I've been looking for a non-biased, informative video on Montessori for a while and this was perfect! I didn't want to see one that was bashing on conventional schooling or holding Montessori on a pedestal so this video was extremely helpful.
As a child I went to Montessori school from pre-k to 5th grade I loved it and watching these vids I see how grateful I am that I went to Montessori as an adult
For me, as a Head Start alumni it will always be the best. I'm middle age now and remember when I was in Head Start. It was a pleasant experience as they prepared me to transition into elementary school and for life in general. So I can say as an alumni it was the best choice for me and my sister. We had a couple of our birthday parties there. We had fond memories of Head Start and are big supporters of it. I don't have kids but if I did would put them in Head Start! Also my mom was a Head Start teacher at the time and we got older she would let me and my sister help her with projects for the little ones. I loved it!
My 10 year old son has consistently struggled in school.. he seems to not be able to focus properly and is getting bad grades.. it also doesn’t help that the school system here in Toledo oh in my opinion is being overwhelmed by kids who constantly pick and bully other kids. My son is a very well mannered respectful kid, but refuse to be bullied. I feel we have ran out of options around the area, and I feel guilty that we are sending him into a war zone everyday so to speak. we are starting to notice that his self esteem is taking a blow, and my heart aches for him.. he doesn’t deserve it 😞. His teachers are fed up with the kids picking on him so he just gets told to deal with it if he complain… a co worker suggested a Montessori and that’s what brings me here….. I wrote all this to say thanks for the video and to ask for guidance and prayers… thank u
I am so sorry that your son is going through this. Struggling with confidence and bullies is never going to build him up. Maybe Montessori would be a good options for him. If he can work in a different environment more to his own pace, his confidence should improve - and therefore I am sure his school life will be more enjoyable, and probably his grades. I will pray you find the right solution for him.
Perhaps look into the Robinson curriculum if Montessori is too expensive,it's mostly self directed although it's easier the earlier you start Jiu jitsu can work great for bullying, although it's not cheap I personally think Jiu jitsu is among the most invaluable things that we can teach children, especially if " the state " insists on forcing children to be around other children that they really would prefer not to be Kids with Jiu jitsu will be er get bullied,will never be bullies, will help others to not be bullied,don't need constant adult supervision It can make girls almost impervious to make predation etc etc
Yes! Montessori is great for boys. Very hands on. He will love it! I hope you’ve settled on doing it. I am giving birth to a boy really soon, and that is my plan for him. Boys are naturally curious and are very active and love to engage with things and touch and feel.
@@paulsansonetti7410 he’s been in BJJ for 2 years and absolutely loves it.. sticking up for himself is not the problem.. he’s a respectable kid that refuse to be bullied so he defends himself and now he’s in trouble which he doesn’t like… I took him out the school he was in and he loves his Montessori school
I work in special education and there are times where we let the child figure out things on their own and times where they need assistance. I use my special education knowledge in general education as well. I don't think that any one method is what you should go with. I don't agree with a lot of Montessori ideology, but I do believe that the kids are born with the desire to learn. I use prompting and special tools in the classroom, but I also at times watch and wait to see what they try before correction. I would not use Montessori to it's entirety, but I'd certainly take bits and pieces and utilize that.
Thank you for your comment. I am with you. I use my special education knowledge often in general education - because the tenants really apply to all children. Sometimes we need time to figure it out, sometimes provide assistance. I mix and match according to the child. I use parts of Montessori in education. I did a couple of Montessori things at home (like a floor bed) but I don't use it in its entirety. I don't use any education method in its entirety - I love being eclectic.
I am in the process of writing a paper about Montessori vs. traditional schooling, and your video popped up, am very happy, it helps a lot. Thanks much.
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century! This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever. One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
What about gifted kids? What educational approach should be considered? There is so little info out there for gifted kids. I would love to see you making a video about that. Thank you for always bringing great content!!
I love it! Thanks for sharing and being so open. I felt as if we are having a nice friendly chat over a cup of coffee. Lovely objective opinion and encouragement for parents to be pro active and learn about Montessori at home. There is so much info available. Sharing the video right away!
My fiance and I are on the fence about how we plan on going about our daughter's education. Public school is out of the question as are religion based private schools. We don't want her to deal with school shooting drills/lockdowns, crappy public school curriculums, religious indoctrination and classism. We're looking at homeschool or Montessori schools. I've been having a hard time to find a good video about it that isnt biased but this one did the trick. Thank you so much!
Religious ones are a great ground to plant a seed for a confident, respectful and humble growing. You will soon learn and regret if you think that's wrong!
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century! This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever. One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
I sent my daughter to Montessori age 3-5. It was a wonderful experience for her. I made the wrong decision by sending her to public school for kindergarten. She is very advanced in her learning. In Montessori the children work at their own pace and do some group activities. They are able to socialize and move freely. They can snack, drink and go to the bathroom without asking. Lots of outdoor and hands on. Im sending her back to Montessori. Make sure you find one that is ams or Ami certified. Some schools say they are Montessori and they aren’t. Make sure the teachers are also certified. I have seen a “Montessori” school that wasn’t certified and the teachers were also not certified. They had very nice equipment and looked very professional but the teachers weren’t really teaching. Homeschooling would also be great.
Lovely video. I have a question. Because in Montessori there’s no exams or homework, how do you prepare the child for the transition to a traditional one where he will have to deal with exams and homework? Thanks!
I am so sorry I missed this to reply. If your child has been in Montessori, I think that one way we can help them prepare is to start showing them what exams look like and even doing a few questions without timing it, then a few questions to a set time. You can talk about homework and how they will have to bring work home to do, like projects and assignments. I would start with setting a little bit for them to do when they get home from school (like a reading comprehension exercise) and build it up a bit. Mental preparation for it is the key. They will find their groove once they start getting homework. Tests can be stressful, so talk that through. I always tell any students I work with that a number doesn't define them, but I know they feel the pressure to perform on exams and tests.
I went to Montessori school and I had tests I believe so we can go to the next learning level to know we understood what we where learning but transition to public school in 6th grade was really weird
as a montessorian here in the UK I was very eager to hear your views of the method as it's one I am very passionate about. I was really impressed by how balanced you were. even in the UK it can definitely be a pricey option for parents with young children, however its slowly changing and more government funded settings are opening now which is fantastic as I really believe its a gift for the children. I also feel it can work for children who need more adult guided learning but I agree its probably not the most suitable method.
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century! This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever. One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
@@newhorizonsintuitiveguidance As an elementary guide, Montessori elementary is very different. This is all very developmentally appropriate for the young ages. As they get older, they get assignments, and due dates, and they get to practice their planning skills. Practical life changes to making plans for a field trips or the school garden. All academics are presented in isolation as well as presented in context. I really can't think of a better way to prepare children for life. Just because the young children aren't immediately thrown into the rat race doesn't mean that Montessori won't be preparing children for the future. Everything changes in a developmentally appropriate way as they age.
Thank you. I was trying to look at the educational side, knowing that there is also the at home and lifestyle side. That means a lot coming from a Montessori guide ❤️
I’m a para-professional at a public elementary but went to Montessori as a child there are job openings here in Duluth for the next school year I’m considering going to what I know and understand
My three are extremely smart my 5 year old has been reading since 4 and she wasn’t even in school yet. My oldest ones geniuses at math but always was getting in trouble for walking around and being touchy and distracted but if you ask them educational questions while playing they get them all right. They just can’t learn sitting in a chair all day.
I think about structure Montessori classes are really full of structure but maybe shorter work periods directed learning and scheduling is what you meant by that which is not in Montessori but i get it to encourage a child who has not had freedom within thier learning and need to slowly learn how to learn with projects that the teacher has arranged is possible. However i believe it is better for us to learn how to handle boredom and be able to look for something to do with what is available, obviously with guidence, in comparison to relying on someone telling you what information you should remember to pass tests leading you to be drowning in the responsibility of your often education in university and in real life day to day as an adult even to manoeuvre relationships. I think that ws a missed difference that there is almost no testing system in Montessori. There is far too much that every child needs from Montessori. Growing up with autism i wish i had this approach to education instead of what i had. I know i haf more potential but my energy wad just put into learning things but also just staying within what i needed to pass the year learning in life was just for school that's also something i think is different in Montessori a child learns from waking up to falling sleep and even brain development within sleep.
How long were you in Montessori? Or am I reading this wrong and you just wished for it? My son is 7 and has been in Montessori school since he was 5 and he's autistic. He's very smart and struggles with social skills. He needs prompts to do his work, initiate anything, but he's above average in reading and excellent in Math (2 to 3 grades above his level). I still struggle with knowing if Montessori is the right choice because I think he might need more structure. But I like that you said they are actually full of structure.
Thank you for your insights. I have a 3 year old and going to Montessori, does a 3 or 4 year old child needs a structured school or environment? Thank you!
Thank you for your question. I feel strongly that a young child does NOT need a structured school or environment. Let them play and explore. Structured learning can come later if you want it for them.
Honestly I am not sure of any courses, but if you look up Montessori methods on Pinterest or on the web, there are people who show what they do. I only really did some things with my daughters - not a pure Montessori method.
I get the concept. What I'm trying to get my head around is how the curriculum is taught. I live in a country with a state-enforced curriculum. We have montessori schools. They say they teach the curriculum via the montessori method. How is that possible in a self-directed setting?
Self directed can still follow the curriculum. It might look more like "these are things to get done today, you can choose what you want to do and when" in that setting. It's giving choice and flexibility without being "this is what we are learning and when and you don't have a say in the matter".
I came across montessori philosophy a month ago and I am fascinated by it! Thank you so much for making a pros and cons video! I have a question related to montessori school. In my area, I only find 2-3 montesorri schools that accept children under 2, and there are almost 3x as much that accept older kids, for example 2.5 - 4 yo and on. Would you recommend that I send my daughter to non-montessori pre-school until she reaches 3 years old? Or is it crucial to get her exposed as early as possible? My original plan wast to send her to one at 18 months of age. In other words, what age group is crucial fora child to attend a montessori school to get the maximum benefits and a strong foundation? Thank you!
I honestly don't think you need to get your child into a Montessori school environment early. There are things you can do at home if you like the whole philosophy and use it at home. I have seen children enter a Montessori school at 4 and do extremely well. They had had no previous foundation with it at home. If you feel comfortable waiting until she is 3 then that is great. If you wanted to hold off longer I don't see any harm in that either.
My son is 7 and has been in Montessori school since he was 5 and he's autistic. He's very smart and struggles with social skills. He needs prompts to do his work, initiate anything, but he's above average in reading and excellent in Math (2 to 3 grades above his level). I still struggle with knowing if Montessori is the right choice because I think he might need more structure. But he responds well to the style of to teaching as it's a very tactile and visual. Do you think Montessori is a good fit for someone like this? Thank you for any thoughts.
Sorry for the delay in replying. I get why you are wondering if it might be the best fit. If he needs more structure and prompts to do his work, as he gets older he might not get all he needs in a Montessori setting - based on how they work. It is nothing against them or him, just different styles and needs. It be worth talking to his teachers about this.
HI there. To me, I define Montessori has an educational approach. It emphasizes and encourages independence, freedom (within limits) and respect for where the child is in their development. Each child has a unique journey and we can nurture that with using Montessori methods. In the classroom the children can take the lead in their and can grow at their own pace.
Thanks for this concise yet insightful explanation. To what age or level of education does the Montessori curriculum cover? How easy is it to join the Montessori system from the IB system?
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century! This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever. One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
@@newhorizonsintuitiveguidance your comment sound mean and toxic. They are children! Let me enjoy their childhoods, there are different ways to instill life lessons for children.
From what I have seen personally with Montessori, yes there are times where students are quiet, but they are also in multi-age classes and do work together. This encourages social skills - with the younger children learning from the older ones and vice versa.
Are they around much older peers? My only concern is the social aspect and their age. For example, when girls or boys begin to like other girls, or boys, the type of conversation that might happen, might expose a younger child to something they’re probably not ready to hear. This happens of course all the time in public schools except the kids are the same age talking about things that probably older brother or older sister, or cousin has told them. And what is an emotional outburst’s limit in a classroom? 😅
@ladyarrant12 currently assistant for Lower Elementary. I come across many delicate teachable moments, especially when the boys outnumber the girls. I pay attention to all the behaviors and communication as much as possible. And usually for this group it's from 6-8 and the older kids usually look out for the younger one's.
We are considering Montessori for our 6 year old....toured a school today. We wish we had enrolled him when he was younger. He did traditional prek. Do you think it would be too challenging or, even, unwise to enroll him into Montessori at this age?
If you think it would be a good fit....and by the sounds of it you like it and are leaning towards it ... Then it would be a good thing. My friend took her child out of a traditional setting and into Montessori and it was wonderful for them. They don't regret the change.
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I am not fully versed on the upper levels of Montessori, as most seem to stop before highschool, especially where I live. But in speaking with a friend who's child went through Montessori and then homeschooling, they did great when they went to university. Of course they had to sit the ACT or SAT, so there was some understanding of testing. But the main parts of university - the lectures and pulling the info out, staying on top of work and studies, and being self-motivated were all highly developed. The child, now adult, flourished and was better prepared than her peers, who struggled being away from an environment where so much was put into place for them (like homework being turned in, grades, extra credit when you didn't do well on assignments).
And what if you make schools better on a government level and make them all Montessori (mostly ish)? I experience - like almost anyone I've ever met - that most schools are places where you have to sit still and listen all day, hence all the 'problem' childs popping up everywhere, but during the summerbreak its all 'gone'. If your child needs structure, Montessori can also give that. The whole place is about structure, its all about how you fill in your role as a teacher as well. Education falls and rises with a good teacher, in any system... But..., you are with two people in the classroom!! A luxery maybe, but its a way to make sure the education of the future is good and humane, instead of the 'rank & yank' system that is being forced upon children everywhere around the world. A young teacher from the Netherlands, who hates and loves education :S I hope those two 'minor' cons you were talking about will get fixed in the future. I went to a primary Montessori school, it was privileged and around 450 euro a year. But a government stepping in can do a lot of good, at least thats the situation we have here in NL.
How to make my 3 years old kids love going school(Montessori). It's been hard for me to make my kid love it, been more than 6 months but he still hates it. What will be right approach. Should I stop him going to school and start teaching at home.
I am so sorry that your child is not loving going to school. It can be hard for some children to adjust, particularly younger ones. Can he express what it is he doesn't like? That can be tricky for 3 year olds but it might give some insight. I tend to lean to not pushing kids, and if it were me, I probably would pull him out and let him be at home (if that is an option you can do - I know some need school/daycare due to work). One of my daughters just read your comment and her response was (at the tender age of 8, who has also never been to school but homeschooled), "Let him play at home. He will be much happier." She is a big fan of play. So am I. It truly at this age is the best outlet for them that also has educational benefit.
Thank you for your kind words and concern, i was thinking of making home his first school as well. Thanks to your daughter as well she sounds smart! Love and hugs 🤗🥰
It would be great if you wound give some idea or routine on how we can do home schooling for someone who have not done it before or have 0 idea about it .
So, at this age you really don't want too much structure. Invest in some toys that provide creativity in play (lego, characters/dolls, blocks, etc). And allow play! My girls would also say that you can't go wrong with craft stuff and things like play dough, moon sand, kinetic sand. If you want a bit more structure then look for about an hour a day when you can sit together and read books, sing songs and then play together. Get him involved in the household chores and cooking. If you go grocery shopping then get him involved in writing the shopping list and then help find items. (There are so many great organic learning opportunities there). Take walks around the neighborhood and "find" numbers and letters (make it a game) and use other observational skills. Make the most of playgrounds and the programs at the library. Look into homeschooling co-ops that might be in your area. These can be a great way to meet other families, learn things together and get support in homeschooling. I could probably keep talking......I don't want to overwhelm, but remember that at this age play is the best thing you can do. As long as you are reading books together as well, you are setting a great stage for "learning" later.
Is this like the rest of the educational system where teachers just chitchat social conversations all day and hand out grades and that’s why all the aptitude tests are horrible that Montessori is just basically letting the kids run around and just play while the teachers just keep an eye on them make sure they don’t hurt each other?
Thank you for this video. My son is starting in Montessori for the summer. I’m not sure if it’s the right fit for him as he has developmental delay and ADHD. Can you offer some guidance?
It is always worth trying something and see if it works. Perhaps it might not be the best option for him if he needs a lot of guidance to work on something. Of course, many children with ADHD enjoy focusing on what they like to learn. I would be straightforward with his teacher about his strengths and his limitations. If the school has accepted him, then they should be aware and obviously his ADHD and delay are not a major issue for them. You can always reassess at the end of summer if it is something you want to continue with.
How is that tuition is a challenge if the system was designed for orphans? I can understand that if this works , high earners will be willing to pay it. But it is difficult to understand how not any public education system uses this.
Thank you for the great video. I'm mother of a super active 2.25 year old boy baby from India. We are planning to send our boy to school from next June. I'm confused whether a Waldorf or a Montessori school would suit him. Is there a way to contact you to get some guidelines on the same ?
It can be. One aspect of ADHD is how focus can be an issue. A Montessori program will typically want the children to be self-motivated and able to stay on task. But that should never rule it out, as we know children with ADHD will often think outside the box and need an environment that can help them learn creatively.
Good day I need advice my son started at Montessori for 3 years took him to Crawford international, his going to grade 1 this year but his lacking behind the rest the teacher said it and his doing extra class and I feel I don't want him to feel like his not smart enough. I believe he needs the montessori learning method but my partner wants to keep him in a conventional School, what do I do because at Montessori he was excelling and the fees are the same as Crawford international. Please could you advise Kind Regards Neo
Hi there. Schooling is always a tough call when parents don't necessarily agree on the type of school. We all have our own experiences and often bring that to the table because that's what we're comfortable with. I'm glad your son is excelling at the Montessori school. Sounds like it suits him. But I'm going into 1st grade I think the teacher needs to hold off on saying he's behind. Switching to a conventional school can take a little bit to change into their learning style. There is every chance that in a few weeks he will settle and find his groove and he won't be "behind" at all. He's just been learning in a different way and now needs to shift. My advice, don't do any extra classes. Let him be part of the class as normal at Crawford and reassess in 2-3 months. If he truly isn't doing well and struggles with that learning setting, then it's worth addressing how he was excelling at Montessori. You really are not going to mess him up to give him a few months and then change schools again. I would also keep encouraging your son with comments like "I love the way you learn. And look! Here you are trying something new. I wonder what you'll be learning." Or "a new school can mean a new way of doing things. Let's give it a try. Ask questions if you need to, because I know you like to question things like you did at your last school. Trying is a good thing. I'm proud of you no matter what and no matter what school you are at." I hope that helps. All the best xx
My son is about to be 5. He is in montessori since 2 years. I am thinking to switch to elementry school. Is that a right thing to do? I am confused. Please help and guide 🙏🙏🙏
Hi there. I know that making changes in education can be confusing. I have several friends who have had their children in Montessori schools prior to kindergarten and then made the switch to public elementary school as this worked best for them. Their children did well. Only one struggled, but that was due to a host of reasons. But I would ask why you want to make the change....is it financial? is it because you want something different for him? Is he struggling in the Montessori setting? These are valid questions and your answers are valid too. I do feel that Montessori is wonderful for some children, ok for others, and not a good fit for some. Your son would have learned some wonderful things at Montessori and this will serve him well as he heads to kindergarten. Starting a new school (and new way of doing school) at entry points like kindergarten can be a good time for our children to adjust. As with all things, you would need to talk through the changes and help him understand the differences. But he will probably be fine with the change. There will be new friends to make! The right thing to do is what works best for your family....and if that means switching him to elementary school, then go with that. I hope that helps.
It is hard to tell at 2 years old whether a child needs structured learning. Are you thinking about for now or for later? At 2 years old all children need unstructured learning. But you can start looking at how they are interacting and playing. Do they initiate games or activities on their own? Are they starting to enjoy playing more by themself? Can they transition from one activity to the next? etc. I know that most people will say that children do better with structured learning - and for some that is the case, but not most and not all. I personally lean more to less structure in learning, or more student and interest led learning, which you see in Montessori. I do believe that a majority of children could learn well in Montessori, but some do require and desire more structure to suit personality and perhaps needs. For example, I have always done so much better when I could lead my own learning and often felt stifled in the classroom when they insisted things be done in a certain way, but my younger brother had learning issues and he thrived upon structure (in the classroom and at home). This is a long answer and I hope I have answered your question. Watch your child and how they play. Start introducing some structured activities, but at 2 they should be doing most things as play based learning.
I have honestly seen children go from one style of schooling into another and exams are not usually an issue. Of course, I do recommend at home preparing your child mentally for exams and what they look like.
Why is my Special needs child not allowed to enroll in any Montissori school nowdays? It was developed for Special needs children by Maria Montessori. She would be so dissapointed in her program being abused in this way
I'm so sorry that your child isn't allowed to enroll. It does depend on the school (not all are true Montessori schools but carry the name). You are right in that would be a great place as it was designed for working at their own pace. I'm sorry for your frustration and disappointment.
I went to Montessori from kindergarten until 8th grade and it did not make me any more or less successful than any other person. I feel like I was sheltered and did not experience real world situations as a public school would. I have decided to put my 3 year old in the same Montessori school until kindergarten because I do see the benefits of the early childhood development program. It allows him to grow independently and should help him when he transitions to a public school.
@4:50 that snide side comment says it all right there. The majority of research shows that structure is a necessity or benefit for all children. The autonomy given children permits time and relives pressure that the inflexible format of a standard classroom provides. The side whisper that hey, maybe your kid isn’t one of us is odd given that the Montessori method was developed for the outcast children then-society said this to. The wayward, the poor, those deemed unable to be taught. Those children were considered liabilities but Montessori demonstrated their ability to be *normalized * Ironically this video is a sales pitch and doesn’t address the reality that modern Montessori is no longer an educational philosophy to help struggling or vulnerable children but an appropriated pedagogy for the upper classes who have no trouble affording a system that continues that continuum of self-interest and exclusivity.
Why can't children from the lower class go to schools like this. America has so much money, but these kids who did not wish the life they were given have to go to unforeseen schools which shapes them into who they are. It is so sad.
My kids go to a Montessori school and it’s a charter school which is free . If not freee where u are u can apply for step up for kids scholarship which will pay90%-100% of your tuition and everyone qualifys
I understand. There are parts of Montessori I really like and then there are others, like drinking from a glass cup, that I really don't get. I am perfectly fine with plastic so we are not dealing with shards when it is inevitably dropped on a tile floor. I like more of the education stuff rather than the home life stuff.
One of the things Montessori emphasizes is care and respect for the environment. Concepts like being purposeful with your actions and understanding that the things around you have value are much easier to understand when your actions have natural consequences.(like a glass breaking if you don't put it down carefully) Letting children use material like the ones they see the adults in their life using also displays a level of trust in them that does wonders for their self esteem. There is no "hurry to drink from a glass cup", simply a respect that they are capable of it if they so choose😊
I was very happy with our Montessori school until about 2nd grade. Socially, it was very difficult for my twins to have many options for friends as the combined ages between 1st and 3rd grades had 30 students in the class toward the end of us leaving. The school also had a lack of financial transparency obviously because they had never discussed making such large class sizes before we committed ourselves to coming back the next year. The classroom felt chaotic and teachers were stressed that then took out their frustrations on the students. We decided to leave as socially I didn’t want my kids mingling as 4th graders in with the 5th and 6th graders. There is a HUGE difference in what these kids know and behave like than with my 4th graders. If I were to do it again I would have moved on to another school after Early Childhood. I honestly don’t think it was worth the money as head start and upstart programs are just as good IMO. Look at academic performance between the private and public schools before finalizing your decision along with their philosophy on discipline and social development before thinking that private schools are always the best.
Has anyone with autistic children found success in a Montessori school? If so, what was your approach to determine if the school was meeting your child's needs?
I asked around and, within my community, I don't have any friends who have found success in a Montessori school for a child with autism. In talking, we came to the conclusion that in order to determine if it is meeting your child's needs, you need to take into account their ability to be self-motivated and ability to work on their own/in a group setting/in a multi-age setting. These are some key elements of Montessori. Can they communicate their needs to the classroom teacher/facilitator? I know several children with autism that I think could do well at Montessori if the parents chose that route for them, but chose to keep them in public school with the assistance they receive there. I am not sure that is the best answer for you but I hope that helps some.
I have autism and I think I personally would have thrived in a Montessori school. The sensory overwhelm (the classroom itself and the general buzz of restless energy that the students gave off) of a traditional school was something that caused problems for me up until I dropped out and started homeschooling in highschool. I would have loved the sense of peace, the ordered layout of the work materials and the respect for others and the environment that is instilled right from the beginning in Montessori. Seeing as I still kind of lack some basic food prep and conflict resolution skills the practical life activities and grace and courtesy lessons would probably also have been very beneficial. I'm turning 19 soon and my mainstream school experience had such a strong, mostly negative, impact on me that I'm actually planning on becoming a Montessori teacher/guide myself to help insure atleast some of the future generation don't have to go through the same things. (I also absolutely love kids, so I would have wanted to worked with them in some way regardless) I hope whatever decision you end up making works out well for your kid though, good luck😊
Do your own research and you will find that Maria Montessori first did her research on children with special needs before working with children who were in poverty
Work with her get some books that are up to her reading level and grade level,sight word cards, word search’s,and my favorite activity is having my cousins pick out words from the dictionary and making personalized sight words every week
What are you doing to teach her to read? My son is 4 and has been learning to read since he was 18 months. He’s been a fluent reader since 3 and it’s 100% because of what I poured into him, reading with him at night and practicing letter sounds 2-5 minutes a day.
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century! This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever. One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
Thank you for your thoughts! I'm with you on having to learn the 21st century skills! And yes, Montessori isn't right for every child. I know my girls wouldn't thrive in this environment.
A child who is shy or needs extra guidance will get exactly what they need from the responsive guide, even if that's a bit of a push. I don't understand this rush to get children on the tablets. Plenty of research supports delaying that, but you will have your opinion regardless.
I've been looking for a non-biased, informative video on Montessori for a while and this was perfect! I didn't want to see one that was bashing on conventional schooling or holding Montessori on a pedestal so this video was extremely helpful.
Thank you so much for saying that
I agree! Love this video
So hard not to 🤣
didn't really find it unbiased, the only con being the price when there is much more to it. not a fan. just an opinion.
@@alsostev8472 I agree. I found this video biased
As a child I went to Montessori school from pre-k to 5th grade I loved it and watching these vids I see how grateful I am that I went to Montessori as an adult
For me, as a Head Start alumni it will always be the best. I'm middle age now and remember when I was in Head Start. It was a pleasant experience as they prepared me to transition into elementary school and for life in general. So I can say as an alumni it was the best choice for me and my sister. We had a couple of our birthday parties there. We had fond memories of Head Start and are big supporters of it. I don't have kids but if I did would put them in Head Start! Also my mom was a Head Start teacher at the time and we got older she would let me and my sister help her with projects for the little ones. I loved it!
My 10 year old son has consistently struggled in school.. he seems to not be able to focus properly and is getting bad grades.. it also doesn’t help that the school system here in Toledo oh in my opinion is being overwhelmed by kids who constantly pick and bully other kids. My son is a very well mannered respectful kid, but refuse to be bullied. I feel we have ran out of options around the area, and I feel guilty that we are sending him into a war zone everyday so to speak. we are starting to notice that his self esteem is taking a blow, and my heart aches for him.. he doesn’t deserve it 😞. His teachers are fed up with the kids picking on him so he just gets told to deal with it if he complain… a co worker suggested a Montessori and that’s what brings me here….. I wrote all this to say thanks for the video and to ask for guidance and prayers… thank u
I am so sorry that your son is going through this. Struggling with confidence and bullies is never going to build him up. Maybe Montessori would be a good options for him. If he can work in a different environment more to his own pace, his confidence should improve - and therefore I am sure his school life will be more enjoyable, and probably his grades. I will pray you find the right solution for him.
@@LearningLifeMB much appreciated thank you
Perhaps look into the Robinson curriculum if Montessori is too expensive,it's mostly self directed although it's easier the earlier you start
Jiu jitsu can work great for bullying, although it's not cheap
I personally think Jiu jitsu is among the most invaluable things that we can teach children, especially if " the state " insists on forcing children to be around other children that they really would prefer not to be
Kids with Jiu jitsu will be er get bullied,will never be bullies, will help others to not be bullied,don't need constant adult supervision
It can make girls almost impervious to make predation etc etc
Yes! Montessori is great for boys. Very hands on. He will love it! I hope you’ve settled on doing it. I am giving birth to a boy really soon, and that is my plan for him. Boys are naturally curious and are very active and love to engage with things and touch and feel.
@@paulsansonetti7410 he’s been in BJJ for 2 years and absolutely loves it.. sticking up for himself is not the problem.. he’s a respectable kid that refuse to be bullied so he defends himself and now he’s in trouble which he doesn’t like… I took him out the school he was in and he loves his Montessori school
Wow, Great insight and information. Looking forward to the next video
I work in special education and there are times where we let the child figure out things on their own and times where they need assistance. I use my special education knowledge in general education as well. I don't think that any one method is what you should go with. I don't agree with a lot of Montessori ideology, but I do believe that the kids are born with the desire to learn. I use prompting and special tools in the classroom, but I also at times watch and wait to see what they try before correction. I would not use Montessori to it's entirety, but I'd certainly take bits and pieces and utilize that.
Thank you for your comment. I am with you. I use my special education knowledge often in general education - because the tenants really apply to all children. Sometimes we need time to figure it out, sometimes provide assistance. I mix and match according to the child. I use parts of Montessori in education. I did a couple of Montessori things at home (like a floor bed) but I don't use it in its entirety. I don't use any education method in its entirety - I love being eclectic.
I am in the process of writing a paper about Montessori vs. traditional schooling, and your video popped up, am very happy, it helps a lot. Thanks much.
So glad it was helpful. feel free to ask any more questions! you've got my number ;)
Please share your paper once it’s done ;)
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century!
This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever.
One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
What about gifted kids? What educational approach should be considered? There is so little info out there for gifted kids. I would love to see you making a video about that.
Thank you for always bringing great content!!
You put them in magnet schools
I love it! Thanks for sharing and being so open. I felt as if we are having a nice friendly chat over a cup of coffee. Lovely objective opinion and encouragement for parents to be pro active and learn about Montessori at home. There is so much info available. Sharing the video right away!
Thank you for those lovely words ❤️
My fiance and I are on the fence about how we plan on going about our daughter's education. Public school is out of the question as are religion based private schools. We don't want her to deal with school shooting drills/lockdowns, crappy public school curriculums, religious indoctrination and classism. We're looking at homeschool or Montessori schools. I've been having a hard time to find a good video about it that isnt biased but this one did the trick. Thank you so much!
I'm glad it helped. I hope you find the right school for your daughter...or find joy in homeschooling her.
Religious ones are a great ground to plant a seed for a confident, respectful and humble growing. You will soon learn and regret if you think that's wrong!
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century!
This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever.
One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
I sent my daughter to Montessori age 3-5. It was a wonderful experience for her. I made the wrong decision by sending her to public school for kindergarten.
She is very advanced in her learning.
In Montessori the children work at their own pace and do some group activities. They are able to socialize and move freely. They can snack, drink and go to the bathroom without asking. Lots of outdoor and hands on.
Im sending her back to Montessori.
Make sure you find one that is ams or Ami certified. Some schools say they are Montessori and they aren’t.
Make sure the teachers are also certified. I have seen a “Montessori” school that wasn’t certified and the teachers were also not certified. They had very nice equipment and looked very professional but the teachers weren’t really teaching.
Homeschooling would also be great.
Could you please turn (automatic) subtitles on for those of us with a disability? We also wanna learn.
I am sorry they were not there. I do have them turned on. Let me check what is going on.
Lovely video. I have a question. Because in Montessori there’s no exams or homework, how do you prepare the child for the transition to a traditional one where he will have to deal with exams and homework? Thanks!
I am so sorry I missed this to reply. If your child has been in Montessori, I think that one way we can help them prepare is to start showing them what exams look like and even doing a few questions without timing it, then a few questions to a set time. You can talk about homework and how they will have to bring work home to do, like projects and assignments. I would start with setting a little bit for them to do when they get home from school (like a reading comprehension exercise) and build it up a bit. Mental preparation for it is the key. They will find their groove once they start getting homework. Tests can be stressful, so talk that through. I always tell any students I work with that a number doesn't define them, but I know they feel the pressure to perform on exams and tests.
@@LearningLifeMB Thanks!!
I went to Montessori school and I had tests I believe so we can go to the next learning level to know we understood what we where learning but transition to public school in 6th grade was really weird
My 5k Montessori child has had reading exams so maybe it’s a new thing?
as a montessorian here in the UK I was very eager to hear your views of the method as it's one I am very passionate about. I was really impressed by how balanced you were. even in the UK it can definitely be a pricey option for parents with young children, however its slowly changing and more government funded settings are opening now which is fantastic as I really believe its a gift for the children. I also feel it can work for children who need more adult guided learning but I agree its probably not the most suitable method.
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century!
This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever.
One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
@@newhorizonsintuitiveguidance As an elementary guide, Montessori elementary is very different. This is all very developmentally appropriate for the young ages. As they get older, they get assignments, and due dates, and they get to practice their planning skills. Practical life changes to making plans for a field trips or the school garden. All academics are presented in isolation as well as presented in context. I really can't think of a better way to prepare children for life. Just because the young children aren't immediately thrown into the rat race doesn't mean that Montessori won't be preparing children for the future. Everything changes in a developmentally appropriate way as they age.
I didn't really hear any cons...
I just love how you explained Montessori. I've been a Montessorian Guide for almost 9 years and this is great!
I love the Montessori way.
Thank you. I was trying to look at the educational side, knowing that there is also the at home and lifestyle side. That means a lot coming from a Montessori guide ❤️
I’m a para-professional at a public elementary but went to Montessori as a child there are job openings here in Duluth for the next school year I’m considering going to what I know and understand
@@jamescampbell390
Oh you really should! If that’s what your heart tells You, follow it!
My three are extremely smart my 5 year old has been reading since 4 and she wasn’t even in school yet. My oldest ones geniuses at math but always was getting in trouble for walking around and being touchy and distracted but if you ask them educational questions while playing they get them all right. They just can’t learn sitting in a chair all day.
Have you done a video on public schools? I have watched your other School Systems videos and enjoyed them!
I haven't.... But I probably should! Thank you for watching my other videos!
Best explanation of Montessori technique ever!
Thank you so much.
I think about structure Montessori classes are really full of structure but maybe shorter work periods directed learning and scheduling is what you meant by that which is not in Montessori but i get it to encourage a child who has not had freedom within thier learning and need to slowly learn how to learn with projects that the teacher has arranged is possible. However i believe it is better for us to learn how to handle boredom and be able to look for something to do with what is available, obviously with guidence, in comparison to relying on someone telling you what information you should remember to pass tests leading you to be drowning in the responsibility of your often education in university and in real life day to day as an adult even to manoeuvre relationships. I think that ws a missed difference that there is almost no testing system in Montessori.
There is far too much that every child needs from Montessori. Growing up with autism i wish i had this approach to education instead of what i had. I know i haf more potential but my energy wad just put into learning things but also just staying within what i needed to pass the year learning in life was just for school that's also something i think is different in Montessori a child learns from waking up to falling sleep and even brain development within sleep.
How long were you in Montessori? Or am I reading this wrong and you just wished for it? My son is 7 and has been in Montessori school since he was 5 and he's autistic. He's very smart and struggles with social skills. He needs prompts to do his work, initiate anything, but he's above average in reading and excellent in Math (2 to 3 grades above his level). I still struggle with knowing if Montessori is the right choice because I think he might need more structure. But I like that you said they are actually full of structure.
Thank you for your insights. I have a 3 year old and going to Montessori, does a 3 or 4 year old child needs a structured school or environment? Thank you!
Thank you for your question. I feel strongly that a young child does NOT need a structured school or environment. Let them play and explore. Structured learning can come later if you want it for them.
I love it! Thanks for sharing👏🏻!
Thank you
I want to use montessorian method for my baby, could you recommend a course that I could take so I'd have a plan/schedule to follow. Thank you
Honestly I am not sure of any courses, but if you look up Montessori methods on Pinterest or on the web, there are people who show what they do. I only really did some things with my daughters - not a pure Montessori method.
I get the concept. What I'm trying to get my head around is how the curriculum is taught. I live in a country with a state-enforced curriculum. We have montessori schools. They say they teach the curriculum via the montessori method. How is that possible in a self-directed setting?
Self directed can still follow the curriculum. It might look more like "these are things to get done today, you can choose what you want to do and when" in that setting. It's giving choice and flexibility without being "this is what we are learning and when and you don't have a say in the matter".
I came across montessori philosophy a month ago and I am fascinated by it! Thank you so much for making a pros and cons video! I have a question related to montessori school. In my area, I only find 2-3 montesorri schools that accept children under 2, and there are almost 3x as much that accept older kids, for example 2.5 - 4 yo and on. Would you recommend that I send my daughter to non-montessori pre-school until she reaches 3 years old? Or is it crucial to get her exposed as early as possible? My original plan wast to send her to one at 18 months of age. In other words, what age group is crucial fora child to attend a montessori school to get the maximum benefits and a strong foundation? Thank you!
I honestly don't think you need to get your child into a Montessori school environment early. There are things you can do at home if you like the whole philosophy and use it at home. I have seen children enter a Montessori school at 4 and do extremely well. They had had no previous foundation with it at home. If you feel comfortable waiting until she is 3 then that is great. If you wanted to hold off longer I don't see any harm in that either.
My son is 7 and has been in Montessori school since he was 5 and he's autistic. He's very smart and struggles with social skills. He needs prompts to do his work, initiate anything, but he's above average in reading and excellent in Math (2 to 3 grades above his level). I still struggle with knowing if Montessori is the right choice because I think he might need more structure. But he responds well to the style of to teaching as it's a very tactile and visual. Do you think Montessori is a good fit for someone like this? Thank you for any thoughts.
Sorry for the delay in replying. I get why you are wondering if it might be the best fit. If he needs more structure and prompts to do his work, as he gets older he might not get all he needs in a Montessori setting - based on how they work. It is nothing against them or him, just different styles and needs. It be worth talking to his teachers about this.
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So Amazing！Teach children montessori way is really good! manufacture
It's surprising that you say that children who like structure will find Montessori difficult. But, Montessori advocates a lot about the sense of order
For me there is a a big difference between order and structure/set routine. Order can be very helpful for everyone, but structure can stifle.
@@LearningLifeMB how do you define the difference between order and structure
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Maam according to you what will be the definition of Montessori method?....
HI there. To me, I define Montessori has an educational approach. It emphasizes and encourages independence, freedom (within limits) and respect for where the child is in their development. Each child has a unique journey and we can nurture that with using Montessori methods. In the classroom the children can take the lead in their and can grow at their own pace.
Thanks for this concise yet insightful explanation. To what age or level of education does the Montessori curriculum cover? How easy is it to join the Montessori system from the IB system?
I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century!
This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever.
One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
@@newhorizonsintuitiveguidance your comment sound mean and toxic. They are children! Let me enjoy their childhoods, there are different ways to instill life lessons for children.
How does this learning style encourage social skills? As I research it talks about classrooms being quiet and students working independently.
From what I have seen personally with Montessori, yes there are times where students are quiet, but they are also in multi-age classes and do work together. This encourages social skills - with the younger children learning from the older ones and vice versa.
Are they around much older peers? My only concern is the social aspect and their age. For example, when girls or boys begin to like other girls, or boys, the type of conversation that might happen, might expose a younger child to something they’re probably not ready to hear. This happens of course all the time in public schools except the kids are the same age talking about things that probably older brother or older sister, or cousin has told them. And what is an emotional outburst’s limit in a classroom? 😅
@ladyarrant12 currently assistant for Lower Elementary. I come across many delicate teachable moments, especially when the boys outnumber the girls. I pay attention to all the behaviors and communication as much as possible. And usually for this group it's from 6-8 and the older kids usually look out for the younger one's.
We are considering Montessori for our 6 year old....toured a school today. We wish we had enrolled him when he was younger. He did traditional prek. Do you think it would be too challenging or, even, unwise to enroll him into Montessori at this age?
If you think it would be a good fit....and by the sounds of it you like it and are leaning towards it ... Then it would be a good thing. My friend took her child out of a traditional setting and into Montessori and it was wonderful for them. They don't regret the change.
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With no grading etc how is the student prepared for entry into university etc?
I am not fully versed on the upper levels of Montessori, as most seem to stop before highschool, especially where I live. But in speaking with a friend who's child went through Montessori and then homeschooling, they did great when they went to university. Of course they had to sit the ACT or SAT, so there was some understanding of testing. But the main parts of university - the lectures and pulling the info out, staying on top of work and studies, and being self-motivated were all highly developed. The child, now adult, flourished and was better prepared than her peers, who struggled being away from an environment where so much was put into place for them (like homework being turned in, grades, extra credit when you didn't do well on assignments).
@@LearningLifeMB thanks for the detailed reply 😊
And what if you make schools better on a government level and make them all Montessori (mostly ish)? I experience - like almost anyone I've ever met - that most schools are places where you have to sit still and listen all day, hence all the 'problem' childs popping up everywhere, but during the summerbreak its all 'gone'. If your child needs structure, Montessori can also give that. The whole place is about structure, its all about how you fill in your role as a teacher as well. Education falls and rises with a good teacher, in any system... But..., you are with two people in the classroom!! A luxery maybe, but its a way to make sure the education of the future is good and humane, instead of the 'rank & yank' system that is being forced upon children everywhere around the world.
A young teacher from the Netherlands, who hates and loves education :S
I hope those two 'minor' cons you were talking about will get fixed in the future. I went to a primary Montessori school, it was privileged and around 450 euro a year. But a government stepping in can do a lot of good, at least thats the situation we have here in NL.
How to make my 3 years old kids love going school(Montessori). It's been hard for me to make my kid love it, been more than 6 months but he still hates it. What will be right approach. Should I stop him going to school and start teaching at home.
I am so sorry that your child is not loving going to school. It can be hard for some children to adjust, particularly younger ones. Can he express what it is he doesn't like? That can be tricky for 3 year olds but it might give some insight. I tend to lean to not pushing kids, and if it were me, I probably would pull him out and let him be at home (if that is an option you can do - I know some need school/daycare due to work).
One of my daughters just read your comment and her response was (at the tender age of 8, who has also never been to school but homeschooled), "Let him play at home. He will be much happier." She is a big fan of play. So am I. It truly at this age is the best outlet for them that also has educational benefit.
Thank you for your kind words and concern, i was thinking of making home his first school as well. Thanks to your daughter as well she sounds smart! Love and hugs 🤗🥰
It would be great if you wound give some idea or routine on how we can do home schooling for someone who have not done it before or have 0 idea about it .
So, at this age you really don't want too much structure. Invest in some toys that provide creativity in play (lego, characters/dolls, blocks, etc). And allow play! My girls would also say that you can't go wrong with craft stuff and things like play dough, moon sand, kinetic sand. If you want a bit more structure then look for about an hour a day when you can sit together and read books, sing songs and then play together. Get him involved in the household chores and cooking. If you go grocery shopping then get him involved in writing the shopping list and then help find items. (There are so many great organic learning opportunities there). Take walks around the neighborhood and "find" numbers and letters (make it a game) and use other observational skills. Make the most of playgrounds and the programs at the library. Look into homeschooling co-ops that might be in your area. These can be a great way to meet other families, learn things together and get support in homeschooling.
I could probably keep talking......I don't want to overwhelm, but remember that at this age play is the best thing you can do. As long as you are reading books together as well, you are setting a great stage for "learning" later.
@@LearningLifeMB 🙏
Is this like the rest of the educational system where teachers just chitchat social conversations all day and hand out grades and that’s why all the aptitude tests are horrible that Montessori is just basically letting the kids run around and just play while the teachers just keep an eye on them make sure they don’t hurt each other?
Thank you for this video. My son is starting in Montessori for the summer. I’m not sure if it’s the right fit for him as he has developmental delay and ADHD. Can you offer some guidance?
It is always worth trying something and see if it works. Perhaps it might not be the best option for him if he needs a lot of guidance to work on something. Of course, many children with ADHD enjoy focusing on what they like to learn. I would be straightforward with his teacher about his strengths and his limitations. If the school has accepted him, then they should be aware and obviously his ADHD and delay are not a major issue for them. You can always reassess at the end of summer if it is something you want to continue with.
How is that tuition is a challenge if the system was designed for orphans? I can understand that if this works , high earners will be willing to pay it.
But it is difficult to understand how not any public education system uses this.
Thank you for the great video. I'm mother of a super active 2.25 year old boy baby from India. We are planning to send our boy to school from next June. I'm confused whether a Waldorf or a Montessori school would suit him. Is there a way to contact you to get some guidelines on the same ?
Which system did you went?
Hi, thanks for the informative video. Would this type of school be good for a child with ADHD?
It can be. One aspect of ADHD is how focus can be an issue. A Montessori program will typically want the children to be self-motivated and able to stay on task. But that should never rule it out, as we know children with ADHD will often think outside the box and need an environment that can help them learn creatively.
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I need advice my son started at Montessori for 3 years took him to Crawford international, his going to grade 1 this year but his lacking behind the rest the teacher said it and his doing extra class and I feel I don't want him to feel like his not smart enough. I believe he needs the montessori learning method but my partner wants to keep him in a conventional School, what do I do because at Montessori he was excelling and the fees are the same as Crawford international. Please could you advise
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Hi there. Schooling is always a tough call when parents don't necessarily agree on the type of school. We all have our own experiences and often bring that to the table because that's what we're comfortable with. I'm glad your son is excelling at the Montessori school. Sounds like it suits him. But I'm going into 1st grade I think the teacher needs to hold off on saying he's behind. Switching to a conventional school can take a little bit to change into their learning style. There is every chance that in a few weeks he will settle and find his groove and he won't be "behind" at all. He's just been learning in a different way and now needs to shift. My advice, don't do any extra classes. Let him be part of the class as normal at Crawford and reassess in 2-3 months. If he truly isn't doing well and struggles with that learning setting, then it's worth addressing how he was excelling at Montessori. You really are not going to mess him up to give him a few months and then change schools again. I would also keep encouraging your son with comments like "I love the way you learn. And look! Here you are trying something new. I wonder what you'll be learning." Or "a new school can mean a new way of doing things. Let's give it a try. Ask questions if you need to, because I know you like to question things like you did at your last school. Trying is a good thing. I'm proud of you no matter what and no matter what school you are at."
I hope that helps. All the best xx
My son is about to be 5. He is in montessori since 2 years. I am thinking to switch to elementry school. Is that a right thing to do? I am confused. Please help and guide 🙏🙏🙏
Hi there. I know that making changes in education can be confusing. I have several friends who have had their children in Montessori schools prior to kindergarten and then made the switch to public elementary school as this worked best for them. Their children did well. Only one struggled, but that was due to a host of reasons. But I would ask why you want to make the change....is it financial? is it because you want something different for him? Is he struggling in the Montessori setting? These are valid questions and your answers are valid too. I do feel that Montessori is wonderful for some children, ok for others, and not a good fit for some. Your son would have learned some wonderful things at Montessori and this will serve him well as he heads to kindergarten. Starting a new school (and new way of doing school) at entry points like kindergarten can be a good time for our children to adjust. As with all things, you would need to talk through the changes and help him understand the differences. But he will probably be fine with the change. There will be new friends to make! The right thing to do is what works best for your family....and if that means switching him to elementary school, then go with that. I hope that helps.
Did you make switch to public elementary school? Did he like it? Also what’s your thought on switching to public school?
How do you figure out whether 2 year old needs structured learning or Montessori?
It is hard to tell at 2 years old whether a child needs structured learning. Are you thinking about for now or for later? At 2 years old all children need unstructured learning. But you can start looking at how they are interacting and playing. Do they initiate games or activities on their own? Are they starting to enjoy playing more by themself? Can they transition from one activity to the next? etc. I know that most people will say that children do better with structured learning - and for some that is the case, but not most and not all. I personally lean more to less structure in learning, or more student and interest led learning, which you see in Montessori. I do believe that a majority of children could learn well in Montessori, but some do require and desire more structure to suit personality and perhaps needs. For example, I have always done so much better when I could lead my own learning and often felt stifled in the classroom when they insisted things be done in a certain way, but my younger brother had learning issues and he thrived upon structure (in the classroom and at home). This is a long answer and I hope I have answered your question. Watch your child and how they play. Start introducing some structured activities, but at 2 they should be doing most things as play based learning.
We are worried about exams. If we change the school in 5th class den will able to write in the given time
I have honestly seen children go from one style of schooling into another and exams are not usually an issue. Of course, I do recommend at home preparing your child mentally for exams and what they look like.
Your accent sounds like a blend of Kiwi and Canadian!
I'm Australian having lived in the US for over 20 years. It's mixed for sure.
Why is my Special needs child not allowed to enroll in any Montissori school nowdays? It was developed for Special needs children by Maria Montessori. She would be so dissapointed in her program being abused in this way
I'm so sorry that your child isn't allowed to enroll. It does depend on the school (not all are true Montessori schools but carry the name). You are right in that would be a great place as it was designed for working at their own pace. I'm sorry for your frustration and disappointment.
I went to Montessori from kindergarten until 8th grade and it did not make me any more or less successful than any other person. I feel like I was sheltered and did not experience real world situations as a public school would. I have decided to put my 3 year old in the same Montessori school until kindergarten because I do see the benefits of the early childhood development program. It allows him to grow independently and should help him when he transitions to a public school.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I think your plan for early childhood education in Montessori for your child is a good one.
@4:50 that snide side comment says it all right there. The majority of research shows that structure is a necessity or benefit for all children. The autonomy given children permits time and relives pressure that the inflexible format of a standard classroom provides. The side whisper that hey, maybe your kid isn’t one of us is odd given that the Montessori method was developed for the outcast children then-society said this to. The wayward, the poor, those deemed unable to be taught. Those children were considered liabilities but Montessori demonstrated their ability to be *normalized * Ironically this video is a sales pitch and doesn’t address the reality that modern Montessori is no longer an educational philosophy to help struggling or vulnerable children but an appropriated pedagogy for the upper classes who have no trouble affording a system that continues that continuum of self-interest and exclusivity.
Why can't children from the lower class go to schools like this. America has so much money, but these kids who did not wish the life they were given have to go to unforeseen schools which shapes them into who they are. It is so sad.
My kids go to a Montessori school and it’s a charter school which is free . If not freee where u are u can apply for step up for kids scholarship which will pay90%-100% of your tuition and everyone qualifys
Oh now i know what Montessori Basic School meant(i translated the full name of my school to English)
I don’t understand what the hurry is to drink from a glass cup?! Some of this stuff is ridiculous
I understand. There are parts of Montessori I really like and then there are others, like drinking from a glass cup, that I really don't get. I am perfectly fine with plastic so we are not dealing with shards when it is inevitably dropped on a tile floor. I like more of the education stuff rather than the home life stuff.
One of the things Montessori emphasizes is care and respect for the environment. Concepts like being purposeful with your actions and understanding that the things around you have value are much easier to understand when your actions have natural consequences.(like a glass breaking if you don't put it down carefully) Letting children use material like the ones they see the adults in their life using also displays a level of trust in them that does wonders for their self esteem.
There is no "hurry to drink from a glass cup", simply a respect that they are capable of it if they so choose😊
There are ways of using real life things to impart any such knowledge.
That is true. We do it all the time, often without realizing.
I was very happy with our Montessori school until about 2nd grade. Socially, it was very difficult for my twins to have many options for friends as the combined ages between 1st and 3rd grades had 30 students in the class toward the end of us leaving.
The school also had a lack of financial transparency obviously because they had never discussed making such large class sizes before we committed ourselves to coming back the next year. The classroom felt chaotic and teachers were stressed that then took out their frustrations on the students.
We decided to leave as socially I didn’t want my kids mingling as 4th graders in with the 5th and 6th graders. There is a HUGE difference in what these kids know and behave like than with my 4th graders. If I were to do it again I would have moved on to another school after Early Childhood. I honestly don’t think it was worth the money as head start and upstart programs are just as good IMO. Look at academic performance between the private and public schools before finalizing your decision along with their philosophy on discipline and social development before thinking that private schools are always the best.
Has anyone with autistic children found success in a Montessori school? If so, what was your approach to determine if the school was meeting your child's needs?
I asked around and, within my community, I don't have any friends who have found success in a Montessori school for a child with autism. In talking, we came to the conclusion that in order to determine if it is meeting your child's needs, you need to take into account their ability to be self-motivated and ability to work on their own/in a group setting/in a multi-age setting. These are some key elements of Montessori. Can they communicate their needs to the classroom teacher/facilitator? I know several children with autism that I think could do well at Montessori if the parents chose that route for them, but chose to keep them in public school with the assistance they receive there.
I am not sure that is the best answer for you but I hope that helps some.
@@LearningLifeMB That does help, I appreciate the response.
I have autism and I think I personally would have thrived in a Montessori school.
The sensory overwhelm (the classroom itself and the general buzz of restless energy that the students gave off) of a traditional school was something that caused problems for me up until I dropped out and started homeschooling in highschool.
I would have loved the sense of peace, the ordered layout of the work materials and the respect for others and the environment that is instilled right from the beginning in Montessori.
Seeing as I still kind of lack some basic food prep and conflict resolution skills the practical life activities and grace and courtesy lessons would probably also have been very beneficial.
I'm turning 19 soon and my mainstream school experience had such a strong, mostly negative, impact on me that I'm actually planning on becoming a Montessori teacher/guide myself to help insure atleast some of the future generation don't have to go through the same things. (I also absolutely love kids, so I would have wanted to worked with them in some way regardless)
I hope whatever decision you end up making works out well for your kid though, good luck😊
Do your own research and you will find that Maria Montessori first did her research on children with special needs before working with children who were in poverty
Enrolling my daughter in a Montessori school is one of my biggest regrets. I now have a second grader who has no ability to read.
I'm sorry. I'm sure she'll pick up reading.
Work with her get some books that are up to her reading level and grade level,sight word cards, word search’s,and my favorite activity is having my cousins pick out words from the dictionary and making personalized sight words every week
What are you doing to teach her to read? My son is 4 and has been learning to read since he was 18 months. He’s been a fluent reader since 3 and it’s 100% because of what I poured into him, reading with him at night and practicing letter sounds 2-5 minutes a day.
That‘s perfect for us. My son will start first grade Montessori in 2 months and has been reading fluently (1 book per month) since age 5,5
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I do not like this approach! This is not teaching the the skills they need for school or life! I laugh but find this very alarming. None of this is preparing them for the work environment unless they are going to be a homemaker or work in food services.! LOL This does not prepare children for real life in the workforce! And todays children are much smarter than this! I've seen a 3 year old who has mastered a tablet. Montessori schools need to step in the 21st century!
This approach seems to focuses mainly on concrete practical skills that children develop individually (in isolation). While these skills are important, imaginative and collaborative play is equally as important to develop the 21st-century skills children need now more than ever.
One limitation of this method is that it is not well-suited to all children. Because the approach is based on the idea that children are innately curious and motivated to learn. It may not be effective for children who are shy, struggling or who have special needs. These children may require more structured and individualized instruction in order to be successful.
Thank you for your thoughts! I'm with you on having to learn the 21st century skills! And yes, Montessori isn't right for every child. I know my girls wouldn't thrive in this environment.
A child who is shy or needs extra guidance will get exactly what they need from the responsive guide, even if that's a bit of a push.
I don't understand this rush to get children on the tablets. Plenty of research supports delaying that, but you will have your opinion regardless.