Full Episode- Cooper Vs. Bowie: Attitude Adjustment
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- Christie says her boyfriend’s angry outbursts and inability to keep a steady job has caused tension in the relationship. She says if he can’t be a better man for her or their child, the relationship is over. James says Christie’s incessant nitpicking and bad attitude is the main reason he can’t control his anger and believes he won’t be able to change until Christie does first. Can Judge Faith remedy this relationship’s issues and help these two find peace?
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Before I used to be afraid of being alone, now I'm afraid of having the wrong people as company.
Being alone is so sad I been alone to years but I found da right guy n I cant eva imagine being alone again i smile I blush my days r more exciting i get all cute fo him its just a warmer feelin if he is da right guy
THIS‼️🙌🏾
Exactly... Rather be selective on who I allow in my world and personal space. Do they deserve to be in my presence?
Yes!
That sounds exactly like my situation, I used to be so afraid of being single because all my other friends are in relationships and guess what happened and now I’m healing from a life of crappy relationships and now I absolutely love being on my own and I’m very very very very very hesitant about any new person coming into my life until I get to know them. This type of crap can really change things and change perspectives, I don’t wish it on anyone but it’s a lot of learning and if you’re willing to learn then there’s a lot to gain.
Mr. Bowie is 2 seconds away from being physically abusive
Exactly‼
Uhm👀yeah
1000000% agree.
@@youmakemelaugh1797 hello beautiful
Oh honey after having a woman tell him about himself (Judge Faith) that’s aired on multiple national platforms he’s DEFINITELY about to start some mess if he hasn’t already
i’m glad the judge called him what he is: ABUSIVE! plain & simple
This lady in the lion den playing with the lion. Everyone telling her to leave but she can't.
You can see her thinking about it after the judge made it a point
@@sherrodmacs3472 exactly
He’s literally a walking Red Flag 🚩 who needs a complete psychiatric evaluation. I hope she starts to recognize her worth, love herself and her baby enough to walk away ASAP!
If you leave me in the streets alone at midnight, I'm leaving you.
Period.
You a bot tho, you don’t even exist. Lol
You are dead to me after that
i know this right dont you come back for me i call the cops on your a--
Periodt!!! With a T
Did he mumble "You wouldn't have been embarrassed if you would've paid for the gas."? Sorry SOB.
Absolutely rediculous!!
Yes he did....oh God protect our children
I knew then his mind wasnt no good. He already knew she didnt have no money! Sad
I knew I wasn’t losing my damn mind ! 😌😌
Yes tf he did
When a person show you who they are the 1st time, BELIEVE IT.
Hell yeah
Yea but everyome needs someone im bipolar n its really hard to function i cant talk to peaple im always switching i snap teal quick everyone is afraid be around mi its lonly but I meet a guy n I try hiding it for month den one day boom he saw my true color bit 6 months. Later we are doin better den eva cuz he realize far from that im still a person n i love him n I'm gettin better with his help n my meds so yes he trippin but its real n ahe needs to help him n stand by him
Right! I am still working on that. I tend to try to see the good in everybody, probably not the best thing especially when dealing with men.
Yep
He has some sinister underlinings.. seems like he could cause extreme physical damage if he trips. She's not safe with him
He is controlling
@@tyshanwright1890 he could take that controlling to a new level because he is playing to many psychological games to mould her that's dangerous.
You can feel his fury.
@@tatucorreia yeah he definitely seems like the type to be on an episode of snapped
This is just what you believe about men with any emotion besides admiration. An angry man doesn't mean a physically violent man. This is just regurgitation of the narrative at this point
He's using the injury in the past as an excuse to be abusive in the relationship. He's not going to change anytime soon. He's saying what sounds good to keep her around.
I think he's still upset that the dentist caused him to lose his chances as a running back. He's mad with the world.
He's blaming the dentist too saying it's his fault bacteria in his blood stream. That's his own fault for not flossing and brushing. This can happen to anyone during a deep cleaning freak incident but it happens.
@@carissaflores1173 let that be you and you wouldnt be saying that bull shit
@@carissaflores1173 You're and idiot! Something that traumatic that happened in his life and no adult in his life made it a point to get him the help that he clearly needed at that time.
How do you know when you're in the wrong relationship
I'm 3 minutes into this episode and I'm already creeped out by this man. There's something seriously frightening about him.
Yes. His demeanor is unsettling.
im glad it wasn't just me feeling this way. My heart was starting to beat fast. He reminded me of my abusive ex
He has a spirit on him.
He given off Norman bates vibes
My Narc radar started going off five minutes in lol🙄
If you find yourself in the wrong relationship, just leave.
Sometimes people believe that their spouse could change
Unfortunately, physical abuse is the threshold in which many women decide is crossing THE line, but there's also mental, emotional, and financial abuse that people have no idea they're even a part of. Abuse is abuse.
True
As you can see, that's easier said than done
Amen
Idk, he seems like a straight up narcissist to me. Everyone else is the problem, and he is the victim in his eyes.
I was thinking the exact same thing. He's living in the past and hating on the world because of the incident from when he was younger. He believes he was full of potential and that that stroke ruined his life so now he's taking it out on everyone else. He either needs to get some serious help or stay away from everyone else.
Omg my I know them hve to deal with one for 15 more years smh
Exactly, I’m not buying this stroke sob story
Spot on! I see narcissism all over him
@@americanalien6411 Right no not at all????!? HOW many people that have strokes just "suddenly" turn THIS angry, foul and vindictive?? That's not a side effect from strokes ffs. Nah dude das YOU. Also, he better stop with that damn victim blaming. "Well, if only she didn't stand right in front of the gun I held up to her face, pushed back into a corner, she wouldn't have been shot" is basically his "reasoning". It's absolutely disgusting and terrifying. His eye rolls, snarky comments, carelessness, "poor me"-thing and all says more than enough about him. Straight up narcissist, if not even a sociopath. Wouldn't surprise me.
It's crazy how people will literally make their kids witness toxic and ugly personalities just for some sex. Why would you even have kid with someone who isn't an outstanding example of a mother/father. Honestly it's pathetic at this point.
Some dude with sense don't have a chance. Some crazed don't give a fuck type they in love with and popping babies out in no time.
He has no intention to change
Sis run!
Both Jails & Cemeteries are full of ANGRY PEOPLE GET HELP ASAP!!!! 😠💯
He's in neither places, that's how you know he full of 💩
@@knggullah8079 😀😀
and the government 😂🤣👍🏾
They full of women like her too. She need to bounce to another state cause dude her can flip.
No accountability for his actions, he is scary. I worry about their daughter.
The anger thing is scary for her and their child. I would hate for him to harm her and their child out of anger.
She seems annoying and nagging....That the wrong way to be in the lions den.
@@sherrodmacs3472 I agree, this guy does have his issues, but I don't think she is as innocent as she made it seem.
@@ej6901 Miss Cooper replied to me when I showed how she picks at him and it takes two then she made excuse and later called me negative and blocked me.
@xXaRIANa HilTONxX He admits he has anger issues. He said she pushes his button. We all can tell it way more than just her. She just the next one in line. Sometimes as apotential victim you got to back up shut up and go take a walk. His last girlfriend gave the warning.. This lady Miss Chrissy she up in the lions den with the lion. Now they have a baby. He do need help and she need to back out until he can address it. They broke so she stuck. She tying to make it work cause she want the family and cares about him. When you in the lions den remember it is a lion.
He’s blaming her for all his failures!!!! I hope she steps 🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
Facts!!! Smh that's all on him and he didn't want help clearly
Judge Faith is good but Judge Lynn Toler would have read him to FILTH!!!!! and I would have loved every second.
Judge Lynn would focus more on the lady and tell her the real deal If you was my daughter ....and run don't look back
I miss judge lynn
She would have called him for the scum he is. She would have reminded him he is tearing down our community when he should be raising up his daughter. Instead he is tearing at the child's foundation, her mother. I would hope she throws him out and give that girl the help she needs and the encouragement she deserves with a follow up. This was so scary to watch.
I doubt it. Judge lynn would have been More tactful and her response then judge faith . this man isn’t a raging narcissist or something. He has an actual medical condition which I doubt anybody here including me could understand unless we were in his shoes, but he really need to get help.
@@crimsonskies7633 the accuracy of this statement made me feel like Judge Toler was behind this comment
Clearly the judge wants him to get help more than he does.
He definitely need help. They both need help.
Tbh he needs too she jus need to take her daughter and leave before he really actually hurt them
That baby gave me feels. I had to pause and stare at her gorgeous little self.
She is darling. 💖
shes so pretty
He mad about his past he's still that 14 year old kid that didn't get the chance to be a running back. Stroke patients do have emotional issues but he's just an angry man/kid.
Judge Faith is a lovely person… she’s gracious and caring and even respectful to those whom we may feel are not worthy of respect… that’s grace!!
But get her on the other side and she will let you have it!! She’s not a push over!! Don’t let’s underestimate Judge Faith!
That dude is a jerk. She deserves better
Yet she chooses to stay
@@aimichiko2378 she has a child, its not easy.
They both jerks.
@@Livelaughcarti she chosed to had a baby by a man like this. Now she is putting her child in danger. Smh its not about her anymore but the child. What if he flips and harm them? Woman need to use common sense
@@sherrodmacs3472 - You coming for her awfully hard in all the comments, you must be the boyfriend. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
Where her mama at? Aint no way in hell. The fact that she didn't leave him after the first incident speak volumes about who she is and her own trauma.
women with solid men in their lives do not go through this
Right? Doesn’t seem like she has any social support around her at all. He would never have seen me again after that first time he put me out the car.
More than likely she doesn't have family support. People will mistreat you when they find out you have no support
Faith kept her composure because that mmm hmm every time something was said to him was ticking me off 😂😂😂
I wish they saw judge Mathis. Woulda straightened his ass up quick and talked to her in his chambers to leave.
@@JESS-di1fm then don’t watch
The baby is gorgeous 🥰🥰
Baby do look nice...
That baby is absolutely beautiful, so adorable and chocolate awww baby fever💖💐💖
She’s average
❤
Red flags are going off like whistles.
Not just a red flag, he's a walking fire
So he has anger issues that may stem from a physiological issue, but won’t see a professional about it? He needs to just go on and be by himself then.
The Judge was right. If the ex reaches out to you in a non confrontational way trying to warn you and her past experience with him matches your current experiences with him why are you still trying to make it work? He has shown you who he is, believe him! Everybody can't be lying smh. The Judge dont know ya'll from a can a paint and she could immediately see that something isn't right with him. Keep on hoping he will change. As long as you keep making excuses for him and his behaviors and keep going back, he won't. Why should he 🤷🏾♀️ Any time he can stand there & be blatantly disrespectful to the Judge when she trying to help, no telling what your homelife is like. Very narcissistic behaviors smh. You don't deserve that, nobody does.
I agree. Unfortunately we may see this case on Fatal Attraction
She is very pretty love her hair
Yes she is. I was looking for this comment.
But Judge Faith is having a bad hair day.
No fr😍
He is totally ignoring and disrespecting Judge Faith.
JUAN EARN YOUR DAMN PAYCHECK!!!! 😠💯
I'd say the opposite. She was ignoring and disrespecting him. Continuously interrupting, repeating things he said he already understood. That's patronizing.
Who wants to respect a Judge that is not respectful?
The judge isn't disrespectful, she not trying to hear bs excuses...
@@shawndyer7860 The thing is, none of it sounded like BS but he kept getting cut off. I'm not saying he did the right things. But I am saying that he had a valid point when he talked about his lady being inflammatory. If you can't escape a situation to calm down, it will boil over.
@@MarkerMurker exactly. She was too hung up on the anger outburst but not listening to him thats why he zoned out he didnt felt heard at all
Domestic Violence is real, becoming too common, and sadly gets ignored by too many people, in too many cases! This man will become physically abusive to this young lady very soon because he has all the language, demeanor, and dismissive justifications for his behavior. If there is someone close to this young lady, GET HER OUT, PLEASE!!!!!!
Domestic violence has ALWAYS been a thing, it was worse actually decades ago
@@Ty.S93 Exactly. Domestic violence was seen as normal and was even enacted in public and no one stopped it. Only recently has its being punished and scrutinized.
@@AnekoFoxx very true!!
You know he doing all that why are you still with him! Girl get your life with out him!!
I love how Judge Faith explained victim blaming
She has a two month old daughter by a man that has a traumatic past and is volatile an has frequent anger outbursts🤦🏾♂️
Those are excuses lmao
I have a traumatic past but I dont b getting so mad i drop my man off at a gas station lol
He's scary and doesn't recognize he needs help urgently. It's sad he had a stroke at 14 yrs old, but when you have a character change/anger issues stemming from it, do something about it instead blaming others.
@@kaysue3283 He had to kool off. As crazy as that sound he probably did the right thing.
@@sherrodmacs3472 lmao. The right thing for a man that is almost on the line of beating her. Sure. Yea that's the better thing to do. But for a normal man. No leaving a prgo woman at a gas station is the wrong thing to do. Lol
If you know you have personality disorders, or trauma that makes you act a certain way, please seek help before getting into a relationship! We know it's hard but you shouldn't let it affect everyone else
She got $50 for pictures of her feet??? Let me go on and get this pedicure.
He’s so negative..his energy is so heavy he makes me so uncomfortable and triggers my anxiety.. such an unlikable man and it’s so sad and disgusting to see such a good woman with such a bad person he is genuinely disgusting to me and in denial about his energy and anger
I feel sorry that she had a baby by him
She choosed to have a baby by him.
My spidy-senses were going off the whole time I was watching this. He looked like he was ready to pop off any second the entire time. I’m afraid for her and anyone around him. It’s only a matter of time before he loses it. I know crazy when I see it. You can tell he was pushing his anger down inside him and it’s only a matter of time before it’s released 10 Fold.
This episode triggered me so much. He seriously needs help and she needs to support him from a distance. I truly hope he gets the help he so desperately needs
People quick to judge him but with a traumatic brain injury it does affect you for the rest of your life. He need therapy and she also needs separate counseling so both learn how to manage this. She laughed a few times and thinks this is funny. It's very difficult for him to process his anger. Not making excuses for him. My father had a severe brain injury and it completely changed his personality. Our entire family went for help so that could understand and help each other.
Right Lydia I agree 100%
@Bella Donna exactly, he needs to be alone if he can’t control himself 🤷♀️
Exactly! He will struggle from the injury with his emotions the rest of his life. I pray he learns to recognize his triggers and cope better.
Okay… I hear you. I really do; however, TBI behavior manifests itself through all kinds of situations, not just this relationship. He denied any of these problems at the 10:25 mark. So, he needs to be by himself if he cannot or will not control his anger outbursts. Maybe he has IED/NOS or due to a medical condition.
@@ratedr6174right
Ms.Cooper RUN 🏃♀️
She aint running anywhere dont want to mess her feet up.
She is in the comments defending him.
Damn these types men make me sick
He puts his anger out on his girlfriend.
She’s a gorgeous woman and deserves so much better also her baby girl wow is she just beautiful I loved her little curls I pray this woman gets away from that abusive man.
This guy make every excuse in the book other than stating the fact that he needs to change.
He needs therapy and not all stroke survivors have anger issues. He using this as an excuse for his toxic behavior.
So we not gonna talk about how beautiful the girlfriend is 😍
This episode is giving very much ID CHANNEL Shenanigans 🔪 ⚰️ I’m scared and that’s not even my dude. She better leave and take that child with her & I mean go farrrrr, FARRR awayyyyyyy.
Very much ID teas
@@dominiquelee9535 LoL
I am in total agreement. She better run.or, she'll end up on an Discovery ID series.
You’re absolutely right
Go to another state. He going to blow a fuse.
She is really acting like some of us women who think we can "fix" people. She is too beautiful for that... she needs to know her worth.
If he left me at a gas station I would leave him and let him know how it feels
He is a waste man ,waste of time and energy, he is so childish he needs to grow up
His brain aint right he don't think straight. He need help.
Definitely not right
His ego is in the way of getting help.
Please leave him for your well being girl ❤️
He's just like my oldest daughter's dealings. I could look at him and tell that he had issues before the case got started off good. Hope he gets and receives the proper help before he injures someone. Good call Judge Faith.
Honeyyyyy, you better walk away. Before he does something out of his control. He has the potential to kill her and deep down he knows it. GET OUT!!!!
It's interesting you said "he knows it." I got the same vibe. Almost like it would be easy to him. Apathy scares me. It should be scary to more people
@@thefreequency After today he really know it. No more hiding it is out.
I'm so scared for her and that baby!
"It's too much, left me stranded at a gas station in the middle of nowhere"
But then stayed and has a baby by the same abusive, angry man 🙄🤔
She was already pregnant. Five months at that.
He's unstable & just NOT in the present
His life is not where he wants to be
Yes, so what, he is a grown up, he made choices.
Anyone who lets their moustache grow onto their lip like that is no good. 🤣 But in all seriousness, I really hope he gets help. And she needs to DISTANCE HERSELF from him until it happens, because she hasn't seen anything yet. God watch and protect them.
Strokes can affect behavior a lot too
GIRL ITS TIME TO LEAVE
Trauma and mental illness is not an excuse for being abusive and a SHITTY person ❤️✨
Does he has a understanding problem you wronged what's hard to understand that . If she marry this man she is sick. I will advise her to move away from as far as possible
She's beautiful and I love the turquoise hair 💙
She said he dropped his things got out of his car and yelled at her. I believe he beats on her. You don’t need to drop your things to scream at anyone. She definitely cleaned it up for him. I think she came on TV to expose him. She mentioned the ex warned him and that alone should give her reason to leave however she hasn’t and probably is afraid. His body language the whole time he’s wanting to spazz.
10:32 has the same energy as someone who is high and theres a surprise knocking at the door🤣
No man would have left me stranded at a gas station at midnight while pregnant and I'm still calling him my boyfriend afterwards. That behaviour is totally unacceptable and unjustifiable. What would he have done if something bad happened to her while she was left there? Then he did that a second time. That would never be me.
Miss Judge Lynn.
That man.... has deflected almost every question the judge has asked. Sir she asked have you seemed help that your significant others asked you to get and he talks about something else
He makes my skin crawl 😒 the narcissism is absolutely disgusting. The 1st thing he mentions is her withholding sex from him when theres an argument as if he's entitled to it.
Girl!! If you know what's good for you, you'll take your child and run!! Setup co-parenting and leave this dude alone!! Before one day he snaps and you may not make it to see your daughter grow up!!
Unfortunately he’s angry about not making it big in the NFL due to the dentist mishap. He didn’t have a Plan B and now is resentful towards everyone.
Excuses excuses You have to really want it
WOW!!!
True
If that was my sister and he put her out in the middle of nowhere me and him would have a problem
He seem so cantankerous...self absorbed...but she shouldn't do this but she shouldn't do that...man put the shut to the up...
"withhold sex"? seriously? You aren't obligated to her body
And they aren't married, he truly gas no right to expect sex.
This man has severe anger issues. I hope she stays away from him !
My husband would totally support me selling pictures of my feet. That’s easy money lol
He’s a bit different that’s how I’m gonna put it.
His only problem is not dealing with his trauma, anger issues and arrogance
Man I wish she would have went off on him a little bit harder if it was judge mathis are mrs Lynn he would have been headed to the door and crying this man is a bag of excuses for real.
There seems to be nothing appealing about this angry man. SHE needs therapy if this is better than being alone in her eyes.
I'm fearful that he's gonna try to hurt her😳
Abused people only abuse others when they haven't started healing
What's wrong with some of our younger brothers? who's leading them? I can't watch the rest of the show.
I have anger issues, I've lashed out with pent up anger. I have a record now because of my anger... I recognize myself in him before my wake up call. I started REALLY taking accountability and working on myself, not projecting blame but owning my emotions,, recognizing the triggers, being aware of my reactions, removing myself from situations/removing people from my life. He hasn't had a wakeup call yet. I hope when it happens, her and the baby aren't around. But he can change. He just has to become self aware
That is so scary to see somebody like him. And he has no remorse, whatsoever!!
When are you going to get rid of the scripts writer, if possible also get rid of the immature Judge Faith.
Yesssss
You gone learn something with Judge Faith💯
If a guy says let me call down. Let him calm down. If he physically distances himself, let him do so. These are signs that your interaction has forced him into an uncontrollable state. And that is him being mature enough to manage the worst case scenario.
The young lady is beautiful she has years ahead her to come he’s not worth the damage
I love Judge Faith and I am so glad to see Juan!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
This judgment is so one sided...The girl knows her man has anger issues, what’s she doing not to anger him?
Girlllllllllllllllllllllllllll Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!! You are dealing with an abuser!!!!!! Girl he screams Narcissist!!!!!
What was she waiting for a third time for him to put her out???
Him & the therapist finna argue 😂😂
If he is that kind of a person he doses not need to be in a relationship with anyone. He can be deadly.
How stupid this girl to have a kid with this guy...she knew what buttons to please. This guy deserves credit for trying to defuse a situation.
For real
He blames everyone for everything. My goodness!! Go get some help. He needs to talk to someone. He’s bitter and hurt and angry.