It only took two days for it to get like this... | Clean With Me | Mom of 2 under 3
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- Hi! Welcome to my channel, today I am cleaning my disaster of a living room while I share some tips and experiences on cleaning while dealing with overstimulation.
Thank you for hanging out with me!
I am probably going to be hated for this comment but I my heart goes out to you and I mean well!! You have far too many accessible toys for the tinies.. Put at least half in cardboard boxes, store them away and every month or so swap them around.. Make yourself a "routine" chart .. Does not have to complicated.. Think about from breakfast onwards for the day.. You're doing fantastic, this time will pass and the babies will remember the love you give them, not the lack of spotless. xx
I enjoy Remi Clog also. She is so honest and informative about life inside the workings of autism and other related life challenges she and her family share.
She really is such an inspiration to me. Her videos are a big reason I started my videos. :)
Remi clog is the best and so honest
Remi is such a darling
Remi is wonderful, I love how relatable it all is. And how wise and warm Remi is!
You’re doing great I love your videos Rosie!
"How to clean when you're overstimulated"....did you make this video just for me???
You're so right about getting comfortable, omg. I got an oversized "oh look more dishes" t-shirt from @MidwestMagicCleaning and a pair of soft leggings and now they're my "housework" uniform, lol.
The rest of your advice about sorting and the bins/bags boxes sounds so workable o me. Thank you!!!
Hi there, great content thanks for sharing
Thank you so much for your comment and for watching my video!!
I loveeee Remi! She is the best! Great job today!!!!
She is, isn’t she?! Thank you!! 💕💕
They have the cutest toddler toy dyson vacuum on Amazon! I got it for my daughters 2nd Christmas because she loved helping me vacuum too.
I enjoy Remi, she totally helps me.
You took the right step with decluttering! "When your stuff causes you stress it's time for it to go." Yes!! The only other thing I would encourage you to do to make life more manageable is to Instruct your kids to help put toys away. Obviously when they are little like this you help them but when your daughter was sitting next to you she could have put a few books away. Teaching them where things go from a young age with gentle reminders to clean up whrn they are done an activity will help them naturally put things away.
I’m completely opposite. I have to do the smaller messes first but it motivates me to get the bigger messes done!
I like seeing the cleaning videos 😄
I think the way you are doing the videos are perfect. I, too, watch Remi Clog and love her. Your videos remind me of her videos. Keep doing what you're doing.
Just wait until you notice how happy and content your babies will be with less toys ❤
You’re right! They will be able to focus on what they’re paying with better hopefully. 🥰🥰
Declutter and make it easier on yourself by getting rid of toys and clothes laying around. Being a minulist will help with your depression and anxiety.
Love your video, Rosie! You have a lovely voice and way of speaking that is calming and inviting. I like your video style as well-great camera placement. You're a natural. Keep it up! Look forward to seeing more of you. I just subscribed.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate that!! :)
Sorry for the onslaught of commentary from me, but I know comments are good for the algorithm, so I let myself get chatty. No need to ever reply, lol.
But since you asked, I love this format and content, though I have to admit I spend a lot of time just looking for the dogs. Soooo cute, especially the little fluffy one. 🥰
Just an idea to take or leave - I suspect it's a "leave" for most people 😂 - I struggle with being overstimulated too, and never know where to start in those moments. But todo lists stress me out even more.
What I discovered this past week was that a flowchart helps soooooo much. I sat down and thought through it ONCE, so I never have to think about it again. It has things like "are there clothes in the dryer? If yes, fold them. If no, check the dishwasher. Are there enough dirty clothes for another load? If yes, do another load. If no, clean a bathroom."
I made sure the paths through it would have me doing everything that needed to be done over the course of the week by varying each day, but would end after a reasonable daily amount of work. I also built in little tea breaks for longer sets of chores. 😁
The benefit for me is that I don't have to think about what I'm going to do, I just have to follow the path and answer yes/no questions. So it helped reduce my mental overwhelm. Just throwing this out as an alternative to lists in case it's useful to anyone.
Hey Laurel, loving seeing you over here supporting Rosie! Could I pretty please get a copy of your flowchart to try out, you could email it to me? 🙌 I loved the idea when you mentioned it last week and now you've explained it a bit more I can visualise how that would work so well x
@@fifefreecleaning Absolutely! It's 3am here and I should be asleep, so hopefully I'll fall asleep before getting to it, but look for it soon!
So funny that you mentioned Remi as I was just about to ask if you had watched her as you give me the same vibes 😊 I didn't realise you and your family were all sharing the same room that must add to your difficulties with home upkeep, you're doing amazing, you got more done in this video than I've done in my own home in days 😅 it's one of those weeks for me, motivation is a struggle x
Hey friend, catching up on your videos. You definitely got a lot done on this day. Thank you for sharing with us.
@@HeyJaimeKennedy thank you! It took me all day but I sure slept well! 😅😝
great job, it's a challenge to keep babes safe and ensure they have freedom to play
It really is nonstop but I am working everyday to be better at it! Thank you so much for leaving me a kind comment. 💕
So lovely
Love youuuu
I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed lately and I don’t know from what. I have adhd so I guess that’s playing into it🤷🏼♀️
You did a beautiful job❤
That absolutely plays a part in it! It’ll get better. :)
Hi there lovely new subscriber ❤ great clean😊you got this mama❤
Ahhh thank you! We've got such an amazing little community here!! 🥰💜
You’re amazing 🫶🏼🥰 just subscribed ✨
Great job!
Thank you momma! ❤️
You did a great job! Thank you.
I'm new to your channel
you are doing great !!!!! don't burn yourself out....15 minutes at a time and you'll get there.
To many small toys that gotta go,looks like they are not playing with them. Only biger toys that ca be put to a side😊
My brain works the same as yours, I have ADHD with major initiation task issues. I hate when my house gets messy but my brain won’t let me tidy unless I trick it and it doesn’t want to be tricked some days 😏 My tip is to have less stuff and a robot vacuum cleaner, this way my house cannot get overly messy (somehow it still does but it takes less time to clean) and my floor is cleaned on a daily basis. Also I use timers but for like 5 or 7mn, not more than this. My brain is ok to get up and work for 5 mn, then once I have started doing something, most of the time my brain doesn’t want to stop, hehe, I’ve tricked my brain. ! 😂
Thank you so much for those great ideas! 💕☺️
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Oh how I remember those days of cleaning with a baby stuck on your hip❣️
Sorry Rosie ,in another video I mentioned that why didn't think of decluttering first, you do. It IS the 3rd o 4th video I see.You 've mentioned Remi,I follow her she IS awesome.
I have depression and anxiety and tend to stress clean. But clutter also exacerbates that for me. This would have drove me crazy.
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throw everything in a basket. then it's "clean." then put things away one by one.
You asked about what kind of videos your viewers like... As for me, I am open to most types but like what I have seen of yours! Music is okay, voice-over is good (after all, you speak well!), or a combination. If you ever want to do true sound (what is happening at time of recording) then I can go with that also. I realize that editing and adding sound can be rather time-consuming and technical, depending upon experience level... Okay with me for it to be easier for you to help reduce stress or whatever you need so you decide! Appreciate your asking but I like what you say and do so I am happy! -- Have to say I loved it when the baby made off with the vacuum! What sweeties your children are!-- I am easily overstimulated and do many things to compensate and keep calmer than I normally would. So many are not possible with small kids in the home. The one thing which stands out in memory (when I was a young mother) and even now is decluttering so that my major visual "read" of home was and is cleaner, neater and much more easily maintained. It also helped me not to buy duplicates (didn't know what I had as I couldn't see it) and to be able to find what I needed quickly (usually!) -- partly a result of discreet areas for particular functioning. Well I digress but appreciate your sharing so much.-- Hugs!
Rosie, you do NOT babble! I enjoy hearing your point-of-view and experiences as a mother and human being! No apologies needed as you share and I am sure more than just myself benefits from listening... You have a way of expressing yourself that appeals to me and makes me want to know more. (Of course, as you want to share more not that it is expected.) I had severe post-partum depression and a history of depression before that... I know what it means to be challenged in this way and I want to encourage you as you go along on the journey: feel people need to support one another as they are able and what is the purpose of having recovered from depression if not to share the hope? (This is what I ask myself.) Big hug for you and your brave and candid talking points. 🥰
Not sitting the baby in the middle of the pile!!!! ❤❤😂😂😂. I guess I'm subscribing. Love to you and your family.
HAHAHA!! He usually just tramples through it but I guess he decided it was more comfortable 😂
Thank you for being here 🩷
Keeping it real Rosie❤ ❤ ❤ You need to take care of you too my dear! Snacks & Water ❤❤❤
You’re right!! You can’t pour from an empty cup right?! 💕
This was such a satisfying clean! You did such an amazing job! I think I'm a naturally messy person, and I don't like messes. It sounds crazy, but it's so true. I work hard to clean up messes, and I'm sure I could make it easier on myself, but geez.. it's just hard. I need to declutter, but I get so overwhelmed with it. Loving your channel!
You might be new but you are doing an awesome job.
That face at 7:49 :D was perfect!
This was definitely the most visually satisfying to watch because of all the cleaning. It was also nice to slowly see you get less stressed as the house got cleaner. Amazing Job! Keep up the great work!
HAHA that was going to be my little snack/reward but noooooo
Thank you for watching it all the way through!
Hi Rosie just found your channel you are doing great keep going not easy you are a fantastic 😊
Hi! Thank you for watching my video and commenting! It’s really rough some days but RUclips has helped so much already. I just started my channel recently but so far it’s been so fun creating this community. ❤️❤️
This was such a refreshing great video! 🥹 you’re doing amazing btw and what you were saying about being messy doesn’t mean you like the mess is so true and I feel like a lot of people don’t get that people can easily make messes but there’s a lot of factors sometimes that can be why they don’t clean it up right away. I live with family as well so it’s a smaller space to work with all the toys and stuff which can make it harder to clean but I saw another comment mention toy rotation and that has helped me as well! This style of video helps me get motivated to clean but I like both styles a vlog type one & voiceover are both nice. Also I totally get that it’s hard to do voiceovers with kids my toddler is very loud as well lol, don’t feel too much pressure if sometimes the sound of toys or background noise from your kids get in the voiceover sometimes it happens and as moms we totally understand that and it’s okay! 💖 this was a great video & a lot of comforting topics you talked about.
Thank you so much for your feedback on the voiceover. I’m so grateful that most of the people that have been watching my videos are mothers and have been so kind. Thank you for being here. 💕💕
I was going to ask if you could keep the toys in the kids' bedroom until you explained your living arrangements, lol! You're doing a great job. Maybe you could have just a few toys out at a time and rotate. Fewer toys mean less time cleaning. This is the first video of yours that I've seen. It's amazing how much you did with little ones under foot. Your children are adorable! I'll look at more of your videos before I bombard you with questions, lol. I enjoy the voiceover. I know it takes time to edit that style, so do what's best for your schedule! Take care, Linda 🦋
Oh gosh Linda! Thank you for taking the time to write me love a lovely thoughtful comment! ☺️ the goal is absolutely to be able to move somewhere with more space but I’ve got to be patient. I have been decluttering a bunch and will definitely try out toy rotations because we do have a small garage to store a few things. I really appreciate your suggestion! 🌹
@@RosieFlaten 👍
You have your priorities straight. Your kids come first. I love watching you and your kids. Keep up the good work.🎉
And here are my two cents two the two dollars you’ll earn 😉: you are doing absolutely fine!
You will have enough time to deep clean when your babies are older and you are not that overwhelmed, don’t bother with that. Do a good enough job for now, that’s perfect!
And: sure you’re the one who picks up after the kids, but you are also the one who teaches them how to avoid messes and how to clean up, and also you can regulate how much they have in reach to create chaos with 🙂
Another good video. I love watching Remi as well. I enjoyed your voice overs ❤
Piles is what I do. They're my magic little ways to tackle what I need to do. Also I kind of have a list, like, I will start with the trash, dishes, and then clothes. I find if I can tackle it that way then the amount of things it knocks down it's easier to tackle the rest with an end in sight.
I love your videos. I like how youre chatty And thank you for being real
You are so relatable ❤
Thank you! I try to be as honest and transparent as possible. ☺️❤️
You are awesome. I grew up in a small 2 bedroom house for 6 kids and 2 adults. I don't remember any time that it was nest and clean. You are doing an awesome job. I am so impressed with your plan for cleaning. You are awesome!!
I watch Remi also I like her making list doing each thing then go add more to it . An her other ideas to clean ..
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U r doing awesome
@@tanyaazsx aww thank you, I appreciate that. ☺️
Please give yourself some grace. You’re doing a fantastic job. And your kids won’t always be this small or your home!
You did a great job! ❤
@@keepingitcleaner7266 thank you, I really appreciate that!! So validating! 🥰💕
girl keep up the good work and keep decluttering!!! it will be the solution!
Thank you! ☺️ I plan on it!
You are doing great . Hope you are getting help with your PPD. Love the voice over x
Thank you! Yes I am! Therapy, medication, and self care! 💕
you did a great job👍👍👍👍🌼🦋🌷🌺💐🌹🌸🌻 we have four grandkids💜💗💛💚 you and your family take care💜🤗💗🤗 have a Blessed day💜💜💜💜
Thank you a bunch! These are my mom’s first grandkids :) you have an amazing day too! ❤️💕❤️💕
I love Remi! You've got this mama!
She really is amazing! Thank you for the comment. Makes my day to know I have other women supporting me!! ❤️
I really like your nice chatty video. Brings back lots of memories .I had three babies in four years, and a very exacting husband who constantly complained about the mess. I am a messy person but mess bothers me so I was forever cleaning up . But I had three little Sherman tanks coming after me and undoing all the good work ...just in time for their dad to walk in!!
HAHAHA EXACTLY! He sees the final product and is like... "What did you do today hun?" lol its the gremlins! Your comment describes my life but I am learning to embrace it. 🩷
Great job! I’m sorry you’re dealing with PPD. That’s very challenging with two small children. ❤ I love Remi’s videos too, she’s great!
I like the voice over style of videos, so we can watch as you clean.
Looking forward to seeing more of your content! ❤
Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback a ton. :) I want to also create vloggy type content but maybe I should keep them in separate videos?
@@RosieFlaten I would keep them separate, yes. I find it hard to watch when videos switch between styles.
@@tahirihwalsh6217 okay got it! Thank you bunches for your insight. ☺️💕
You are in my prayers and thoughts ❤
I think its great you sorted out the toys and got rid of the old ones so they could play with the newer ones. You did a great job.
Thank you! I ended up with three bags to take to donations. They didn’t even notice! 🤣😊
To help your sitaution you need to declutter ..you will feel so much better ❤ god bless you
You are absolutely right! 😌 that is the plan in the very near future.
@@RosieFlaten if you were closer i would help i got 2 boys and i know thr feeling but i have decluttered and my life changed .
Love Remi clog ❤❤❤
I'm still here I think you are starting off in the right direction.
I would try to get rid of some stuff so the next clean up will be
easier and each time it will get easier.
The space is small but getting rid of stuff will give you more space. Great Job!!!!!
Hi dear Rosie, I really like your videos. So you asked for advice on how to tidy and what works for me is trying to apply minimalism a bit. So the less I own, the less clutter and responsibility to clean :) Sending you warm hugs!
I think that is the number one recommendation I have heard and I think you’re right. I am going to work to get things dialed back very soon. Thank you!! 😊💕
I know it's hard to stay on top of it when the kids are small and the apartment is small.I had almost the same situation,even when I'm not messy at all,it goes out of control now and then.Now my kids are already in school,it was just a blink of an eye.Now I'm ready for a new baby😅don't worry,everything is fine and I just came to tell you this❤❤❤love from germany abd have a nice day
Exactly! The days are long but the years are short. ☺️🫶🏼💕
Hi! I know you're decluttering as you clean, that's imperative! We all usually have too many clothes and toys!
yes wayyy too many clothes and toys! I've been through the toys, just need to tackle the clothes.
Fantastic job rosie!! Give yourself grace, give yourself time, give your body the nutrients it needs. As moms we tend to put ourselves last but we need to make sure that we are taken care of too! ❤ Thanks for sharing. New sub 😊
I appreciate you more than words can explain! I will keep myself in mind when I’m starting to put everything before me. 💕
@@RosieFlaten absolutely! You deserve it!! 💕
I really like cleaning videos and the voice over! Thanks for the video! Praise Jesus!❤
Thank you! 💕
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waou you did a lot!!gg
Thank you! It felt like forever lol
Put some of the toys away. Too many small pieces, that can become a choking hazard. ❤❤
I have that same Bible. Your doing awesome
I like the voiceovers and organizing and cleaning videos. Good job!
I like your voiceovers 👍love Remi too!
What is filling that travel cot? Is it washing or clean clothes? You obviously don't use half the stuff in it as you can't reach it. 😐 again ask your Mum or family to take the children out for even an hour so you can really get stuck in. 💐
It was clean clothes but I was able to get everything put away :) I put them in there because my dogs like to lay on out clean laundry 😅
Ask your Mum to take the kids out from under your feet for a few hours, they can get some fresh air and excercise. 💐
You are doing great 😊
I wonder if Mum helps with the cleaning, I love cleaning with my daughter.
It's so busy with children this age to keep on top of things. This is such a satisfying clean, though! Thanks for the motivation ❤ you got this mama!
I agree. I prefer to wear clothing that is comfortable while tackling a big clean!! Yes! It makes such a difference.
Remi Clog is amazing. I love her.
I think it’s habit, not a natural instinct for me to clean either. But I do hate the mess so that kind of motivates me. I feel more overwhelmed and anxious when it’s messy.
I totally agree. I lost motivation to clean when the kids just mess it up straight after. Now I want to throw 80% when we find a new rental
Needed this today, happy to meet you!
You got this!
Please read the book how to ADHD.
Wow you did lota
I found out when I was a young mom, I got rid of toys that she didn't play with , but she didn't know about it! And guess what? She didn't miss the stuff!
I have been slowly decluttering the toys and so far they haven't noticed a difference. its made a difference in my life for sure though! thank you!!
3 books and 1 toy each kid everything else needs to go
I appreciate the suggestion, I just don't think that's realistic for us. much love!
Mit Kindern überfordert aber dann auch noch Tiere sich zulegen
I’m not sure if my translation is correct but we got all of our animals before we had our kids :)
I suffer from deppresssion and so hard for me to clean even get up😢
I'm so sorry to hear that. One day at a time, one step at a time, one breath at a time. 🩷
@@RosieFlaten Thank you for encouraging words