like Christian Bale or Jared Leto. He can, however, command power and presence with his stance and use of his voice. This is an example of stage acting at it's best. It's incredible, really. See Diana Rigg - who is also on Game of Thrones - do the same thing. They are so much better than Kit Harington.
Angus H wow, that explains so much. heck, the little lady mormont commands more respect through his acting than jon snow lol
Carlu Yabut You kiddin` me? I could watch this guy read phone book, and pay money to see it. There is only a handful of actors i think of that way: Anthony Hopkins, Crispin Freeman(voice of Alucard from "Hellsing"), Liam Neeson(granted many of his films are shitty, but he still is awesome), Mark Strong, Mads Mikkelsen, and Charles Dance of course. There are two guys from my own country but you didn`t even hear about them, so there is no point. Anyway- when i hear these guys talking, or see them acting, i`m feeling so freaking gay. I mean, i love women, but the minute i see Tywin bossing people around, or hear Alucard laughing mockingly, i get shivers down my spine :)
I don't think Kit Harington's character is supposed to have a strong presence. He's a bastard, insecure about his leadership, and worried about the white walkers. Tywin had already proved himself, John Snow is very young.
Tywin owns most scenes he's in, except Tyrion's trial and dying upon the lavatory.
Yeah, Tywin's biggest mistake was not putting more trust in Tyrion and giving him respect for his achievements and skill as Hand.
Yes, I think you're right. Tywin's hate for Tyrion is his biggest mistake ever.
He’s tried. But Tyrion constantly made mistakes. He made a few good decisions and now he’s a genius? It’s a fact that he was a letdown and only did the right things out of spite.
he was a drunken dwarf who married the first commoner who opened her legs for him. Of course he didn't. All of Tywin's children were disappointments though. I feel the only one he would've truly respected was the one that usurped his power which Tyrion did in the end.
@@RegularGiraffe Not defending Tyrion but...that was Tywin's doing too. Tywin wanted to "make a man" outta Tyrion and punished him for marrying the commoner by making him witness a (pardon my choice of words) "gang bang". Tywin had no one but himself to blame for much of what Tyrion became afterwards. The thing is, all Tywin had to do was the bare minimum of being kind to Tyrion, regardless of his hatred. That would've been a lot smarter than outright hatred to keep his son in line.
It's also the only decision that he makes based on emotion and not on logic. That is the singular flaw that got him killed
The last rule to command respect is: If you go to the loo, lock the door.
Or " look before you poop"
If you go to the loo, bring a crossbow.
for a sly scheming and genius man like Tywin, he sure let himself get caught literally with his pants down.
@@dandydasyt4766 hence the poetic irony of his death
Maybe don't have a crossbow with some bolts in your room
The most kingly man in the seven kingdoms who never wore a crown
I think you lack the meaning for "kingly". Tywin only had authority and respect through fearmongering.
I'd say the most tyrannically cunning.
clown doesn't give you power, army does. and king has the most fearful army.
Charles Dance was kingly. Tywin was a douche.
Tywin was the true king of Westeros. Joffrey was a puppet.
@AR21 You really think a crown gives you power??
Excellent video!
One thing you missed though is how Tywin positions himself in the throne room. When he is named hand of the king he rides in on a horse, so the king doesn’t look down on him, their eye line is even. Later, when he lectures the king, he walks up the stairs so that he is looking down on him. This plays into how he positions himself in ways that convey power, like how he invades the personal space of Jamie and looks down on Tyrion.
Like when the French ambassadors met the Siam King for the first time and they refused to bow, so he had a dais built so he would be above them 😂
BluFF haha absolutely in my case, but keep in mind this is a character who’s personality has been carefully crafted to have a certain aura to it, it’s really interesting to see how the actor accomplished that
Great observation! Glad to see that I wasn't the only one to notice that :)
Damn
Hey its all ACTING!😅😅
Charles Dance needs to portray Magneto in the MCU's version of X-Men. Look at him. This man has the presence to make justice to the character.
Maybe in MCU's reboot. Someone should start a fan petition to show Kevin Feige the support he has. Such an underrated actor.
Magneto: *to Scarlet Witch* YOU'RE MY DAUGHTER
But hes too old now
Dracula ?
In my Star Wars head cannon, Charles Dance plays Grand Admiral Thrawn in the Star Wars sequel trilogy, who rallies the imperial remnant, ousts incompetent leaders, and whips them into shape to pose a serious threat to the New Republic. Then the fledgling Sith Lord Jacen Solo shows up acting like Joffrey Lannister and Thrawn influences him toward actually being a competent conqueror and dictator.
"People aren't always sitting, and they aren't always dwarves."
You learn something new every day.
Lol nice.
I'm only a dwarf 16% of the time. . .
Charlie is fully taking advantage of Game of Thrones season launch with all these videos ahaha
axiomatic22 Smart move
Troll in the Wall I didn't say he shouldn't. I think it's quite smart from a business point of view! Well done to him
I wouldn't call it "smart"
I would call it "opportunistic" and "cheap"
John Doe why 'cheap'?
Did he cross some kind of red line? Are his actions taboo?
Tywin was the man. Charles Dance is a superb actor and his performance is legendary. That being said, In all his convos, he is either Liege Lord, Hand of the King, Father, Grandfather, or at very least most powerful Lord in the country in relation to the subject of his convos. He is boss no matter how he speaks.
I think something important about the silence is control too. It shows that, while others are angry and emotional, and speaking in outbursts, he's controlled. He's calculating and he's powerful in this moment because he's in control of the conversation.
Don't forget to consider, the quiet types are always thinking, so when they need to act they may be reasonable, but if the circumstances don't fall into what they're expecting, they hesitate. Emotional may be often unreasonable but emotions don't make you hesitate, reason and logic does, or rather your idea of which logic and reason should be applied to a certain scenario
Silence also often makes other people very uncomfortable, so if you are comfortable with silence, using it to make other people nervous or twitchy is not that difficult. When someone says something to you, and you just stare at them without responding, they almost never know what to do, and will start babbling nervously just to fill the space.
Tywin is also strong-willed, and he is a work-aholic. He cares only about his work and duty. Nothing else matters. He would make a great servant, but he isn't someone you want to hang around with.
Very much something the Godfather showed, too. Over and over again. The softest speakers were the most powerful and the most dangerous.
@@SRosenberg203 Cersei clearly tries to imitate this when she makes Lady Olenna wait during their meeting... but Olenna knows Cersei is no Tywin, and says "put that pen down dear, we know you're not writing anything" (paraphrased).
This video could have been about five seconds long, with the answer being "Because he was portrayed by Charles Dance".
Would have loved to see how Tywin would have reacted to Daenerys' dragons
“Back to the privvy...”
He would've just glowered at them until they ran away.
Imagine if he'd played Gandalf and faced down the Balrog.
*"GO BACK TO THE SHADOW!"* And the Balrog would do just that.
The drogon is tired, see him to his place
@@randomshiiitt you win... 😂 😂 😂 😂 👏
@@thomasgodridge5945 Or rather
"You will go back to the shadows !"
*Turns around and walks away*
Good analysis of Tywin. Tywin's mistake was not crediting Tyrion with what he had accomplished and underestimating Tyrion's intelligence, his political nous, and his anger at not being accepted as a true Lannister.
Bantoni Plakantry I think it was because Tyrion was so underestimated that he became so smart, and clever because he had to, while Jame and Cersei were expected and simply fell short.
2:50 even Varys went...Boi you gone done it it now
All my friends' favs are either jon, daenarys or tyrion. Mine will always be Tywin Lannister. Charles Dance is a superb actor.
N14 those characters are also cool and still alive lol
You know who my favorite character is
Jorah Mormont Daario Naharis?
My fav is Daenerys #TeamDaenerys but I agree that for some reason I always sort of respected Tywin even if he was evil.
*They have my son!*
Wedding guests look at me in shock before rains of castamere begins to play.
"THEY HAVE MY SON"
"Sir, this is a Wendy's, I was only telling you we're out of ketchup"
Hey I've seen this before
I wanted to bribe the string quartet at my brother's wedding to play the rains of castemeere but my mom vetoed the idea :(
@@inspectorjavert8443 I plan on playing that at my brothers wedding and scare the shit out of everyone there
Man, I miss Tywin. What a character, played by the perfect actor. (This doesn't mean that it was wrong to kill him, just that I miss him *g*)
Roose Bolton deserved it, for betraying the Starks. Even though he was a likeable character.
anythingnew don’t forget littlefinger
anythingnew : Agreed
Yes I know, he’s my favourite character. Always.
I hear that Charles Dance is pretty imposing in real life, too.
Tywin Lannister was already a legend in the books. Then Charles Dance played him. No words whatsoever to describe just how incredible he was.
I always found it interesting that when Joffrey makes Tywin hand of the Kind and gives him the badge, he enters on a horse. The throne is positioned so that his subjects look up at him. Whereas when Tywin enters on a horse he is pretty much level with Joffrey, showing symbolically that he is of equal power with the crown and not a subject.
Charles Dance as Tywin you mean, he is such a good actor. In the book Tywin is just a mean dude and not as charmingly brilliant as Charles Dance brings to the role
Luke Man Dude I disagree, I think Charles Dance perfectly matches the Tywin of the books which is why he's so popular with book readers.
Luke Man Dude I disagree, I think Charles Dance perfectly matches the Tywin of the books which is why he's so popular with book readers.
you said that twice
you said that twice
XxStonedKillerxX RUclips error, happens all the time
A Lannister always pays his debts
Arthur Jol except to the iron bank
American Sniper Those are The Crown's debts, taken by Littlefinger, not by the Lannisters.
Yes, Tywin paid his to Tyrion.
Arthur Jol you just to say it
A Lannister never pays his debts. If any of them did, they'd all have been long dead. A Lannister will have his revenge, though. You see, a debt YOU pay is what you owe to someone else, not what you think they owe to you. And Lannisters, by and large, reject the notion that they could ever owe other people anything. They do embrace the idea that they are entitled to everything they want, and that everyone who impedes their acquisition of their desires is committing a mortal crime. So, perhaps more accurately, a Lannister always collects his due.
"any man who must say I'm the king is no true king" one of my favorite dialogues in GOT, also this one "A lion does not concern himself with the opinions of the sheep".
Do Jaime Lannister. He's a master at adapting.
I would disagree there, I never saw anything in the show or books that suggests that Jaime is good at adapting to changes at all.
Alister Fair enough, I was mostly referring to going from the best swordsman of the realm to one of the worst and still showing he has confidence. Also, he demonstrated some adaptation being captured. Not that it was always successful, but interesting nonetheless.
I think your thinking of tryion
from fapping with right hand to fapping with left hand?
he should do Ragnar lothbrok from vikings
I could watch an hour worth of Tywin and Olenna talking.
Tywin "THEY HAVE MY SON" Lannister
You missed the part where he hovers over Joffrey while Joffrey is sitting on the throne... You touched on the subject with the scene where Joffrey asked about why he isn't apart of the council meetings... Tywinn offers for Joffrey to be carried by servants because he complains about the new location. Joffrey then gets a little louder trying to display his power. Tywinn then stays silent and approaches the throne and hovers over Joffrey giving him a solution he knows Joffrey has no choice but to take... That scene says everything about who really ran the kingdom.
The Proverbial Hater he didn't talk about it because he already used it in one of his other videos.
I think he covered that on a previous video.
He already used that scene in another video.
Yea that is one of the best Tywin scenes as far as showing who is actually the boss.
What a well composed analysis. Early congratulations on 1 million Charlie, you deserve it!
~ Appreciate it :-)
you realize hes talking about actors and fictional characters , right?
This is not real life, you can get one or 2 good advices but thats all. Its like training to be Goku doing same training XD
It is not. Read the comment above the former one. First, it's a fictional character. Second, Tywin is easily the most powerful character on GoT. Everyone else is just an upstart, he's the guy pulling all the strings for years. He has the most information, the most money, the best alliances and the most powerful army. It takes the series a full 4 seasons to finally kill him, when he's easily the most hated dude everywhere. He could put on a clowns nose, do jumping jacks and still get to command everyone around.
The only lesson to be learned from his character is, even if you are the most powerful man in the world, the smallest guy still could get you. Stop watching shit like this, especially when you're young. It'll twist reality and you'll have a rather bad wake up call when trying to apply all the shit you can see on this channel in real life. It just doesn't work like that.
Ideas for next breakdown of powerful fictional personalities:
Tony Soprano
Tony Montana
Vito + Michael Corleone
Nucky Thompson
Bane from TDKR
Hans Landa
Wolverine/Logan
Tyler Durden
Tywin Lannister was just AMAZING, PHENOMENAL AND FANTASTIC. He would've really become a great main villain.
I think it's unfair to even call him a villain. Brutal, Ruthless, Cold and Cunning: yes.
Evil: no.
@@matthew1882 I'm just saying that if he was the main villain, it would been way more interesting to see more of him..
Use the term antagonist instead
I think this is what I liked back in GoT. You could have picked anyone and that character was not just good or bad. Of course, there were more and less honoroble people but most of the main characters were written so well that everyone could find their favourite.
The great thing about him is he isn't even a villain.
GoT kinda died with Tywin :(
It died After 8x03
@@Delicashilous i know i'm late but season 7 wasn't that great either,it was good until they didn't have any books to adapt tbh
@@eviee11111 Season 7 is my Favorite Season, because all the Characters came After 6 years finally together.
@@Delicashilous I certainly respect your opinion but I agree with the other guy the show was on a downward curve after season 4 it just became more eminently noticeable towards the end
@@possessedslig I totally understand that, because Tywin was the biggest superior, with ned. He was the head and Leader of the Lannisters. Cersei as the Leader? Hahaha, no. That was the Downfall of the show. Also Oberyn was a true supurior as well, but the bookwriter wasted him for Nothing.
I agree with the observations of the more subtle displays of power to manipulate situations, but there are some key points to add:
Tywin commands fear because he actually can (and will) have you and your whole family killed, so all the weight of his actions are backed up by that terrifying knowledge.
Tywin has control of the military and guard, not Joffrey, so Joffrey's rage is impotent when challenging Tywin. The intonations are a reflection of the power they do or don't have.
Tywin is head of a rich and powerful household and has taken advantage of his position to live a lifetime of scheming to create the situation he's now in. Any average person acting like him, without the fear of violence to protect them, is likely to get punched in the face. He lives a friendless life unloved by his children and eventually he's killed because it's the only way to stop him.
Exactly... What these videos never tell you, is that, for you to pull off these 'displays of power' at everyday environments like the workplace, and not immediately get called out for it, you would also need to actually own the damn company.. Imagine being a simple shift lead at a department store and constantly 'boom' at your charges.. Yeah, that's a sure way to not last long in that job..
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Make a video on why Game of Thrones has the most intense cult following of any series ever created.
Tom Flynn GOT indeed has a great fan base, but it is certainly at par with popularity as the Harry Potter series.
It's really more a pop phenomenon than a cult following.
Firefly, dude.
COUGH Star Wars COUGH
[Rolls eyes] A "cult following" is a group of fans who are highly dedicated to a work of culture. A film, book, musical artist, television series or video game, among other things, will be said to have a "cult following" when it has a small but very passionate fanbase.
Fantastic dissection of his character
All things said and done...it really helps to appear powerful when one is really more powerful than the others...like Tywin Lannister. Bluffing power is one thing being really powerful is totally another bllgame.
The Lannisters were much weaker than they portrayed though. For example, the revelation that there was no more gold left to mine at Casterly Rock, Tywin kept this to himself given the Lannister name is well known for wealth and the power associated with it. If the Tyrells knew the full extent of the Lannister’s financial problems, Olenna had the funds to bankrupt the Lannisters. Instead, the Tyrell wealth became the Lannister wealth, by their houses entwining with the plan of multiple Lannister-Tyrell weddings.
That cold steely glare of Tywins would give me the chills. He glares right through you.
2:41 When you can make Joffrey understand he just overstepped, you're a leader. When you can do it without saying a word, you're a king.
Tbh I'd love a video on Davos since he has such a unique brand of convincing others; especially since his techniques could probably be far more effective in a modern setting than many of the other characters'. He certainly got Stannis out of many tight spots.
And not forgetting how he helped the Starks keep the support of one or more Houses by speaking up for them. Davos is a great character
Solytix or how he secures finances from the Iron Bank by showing the penalty he got from Stannis after he was caught smuggling.
I feel bad for Davos. Like watching the world's slowest train wreck.
Charles Dance was maybe the best "fit" with his character. (His looks, his natural demeanor, his bearing, etcetera all fit perfectly with his character.)
For me though, the best acting in the entire series that I can think of is Liam Cunningham as Davos Seaworth. He can get emotional without covering his face at all.
Lena Headey tops them all imo. But amazing actors from GoT include Charles Dance, Liam Cunningham, Carine van Houten, Diana Rigg, Conleth Hill, Jonathan Pryce, Natalie Dormer and Peter Dinklage, even though I find people always put him in the spotlight and forget about everyone else
The Wine drinking scene at around 9:00 just cements how great of an actor Tyrion is. The scene focuses on Tywin but the acting from his son is phenomenal
How long have I been waiting for this.Tywin is one of my favourite characters.Thank you for this awesome video.
~ Glad you're liking it!
Cersei echoing Tywins dynasty speech in the latest episode.
Two of my favorite things combined: An excellent commentary/analysis of human behavior and Game of Thrones.
My family starts arguing over a vacation
Dad: I say we go to the mountains
Mom: I want to go to the beach
Sister: We should out of state
Me: THEY HAVE MY SON!!!
Long story short we had it my way
So whenever I want to jump into a conversation I shall say:
THEY HAVE MY SON!!!
You have given me an appreciation for GoT that I never had before. Still love LotR more but the ingenious of the author fleshing out these various personalities is brought through well in your videos. New Subscriber here lol
Tywin was the got such a big influence over two kings not because he was charismatic or because he commanded respect, simply because he was the richest man in the kingdom. He didnt need to "command power", he simply had it.
A video on Heath Ledger's Joker would be great, anyone else with me?
Hell yes!
Nooo
No not really.
Maybe for 16 year old edge lords. The Lannisters are much more complex characters than some unhinged lack of depth pyschopath.
@@XN1K1T4X we can see who is a edgelord here...
Even though Tywin is kinda the bad guy, I loved him probably the most.
Why is he bad
Grrm does such a great job at writing grey characters
He was so Majestic!!!
I believe Tywin did recognise Tyrion's strengths and tried to make the best out of them. He even showed him ample recognition by giving him three key positions: acting Hand of the King, Master of Coins and finally husband to Sansa "Key to the North" Stark.
His failure was to fear Tyrion's weaknesses more than he should have, although it is one of those that killed him. From Season 3 on, we see Tyrion gradually switching position from a fighter ("never forget who you are, wear it like an armour") to a victim self amplifying his plight (thinking he is the worst off for marrying Sansa in S3E06 when Sansa, Cersei and Loras clearly are in a worse situation than he is).
Tyrion's turning point was reached in that conversation they had in S3E01 when Tywin let himself be overcome by the fear his son would make a joke of his legacy. It may be the only time in the story Tywin showed fear and a point could be made it is also when his son stopped being impressed. From this point on, Tyrion was no longer fully cooperating.
Leo of Red Keep I think it's less about Tywin and Tyrion's fears and more about the festering hatred Tywin had for his son. Tywin has always hated Tyrion, but he's smart and resourceful: he would never waste a possible asset to his family by discarding it out of personal dislike. He truly cares for his family. When they've reached a point that most of not all the important positions of power in Kings' Landing are occupied with Lannisters, he finally feels comfortable acting on his hatred and moving to get rid of Tyrion; be it by sending him far away to hold a strategic position in the North, or death. Tyrion's mindset I think is more his discovery of his self worth: he knows his strengths and he knows that his family hates him anyway (he has always known these things, but his time as acting hand without Tywin breathing over his shoulder gave him an idea to just what he could accomplish if only he had been allowed to). So now we've got Tywin committing a deep betrayal of his son, and Tyrion's response saying essentially that he would no longer fight for the man who despised him, and his newfound trust in himself that allowed him to act and kill his father.
Compare Cercei's face, after Joff's outburst (2:44), to after Tywin gives Joff' a time out (2:58).
Something to keep in mind with these techniques- they are more effective when you are already in a position where hierarchy is accepted. Be careful who you try this on. Push too hard and you get a bolt to the heart while you're sitting on the shitter.
Yeah but... why don't you talk about Stannis' charming personality? XD
Most unpleasant person in 7 kingdoms next to Walder Frey.
MCShvabo Minus the shireen part (because D&D decided to do that god knows why) I would rather spend my afternoon with Stannis than many more characters than just walder frey
+Krom the Assassin He lost due to his over confidence and sacrificing everything the would have bolstered both his and his men's convictions
@Marcalo De Unnero not gonna lie, I would be the one doing all the back stabbing, far safer
@Marcalo De Unnero People don't become popular or powerful by telling people exactly how they feel.
I like Tywin's style. These are attributes that are good to emulate to command respect.
From one nerd to another, you completely missed the point. The only dynasty that Tywin built was the slogan "The North remembers." When Ned dies, his people rally. When Tywin dies, Cersei screams at Jamie that everyone is coming to kill them.
This is a good point, showing the limits to manipulations like this.
Jaime*
But yes.
Such a good point.
I’ve worked for people like Tywin.
Did people do what he wanted? Sure
Did he command respect? Not really...
Did people fantasize about shooting him while he’s in the crapper? You bet
Tywin was strong even until his death, but he knew his children would not be worthy of the family name except Jaime and Tyrion, Cersei learnt more from the court compared to Jaime - He hated Tyrion but didn't realise he was a worthy son just as Jaime was.
Strong is raising your kids right, not intimidating people and sleeping with your son's ex-girlfriend. That family name bs was just an excuse for Tywin to feel powerful. Both Cersei and Tyrion call him on it. To quote Walter White, "I did it for me."
It took me this many years to realize when Twyin says "Do you understand?" Is his tell. Thats where he has actual doubts about what he tells others to do.
Big Daddy Lanister was by far my favorite GoT character! Well him and Drogon.
Charles Dance is a frickin god as Tywin. Like, I can't imagine anyone who could play the bastard better
Some say even Lyanna Mormont is afraid of his personality...
You go too far!
This is false, Lyanna is actually Tywin reincarnated.
Imagine if the two of them had met. Or imagine if he had married Olenna Redwine. Their children would rule the world.
@@maggiesmith2600 Ah, but genetics doesn't work like that.
He's also very tall, which helps him to stand over others.
Tywin is known for his Stoic attitude, extremely intelligent and calculating, but also his cold, manipulative and often unrestricted attitude even to his family.
The character insists that all he does is because of his family. Tywin's own father, Lord Tytos, was a generous and considerate man, whose bad investments and indecision made Casa Lannister go to ruin. As a result, while admitting to Arya Stark that Tytos was "a good man," Tywin regarded his father's kindness as a source of weakness. So he successfully rebuilt his family's fortunes almost alone, and this, along with his total destruction of Casa Reyne, led him to embrace implacability as a principle of keeping the family in power.
Ironically, his hard actions and unwillingness to serve as a caring father figure have resulted in serious emotional problems in all three children who are terrified of him. Tywin only sporadically visited his home in Casterly Rock, and on the occasions when he returned, he would treat with severe punishment for any transgressions his children committed while he was away. Overall, however, for a man who claims to value his family above all else, Tywin hypocritically destroyed his relationships with his own children.
Tywin literally is a monster 😁 AND TYWIN'S MAJOR ERROR WAS EATING THE SON'S CHILD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Perfect analysis . Most people forget that even though tywin was powerful, he was a horrible human being.
@@emperoremyhriv4968 True.
Actually my favorite character in the whole series
Iv been listening to a WWII podcast and Russia's Foreign Minister Molotov must have infuriated Hitler, after Hitler's outburst because the convocation was not going his way, Molotov kept his composure and spoke ever more quietly despite Hitler's shouting
Daenerys: "I am their Queen"
Tywin: "Any man who must say, "I am the King", is no true king"
I think GOT got (lol) seriously worse after the death of Tywin. He was the best character in the show
You were watching it for the wrong reasons then. If a single character is what makes a TV (If that character isn't the main focus of said show) then you're watching it for the character, not the show. Hence it will be worse.
they way i read ``GOT got `` is hilarious ))) after few seconds later i realized it was similar )))))
No
Roose should have stayed alive. He was great.
Pekka Laitinen I agree with you. If Tywin is still alive, Daenerys and her 3 dragons are probably dead and night king will never had a dragon and destroy the wall.
Yes!!!! I've been waiting for you to do a Tywin video !!!! So happy!!!
Tywin has the Conqueror's Haki
A what?
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I guess you never watched One Piece
Whitebeard
Power does not come from telling people that you have it. It comes from showing them - Great advice, may I keep it?
His mistreatment and under-use of Tyrion wasn't his only mistake or flaw. He also scorned the notion of praise. Even setting aside it being the right thing to do, it's also the smart thing to do. It wins not merely fear or respect, but true loyalty - the kind people stick to even when it's no longer in their best interest.
3:56 Well, he's his father, and knowing how some parents are (mine included) they aren't much interested about your opnions on stuff, so they command not ask. And this dynamic is even more in extreme in this setting!
On both examples they were members of his family, members lower than him, and it's important to mention this because Tywin is the "King" of the family, everyone else there is a property to be used. He gained this power through heritage, that's how he sees.
The North Remembers
Good. Let them know what happens when you march South.
So grateful for this video. It actually helped me deal with a disrespectful new roommate!
Fun fact: That was a real deer Charles Dance was handling. He said it took days for the smell to get off his hands.
I need a Roose Bolton video
Can you please change the thumbnail to Tywin on the toilet?
Charles Dance nailed Tywin Lanniseter so will. The people in charge of hiring went above and beyond for this show. Even the smallest character's are still memorial. Thank you for this video. It was enjoyable and informative!
the greatest character in the show
These videos probably don’t make sense to make anymore, but I’m so goddamn thankful for them
Talking of making people wait is soooo true. I do a very simple sales role in that I’m a membership consultant in a gym. Whenever anyone walks in I always invite them to sit down then just say I’m quickly finishing an email, spend 30 seconds tapping away then I fully engage them. When I do this I find I get much fewer objections to admin fees and fewer questions about pro rota billings. It very much gives off the vibe that I’m in the drivers seat here, so these are the costs, pay them.
01:40 so true... I've had teachers and coaches that always yelled. It looses power. But, that one "ENOUGH! said in the right moment... Sir! Yes Sir! vibes right away
His method of projecting power is superb. Especially when projecting it from a position of power as great as tywins. He has a history of actions that back up all of his power plays.
Charles dance was perfect on this role.
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Wish he never died.
0:07 On the Lannisters in general, but i would say Cersei and Tyrion more, both were OBSESSED in being like him and gaining his recognition. Because both were pariahs - Cersei for being a woman and Tyrion for being an imp - and (unfortunately) the children of the most badass and feared man in the 7 Kingdons. So as you can expect, growing underestimated and humiliated, they were desperate to have the respect he had. They're ruling is a great example of this, they're bad at it because it's all about their ego (the irony is that Tywin himself knows that Power is not like this, it's not about respecting who you are but a Persona, this means having to enact and hold you ego sometimes).
Both of them are so similar in their feelings that they could have really comiserated with each other and formed a great duo and even relationship, if it wasn't for the Valonqar Fate and this Tywin-wannabe behaviour.
trying to learn charisma from those videos is like trying to learn boxing by watching Mike Tyson highlights
I miss the good writing of first seasons.
I think Charles Dance was probably the best actor on the series, massive screen presence in every scene.
My body language, facial expressions and voice are naturally like those of Tywin's. People have told me numerous times that I'm intimidating. I used to think this is my flaw that I come out as too strong, especially due to the fact I'm a woman. But hey, I never got tricked or bullied because of my image. And now I feel proud, because Tywin is one of my favourite characters and sharing his personality is great!
That's the spirit girl !
We need more women like that. I find weak women extremely dull and boring. I want a power couple.
I doubt it. Anyone who believe they need to share something like this on a RUclips is pathetic. Don't compare yourself to such a great character. You're surrounded by weaker people with weaker agendas. Don't get ahead of yourself buddy xD
Tywin gets respect because he's "Dear Sweet Brutha Numpsay!"
Golden Child reference😁
Tywin had advantage tho, he was an old man meening he knew a lot, he had been in power and growing without ever losing, and And he wasn’t some old man that couldn’t walk, he might have old age problems but he still shows a very good posture, making him seem like his in a “higher place”
Hear me roar!!!
First line : if you want to gain respect by fear. You MUST have power, if not dont be like Tywin .