you probably dont care but if you're stoned like me during the covid times then you can watch all the new series on Instaflixxer. I've been watching with my gf lately =)
Unfortunately, this will be the future for so many of us that are raising children in the States. Love yourselves because this world is corrupted and love is growing cold.
Nowadays, new generation be more like Mekas, so Mekas's way is better lawm. Children 18 move out, no more support from parents. Parents help as they want, when parents old ces tsev laus lawm xwb.
Hmong parents expect too much out of their children and do not love their children unconditionally. Hmong people have children as a form of “life insurance” only for when they’re old, and they think children owe them their lives.?My mother was old school like that, she was always unhappy because we couldn’t afford to give her money and gifts, even though she lived rent-free with us. We were never good enough for her.
My blood boils each time stories like this come along. Most Hmong elders need to learn not to value their sons so much. Love all your children the same, son or daughter. The parents in this story place all their hope on their little boys who let their wives run their lives. They don’t even love their parents. They treat their daughters like outsiders, but it’s the daughters that took them out to get their place. Sons will never do such a thing without their wife’s approval. Hmong elders, please learn to be independent and stop counting on your kids because you’ll end up disappointed.
Most of the issues are bcuz of the daughter-in-laws. Think about it, if it wasn't the daughter-in-laws, this kind of issue will not happen. If the daughter-in-laws are to look at your in-laws as your own father and mother, none of this will ever happen. In this case, the sons have no balls. Mloog tus niam hais cov nyab tej lus haus zaj dab neeg no xwb, twb pab txaj muag dhau lawm.
In this country, child support is almost always on the women side. Thus, if the husband doesn't go with the wife's, she would divorce him and make him pay child support. Paying child support is very expensive that you end up having only your own two balls and sleeping on someone's couch. Back in Laos, women couldn't run the family, but in the US they are the boss.
You're absolutely right! Elders that came from Laos are almost gone. Girls have been neglected ever since we can remember. Hopefully that mentality/culture will change. But all fairness, daught-in-laws are at fault as much too. If they could love their in-laws like their biological parents then there won't be any drama.
I understand some people don’t believe the elders but I am telling you, most of these stories are very true. Is sad that more and more human beings are treating their parents like this and then they don’t even feel bad or see their wrongs. Similar situation is already happening right now to my own mom. I really hope Karma is real so their kids can do the same to them later too.
Childrens are raise in the U.S at like Amika They think they are Amika and not Asian anymore and don't care about the culture😭. Sad but true! Don't expect them to take care of you. Don't love them to much and give them everything. Kick them out when they are adults... At the end is only you and your love one. Meniuam siab phej yua ba xwb li...👿
We as parents in these day in age, don’t expect the love from your children 100%. Don’t expect that they’ll take care of you when you’re old. Because, at the end of the day, when they don’t, you’ll be disappointed. The most important thing as parents right now is: 1. Love yourself. 2. Love your spouse. 3. If you have children, boy or girl, love them equally.
I can’t even listen to this story! It’s so typical of Hmong parents! When will this change!??? My own parents are guilty of this. Their Golden son is a homeless bum who is 35 and is not married or have a stable job. He lives with random people and moves around when people are sick of him. But noooo he can’t do no wrong in their eyes. On the other hand, my sisters and I are doing well in life and can take care of ourselves but we are only girls. 🙄
Yeap! I hear ya. That’s how it is in my family too. My parents have a golden son. He’s also in his 30’s, unmarried and uses my parents money. My mom has always voiced to people my sons are my life and that they will do anything to help them including bailing them out of jail. I just roll my eyes when I hear her talk.
Yep, I have 6 siblings and they don’t want to do anything for my parents. I live 45 minutes away and I still have to go over to do things for my parents when my siblings live with them. This is why I only have 2 kids. Less expenses and expectations. A lesson for all Hmong people to have less kids, love your kids equally, and don’t have any expectation for the sons.
Have as many kids as you want but don't expect any of them to love you when you are old. Just leave them be. If they want you, stay with them. If they don't, leave. Your sons and daughters will always choose their partners over you. It's sad, but it's true.
Kwv tim koj has yeej yog rua cov hlua nub nua ma, tab si koj ncu ntsoov ta peb cov laug kw tsi txawj ntaub tsi txawj ntawv thaum yaav laug puab yuav paab tsi tau puab tug kheej, yuav yug kuam tau 3, 4 tug es txawm ta ib tug tsi hlub lo tej zag yuav muaj ib tug hlub es txha yug cob2, cov laug txuj kev xaav yog tu tub tu kiv yog coj lug hlub ob tug rua thaum yaav ob tug laug, yog tsi xaav le ntawm ce ob tug 6 tug miv nyua nuav tub tsi tau lug ua neej nyob huv lub nplaj teb nuav.
In our generation as long as they don't come back and live off us, that's good enough. I can understand the older generation but my generation, I like my freedom and space. I can't imagine living in a household full of grown kids and it's not my desire to take care of grandkids like the older generation does. Not my dream.
I strongly agree , they raise us, the least we can do for them is love,and care for them when they're old cant care for themself. ..but always remember whatever goes around will be coming back to them too,,its karma people...it is real.....
It is very sad because this is the exact same story for my old vulnerable parents. It's so funny, the sons get the most support but they still think the parents love the daughters more. I have listened to too many of May's story of the old parents getting cheated and abused by their children and it hurts because I can relate. I always do my best for my parents because right now is the time that they matter, not when after they already pass. I could not bare not being able to run to my parents in my darkest days when they are no longer here. I'm so afraid that ill be a lost child in this big world without them. I'm sure my siblings will see my post, but who cares. I'm doing my part the best I can and I don't care how some of you may think of me. I know I'm not perfect but the true fact is I know I have not taken them for granted, cheated or abused them.
You said that but mostly no matter how you teach them when them go marry they only love them mom and them dad they never care about them husband mom and dad I see 99% in USA here happened always
@@yilengyang3325 That's so true. Doesn't matter how you raise them. At the end of the day they'll decide for themselves. It's really sad to hear these stories, but we should learn from this. Do not expect your children to take care of you, it's simple as that. Not all your children can ever love you back the way you love them.
@@suesue242 is not for 100% like you said but at least not controlled your husband to do like you say if not do like what you say than divorce I saw a lots like that now not just one I’m seriously that’s why I’m said that but if you don’t like that is ok but I’m just said like what I see here in USA I see all my uncle and anti they are not bad they are very good to them but no matter what all them kids wife don’t love them just so sad I see on my own eyes and this story just so sad
I hope these sons and their wives heard it because what go around come around and their kids will treat them the same ways. Eventually they will repeat.
Wow, the parents must have been very selfish for their kids to be this selfish. I don't understand why these grown a$$ adult kids are still milking their elderly parents of the small $$ they get from the government. Go make your own money and geez be the bigger people and stop abusing the elders.
Omg who do these kids think they are? Highly educated but treats parents like this? I guess you really can’t teach compassion. Your education should be able to help you get a job where you don’t have to take from your parents. How shameful.
Ua li Mekas xwb, txhob yug coob2 thiab txhob vam leej twg hlub yus li, es yog leej twg ho txawj xav es ho hlub yus los kuj zoo siab xwb hos tsis txawj xav tsis hlub los txhob tu siab
Me niam tais kuv yog ib leeg tub uas hlub tsis taus tej laus ib yam koj cov tub thiab. Tab sis qhov tseeb peb yeej hlub nej cov laus kawg tab sis vim peb pheej swb rau cov niag nyab qhov niag nruab nrab tsam tsaus ntuj es lawv ua ceg tawvๆ es thiaj tau ua tej yam rau tej laus tu siab heev li.koj tus tublos yog koj tus nyab lub tswv yim xwb mog niam tais aw. Txhob tu siab os
I don't know, but i always believe that yog tej laus txawj coj, the kids will behave good too. Sure, maybe there will always be one or two that will always be bad, but not all of them. If all of them turned against you, then that must mean u as the parent did something wrong. It always begins with the parents first. I'm not justifying the kids' horrible behaviors thought.
I don't know if there's justification for treating your parents this badly. Probably just excuses and selfish reasons as this Niam tias mentioned- blaming them for loving another child more when it's probably their own twisted perspective.
$300 out of your in laws disability/ssi check. There’s no side to that, just pure evil. Regardless if I’m upset at my in laws or parents, to be cruel is not an option.
The nyab side is pretty much just bull shit, remember u have parents too...would u like it if ur brother did the same to ur parents. I've seen it my my own eyes.
Niam tais!! Koj zaj dab neeg tu siab kawg li os!! Thov kom lwm tiam neb tau ib cov zoo tub nyab los hlub neb nawb mog, kuv ntseeg hais tias cov tub nyab zoo zoo yeej tseem muaj kawg, lwm tiam neb yeej yuav tau lub chaw Nyob kaj siab lug mus txog hnub laus laus tsis muaj kev tu siab li tiam nov os ! Mog !! Vim kuv muaj kuv niam pog kuv hlub nws kawg tab sis nws tau ib tug mob es mob sai sai xwb tau ncaim peb mus tau 1 xyoo ntau no xav txog nws kuv lub kua muag nco tseem ntws tawm los vim tseem niaj hnub tos nws os mog
Cov laug lub kuas muag muaj nuj nqe heev peb yog me tub me nyuam peb nri tsi taug niam tsiv lub kuas muag os peb ua neej nyob peb yeej yuav tsawj laug ib nub xwb 2 le os mog thov tsi tshob cia cov laug lub kuas muas poob vim yog peb os
Yus niam yus txiv yug tau yus es hlub g tau ces yeej muaj ib hnub lub neej yuav raws li ntawv thiab o yuav tsum hlub2 cov laus thiaj li muaj hmoo khwv noj khwv haus o
Some old people are really bad too. They complained about everything. There are two sides to a story. I live with a mother in law. I know how difficult it is. It's best they live by themselves.
Yus cov tub yus yug lawv yeej hlub yus tas si yog cov nyab los sab rau los lawv tsis nyiam, tsis hlub yus ces cov tub yuav tau ua li cov nyab hais... tu siab ua luaj😭😭😭
Hmong elderly, we are in this "I, me, my" society. We have to realize that we are not in Kansas [Laos] anymore. A lot of us are in the same boat. We came from poverty and fought hard, so our children could have a better life, but these spoiled brats would not appreciated it. To me, my job is to raise them until they are 18 or help them to get a degree: AA, BA, ... And set them off on their own. I will not expect much from them, but focus on myself and my spouse only. Maybe spoil some grandkids, too.
My two cents into this story: children should not be obliged to love/care for their parents. Some parents wants eternal gratefullness. It's price that has no end. Parents should not be obliged to give their money to grown children. That's why they have jobs to provide for their family.
Tej lus yeej ib txwm muaj hais tias koj cog dab tsi hnub no koj yuav tau sau yam ntawv lwm hnub. Txoj kev uas koj tsim lus tus lub siab, lwm hnub koj yuav tau sau yam ntawv. “ you reap what you sow”
Yes, Hmong parents need to live independently from their children. They need to save their money and not giving all to their children. The parents and children need to keep their own money. We children can help but we can’t work and take care of elderly too. We do the best we can but we can’t take care of our parents as living in Laos. Parents also need to treat their daughters and sons equally. Don’t treat each children different but try equally. Children need to protect their children if unfairly by outsiders.
Niam tais aw!nrog neb tus siab thiab nrog khuv xim neb lub zog nkawm nkaus thiab ua cas yuav tsi muaj hmoov li , neb 4 tug tub diam los yuav mus yuav taus 4 tug Nyab dab tsi lo ua neeg lim hiam ,puas yog cov Nyab ntawm kawm ntawv tsi tag tsi yog neeg txawj ntse es thia los khoo neb plaub tug tub kom neb ua niam ua txiv kom neb muab neb cov nyiaj rau lawv mas neb thia yog niam pog txiv yawg zoo naj , koj cov lus hais tseg rau lawv ces txaus lawv ej lawm lauv!
Niam tais aw, kev Npam yeej muaj tiag! Yog koj muaj hmoo ces koj yuav pom lawv cov ua rau lawv. It's a circle of life what goes around will come around. Let karma take care of your kids, if you are lucky you get to watch karma take care of them.
Txhob tu siab mog tus me niam tsev koj menyuam ces lawv laus xwb lawv tsis loj cia txog lawv lawv mam paub, ntuj nyob qis qis lawm tsi ntev xwb npam lawm mog
Niam tais aw.. Yeej muaj ib txhia Leej niam Leej txiv hlub me nyuam tsis sib luag Tiag tiag kawg os... Es Yog yus tseem ua taus noj ces..yus mus nyob yus es thiaj kaj siab mas.. Es Txhob tos lawv ua yus noj os mog...
nej cov hmoob meka cas zoo li tej me nyuam pheej g txawj hlub tej laus li nej twb kawm txawj kawm ntse yuav tsum tau hlub npam tiag2 li os cov me nyuam
cas nej cov hmoob mes cas es cov nyab yuav tsis hlub niam thiab txiv li os lwm hnub lawv cov mam ua rau lawv os mog pab hlub neb kawgmog thov kom lwm tiam neb txhob ntsib lawv lawm mog
Txhob tu siab o niam tai aw yuav muaj ib hnub twg lawv yuav tau ke txom nyem lawv twb muaj ib cov lwm hnub lawv mam ua rau lawv mog tam si no lawv xav tia yuav tsi npam tsi ntev no lauv lawv pom txoj ke phem rau koj pab tub kis xwb mog
Avoid your parents’ tears at all costs if you can, especially your mom...bc what you did to your parents, your kids will do onto you 10x...☹️☹️
you probably dont care but if you're stoned like me during the covid times then you can watch all the new series on Instaflixxer. I've been watching with my gf lately =)
@Niko Creed Yup, have been watching on instaflixxer for since december myself :D
Unfortunately, this will be the future for so many of us that are raising children in the States. Love yourselves because this world is corrupted and love is growing cold.
Yes agreed!
Thai Her..you said it so well. And it will become more evident as time goes-it’s sad.
Nyab this time coj tub khiav cov tub xab maum nov is always whatever nyab say not just one I see all tub in this country is stupid
Nowadays, new generation be more like Mekas, so Mekas's way is better lawm. Children 18 move out, no more support from parents. Parents help as they want, when parents old ces tsev laus lawm xwb.
Hmong parents expect too much out of their children and do not love their children unconditionally. Hmong people have children as a form of “life insurance” only for when they’re old, and they think children owe them their lives.?My mother was old school like that, she was always unhappy because we couldn’t afford to give her money and gifts, even though she lived rent-free with us. We were never good enough for her.
My blood boils each time stories like this come along. Most Hmong elders need to learn not to value their sons so much. Love all your children the same, son or daughter. The parents in this story place all their hope on their little boys who let their wives run their lives. They don’t even love their parents. They treat their daughters like outsiders, but it’s the daughters that took them out to get their place. Sons will never do such a thing without their wife’s approval. Hmong elders, please learn to be independent and stop counting on your kids because you’ll end up disappointed.
Many daughters forgot to treat their inlaws the same way they would their parents. J/S cause like you said the wife runs the family.
Most of the issues are bcuz of the daughter-in-laws. Think about it, if it wasn't the daughter-in-laws, this kind of issue will not happen. If the daughter-in-laws are to look at your in-laws as your own father and mother, none of this will ever happen. In this case, the sons have no balls. Mloog tus niam hais cov nyab tej lus haus zaj dab neeg no xwb, twb pab txaj muag dhau lawm.
In this country, child support is almost always on the women side. Thus, if the husband doesn't go with the wife's, she would divorce him and make him pay child support. Paying child support is very expensive that you end up having only your own two balls and sleeping on someone's couch. Back in Laos, women couldn't run the family, but in the US they are the boss.
You're absolutely right! Elders that came from Laos are almost gone. Girls have been neglected ever since we can remember. Hopefully that mentality/culture will change. But all fairness, daught-in-laws are at fault as much too. If they could love their in-laws like their biological parents then there won't be any drama.
Agreed!
Lub ntuj nyob qes2 li lawm txhob tu siab.nyuj ua nyuj ris need ua nees thauj xwb os.
I understand some people don’t believe the elders but I am telling you, most of these stories are very true. Is sad that more and more human beings are treating their parents like this and then they don’t even feel bad or see their wrongs. Similar situation is already happening right now to my own mom. I really hope Karma is real so their kids can do the same to them later too.
Childrens are raise in the U.S at like Amika
They think they are Amika and not Asian anymore and don't care about the culture😭. Sad but true!
Don't expect them to take care of you. Don't love them to much and give them everything. Kick them out when they are adults...
At the end is only you and your love one.
Meniuam siab phej yua ba xwb li...👿
@@solomoua5520 not just in US. We have people from Laos doing it too. I’m sure there are some in Thailand too.
We as parents in these day in age, don’t expect the love from your children 100%. Don’t expect that they’ll take care of you when you’re old. Because, at the end of the day, when they don’t, you’ll be disappointed. The most important thing as parents right now is: 1. Love yourself. 2. Love your spouse. 3. If you have children, boy or girl, love them equally.
I can’t even listen to this story! It’s so typical of Hmong parents! When will this change!??? My own parents are guilty of this. Their Golden son is a homeless bum who is 35 and is not married or have a stable job. He lives with random people and moves around when people are sick of him. But noooo he can’t do no wrong in their eyes. On the other hand, my sisters and I are doing well in life and can take care of ourselves but we are only girls. 🙄
Your parents enabled him.
Yeap! I hear ya. That’s how it is in my family too. My parents have a golden son. He’s also in his 30’s, unmarried and uses my parents money. My mom has always voiced to people my sons are my life and that they will do anything to help them including bailing them out of jail. I just roll my eyes when I hear her talk.
Yep, I have 6 siblings and they don’t want to do anything for my parents. I live 45 minutes away and I still have to go over to do things for my parents when my siblings live with them. This is why I only have 2 kids. Less expenses and expectations. A lesson for all Hmong people to have less kids, love your kids equally, and don’t have any expectation for the sons.
Have as many kids as you want but don't expect any of them to love you when you are old. Just leave them be. If they want you, stay with them. If they don't, leave. Your sons and daughters will always choose their partners over you. It's sad, but it's true.
Kwv tim koj has yeej yog rua cov hlua nub nua ma, tab si koj ncu ntsoov ta peb cov laug kw tsi txawj ntaub tsi txawj ntawv thaum yaav laug puab yuav paab tsi tau puab tug kheej, yuav yug kuam tau 3, 4 tug es txawm ta ib tug tsi hlub lo tej zag yuav muaj ib tug hlub es txha yug cob2, cov laug txuj kev xaav yog tu tub tu kiv yog coj lug hlub ob tug rua thaum yaav ob tug laug, yog tsi xaav le ntawm ce ob tug 6 tug miv nyua nuav tub tsi tau lug ua neej nyob huv lub nplaj teb nuav.
In our generation as long as they don't come back and live off us, that's good enough. I can understand the older generation but my generation, I like my freedom and space. I can't imagine living in a household full of grown kids and it's not my desire to take care of grandkids like the older generation does. Not my dream.
@@xaavsimkhaab214 Hlub yug tug kheej. Txhob tog lwm tug hlub yug. Thaum koj ca sab dhlau rua koj cov mivnyuas, txug thaum kawg puab tsis hlub koj tes koj yuav tu sab heev. Yug ca sab rua yug tug kheej xwb, thaum puab tsis hlub lawm los yug ua tau ib sab. Teb chaws nuav muaj tsev laug ntau ntau lawm. Peb hmoob lub generation zag nuav tes kawg moog nyob tsev laug lawm xwb. Yug ua tag los yug tej mivnyuas yuav sib nrauj hab tes xum ca puab muaj ib lub neej. Yug laug lawm, le caag los yug yuav tsis kaav yug tej mivnyuas.
No body is perfect parent, but we have to appreciate them. They rise us, we should love them and respect. I think they deserve it.
Agreed 💯
Yes, we should respect then no matter what, because they are our parents. Parents or in-laws
I strongly agree , they raise us, the least we can do for them is love,and care for them when they're old cant care for themself. ..but always remember whatever goes around will be coming back to them too,,its karma people...it is real.....
Koj Hai Tau tu siab heev li os niam lau
It is very sad because this is the exact same story for my old vulnerable parents. It's so funny, the sons get the most support but they still think the parents love the daughters more. I have listened to too many of May's story of the old parents getting cheated and abused by their children and it hurts because I can relate. I always do my best for my parents because right now is the time that they matter, not when after they already pass. I could not bare not being able to run to my parents in my darkest days when they are no longer here. I'm so afraid that ill be a lost child in this big world without them.
I'm sure my siblings will see my post, but who cares. I'm doing my part the best I can and I don't care how some of you may think of me. I know I'm not perfect but the true fact is I know I have not taken them for granted, cheated or abused them.
hmong people need to start teaching their daughters how to love and respect elders not just from their side but their husband side too.
Agree
You said that but mostly no matter how you teach them when them go marry they only love them mom and them dad they never care about them husband mom and dad I see 99% in USA here happened always
I’m sorry but u can’t love ur Inlaw’s 100% compared to ur own parents
@@yilengyang3325 That's so true. Doesn't matter how you raise them. At the end of the day they'll decide for themselves. It's really sad to hear these stories, but we should learn from this. Do not expect your children to take care of you, it's simple as that. Not all your children can ever love you back the way you love them.
@@suesue242 is not for 100% like you said but at least not controlled your husband to do like you say if not do like what you say than divorce I saw a lots like that now not just one I’m seriously that’s why I’m said that but if you don’t like that is ok but I’m just said like what I see here in USA I see all my uncle and anti they are not bad they are very good to them but no matter what all them kids wife don’t love them just so sad I see on my own eyes and this story just so sad
These kids are freaken greedy and feel their parents are obligated and they are entitled!
Education doesn't make you smart. It only determines your dedication to complete a degree.
I hope these sons and their wives heard it because what go around come around and their kids will treat them the same ways. Eventually they will repeat.
Agree very true
Wow, the parents must have been very selfish for their kids to be this selfish. I don't understand why these grown a$$ adult kids are still milking their elderly parents of the small $$ they get from the government. Go make your own money and geez be the bigger people and stop abusing the elders.
True! The parents must of taught them to be selfish to have raised such ignorant and selfish kids. They've created their own monsters.
Right and thought she said they all have college degrees.
@@roseanimetor8157 they probably have college degrees but not very smart.
Not true, I know someone like this. The parents probably spoiled them rotten when they were younger. Some people are just selfish in general.
Omg who do these kids think they are? Highly educated but treats parents like this? I guess you really can’t teach compassion. Your education should be able to help you get a job where you don’t have to take from your parents. How shameful.
These fucking sons karma will get them
hais tau tu tu siab tiagtiag.li o
Xav paub seb tsev neeg no nyob qhov twg ua cas yuav mus txawj phem ua luaj li. 4 yawg tub dev no yuav tsis yog txiv neej yawg li. Yog dev yawg xwb
Yog kawg xav paub thiab . Tsam lawv cov tub lam ncaj peb cov xeeb ntxwv thiab os.
😭😭😭😭@the dad's recorded message. My heart is so brokened! These kids will face tremendous karma.
Koj zaj dab neeg no zoo heev li nawb pab tu siab heev nawb mog ua tsaug nawb
Me tub aw koj menyusm ces yuav npam tiag tsis dag
Hmoob mas feem ntau yeej hlub lawv cov tub tshaj peb cov ntxhais
Ua li Mekas xwb, txhob yug coob2 thiab txhob vam leej twg hlub yus li, es yog leej twg ho txawj xav es ho hlub yus los kuj zoo siab xwb hos tsis txawj xav tsis hlub los txhob tu siab
Ca yuav tus siab ua luaj li os 😭😭😭😭
Tus me niam tais aw! Txhob tu2 siab mog! Lwm Hnub lawv cov mam ua rau lawv nawj... mas lawv mam quaj lawv nawj mog!
Me niam tais kuv yog ib leeg tub uas hlub tsis taus tej laus ib yam koj cov tub thiab. Tab sis qhov tseeb peb yeej hlub nej cov laus kawg tab sis vim peb pheej swb rau cov niag nyab qhov niag nruab nrab tsam tsaus ntuj es lawv ua ceg tawvๆ es thiaj tau ua tej yam rau tej laus tu siab heev li.koj tus tublos yog koj tus nyab lub tswv yim xwb mog niam tais aw. Txhob tu siab os
Cas yuav txaus hlub ua luaj yug ib pab los txhawj2 os vim peb ua neej tsis pom tom ntej
Tu siab kawg li os zaj no
Cov Tub na cuab nej cov qhov ntsej los mloog tej zaj no nawb
This is such a sad story. My mommy life is similar to this. She died from a broken heart 😢😭😢😭
Cas tu siab ua luaj li os me niam laus awd
nim los2 kuas muag nrog koj lub neej tu siab
Tus niam ntsuab teev cas zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj moog kj hais li no tag ces peb twb cuab txhawj peb cov me nyuam tom ntej lm thiab.
Cov hmoob es pheej hlub2 tub os. Mloog thiab kawm nawb vim peb tsis paub zoov yuav ntsuab tog twg leej twg thiaj yog tus hlub peb.
I don't know, but i always believe that yog tej laus txawj coj, the kids will behave good too. Sure, maybe there will always be one or two that will always be bad, but not all of them. If all of them turned against you, then that must mean u as the parent did something wrong. It always begins with the parents first. I'm not justifying the kids' horrible behaviors thought.
It doesn’t matter the kids have no right to mistreat their parents like this! They will get their karma soon enough.
Cov menyuam uas phem li no Yog cov menyuam uas tsis Muaj siab Muaj ntswv.
Vuag cas txaus tu siab ua luaj li o 😓😥
Pab koj tus siab o hmoob tus leej niam.
Sometimes kids are like this because of the parent’s fault.
Why u say that was the parent s fault 1 day u will know
Dont blam parents,,,look at yourself how much you love your children,thats how much your parent loves you....it the children that ars stupid....
This one should be titled, "Cia nej cov mam ua rau nej li nej ua rau wb" 👍
Niam pog hais niam pog zaj tag ....cia nyab thiab tub ho tham nkawv zaj thiab oh .. yog vim dab g tias
Niam Tais txhob tu siab o lawv tseem tshuav lawv cov thiab muaj ib hnub yuav Yog lawv thib o
There’s always the nyabs side of the story too. But regardless you must love your parents even if they didn’t love you
I don't know if there's justification for treating your parents this badly. Probably just excuses and selfish reasons as this Niam tias mentioned- blaming them for loving another child more when it's probably their own twisted perspective.
$300 out of your in laws disability/ssi check. There’s no side to that, just pure evil. Regardless if I’m upset at my in laws or parents, to be cruel is not an option.
The nyab side is pretty much just bull shit, remember u have parents too...would u like it if ur brother did the same to ur parents. I've seen it my my own eyes.
Cov nyab zoo li cov no mam npam tiag tiag
Niam tais!! Koj zaj dab neeg tu siab kawg li os!! Thov kom lwm tiam neb tau ib cov zoo tub nyab los hlub neb nawb mog, kuv ntseeg hais tias cov tub nyab zoo zoo yeej tseem muaj kawg, lwm tiam neb yeej yuav tau lub chaw Nyob kaj siab lug mus txog hnub laus laus tsis muaj kev tu siab li tiam nov os ! Mog !! Vim kuv muaj kuv niam pog kuv hlub nws kawg tab sis nws tau ib tug mob es mob sai sai xwb tau ncaim peb mus tau 1 xyoo ntau no xav txog nws kuv lub kua muag nco tseem ntws tawm los vim tseem niaj hnub tos nws os mog
Tu siab kawg. Cov mi zoo phooj ywg kom peb sawv daws Nco ntsoov tias peb cov ua mi tub mi nyuam yeej ris tsis tau peb niam peb txiv lub kua muag os
Cov laug lub kuas muag muaj nuj nqe heev peb yog me tub me nyuam peb nri tsi taug niam tsiv lub kuas muag os peb ua neej nyob peb yeej yuav tsawj laug ib nub xwb 2 le os mog thov tsi tshob cia cov laug lub kuas muas poob vim yog peb os
Yus niam yus txiv yug tau yus es hlub g tau ces yeej muaj ib hnub lub neej yuav raws li ntawv thiab o yuav tsum hlub2 cov laus thiaj li muaj hmoo khwv noj khwv haus o
I wanna hear the nyab side.
txhob tu siab mog lawv cov mam ua rau lawv os mog
This is a sad story... My mom life is similar... But my dad died 31 years ago when I'm 8years... So sad poor mom
Some old people are really bad too. They complained about everything. There are two sides to a story. I live with a mother in law. I know how difficult it is. It's best they live by themselves.
Pab koj tu siab os me niam tias. Txawm koj cov tub tsis hlub koj los tseem tshuav Vaj tswv Yawm saub thiab os
Ua tsaug leej niam siab zoo cas ib sim neej kuv tsis muaj niam cas koj tsis yog kv niam os
Pab koj tu siab kawg os tus niam aw koj cov tub thiab nyab no ces tsis tas foom los yeej tsim nyog npam kawg li lawm os.
Cov menyuam nos ruam txog qov noj tsua los twb tuag tsi taus lawm.
Yus cov tub yus yug lawv yeej hlub yus tas si yog cov nyab los sab rau los lawv tsis nyiam, tsis hlub yus ces cov tub yuav tau ua li cov nyab hais... tu siab ua luaj😭😭😭
Hmong elderly, we are in this "I, me, my" society. We have to realize that we are not in Kansas [Laos] anymore. A lot of us are in the same boat. We came from poverty and fought hard, so our children could have a better life, but these spoiled brats would not appreciated it. To me, my job is to raise them until they are 18 or help them to get a degree: AA, BA, ... And set them off on their own. I will not expect much from them, but focus on myself and my spouse only. Maybe spoil some grandkids, too.
Koj cov tub mas tsis tsim nyob neb lub zog khwv ua kab ua noog cawm li tiag lau. Nrog koj tu siab heev li os niam laus.
Koj cov nyab no khij xuaj heev nawb !!!!!@
My two cents into this story: children should not be obliged to love/care for their parents. Some parents wants eternal gratefullness. It's price that has no end. Parents should not be obliged to give their money to grown children. That's why they have jobs to provide for their family.
Cov neeg zoo li no txhob tu siab mog lawv ua rau koj los muaj ib hnub yuav taug koj txoj kev thiab mog
Khaws yus tej nyiaj rau yus tugkheej es txhob maj maj faib rau luag siv..
Kuv yeej pom peb cov laus hmoob, Mas yeej muab tej hluas hlub rau txoj kev yuam kev yuav luag txhua yim, Hlub laus nkoos, Hlub nris nuj nris nqi thaum lawv twb dhau 18.
Peb xyaum txawj faib nqi them kom sib npaug zos, Es lub neej thiaj tsis lwjsiab..
Tej lus yeej ib txwm muaj hais tias koj cog dab tsi hnub no koj yuav tau sau yam ntawv lwm hnub. Txoj kev uas koj tsim lus tus lub siab, lwm hnub koj yuav tau sau yam ntawv. “ you reap what you sow”
Yes, Hmong parents need to live independently from their children. They need to save their money and not giving all to their children. The parents and children need to keep their own money. We children can help but we can’t work and take care of elderly too. We do the best we can but we can’t take care of our parents as living in Laos. Parents also need to treat their daughters and sons equally. Don’t treat each children different but try equally. Children need to protect their children if unfairly by outsiders.
Cas yuav luag txhua zaj leej neeg dab neeg mas cov tub nyab tsis hlub niam pog txiv yawg li...es cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os.
Let this be a lesson for us OG. Love yourself first.
It’s sad but it’s true..Hope for the best for you.My mom went through the same too..Karma will catch up one day...
Wow, twb hais tias cov minyuam kawm ntawv saib saib cas yuav tsis txawj hlub tej laug li.
Education teaches a person to do a job. Pain and suffering teach compassion.
yus twb tsis tshai tuag paus li thaum yus laus os lawm aws. tus siab heev li nawb. tsis tsim.nyog yug tes menyuam no li.
Oh god, it’s the new generation. That’s y there’s senior living homes! Old folks needs to change.
Hmong parent alway don't love their daughter they love the son the most
Niam tais aw!nrog neb tus siab thiab nrog khuv xim neb lub zog nkawm nkaus thiab ua cas yuav tsi muaj hmoov li , neb 4 tug tub diam los yuav mus yuav taus 4 tug Nyab dab tsi lo ua neeg lim hiam ,puas yog cov Nyab ntawm kawm ntawv tsi tag tsi yog neeg txawj ntse es thia los khoo neb plaub tug tub kom neb ua niam ua txiv kom neb muab neb cov nyiaj rau lawv mas neb thia yog niam pog txiv yawg zoo naj , koj cov lus hais tseg rau lawv ces txaus lawv ej lawm lauv!
Thov ua tsaug txawm kv txawb tsis tau koj ua muam los kv foom kom koj tuaj hais lus nrog peb nyob mus ntev nawb
Niam tais aw, kev Npam yeej muaj tiag! Yog koj muaj hmoo ces koj yuav pom lawv cov ua rau lawv. It's a circle of life what goes around will come around. Let karma take care of your kids, if you are lucky you get to watch karma take care of them.
Txhob tu siab mog tus me niam tsev koj menyuam ces lawv laus xwb lawv tsis loj cia txog lawv lawv mam paub, ntuj nyob qis qis lawm tsi ntev xwb npam lawm mog
😭😭😭😭😭
Cov me nyuam tsi paub xav ces tus siab heev txhob tu siab hlub lawv li yus hlub tau xwb
Niam tais aw.. Yeej muaj ib txhia Leej niam Leej txiv hlub me nyuam tsis sib luag
Tiag tiag kawg os... Es Yog yus tseem ua taus noj ces..yus mus nyob yus es thiaj kaj siab mas.. Es Txhob tos lawv ua yus noj os mog...
Heev neeg muaj heev tsim os cov tub nyab coj li no kev npam muaj sai sai os!!
muaj lub ntuj mog lub neej no tsoov tias muaj daim av thiab muaj lub ntuj nawb mog
Nej cov nyab heev tiag tuaj teb nej niam soj
Cas ua neeg nyob nim yug tau cev xwb yug tsis tau siab os
Pab tu siab kawg rau koj cov me nyuam
yog lawm og
Txhais vauv tsis tas yuav tuaj txeeb Li .
It’s a heart breaking story
nej cov hmoob meka cas zoo li tej me nyuam pheej g txawj hlub tej laus li nej twb kawm txawj kawm ntse yuav tsum tau hlub npam tiag2 li os cov me nyuam
cas nej cov hmoob mes cas es cov nyab yuav tsis hlub niam thiab txiv li os lwm hnub lawv cov mam ua rau lawv os mog pab hlub neb kawgmog thov kom lwm tiam neb txhob ntsib lawv lawm mog
Tus niam lau aw....kuv yug tsi tau ib tug li nim ntshaw ntshaw heev li mloog koj lub neej tag kuv tsi muaj lo tsi Tu siab lawm thiab os
Kuv nrog tus niam tsev no tu siab heev rau nws tus txiv thiab nws lub neej os. Kuv pom kuv cov neeg twb ua li no rau lawv cov niam txiv thiab os. Qhov tseem tias ces tsis txhob muaj me nyuam coob2 xwb os. Lawv yeej tsis hlub cov laus tiag tiag li nawb.😭😭💔💔💔💔
Education doesn’t equal common sense. A bunch of Spoiled ungrateful & greedy adult brats! Such a sad story.
Txhob tu siab o niam tai aw yuav muaj ib hnub twg lawv yuav tau ke txom nyem lawv twb muaj ib cov lwm hnub lawv mam ua rau lawv mog tam si no lawv xav tia yuav tsi npam tsi ntev no lauv lawv pom txoj ke phem rau koj pab tub kis xwb mog
Niam tais koj cov tub no tseem txom txom nyem tseem ntsaw ntsaw nyiaj thiaj ua li no rau koj. Ib hnub twg lawv yeej yuav paub koj txoj kev quaj xwb
Nej ce kawg npam li lawm os nej niam nej txiv cov kua muag nej yuav ev tsi taus lawm nawb
Ua ca ha tau tu siab ua lau lis os 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Me niam tsev aw.cas yuav yuav tsis tsim nyog xiam roj xiam ntshav los yug lawv kiag li os.
Sister may koj hais tau zoo mloog kawg lawm.hais rau tus niam tsev thiab txiv txiv hauv zaj neejneeg no txhob tusiab os hlub neb tuskheej xwb zoo lawm.hos hais txog tej tub tej txhais ces tsis tas yus yuav hais lawm os nyias loj nyias tas lawm txoj kev lawv ua ntawd tsis yog rau neb 2 niag laus os lawv rov ua rau lawv xwb.lawv twb yug muaj lawm lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag kawg lawv yeej dhia tsis dhau lawv txoj kev lawv yuav hlub yuav tsim neb npaum cas los lwm hnub txog lawv lub caij ces lub ntuj mam.faib kev rau lawv xwb os nawb.
The son is right hmong grand parents are very mouthy they should know they’re old and know their place
Txheej neeg tshiab no yuav tsis txawj laus, tsis txawj qiasneeg, tsis txawj tuag!
Tuag lauj zaum no