dating apps, broke men, ozempic, right person wrong time?? | chit chat grwm | arnell armon

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Комментарии • 247

  • @arnellarmon
    @arnellarmon  Месяц назад +155

    Hiii babesss

  • @JemsAndDiamonds
    @JemsAndDiamonds Месяц назад +234

    Dating a broke man truly is dangerous because THEY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. We gotta be careful out here.

  • @BEAUTIINBRAVERY
    @BEAUTIINBRAVERY Месяц назад +238

    I agree! Dating a man that is broke is dangerous🤣😂 THEY WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY for not being in their shoes.💯💯💯

  • @angelfgo
    @angelfgo 29 дней назад +79

    Dating the wrong partner can bankrupt you mentally, physically, emotionally and fiscally!

  • @raeganraquel
    @raeganraquel Месяц назад +313

    Video quality looks amazing!

    • @arnellarmon
      @arnellarmon  Месяц назад +32

      Thank you!!! I switched lenses!

    • @Briashammmm
      @Briashammmm Месяц назад +12

      @@arnellarmonwhat lens is this? 👀 it’s SO good!

    • @AmarachiMUA
      @AmarachiMUA 26 дней назад +1

      @@arnellarmon girrllll! Here I thought you were using a green screen!!!? please share the camera and lens deets!

  • @lilacpetals_
    @lilacpetals_ Месяц назад +96

    Asking women about having kids is so insensitive. My daughter is 10 months old and ppl ask when I’m going to have another one. First, you don’t know my journey with trying to conceive or with my labor and delivery. I could’ve had multiple miscarriages or almost died giving birth. Second, my uterus is simply none of your business. Unless I bring it up first, do NOT ask me. Can’t believe ppl think those are appropriate questions to ask 🙄

    • @mz_marmar89
      @mz_marmar89 23 дня назад +5

      It’s extremely insensitive, as a 34 yo woman having complications conceiving most people can’t imagine how many times a day I am hurt by questions from strangers about if I have kids, if I want kids, why I waited so late as well as questions to other women around you. Hearing a woman say that they would never want to have kids in their 30’s and just projecting their opinions onto why others live their lives in the way they are is a constant battle daily. Simply put people need to stop being so nosey. Life is not a one size fits all.

  • @nijasimone
    @nijasimone Месяц назад +150

    “Dating a man that’s broke…it’s dangerous!” lol omg nah fr!!

    • @Bkeith
      @Bkeith 22 дня назад

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @Naiki29
    @Naiki29 Месяц назад +42

    Dating men that’s broke, no car, kids, a mama’s boy, who doesn’t love Jesus is dangerous. I can go on and on. 😂😭

    • @chinaleranda
      @chinaleranda 20 дней назад

      Omg yes especially if they don’t know Jesus!! They will drag you straight to hell lol

    • @ambermai838
      @ambermai838 17 дней назад +2

      Chileee , yeeen never lied 😂

  • @mayashumpert2714
    @mayashumpert2714 Месяц назад +53

    20:21 honestly speaking i feel like it’s completely fair for a man or a woman with a kid to not want to date someone who has a child too! there’s so much involved with dating a person with a child and it can be overwhelming at times!! you are definitely not wrong

    • @SakenaRedmond
      @SakenaRedmond Месяц назад +1

      As someone with a kid I agree with this bc I’ve dated someone with a kid before and I realized it wasn’t for me and tho I wouldn’t close off the idea, I woukdnt wanna do it again

    • @idontwantacupcake241
      @idontwantacupcake241 19 дней назад

      Soo the person that they’re dating should have to deal with that but they shouldn’t? Doesn’t really make sense..

  • @almondiefrancis9451
    @almondiefrancis9451 26 дней назад +15

    I always found it interesting when people with children say they wouldn't date someone else with children and it's usually for the same reason someone like me without children, wouldn't date a person with children lol.

    • @edwardlovrr
      @edwardlovrr 24 дня назад +3

      I’m childless and I wouldn’t mind a partner with a child if it’s over a certain age 😂😂😂 it depends but I completely understand why someone childless would set the same standards 😊😊

  • @siweziluthuli
    @siweziluthuli Месяц назад +54

    Noah's Mama🥺♥️

  • @Sarah_slays92
    @Sarah_slays92 Месяц назад +35

    Loved this. I don't think we need a more in depth grwm. It holds our attention to watch the screen while you get ready but you know we just came to listen girl. No need to add extra work in filming. You gave us what we came for 😂

  • @n1kaylaap
    @n1kaylaap Месяц назад +47

    The quality of this video and your makeup is *chefs kiss* 😮‍💨😮‍💨😍

  • @bethany08able
    @bethany08able Месяц назад +51

    DON’T marry a man with kids if you don’t have any! My husband has a 12 year old daughter and his BM pretended to be over him until the SECOND we got married. He never told me how obsessed she was bc he didn’t want to scare me away. It’s ruining the marriage… and nothing I did could’ve prevented this or prepared me.
    I’m one person having to consider the feelings of TWO people and the bm has made her baby feel as if she’s in trouble if she has a good day with me, so she just forces a bad one. Her mommy rewards her for causing problems over here. It’s an impossible situation fr….

    • @bethb8594
      @bethb8594 Месяц назад +16

      Omg this is completely horrendous and it’s unfair your husband didn’t give you the choice to decide whether or not this is something you want to take on. are you guys in marriage counseling. This is so unhealthy for you and the 12 yr old

    • @inspiremebyfaith
      @inspiremebyfaith 29 дней назад +4

      If you are a christian, I recommend that you go to God, because you made that covenant with him before God? Anybody coming against that has to answer to God

    • @almondiefrancis9451
      @almondiefrancis9451 26 дней назад +3

      This is why I stay far away from dating someone with children. I've done it once and it caused SO SO much stress in my life. I never want to feel that way again. He lied about the number of children he had. It went from 1 to 6.
      You couldn't pay me to date a man with a child 🙅‍♀️

  • @Colipopkola
    @Colipopkola Месяц назад +18

    20:21 that "I'm scared.... This is a tough one for Elmo!" Had me so weak but I also felt that in my soul 😂😂😭🙃💯 But yes more longer grwms please! I enjoy your ted talks and perspectives! 😊🩵

  • @determineddiva5402
    @determineddiva5402 Месяц назад +15

    You were speaking facts when it comes to broke men. Like you, I’ll never date another one because they do be angry and aggressive.

  • @shar__
    @shar__ Месяц назад +54

    I’d say ignore men with kids in general . Last man I was with cheated with his son’s mother and the boy was 15. So just no. Smh

    • @Missy_fatou
      @Missy_fatou Месяц назад +2

      😮 so sorry that happened to you.. that’s terrible

    • @shar__
      @shar__ Месяц назад +12

      @@Missy_fatou yeah it sucked. 3 years that amounted to nothing. but a life lesson ill never have to learn again.

    • @RoseGolden0
      @RoseGolden0 Месяц назад

      Yup I would never date a man with a kid for that exact reason. The baby moms will always be in the background lurking

    • @almondiefrancis9451
      @almondiefrancis9451 26 дней назад +3

      ​@shar__ Don't feel bad. It was 4 years wasted for me. Never again. The guy was hiding 5 other children and got mad at me for finding out.

  • @LayingInAMeadow
    @LayingInAMeadow Месяц назад +42

    I'm over hook up culture too

  • @jazzytheecreator
    @jazzytheecreator Месяц назад +9

    7:57 i think about this a lot. when im having a bad day at work im like wow some of yal are going home to raise kids after this? s/o to all the parents fr ❤

  • @melloxox1
    @melloxox1 Месяц назад +15

    Pouring into yourself is golden ⭐️

  • @JessBSecret
    @JessBSecret Месяц назад +8

    When you said you was going to do your make up at the beginning I’m like isn’t it already done… skin goals ❤❤❤❤

  • @cjw93
    @cjw93 Месяц назад +10

    The friends one. I don’t do large friend groups. Nope. Learned the hard way.

  • @varinaanderson7436
    @varinaanderson7436 Месяц назад +13

    Hey Arnell totally get your fear of dating men with kids. When I met my husband he already had our son from previous relationship and BM was pregnant for another guy so I would assume she had moved on. WRONG!!! Long story short she’s the BM from hell however I wouldn’t change a thing because he showed me early on his capabilities of being an amazing father and now an amazing husband. ❤

  • @chi2om
    @chi2om Месяц назад +8

    my favorite content. i can listen to you yap anything for hours. love the deep talks. i'm 25 and had my first kiss last year lol. i want a relationship but not the marriage and kids thing. it's hard out here when you don't like men too much lol

  • @Emilybear24
    @Emilybear24 Месяц назад +17

    The realness in this video! Keep these girl chats coming please 🥰🥰

  • @muffymariah2889
    @muffymariah2889 Месяц назад +10

    I’ve been on hinge for the past few months. From my experience it’s men and women that don’t put effort into their profits or ppl that aren’t honest about their expectations 😫

  • @SupernaturalLove100
    @SupernaturalLove100 21 день назад +1

    White is everyone’s go to nail color bc of Rihanna! I been saying this for years lol. I don’t remember women being obsessed w getting that color for a pedicure until Rihanna really became a style icon and everyone started paying attention to her nails. I really think she the blueprint when it comes to that.

  • @gabbyosifo7914
    @gabbyosifo7914 Месяц назад +31

    i love the video quality because it’s stunning as always, but maybe i would suggest a tighter frame? it just kinda seems like a lot of empty space ❤

    • @arnellarmon
      @arnellarmon  Месяц назад +21

      Thank you! I keep it this zoomed out so I’m able to zoom in videos for TikTok without being too close if that makes sense

    • @gabbyosifo7914
      @gabbyosifo7914 Месяц назад +20

      @@arnellarmon Oh that makes so much sense. Smart to repurpose content like that, i didn’t even consider that!

  • @bajanbreezy
    @bajanbreezy 28 дней назад +5

    I think the person saying the right person wrong time is you meet the right guy but because of your trauma you might treat them dirty. For example, I met a guy who was everything I asked God for but because I was still healing from trauma of my ex situationship I didn’t pursue it.. plus I didn’t want them to experience my baggage or trauma and be toxic to them because they didn’t deserve it.

  • @felishahill2017
    @felishahill2017 27 дней назад +4

    Love you Arnelll!! We need a video about men and realationships and dating 👏🏾😂

  • @Gee_J
    @Gee_J 25 дней назад +2

    Some people are only meant to be in your life for a season!

  • @toyac649
    @toyac649 Месяц назад +10

    Girllllllll, why are you and your dad like me and mine?! Like, sir! That lady had consistently hated you for at least 35 years since she left you! Stop bringing her up, I'm tired! 😩😩 I be wanting to yell "give it up Delishis!" Ifykyk 😅😂

  • @nataliac896
    @nataliac896 Месяц назад +2

    hii Arnell!!🩷 thank you for this long video 🥹 love hearing your advice

  • @TheSReaction
    @TheSReaction 28 дней назад +5

    Listen, I believe my ex got me pregnant just so he could always have me in his life. I think he could tell that if I wasn’t pregnant by him, I’d have completely been done with him. He left me when I was 8 months pregnant then came back when it was time for me to have our son like nothing happened smh. That whole thing traumatized me so bad, I didn’t want to even look at another man. I have moved on, been moved on, but I’m still too scared to try and meet anyone now that our son is 2. Safer to move at a snail’s pace as a mother honestly. My oldest is 13 and his father and I have a great relationship but he knows we’re just coparenting, there’s no rekindling anything and I even encouraged him to meet someone and be free.

  • @dlc09uva
    @dlc09uva 26 дней назад +2

    loved this video! will be tuning in for future videos. i swear, u get me on all the topics discussed thus far. 😊

  • @tyvon1558
    @tyvon1558 Месяц назад +2

    Her vibe is everything. Love it 💫

  • @wawafaces
    @wawafaces Месяц назад +6

    I love your chit chat sit down vids. ☺️ I love all your videos! You are so smart n have great knowledge! 🌎🤍

  • @Theoreokiller23
    @Theoreokiller23 Месяц назад +5

    Literally rescheduled my therapy appointment after months after hearing you talk about therapy. Thank you arnell.

  • @thatprettypinkish
    @thatprettypinkish Месяц назад +5

    Every other question “we gotta do a whole other video about that” lmao Arnell please spill the beans lol

  • @sierrawhite1293
    @sierrawhite1293 Месяц назад +4

    I loved this conversation and the outcome of the look 😍💚

  • @tristamartinez5037
    @tristamartinez5037 Месяц назад +2

    I've really enjoy this video and few topics you've cover were needed to know ladies aren't alone😊 thank you for such a related chat.

  • @raphaellouisjoseph2930
    @raphaellouisjoseph2930 Месяц назад +5

    Loving the visuals/quality in this video 😊
    Looks soft and inviting 🥰

  • @CARLYMCALLISTER
    @CARLYMCALLISTER Месяц назад +2

    camera quality is going crazzyyyyy 🔥
    love your content 🫶🏾

  • @kaylyn.mitchell
    @kaylyn.mitchell Месяц назад +2

    I love your chit chats so much!

  • @TeamBREEEZYjs
    @TeamBREEEZYjs 26 дней назад +1

    I really needed to watch this video today! Love u Arnell!!🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @lanialove26
    @lanialove26 Месяц назад +8

    THIS QUALITY🔥🔥

  • @vanessaatikaa
    @vanessaatikaa Месяц назад +1

    I love the vibes and set up of this video ❤

  • @missshachis
    @missshachis Месяц назад +2

    Ahhh this is just what I needed as I’m getting ready! 💕

  • @lovelifeforu
    @lovelifeforu 2 дня назад

    A tree that a dog just peed on is so hilarious but also accurate 😂😂😂

  • @alyssamendoza7708
    @alyssamendoza7708 26 дней назад +1

    you are such a positive light✨sending you love💓

  • @angelbarnes6794
    @angelbarnes6794 Месяц назад +1

    we definitely want a more in depth grwm with more topics 😊 thanks love youuuu

  • @charlseyhawkins7370
    @charlseyhawkins7370 Месяц назад +1

    Hello! Enjoyed the vlog. Conversation was well needed for some people.

  • @sneyleithamasengo1338
    @sneyleithamasengo1338 Месяц назад +2

    Been loving your outfits too- definitely a potential fashion influencerrr

  • @sharnicaxd5321
    @sharnicaxd5321 Месяц назад +2

    Definitely want more in depth videos girl I love you

  • @Naymichelle76
    @Naymichelle76 17 дней назад

    I hope you know what a blessing you are Arnell!!🥰🙏🏾

  • @cc_isgreat671
    @cc_isgreat671 Месяц назад +1

    Haven’t watched you in a while, but I’m glad I’m back and I’m glad you’re doing well 😊

  • @Rani-lm3jf
    @Rani-lm3jf Месяц назад +2

    Absolutely loveee your chit chat content🫶🏾

  • @natashamarkham1891
    @natashamarkham1891 29 дней назад +1

    Help us Sis!!! I’m 44!! This is growth and I love it!!! Keep glowing and growing 💕

  • @myworl15
    @myworl15 Месяц назад +4

    It’s the depth of field for me❤

  • @Lovelynene899
    @Lovelynene899 Месяц назад +1

    When she said I have thoughts I was weakkkkkkkkk. Love you Arnell

  • @451erica
    @451erica Месяц назад +5

    I don’t know what you did to your camera but this quality is fye 🔥

  • @silindilephahla83
    @silindilephahla83 27 дней назад +1

    I need more of these q and a grwm

  • @bluerose_darielle
    @bluerose_darielle Месяц назад +4

    Hey babes!! I can already tell I’m going to like this video. Please do more I love hearing your thoughts

  • @adebukolaajayi
    @adebukolaajayi Месяц назад +4

    Video quality is insaneee

  • @bbken3
    @bbken3 26 дней назад +1

    The quality is crazy!!

  • @annholl1603
    @annholl1603 27 дней назад +1

    Love you, Arnell❤

  • @doseofdadaaa
    @doseofdadaaa 5 дней назад

    We need more videos like these ❤ I used to loveeeeeee your rants in your vlogs. So happy and proud of where you are today 🎉🥺

  • @sugarplumtiramisu
    @sugarplumtiramisu Месяц назад +3

    You’re so sweet arnell💗

  • @monicasteenkamp3288
    @monicasteenkamp3288 Месяц назад +5

    Me throughout this whole video: "Mhhmhhmmm"😌✨
    Love this kind of videos, girl❤

  • @moniqueheggs3620
    @moniqueheggs3620 29 дней назад +2

    Whew, just the topics got me in shambles 😭 I know this video is gonna be GOODT

  • @chantrellsmith1986
    @chantrellsmith1986 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for this video

  • @_kaneyhoney
    @_kaneyhoney Месяц назад +2

    Thanks for the video girl 💖 i love these sit-down and talk vids.
    One note on the whole Ozempic thing: I love how you are trying to do the work and eat better/workout to lose weight and I encourage you to continue and would advise against trying Ozempic for weight loss, if you can afford firstly bc it's crazy expensive, but also because it is causing shortages and diabetics that need it are struggling to obtain their medication due to celebrities making a trend of it.
    Love you!🥰

  • @delissacharity1838
    @delissacharity1838 24 дня назад +1

    This is so good! Thank you for always being so relatable!! This lens looks so amazing!! Are you using canon 24-70?

  • @nickimalae
    @nickimalae Месяц назад +1

    definitely here for another chit chat soon 💕

  • @None-gm4yk
    @None-gm4yk 26 дней назад +1

    I was thinking about your videos yesterday, like where is she and Nana and then here comes your video this morning. 😊 good to see you both

  • @shellisepickett4372
    @shellisepickett4372 24 дня назад +1

    Your skin looks amaaaaaaazing ❤

  • @rjsmiley89
    @rjsmiley89 Месяц назад +2

    Oooh juice and I just got done cooking dinner can’t wait

  • @brittxnyakawaii12
    @brittxnyakawaii12 Месяц назад +4

    Hiii Arnelll 💖

  • @maaranda692j9
    @maaranda692j9 Месяц назад +4

    Glowing ✨

  • @brooketaneal3060
    @brooketaneal3060 Месяц назад +2

    the quality 😍😍😍😍

  • @kyl0m0m
    @kyl0m0m Месяц назад +3

    I agree w you on the it’s the men who maintain “feelings” after having children w their partner. I’d expend it further and say insecure men. My parents separated in 2008 and my mom still lives in my dad’s head rent free. It’s disturbing

  • @QueenMarc
    @QueenMarc Месяц назад +3

    You been that gurll sincee forevaa, i love u ❤❤

  • @missmia222
    @missmia222 28 дней назад +1

    I really enjoyed this video! As someone who is not over their child's father, kudos to you for choosing yourself and moving on 🥳 it's extremely hard, but one day, I too will be over that hill lol. Noah is adorable btw 🥰

  • @Truth_111
    @Truth_111 28 дней назад +2

    I love a good chit chat grwm

  • @alexandriayoung
    @alexandriayoung 28 дней назад +4

    The Sassy Man Apocalypse!!!!!!!!!

  • @itsahhmora
    @itsahhmora 23 дня назад +2

    What brush did you use to blend out your concealer?

  • @chloejohnson3184
    @chloejohnson3184 26 дней назад +1

    I know the background is blurred but i love the color on your walls, it is perfect!

  • @Allofalexis_
    @Allofalexis_ Месяц назад +3

    These were good topics! Im so scary with taking meds too 😫 The Ozempic is really working for ppl but I just cant lol😂

  • @kaylam1252
    @kaylam1252 29 дней назад +1

    Girl i love me a lil staycation and yes i agree young 20s is perfect for being single its so different

  • @bryanna_95
    @bryanna_95 27 дней назад +1

    This video was 10/10❤

  • @marquishajackson9062
    @marquishajackson9062 Месяц назад +3

    LA is so expensive! I’ve been here 3 years and I’m a nurse, so same taste, same mindset but having my baby taught me responsibility and it’s time to go get our monies worth lol

  • @tristamartinez5037
    @tristamartinez5037 Месяц назад +3

    Why does your background look so angelic like heavenly 😍 ✨️ 💖

  • @whatnaaesay
    @whatnaaesay Месяц назад +2

    This was a very cute chit chat do anotha!!🔥

  • @thebeigecollection
    @thebeigecollection Месяц назад +7

    Okay consistency 🥺❤️

  • @laqueencreole2913
    @laqueencreole2913 Месяц назад +10

    Yassssss a long chit chat!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @jalynhyder1996
    @jalynhyder1996 Месяц назад +3

    Can we get the details on these dual sided makeup brushes? I’m ready to open my WALLET 🤭

  • @cindycarolyn
    @cindycarolyn Месяц назад +5

    Video quality😍😍😍

  • @CaramelCrown04
    @CaramelCrown04 24 дня назад +1

    Just wanted to say I had a guy acquaintance that revealed to me that he and his buddies would lie on their dating profiles about their credentials because it got them better quality girls on the apps. On his profile he was a scientist and owned 3 houses. The last time we spoke he was living in his car. Also revealed to me that every man is going to cheat but he would be respectful about it. Just be mindful of these dudes ladies ❤

  • @akuatachie7773
    @akuatachie7773 22 дня назад +1

    loved this smm, where did you get your mirror?!

  • @jazzytheecreator
    @jazzytheecreator Месяц назад +3

    6:41 at this point i wanna see the damn video too lol! i loves yals friendship ❤