And he referred to her as having “dull energy” afterwards, and that he was just not into that? You are definitely right, he was not in love with her, and was very mechanically trying to say the right words to stay in the game.
He was honest way too early for her and the show...she was not on the same page with him where he was at... the tone of her voice and way is aggressive and accusing of someone that just poured their heart out to them. The good thing is that he is too sharp for her and the show. He will eventually find the right person to him who will accept him for who he is.
@@marydss-no9yq she asked him to back up his profession of love (a fair and rational question given the stakes of the show) and he couldn’t express a single thing specific to her. Your immediate reaction to this being “Jen sucks” is quite telling.
He called her dull right after saying he loved her 🙄. And the constant clearing of his throat, is a telling sign he was lying. He hasn’t learned anything based on his most recent IG post. He is totally delusional and shallow.
I've had a bad feeling about him almost immediately, but what really showed his narcissism was during their one on one date when they went on the sky walk and he didnt even let her decide before he answered that they were going to jump. And when she was freaking out he was laughing 😅😬🤷♀️
The Body Language from both of them is apparent. He said out of his own mouth that he hoped for either Daisy or Maria to become the “Bachelorettes”. He should have just Man up and said this isn’t working for me, leaving Jenn with some dignity, instead of tearing her torn any further.
The way he expressed himself to her shows that he is not into her the way she thinks he is. He's only there to make himself famous. But great job, Jenn! It's good that you see him through. He doesn't deserve Jenn.
Gaslighting, blame shifting. Word salads... They are all confusing when coupled with the chemistry. She did so well to get out ...just wish it was sooner.
Dude wasnt even devastated when he got sent home after all that talk of loving her. Then he talks badly about her saying she was dull and going back to himself saying he did everything right and that he wants to find his person.
anyone else think of that micheal scott meme where he says “sometimes i begin a sentence and don’t know where it’s going to lead”? exactly what i felt seeing sam😭
One thing everyone needs to learn, attraction is just that. It's can hit a wall real quick when you dont have everything else....like compatibility, mutual respect, showing love languages to each other.
It was just chemistry but nothing else. I think it was rust, not love. Nice that Jan is being able to realise it and send him home. It's unfortunate that she even wasted that time. I think she would have kept any other guy other than him. But there are still other real guys, and I hope she really finds the one 🙏
That was almost painful to watch. Besides his obvious nervousness, he just melted down. I almost felt sorry for him because he just couldn't answer any questions sensibly. He seemed to me to be one of the ones who just didn't want to go home or "to win". And then he badmouths her about "dull energy". That was sad.
Strong PHYSICAL connection, I guess is what she meant, as she's said that in past episodes. She's said before that she and Sam are physically connected well, but the emotional connection isn't there.
The strong connection is probably attractiveness. She probably found him VERY attractive so her body was pulled to him. I think that’s what she meant by strong “physical” connection LOL
Sad to watch a man have NO IDEA! it’s true he was just spouting words not really meaning them obviously.. wow, glad she saw right through him. Hope she finds her person.
A bunch of simps go after one girl as she hooks up with a bunch of dudes in front of your face while you sit in the back hoping to get your chance... yea its definitely hard to watch lol
I like she asked hard questions and saw right through him. Kind of reminded me with Hannah Brown and Luke P, when she liked him all the way until the end, she finally saw his true colors.
Someone who lists the things they love and all those things are about how they feel and what you do for them is someone who will later make you miserable.
He truly made a fool of himself Devin warned us from the beginning he isn’t genuine he says what she wants to hear he’s a red flag he doesn’t love her he can’t tell her what makes Jenn special the fact that he said he wanted Maria as a bachelorette red flag
Sam just isn’t a guy with a lot of depth, he also is a bit focused on himself but knows how to portray caring about others…how to play that game of visuals. He needs a shallower girl than Jenn.
He was cheated on by his ex. Makes sense why. Hes a robot. ChatGPT could offer a more emotional connection than this guy. Men cheat for lust , women cheat bc of lack of emotional connection. This guy will never hold on to any woman thats wife/mother material
I lost brain cells! The way he goes in circles… all the questions are about her and even if your not in love with her probably sees her as a friend you can say your anything but couldn’t even think of one thing!
@@rachelkessinger2295 But will they last tho. With Devin's selfish "I-need-to-cheat-my-way-into-having-you-all-by-myself" behaviour. If she thinks that's cute. .then they deserve each other for now.
I think he isn't very ready for Jenn he expects something else but come to Jenn with hope that it will work. She need to sent him home from their one on one already.
The fact that she was delusional enough to think they had a genuine connection… like HUH!???? WHERE ??!!! 😂😂😂 HES GIVING A FRAT BRO HOOKUP SHE HAD IN COLLEGE , LIVE IN THE PRESENT + FUTURE JEN, not the past!!!! 🩷
I wonder if he's a very nice sociopath. He seems to have no understanding of feelings. It would explain why he can't answer the questions or doesn't ask her how she's feeling. He thinks saying I love you will fix everything.
I think when Sam describes what love is…that he’s explaining how he thinks his EX should have treated him. I hope he’s not narcissistic. It seems like every discussion ends up being about himself though.
Good riddance. She would have wasted a hometown dates spot with him. Not to mention dragging his family into his endless rambling and now she spared us from that too 😅
Wow this guy loves to make everything about him. Thank goodness Jenn saw through the BS. Passion and physical attraction does not make a great relationship.
He is talking about himself. He turns every question into an answer about him. He can't describe what he sees in her because he has never been looking at her. Classic narcissistic behaviour.
Jenn!!! Smart girl!! Energy is NOT emotional connection. Ya, Sam made up this delusional IDEA of Jenn instead of actually getting to know Jenn. That is what Sam is he has strong narcissistic traits. I feel sorry for Sam.
I think that b4 every rose ceremony (once they start doing 1 on 1 dates), they should have each contestant take a quiz on what new things theyve learned about the bachelor/Bachelorette! If they are TRULY interested in potentially marrying him/her, then they should be able to answer some deep questions about who their potential future spouse is as an individual. If they can't answer the questions, then how would they be able to picture creating a life with that individual? Itd weed out all those who are not serious about wanting to get married at the end. 👌💯😅😬
Oh, I don’t agree Sam’s feelings are valid. I don’t think she has the same feelings for him. I think that’s what the truth is. That doesn’t make him a bad guy or her
It’s like he just regurgitates things he’s heard on TV/movies but has no idea what he’s talking about
Exactly what narcissists do.
It was like he was reading off a poster behind her with a bunch of love quotes.
He just needed to randomly add "eat, pray, love"
Indeed!
he wants to be like Abed from Community without realizing the fact that one of the reasons Abed was so well loved was because of his personality
That was alot of rambling... lol... I think he was even more articulate in expressing his feelings for Devin 😂😂😂
ChatGPT sounds more human than he does
This comment deserves more than just 12 likes. 😂
Perfection does not make reality..cause does not exist...
"the energy she brought was very dull'... After listening to him say the exact opposite to her for 11 minutes straight. 🥴
For him having just “professed” his love to her he sure don’t seem upset that she sent him home
And he referred to her as having “dull energy” afterwards, and that he was just not into that? You are definitely right, he was not in love with her, and was very mechanically trying to say the right words to stay in the game.
He was honest way too early for her and the show...she was not on the same page with him where he was at... the tone of her voice and way is aggressive and accusing of someone that just poured their heart out to them. The good thing is that he is too sharp for her and the show. He will eventually find the right person to him who will accept him for who he is.
@@marydss-no9yq she asked him to back up his profession of love (a fair and rational question given the stakes of the show) and he couldn’t express a single thing specific to her. Your immediate reaction to this being “Jen sucks” is quite telling.
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@@marydss-no9yq Yes, someone who will love a narcissist for his looks...
Why does Sam remind me so much of Juan Pablo? His looks and also his personality and self absorbed, emotionally stunted complacency?
Yes!
Yes!!
Great observation! They have the same affectations and attitudes!!!😮
Yes! I noticed that from day one
OMG YOU ARE SO RIGHT
Sam's definitely not ready for a relationship
No
He will never be ready 😂
@@Lilacwinedine nope
BUT he IS ready for Paradise
@@bartkarnowski4458 I don't know 😕
He called her dull right after saying he loved her 🙄. And the constant clearing of his throat, is a telling sign he was lying. He hasn’t learned anything based on his most recent IG post. He is totally delusional and shallow.
Agree 100.. he said so many rude things and his clearing of the throat = totally lying..
I've had a bad feeling about him almost immediately, but what really showed his narcissism was during their one on one date when they went on the sky walk and he didnt even let her decide before he answered that they were going to jump. And when she was freaking out he was laughing 😅😬🤷♀️
Right idk why she didn’t see it then.
@@jackcrackalinpop3461 maybe she did but wanted to give him another chance
As soon as he said "southern gentleman" we all knew
The Body Language from both of them is apparent. He said out of his own mouth that he hoped for either Daisy or Maria to become the “Bachelorettes”. He should have just Man up and said this isn’t working for me, leaving Jenn with some dignity, instead of tearing her torn any further.
Exactly 💯
Even MARIA would’ve sent Sam M home earlier than Jenn did lmao just my opinion though
@@thaliavanto3495I was just thinking that. Maria is too classy for Sam M.
When
The way he expressed himself to her shows that he is not into her the way she thinks he is. He's only there to make himself famous. But great job, Jenn! It's good that you see him through. He doesn't deserve Jenn.
Facts..
I think he wanted to get laid, too.
Dude gave the performance of a D list actor and then went in for some gas lighting when he realized things weren't going his way. Hahahahahahahaha
Gaslighting, blame shifting. Word salads... They are all confusing when coupled with the chemistry. She did so well to get out ...just wish it was sooner.
Devin said in episode 2 that Sam was the most conniving man in the house, and that everything he says is calculated. 🎯
Devin was so right !
Plot twist devin was also the most cunning man in the house 🤦🏽♀️
Dude wasnt even devastated when he got sent home after all that talk of loving her. Then he talks badly about her saying she was dull and going back to himself saying he did everything right and that he wants to find his person.
Apparently he had to leave around that time to officiate his sisters wedding so he probably lowkey wanted out at that point
Devin has been tryin to warn us from the very beginning
Did he actually? I haven't watched this season so idk what's going on fully
And they were making Devin look like he’s full of 💩
She needs to get rid of devon
She needs to get rid of devon he is a player
I like sam
anyone else think of that micheal scott meme where he says “sometimes i begin a sentence and don’t know where it’s going to lead”? exactly what i felt seeing sam😭
😂😂🤣
😂 oh my gosh 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yesss!!!! This comment deserves more likes!! 100% accurate 😂
You saw that in the Bachelor Fantake recap.
@@aliciaclark234 no, i commented this much before his video and was so happy when he put it in haha
I saw it from day 1 she was so
Much into him that he didn't actually feel for her the same way.
Same! When she said the chemistry was there I was like huh? Where cz it kind of seemed like she was only really into him
The second he said he thought it’d be daisy or maria I’d send him home
those two dont even hold a candle to jenn as far as looks
@@quality333its not about looks its about compatibility
@@quality333yes they do!
When
Bro doing crossword puzzles is the most attractive thing hahaha
Jenn girl you did NOT get it wrong. You didn’t marry him, it’s better late than never !!
One thing everyone needs to learn, attraction is just that. It's can hit a wall real quick when you dont have everything else....like compatibility, mutual respect, showing love languages to each other.
Yep. Just ask Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez.
It was just chemistry but nothing else. I think it was rust, not love. Nice that Jan is being able to realise it and send him home. It's unfortunate that she even wasted that time. I think she would have kept any other guy other than him.
But there are still other real guys, and I hope she really finds the one 🙏
So obvious it was just physical...I thought we would see another Claire and Dale show😳
When Devin said "Today the main thing was not the main thing" 🤣
Sam saw his chance to become the Bachelor slip away halfway through. He's amusing my humorous part.
Thank God for that!! If he thinks he is going to be the next Bachelor well he can think that again. LMAO!
Grant would be perfect.
@@Lalalalupes Spot on! Gran Ellis has been announced as the next Bachelor.
@@mythoughts6229REALLY?? That makes me so happy!!
Oh thank the lord we have a lead that has enough wisdom to be able to tell the difference between lust and love. Way to go Jenn!
That was almost painful to watch. Besides his obvious nervousness, he just melted down. I almost felt sorry for him because he just couldn't answer any questions sensibly. He seemed to me to be one of the ones who just didn't want to go home or "to win". And then he badmouths her about "dull energy". That was sad.
Jen says, "what the hell does he even mean?" -rolls eyes- hahaha
He doesn’t know what a relationship is.
You took the words right out of my mouth! I am not even sure that he knows who he is yet.
I think he is just self-absorbed
Narcissistic tendencies
It’s like he’s reading off a poster behind her with a bunch of loves quotes.
He actually didn't want to there anymore. He sabotage himself
he look miserable to be honest ,so i think you are right
Apparently he needed to leave around that time to officiate his sisters wedding so it all makes sense !
This is literally giving situationship 😭😭
How can Jenn say she's felt a STRONG connection with Sam if she doesn't feel SEEN by him?
Strong PHYSICAL connection, I guess is what she meant, as she's said that in past episodes. She's said before that she and Sam are physically connected well, but the emotional connection isn't there.
Because all he wants is so make out with her?
The strong connection is probably attractiveness. She probably found him VERY attractive so her body was pulled to him. I think that’s what she meant by strong “physical” connection LOL
Physical
At the beginning she probably attracted by his physical built and looks too quick and too soon.
so glad that he got sent home 💞
He’s a train wreck. Good job sending him home. He clearly wasnt ready. He did a complete turnaround from beginning !!!
Her makeup and dress looks so good
Sad to watch a man have NO IDEA! it’s true he was just spouting words not really meaning them obviously.. wow, glad she saw right through him. Hope she finds her person.
He's "trusting the process" as if he's saying he doesn't love jen but he can "try to fall in love"
Sam is the Word Salad King. Bye bye, Sam
This is so hard to watch…
very hard !!! Omg !
Yes!!
A bunch of simps go after one girl as she hooks up with a bunch of dudes in front of your face while you sit in the back hoping to get your chance... yea its definitely hard to watch lol
It’s the whole reason TO watch.
I like she asked hard questions and saw right through him. Kind of reminded me with Hannah Brown and Luke P, when she liked him all the way until the end, she finally saw his true colors.
What do you see in me?
-your energy 🤣🤣
All he sees is what SHE will do for him...that is the natc definition of love.
This guy is dime a dozen lol
He’s here for clout. Jen should’ve listened to her brain and not her 🐱
Who’s not here for clout though? How many go back to careers they had instead of influencer life in socal
Lol the girl is here for clout also.. you need to get some common sense bud
He wants to be famous. Like they all do. Sad that we've taught this generation to put their self worth into a staged TV production.
Someone who lists the things they love and all those things are about how they feel and what you do for them is someone who will later make you miserable.
He truly made a fool of himself Devin warned us from the beginning he isn’t genuine he says what she wants to hear he’s a red flag he doesn’t love her he can’t tell her what makes Jenn special the fact that he said he wanted Maria as a bachelorette red flag
he was so focused on “ keeping the main thing the main thing” he forgot to actually making her a thing 😂
His Bachelor Application in a downhill spiral.
That was the most bullcrap coming from anyone's mouth. If I had a jar for every time he said "LOVE", I'd be a millionaire lol
Sam just isn’t a guy with a lot of depth, he also is a bit focused on himself but knows how to portray caring about others…how to play that game of visuals. He needs a shallower girl than Jenn.
He was cheated on by his ex. Makes sense why. Hes a robot. ChatGPT could offer a more emotional connection than this guy. Men cheat for lust , women cheat bc of lack of emotional connection. This guy will never hold on to any woman thats wife/mother material
Yup
He is confusing, don’t know what he’s talking about and completely just blah blah.
He knows nothing about her or understand her. This guy is bullshiting and has no idea what he’s saying himself 😆 good job Jenn for sending him home.
Yassssss the growth in Jennnnnn, like ve to see itttt
Jenn is impressive!! Her instinct is on the mark and those difficult power moves will pay off.
Get to know each other mentally first, not the physicality of each other.
He thinks he's the biggest star in the sky!
To bad she sent Grant home, he was my choice.
💯 % narcissist
LOL this guy is just spitting out random things
The main thing the main thing in his eyes is him🙄
😂😂😂😂
he's a narcissist and a certified yapper!!!
Her judgement about him was right on. Great job, Jenn!
I’m so glad she sent him home. He was not it!
I lost brain cells! The way he goes in circles… all the questions are about her and even if your not in love with her probably sees her as a friend you can say your anything but couldn’t even think of one thing!
Because he is a narcissist and they have zero ability or desire to see anyone but themselves
Devin was warning her all along. Sam always screamed red flags
And Devin is any better? ?
@@surelyashley5726 yes obviously. That’s why they got engaged!!
@@rachelkessinger2295 But will they last tho.
With Devin's selfish "I-need-to-cheat-my-way-into-having-you-all-by-myself" behaviour. If she thinks that's cute. .then they deserve each other for now.
@@surelyashley5726 we don't know at least he isnt selfish with me me me me
@@surelyashley5726she picks Devin in the end
Please dont even go to BIP, Sam. Just please don't. Spend time LEARNING before you attempt any type of relationship.
not him calling her dull lmao
Sam is acting and she's being real.
I think he isn't very ready for Jenn he expects something else but come to Jenn with hope that it will work. She need to sent him home from their one on one already.
Sam is all about himself.
“Pouring into my emotional part” after stripping. 😂🤣😂
Jen…. don’t let men dictate you
The tough questions. Jenn is who she thinks she is..
This was awful to watch. I hated that Jen gave Sam so much time!!!!!!!!!
😂 right! Why keep digging into an empty bag. She’s ridiculous and He’s delusional lol
Jen is so impressive in this!
The show did a fine job avoiding all the homeless drug addicted weirdos lining the streets of Seattle.
The fact that she was delusional enough to think they had a genuine connection… like HUH!???? WHERE ??!!! 😂😂😂 HES GIVING A FRAT BRO HOOKUP SHE HAD IN COLLEGE , LIVE IN THE PRESENT + FUTURE JEN, not the past!!!! 🩷
He’s a major red flag. Do not cast him in anything. lol he just wants to win to stroke his ego lol
He definitely won't be on Bachelor In Paradise for sure.
I wonder if he's a very nice sociopath. He seems to have no understanding of feelings. It would explain why he can't answer the questions or doesn't ask her how she's feeling. He thinks saying I love you will fix everything.
It’s spectrum
“This is the story….i want to be the next bachelor. “
I like how they still hugged at the end of the convo.
I think when Sam describes what love is…that he’s explaining how he thinks his EX should have treated him. I hope he’s not narcissistic. It seems like every discussion ends up being about himself though.
Good riddance. She would have wasted a hometown dates spot with him. Not to mention dragging his family into his endless rambling and now she spared us from that too 😅
He’s a child lmao
Sam reminds me of don Pablo from the previous bachelor!! An In secure little boy playing mind games!!
Same for me! Reminds me of Don Pablo
I’m shook at what he is saying to her 😳😳😱😱
Perfect example of a guy saying what you want to hear but not embodying it whats so ever.
Wow this guy loves to make everything about him. Thank goodness Jenn saw through the BS. Passion and physical attraction does not make a great relationship.
He literally sunk his battleship. How could she even be interested in someone that is only interested in HIMSELF. Ego Ego Ego and not too bright.
Jen: What do you see in me?
Sam: Um I mean, you complete me…
Jen: That’s from Jerry McGuire.
Sam: Wait, I mean…like…you had me at hello.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
I don't understand what he's talking about. I feel second hand confusion for her.🫤
He is talking about himself. He turns every question into an answer about him. He can't describe what he sees in her because he has never been looking at her. Classic narcissistic behaviour.
Did Sam think he would become the Bachelor with his parting comments. Good luck😂
What the heck is he talking about ?
Himself....nothing more nothing less. If he is not the topic he makes himself the topic. Classic narcissist
No one knows 😂
This dude is a total clown 🤡
Jenn!!! Smart girl!! Energy is NOT emotional connection.
Ya, Sam made up this delusional IDEA of Jenn instead of actually getting to know Jenn. That is what Sam is he has strong narcissistic traits. I feel sorry for Sam.
when he said that she was dull. she's trying to figure out if you're real or not, and he's being dull. I literally smacked my face. 😭😭😭😭
I think that b4 every rose ceremony (once they start doing 1 on 1 dates), they should have each contestant take a quiz on what new things theyve learned about the bachelor/Bachelorette! If they are TRULY interested in potentially marrying him/her, then they should be able to answer some deep questions about who their potential future spouse is as an individual. If they can't answer the questions, then how would they be able to picture creating a life with that individual? Itd weed out all those who are not serious about wanting to get married at the end. 👌💯😅😬
Oh, I don’t agree Sam’s feelings are valid. I don’t think she has the same feelings for him. I think that’s what the truth is. That doesn’t make him a bad guy or her
Maybe he needs a doctor and therapist. Very sad to see this
I am not trying to be funny but did he have head trauma? The right upper part of his forehead looks like something happened to him .
You may not be trying to be funny, but this is cracking me up 😂