Becky this is a great video - but important to remember I think that being part of couple does not make us more valuable than being single - happy being alone, maybe forever, is perfectly ok too.
Becky, ive watched your videos for a while now, and i never comment, but i just have to say that you are a beautiful soul inside and out. I also thought you look stunning and glowing on your malaga video. JP is a lucky fella if you ask me . Take care. x
Becky you are such a good ambassador for plus size people (This is good advice for anyone!) It is a minefield but this discussion can only help. You and JP are a great couple so it works!
Great video! Never sell yourself short. From a beautiful plate alone you will not get well-fed. If there’s not much of a character behind a beautiful face or body it cannot be satisfying in the long run. Then of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Thankfully not everyone wants a super skinny model type.
Thanks for a great video, perfectly timed for me. Recently single after 9 years. My ex cheated on me so my confidence isnt the best but once im ready to get back out there, I'll definitely be using these tips xx
This was very interesting Becky. I found it intriguing that you spoke immediately about dating sites. That would be the last thing I would ever want to do. The thought of putting myself out there online! I'd much rather meet someone naturally. Well, 58 here and never been loved. I think it has passed me by.
It certainly hasn’t passed you by. I met my parter 19 years ago on a chat site. He moved 170 miles to be with me. We have a 13 yo and are still happy. I’m 53 xx
Great video ❤ I'm glad to hear you are going to do more plus size related topics. Just in case you wanted any ideas I'd really love your take on a "plus size hygiene routine and tips" - I know there are some out there already but I would appreciate your perspective and tips. I'd also definitely love the confidence video too 🎉
Thank you for this video It was really helpful. I love the way you’re so honest about things and I’ve noticed that you have lots of confidence and hopefully one day I will be able to build up my confidence too.
Great video Becky, it took me 10 years to find my husband after one of my ex's cheated on me after being together for 19months, hubby & I have been happily married for 18yrs this October 2024 after meeting on a dating agency, sadly children didn't happen for us, ❤
Very true about being honest online dating not much point in putting a photo that doesn’t really represent you because when you meet it could be very awkward and they may even not be nice about it leaving you feeling horrible wear as if you are true cul they know who they are meeting so no shocks lol I had a bloke send me his photo but when he turned up he was around 25 years older looking or maybe in age as well. It turned me right off because for one he was to old for me plus he lied which is never a good start.
Hiya Becky loving this im also a laydee on The curvier side so this is great I love what u doing im a bigger than i look in my photo girl and ive just syaryed weights fuck being skinny rhat shir aint gona comw but im just tryan tone uo what i have which fir me is good enough thanks for the datin advice B ❤ take a heart takes strength to get outside deezdays much love sis xx I'm always supporting yall ❤🎉
I’d quite like to see you do a pack with me and travel day vlogs as when you see the other vlogers that do this they are all size 4 so it would great to see a cuddly sized person do this lol
Personality is key. And don’t put yourself down to the person. I’ve not dated for a year due to just being fed up of just meeting bloke that are just not fun or interesting looks really are not everything.
Know the things you have to offer, why he’s lucky to be on a date with you. What do you like about yourself? Beautiful eyes? Intelligence? Kindness? Terrific fun? Good company? It’s not being full of yourself, it’s knowing your worth. No need to show off, but big yourself up. You’re worth it!
Hi Becky I enjoyed this vlog, just one question if it's not too personal, do you think that you and JP will ever get married or is it not important to you, lots of people these days don't feel marriage is important, and I just wondered how you felt, you seem such a lovely couple and get along extremely well, and you are both so laid back, my personal views are that if you don't want kids then why get married but if you do want or have kids then it's a bit of security for the kids, would love to know your views, xxx
I know its hard to predict the future but will you move to him or will he move to you? As an old fogie dont waste the prime of your lives apart - you deserve everything and if there isnt a clear future after 6 years then I say its time to move on. Dont get me wrong I am not trying to be negative at all you really just deserve the best xx
ok im happy for you. make sure he sets a date for it. you are too special to waste listening to 'maybe soons' during your young years xx@@BeckyReynolds
Be happy being alone, then anyone you end up falling for is like a bonus. I was happy living alone before my partner and i learnt alot about relying on myself to be happy!
Becky this is a great video - but important to remember I think that being part of couple does not make us more valuable than being single - happy being alone, maybe forever, is perfectly ok too.
Absolutely! You do you. I just have had a few requests for this kind of video.
Being in a position to have children does make you more valuable than being single and childless.
@@SirHargreevesThat's an incredibly outdated point of view.
@SirHargreeves not all potential partners want children. For many guys a woman who is desperate for a baby is actually a turn-off.
This only applies if you WANT to be single. Single forever whilst craving romantic companionship is soul crushing.
Becky, ive watched your videos for a while now, and i never comment, but i just have to say that you are a beautiful soul inside and out. I also thought you look stunning and glowing on your malaga video. JP is a lucky fella if you ask me . Take care. x
Becky you are such a good ambassador for plus size people (This is good advice for anyone!) It is a minefield but this discussion can only help. You and JP are a great couple so it works!
Great video! Never sell yourself short.
From a beautiful plate alone you will not get well-fed. If there’s not much of a character behind a beautiful face or body it cannot be satisfying in the long run. Then of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Thankfully not everyone wants a super skinny model type.
My tall good looking son has always gone for bigger girls and married one you and PJ are lovely and well suited I’m waiting for the wedding Becky 🥰
Thanks for a great video, perfectly timed for me. Recently single after 9 years. My ex cheated on me so my confidence isnt the best but once im ready to get back out there, I'll definitely be using these tips xx
This was very interesting Becky. I found it intriguing that you spoke immediately about dating sites. That would be the last thing I would ever want to do. The thought of putting myself out there online! I'd much rather meet someone naturally. Well, 58 here and never been loved. I think it has passed me by.
It certainly hasn’t passed you by. I met my parter 19 years ago on a chat site. He moved 170 miles to be with me. We have a 13 yo and are still happy. I’m 53 xx
@@dawnadams8365 That's so lovely. All the very best to you. I'm afraid that I'm way past thirty years old though. Sadly. One can hope.
Great video ❤ I'm glad to hear you are going to do more plus size related topics. Just in case you wanted any ideas I'd really love your take on a "plus size hygiene routine and tips" - I know there are some out there already but I would appreciate your perspective and tips. I'd also definitely love the confidence video too 🎉
Thanks for the idea!
Wonderful vlog Becky, great sound advice, I am sure that will help a lot of people out there. Keep up the good work. take care. ❤❤❤
Thank you for this video It was really helpful. I love the way you’re so honest about things and I’ve noticed that you have lots of confidence and hopefully one day I will be able to build up my confidence too.
Great video! Good lessons for life not just dating 💗xxx
Loved this, Becky. I would love to have your confidence. Totally admire you. Xx
You can do it!
You & yr partner are great together xxxx
Well done becky for this video it's great xx
Great video Becky, it took me 10 years to find my husband after one of my ex's cheated on me after being together for 19months,
hubby & I have been happily married for 18yrs this October 2024 after meeting on a dating agency, sadly children didn't happen for us, ❤
Great video maybe one on plus size flying? As i know you go on planes alot. :) xx
Great video ❤
Fantastic video Becky, u gave some great tips, thank you ❤❤❤
Very true about being honest online dating not much point in putting a photo that doesn’t really represent you because when you meet it could be very awkward and they may even not be nice about it leaving you feeling horrible wear as if you are true cul they know who they are meeting so no shocks lol I had a bloke send me his photo but when he turned up he was around 25 years older looking or maybe in age as well. It turned me right off because for one he was to old for me plus he lied which is never a good start.
Hiya Becky loving this im also a laydee on The curvier side so this is great I love what u doing im a bigger than i look in my photo girl and ive just syaryed weights fuck being skinny rhat shir aint gona comw but im just tryan tone uo what i have which fir me is good enough thanks for the datin advice B ❤ take a heart takes strength to get outside deezdays much love sis xx I'm always supporting yall ❤🎉
I’d quite like to see you do a pack with me and travel day vlogs as when you see the other vlogers that do this they are all size 4 so it would great to see a cuddly sized person do this lol
Personality is key. And don’t put yourself down to the person. I’ve not dated for a year due to just being fed up of just meeting bloke that are just not fun or interesting looks really are not everything.
Know the things you have to offer, why he’s lucky to be on a date with you. What do you like about yourself? Beautiful eyes? Intelligence? Kindness? Terrific fun? Good company? It’s not being full of yourself, it’s knowing your worth. No need to show off, but big yourself up. You’re worth it!
Fantastic advice! I love it 😍
Hi Becky I enjoyed this vlog, just one question if it's not too personal, do you think that you and JP will ever get married or is it not important to you, lots of people these days don't feel marriage is important, and I just wondered how you felt, you seem such a lovely couple and get along extremely well, and you are both so laid back, my personal views are that if you don't want kids then why get married but if you do want or have kids then it's a bit of security for the kids, would love to know your views, xxx
I know its hard to predict the future but will you move to him or will he move to you? As an old fogie dont waste the prime of your lives apart - you deserve everything and if there isnt a clear future after 6 years then I say its time to move on. Dont get me wrong I am not trying to be negative at all you really just deserve the best xx
He will move here in the future! 💖
ok im happy for you. make sure he sets a date for it. you are too special to waste listening to 'maybe soons' during your young years xx@@BeckyReynolds
This was great 😊
Hi! Do you and JP have any plans to get married and have children in the future? ❤
Yes! Lose plans 💖
Be happy being alone, then anyone you end up falling for is like a bonus. I was happy living alone before my partner and i learnt alot about relying on myself to be happy!
Have you tried Apricot some of there dresses go up to size 26 and there Lush
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How did you meet yr fella xxx
Love this ❤