Why Are YOU Crying???| MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT SEASON 14 EPISODE 4 REVIEW

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  • @awesomesauce2757
    @awesomesauce2757 2 года назад +61

    Literally laughed out loud when you said:
    “Let’s talk about Alyssa and Chris - ALYSSA WHY DID YOU SIGN UP???”
    You went from 0 to 100 real quick, your exhaustion was apparent.

  • @Jojobeanz3
    @Jojobeanz3 2 года назад +65

    Alyssa is too self-centered and self-indulgent to be on this show. She’s ready to get a swift kick in the behind lol . She’s got some nerve to play victim when she’s being judgmental and shallow.

  • @Leopoetess
    @Leopoetess 2 года назад +41

    I agree with you. I understood exactly what he meant. She had a preconceived notion set by his sisters so she was unnecessarily defensive.

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад +1

      Indeed she’s actually not my fav at all … he needs someone who is more nurturing and loving

  • @Leopoetess
    @Leopoetess 2 года назад +35

    She does not like his teeth... She said she is big on dental hygiene so they did it on purpose. The camera keeps focusing on his teeth. Not fair to him at all...

    • @briyanijackson2823
      @briyanijackson2823 2 года назад +6

      It’s not fair at all! I wish she was just be woman enough to admit it instead of beating around the bush & coming up w BS excuses. I never liked her.

  • @MyeshaB
    @MyeshaB 2 года назад +20

    I was disappointed in Jasmina and Michael's frivolous discussion. I kept saying " keep it cute" lol no need for this conversation during the honeymoon. I hope they learn how to communicate better.

  • @debrafischer807
    @debrafischer807 2 года назад +14

    I want to see the experts call Alyssa out!!!

  • @debrafischer807
    @debrafischer807 2 года назад +22

    The other couples don’t even like Alyssa that much because of the way she acted at the bachelorette party. They saw then that she is a snob.

  • @MariB23
    @MariB23 2 года назад +36

    The experts gave Mark another woman like his mom and grandmother, that he has to take care of. Lindsey’s mouth and over the top personality are already starting fires that Mark has to put out.
    OAN totally agree that production should have left Alyssa and her bad attitude in Boston.

    • @nikkiojo3631
      @nikkiojo3631 2 года назад +2

      Was thinking the same thing! If Lindsey doesn't shape up (so hoping she does cuz they could be a dynamic couple), he basically will have to take care of her like he does the other important women in his life & he deserves better that to be relegated to that.

  • @malabhargava
    @malabhargava 2 года назад +27

    MAFS is really getting formulaic. It's just too much actually. They badly need some creativity. Same conversations at wedding time, same friends asking if they'll have sex 1st night, same, parents giving them a negative start, same unbuttoning dress, same brushing teeth together, same clarifying of sleep status, same morning breath talk etc etc. And the experts come in to countdown to the day when the couples must decide whether they want to stay married -- or get a divorce. It's all or nothing but mostly nothing

    • @Qeqezwisdom
      @Qeqezwisdom 2 года назад +3

      I agree. If anyone knows anything about how an experiment works, you perform trials, when that phase of the experiment does not work, you go back and revise. Where is the revision bc clearly the format of each season is not boasting significant success.

    • @malabhargava
      @malabhargava 2 года назад +4

      @@Qeqezwisdom They're glorifying it by calling it a social experiment. This certainly isn't how research is done! And it's been a decade... What's the stupid result?

  • @shelleycharlesworth5177
    @shelleycharlesworth5177 2 года назад +17

    I so agree with you - she is VILE that assinine Alyssa! Ugh! How would SHE like being treated by a partner the way SHE treated Chris? So many of these jerks just want to on tv.

  • @janine7185
    @janine7185 2 года назад +15

    Jasmina was so put off by Michael’s sisters telling her that Michael can have a negative point of view at times, but she has never dated anybody in her same city. That’s more concerning to me. That tells me that she may not know how to be in a real relationship because long distance relationships are not real. Not for a man anyway, in my opinion. Everything have to be planned, there’s little to no spontaneity with long distance relationships. She wasn’t listening to Michael in the hotel room and what he said made perfect sense to me.

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад +4

      Perfect sense !!! She’s is too concerned about being right ! She is definitely the one to be concerned about cuz she’s not been in a real relationship… the day to day of sharing space and opinions … learning one another’s habits etc… she’s way off and has a further way to come from imo

  • @cherieberry9823
    @cherieberry9823 2 года назад +43

    Loved your intro and review. I feel sorry for Chris and glad he checked Alyssa. I hope he doesn't stay there on false hope. Alyssa is not the person for him and if she wants to live separately....fine..... BYE!
    Also loved the questions the families asked the spouses. You could tell the concern some of them had about this process. It seemed Lindsey's family was like "good luck"! Lol
    Love the after-party show. Keisha is doing a good job!

  • @CeCeA11
    @CeCeA11 2 года назад +26

    So obviously Steve's dad is old school and apparently feels strongly about having a 9-5. So he called his son a vagabond. But let's be real a RUclipsr just a while back could have been called a vagabond, lol. Those that decided to become full-time RUclipsrs parents thought they were crazy. A lot of them are now millionaires.
    Let's be honest, most 9-5 jobs pay the bills, make you a little comfortable, but having your own business can get you success quicker. That said, I think Steve will do just fine bringing home the bacon.
    Now let's talk about Alyssa. I'm sick of the show letting people like her get away with their crap. The "professionals", Pastor Cal, Dr. Viviana, Dr. Pepper, or even production should step in at these times. Alyssa should not have been able to go on a free trip to PR. She has not tried to get to know her husband at all. Glad Keisha called her out on some of her bull on Afterparty. Keisha did the job the professionals and the show should have done.

    • @Karla-mu6hn
      @Karla-mu6hn 2 года назад +3

      I so agree with you about Steve and have never felt as concerned as everyone else about him being unemployed. I'm more worried about if he's really ready to settle down. He seems to be a responsible free spirited individual who wants to explore. I'm not so sure Noi is on the same page

  • @Kareyn2
    @Kareyn2 2 года назад +10

    If Alyssa was that uncomfortable with Chris, she would’ve told her family to get her out of there! Bye girl ✌️

  • @neripotts6047
    @neripotts6047 2 года назад +8

    I honestly think Alyssa looked at Chris’ friend and they liked each other , and that is why the friend tried to cause a rift. I wouldn’t be surprised if they started dating. Chris needs new friends

  • @mmsfoxxie1
    @mmsfoxxie1 2 года назад +16

    Steve’s dad is from another era. Was free lancer even a word in his dad’s day? I think Steve has money and free lances from time to time. Free lancer is just a person that’s self employed.

  • @twoelles1056
    @twoelles1056 2 года назад +9

    I think Olajuwon could’ve handled the conversation with Jelani the way that Mile handled is conversation with Jasmina’s parents. Though Jelani was bring the strength in the room🤣…Olajuwon should’ve just took it as they were being “protective” over Katina. Olajuwon doesn’t like to be challenged by anyone.

  • @_SheRise
    @_SheRise 2 года назад +10

    I’m disappointed the experts or som marriage counselor didn’t step in at this moment. It’s cruel to allow this to happen without some support.

    • @Qeqezwisdom
      @Qeqezwisdom 2 года назад +3

      They refuse to ever come in and provide support. That is most likely why people suffer so much on these shows. There is no support and a snowball effect of problems pile on top of each other.

    • @shelbyr217
      @shelbyr217 2 года назад +3

      Does anyone know what the rules are for utilizing the experts? They should be on call 24-7. They should remove Alyssa from the show and bring in another potential match if Chris would be up for it. He seems like a nice guy and doesn't deserve to be treated like this by Alyssa or MAFS.

    • @_SheRise
      @_SheRise 2 года назад +2

      @@shelbyr217 I agree. I wish I knew the type of support provided. They definitely should have them on call especially for situations like Alyssa and Chris.

    • @_SheRise
      @_SheRise 2 года назад

      @@Qeqezwisdom yes! Even for the couples with no issues they should
      Debrief with each personal individually after the wedding before the honeymoon.

  • @twoelles1056
    @twoelles1056 2 года назад +7

    Pinkie I agree with you about Jasmina and Mike’s communication. Based on what her parents said, it appears that she like to argue or be “right”. The conversation wasn’t that deep and she didn’t even try to see Mike’s POV; she really let what his sisters said form her opinion about him.

    • @briyanijackson2823
      @briyanijackson2823 2 года назад +3

      Facts! That wasn’t even something to be mad or prove a point about it.

  • @rebeljadesfire
    @rebeljadesfire 2 года назад +20

    Jasmina probably has unrealistic expectations from all those kdramas she watches. 😄

  • @_SheRise
    @_SheRise 2 года назад +6

    I feel the exact same way. The way Alyssa is treating Chris is so hurtful to me. Like I feel the pain through the TV. Even if she isn’t attracted to him to be in a relationship she could work on being friends. She’s just trying to ice him out and not engage. The least she could do is be friendly and just hang out with him. She doesn’t have to fall in love.

    • @_SheRise
      @_SheRise 2 года назад

      It’s very hard for me to watch the scene because of how cruel she’s being

  • @kjohnson6950
    @kjohnson6950 2 года назад +8

    I think Steve not having a job is a problem. I’ve seen so many people online saying “He might be making $200,000 with each job,” which could be true. But from what I’m seeing he’s not pulling that type of money, because he would’ve said to Noi by now I can support you, myself, and future kids doing what I’m doing. And he could’ve left it at that.
    I agreed with Michael. He was being realistic, while Jasmina was trying to pick a fight. What he said was true, you don’t know peoples’ boundaries when you meet them, so of course you may step on toes.
    Lindsey annoys me. She’s just too much! And I don’t know if she’s trying to overcompensate for whatever she feels like she lacks, but that mouth gon’ get her and her man beat up 🤷🏽‍♀️.
    Alyssa is trifling and she has showed her true colors in all of these episodes. Like let’s be honest, girl you look like a cheap Kardashian chihuahua mix and you have the nerve to judge someone based on their appearance. Crazy!

  • @sallybyrd3712
    @sallybyrd3712 2 года назад +23

    Steve's Father may be the root of Steve's problem because it appears that he probably could never get approval from his Father. It is despicable for a parent to trash their child on TV by calling them a vagabond. There is nothing wrong with Freelance work because you can be registered with agencies that send you out to different jobs which is very common for tradespeople; it is similar to contract work. Lindsay will keep embarrassing Mark and he will be apologizing and trying the clean up the mess many times over. Run Mark Run! Alyssa is not worth the time to discuss. It seems that all the contestants on this season have really messed up families because they are giving negative comments.

    • @africanodyssey4805
      @africanodyssey4805 2 года назад +5

      I don't think Steve's father was so much disparaging him as he was flatly describing who he is 🤷🏾‍♀️ Steve used to have a full time job and now does freelance work to prioritize travel. In itself, that's not a bad thing. But the fact that Steve REFUSED to answer what his future career plans are to both his wife and her family shows a huge level of immaturity. This man isn't ready for marriage, to have kids requires stability, so when your spouse asks for your career plans before y'all start having kids, you give them an answer not a round about excuse

    • @sallybyrd3712
      @sallybyrd3712 2 года назад +1

      @@africanodyssey4805 I don't think it is any of his parents business since he is 37 and I don't think they are supporting him. It is up to Steve and Noi and it is certainly not my or your or the public's business. He didn't quit his job, there were lay off's so he decided to do some traveling; maybe he got a payout package, who knows. There are other people on the show who are without a job for example Alyssa said she used to work in Social Media but does not seem to be at present. Maybe the question should be, who can afford to take two months off there job without pay to go on the show? Very few companies will give you a leave-of-absent for two months to do a Reality Show. The only people who have that kind of freedom would be a teacher on summer break, someone who is self-employed like Chris the Realtor or someone who saved up money.

    • @6wardtate
      @6wardtate 2 года назад

      @@sallybyrd3712 plus steve said he is still freelancing because of the covid still going on ,,reason why he was laid off...

    • @africanodyssey4805
      @africanodyssey4805 2 года назад +2

      @@sallybyrd3712 I said HER parents. If your parents in law ask about ur financial stability and/or career plans since you are married to their daughter now(especially since they know nothing abt you), yeah you owe them an answer. Even if the answer is something like "I plan on making freelancing my fulltime job bc even after this pandemic is over I enjoy the freedom it gives me" not "welp we all got different plans in life lol". And that's the same non answer he gave to Noi. He can't even answer his WIFE when she asks him a simple question? Finances are important in a marriage and Noi has a right to know what his plans are

    • @sallybyrd3712
      @sallybyrd3712 2 года назад +2

      @@africanodyssey4805 Noi is 33 years old, she is an adult. I cannot imagine my parents checking on who I married or was dating if I was 33 years old. They don't have to discuss everything for the noisy public just because they are on a Reality show. I just think the people who get so invested in Reality shows need to "get a life"'. Anyone who would marry on MAFS is obviously not concerned about stability or security because that show makes an absolute mockery out of marriage.

  • @qsgreenthumb219
    @qsgreenthumb219 2 года назад +5

    Using tears as weapons is my pet peeve. It us manipulative and I hate when grown people pull these stunts!

  • @danmitchell9808
    @danmitchell9808 2 года назад +6

    The Experts should step in. Like yesterday.

  • @GameOnRadio1
    @GameOnRadio1 2 года назад +8

    I look at it like this. His father is really old school and doesn’t understand freelance/contract work and looks at it like not a real job. Also his freelancing work must be really lucrative especially if he can afford to travel and live anywhere for 4 months straight.

    • @Shayla.Simone777
      @Shayla.Simone777 2 года назад +5

      I agree...and it was 4 months of travel. It just seems like Steve is apart of the "Great Resignation" that's happening in our country right now. I really do hope that his freelance work is lucrative.

    • @GameOnRadio1
      @GameOnRadio1 2 года назад +3

      @@Shayla.Simone777 thank you for the correction I don’t know why I kept hearing four years in my head LOL. But I agree I think he is apart of the great resignation.

  • @NtYourAvgPrncess
    @NtYourAvgPrncess 2 года назад +12

    Jasmina and Michael: He wasn't being negative, IMO he was being a realist and kind of shrugging off what happened. After all the stories that Jasmina and her bad luck with men it was Shocking that all her relationships were long-distance. WHAT? The "experts" put a debbie-downer who struggles with being vulnerable with someone who is used to hanging up the phone when she hears something she doesn't like? SIgh....

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад +2

      Finally someone who see’s this ! She is so dry , I can’t take her …. Behind Alyssa she needs to get it together … she’s very out of touch and more concerned about being right ! After all of the butting heads they did and he was tryin to smooth things over she still wanted all the smoke … like girl get over it ! At least he’s trying to understand you and the situation !

    • @SweetUareDesi
      @SweetUareDesi 2 года назад

      She does not like him:look at him

  • @shem_gem
    @shem_gem 2 года назад +28

    I really dislike (in this order) Alyssa, Lindsey, Olajuwan.....and honestly Katina about to be right up there with them. Alyssa is a narcissist obsessed with appearances which is why she has been unwilling to be honest. She think she a 10 but she and Chris are both average, like most of the world's population. She think she's so much better than him and it disgusts me. Lindsey 100% played Karen and she's loud and off-putting. So is Olajuwan. Honestly he and Lindsey are the same person, the thing is he is black and wouldn't victimize himself but they both seem like they like to be seen. I think I mostly don't like Katina because of her association with Olajuwan. She's cool otherwise. I don't think there's a match. Olajuwan is giving controlling and I believe Katina is going to get sick of it real quick. He keeps pressing her and telling her how she should feel and stating how he's her husband and blah blah blah. Shut up! Olajuwan likes to talk and talk over people and never listens and it's super off-putting

    • @allisonyates7209
      @allisonyates7209 2 года назад +3

      Yes I totally agree. Alyssa wanted a10 as she is. The delusion. Olajuwan is so
      cringe…..he’s such a player. He thinks he a prize. It will never work….with anyone. MAFS is dropping the ball big time with matching up these couples.

    • @entirelyebony
      @entirelyebony 2 года назад +3

      Your comment is spot on! 💯

    • @lovielee9640
      @lovielee9640 2 года назад +2

      That is is ADD

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool 2 года назад +1

      Olajuwan is fine and is a prize, but his personality is off-putting for someone so attractive. Alyssa is acting as a guy with olajuwan looks would act, but she's only average looking

    • @SweetUareDesi
      @SweetUareDesi 2 года назад

      @@Ianisatool olajuwan is below average . He is just fit

  • @jaydubya9265
    @jaydubya9265 2 года назад +8

    Lindsey saying she loves Mark is scary. I'm scared for MTS.
    And thanks for calling out O's comment about morning breath. Like seriously? lol
    Gelani was doing the most imo.
    Alyssa...why was she casted?

  • @barbarabuttler7647
    @barbarabuttler7647 2 года назад +8

    We should call this "The Season of the Two Karens" (not naming any names). 🤣😂😅

  • @lindablue5504
    @lindablue5504 2 года назад +4

    They need to remove Alyssa from the show and put someone else in her place. She is very Negative, Rude, and not willing at all, in trying to see, if it will work out. She is complaining about not being compatible with Chris. She knew before coming on the show, she would be matched with someone she didn't know. They need to start removing individuals when they act like this or mistreating someone. Being disrespectful to your partner because you don't like who you were matched with, then they need to leave and put someone else in her place. I am with you, when I get to their scene, I fast forward. I am getting to the point where I don't want to watch the show.

  • @meashtitus4759
    @meashtitus4759 2 года назад +15

    I totally understand what Steve is saying/not saying. My guess is:
    His philosophy on life is different than others. He is more in line with the perspective of living his life, experiencing the world around him. He does not come off childish, immature or disorganized. The man did get degrees and has already worked in corporate America. I think he wants to be open to the possibilities of what can happen in life. Exploring. People in the west (who live in metropolitan cities) are often driven by work and capitalism. Whereas other places really focus on quality of life. I just think he is an awesome person who is brave to step out the box. He doesn't come off as someone who would let his children starve. And regarding her family, I think he didn't want the first time they had a detailed conversation about work/life to be on TV with her relatives. His lifestyle will come with challenges and sacrifice, but all lifestyles do...I wish them the best ❤

    • @justelizabethashe
      @justelizabethashe 2 года назад

      I agree.

    • @shelbyr217
      @shelbyr217 2 года назад

      If it doesn't bother Noi, that's what matters. I think he will surprise us all. The producers are just trying to manufacture drama.

  • @twoelles1056
    @twoelles1056 2 года назад +10

    Lindsey pulled the epic “Karen” move; she threw a “rock” first then hid her hand and blamed the others. She’s a liability problem for Mark; he better buckle up.
    PS…I don’t see it for Lindsey and her blaccent 😒

    • @briyanijackson2823
      @briyanijackson2823 2 года назад +1

      Facts!

    • @KinkyinCT
      @KinkyinCT 2 года назад +3

      Conveniently the footage didn’t make the episode, had it been Olujawan poppin off I’m sure it would have. Protect the image on TV. Since when is drama left on the cutting room floor? 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @nareegreel
    @nareegreel 2 года назад +9

    I wouldn't say Michael is a pessimist, I think he's stoic. Stoicism would be more realistic than pessimistic. They will see the jar with water and recognize that it is both half full and half empty. They prepare for the worst but hope for the best.

  • @flintrivercarwash
    @flintrivercarwash 2 года назад +7

    So Mark has met with Lindsey's family and friends twice in 48 hrs and all they do is warn him of her mouth and behavior. RED FLAG WAVING!!! Plus it sounds like her own mom sees her just like Catina does and can't stand her.

  • @sirbluey5776
    @sirbluey5776 2 года назад +8

    Tbh, I'm not totally sure Steve's father knows the dictionary definition of "vagabond." People throw words out lightly sometimes, and if he had said "adventurer," he might have thought it meant the same thing. Love you, Pinkie! ❤️

  • @exxtra71
    @exxtra71 2 года назад +9

    I am not sure as to why this marriage was not sent to annulment center on the wedding night.

  • @kimberly0717
    @kimberly0717 2 года назад +6

    I agree with you 100% on your review of the couples. I am glad Chris is nice, but has a backbone! Alyssa sucks. They really need to have a second back up person (match)for ppl like in Chris situation, they won't be married, but can date the 8 weeks or whatever time is left to see if they want to move forward. Kinda like a consolation prize. Just thinking of how this could be less harmful emotionally, on the other hand, you take this chance when you sign up for a situation such as this.

  • @HopeAndrea_HFG
    @HopeAndrea_HFG 2 года назад +7

    Jasmina and Michael bout to be arguing over petty ish. Olajuwon is kind of a clown but not nearly as much of a 🤡 as Lindsey and Alyssa’s crazy selves. Steve needs another free spirit and Noi needs a stable man so idk why they even made that match. Another season of duds

  • @davidbanner425
    @davidbanner425 2 года назад +6

    Love this channel! Has the best MAFS commentary online! Home girl is hilarious!😂👊🏽👏🏽👍🏽💯🔥

  • @90najay
    @90najay 2 года назад +2

    Steve has a job, he does freelance work. Someone without a job can't travel for 4 months and be financially ok. It's clear he makes enough to do and go wherever he wants to.

  • @melissawest9124
    @melissawest9124 2 года назад +7

    I think that Alyssa is a liar and didn’t portray herself accurately during the interview process. She is a complete witch and Chris needs to pay her DUST. And I think that Lindsey has an alcohol problem. She always seems half drunk to me.

  • @Mmeme2023
    @Mmeme2023 2 года назад +15

    Vagabond is the old word for hobosexual. I do think Steve has money tucked away but is keeping it 🤐 (5 numbers in the power ball type of savings)

  • @Sweettooth25
    @Sweettooth25 2 года назад +3

    I agree with you for the most part. Also I don’t Jasmina likes her husband and isn’t attracted to him either. She’s also very controlling and doesn’t know how to communicate.

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад

      Jasmina needs to calm down ! And also needs an eye exam 🤣… Michael is a very nice looking man and she needs to get out of her own way and let love flow

  • @twoelles1056
    @twoelles1056 2 года назад +3

    Bae-baeeee Steve’s dad kept it 💯 and I appreciate it! I’m not sure why Noi didn’t have any follow up with the parents but she’s just like him sans the vagabond situation; she has a job. Sounds like Steve’s parents want him to gain stability and hopefully this marriage is the start

  • @DaGamerZSquad2
    @DaGamerZSquad2 2 года назад +12

    I’m not too concerned about Steve… yet.
    I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt because we don’t see everything.
    He does freelance, so it seems he does have some type of income coming in.
    He might be waiting to solidify the job prospects close to where they decide to establish themselves. (Don’t know how far things are in Boston)
    I have a friend very much like him but is on point when coming to responsibilities. He has money money and hella savings but you would never know it by where he lives, how he lives etc.

  • @bathos22
    @bathos22 2 года назад +6

    Alyssa = Myrla 2.0 🤮 Jelani sees through Olajuwan's bs. Isaac talking about I have no problem getting women. The ego of it all. He is a broken little boy..

  • @yuhsabitv
    @yuhsabitv 2 года назад +9

    Literally was waiting and tapping my fingers for ur post😛❤

  • @kassdremusic
    @kassdremusic 2 года назад +4

    I understand her. She just don’t like him and she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings by telling him she think he’s ugly.

    • @courtneyst.julian8192
      @courtneyst.julian8192 2 года назад +9

      But her behavior is MORE hurtful than just saying, "I don't find you physically attractive." She's trying to make him (and the viewers) believe he disrespected or offended her. She's terrible.

    • @briyanijackson2823
      @briyanijackson2823 2 года назад +1

      @@courtneyst.julian8192 exactly. He’s grown he can handle it & already knows what’s really up! So her lying is the worst part. She’s so superficial! I hate it for him

  • @CeCeTyshay
    @CeCeTyshay 2 года назад +6

    I feel like Jasmina was more bothered by the argument because of what the sisters said for sure.

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад +1

      It’s really upsetting that she doesn’t have the skills to really take it at face value and use her own discretion!!!

  • @BangStreetInc
    @BangStreetInc 2 года назад +2

    She's also trying to justify her shallow behavior by suggesting what she heard from others as a issue for her.

  • @tamaraferrari3359
    @tamaraferrari3359 2 года назад +2

    Fabulous review! Thank you for your straight-forward review. Tell it like it is. These couples were set up and not well matched. The couples should watch your review to understand how they are precieved by the public.

  • @denisewalker5850
    @denisewalker5850 2 года назад +1

    I thought your analysis of each couple was spot on. Enjoyed and agreed with your comments.

  • @julesgallaway1937
    @julesgallaway1937 2 года назад +19

    Nothing wrong with the brother expressing their themselves in a more feminine manner to see how Steve would take it. As a queer person I like to know the potential husband to my sister isn't homophobic or to judgy. Also everyone tends to dress up for the cameras, so work mamma!

    • @sunshinerainbowsnursery3500
      @sunshinerainbowsnursery3500 2 года назад +2

      Yes! I loved it!

    • @stardustmelody2709
      @stardustmelody2709 2 года назад +3

      I think everyone has the right to express themselves how ever they want. I’m a straight senior woman and I wouldn’t want anyone telling me what I should wear. I loved it!

    • @barbaracronin4164
      @barbaracronin4164 2 года назад +1

      Who said there was anything “wrong” with Sirachas’s show? Her motive is a little questionable. May be a bit of desire for “screen time”.

  • @jway-z3088
    @jway-z3088 2 года назад +4

    Steve, in my opinion, is not ready for marriage, at least not in the traditional sense. He would have fit in with the flower Children of the 60s, who wandered the country in Volkswagen buses And Sold flowers and T-shirts. He either needs a nomad bride Or Needs to change his single-minded attitude and fall into the traditional role of husband and provider. I can even see Steve staying home to raise the kids while Noi worked, if she would put up with that. The 'fake-perts' Should have dismissed him As not qualified.
    Michael did say he wanted a partner to challenge him but when Jasmina disagreed with his assessment, he questioned whether he should have asked for that type of person in the first place. This is one of those rare cases on the show when people ask for what they desire and get it, only find out it's not what they desire after all.. Michael and Jasmina appeared to be two opinionated people who see life from opposite ends of the spectrum. When Michael asked Jasmina's sisters what type of person she was, they replied "hold on!", And in the wedding her family said that she was a firecracker. "Boom boom"!

  • @janee6967
    @janee6967 2 года назад +1

    Im a retired RN of 21 yrs, I traveled, abd met alot of nurses, and alot of nurses do hav control issues, we hav to....also we learn really quick to stand our ground...BUT...its a thing I see in young nurses, we older ones learn to mellow out n pick our battles....I do wish we could hav heard that exchange...and known if she had alachol on board...cause she already has NO filter....and drinking alachol will just add to that.

  • @marvinabigby6376
    @marvinabigby6376 2 года назад +2

    I was watching the old B and white tv series My three sons the father was a freelance worker.I am sure that was way ahead of its time.He worked on probelem solving of missiles and rockets.I was surprised that he was written in as a freelance worker in the 50s.I thought of Steve.lol

  • @davidransom4476
    @davidransom4476 2 года назад +7

    Ten seconds into this video and I hit the Like button like it was the golden buzzer on America's Got Talent. Noi's family should have gone deeper and asked Steve about the hidden income items a company would provide. Having a baby while on Medicaid is not preferable. Does Noi have medical coverage? I also was searching and couldn't find where he's living at 38 (4th episode is first I saw). I think what happened on the plane with Lindsay was the proverbial drunk too much butthead pizzing people off. Alcohol removed filters that she needed to keep on, and the others didn't put up with her. It would be great if the other wives just shunned Alyssa. Don't know when they get the first chance to break it up, but on MAFS Australia there were times a few weeks before the final decision where both could say it wasn't going to happen. Chris should bail as soon as he can. It's just my personal wondering, but if another couple doesn't work out before the final decision, I wonder if the show would ask Chris and her if they would like to go on some dates. That happened in Australia when two of the spouses cheated with each other, and the ones cheated on were asked if they'd like to date on the show's dime after the divorces were submitted.

  • @kokoisme4791
    @kokoisme4791 2 года назад

    I just feel like when people tell you something about themselves you have to give them the benefit of the doubt even if it’s something that you may not agree with you never know what that person was going through in a situation

  • @fine_art_wr
    @fine_art_wr 2 года назад +4

    Your reviews on this Alyssa lady have stressed me out to the point in which I know I am not going to watch this season lol. I’m still getting over the trauma of the past three or four seasons lol.

  • @joycerubio2804
    @joycerubio2804 2 года назад

    Lol you are too funny😁I completely agree with your review of Alyssa. She is so mean! How can she keep saying she is a nice person!? I immediately knew she didn't like Chris as soon as they met at the wedding. Her facial expression said it all. Her attitude is shameful. She is wasting everyone's time! The experts made a mistake with one.

  • @mariafgon
    @mariafgon 2 года назад

    Agree 100000% on Alyssa ! Yes on everything you said about her!!!! Like everything !

  • @graceofasloth
    @graceofasloth 2 года назад +3

    It sounds like Steve's father doesn't understand or believe in freelance work. He may be too old school. Working freelance can pay very well.

  • @wendyvilliers8312
    @wendyvilliers8312 2 года назад +10

    Mark the shark has no top lip. And Michael look like a black popye

    • @MikeNikes1012
      @MikeNikes1012 2 года назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @tasiabromell7311
      @tasiabromell7311 2 года назад +3

      Black popeye 😭😭😭

    • @suburbcinderella
      @suburbcinderella 2 года назад +1

      Alyssa look like Catherine Zeta-Jones cousin from the wrong side of the tracks

  • @praying5701
    @praying5701 2 года назад

    100% DEFINITELY RIGHT. SHE GOT ON THE SHOW FOR THE MONEY AND VACATION AND APARTMENT. SHE NEEDS TO GO NOW!!!

  • @maryherrera4793
    @maryherrera4793 2 года назад

    Why aren’t the experts jumping in!! Yeah I don’t know if I want watch it anymore. I’m sad for Chris 🥺

  • @janine7185
    @janine7185 2 года назад +2

    I don't know if they get paid to go to a certain distance on the show but if I was Chris, I would gladly tell them no thank you to Alyssa and gladly refund them their money because it was very hard to watch them. Alyssa is the worst person ever. If you got all these vices, and you're going to marry somebody blind. Left that man sitting in the lobby sad and wondering what he did wrong. She just knew they were going to match her with the most attractive man in the world. LOL. Chris know she's treating him that way because she's not attracted to him and don't like him even though she don't know him. When they were on the honeymoon, Alyssa was standing on the rocks so close to Michael they could have been holding hands and when they were sitting down, she was almost on Michael's lap that is why Michael was the first person to point out how they were not interracting that much. All these couples got haters for family and friends...oh my goodness.

  • @felishajones7865
    @felishajones7865 2 года назад

    My first time watching your reviews! Love the way you break it down and also you remind me of my niece so you already had all the points with me 😅 I was like awwww she’s so cute!!! 🥰 I’m obsessed with this show I actually look forward to Wednesday nights 🍾

  • @aletabraxton6934
    @aletabraxton6934 2 года назад

    Totally agree with your commentary! Excellent observations.

  • @cyyrious
    @cyyrious 2 года назад +3

    I think Michael’s sisters did what Chris’s friends did I don’t think either of them mean harm just trying to be real since the question was asked

  • @nikkiojo3631
    @nikkiojo3631 2 года назад

    I agree - swap out Alyssa! Get that gurl outta there! She irks me to the core. Give that poor man an annulment, go find someone else for him to be paired with & let him start over again with someone more mature, considerate & committed to the process.
    And did u ck how she stormed off the set when Keisha KP challenged her just a little bit (in a very professional & delicate way)? That heifer high-tailed it outta there like a spoiled brat who couldn't take an ounce of accountability.🙄. She irritates me. I feel for this guy. Can we get a grown woman to take her place PLEASE!

  • @dunimus_7328
    @dunimus_7328 2 года назад

    Luv your glasses!...as far as MAFS goes...Half these people just plain are not ready...other people cannot fix your issues...and there are way too many issues...too much alcohol, the male stripper, the travelling wonderer, the insecure negative nathan, the girl that has never looked in the mirror to see she is not a bag of chips and all that...love may not happen at first look, but for most of these folks they could spend a lifetime and never get to that lovin' feeling.

  • @chocl8te
    @chocl8te 2 года назад

    Loved this sis new subbie….. lawwwwwd I thought Alyssa only worked my nerve… Chris needs a redo and an annulment asap❤️

  • @levelsixx
    @levelsixx 2 года назад +3

    Lindsay can't talk down to anybody, a "women" who sounds DRUNK when she talks...

  • @roslynshaw7103
    @roslynshaw7103 2 года назад +3

    Alyssa came on the show for the money ,she said she is not staying in the room with him because she don't know him..why did u marry him..why did u kiss him..U DONT KNOW HIM...he is not wht you want..guess what..u are not what he signed up for either..u need to learn how to treat people , u r far from being, the next top model.

  • @amiramulan3587
    @amiramulan3587 2 года назад +3

    Love you video because it’s nothing but facts !!!!!

  • @lishobbins1049
    @lishobbins1049 2 года назад +6

    Yes let’s talk about Alyssa and Chris now would’ve Chris was a very handsome man with a nasty attitude how would she feel then. And she should’ve never signed up for a show like that if you can’t take the heat get out the kitchen and yes then she need to leave

  • @keyonnajanae92
    @keyonnajanae92 2 года назад +1

    After last season train wreck Alyssa SHOULD HAVE NEVER GOT A CALL BACK who gets 10 wedding dresses

  • @cindyramos5957
    @cindyramos5957 2 года назад +2

    I feel like they should stop with the family and friends giving a "heads up" to the spouse. Be more positive and focus on the persons good qualities. Maybe after the honeymoon they can do the "heads up". First impressions are so important. And family telling the spouse all that negarive things throws them off and cause unecessary conflict. Like Alyssa...she was already wasn't feeling her husband on the attraction level and then his friends start off on how he is condesending and that just completely shut her off and she didn't even give him a chance.

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад +1

      I soooo agree!!! I said the very same thing! This season the family’s were stirring up a lot of unnecessary drama. And it made things go in a bad direction especially for Chris , mike. And Steve 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @didgeufo
    @didgeufo 2 года назад +2

    Awesome review … thanks! 😊

  • @UinAZ
    @UinAZ 2 года назад

    Yeah, why did they even choose someone with no steady job?! Ridiculous. That is going to be a problem, no doubt.

  • @Dreamsareareality
    @Dreamsareareality 2 года назад +1

    Byeeeeeeee Alyssa goodbye!!!!! They need to get her butt off of the show.

  • @dittney85
    @dittney85 2 года назад +1

    Steve has money saved to live off of. Didn't they say he use to work in tech? I think traditional 9-5 doesn't work for everyone. As long as he can hold up his end financially, I don't see a problem with him not being traditionally employed.

  • @briyanijackson2823
    @briyanijackson2823 2 года назад

    Yeah Alyssa definitely isn’t being honest about her intentions OR LACK thereof. Idk how everyone was describing her as a caring, cool person bc she’s came off as a lazy, gold digger since the beginning. She needs to go home! Then tried to turn it on Chris and claimed he was being “disrespectful” bc he answered her questions honestly.

  • @janeschade7875
    @janeschade7875 2 года назад

    I agreed absolutely with you on every point!

  • @sharonlauray4131
    @sharonlauray4131 2 года назад

    That's why Steven gave her the ringpop TWICE. He was trying to tell her something twice. Why can't ppl have as a requirement for this show to be employed for at least 5 yrs and make them see psychiatrists before doing the show. Geez

  • @susieadrian2149
    @susieadrian2149 2 года назад

    Alyssa is so rude. I doubt things will look up for her after this!
    Very strange that her main focus was to hang out with "her" girls! I'm sure the couples didn't want to hear her whining and complaining.
    She owes Chris an apology for the way she treated him, and all the horrible things she made up, nothing but lies. He deserves so much better.

  • @stardustmelody2709
    @stardustmelody2709 2 года назад +3

    When Lindsey was on the first After Party she didn’t have anything nice to say about Mark. Does anyone else remember that. Jasmina stood up for Chris when Lindsey said something bad about Mark’s looks. Jasmina said, “Mark is a good looking man”.

  • @flintrivercarwash
    @flintrivercarwash 2 года назад

    It's like Alyssa only watched season 10 in DC. She wants a husband that looks like Zach (Zach & Mindy) and knows how to tell lies to everyone like Michael (Michael & Meka).

  • @TheFallonCarrington
    @TheFallonCarrington 2 года назад +1

    I died when that boys father called him a vagabond

  • @Rbhawk3rd
    @Rbhawk3rd 2 года назад +4

    When you marry someone. Your don't owe their friends an explanation for anything. They are two consenting adults. If you are not going to be completely transparent with your friend's intentions, don't expect me to tell you my business. If a women was only marrying a man for his money and had a side piece, Her friends will be quiet as a church mouse but they'll interrogate him. That's why I say it's none of their business.

  • @BangStreetInc
    @BangStreetInc 2 года назад

    Steve dosen't have a Job. That's problematic for me as a parent. The "Experts" shouldn't do that to people.

  • @holdruss6197
    @holdruss6197 2 года назад +4

    You are very smart.

  • @jakiarandi
    @jakiarandi 2 года назад +1

    Everyone is up in arms about O & Katrina….but Jazmena and Michel should really be in their position! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @bosse1092
      @bosse1092 2 года назад

      ??? Their position ????

  • @margaretb2269
    @margaretb2269 2 года назад

    I think that Jasmine is looking for faults in her husband to just have conflicts for conflict sake. That's is how she is accustom striving in relationships, only in conflict ; I believe. She seems to me to be a silent Alyssa.

  • @kimberlyrivers3047
    @kimberlyrivers3047 2 года назад +1

    We definitely don't want to watch Alyssa and Chris this whole season. They need some backup couples for the instant unattracted couples. Also, we know y'all are making money off of MAFS. Put these couples on private jets bc this is the 2nd time we missed some good plane footage.

  • @janee6967
    @janee6967 2 года назад

    Steve said he's doing some free Lance work....and I think as much as he wants a family, he will be a good provider....also his father is obv. Very traditional, and mist dads of that age would be not supportive of thier middle age son just taking off n traveling for a year after he lost his job....and it was the pandemic.

  • @altalovelady661
    @altalovelady661 2 года назад

    The 1st 20 seconds of this video was TRUTH OVERLOAD. Alyssa just wanted to go on her free vacation. Otherwise she could have turned around before walking down the aisle. That's how much she actually tried. SMH

  • @shannonboney
    @shannonboney 2 года назад

    New subbie. I’m loving the review

  • @myluckettstarz5862
    @myluckettstarz5862 2 года назад

    Rosa I want your glasses... where can
    I find them? 👓