Yes bro the physique perspective is def overlooked. I’ve asked my gf as well as several of her friends and they said that a more athletic aesthetic physique is more sexy than a more bulky physique. In fact many of them said that too much muscle and size is scary to them. But this is just my gfs and her friends perspective. Ik that this may be diff for others.
But here’s a question: how much of a man’s attractiveness is based on his looks. Women look at status and money too. So if hypermasculine is good so other men fear you and respect you and that indirectly makes women more attracted to you.
@@anti-hiphop1933if she is not into money that much just holding door, giving flowers and acting protective and gentle but confident will make her fall harder I bet.
When you are lean with that athletic built, you look like a knight. When you bulk up too much, you start looking like orcs from lord of the rings and basically look like a villain who the knight must save the girl from
Big muscles are not masculine. A man needs a physique that they can fight with (athletic v-taper), so your women can feel protected; Mr Olympia mass monster physiques ain't going to do that for you. It's unhealthy to weigh that much, whether fat or muscle.
I shaved my beard last week after losing a considerable amount of weight- and holy shit, I’m never growing the beard back. I look MUCH younger and definitely “prettier”. Been getting a lot of compliments.
Just wanted to add, I’ve never liked facial hair. It hides the face & I get them some men have one bc it hides their weak chin, double chin, or weak jawline. But if you don’t need a beard for those reasons, don’t do it. Show off that face! I hate beards. So glad to see this from a man.
You nailed it 😂💯💯 After all I’ve heard that we are attracted to people the resemble us looks wise, the whole notion that “opposites attract” is false, or at least in general
@@Me-eb3wv yea opposites attract is not even true with personality besides introvert/extrovert it is true in that sense but the rest of the functions need to be the same. Whoever came up with that must have been high
I have heard of this. However, I would rather be my exact bodytype (I powerlift and am bulky and not lean at all) and keep my hair shaved and my beard growing. I would not give up my lifestyle and lose what I worked for, only to have the female gaze. I am not good with women. I choose not to be. I do not pursue them and they do not pursue me. When i was leaner and did not have my beard, they wanted me more. Well, now I want myself more. Keep your integrity and be proud of your masculine features. You will find a woman that appreciates and compliments your masculinity. Edit and update: I found her.
@@venividivici7225 here’s what’s interesting women love pretty boys for long term relationships and hypermasculine men for one night stands. If you look at stats women choose men with facial hair and more muscles for one night stands. A lot of gym girls appreciate big guys too. It depends on what you’re looking for in girls and what girls are looking for. But to say hypermasculine is gay while pretty boy is straight is a reach. If you look at most gay guys they’re feminine so that’s why I always considered pretty boys gay or feminine.
Dude, this answers the questions I had in my mind, I appreciate you putting this video up. Never stop posting your daily videos. I think it is a step in my daily routine.❤
I think it depends on the woman. There are a lot of women who do like the more masculine rugged look. Obviously teenage girls will always crush after the pretty boys. Nonetheless, I think you should do what suits your face and body. Some guys can pull off pretty boy look more than others
I love rocking a bit of designer stubble man. It’s the perfect balance of pretty boy & masculine essence in my opinion. Get to show off the sharp jawline but also the hint of stubble adds some spice to your look.
Thats why we obsessed with male modles, singers and actors and NEVER HYPER MUSCULINE bodybuilders. being masculine droves women. HYPERmusculine scare us away turnoff
there's nothing wrong with getting more muscle as you can as long as you stay lean and natural, things go sideways when you're on steroids and/or having more body fat, if you stay lean and natural the more muscle you put on the healthier thus the more attractive to women you will look...
According to research women do actually prefer more masculine men over pretty boys, however that doesn’t mean being too big and bulky like a bodybuilder is optimal for women as a lot of women still find that gross. As a man you should not be bigger than about 6’2 210lbs, 6’0 200lbs, and 5’10 190lb and around 8% body fat at the leanest no leaner or bigger than that other wise you’ll be too big and veiny. Also a buzz cut just makes you look older if you’re a teenager looking older might be good but as a man in his mid 20s and above it’s definitely not optimal. And jurlery looks great on men if you wear the right julury and especially if you wear julery that makes you look more masculine and not like a girl. I find rocker julery to be the best and look amazing tied with an all black rocker outfit. Especially with a leather jacket and black boots.
Advice from a woman here: Be you, and then build on that. Dont change who you are just for narcissistic women 4:49 as he says we are. There exists our core self, and then a worse version of that and a better version of that. I love a rustic man and I love an Abercrombie type man. Both are hot. So be YOU, but cleaned up 😊😉😍💕
I agree with you but at a certain extent, teenagers and young women, maybe early/mid twenties prefer that kind of men but talking to my female friends they told me that they are not into that type of men anymore, we are in our mid thirties. They like mature, masculine guys, not the NSYNC or Backstreet Boys nowadays but there always exceptions, I have another friend that like very young guys still.
Talking about short haircuts. Through my teen years, my mom makes get a horrible short hair cut with almost nothing on sides and back and small patch of hair on top with gel sideways or up 😭😭😭I hate it
Youre talking about girls from maybe 15-24ish. Most older women want the classy tapper haircuts and decent size build. You gotta add in age. A 30 year old women think differently compared to 20 year old.
You know what you talking about for sure bro lmaoo when you get to that level just know you’ll get a lot of bad comments and looks from guys but aye guys hate us but they girlfriends love us haha
nothing matters except face and height, people can spin it any way that makes them feel better. you only know you're good looking by the way women BEHAVE around you, it doesnt require any words or actions. if she laughs at everything you say, if shes touchy with you, if she plays with her hair, is shes constantly smiling or seeming shy hand to her face. anything-maxxing means nothing you just need to win the genetic lottery, or be a beta provider if you get lucky and become a rich crypto bro or tech lord
Would be great if you could differentiate between women of different ages/life stages. Because obviously on TikTok, which is filled with 12-18yo girls, they like k-pop style boys. But what about the 28 yo, Masters degree, independent, looking for someone serious. I would think they might generally go for different guys/looks.
@@AustinWayneOfficial Which one, the one from the Legends of the Fall, or the one from Fight Club, or rather the one from World War Z? Neither is a feminized pretty boy type. 😉
Both masculine and feminine features are attractive in either sex. Full lips are attractive on both sexes. Prominent jaws can be attractive on both sexes. It’s about the balance.
Listen to him, gentlemen. As a 26yo woman, I can confirm everything he mentioned, ESPECIALLY regarding hair (head and facial). I cannot tell you how many men I’ve come across in person or online where I cringe over or lament their haircuts and/or having beards. I’ve even heard the notion that “beards are all the rage right now.” I’m like, “With who???” Sure, there’s a subset of women who prefer that along with other hypermasculine traits, but certainly not the majority of us. On point, as usual, Austin. 👍 I find your videos quite enlightening. It’s interesting to see “the other side,” as it were. And likewise some of your tips are useful across both sexes, which is appreciated.
Ma’am with all due respect you need to grow out of your immature high-school girlie phase and actually do your research you can’t be acting like this as a 26 year old. 1. You dont represent a majority of women you’re just one single female so you can’t possibly speak for the majority. 2: there are countless of studies and testimonies from women across many different cultures confirming that they do indeed like facially masculinized men with short hair and light stubble beards so no not every man needs the pretty boy look to attract women if that was the case guys like Jeremy Meeks and Saafir wouldn’t get it.
Girls and Lesbians standards are very different from WOMEN’s standards they want their men to actually look like MEN/CHADS not boys nor a replica of themselves WOMEN don’t care too much about your haircut/beard as long as it’s balanced and your facial structure is good.
Disagree with hairstyles. It's all depends on your face and the woman age. The rule thumb is: try different haircuts, go out of your comfort zone. Especially while young
One question,is the female gaze more relevant to younger girls?cause ive seen 20 plus women also prefer the jason mamoa type.and talking about the beard how about a beard like hamza?
I think most guys stop trying to be attractive as they get old, but they’re wired to always be attracted to it. And no disrespect to Hamza but the dude is the definition of the male gaze.
@@AustinWayneOfficial ok thanks for the reply,I actually live in an Eastern country and apart from younger women most women prefer bearded guys so that's why I was asking.
@@AustinWayneOfficial girl I dated was 24, head over heels in love with Jason mamoa. It’s not so cut and dry. I’m guessing a lot to do with ethnicity too
@@MattPryze yes I've seen more the hypermasculune archetype is still getting good results in eastern countries.ive seen the prettyboy type in my country is more popular among young girls especially who are upper middle class and well off financially while chad is universal.
I agree with u, but just one thing if u research more and u go deeper, u can understand that woman like stubbles but only because the people that we see on TV with low stubbles or clean shaved have very good jawlines, instead if u have an average jaw u should have a long stubble or some sort of beard to cover up the flaws of the jaw and adjust it to a more angular version of it. Can someone confirmed this too?
Excellent points. The huge muscles are the equivalent of the 'bimbo' girls with huge boobs and buttocks that some guys obsess about, but in reality not everyone likes that. I don't even care about defining a 'six pack', just being lean is 90% there.
I got the pretty boy face even with a beard! I have dark, almond shaped eyes, long lashes, thick eyebrows, hollowed cheeks, square jaw and I shave my head and still have a pretty boy look to me! I think its mostly my eyes...they look like Prince's eyes from Purple Rain
I have all of this down besides hairstyle. I have 3c type hair which gets way too frizzy. Do you think I should perm my hair? And should I make it straight or wavy?
Austin do you train traps and neck? I naturally have a big neck and traps, I'm scarred it won't match with my face (some feminine traits: eyes for example)
BTCH AM bald 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, and the other thing is, it's women from 15-24 who preferí the pretty boy look, but from 25+ they tend to like the mature Manly style....welll You are the model not me....
Hello austin, nice vid I am 14 years old and im very concerned about growth stunts while on a cut, since I am about 5'11 still, can I do something to not stunt my growth on a cut?
What's up bro ! First of all congratulations on starting your looksmaxxing journey so early on, in a couple of years you'll be effectively built different if you keep at it. For your age you are pretty tall already but if you want to maximize that and you should know a few things. First of all you say you want to cut but in a way that will not stunt your growth, by your question I'm inclined to think you are on the heavier side. What some don't know is that being overweight or at a very low bf can some times even hinder your growth so my recommandation as a former fat kid myself is to cut in a healthy manner until you are in a healthy bodyfat range for your age, 15%-18%. You can do this by being in a small caloric deficit 250-300 calories and working out for strenght to make sure you are still making gains, I suggest you follow a high fat and high protein diet with a smaller amount of carbs like sweet potatoes, rice or bread. Don't worry if you slip up from time to time, just make sure to get back on track. After you are done cutting you should prioritize getting lean muscle in all the right places while also doing the other looksmaxxing things like mewing, thumb pulling and bonesmashing. In your teenage to early 20s the most important things you should strive for, physically, are a handsome face and frame, which is height and shoulder and back size. A good exercise that I recommend for it is the reeves shrug, check out golden era bookworm for more info. You can always gain more muscle but while you are very young frame and face will be your building blocks.
Wow, thank you so much for the tips brother, I am truly amazed and happy someone took their time to answer my question, I will definitely implement your tips. The only thing i am still in doubt about is that I am actually pretty light, around 145lbs and even though I have some muscle, I am not vascular or lean, do you think there is something else I can do? Thank you so much @Decaeneus
@@GrowthHub800 no problem bro, just happy to share what I would've liked to know at your age. If you are like just flat all around, like not really much fat neither muscle you can start a bulk wich will probably help you grow provided you eat good food and do all the other necessary things. You can start with a small one like 300 calories and see how it goes from there, if you are still hungry and not seeing much progress in the gym for a while then increase to 500. In your first year or so you could gain 20-25 pounds of muscle with the right program and at your age your metabolism is pretty high and if you are also playing a sport regularly on the side it's possible to gain only muscle. Check out more about g flux on youtube, is pretty much what allows athletes to eat a lot and stay lean. But if you want more simple and reliable routines that don't need you to spend 5-6x days in the gym then Austin has a couple of good ones. You can also check out the chaos and pain blogspot for workout info, the author is pretty unhinged but his workout philisophy is one of the most effective imo. He also talked about how most naturals have massive potential but the majority of advice in the fitness industry will keep you small and weak due to too much focus on the little things (exercise selection, obsession with diet and underrating the human potential) and not enough on the actual good things (training hard, training in a way you enjoy and keeping, getting stronger and eating more protein)
All facts. I have a question do you think this variets depending on the female age? Young women might prefer less intimidating men. It could be? Or overall to make sure most women find you attractive is you being pretty and aesthetic regardless women age.
This is literally a cut and past of Austin durhnam video of this subject. Sad. Also I’m muscular and the girls I’m with simp over my big arms. Creed aventus also is cap. I’ve had hundreds of compliments from women on that scent. I think it’s completely personal taste. Girls 23 and lower might go for pretty boys but as you get older it’s definitely not the case.
Hey Austin, nice video. For me, it´s hard to accept these things simply because of the Eastern culture that I am coming from. but it seems Hollywood is changing the female gaze from a masculine man to a feminine soft man. that's a big Reboot for my brain. I would love to know what looksmaxing advice you have for guys in their mid twenties.
There will come a point where younger women aren’t gonna find tattoos attractive because it reminds them of their tatted up millennials parents with a bunch of expensive trendy tattoos they got off google images. I’d say easily removable piercings + jewelry are they way to go if you wanna “decorate” yourself.
No, I think he’s phrasing it as in. “The female gaze is why you’re ugly” because you are looking at yourself through the male gaze, and thus the female gaze sees you as ugly.
Its the abrahimic religion that destroyed men . The thing you asked i have answers for that as I've researched into it . Look into Hinduism a religion way older than abrahimic ones they weren't this way of masculinity before invasion of abrahimic people . Also being pretty doesn't mean you are trying to look like women . Pretty men have different facial structure more angular face while feminine women have round face . The problem is people relating everything men do with Femininity on the first place . Women will always adopt things that men do and than men go away from it as males naturally tend to move away from things being related to females . Having long hair was also very normal till 1800s in the west . I disagree with your women are narcissist argument tho , they wanna look at THEMSELVES in you they just admire a good looking male that's it and they have preferences and it might vary with their age from pretty men to handsome men . Just like that Androgyny is a male beauty thing , not of women . Women have to go through surgeries or get a perfect makeup to achieve that Androgynous look , while most men with stable testosterone can achieve that look in young age . Weird how these people will call you feminine when it's literally proven pretty boys have more testosterone and sharp jawline and stuffs lol .
Pretty Boy + Masculine Man = Perfect
Funny thing is how Thor is a "male gaze"but my cousin had a crush on him,I guess he really is a female gaze
I think thor is male gaze but Spidey is female gaze
@@Lucybilbadexactly right
@@DadFusisyeah some older women would mostly go for the more masculine look but i’d say college girls more like a vinnie hacker
Yes bro the physique perspective is def overlooked. I’ve asked my gf as well as several of her friends and they said that a more athletic aesthetic physique is more sexy than a more bulky physique. In fact many of them said that too much muscle and size is scary to them. But this is just my gfs and her friends perspective. Ik that this may be diff for others.
Definitely true for 99% of girls man
But here’s a question: how much of a man’s attractiveness is based on his looks. Women look at status and money too. So if hypermasculine is good so other men fear you and respect you and that indirectly makes women more attracted to you.
@@anti-hiphop1933if she is not into money that much just holding door, giving flowers and acting protective and gentle but confident will make her fall harder I bet.
@@firdose45 That’s nonsense. If women were into gentlemen they wouldn’t be cheating on their husbands and bfs. It’s all about looks, money and status.
When you are lean with that athletic built, you look like a knight. When you bulk up too much, you start looking like orcs from lord of the rings and basically look like a villain who the knight must save the girl from
Big muscles are not masculine. A man needs a physique that they can fight with (athletic v-taper), so your women can feel protected; Mr Olympia mass monster physiques ain't going to do that for you. It's unhealthy to weigh that much, whether fat or muscle.
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A vtaper is bone structure
@@Kamisuitendo it's achieved with muscle tho?
@@Aurora-bv1ys No, it's achieved by bone structure. Someone with narrow shoulders cannot get a v taper, no matter how much muscle they put on
I shaved my beard last week after losing a considerable amount of weight- and holy shit, I’m never growing the beard back. I look MUCH younger and definitely “prettier”. Been getting a lot of compliments.
Makes a huge difference brother
how old are you bro?
Just wanted to add, I’ve never liked facial hair. It hides the face & I get them some men have one bc it hides their weak chin, double chin, or weak jawline. But if you don’t need a beard for those reasons, don’t do it. Show off that face!
I hate beards.
So glad to see this from a man.
I don’t have a prominent jawline which is why I grow a small beard.
i also shaved now men are calling me gay but compliments from women
So they’re basically attracted to themselves except with shorter hair and a deeper voice
Lol yes, they’re narcissists
You nailed it 😂💯💯
After all I’ve heard that we are attracted to people the resemble us looks wise, the whole notion that “opposites attract” is false, or at least in general
😂
😂😂
@@Me-eb3wv yea opposites attract is not even true with personality besides introvert/extrovert it is true in that sense but the rest of the functions need to be the same.
Whoever came up with that must have been high
I have heard of this. However, I would rather be my exact bodytype (I powerlift and am bulky and not lean at all) and keep my hair shaved and my beard growing. I would not give up my lifestyle and lose what I worked for, only to have the female gaze. I am not good with women. I choose not to be. I do not pursue them and they do not pursue me. When i was leaner and did not have my beard, they wanted me more. Well, now I want myself more.
Keep your integrity and be proud of your masculine features. You will find a woman that appreciates and compliments your masculinity.
Edit and update:
I found her.
To each their own my G
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Don’t be hyper masculine. Just don’t do it. Gay guys like that. Women don’t like that.
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Well you’re better off going to prison looking hyper masculine than looking like a pretty boy.
@@anti-hiphop1933 Yes but if you want pussy be a pretty boy. If you're about to go to prison shave your head and get bulky
@@anti-hiphop1933hyper masculine=domination; pretty boy=female attraction
But who want to go to prision ?
@@venividivici7225 here’s what’s interesting women love pretty boys for long term relationships and hypermasculine men for one night stands. If you look at stats women choose men with facial hair and more muscles for one night stands. A lot of gym girls appreciate big guys too. It depends on what you’re looking for in girls and what girls are looking for. But to say hypermasculine is gay while pretty boy is straight is a reach. If you look at most gay guys they’re feminine so that’s why I always considered pretty boys gay or feminine.
Dude, this answers the questions I had in my mind, I appreciate you putting this video up. Never stop posting your daily videos. I think it is a step in my daily routine.❤
I’m glad brother 🖤
I think it depends on the woman. There are a lot of women who do like the more masculine rugged look. Obviously teenage girls will always crush after the pretty boys. Nonetheless, I think you should do what suits your face and body. Some guys can pull off pretty boy look more than others
I love rocking a bit of designer stubble man. It’s the perfect balance of pretty boy & masculine essence in my opinion. Get to show off the sharp jawline but also the hint of stubble adds some spice to your look.
Sounds rockstar man 👊
If this guy died his hair purple he'd be a real life trunks from dragon ball lmao
Haha best compliment bro
Thats why we obsessed with male modles, singers and actors and NEVER HYPER MUSCULINE bodybuilders. being masculine droves women. HYPERmusculine scare us away turnoff
there's nothing wrong with getting more muscle as you can as long as you stay lean and natural, things go sideways when you're on steroids and/or having more body fat, if you stay lean and natural the more muscle you put on the healthier thus the more attractive to women you will look...
Obviously
According to research women do actually prefer more masculine men over pretty boys, however that doesn’t mean being too big and bulky like a bodybuilder is optimal for women as a lot of women still find that gross. As a man you should not be bigger than about 6’2 210lbs, 6’0 200lbs, and 5’10 190lb and around 8% body fat at the leanest no leaner or bigger than that other wise you’ll be too big and veiny. Also a buzz cut just makes you look older if you’re a teenager looking older might be good but as a man in his mid 20s and above it’s definitely not optimal. And jurlery looks great on men if you wear the right julury and especially if you wear julery that makes you look more masculine and not like a girl. I find rocker julery to be the best and look amazing tied with an all black rocker outfit. Especially with a leather jacket and black boots.
@user-rf3oy9sf9r it was a misspell.
6:11 literally the best way to put it, Wow
Yessir!!
Advice from a woman here:
Be you, and then build on that.
Dont change who you are just for narcissistic women 4:49 as he says we are. There exists our core self, and then a worse version of that and a better version of that. I love a rustic man and I love an Abercrombie type man. Both are hot. So be YOU, but cleaned up 😊😉😍💕
I agree with you but at a certain extent, teenagers and young women, maybe early/mid twenties prefer that kind of men but talking to my female friends they told me that they are not into that type of men anymore, we are in our mid thirties. They like mature, masculine guys, not the NSYNC or Backstreet Boys nowadays but there always exceptions, I have another friend that like very young guys still.
Talking about short haircuts. Through my teen years, my mom makes get a horrible short hair cut with almost nothing on sides and back and small patch of hair on top with gel sideways or up 😭😭😭I hate it
That’s rough man
Long hair is out. Trust me, I have had long and buzzed hair….I got more woman with short hair. It obviously depends. Yes, look prettier.
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Youre talking about girls from maybe 15-24ish. Most older women want the classy tapper haircuts and decent size build. You gotta add in age. A 30 year old women think differently compared to 20 year old.
And is getting 30 year old women seriously a goal to consider? LMFAO
You think that but you'd be surprised
Who cares what women 24+ thinks
Most women do NOT like facial hair, no matter what the internet says, and they absolutely hate full beards, with a few exceptions…
tell that to Jeremy Meeks and Safir
All your info Is on point, and I learned It all the hard and slow way.
I like the way you put It: pretty appearance with manly behavior.
You know what you talking about for sure bro lmaoo when you get to that level just know you’ll get a lot of bad comments and looks from guys but aye guys hate us but they girlfriends love us haha
I think you should make longer format videos like 1 hour or more
Sounds lit
What about the Elvis Cut I heard women love that hair style.
nothing matters except face and height, people can spin it any way that makes them feel better. you only know you're good looking by the way women BEHAVE around you, it doesnt require any words or actions. if she laughs at everything you say, if shes touchy with you, if she plays with her hair, is shes constantly smiling or seeming shy hand to her face. anything-maxxing means nothing you just need to win the genetic lottery, or be a beta provider if you get lucky and become a rich crypto bro or tech lord
Growing tall is easy in first world countries
Would be great if you could differentiate between women of different ages/life stages. Because obviously on TikTok, which is filled with 12-18yo girls, they like k-pop style boys. But what about the 28 yo, Masters degree, independent, looking for someone serious. I would think they might generally go for different guys/looks.
jewelry is a big plus
He’s right
Austin Wayne I have a question. What is your opinion on Native American model Will Strongheart ? Is he someone that would fall on the female gaze??
Icl I've learnt a lot from this video, it's time to readjust
Get it brother 💪
Well you're 💯 spot on, if we discuss teenage and early 20s girls.
I doubt that women 25 - 💀 crush on the pretty boy feminized features in a man.
Tell that to Brad Pitt 😂
@@AustinWayneOfficial Which one, the one from the Legends of the Fall, or the one from Fight Club, or rather the one from World War Z? Neither is a feminized pretty boy type. 😉
Both masculine and feminine features are attractive in either sex. Full lips are attractive on both sexes. Prominent jaws can be attractive on both sexes. It’s about the balance.
Listen to him, gentlemen. As a 26yo woman, I can confirm everything he mentioned, ESPECIALLY regarding hair (head and facial). I cannot tell you how many men I’ve come across in person or online where I cringe over or lament their haircuts and/or having beards. I’ve even heard the notion that “beards are all the rage right now.” I’m like, “With who???” Sure, there’s a subset of women who prefer that along with other hypermasculine traits, but certainly not the majority of us.
On point, as usual, Austin. 👍 I find your videos quite enlightening. It’s interesting to see “the other side,” as it were. And likewise some of your tips are useful across both sexes, which is appreciated.
Thank you 😊
Ma’am with all due respect you need to grow out of your immature high-school girlie phase and actually do your research you can’t be acting like this as a 26 year old.
1. You dont represent a majority of women you’re just one single female so you can’t possibly speak for the majority.
2: there are countless of studies and testimonies from women across many different cultures confirming that they do indeed like facially masculinized men with short hair and light stubble beards so no not every man needs the pretty boy look to attract women if that was the case guys like Jeremy Meeks and Saafir wouldn’t get it.
Girls and Lesbians standards are very different from WOMEN’s standards they want their men to actually look like MEN/CHADS not boys nor a replica of themselves WOMEN don’t care too much about your haircut/beard as long as it’s balanced and your facial structure is good.
Another banger!
Appreciate you bro
Disagree with hairstyles. It's all depends on your face and the woman age. The rule thumb is: try different haircuts, go out of your comfort zone. Especially while young
yup
i just envy because i have alot of feminine features not until i saw this, i think this video makes me feel valie
One question,is the female gaze more relevant to younger girls?cause ive seen 20 plus women also prefer the jason mamoa type.and talking about the beard how about a beard like hamza?
I think most guys stop trying to be attractive as they get old, but they’re wired to always be attracted to it. And no disrespect to Hamza but the dude is the definition of the male gaze.
@@AustinWayneOfficial ok thanks for the reply,I actually live in an Eastern country and apart from younger women most women prefer bearded guys so that's why I was asking.
@@AustinWayneOfficial girl I dated was 24, head over heels in love with Jason mamoa. It’s not so cut and dry. I’m guessing a lot to do with ethnicity too
@@MattPryze yes I've seen more the hypermasculune archetype is still getting good results in eastern countries.ive seen the prettyboy type in my country is more popular among young girls especially who are upper middle class and well off financially while chad is universal.
@@basheerwayne69 What country?
I agree with u, but just one thing if u research more and u go deeper, u can understand that woman like stubbles but only because the people that we see on TV with low stubbles or clean shaved have very good jawlines, instead if u have an average jaw u should have a long stubble or some sort of beard to cover up the flaws of the jaw and adjust it to a more angular version of it. Can someone confirmed this too?
Excellent points. The huge muscles are the equivalent of the 'bimbo' girls with huge boobs and buttocks that some guys obsess about, but in reality not everyone likes that. I don't even care about defining a 'six pack', just being lean is 90% there.
Yes sir
I got the pretty boy face even with a beard! I have dark, almond shaped eyes, long lashes, thick eyebrows, hollowed cheeks, square jaw and I shave my head and still have a pretty boy look to me! I think its mostly my eyes...they look like Prince's eyes from Purple Rain
No wonder my mom doesnt like my style 😂
Lol
Great advice if you're trying to pickup a girl in high school....
im in high school rn so
I think the title is wrong
It depends with the physique, if I were as skinny as brad pit in fight club I would look absolutely terrible
Try to the male gaze and I will promise you it won’t affect the amount of women you’re able to pull.
I have all of this down besides hairstyle. I have 3c type hair which gets way too frizzy. Do you think I should perm my hair? And should I make it straight or wavy?
I didn't know that Link had a RUclips channel ! 😧
What link?
@@AustinWayneOfficialI think they mean link character from Nintendo
On point 😶🌫️🥂
It varies greatly based on the age of the woman n the country she grew up in tbh
Good tips, nick carter
Thx bro
No! He has it wrong for me.
Austin do you train traps and neck? I naturally have a big neck and traps, I'm scarred it won't match with my face (some feminine traits: eyes for example)
I do but I’m lanky so I need to
BTCH AM bald 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, and the other thing is, it's women from 15-24 who preferí the pretty boy look, but from 25+ they tend to like the mature Manly style....welll You are the model not me....
I hope that you would make 1+ hour videos/solo podcast in future ❤
Bro go watch my livestreams lmao
i would say Taylor Lautner is also Femalegazemaxxed.
Yeah she made a mistake on the TikTok
Until and unless someone is doing steroids, attaining a cbum physique is impossible
thanks bro I almost got as big as CBum I'm glad I stopped
Timothee who??😂😂
Lol
W video. Love from 🇬🇷
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Hello austin, nice vid
I am 14 years old and im very concerned about growth stunts while on a cut, since I am about 5'11 still, can I do something to not stunt my growth on a cut?
What's up bro ! First of all congratulations on starting your looksmaxxing journey so early on, in a couple of years you'll be effectively built different if you keep at it. For your age you are pretty tall already but if you want to maximize that and you should know a few things.
First of all you say you want to cut but in a way that will not stunt your growth, by your question I'm inclined to think you are on the heavier side. What some don't know is that being overweight or at a very low bf can some times even hinder your growth so my recommandation as a former fat kid myself is to cut in a healthy manner until you are in a healthy bodyfat range for your age, 15%-18%.
You can do this by being in a small caloric deficit 250-300 calories and working out for strenght to make sure you are still making gains, I suggest you follow a high fat and high protein diet with a smaller amount of carbs like sweet potatoes, rice or bread. Don't worry if you slip up from time to time, just make sure to get back on track.
After you are done cutting you should prioritize getting lean muscle in all the right places while also doing the other looksmaxxing things like mewing, thumb pulling and bonesmashing.
In your teenage to early 20s the most important things you should strive for, physically, are a handsome face and frame, which is height and shoulder and back size. A good exercise that I recommend for it is the reeves shrug, check out golden era bookworm for more info. You can always gain more muscle but while you are very young frame and face will be your building blocks.
Wow, thank you so much for the tips brother, I am truly amazed and happy someone took their time to answer my question, I will definitely implement your tips. The only thing i am still in doubt about is that I am actually pretty light, around 145lbs and even though I have some muscle, I am not vascular or lean, do you think there is something else I can do?
Thank you so much @Decaeneus
Bro if you're already 5'11 at 14 you're gonna be a giant at least 6'4 - 6'5
Just don’t get too lean or go too aggressive on the cut.
@@GrowthHub800 no problem bro, just happy to share what I would've liked to know at your age.
If you are like just flat all around, like not really much fat neither muscle you can start a bulk wich will probably help you grow provided you eat good food and do all the other necessary things. You can start with a small one like 300 calories and see how it goes from there, if you are still hungry and not seeing much progress in the gym for a while then increase to 500.
In your first year or so you could gain 20-25 pounds of muscle with the right program and at your age your metabolism is pretty high and if you are also playing a sport regularly on the side it's possible to gain only muscle. Check out more about g flux on youtube, is pretty much what allows athletes to eat a lot and stay lean.
But if you want more simple and reliable routines that don't need you to spend 5-6x days in the gym then Austin has a couple of good ones.
You can also check out the chaos and pain blogspot for workout info, the author is pretty unhinged but his workout philisophy is one of the most effective imo. He also talked about how most naturals have massive potential but the majority of advice in the fitness industry will keep you small and weak due to too much focus on the little things (exercise selection, obsession with diet and underrating the human potential) and not enough on the actual good things (training hard, training in a way you enjoy and keeping, getting stronger and eating more protein)
many moons ago, this was known as metro-sexual
Still is
Metroooo
If you have the frame for it Buff but not bodybuilder
I dont like shaving my beard
Pretty Boy or Chad ?
Same thing brah
@@AustinWayneOfficial i wouldnt say its same thing
Pretty boy😎
Is having tattoo plus points for female gaze aesthetic?
Yes
All facts. I have a question do you think this variets depending on the female age? Young women might prefer less intimidating men. It could be?
Or overall to make sure most women find you attractive is you being pretty and aesthetic regardless women age.
I think it’s always the same, sometimes girls get older and want more of a provider to take care of them. But the sexual desire doesn’t change
Older girls want more masculine men and not tiktokboys overall, but a pretty face will always be in vogue.
As somone who has an older sister who is 25 and has talken to her friends this is not true they also prefer pretty boys
I don't know why his nose looks fake 🤥
THIS WORK FOR 22YR FEMALE BELOW
Lol 👍
Real(no girl will find me attractive)
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This is literally a cut and past of Austin durhnam video of this subject. Sad.
Also I’m muscular and the girls I’m with simp over my big arms.
Creed aventus also is cap. I’ve had hundreds of compliments from women on that scent.
I think it’s completely personal taste.
Girls 23 and lower might go for pretty boys but as you get older it’s definitely not the case.
Never watched his video, wouldn’t know
Then why did God gave males beards?
I don't see any male lions 🦁 shaving their beard,
in fact,
male lions look super cool.
God also gave us pubes 😂
Chads always win
Same thing brah
I thiking makes fun of the idiotic thighs that this guy is saying, but the worst part is that he is right 🤦
Lol
where is ur hoodie from
Fog essentials
Build a surfer’s body!
I have a question too
Sup G
@@AustinWayneOfficial hair style for triangle face
yeah but you are forgetting sex appeal
W
Wait ur blackpilled??
No
@@AustinWayneOfficial but u know about it?
the
Why you wanna date girls over 25 anyways? 😂
Hey Austin, nice video. For me, it´s hard to accept these things simply because of the Eastern culture that I am coming from. but it seems Hollywood is changing the female gaze from a masculine man to a feminine soft man. that's a big Reboot for my brain. I would love to know what looksmaxing advice you have for guys in their mid twenties.
Mid 20s you’ll slowly start to want to go more mature with your style
what's stopping you from getting tattoos
Debating it
@@AustinWayneOfficial dont.
There will come a point where younger women aren’t gonna find tattoos attractive because it reminds them of their tatted up millennials parents with a bunch of expensive trendy tattoos they got off google images. I’d say easily removable piercings + jewelry are they way to go if you wanna “decorate” yourself.
@@Master_of_Critique that's cope. look at the studies
@@Master_of_Critique when it comes to that point I doubt you'd be wanting to date a 20 year old in your 80's
messed up the title?
No, I think he’s phrasing it as in. “The female gaze is why you’re ugly” because you are looking at yourself through the male gaze, and thus the female gaze sees you as ugly.
@@caseygreyson4178 ah
@@caseygreyson4178 yeah but the primary aspect in the female gaze is height lol and thats sadly genetic
Its the abrahimic religion that destroyed men . The thing you asked i have answers for that as I've researched into it .
Look into Hinduism a religion way older than abrahimic ones they weren't this way of masculinity before invasion of abrahimic people .
Also being pretty doesn't mean you are trying to look like women . Pretty men have different facial structure more angular face while feminine women have round face .
The problem is people relating everything men do with Femininity on the first place .
Women will always adopt things that men do and than men go away from it as males naturally tend to move away from things being related to females .
Having long hair was also very normal till 1800s in the west .
I disagree with your women are narcissist argument tho , they wanna look at THEMSELVES in you they just admire a good looking male that's it and they have preferences and it might vary with their age from pretty men to handsome men .
Just like that Androgyny is a male beauty thing , not of women . Women have to go through surgeries or get a perfect makeup to achieve that Androgynous look , while most men with stable testosterone can achieve that look in young age .
Weird how these people will call you feminine when it's literally proven pretty boys have more testosterone and sharp jawline and stuffs lol .
Gay
Don’t talk about yourself like that
What is the point of telling us you're gay ?
Bro if your gay we have no problem but make sure not to tell that to your mom
That why u get no females 😂
It's not like dudes can even get that big even if they wanted to