"Why Women in Their 30s Compete with Women in Their 20s to Be 'Outside' | 8 At At The Table Clip"
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- Join Rico Hundo, Amanda, Erin The Renegade, and special guests Maja Hype and private detective Ron for an intriguing discussion on why women in their 30s sometimes feel the pressure to compete with younger women to be 'outside'. In this engaging clip from 8 At The Table, the panel explores societal influences, personal experiences, and cultural factors that contribute to this phenomenon.
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So many podcasts all over the Internet talking about relationships, but nothing is bringing black men and black females together, it's even more divided.People just making money talking about it,but with no results at the end of the day.
It’s mind blowing. Just talk with no solutions smh
THAT'S WHAT IM SAYING!!! It pisses me off how so many seemingly intelligent men and women get together to debate about things that common sense will tell you shouldn''t be debated!!
What's the point in telling ppl the truth. They already turned they backs. If they want it they look for it.
Black people are still having sex with each other and making Black people. We aren't going extinct. But relationships in this country fail more than they work, for any race. We have a 40% divorce rate across the board.
That’s only bc the women not listening
Has anyone else noticed that every time a man gets on this show, who is smart and educated, including streets smart, his co-host can't debate with him without getting rude.
Yup second time
Maybe because this one's a woman beater...
It’s just the New York attitude
They are Narcissist.
BRO that's women it's called deflection Once men understand that we will know how to look and walk away AM women always want to be right even when wrong.
I stopped wearing weave and makeup and since I think it looks a mess even if done correctly. Natural beauty just hits different.
Secret, men LOVE natural. All of the insanity is an immediate turn off. Sisters would be surprised how much we appreciate natural beauty
Facts
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And We love natural looking woman. You are beautiful and cudos to you for crossing over. Them wigs and over the top makeup ain’t it!!
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This is proof that women listen to argue and not learn.
Facts
Facts!!! They were getting on my nerves 🙄🙄
Since the dawn of time......
FACTS!
"Older men see themselves IN young men, older women see themselves AS younger women..."
Barz!!
Damn. Nice
@@DomCharlo Don De Marco!!!!😮
Truth be told
How don't people get that? At 53... the only reason I wish I could be young again is to get back all of that money that I've blown!
They cant have a conversation without getting emotional.
Real Talk
Why people hell bent on pushing the 20's is another set of teenage years? Also, the assumption that women mature faster then men thier age has always been a lie. They bodies mature faster that's is.
That’s what ppl mean by maturing they physically mature faster. Nobody believes women are more mature just cuz they older or younger.
Women mature faster meaning they reach their peak faster. Men surpass their maturity and our peak has a far greater degree of longevity
Exactly.
Right on bruh, they DO NOT mature mentally faster....
Yep
Black women just need to be RIGHT and no matter the argument or situation. It's amazing how much Black women change the point of the argument when they don't want to give a straight answer to any questions.
Their haughtiness and arrogance will keep them in a constant state of misery
I dont understand how there are men out there that ONLY date black women. Limiting themselves just once race is WILD! 😂
Because music n movies made them think they right
BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT A MONOLITH, we are all different. BLACK MEN ARE NOT A MONOLITH they are all different. It’s argumentative black women and it’s non argumentative black women.
@@Cstyle6401 except that modern bw are quick to play the "bw monolith" card when it benefits them. but don't like it when it's used against them. that's the difference.
Bruh these women are annoying. They know good and well what you're talking about
“…women have a lot of preconceived notions of what we think is important…”
they dont care
@@r.walker7986because they don’t want to change and they don’t want to change because they believe black men aren’t worth it.
She clearly states "I agree" when Ron makes the literal same exact point that she argued Black Magic over. First Smart now Black. Maybe she just really don't like "Smart Black" men
Nailed it!!! I said the same, but not as well. Nailed it. It borders on insanity to me. We both said 1+1=2, but she wants an argument. Check out how deep this is. Facts, reality, truth, are all weighed by how she feels about who is presenting it and how they present it.
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Women definitely don’t like when a man knows his worth because they can’t manipulate or gas light 😂
First off! Why does she have on shades.
She drunk as hell
She's 25...🙄🤦🏿♂️
Those lights be bright AF to some people & that's what she want to wear
In case she embarrass herself she won't be easily identified
Because she’s a bird
The Giving a coward a gun is the coldest line ever to describe the intersexual dynamics in modern day dating 🥶
This and nothing but, this...
It was epic
yeah they ALL LOOK THE SAME. Wigs, weave, LONG eye lashes, colored hair, and now many have a terrible looking BBL.
Women mature faster than men... Physically not mentally 👍
Right
Ima need an explanation because....what are you trying to say about the way all women think?
@@kiim0 or you could Google "define mature" 👍
@@Mr._Moderate You can't explain what you meant?!?
The google definition of mature is not an explanation of what *you* meant by they/women only mature faster physically.
@@kiim0eat crow. Blk women are destined to stay lonely.
JayZ never said 40 is the new 30. He said 30’s the new 20.
Thank you!
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40 is the new thirty for men because our wisdom exceeds our thirty year old self
30 is the new 20 because the accomplishments and lifestyle of a man in his 30s today would be the life a man lived in his 20s back in the day; i.e car, buy house kids all that.
Shorty and the green is not even answering Rico's question. She keeps dancing around it. Just answer the question a lot a little bit
Right smh
Women mature faster than men because of two reasons: They have grown men looking and trying to talk to them soon as they hit puberty. And (2) they are on a shorter biological clock to have kids.
Women might sexually mature faster but not mentally
@@Cheflyfe_knittyfacts !....ppl need to stop pushing that narrative that they mature faster than men
Women and men both mature based on their interactions with the opposite sex and also what is expected of them from the opposite sex. If a woman will accept a player at 18 years old when she is also 18 years old... that 18 year old has no need to mature. While the female will mature from being hurt by that player. If she chose a different kind of guy at that age, she would see most men mature faster out of necessity to be what the female needs them to be, which is a provider/protector/future planner.
@@planetdee3587 that sounds stupid. Most women go through trauma after dealing with the wrong men. It literally ruins her life more than help her mature. Most will learn the hard way after she becomes a baby mother. Not after her first heartbreak. Men mature bc nature forces us to or else we will be bums on the streets
@Cheflyfe_knitty most people only learn what they want by what they do not want. You may not understand it but even men learn what they want from all the relationships that did not work for them and they knew what they would and would not tolerate. It's called experience.
40 is the new 30 only applies to men not women’ men’s value increases with age
Black men cant even compete with non black men... Why are dudes having this conversation... Black men ya dont even run nothing in america.. Soooooo
Women have been saying 40 is the new 20 much longer.
40 is the new 20 back in 2009
40 is the new 30 back in 2001
Yall are making blanket statements
This is why our community, the black community is suffering the way it is.
@@03cornbread its suffering because sistas are not submissive enough, once they begin to submit and relent, then the gender war can stop. but until then, as long as they remain headstrong and stubborn we as men will only get worst.
@03cornbread what is why? What he said is true and it doesn't just apply to the black community
35 is Middle Aged. A 35-45 year old man can get a 20-27 year old woman all day and twice on Sunday outside the US. Use your passports men to find the best woman to marry.
A grown ass real man should not want a little girl.
A grown man should not want to be with a girl that young unless they want someone to control.
@@blackberryblackberry9062 Using your analogy, a women that age should not want a more established man with money which ranges around the age of 35+.....
@@blackberryblackberry9062control you say? Or not talking to emotionally damaged women by time they’re 30+😂
@blackberryblackberry9062 i agree thats not even a relatable gap why in my 30s would i want to date someone in their early 20s
I think since women are told they mature sooner is the reason alot of them think they are always right, not open to receiving information or feedback in addition they stop growing they get set in their ways of this is who i am and im not changing
U gta put this in all caps lol😂
Thank you 👏🏽👏🏽 gotta start raising these kids on even emotional and intellectual playing fields
America coddle and enables the above reproach mindset
Women don’t mature faster than men. Girls mature faster than boys. But the boys catch up and surpass around 16/17. Same goes for IQ scores.
Im 41 and would never compete with these 20 year olds that are lost with modern day feminism views that are weird. These new generation females look older than my old ass too. Keeping it real.
What this man said at 1:10 is facts and i speak on this all the time. Grown was different back in the days. My parents were married with my older brother at 22 years old and had me at 25 years old. Doing all grown stuff and still when i was say 5 years old, they made time to get dressed up for a night on the town while i visited cousins and grandparents... then the cousins would come visit me while their parents did the same. That was grown living. Now people dont want to stop partying and being selfish until 35 when they want somebody to clean up life for them rather than build it together.
Such a fallacy we've all been sold to say "women develop quicker than Men"
Yeah that ain’t true
It's true. They develop physically faster but that part always gets left off.
@@marlymarlle rhe female development does start off earlier than men typically, but dies out quicker than Men also. Meankng that men hold their intellectual at a longer period of their lifetime than Women. In other words you guys get socially smarter first but we last longer
@@marlymarlle Women develop EARLIER. Men develop MORE slowly, but they develop MORE overall
Their bodies , but their minds is obviiusly maturing slower than men
I get sick and tired of women trying to tell me what they want. Maybe if they start listening, they may have a different outcome when it comes to finding a husband.
She’s married on the panel
Lady in the Blonde, told dude that he didn’t even know what made the woman beautiful when he was looking at her. But once he broke down the different CatFishing techniques, She jumped to Men Need to Pick better?🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
If y’all cat fishing to the point that men can’t tell and the only way to tell is to get you home in your natural habitat, then ghost the Imposter, That Is Picking better.
Men pick women who have a mask on and are surprised when the Mask comes off.
Women pick men who are Fly, Dusty, Baller with questionable Character and then complain because he put that meat on her, got her pregnant and stayed his same Dusty self.
When you ask women a general question. Somehow the answer becomes a personal answer/story. Which gives the impression that they are going to say whatever makes them right/look good.
Major Hype in the building. I didn't even know he was so versatile to be talking about these subjects.
For him to make comedy that an entire region finds funny, multi-generations, multicultural, he is definitely on it with the intelligence. Not coming at you, just impressed you know his stuff
Seriously..
Answering the title..
Why do 50 yr old men want to be out side looking for 18-20 yr olds?
A 18-25 year old is less damaged, more feminine, more fertile and less 🍆 by 30 yall done suck half of United States by now
If women take care of their skin and hair we wouldn’t need the additives
These older dudes need to stop making so many kids and take care of what they have already.
What genuinely pisses me off is the fact that you can speak on the obvious something that is genuinely seen every day something that is heard every day and they will act yes I said act or play dumb like they've never heard it
The tired cliche of "women maturing faster than men" is based off of nature, not maturity. Basically, women physically develop faster than men in their teens.
By the time they're both 18-22, the physical maturity of each is equal. People sadly take this point to try and apply it to other aspects of like like social situations and they're off based on that. WE've created an environment that is filled with so many comforts and conveniences that the things that women of the silent generation, boomers and early gen x'ers did is not in scope of many today.
i wish there was more unity and understanding between black men and women.
Thank you for watching and supporting 8 At The Table.
There’s a reason why the store is called forever21 and not forever41. Older women want to act and feel young and the ones that are single at 40 plus are competing against the younger women. Women of all ages shop at forever21
i was 16 when i was dating women 32 and 35 years old.
i couldnt tell any difference between and the girls i went to highschool with.
Outside of the car, house and kids. When i was 16 i felt more mature than alot 30 year old women, i had my own car at 16 but relationships wise and emotionally i saw no difference when i was 16 between girls who were highschool freshmen than the women who were 35. emotionally and mentally and in most cases intellectually they were equal.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 it seems like to me that whatever age they start having sex then they become mentally stunted. The more mature women didn’t have sex while in high school
If you were “dating” 35 yo grown women at 16, clearly those women have mental issues 😂😂😂 to get bussed down by a kid. Women in their right mind don’t function like that
Don’t know why pick better is a problem for anybody men or women. Top level discernment is a reality of life & being an adult. Choices factor most in determining results & outcomes
At the beginning, Maja said a statement. The two young ladies said the exact statement, but because they were in thier feelings, they wanted to argue. 1+1=2. No, you assume, but it does equal 2, but that's what you want😂
Ladies, listen to what the men are saying. I was past my thirties when you ladies were born. Women always have and always will do things to enhance their appearance. It goes back hundreds of years. Who knows why we don't feel like we are enough just as we are.
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8:23 Erin says men are the ultimate consumer of female beauty and then really told him he doesn’t know what makes the woman beautiful after he told her men ain’t checking for fake lashes etc..??
Anybody notices that he had to ask, rephrase and simplify his question on makeup, and she avoided an answer but after he broke it down, she resorted back to the first time he asked her about the %
I would not judge a woman for wearing make-up until one gets to know her. Character for me is paramount, whether you are male or female. Some natural-looking women lack Godly, Good characteristics and vice versa.
The point was clearly made. Women REACT out of emotion instead of RESPONDING with logic and often looks foolish while tryna debate often making the same point there tryna combat
My guy is more than just Caribbean accents , you know the game of life
she said ain’t no way she will be at an event with no make up but then shorty said they are still beautiful with out makeup..contradictory
An older woman will never compete with a young 20+ woman in her prime. Tia Mowry is prime example of this.
Hype is saying that women in there 30s are acting like 20s and I feel that is unfair to say or maybe he’s saying it the wrong way. WHAT IS HAPPENING is that women are LIVING now. We are not tying ourselves down, we are still getting our degrees, we are hustling starting businesses and putting relationships on the back burner because we are no longer interested in the foolishness y’all bring to the table. YOU’RE MAD because we ain’t worried about men no more. We doing US. He talking about maturity but he was dismissing the WOMAN and disrespecting just because she’s 25 and she’s young? Y’all should have called me on the panel. I’m a Sagittarius by the way 😂
Yall gotta stop putting these bird brain chix on the show. Logic goes out the window and they try to use feelings as common points..
Getting married and having children is no indication of maturity. Women were getting married at 14 and 16, three kids by 20. They were trapped and subjugated, not mature.
@nicholasgreen339 It would be the same today with little girls getting married and having kids at 14 if women (feminists) hadn't faught against the status quo... As a matter of fact, in some states, men have tried hard to keep child marriage legal so it's not about the times, it's about predatory behavior.
30 is the new 20 and 40 is the new 30 is wrong and applied for both men and women. Act your age because there are highlights to each age. People act younger because they did not reach the level they should be at in their life or are scared to grow up because they dont want to accept a grown up life.
He got his hat cocked to the side with 2 chains on at 40.. why is he speaking on maturity?😂
He looks way older than 40. He looks 50.
He looks early 40s. Knock it off
"Like given a coward a Gun"...... Wow. SO True!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂…THESES WOMEN THINK THEY KNOW MEN😂…YOU KEEP TRYING TO THINK FOR MEN😂….OR KNOW WHAT A MAN LIKES😂…HOW MANY OF THE WOMEN HAS A MAN IN THEIR LIVES, IM TALKING ABOUT BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND..DON’T SAY I CHOOSE TO BE SINGLE…😂,..THEN WHY ARE YOU TALKING OR CARE😂
These women think Money = Maturity. Thats why they disrespect and disregard anyone that doesnt agree with them.
I have always seen the "maturity" that girls get to faster is mostly physical that does not translate into emotional maturity, mental maturity, financial maturity and social maturity...neither sex is more or less by gender alone.
Jay Z was talking about Men. 30 is the new 20 year old men.
our women refuse to learn from the men they claim they love and want. The need to be right is crippling when communicating. These women dont have the results to prove anything their "sisterhood" is talking about.
the way these boys spoke to these women was ill mannered, sharp and rude.
If that's what you saw and heard, i saw MEN telling women the TRUTH ,and was unapolagetic about it 😮, why do you have to be condesending about calling grown men "boys", its very immature and rude of you to do so
Females are 5 years older than a male ❤most rational women
Dang...i thought it was one of his carribean skits. This guy his hilarious. Good dialogue in this session
He actually says “30s the new 20s” song is called 30 something
That's crazy because I was confused as shit like that's not even what hov said
It did not come from Jay Z lol it came from Cosmopolitan magazine trying to promote to older women. I remember this like yesterday. Women started saying this so not to be looked at as old when they reach 40 and 45 please do your research. If Jay Z said it in one of his rap songs where do you think he got it from and why would any man say that it makes no sense. Men know 40 is 40 women are the only ones who think this way. I had to stop watching after this was said.
That narrative of thirty is the new forty was in media TV shows and movies. As for back as 1990.
The 🐦's hate to be challenged by a man who knows what they're talking about
Social media is the problem because we get ppl speaking on topics they never researched or just wrong and pollute the minds of others
Major Hype , no disrespect, may you allow someone to finish there thoughts or sentences.... If you review the video, you did cut the people on the panel off a few times.... Blessings king...
Yeah he’s actually pretty rude, overbearing, kinda ghetto… the women he attracts will be ghetto just the same.
Can we get some mature experienced women on the panel, that aren't shallow
I hate listening to folks cut each other off mid response.
This conversation is so stupid let talk about important topic.
As a woman...I have a whole headache listening to these women.
She just dont want to loose the argument, its great to watch
she is a lame for wearing sunglasses inside a building!!!
I’m tire on seeing old women even 50 plus in leggings
It’s amazing how most women listen to argue because they think they knows everything
Erin irritates me
1:26 SHUT HER DOWN !!! Loved it.
Put Maja name in the title! #WEHUSSLE #KaliefBrowder
Short hair lady pretty but she like the homie
Salute 🎉 gs this was on the notifications + realest topic let's get it I got I get back to the
Alot of unmarried people be worried about all the wrong things. This is why we don't find our people. Of course we need to all have what we are attracted to but alot of what we are attracted to is frivolous.
I can't say they mature faster because even at 60 they seem to act like school girls to me with the cackling and giggling..
if it wasn't for rico, this show wouldn't hold any weight, with honest guest like Maja and smart. lets keep it all the way real..............
It’s a lot of reasons a girl can mature faster than a guy. One being have to take care of the household at a young age while the mother is out running around.. second one could be people touching her at a young age. Third one could be the environment that she is in. And she’s seeing her friends and family members mess with older man and is subject to peer pressure in that environment. The makeup part. Hey they been doing that for hundreds of years. I wear i liner. I don’t know if that is considered makeup. But they say your first initial appearance is everything.
12:09 black women tell you everyday just how Unpretty they feel without the clown costume
This was amazing, I watched a video that merely broached the subject that it was labeled as, then a bunch of people dance around questions because they didn’t want to actually answer them
That didn’t come from Jay Z he said 30 is the new 20 on kingdom come bro and he’s talking about rap
12:09 wait so now you agree because the non black man says something but when the two black men before him spoke you had all of the rebuttals you had all of the pushback you had all the anger all of the drama this is just another example of the disdain that black woman have for black men and the love and lust and excitement they have for non black men it doesn't matter the setting the time the place the wording the event and or circumstances if it's a black man he's going to get crapped on if the man is not black he's going to be accepted
Women have made there own cake and are upset at men because they don't want to buy the whole cake but only want a slice, Baby mother culture will continue 17 percent of men have 3 to 4 different baby Mommas 😮, SAD, CHANGE WHAT YOU TEACH YOUR KIDS(45 MINUTES A DAY )TEACHING THEM AND MUSIC THEY LISTEN TOO.
So she just dissed decent women with not so clear skin and crooked teeth. Like I always says a high percentage of women don’t understand what men really want. I tell my wife all the time and she just don’t listen….and hmmmm u know the rest but she cool with it so I guess I’m good 😆
Most people are more attractive in their 30s and 40s in my opinion.
Most 20-something year olds look like adult teenagers, literally grown kids.
That "baby face" look is unattractive to me I love a grown ass woman
For most people attractiveness declines by your 50s decade.
Either way I'm enjoying my 30s
Women maturing faster than men has a lot to do with biology, psychology, and society 🌱🧠🌍. Girls often hit puberty earlier and develop emotional regulation and social skills sooner 📈. Society also tends to expect more responsibility from them early on. But remember, everyone matures at their own pace! 💪😊
The way some of these ppl describe folk of the opposite sex tells us alot about the kind of women/men they choose to surround themselves with. While they are speaking on these ppl, It says more about THEMSELVES than they think it does.
The majority of real men, DO NOT care about a woman’s age. All it takes is attraction. If there’s something about a woman that a man is attracted to, he is going to shoot his best shout, period. Age does not matter. Vivica can get the man of her dreams if she hang out around everyday people. She should step out of the Hollywood scene because those men in that element are vain. 💯
*In my years, I have NEVER met a “mature” woman, and if you believe that you have, then just pay attention to how she deals with her “emotions”, but what I have noticed is that (females), “DEVELOPED”, (faster) than males*
Men actually tolerate make up.. its really too much make up or everywoman wearing same thing or wearing it always !!.. example.. LBJ wife has a good balance!!
What is your definition of mature? Bc 30 somethings are still all those things AND lit lol you just mad 😂 AND at the end of the day you can’t have them. So here’s a clue, date someone your own age genius. If you’re 40 then date a 40 year old (even tho lowkey 40yo women are still more mature than 40yo men).
Women stop maturing After High School. Whoever they are when they graduate high school is who they're going to be for the rest of their lives. I'm 50 years old I know what I'm talking about. Men mature slowly but throughout their entire lives