One year after coming out to my "homophobic" dad

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @themccarlos8826
    @themccarlos8826 Год назад +2062

    Now I understand why this video took longer to upload. This was such an intimate experience. I just want to emphasize that despite Stan’s father, going from a homophobe to someone who tries and adapt to stan’s sexuality is very heartwarming. And the fact that no matter what trauma or hardship stan had to endure with his father, he still loved him no matter what. Now that's the true definition of maturity and growth. ❤❤❤

    • @giovannasdiaryz
      @giovannasdiaryz Год назад +8

      I love him sm

    • @fvckingzara
      @fvckingzara Год назад +5

      I was like huh he didn’t post and now iky

    • @cinder.01-z3x
      @cinder.01-z3x Год назад +5

      always go to channel to relieved my stress away - you are such a blessing to your fam our dear stan2x. You really helped in making your family bonds even more stronger

  • @Baily_Tube
    @Baily_Tube Год назад +1446

    Stan, your Dad being SOO Filipino with the bragging to random people had me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TimDFSmart
    @TimDFSmart Год назад +480

    I fucking love Steven now. He has grown so comfortable and hilarious on camera. We need more of him

  • @saeukiii
    @saeukiii Год назад +401

    honestly love how supportive your dad is to the point he even brags about you it’s so wholesome and adorable. also love how steven was playing around with the gun we def need more of him in your vlogs from time to time!!! 😭🙏

    • @asxtro7145
      @asxtro7145 Год назад +11

      I don’t want to sound rude or for Stan to see this because I know I don’t know them personally, but his dad doesn’t seem that genuine. I feel like he’s “accepted” Stan because he’s successful and has money. I wonder if his dad respects all lgbtq+ ppl or if it’s just his kids.

    • @saeukiii
      @saeukiii Год назад

      He can come off that way to you but we'll never be too sure. Like you said we don't know them personally so It's best not to just assume the worst and just keep it to ourselves. At the end of the day it's stan and his dad getting along and having a good relationship. Also, I'm pretty sure stan reads almost all of his comments if not a vast majority of them so.. 🧑‍🦯@@asxtro7145

    • @BENI_MMNA
      @BENI_MMNA Год назад +14

      I think he's genuine. The money definitely made it much easier, though. You can't fake this behaviour.

    • @cleverjames3715
      @cleverjames3715 Год назад +30

      @@asxtro7145 He's really genuine and Stan is smart enough to realize it. Let alone his father had no idea what he has been doing on the internet when he came out to his dad

  • @ebycna
    @ebycna Год назад +679

    as a muslim, i find it so beautiful to see the development of your father. god only wants the best for us. all love, i am so happy for you guys! love you stan

    • @VshapeDino
      @VshapeDino Год назад +9

      💥💥💥💥

    • @nyanneko20
      @nyanneko20 Год назад +14

      ​@@VshapeDino😾

    • @Shaytan.666
      @Shaytan.666 Год назад +19

      @@VshapeDino this was so disrespectful, I hate it still find it funny somehow 😂😂😂

    • @VshapeDino
      @VshapeDino Год назад +11

      I just meant you were a ray of sunshine , you misunderstood 😂

    • @justus1994
      @justus1994 Год назад

      ​@@VshapeDinolooks like a boom, Explode

  • @Yourdailydoseofsarcasm
    @Yourdailydoseofsarcasm Год назад +375

    Seeing Stan being so happy and living his life motivates me to work hard and do the things I wanna do SHUT UP ❤

  • @Kellylots
    @Kellylots Год назад +217

    Your brother looks so much fun to go out with! So nice to see him more on your family vlogs

  • @annoyingdog4820
    @annoyingdog4820 Год назад +451

    I HAVEN'T FINISHED THE VIDEO AND MAYBE IT'S ON PURPOSE BUT STAN YOUR DAD'S FACE IS UNCENSORED

    • @polandi4057
      @polandi4057 Год назад +61

      STAN THIS IS AN EMERGENCY!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @napstablook3935
      @napstablook3935 Год назад +1

      STAAAAAN UR DADS FACE AT THE START COVER IT QUIIICK @worldofxtra

    • @pennybesid
      @pennybesid Год назад +62

      there's a part when Stan's dad face is uncensored OMG but even his previous vlog with his dad there's this incident so idk maybe it's on purpose

    • @JoeAndrei
      @JoeAndrei Год назад +4

      UP!!!

    • @Jemoederiskkrlelijk123
      @Jemoederiskkrlelijk123 Год назад +6

      It has happened before 😭

  • @AdventuresWithAlex
    @AdventuresWithAlex Год назад +54

    Maybe I haven’t been keeping up with the vlogs enough lately but oh my gosh your brother has absolutely blossomed on camera. He’s so silly and fun 😂 I remember him being very quiet and stiff from the older vlogs with him

  • @surjitkaur2819
    @surjitkaur2819 Год назад +28

    After I saw the comming out video when it came out it gave me confidence to came out to my dad aswell and it went better than I thought and now I feel much more connected to my family. I dont have to hide anymore.

  • @natillitas1199
    @natillitas1199 Год назад +101

    I can't judge your entire relationship by just a few videos, but I'm so happy for you Stan!!! you two look more comfortable around each other and closer too ❤ it's good to see the improvement even if you still feel awkward or anxious at times

  • @dingdongg01
    @dingdongg01 Год назад +14

    i remember how you used to dread going to your dad & it would show on your face. now seeing you at the train station, excited & greeting him the way you did was so wholesome🥹🫶🏽

  • @AlySeul
    @AlySeul Год назад +39

    Love seeing Steven more!! Such a wholesome video.

  • @d4xis_artist
    @d4xis_artist Год назад +92

    I love how supportive your dad is. My dad only shouted at me, insulted me, and laughed at me, until he divorced my mum without any penny, I finally started to live in peace. Be glad you have him. ♥

  • @g.aloysie8439
    @g.aloysie8439 Год назад +22

    I'm so happy that the relationship with your father is so much better, it takes a lot of effort to change and honestly he has putt in the effort, I wish all parents were like that.

  • @sunpi
    @sunpi Год назад +13

    when he says A GAY LOLLL

  • @Amira1st
    @Amira1st Год назад +7

    It's funny how you coming out to your dad was the first ever video that I ever watched from your channel, since then I have watched EVERY SINGLE video you have posted, and a year passed by SOOO FASSTTT

  • @cam.j1517
    @cam.j1517 Год назад +20

    STAN I THINK YOU FORGOT TO BLUR HIS FACE AT THE BEGGINING O_O

  • @tiagomateus1845
    @tiagomateus1845 Год назад +3

    such a beautiful time with the father and the brother, just hanging out, having fun and being free and comfortable, so wholesome

  • @gabrielbumanglag3303
    @gabrielbumanglag3303 Год назад +7

    I'm so happy for that your relationship with your dad is getting better and better. My relationship with my dad was not the easiest but I will continue to endure and trying my very best to make things right.

  • @tootles444
    @tootles444 Год назад +3

    I love Steven’s chaotic energy!! Also love all of this amazing positive energy. So happy for you Stan!!!

  • @khaizendra3749
    @khaizendra3749 Год назад +18

    I made it to your video 🥹🥹 thank u so much stan. Being a gay in a very strict country is depressing but your video makes me able to go thru my day everyday . I love u! Please lmk if you gonna come to Indonesia!!!

  • @NICOCHA_
    @NICOCHA_ Год назад +22

    Honestly I’m so happy ur dad is building a relationship with you and trying to support you love u Stan💖💖💖

  • @jpatrickE
    @jpatrickE 8 месяцев назад +3

    I so LOVE Steven's Golden Retriever energy.❤❤.. this video is so intimate and heartwarming

  • @MALICEMIZERDIO
    @MALICEMIZERDIO Год назад +3

    YES PLS MAKE A VIDEO ABT UR EXPERIENCE IN DATING it would be so intresting and fun to hear what u go thru in that subject!

  • @kaito001
    @kaito001 Год назад +16

    steven with the gun is one of the funniest thing in this vlog

  • @lmcb8447
    @lmcb8447 Год назад +4

    Pls do overshare king!!
    We want the boy drama!! 😂❤
    Also very happy y'all are better than before as a family ❤❤❤!!

  • @trixy1823
    @trixy1823 Год назад +4

    ❤👍🏼⭐️👏🏽👏🏼👏🏾❤️ Such a huge step. The “Before” Stan and the “After” Stan. When I watched your “come out” video… first of all I cried in happiness for you… then I commented that you may start changing in ways you won’t expect. A journey to see how much of your identity is wrapped up in defensive walls and fighting self hatred that comes from not being accepted for who you are.
    Are you aware of any changes in your priorities now? Does anything, you use to do, now seem less important or even seen as self destructive? When I think of how much strength you have in demanding that the world accept you for exactly who you are… my heart just bursts with happiness.
    I lived in a college dorm, in the U. S., with the largest gay population on campus. A campus with the 2nd largest gay population in the country. I watched and suffered with my best friends as they struggled with how to face the world… way before support from social media… or any media. They only saw themselves, portrayed on screen, as walking lust filled emotional scars destined for a tragic end. It angers me even now… 40 years later. They both achieved greatness in their lives but the scars still pop up and become triggers for them.
    Knowing what triggers you is key. Knowing that some actions come from the younger you that created the defensive walls when you had little idea how to create such things. Warped survival tools of the younger you that created your self identity.
    There may be days where there is a turbulent storm between the cold air “identity” that was the defensive you and the warm air “identity” that is the more secure and stable you now. Your soul is going to demand that you grow and love yourself in healthy ways. That may create a whole new you.
    I guess I’m saying to be loving to the old you (with the deep scars) when he pops up and wreaks havoc in your life and relationships. Hug him and tell him he doesn’t need to defend you anymore. You have experienced all levels of trauma and healing from that gets turbulent. I grieve with you… for those scars.
    I love seeing how well you handle those times with self care and a good rest. It is amazing to follow your journey as you grow yourself. Thank you. You are amazing❤👍🏼⭐️👏🏽👏🏼👏🏾❤️. 🌈💛🧡❤️‍🩹💙💚

  • @elienemans
    @elienemans Год назад +6

    SPILL THE TEA!! Also love the update and you guys being able to spend a good time together, what an evolution! So proud of you Stan for opening up and making this even possible ❤

  • @Bibimbapski
    @Bibimbapski Год назад +22

    I think your dad asking for a land cruiser is such an Asian parent thing lol especially Filipino parent like a Filipino mom or tita who wants an LV or Gucci bag once their kids are older. My cousin is a nurse and her mom (my auntie) keeps asking her for an LV bag and she finally got one for her birthday

  • @hoshf47
    @hoshf47 Год назад +18

    i have a very different opinion about parents who 'accept' lgbtq+ people only when their child is one, but i find stan to be very strong. it's hard to keep a good relationship with someone who has been homophobic and to even try and change that person's mindset.

  • @jakeyikeu
    @jakeyikeu Год назад +16

    omg I love how you guys can hangout freely naaa, and help the uncensored face (was it intentional?) but I just wanna say I'm so proud of you po! keep it up, love you and your videos!!

    • @Pizza1555
      @Pizza1555 Год назад

      What part was he uncensored

  • @Neo_Satedoriiii
    @Neo_Satedoriiii Год назад +83

    They are so cute wtf😭😭Im almost in tears

  • @jj9268
    @jj9268 Год назад +14

    I want to give props to Stan for always giving us really well made videos ! I Think we can all feel and see how much effort stan puts into every single video he uploads 💕💕

  • @archiveofarchi
    @archiveofarchi Год назад +8

    Hiiiii
    I'm so happy for you and soooo proud of your dad.
    Changing views you've kept fot years and years is sooo tough and its really a testament as to how much he loves you that he has changed.
    I truly hope your family will stay forever loving and supportive 🤍🤍

  • @Alimac1112
    @Alimac1112 Год назад +2

    I have to say it's really awesome to see how Steven is much more comfortable om camera now. He seems a lot of fun and his personality is coming through so much more!❤

  • @_phiaa
    @_phiaa Год назад +2

    this video was so wholesome omg 😭 its so nice to see you and your dad getting along so well stan ❤ and omg, stephen's camera shyness is basically nonexistant its so nice to see him in more videos!!! the bowling edit was so funny, youre such a good editor stan 😭

  • @miloeditsstuff_
    @miloeditsstuff_ Год назад +8

    every time I see stans RUclips notification on my phone screen, I smile so much 😭😭 his videos are so interesting and funny. honsetly one of my favourite youtubers 🥹💙

  • @aimer7697
    @aimer7697 Год назад +2

    Who's slicing onions???? 😭 I am so happy that he opened up his heart. Parents are the source of warmth and comfort, they're the ones who you can rely on, your safe place, not a source of trauma and pain. I read so many real life stories of parents abusing their child because of their sexual orientation, and it's fxcking painful to read. No one deserves such kind treatment.
    I am so happy that he made effort to be a parent that you deserve, Stan. I love how he has become super proud of you, even us, who aren't blood related to you, are proud of you and hearing that from the mouth of your dad, made me tear up. 😭💜

  • @fur1069
    @fur1069 Год назад +13

    yes we need updates on your love life!!! the tea needs to be spilled 😮
    about this video, it was really wholesome to see your relationship with your father getting so much better! it’s so nice to see your dad, steven and you altogether, i hope stewie could join yall soon!
    i would love to see you, steven and stewie visiting your dad altogether 😊 i loved this video so much, it was very sweet and to see you having fun with your family is always amazing!

  • @amiborillo5165
    @amiborillo5165 Год назад +4

    i almost spat my food when you came out with the wig hahahaha that was so unexpected tf

    • @sdlyoongi
      @sdlyoongi Год назад +2

      and a g u n BAHAHAHA

  • @kuku_day
    @kuku_day Год назад +5

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS DAY FOR YOU TO POST ❤ I'm soooooo so so glad you and your dad have improved your relationship it makes me so happy 🤭

  • @24hurx
    @24hurx Год назад +1

    YES STAN OMGG LITERALLY PLEASE MAKE A RELATIONSHIP STATUS UPDATE + VLOG. LYSMMMMM❤❤❤

  • @jaimege84
    @jaimege84 Год назад

    You could see how happy Steven was to be with Stan and dad. I think it reminds him of happy times. I hate how much I cry every time you do the videos with your dad. The gay trauma is too much sometimes but I’m happy for your journey!

  • @reddie28.12
    @reddie28.12 Год назад +5

    Stan, I’m really really really proud of you and happy for your family! I discovered your videos last year and I even shared it with my cousins. We watch your new videos every week and we love your content so much. Wish you lots of more happiness and can’t wait for more videos of you and your dad together! With love from Amsterdam! 🇳🇱❤️

  • @brookiesykes5216
    @brookiesykes5216 8 месяцев назад +1

    Your dad is so incredible I can not believe the progress ✨

  • @canataloupe_6389
    @canataloupe_6389 6 месяцев назад

    i remember stan unyassifying himself before meeting his dad in one of his vlogs. but now he's truly free and accepted by him TTT

  • @_a1i30n_7
    @_a1i30n_7 Год назад +2

    That video was my first ever 'worldofxtra' video. I'm glad I got to find your channel, even though it was through a very emotional video.

    • @alyssavocadoo
      @alyssavocadoo Год назад

      Same here!! I’m so glad RUclips recommended it to me🥰 I still remember crying a lot watching it lol

  • @iolandahope9766
    @iolandahope9766 Год назад +13

    I love the fact that your relationship with your dad improved so much, Stan! I can relate on some level. Me and my dad, we bearly had any relationship until I was older, like over 18-19 (I am 23 now). I got a lot of trauma when I was younger and I chose to have peace and forgive my father for whatever he did and now I'm happy I did. We talk pretty frequently and our relationship is light and fun. Sometimes us children have to be the bigger person so we can be at peace with ourselves. Anger hurts on many different levels if you keep it inside. Of course, if it's possible to forgive you're parents and start having good relationships with them, that's great, if not, you got it besties!

  • @fluffy.boy.3ds
    @fluffy.boy.3ds Год назад +3

    Literally seeing this video spawn onto my fyp made my day

  • @aishaborah1508
    @aishaborah1508 Год назад +2

    I am so happy that Stan is ending the year with such a loving family , i hope he gets all the love he missed so much ,❤❤❤❤

  • @Rockiepunk
    @Rockiepunk Год назад +5

    I can watch Stan content 24/7 and never get bored thank you Stan for keeping us entertained 😍

  • @kpopsweetlemon1396
    @kpopsweetlemon1396 Год назад +1

    I just love how entertaining your videos are and that watching your videos makes me feel confident to be myself and to not car what people say.

  • @hershe8257
    @hershe8257 Год назад +4

    yay, i've been waiting for this vid again with your papa!!

  • @bobadrawingsXD
    @bobadrawingsXD 5 дней назад +1

    I love yall so much and yalls energy and that ur dad is tryong to be very nice

  • @wsxfafoxws
    @wsxfafoxws Год назад +15

    No way that was a year ago! Wow I need to quit wasting time and start living like I promised myself I would.
    You’re great Stan! Take care!

  • @joggysunbae
    @joggysunbae Год назад +1

    gosh I cant believe I'm so early. Also this is so wholesome. I love today's theme video luv it. I also luv how his father's face is no longer censored in the introducation.

  • @markiemoooo
    @markiemoooo Год назад +2

    I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S BEEN A WHOLE YEAR......... ANYWAY LOVE U STAN U ATE EVERYTIME 💓💓

  • @y0iiilol
    @y0iiilol Год назад +3

    i don't know if you forgot to ,but stan, your dad faces are uncensored in the first few minutes 😭😭

  • @isabelamariem
    @isabelamariem Год назад +1

    Stan you should really start a podcast too! I think you are really good with like coming up with topics you can share your own opinion and I think the your discussion on it would be really good! Love you

  • @cuttingonions_lifeisdrama
    @cuttingonions_lifeisdrama Год назад +4

    Your dad being a full on pinoy with “a gay” 😂 This was cute lol

  • @Couffaine1902
    @Couffaine1902 Год назад +1

    It is so good to see all the communication and love going on in your family 🥰💗

  • @FrediLve
    @FrediLve Год назад +3

    Stan, it's really amazing that your relationship got so much better ❤❤
    And yes, pls overshare your love life 😛

  • @Johartennnnnnnn
    @Johartennnnnnnn Год назад

    STANNN you should 100% make a vid on your relationships I need the tea spilled rn xx

  • @kathymoore5790
    @kathymoore5790 Год назад +3

    Older brother is adorable😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @orangekun7337
    @orangekun7337 Год назад

    I’m sorry this video is so wholesome and I love watching you repair your relationship with your dad pls take that man shopping the half hood half holy hoodie is getting me😭😭😭😭😭

  • @armadhillo
    @armadhillo Год назад

    STAN plzzz talk about your dating experiences in japan i love those videos because they are a lil XTRA spicy oooo... your videos give me so much life we will all aggressively SLURP up your oversharing im so ready 💖

  • @JessicaLa
    @JessicaLa Год назад

    I'm obsessed with your vlogs, and seeing you happy is so infectious!

  • @aimeevandegriffe9158
    @aimeevandegriffe9158 Год назад +1

    That was the first video I ever watched of you and I have watched you ever sense, you are amazing and I’m so glad your dad was supportive! ❤

  • @shyjjj
    @shyjjj Год назад

    NAUR STEVEN'S COMEDIC TIMING WITH THAT GUN DURING THE Q&A HAD ME CHOKING ON MY LUNCH HAAHAHHHAB

  • @fictionallove_2416
    @fictionallove_2416 8 месяцев назад +3

    5:30 -
    Stan: "I will give you all the children"
    Dad: "WOW"

  • @FC-os1mm
    @FC-os1mm Год назад

    Stan, please make more videos with Steven and you. I love this dynamic 😭😭

  • @Arttaic
    @Arttaic Год назад

    The coming out video was what made subscribe to the channel, im glad you guys had a fun time together!

  • @juliexiong4124
    @juliexiong4124 Год назад +1

    I’m so happy for you…!! I love your relationships with your family 🥺💖

  • @leechang-z4n
    @leechang-z4n 3 месяца назад

    this man is more and more zesty hes such a w mans love the vids

  • @Amysync
    @Amysync Год назад

    Soooooo happy on your relationship growth with your dad, Stan! Although, I'm waiting for you to overshare EVERYTHING with your boy/gay dating experience there in Japan! Just kidding, no pressure! Love your vids! 🥰

  • @itssheiwawazo2978
    @itssheiwawazo2978 Год назад +2

    if you and Bretman will ever do a collab? its gonna be too hard to handle! period.

  • @suenezumi
    @suenezumi Год назад +6

    I'm so proud of you ,Stan!!!! 💛💛

  • @DarkiFelly
    @DarkiFelly Год назад +3

    11:17 i'm very proud of you as my son😢😢❤❤

  • @frankie6150
    @frankie6150 Год назад

    the "he, he, he, he" laugh got me lol! Love you Stan!
    And the gun GIRL!

  • @sunwooberry
    @sunwooberry Год назад +2

    “without jesus i am nothing” LMAO THE SHIRT 😭

  • @MichaelTheLord
    @MichaelTheLord Год назад +1

    I'm really happy for you!! I hope life keeps treating you well!! 💖

  • @reveriestarr
    @reveriestarr Год назад

    banger as always azali !!!!! the steady rhythm (even with a B section) is still so funky and fun :)
    do do do doooooo~

  • @Laura_mgc
    @Laura_mgc Год назад +2

    OMG IM SO EARLY AND THE COMING OUT VIDEO WAS MY FIRST VIDEO OF YOU SO I'VE KNOWN YOU FOR A YEAR LOVE UUUU❤️🤭🤭

  • @siffleanimaux1
    @siffleanimaux1 Год назад

    Would love to hear about your dating situation, Stan. I've got mad dating fatigue and it's such a lonely feeling.

  • @Kobemochii
    @Kobemochii Год назад

    hi stan!!! you inspired me to do vlogs and e confident your actually the one of my inspiration to start doing vlog even tho no one watch my video i still admire me doing a vlog like talking and talking 😭😭

  • @imnowherebutnowhere
    @imnowherebutnowhere Год назад +1

    Bruh Steven with gun the whole time has me crying 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ash_cal
    @ash_cal Год назад +2

    Yesssss. Give us a boy update 💕💅

  • @lynechess9254
    @lynechess9254 Год назад

    You are making the world a safe place you are holding the crown and I want you to be casted in a boylove series I love you so big❤️❤️❤️❤️from🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @yahir3644
    @yahir3644 Год назад +1

    woke up this morning like wonder if stan posted yet and here it is 2 minutes ago 😭😭

  • @davidminors7681
    @davidminors7681 Год назад +4

    @worldofxtra we love your videos - just letting you know that your dad’s face is uncensored in the beginning of the video Stan. Love you forever - 🇧🇲❤️❤️🇧🇲

  • @evdokiyatomatova
    @evdokiyatomatova Год назад

    STAAAN give us some dating drama stories 😋😋 love u for being so opened and genuineness. will be always proud of u ♥♥♥

  • @user-wp1dn7fd9w
    @user-wp1dn7fd9w Год назад

    Loved this video! And have I seen a nice jump from him? Is Dad the athletic one who passed it to you and Stewie? Can’t wait for the video on dating in Japan. I know you’ll be fun as always. I also think his wording “accept” is his way of explaining how he changed his mind. Shoutout to your Aunt 💗

  • @arandomguy7935
    @arandomguy7935 Год назад

    Yess, we want a video about your recent dating experiencessss ✨✨✨

  • @AmaanAtkins
    @AmaanAtkins Год назад +3

    Stan, you forgot to censor your dad in the first part of the video. Just wanted to share that with you. Please boost this to the top, so Stan can see it.❤

  • @popgas3821
    @popgas3821 Год назад +1

    8:55 this is honestly really sweet. I laughed a lot too. You are blessed Stan ❤.

  • @n00b94
    @n00b94 Год назад +2

    I LOVE YOU QUEEN! U ALWAYS SLAY AND INSPIRE OTHERS💗💗💗💗

  • @mukhriezayish2459
    @mukhriezayish2459 Год назад +2

    STAN UR DAD’S FACE IS UNCENSORED ON THE FIRST MINUTE

  • @alx.burgir
    @alx.burgir Год назад +1

    Haven't seen all of the video yet, but Steven is so cute 😭

  • @Jiminiepookie
    @Jiminiepookie Год назад +11

    I LOVE YOU POOKIE 🫶🏻🩷🩷