Andri I just want to tell you I know what you're going thru. I dealt with the same with my Mom and I can tell you when the worst part of the grieving is over you will remember your Mom as the way she was before. It took me awhile but I remember the wonderful Mother & Grandmother and just what a beautiful soul she was, she had so much to give & had a beautiful heart. Just know the day will come when you have the precious memories of the person she was before dementia stole her from you💕God bless and be with you through this
Hi my darling, Andri. you are right, it is a very horrible disease. My father had Alzheimer's and it was so hard because you think of your parents in one way, but then this disease takes away who they are, and it's so hard on us. I try to remember my Dad the way he was when he was healthy. But I have to say you are a wonderful daughter and you really returned all the love your mother gave you and I hope God will always bless you for all you did. Thank you for sharing this difficult chapter of your life. I hope that you have peace now. Love you and have a great day. xoxo
Hi Andri ... Nothing Is Ever Weird ... Everyone Grieves Differently ... You Were Extremely Close With Mama ... Take Everyday As It Comes ... Warm Hugs Being Sent Your Way ... 🥰😘
i know the feeling of thinking that the dementia-era memories are replacing the pre-dementia memories. but i am sure with time, you will remember more of the pre-dementia moments! of course, the dementia time is also part of life, but compared to the many other vivid memories, it is a smaller, albeit more recent, part of the many wonderful memories you will forever keep
My mum always says "give time time". I still have my parents, but as you know with my dad...who knows for how much longer... Let yourself feel everything so that you go through each stage. It's the feelings at unexpected times that catch you by surprise xxx
Hi Andri, as others have said, time will do its job eventually and you will be left with all the good memories of your mum. I think it's lovely that you want to wear your mum's dressing gown, it's one way that you can keep her near you. xx
Thank you Patricia.. I’m feeling so much better now that I have organised the house in Cyprus.. Here in this house her home I tend to remember her as she was before her dementia.. xxx
Oh my dear Andri, believe me when I say I know what you are going through,you are still in the greaving process, and part of that is anger,and that is where you are just know.You have so much on your plate just know and my advise is to shut your mums bedroom door,and deal with one thing at a time, at present ,that is getting the house in Cyprus in order,but be aware that will also bring back memories,so when you are there think of the good times you spent there,and the good time that are about to come for you and your growing family in your family holiday home in Cyprus.Then when you feel ready deal with the bedroom.Things will get better I promise my dear friend,as always Cheers Julie xxx
Andri, You're still angry with dementia, and that's ok. Just let yourself feel whatever you feel, and don't judge yourself over it. There's no way around it. Just let yourself go through it. Always love seeing Georgie (hope I spelled that right). She is so adorable and looks like a little angel when she sleeps! I hope she continues to enjoy her gymnastics! xoxo
Your right I was still very angry with dementia.. I found being in my mums house very therapeutic, I remembered her the way she was, which I was so desperately trying to do in Scotland... xxx
Andri I remember her before dementia, its just to hard to think of her after. I just hope I don't end up like that I wouldn't want that for my loved one's to go through.
Only time can heal. In time, you will remember the good times, with your Mother as she was when she was vibrant and happy. And conquering those sad and dark memories will be your ultimate act of vengeance against the horrible disease.
Your absolutely right Daniel, but I have also discovered that here in Cyprus I remember my mum as she was before dementia.. As I clean and reorganise the house I remember the vibrant woman she was .. xx
Eventually when you get the room re done, you can put a lovely bouquet of flowers on the window sill, open up the windows, let the sun stream in and think of a time before the illness. I think your mum would like that for you.
How old is Gorgie (sorry if I spelt it wrong) we put our oldest in gymnastics at 2 but it was too much like an expensive giant play place lol. Is it the same there or more structured?
Georgie will be 2 in May ... It’s as structured as it can be for that age group and yes it’s like a big soft area with beams, bars rings and that sort of thing ... xx
My dearest Andri, let dementia and all the tasks that took place because of it be stripped away with the old wall paper and carpets. You’ve acknowledged what a thief and bastard dementia has been in your life. Now let it go. Fill the window sill with flowers again and with that let beautiful memories only of your dear mum return. Xxx
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Andri I just want to tell you I know what you're going thru. I dealt with the same with my Mom and I can tell you when the worst part of the grieving is over you will remember your Mom as the way she was before. It took me awhile but I remember the wonderful Mother & Grandmother and just what a beautiful soul she was, she had so much to give & had a beautiful heart. Just know the day will come when you have the precious memories of the person she was before dementia stole her from you💕God bless and be with you through this
Diane thank you so much, I really needed to hear that ❤️
Hi my darling, Andri. you are right, it is a very horrible disease. My father had Alzheimer's and it was so hard because you think of your parents in one way, but then this disease takes away who they are, and it's so hard on us. I try to remember my Dad the way he was when he was healthy. But I have to say you are a wonderful daughter and you really returned all the love your mother gave you and I hope God will always bless you for all you did. Thank you for sharing this difficult chapter of your life. I hope that you have peace now. Love you and have a great day. xoxo
As always thank you for your wonderful support my darling friend xxx
🤗 I think something like a mother’s loss you will never get over, it will get easier but never forgotten 🙏💕
melissa pintone your absolutely right xxx
Hi Andri ... Nothing Is Ever Weird ... Everyone Grieves Differently ... You Were Extremely Close With Mama ... Take Everyday As It Comes ... Warm Hugs Being Sent Your Way ... 🥰😘
Sending them right back .. As always thank you so much for being there for me xx ❤️
i know the feeling of thinking that the dementia-era memories are replacing the pre-dementia memories. but i am sure with time, you will remember more of the pre-dementia moments! of course, the dementia time is also part of life, but compared to the many other vivid memories, it is a smaller, albeit more recent, part of the many wonderful memories you will forever keep
You are so wise my beautiful friend.. xxx
My mum always says "give time time". I still have my parents, but as you know with my dad...who knows for how much longer...
Let yourself feel everything so that you go through each stage. It's the feelings at unexpected times that catch you by surprise xxx
Think of you ❤️
Hi Andri, as others have said, time will do its job eventually and you will be left with all the good memories of your mum.
I think it's lovely that you want to wear your mum's dressing gown, it's one way that you can keep her near you. xx
Thank you Patricia.. I’m feeling so much better now that I have organised the house in Cyprus.. Here in this house her home I tend to remember her as she was before her dementia.. xxx
@@AndrisWorld That makes perfect sense! xx
I'm thinking of you and hoping you can find the peace you need soon. xoxo
Thank you so much Jennifer xx
Oh my dear Andri, believe me when I say I know what you are going through,you are still in the greaving process, and part of that is anger,and that is where you are just know.You have so much on your plate just know and my advise is to shut your mums bedroom door,and deal with one thing at a time, at present ,that is getting the house in Cyprus in order,but be aware that will also bring back memories,so when you are there think of the good times you spent there,and the good time that are about to come for you and your growing family in your family holiday home in Cyprus.Then when you feel ready deal with the bedroom.Things will get better I promise my dear friend,as always Cheers Julie xxx
Xx I agree...
Julie you are so absolutely right ... xx
Andri, You're still angry with dementia, and that's ok. Just let yourself feel whatever you feel, and don't judge yourself over it. There's no way around it. Just let yourself go through it. Always love seeing Georgie (hope I spelled that right). She is so adorable and looks like a little angel when she sleeps! I hope she continues to enjoy her gymnastics! xoxo
Your right I was still very angry with dementia.. I found being in my mums house very therapeutic, I remembered her the way she was, which I was so desperately trying to do in Scotland... xxx
It is so hard seeing a parent with Dementia, I lost my mom two years ago.
It’s really awful ... How do you remember your mum now? As she was before dementia or with dementia? Xxx
Andri
I remember her before dementia, its just to hard to think of her after. I just hope I don't end up like that I wouldn't want that for my loved one's to go through.
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diane hague you made my journey a lot easier ... Thank you xx
Only time can heal. In time, you will remember the good times, with your Mother as she was when she was vibrant and happy. And conquering those sad and dark memories will be your ultimate act of vengeance against the horrible disease.
Your absolutely right Daniel, but I have also discovered that here in Cyprus I remember my mum as she was before dementia.. As I clean and reorganise the house I remember the vibrant woman she was .. xx
@@AndrisWorld Lots of love.
Eventually when you get the room re done, you can put a lovely bouquet of flowers on the window sill, open up the windows, let the sun stream in and think of a time before the illness. I think your mum would like that for you.
I’m going to do exactly that xxx ❤️
How old is Gorgie (sorry if I spelt it wrong) we put our oldest in gymnastics at 2 but it was too much like an expensive giant play place lol. Is it the same there or more structured?
Georgie will be 2 in May ... It’s as structured as it can be for that age group and yes it’s like a big soft area with beams, bars rings and that sort of thing ... xx
My dearest Andri, let dementia and all the tasks that took place because of it be stripped away with the old wall paper and carpets. You’ve acknowledged what a thief and bastard dementia has been in your life. Now let it go. Fill the window sill with flowers again and with that let beautiful memories only of your dear mum return. Xxx
As always your absolutely right .. Thank you Mimi mou xxx
I am sorry. It is the hardest thing to watch a parent be slowly taken away...
It is ... Thank you xxx