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Girl! Did the gnc lady apologize?!
omg hiii. Mommyhood looks so good on you!
Hiiii 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Change your age in the description 🥰
“Since you want to put on a show, I’m going to put on a bigger one!” I know that’s right! 😂😂🥰🥰
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That's the line right there! 💯
Thank you for sharing ❤🫶🏾
I went “PERIODDDDD”
“When you expect more than what a person has shown you they’re able to give- you’ll constantly be disappointed” an entire sermon !
Amen
BD is sooo mad at you because you're not begging and broke down, crying for him. He is trying to hurt you with the petty showing up late thing, but it's only going to hurt this innocent child. (you know he's lurking in these RUclips bushes 👀)
You got this Arnell...you've got great support from family and friends ❤🙏🏽
These RUclips bushes lol 😂 😂😂😂😂 I bet he is tho lol
Been there done that. Advice… don’t get upset. Noah will sense it more as he gets older. My ex husband use to do this with our Sons. Even today as grown men,they still remember. Gauge your responses with him. Be you & don’t tiptoe around situation. Say what you mean & mean what you say. Be kind & don’t ever speak ill of his Dad to Noah. Don’t give away your power. Regarding worry, it’s ok to be concerned, but don’t say you trust God and worry. (Listen to J Moss song- Don’t pray & worry). Things will fall into place in time. Blessings👍🏽🙏🏽💕 R
This was beautiful, thank you x
"Since you want to put on a show, I'll put on a bigger one... How about that?".... but in the most nicest, calmest voice! It's not a funny situation, but your little sweet voice made me chuckle.
Check him now because you are enabling him to constantly be late. If he isn't there at a certain time don't be available for him to pick up his child.
Exactly, big red flag
I feel you on the co-parenting front. He sounds a lot like my son’s dad (son is 22 now). He was constantly late or a no show. There’s a reason why my son’s relationship with his dad is almost non-existent and me and my son are close. Happily my son turned into an amazing young man and has good male relationships through my dad and brother and his uncles on his dad’s side. This is just a long way of relaying the importance of having good male role models in his life whether via good male friends or family. 💖
Noah saying thank you was the cutest. Thank you for letting us into your week.
So sorry you’re going through that Arnell but everything you said was so extremely valid
Happy Sunday Arnell and everyone 🤗♥️ It's always good to see an Arnell Armon video ❤
Hello😊 about the co-parenting situation I’m agree you can’t be late every time, and when you have a child you can’t be selfish.
The co parent portion is so true. In my experience it has gotten better when both parties are committed to breaking generational curses. I also recognize that it doesn’t always play out that way. Sending all the patience and strength your way however it plays out!
I'm loving the workout content!
Werkly vlog ~ I’m in heaven😊. Thank you Arnell! Woman profiling you in store p’d me off. So so glad u called her out. Noah I super cute and growing. Love how you’re so open with your babes. We support u 100%! ❤❤❤
I really love arrell it was the part since you want to put in a show I'll put on a show I'll put on bigger one yasssss ! This happen to me last week in ulta !! I'm never about to steal some lip gloss not worth the my time or the crime !! I love the fact I shop at ulta so much the manger know me and she check her employee quick I even dump everything out my bag to show proof I don't okay !
That gym is a vibe!
Good Mom. Excellent job how you reach him to say thank you. I love to see him climb.❤
Yes! The less you worry, it means you are trusting God more. And that’s what he wants🥹
Yea I don’t deal with my bd at all he has supervise visitations & that’s it! No contact! I already know a mf gonna try to argue about old ish , that I no longer care about. Take care of your kid & leave me out of it. definitely set those boundaries. He probably jealous of you & been the whole time. But ignore him & let him know if he doesn’t be on time than he can’t see your son period!
You’re almost at 1 million subscribers 🎉 🤗
Favourite vlogger! I loved this so much!
He’s the type of person you have to make him feel like it’s his idea. Make a suggestion based off of making his life easier making him the priority. It’ll make it easier on you and coparenting. I dated someone like that for years before I realized it wasn’t worth it. Btw that lady at GNC was profiling for sure.
He sounds like a narcissist or extremely immature.
👋🏽 Arnell❤
This was a great vlog. Becoming Noah’s mom has matured you sooo much!!! Motherhood definitely brings out the BEST of you! ✌🏽
I know you think addressing it will correct his behavior but believe me, he will NEVER change. Unfortunately
Exactly!! He looks forward to the confrontation. It’s best to laugh or ignore his antics!! Once he sees you’re not gonna give him the satisfaction he’ll stop! Keep it cute but fosho put your foot down and don’t let him play in ya face ❤
@@akemieallen9387 EXACTLY!!
@@akemieallen9387 his type is always fishing for a button to push. harmony is never their aim.
Man, you habdled that lady so well! I honestly dont know what I would've done. I get flustered in situations like that & probably would've cursed that lady out lmao
Omg my son is obsessed with Ms Monica and Ms Houston too.. here I am at 3-4 am doing chores watching mommy vlogs lol
Arnell….the products you used for your makeup while in the salon….RUN THOSE BACK PLEASE!!!!! I need a list! And I can’t remember if you’ve shown it that way before but I need a breakdown.
Yes!!! We need the deets! Especially the lip combo 🥰
Wow that lady at GNC accusing you of stealing had me fuming. You handled yourself VERY well Arnell. I would of went off on her and I resonated on your rant at the end… dealing with someone who’s a narcissist is so draining. It made me feel like you were speaking to me because I’m currently dealing with that right now with someone
I truly understand the situation with your baby daddy. I dealing with mine the same way
Your vent session 💯 spot on!
Missed the vlogs ❤ hope you and Noah are well 😊
The music!! LOVE!!! I gotta know, who are the artists?
Noah’s so big already oh my goodness 🧸
Damn this shit is so sad 💔 you never really know what people are going through ‼️ God will send you your person ❤🙏🏼
Arnell, He is the cutest, most handsome little person 😍😍🥰
The babes are hereeeee
As a sociology major studying human communication, you are doing the best you can. Communication has to be mutual but if you’re constantly being blockaded by your communication partner then it’s not worth the stress. It is very apparent that he has little to none positive conflict resolution skills and it is up to him and Jesus to change that. May God continue to guide you through this journey and give you the strength to overcome it.❤ Just pray for him and for God to change his heart, but do you!
I'm so sorry you for going through that in GNC
I want to try a protein powder, but I’m not sure what’s safe when breastfeeding
You should leave the hair curly and big. I thought it looked so cute!
It’s curly now! You’ll see in next weeks vlog 🥰
And already snatched …
When I tell you I’m using that line from this point on!!! And y’all know which line I am talking about!!! You said, “Muah😍, my turn”.
I LOVED this VLOG❤😍
do we all have the same sassy bitter bd
Sooooo excited for this vlog 😆
Girl drop the address of the GNC so we can write some yelp reviews!!!! That was not right. I am so sorry that happened that absolutely enraged me. I hope youre having a beautiful Monday with Noah ❤
Fine, I’ll go to the gym 😩
Co parenting is hard AF especially with someone who’s selfish. Worse part, you’re gonna be in each others life until your child is an adult 🥲
Here 🫶🏽
If I were you I would have a tracker and a voice recorder in Noah’s bag when he leaves the house to know what’s up. No faith in god would have me not wanting to know where he is and what’s up every few hours, a lil “highlights” reel from the nanny cam every once in a while if you will. Also treating your kid like a walk in appointment is crazy. 15 min before or after is okay, we’re all human but you gotta communicate too
Hence why I have sole custody of two dogs instead of a baby lmao
You gotta confront your issues with him, if he can’t handle it maybe written communication is more comfortable and understandable to him. If you write it like a suggested/needed improvement at a job maybe he will take initiative on it more, as a man who doesn’t understand that he is clocking in as a dad when it’s his time instead of you being a mother to them both
Teehee!!❤
Nah that is a big deal, ppl think they can follow us black folks around stores and accuse us of anything every time we enter a store. The “I’ll put on a bigger one, how bout that..” was tea, I’m adding that phrase to my arsenal chile lol it is so offensive and annoying though
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Just wanna share my favorite verse for when I’m dealing with difficult people: “For they cannot rest until they do evil; they are robbed of sleep till they make someone stumble.”
Proverbs 4:16 NIV
Horrible way to live! Your baby’s father is miserable and you’re happy and he needs to steal your happiness JUST TO SLEEP AT NIGHT. Don’t let him girl, let his ass toss and turn 🤣
Arnell why you still sound sweet popping off on that lady 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 sweet voice or not, she was active tho!
Lmao I didn’t want to lose my composure
@@arnellarmon I wish, you would have said it in spanish, too. 🤭
Her profiling you was not something little. She was flat out wrong and people like her need to be put in their place!
I agree! I wish I would’ve cursed her out the way I reallly wanted to
@@arnellarmonlol that’s okay as that’s that’s not in everyone’s character. you put her in her place without even doing all that👏🏽
PERIOD! Arnell I’m sooo proud of you for standing up for yourself as a person who struggles with confrontation you gathered her with grace.
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THE RANT ABOUT COPARENTING HIT SO DIFFERENT !!!!!!!! 🗣️🗣️
So relatable! 💯 keep ranting girl it makes me feel heard! And not so alone 😢
Literally !!! Every word she said I felt and my kids are big i’m still going through this.
His little fake temper tantrum took me out LMAO. He couldn't even commit to it all the way. His show came on and he was like "I'm over it." 😄
Yes Arnell!!! Stand on business in that damn store!!!! 🤎🤎🤎
You know its bad when security dont even like the employee 🤣.... sucks you had to go through that though she wrong for that! She deserved whatever you said to her lol.
Arnell been accused of shoplifting is something else 🤣🤣🤣
Hey! About your rant at the end…. Start telling him to come at the wrong time… if you want him to pick the baby up at 12:30 tell him 11:30 that way if he’s “late” he’s actually getting there on time…. People like him also do stuff like that to be petty. Play their game but don’t show your hand
This is very good advice and it actually works, it just fucking sucks that you have to stoop down to their level and play these petty games with them. It's exhausting.
I have missed your vlogs. No one scratches my entertainment itch like you Arnell please bring them back even if it’s not weekly I’ll take a biweekly vlog 😂 no but seriously we are glad to be fed.
I’m coming back weekly!!
“since you wanna put on a show i’ll put on a bigger one” lemme show this to natalie nunn we might need you on baddies 😂😂😂
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Nooo that is below arnell 🥴
@@SupernaturalLove100exactly
@@soulsistah5738 like I’m confused as to why girls like this WANT to see Blk women making fools of themselves and lowering themselves for entertainment🥴
His projecting his own insercurities, his not with you and he doesnt have control over you and your home so his doing these things to try control your emotions etc
I think so too, typical narcissist behavior
The way you nurture is so aspiring 🥹 I really pray one day I am able to reach this level of nurturing. You truly were meant to be a mother!
Thank you 🥹🥹
As someone who worked in retail, email corporate. If a worker accuses you and calls security stating that you’ve stolen from them and there isn’t anything to prove that you were you’ll more than likely be entitled to compensation. We would have to settle directly with the customer (usually a GC) to avoid a lawsuit.
once i removed my emotions from the situation, co parenting has been so much easier. i also had to trust my daughter would be safe. luckily, she’s at the age where she can fully communicate and that also eases my mind. it will get better girl!!
The gnc part had my blood boiling. AUDACITY
Go to court!!! When the court gives him a time and he continues to be late he'll just lose his privileges all together 👍🏻And instead of randomly giving you money he'll have to and make him it's bullshit! What about ypur schedule for him? You have him on a schedule thats healthy for him and if he can't get that then the court can get it for him 😂
Self care is very important 😊. Great to see you and baby Noah doing well. Enjoy watching your blogs, when it comes to putting time on yourself. That is one thing I need to focus on more. Again , continue being an awesome mom to your son and living life. Be Blessed ❤😊🙏
Thank you so much! ❤
I can't believe what happened to you at GNC. Literally, you handled it with class and maturity. And I'm glad that you didn't lose your cool either because that's what that woman wanted you to do just so she could harass you further, or worst yet, have an excuse to call the actual authorities on you. And thank you also for keeping this in the vlog too because a lot of us are now going through this in other states. It's like a trend now in these stores.
56:20 Dont let him get away with it NOW just because Noah's not old enough to understand! You've got to put a stop to it now so he won't be able to do damage to Noah when he does understand!
Arnell, from one mommy/believer to another; pray for Noah's dad. My daughter's father has the same issue and other issues that bother me. I simply prayed that we have a great co-parenting relationship and that he's here for his child and slowly but surely he's changing. It's not going to happen overnight, however like you said you have to trust God to do what He's going to do. You're doing great with Noah, he loved beyond measure, you're a great mom and I'm proud of you! 💜
Yes! 🙌🏼 trusting God with our children is soooo important. I also coparent with dad and let God be the protector, provider, parent, etc. Bc afterall, God is the best parent. 🙏🏽🥰
Is your ex a Leo? My current bf does the same shit. Any suggestion I make or a slight critic, he makes me out to be the bad guy. He plays victim all the time and honestly lm thinking about breaking up with him. We have a 13 week old together and things have definitely been strained since I gave birth.
We're here Babes!❤
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Glad you talked about co parenting. My oldest is 14 years old & his dad still never shows up on time, no shows, makes excuses. Ive stopped letting it get to me years ago and feel a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. You are right trust the process and god and everything will be okay. My son sees how his father is now since he is older. I’ve accepted the fact that that man will never change and it’s ok. My son has a step father who is amazing and he knows my family and I got him no matter what.
Your co-parenting issues are why Im a fan of court arranged drop offs. The place acts as the go between and holds each party accountable for lateness and any other nonsense. Ultimately, dads like him quit showing up anyway sonce they'vebeen deprived of access to keep berbally abusing you, but at least with the middle person, its all thoroughly documented for any messcthey might try to pull in the future.
ARNELL!!! 🫶🏾☺️ Noah is your little twin all day 🙌🏾 also I love seeing the “rougher” side of you, I’m glad you put that rude lady on blast! Clearly she don’t know who you are! Standing on business girl!! 👏🏾👏🏾
Not me being this early lol. Love you girl. Ok let me watch the vlog
I love how your hair stylist came right as you finished your makeup! Perfect timing!
Right??? Lol it was so funny
@@arnellarmon I love how you're able to do your makeup at the salon at all. Lashes and everything. 😆
This coparenting chat! I literally go through the same thing with the father of my child. A complete narcisist, who has zero regard for anyone outside of himself. Its one thing not to be able to be on time or not be able to show up, but at least communicate! My son is three so he doesnt really comprehend all that for now but I can see how this will create major issues in the future. And dare I say anything to him about his behaivour... I dont know whether me keeping quiet and just ignoring shit is me enabling it or do I call him out and just deal with the drama that follows. It's so immature and arrogant. Girrrrrrlll... I feel you!
Omg😂 that part where she thought you were stealing has me crying lol your response was everything lol people are so annoying
It’s sad but some of these “baby daddy’s” just don’t care. Sometimes it is personal to us but also it’s just who they are .. I’m learning how to accept it and not take it personally whether it’s meant that way or not. I can only control what i can. I’m setting boundaries and dealing with him in the best way that see’s fit for my mental health .. it’s not even worth it. Pick and choose your battles ! Continue to show up as your best self for your baby!! ❤
I can relate to you sooooo much when it comes to coparenting. As mothers we wake up mothers everyday and move our life around our child's. Men seem to think they can always coparent at their own convenience. Like they just wake up and choose when they feel like being a parent, at whatever time or day works best for them. lol and that aint how shit works for real parents.
Arnell & this wagon.. otw to the gym 🙄
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BD being late to pick up his son is definitely him being selfish and lowkey trying to bait you into saying something so he can add it to the list of imaginary things you’ve done to him to prove you are the problem. In the future you will reach an impasse where you have to decide what to do to protect your son from the pain you endured while growing up. I’m glad you have family and friends that can help guide you through this journey 🫶🏾
The thumbnail alone is chef's kiss 💋 , so i know this vlog is going to be 🔥 😀🥰❤!!!! Noah didn't want to turn that horchata loose; he was like run that back rq😂
I was just thinking about you yesterday!! Searched your name and everything 🤪 Yassss BAWDY! Loved the vlog girl 🤌🏼🩷
You should contact GNC corporate because that’s wild😡
21:34 aw heccckkkk noooo, girlllllll…….she made me mad and I bet she feel played now. I hope she apologized😭😭😭😭😭
With your BD I highly recommend start telling him earlier times than the actual pick up. 🤦🏽♀️ Dealing with late people sucks!
Girl, I appreciate you so much! You are an awesome Mom, and I'm so sorry you have to deal with such an immature person. I have 3 adult boys and was married 21 years. I had a bad divorce, and my ex was resentful, childish, and manipulative. I had to pray for God to give me strength and patience to deal with someone like this. You keep doing what you're doing. God will give you the strength and courage you need as a single mom. Noah is adorable. He will be so proud of his Mom. Hopefully, his Dad will learn the life lessons he needs to learn and be a mature parent. God bless you and your family, Arnell. 😁😏🙏
Noah said this horchata bussin.😂😂😂 Also what gym are you going to to with strobe lights? It looks like a lit gym
He’s narcissistic and a control freak .. there’s something in his life that he CAN’T control or he just thinks he’s the shit 😂
Oh you’re fed up & I love the transparency.. yes check that shit.. ppl was trying you in this vlog lol
The fact that the GNC lady has so much beef with people even SECURITY you know she’s the problem 😒🙄
Exactly, she’s just an ass lol