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  • Опубликовано: 7 дек 2022
  • The plaintiff says he moved in with the defendant two weeks after they began dating, and she even changed her last name to his on social media. He says he moved out after three months, but he’s suing for unreturned property and an illegal eviction. The defendant insists her ex moved in after two months but then kicked her door in. She’s countersuing for two unpaid loans, damaged property, and emotional distress.
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  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 Год назад +1186

    No one falls in love faster than a man with no place to live

  • @khorediathiam1976
    @khorediathiam1976 Год назад +691

    I’m weak. He really said she was moving too fast but moved in with her😭

  • @conniechoward
    @conniechoward Год назад +521

    If someone wants to move in with you within 30 days of knowing you, they are homeless or on the verge of being homeless.

    • @vatricegeorge
      @vatricegeorge Год назад +1

      Or in the military, do not want to stay in the barracks and willing to use their baq to pay the ladies rent. Living in a military town I've seen this so much. I find it crazy not knowing the men well but I know folks who do it and marry them in a few months.

    • @theghettocinderella
      @theghettocinderella Год назад +15

      & on top of that she knew he was living with a female ALREADY during their talking stage…she ignored the red flags smh

    • @floridagirl386
      @floridagirl386 Год назад +3

      @@vatricegeorge baq?

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Год назад

      The other woman is stupid????

    • @antoinette1985lynn
      @antoinette1985lynn Год назад +12

      Yup once they start to realize the woman they are with is getting tired of him he starts looking for a new victim and keeps going thru the same cycle
      He probably has about 9 women a year

  • @filmtressmu8552
    @filmtressmu8552 Год назад +921

    He tells the judge, "We moved in together." WRONG, he moved into her place. I love how we as women learn how 'Scrubs' operate by watching these court shows. She is correct, "He IS a bum that uses women." Now, on top of all that misery and using her, he gets $2000 dollars. I'm taking notes. Never move a desperate man into my home.

    • @urnotfromvictimville2543
      @urnotfromvictimville2543 Год назад +69

      I'ma dude and can't agree with you more

    • @brennenjones6658
      @brennenjones6658 Год назад +56

      I agree with you wholeheartedly. Keep the hobosexuals away at all costs but where she messed up at was that she should have simply boxed his stuff up and had it ready by the front door.
      He pulls up, you put his stuff outside and keep it moving.
      Oftentimes emotions get the best of people in these situations when there was an easy resolution in the first place.

    • @SamuelsReview
      @SamuelsReview Год назад +28

      I'm learning ANY man, desperate or not. 😂

    • @melyndaduh3501
      @melyndaduh3501 Год назад +4

      @@SamuelsReview
      Good for you. 🤗

    • @queencharlibee1991
      @queencharlibee1991 Год назад +1

      She knew he was a bum when he moved in, don't talk about him now that yall separated. U knew he was a bum when he was in ya guts and in ya fridge, knock it tf off lady.

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 Год назад +874

    When people repeat back a question you just asked them, they are buying time to think of a lie 🤥 😂

    • @dannykchanell_
      @dannykchanell_ Год назад +17

      Yupppppppp

    • @90sbaby4lyfe7
      @90sbaby4lyfe7 Год назад +8

      That part👌🤣🤣

    • @lareinanueva
      @lareinanueva Год назад +7

      🎯

    • @autumnrose4000
      @autumnrose4000 Год назад +15

      Yep, and Judge Mathis knows! He hates when they repeat the question!

    • @tunisiaruth
      @tunisiaruth Год назад +18

      And that's why I just give them a blank stare in return.... 🤥

  • @pharoh32
    @pharoh32 Год назад +612

    Women stop doing this it never works out in your favor.

  • @terry4161
    @terry4161 Год назад +763

    Never move in with a person that has never lived on their own and is over the age of 30.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Год назад +61

      Or never move in with anyone you’re not married to

    • @veronicastigger7947
      @veronicastigger7947 Год назад +17

      @@Proverbspsalms made that mistake but we are now married so it worked out for me 😁

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Год назад +15

      @@veronicastigger7947 sometimes it does. However, I’m confused as to if it was a mistake, but yet it worked out.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Год назад +15

      @@veronicastigger7947 Are you saying it worked out because you are now married or because he straightened up his act and became a provider?

    • @veronicastigger7947
      @veronicastigger7947 Год назад +6

      @@Proverbspsalms I meant we have our son before marriage sorry about the confusion

  • @MsYBBG
    @MsYBBG Год назад +262

    So he had no job, no place to live, and no vehicle. He moved in with her within two weeks and said SHE was moving too fast? Lol
    Boooooyyyyy the audacity.

    • @pharoh32
      @pharoh32 Год назад +20

      They both are crazy

    • @tj4970
      @tj4970 Год назад +11

      Ya when he said that I was like you moved in with HER🤷🏽‍♀️😂

    • @cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553
      @cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553 Год назад +23

      @@pharoh32 she's not crazy. She's vulnerable. There's a huge difference.

    • @bludiva27
      @bludiva27 Год назад +14

      After getting kicked out his last woman's house.

    • @pharoh32
      @pharoh32 Год назад +9

      @@cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553 she moved in a man she hardly knew into her home. Where I’m from that’s crazy behavior.

  • @tratrazy1633
    @tratrazy1633 Год назад +279

    I wish she would've went to Judge Judy he wouldn't have got shit.

    • @slimdeleon6732
      @slimdeleon6732 Год назад

      damn you salty? lol

    • @tratrazy1633
      @tratrazy1633 Год назад +21

      @@slimdeleon6732 Nah but yo m....... nevermind 🙄

    • @z3nkin
      @z3nkin Год назад +34

      @@tratrazy1633 These three trash bag carrying dusty will always protect their own.

    • @RiseofPhoenix
      @RiseofPhoenix Год назад +4

      @@tratrazy1633 😂😂😂

    • @healingheartsministry8602
      @healingheartsministry8602 Год назад

      But she didn't and she gave him the 2000 and continuously called and stalked him afterwards. I know for a fact she did.

  • @missbae_
    @missbae_ Год назад +272

    That dude don’t give a DAMN about that lady, not even as a friend smh

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Год назад +22

      He dnt give a damn ab his own life.

    • @trullypretti
      @trullypretti Год назад

      She don’t give a damn about her self

    • @aprillotts2781
      @aprillotts2781 Год назад +5

      He just needed somewhere to flounce his azz 🙄

  • @ceporah6233
    @ceporah6233 Год назад +474

    She gave a stranger a key to her house and her car 🤷🏽‍♀️ Idk why women do this. Hopefully this was a learning lesson for her.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Год назад +5

      Probably not

    • @King_Solomon215
      @King_Solomon215 Год назад +34

      She most likely didn't learn a thing. She lonely and desperate. The next fake knight in shining armor that comes along will probably use her the same. I pray she goes to counseling and heals from her trauma. It's making her make poor decisions in life

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Год назад +6

      @@King_Solomon215 exactly! They never learn. They just move onto the next.

    • @deejai1173
      @deejai1173 Год назад

      Desperate as hell

    • @jtracyrobinson
      @jtracyrobinson Год назад +13

      You know why women make decisions like this. She wanted a man or a piece of a man.

  • @dannykchanell_
    @dannykchanell_ Год назад +265

    HE DEFINITELY KICKED THAT WOMEN'S DOOR IN

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Год назад +7

      No proof at all 😂😂😂😂

    • @urluvizmyluv1999
      @urluvizmyluv1999 Год назад +1

      I think when he put his key in and saw the chain was on he probably rattled the door but he lived there and she had no business having the chain on from the inside. He still should be responsible for the repair.

    • @julianiwhite
      @julianiwhite Год назад +6

      Naw lol she lied about that. He had the key + she said the chain was on. We saw in the picture that chain was in pristine condition 😂 and from experience that’s not how it would look. The only thing that was messed up was a large wood chip.

    • @emonyahurtado9606
      @emonyahurtado9606 Год назад +2

      Yes he did...and he got all his belongings escorted with the police

    • @dionerhodes1308
      @dionerhodes1308 Год назад +1

      She shud of just put all his mess outside & been done with it. 4 some reason some ppl love drama. 🙄

  • @pache7216
    @pache7216 Год назад +142

    living off a woman driving her car, then have the nerve to complain about the relationship is moving too fast,,, she owns u playa!!!

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Год назад +4

      Well she allowed it. Now she gotta pay 2000 lol

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Год назад +1

      A dust 19 all I see😒

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Год назад +9

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 but so many women know the guy is dusty from the rip but still move him in. Then when it’s over they try to clown the guy but knew upfront what he was about from day 1

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Год назад +5

      @@deon3133 Believing they can help him get on his feet. Thinking all he needs is a good woman to lift him up. If women stop wanting to help it will save a lot of head and heart ache

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 Год назад +2

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 she so much of a good woman that when he was trying to get his stuff she wouldn’t let him.

  • @myraclez7612
    @myraclez7612 Год назад +231

    Can I sue for emotional distress after hearing this case?

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Год назад +215

    He definitely kicked that lady door in !! But did she really list HIM as her emergency contact? He can’t even depend on himself lol

    • @Valencia5_11
      @Valencia5_11 Год назад +15

      Right 😂😂😂😂 and with no car how the hell is he gonna get to the emergency 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @YAHsaves777
      @YAHsaves777 Год назад +16

      It’s sad she had no other support

    • @kiawilliams5541
      @kiawilliams5541 Год назад +5

      Yessss! This is the comment I've been waiting for😁. My thoughts exactly!

    • @krisredlee
      @krisredlee Год назад +6

      She really thought she found the one. I hope she recovered well.

    • @crystaljackson6366
      @crystaljackson6366 Год назад +4

      I feel so bad for her.

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 Год назад +301

    “We moved in together.” No sir, you were about to be put out and needed a place to stay so YOU moved in with her. How is she “moving too fast” but you had no issue coming to live with her after a few weeks? I’m glad JM called him on his nonsense

    • @MZSEQUOYA
      @MZSEQUOYA Год назад +21

      @MINA E. YASS! I knew JM was gonna go there with DUDE. JM can't stand no BUM ASS MAN, LIVING OFF WOMEN! He ALWAYS calls that BS out!

    • @ms.ashley999
      @ms.ashley999 Год назад +6

      Exactly this!

    • @Kemelya
      @Kemelya Год назад +4

      Right

    • @Thisismyhandle423
      @Thisismyhandle423 Год назад

      Translation: She was good enough for a place to stay and some sex here and there, but I’m not all that into her and she was trying to be exclusive

    • @bethanyyates1138
      @bethanyyates1138 9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 Год назад +93

    I wish someone would be borrowing my car and not bring it back when I say so.
    “Hello, police? I’d like to report a stolen vehicle.”

    • @Tatyana342
      @Tatyana342 Год назад +3

      I do the same thing 😂 "hello, 911"

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Год назад +1

      you cant have my car, money or hobosexual !!

    • @queenandcrown
      @queenandcrown Год назад +10

      This is why I don't loan my vehicle out

    • @Vannie3000
      @Vannie3000 Год назад

      😂😂😂

    • @bethanyyates1138
      @bethanyyates1138 9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @1234532785
    @1234532785 Год назад +144

    It's clear that he used this woman. I hope she finds self love soon.

    • @AkinolaWilliams
      @AkinolaWilliams Год назад

      He didn’t use her.

    • @kscott8479
      @kscott8479 Год назад +3

      @@AkinolaWilliams AND DID 🤣🤣

    • @AkinolaWilliams
      @AkinolaWilliams Год назад

      @@kscott8479 no he didn’t. She got sex out of him and also wanted to steal his name to use as a married woman. There is no greater betrayal than that

    • @vatricegeorge
      @vatricegeorge Год назад

      He did but she chose to date him. I'm sure men who are more suitable for her have pursued her, she's running around chasing a man she thinks looks good or got swag.

    • @tratrazy1633
      @tratrazy1633 Год назад +1

      She needs to love herself first.

  • @fwb1012
    @fwb1012 Год назад +85

    18 months she was building herself back up from an abusive relationship and then jump into another relationship with a BUM🤦🏾‍♀️ When will they learn?🙄

    • @mckinneymisses78
      @mckinneymisses78 Год назад +4

      Yeah because atp she should have just chilled and took it super slow..with anyone 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @fwb1012
      @fwb1012 Год назад +3

      @@mckinneymisses78 Yes she should have

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh Год назад +4

      I wish ppl weren’t afraid of being single. I always need 3-5 business years between relationships 🥴 u can have fun but stop having kids & “relationships” with everyone who comes along

    • @fwb1012
      @fwb1012 Год назад +3

      @@JM_HUh Yes!! They would learn so much about themselves if they just take some time to be alone.

    • @JM_HUh
      @JM_HUh Год назад +2

      @@fwb1012 exactly!! Ppl don’t even know what they want or who they are but expect others to 🥴

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 Год назад +214

    It is funny that the judge says that he can only grant judgments based on the law when he is biased on many occasions; he does not always grant judgments based on the law.

    • @labremoore
      @labremoore Год назад +24

      Don't you hate that? But yet we are still tuning in smh

    • @biggchill8176
      @biggchill8176 Год назад +10

      man you just told some truth

    • @biggchill8176
      @biggchill8176 Год назад +28

      @@labremoore i tune in for the crazy people and stories not because JM gives fair judgements

    • @elwin38
      @elwin38 Год назад +1

      @@biggchill8176 🤣🤣😆😆

    • @jasminej6281
      @jasminej6281 Год назад +21

      He judges based his emotions he was already annoyed with her and was short the whole time. Yes she’s slow but no need to be so worked up

  • @LeolaGlamour
    @LeolaGlamour Год назад +204

    I screamed when he admitted to being a couch bum 😂😭

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Год назад +19

      Just another begging dusty who acting like she need him😒😒

    • @desxo9089
      @desxo9089 Год назад +8

      rightttt talking abt he here and there🤣🤣🤣

    • @temdailey
      @temdailey Год назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @candyjones4499
      @candyjones4499 Год назад +2

      Yes i knew he was a hobosexual when he first walked in court

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Год назад +2

      @@candyjones4499 he does emote the hobo Vibe

  • @Bloombaby99
    @Bloombaby99 Год назад +40

    The men in our community are so lucky to have women so willing to take care of them like children but let them tell it, their lives are so hard....😂

    • @timothyjacob6381
      @timothyjacob6381 5 месяцев назад +1

      Graduated college, grad school, pharmacy school and have been a practicing professional for 18 years making 205K last year. And, so do many of the black men in my circle. Perhaps you meet what you attract and by your comments filled with generalizations, perhaps the only men you attract are these said “children/men” as good black men like me and millions of others want nothing to do with the likes of you. Okie dokie. Think that covers everything. 🙄

  • @rimixbyricomusiq
    @rimixbyricomusiq Год назад +127

    She ‘s been through a lot 😢

    • @m.waymire
      @m.waymire Год назад +10

      With this one she only has herself to blame.

    • @cc3956
      @cc3956 Год назад

      I wanted to hear her back story, look like she was snot

    • @1stisraelitessweetness17
      @1stisraelitessweetness17 Год назад +4

      Yes, she have been threw alot, looking past the bs, she's strong have a great heart, as well, she'll get threw anything. Blesses to her🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽, and your comment brought me to comment Lol! God Bless you as well, peace. 💜🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @kayk2899
      @kayk2899 2 месяца назад

      @@m.waymireI agree she should be held accountable for her actions. And he too should be held accountable for preying on her and taking advantage of someone who is a domestic abuse survivor. He is a user, he picks his victims and uses them for his advantage.

  • @traciemartin3785
    @traciemartin3785 Год назад +361

    It's so sad how this man used this woman repeatedly, because he's too lazy to take care of himself, and in the end he's able to get even more out of her without proof of how much his clothes & things were worth. It seems he's playing on her, because she's seems to be a bit slower than normal. I pray she learns from her mistake. Smh.

    • @convowithashnicole
      @convowithashnicole Год назад +24

      I mean by golly geesh, just look at the homeless man hoodie🤦🏽‍♀️Speaks Volumes

    • @Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol
      @Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol Год назад +12

      🙈🙉It's sad how she she didn't show him the door or the window in the beginning,she's a prime example of damage goods=Stray dog looking 4 love,take anything😂

    • @pookulj
      @pookulj Год назад +34

      .....I feel bad for her but, why date a man with no job, money or a place of his own. He had 3 strikes from the beginning and she ignored the signs

    • @jessicatobias9371
      @jessicatobias9371 Год назад

      @@Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol truth 😆😆😆

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Год назад +8

      JM taught her an expensive lesson. I wish she didn’t play herself.

  • @belleame1064
    @belleame1064 Год назад +48

    Judge revealed who he was to everyone in less than 2 minutes. Women, it's important that we ask relevant questions and listen to the response. Please stop attempting to nurture grown men. Support and nurture are two different things. Fix yourself, Everything else will fall in place.

  • @misslornamae
    @misslornamae Год назад +55

    This guy is a career user

  • @isaidwhatisaid2750
    @isaidwhatisaid2750 Год назад +46

    "Me and her hit it off.".. ie: He found a dummy.
    🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @keyunadeshay5259
    @keyunadeshay5259 Год назад +101

    Judge: What you do with your place ?
    Plantiff: I’m sorry ?
    We already know where judge was going with this 1 minute in 😂

  • @3smiles3
    @3smiles3 Год назад +69

    He wanna mooch but not have any real ties to a woman smh

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Год назад +19

      Or ties to a job, a car, reality, adulthood or responsibility in general

    • @3smiles3
      @3smiles3 Год назад +2

      @@K_Cole0128 facts

    • @kunaiuchia5926
      @kunaiuchia5926 Год назад +1

      Probably making his next move on the next woman smh gone from 5pm-8am? No job, and she was allowing it? Silly, Silly Rabbit 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @eyegettit3535
    @eyegettit3535 Год назад +192

    I love how judge Mathis trapped him up to confess he was a Hobosexual (homeless male seeking housing/room&board from a female)
    These kind of males are Just shameful smh...

    • @mitulu74
      @mitulu74 Год назад +8

      🤣that part

    • @AkinolaWilliams
      @AkinolaWilliams Год назад

      Why? He was providing a service

    • @supaacoopa6187
      @supaacoopa6187 Год назад +11

      @@AkinolaWilliams what was he providing? A migraine & lawsuit

    • @marleonetti7
      @marleonetti7 Год назад +10

      well i have noticed that only in the african american community are roles reversed , the females are the income and not the males . but its the opposite in all other cultures and communities .

    • @eyegettit3535
      @eyegettit3535 Год назад

      @@marleonetti7 I wonder why ?

  • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
    @Rainsnowreadysetblow Год назад +56

    I don't know how ppl move in with each other so soon. Any little noise and I jump, let alone having a whole stranger in my house. To each their own but NO.

    • @Crystal-Love
      @Crystal-Love Год назад +4

      And he’s driving her car 🙄

    • @coolmoneymitch1046
      @coolmoneymitch1046 Год назад +1

      Lmao @ - any little noise I jump let alone a whole stranger in there!! Lol

  • @thejah-rican-queen946
    @thejah-rican-queen946 Год назад +32

    He gets to live for free and sue smh

  • @NubianP6
    @NubianP6 Год назад +92

    ° *Jobless, car-less, about to be homeless guy she barely knows moves in with her after only a few weeks.*
    ° *Proceeds to borrow HER car to go and “hang out”…with his still unemployed self.*
    ° *She childishly changes her last name to his last name on Facebook, AND ignorantly makes him her emergency contact…all within this short period of time.*
    ° *She gives him $475, ”just to have money in his pocket”, because…he’s unemployed.*
    ° *He starts staying out all night…with HER car, and is allowed to just roll back up in the place at will. She tolerates it.*
    ° *Homeless dude now claims he “needs space”. She then proceeds to drop his car-less self off, so he can go lay up in somebody else’s space.*
    ° *Plaintiff gets “all up in her feelings” because homeless, car-less, jobless dude didn’t check on her after surgery, when truth-be-told, he couldn’t have cared less, and still doesn’t.*
    ° *Unemployed dude claims to have a “hat and shoe fetish”, despite not having a dedicated place to lay his head, or prop his feet.*
    ° *Plaintiff calls Tenisha “stupid”…just like she was”.*
    Moral of the story: People who are about to be put out of where they’re at “fall in love” REAL quick. Don’t be a sucker, and stop trying to create love where there is none.

    • @ew0711
      @ew0711 Год назад +21

      This 👆🏽 right here, is the absolute truth 🙌🏽 💯 and I read every word of it 🤣😂🤣🤭

    • @savonhdtv268
      @savonhdtv268 Год назад +12

      Gurl... And the church said Amen! You Betta preach sis!

    • @MrsDymples76
      @MrsDymples76 Год назад +7

      ✅✅✅✅✅✅

    • @kynathomas4809
      @kynathomas4809 Год назад +8

      🎤 dropped!

    • @m.waymire
      @m.waymire Год назад +4

      Well thats what she wanted thats what she got.

  • @adriennethomas5181
    @adriennethomas5181 Год назад +18

    HE IS SO MESSY 🤣😂😅

  • @CEOgpoole87
    @CEOgpoole87 Год назад +23

    Nowhere to stay with a hat and shoe fetish

    • @eyegettit3535
      @eyegettit3535 Год назад +7

      That might be the reason his homeless , his priorities is mixed up

  • @AngelRenee88
    @AngelRenee88 Год назад +19

    He got uncomfortable with her changing her name on social media saying she was moving too fast but moving into her home wasn’t moving too fast?

  • @TheBlacktygar
    @TheBlacktygar Год назад +49

    Be careful what you ask for lol he wasn't ready but needed a place to stay

  • @convowithashnicole
    @convowithashnicole Год назад +22

    I said, "Self, this is gonna be a good one"!
    Myself said, "uhuh"🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @lareinanueva
    @lareinanueva Год назад +92

    This is the MAJORITY of BM and I see it ALL THE TIME!Never have a place to call their own then move in on women and try to run things. Eating all your food, using up your utilities, wanting to drive your car and don't even PAY THE COST TO BE THE BOSS. Ladies leave these ninjas in the streets where they belong!

    • @lindawatts5731
      @lindawatts5731 Год назад +19

      Don't forget they don't even put gas in the car, used up all the gas, then bring it home on empty, sad 😥 however women need to take responsibility also and quit inviting these losers to live off of you.

    • @DJ-vj4vi
      @DJ-vj4vi Год назад +8

      Facts I stopped dating them.

    • @Shawn-ds9ug
      @Shawn-ds9ug Год назад +1

      Wait a minute, sister, if the Majority of the BM you hang around are homeless bums, you need to check yourself. What attracts these kinds of men to you? Because as a black woman, the MAJORITY of BM I know are well educated and OWN their homes! My father owned his home and so did my uncles! Are there trifling BM out there, yes. This we know for sure! But there are PLENTY of trifling men in all races! Stay on code! I am a black woman, and I am proud of the black men I know. Desperate people do desperate things. Heal your soul, and men like this wont be attracted to you.

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 Год назад +13

      She tried to turn a homeboy into a husband. He for the streets 😂

    • @Lilyrose23
      @Lilyrose23 Год назад +19

      You're either a self-hating black person or white racist passing for a black woman, but anyways labeling "the majority" of black men as this guy is ignorant. Being a bad person has nothing to do with race, bums exist in all colors, the problem is that some women/men refuse to acknowledge that there are men who'd rather not work, benefit from women in exchange of companionship.

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Год назад +68

    I don’t believe many parents are raising their sons to be responsible members of society. When I met my husband he had his own place, graduated from college and working. Don’t get it twisted!! I met men like the plaintiff in past but it starts when they’re young. He’s too old for excuses though ! Get your life together sir!!

    • @hillaryconsultingservices
      @hillaryconsultingservices Год назад +3

      Some black raise their daughters and love their sons. My ex mom babies hums, takes from his sister to give him vehicles etc. while she catches the bus or Uber. I’ve been happily single post divorce.

    • @thepatrioarchy
      @thepatrioarchy Год назад

      ​@@hillaryconsultingservices Bingo, single mothers are to blame. The original commenter did not want to call out the mother but quick to call me.

    • @deeniemediainc9959
      @deeniemediainc9959 Год назад

      We are also failing at teaching our girls and young women how to vet men, understand the games they play, and normalize walking away w dignity when they see red flags. I ère phases on just getting m’en with no context or nuance or options.

    • @aprilhamilton3689
      @aprilhamilton3689 10 месяцев назад

      He is a bum and didn’t deserve anything from the lady.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Год назад +21

    I can hear my gma and my mama now “ ain’t got a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of”
    It’s bad when you dnt own a pot to relieve yourself and dnt have a window to use to disposed of the urine.
    The defendant and the plaintiff both sound desperate and messy. The plaintiff probably makes a living off of suing for being illegally evicted.

  • @TheBlacktygar
    @TheBlacktygar Год назад +33

    We got to do better brothers and take her ourselves and stop moving in with those women

    • @miagillespie3497
      @miagillespie3497 Год назад +17

      I agree more black men need to step up and take their place and be true men take responsibility. Get your shit together and stop using these desperate women.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Год назад +20

    Lord this man didn’t have a home, a job or a car. He still doesn’t have a home. He’s living from place to place

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Год назад +10

      But acting like he a prize🤡🤛🏿

    • @brininahoward5445
      @brininahoward5445 Год назад +3

      @@kayshawnsimmons5585 These Kings that they talk about so much. Ridiculous!

  • @convowithashnicole
    @convowithashnicole Год назад +15

    JM is freaking crazy y'all! He asked him, what happened to his place after he moved in with the defendant. Did the previous landlord let u off early🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's been a while since he had his own place🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm not doing this with the judge TUDDAY y'all

  • @RachelReaiah
    @RachelReaiah Год назад +28

    I almost fell out when he was honest about his housing situation. Honest about living off of people... well, he's honest.. she allowed herself to be taken advantage of. Man, we all want genuine love and sometimes have issues identifying the counterfeit.

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 6 месяцев назад

      He wasn't honest about his living situation. JM had to pull the truth out with pliers 😂😂😂

  • @Ask4Alli
    @Ask4Alli Год назад +6

    “Things were moving too fast” but you moved in with her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sir

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 Год назад +29

    Expensive lesson to learn. I’m actually glad she lost, hopefully this is a wake up call.

  • @becky9231
    @becky9231 Год назад +18

    The plantiff is a bed surfer..But he had $30 in his bank account.. He's a certified, fixer upper, like flipping a house.. Vehicle, housing, food, cash , emotional distress ETC..This is what happens when you allow someone to your table with a empty plate..🥺🙄

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Год назад +24

    JM was annoyed with both litigants 😂😂😂

  • @MsBadshoe
    @MsBadshoe Год назад +27

    Yeah we as woman need to love ourselves and do better take our time with men

  • @jamingjohnson2275
    @jamingjohnson2275 Год назад +22

    I do not understand. How can someone with no job, paying no rent, can be illegally evicted?

    • @logent80
      @logent80 10 месяцев назад +1

      She needed to give him a 30 day notice or if he really did kick in her door, she could have gave him an emergency eviction..

    • @TB-ev2hg
      @TB-ev2hg 10 месяцев назад

      In most states, after 30 days a person is no longer classified as a guest but an occupant, a resident. You have to give at least a 30 day notice to evict them.

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 8 месяцев назад

      Sqatters right after a month?

  • @danettechavis
    @danettechavis Год назад +18

    That's messed up! He just walked in there and lied and comes away with $2,000 AFTER making it plain right from the beginning that he jumps from "house to house" living off women??? That's a damn shame. How is it not "pain and suffering" if you in a state by yourself and ONLY person you know "cuts your phone off" knowing you were about to have "life threatening surgery"? The way that man operate he was probably "hoping like hell she died during surgery" so he could have her apartment for himself!! And how was evicted when he claims "they broke up" from the time he told her "I need a break"? So that was his decision to LEAVE not hers. So whatever rent he owed and was suppose pay when he got a job - is OWED and DUE! Because he also stated in court he is NOW EMPLOYED and living with various people and needs help. WHAT THE HELL WAS JUDGE MATHIS THINKING DURING THIS CASE!!? I Believe he DID kick the door in but I don't believe she told the TRUTH as to WHY he did it. Maybe that's the reason the judge didn't order him to pay for it. Because the truth would have sounded like this: "I got tired of his non-working black ass leaving here at 5pm every day and coming in 8, 9, and 11 a.m in the morning and I gotta get my ass up to take the chain off the door and let him in. That particularly morning, I decided to leave his black ass out there - and WOULDNT GET UP to OPEN THE DOOR and TAKE THE CHAIN OFF! He got mad and decided he was going to KICK THE DOOR IN AND THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HE DID!! HE CUSS ME OUT FOR NOT OPENING THE DOOR AND I SWORE I NEVER HEARD HIM KNOCKING I WAS IN SUCH A DEEP SLEEP. HE APOLOGIZED FOR HIS ANGER AND SAID HE THOUGHT I HAD A MAN IN THE BED WITH ME. HE TOLD ME HE WAS SORRY AND HE WOULD PAY FOR THE DAMAGE AND I BELIEVED HIM, UNTIL HE TOLD ME HE "NEEDED A BREAK" AND DECIDED TO LEAVE ME. HE WASN'T EVICTED IT WAS HIS DECISION TO LEAVE. HAD I EVICTED HIM ALL HIS THINGS WOULD HAVE BEEN OUTSIDE THE FRONT DOOR!! YES, I WAS HURT AND YES I CURSED HIM OUT AND THREATENED NOT TO GIVE HIM HIS BELONGINGS. BUT WHEN HE CAME TO MY HOUSE WITH THE COPS THE FIRST TIME, I DECIDED HE "AIN'T WORTH IT" AND HE'S NOT. HE GOT NOTHING I NEED NO WAY. SO, I PACKED UP ALL HIS THINGS AND WHEN HE CAME WITH THE COPS THE SECOND TIME HE TOOK HIS THINGS WITH THEM WHICH HE IN FACT STATED. THIS MAN WHO I TOOK INTO MY HOME, LET LAY IN MY BED WITH ME, WITHOUT A DIME EVER BEING GIVEN TOWARDS RENT, CARED SO LITTLE FOR ME - HE DIDN'T CARE IF I DIED IN THAT HOSPITAL DURING SURGERY. BUT TO CUT MY PHONE OFF SO THAT I COULDN'T REACH ANYBODY ELSE EVEN IF I WANTED TO, IS AS "LOW" AS YOU CAN GO. YOUR HONOR, EVEN A DOG DESERVES BETTER THAN THAT. YOUR HONOR, I DON'T WANT NOTHING FROM THIS MAN, OTHER THAN WHAT HE OWES ME AND WHAT HE OWES ME IS RENT - WHICH HE DID STATE WOULD BE PAID ONCE HE GOT A JOB. HE DIDN'T HAVE A JOB THEN BUT HE GOT ONE NOW. AND ACCORDING TO HIS OWN STATEMENT THAT'S WHEN HE WAS SUPPOSE TO PAY ME . JUDGE MATHIS, I REST MY CASE...Lol!!! THANK YOU...

    • @margearettarmstrong4779
      @margearettarmstrong4779 Год назад

      Judge Mathis did right the only pain and suffering she needs and got was for being stupid you don't take care of grown men you take care of yourself and children 💞

  • @PrettyColorsDoe
    @PrettyColorsDoe Год назад +16

    What a pathetic excuse for a man! Practically a homeless munch & he got the nerve to say “I got a hat & shoe fetish.” EMBARRASSING! & the nerve of him to sue for an illegal eviction smh. Just sad!

  • @reginarose9017
    @reginarose9017 Год назад +3

    “I have a hat & shoe fetish” …. Ummmm you don’t have anywhere to stay , dude lol

  • @EBMSCHOLARS
    @EBMSCHOLARS Год назад +14

    He has been moving from one woman’s home to another for years? 😳😭🥶

  • @ericgreen6704
    @ericgreen6704 Год назад +10

    This is a prime reason why you do not move in with someone that you barely know .

  • @copperrose1506
    @copperrose1506 Год назад +12

    Why is 2 weeks the magic number for move in, crazy

  • @Valencia5_11
    @Valencia5_11 Год назад +6

    I wish I had $1 for every litigant that comes to JM that’s “Move In” ready 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Год назад +17

    This brother is irresponsible, unstable and should be avoided at all cost. If women expected more and placed reasonable demands on men we wouldn’t see repeat cases like this.

    • @theadvancedforce1017
      @theadvancedforce1017 Год назад

      Seems like you bash brothas by default. Seems like you agree with sistas by default. You are the bias 1 here.

    • @leilah.janice4828
      @leilah.janice4828 9 месяцев назад

      He’s a great father tho 🤭

  • @professionalgrade5999
    @professionalgrade5999 Год назад +15

    Her picker is off I think she is a good woman which is so hard to find but she picks garbage. Listening to her last abusive relationship I hope she will find a good man that knows her worth.

  • @goodwill374
    @goodwill374 Год назад +8

    2 minutes in and he already told us what type of guy he is

  • @siehop88
    @siehop88 Год назад +15

    That karma gone hit him hard

  • @msmaam912
    @msmaam912 Год назад +26

    I was stupid for one man, one time. It was fun lol but I’d never do it again. It was easy to sue her though, he found a duck. Even though he’s pathetic.

    • @msmaam912
      @msmaam912 Год назад

      @Nero The Chosen lol I love you too 🤣🤣

  • @TruestLovely
    @TruestLovely Год назад +21

    He gives dl vibes....Imagine allowing a man to move in with you, especially at her wise age. I hope she learns from this relationship and the prior relationship.

  • @whoisdickieschnabel
    @whoisdickieschnabel Год назад +41

    This guy is a scammer. He has no record of having a place in his name. This woman is so vulnerable I am praying she's okay. She added this stranger, this con as her next of kin while she's in the hospital. I hear the weakness in her voice. He probably hoped she wouldn't make it to court and he'd get a default judgment. She doesn't seem interested in playing games. He's evil to me. I wish she hadn't been so eager for love.

  • @cashville7949
    @cashville7949 Год назад +6

    That lady got the nerve to say Tanisha stupid lol 😂 😅😅😅

  • @_Essentially_abena
    @_Essentially_abena Год назад +15

    The audacity to call another woman stupid after you let this man move in after 2 weeks and put money in his pockets “just to have” 😭😭😂
    Girl STOP!

  • @ericfrost7517
    @ericfrost7517 Год назад +15

    2 weeks is way too early to be moving in with someone, still a stranger to you…how deep can you get to know someone in two weeks. People be silly

  • @urluvizmyluv1999
    @urluvizmyluv1999 Год назад +5

    He should have a "keep a home" fetish.

  • @softersideofc.c.5655
    @softersideofc.c.5655 Год назад +6

    Sis After this I hope the cape is BURNT 🔥

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Год назад +23

    Brakes shoulda been screeching on this situationship!!

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Год назад +3

      A football field of red flag 🚩🚩🚩😂😂😂

  • @Realist79
    @Realist79 Год назад +20

    He's my 1st cousin, I have no words. Smh

    • @eugeniaboone5602
      @eugeniaboone5602 Год назад +1

      The Realist Really? That's insane. He's always been that way.

    • @Realist79
      @Realist79 Год назад +8

      @@eugeniaboone5602 Yes. His father passed away 2018) and my dad (passed away 2017) are brothers. Yes he's been doing this for years.

    • @bethanyyates1138
      @bethanyyates1138 9 месяцев назад

      Omggggg

    • @Realist79
      @Realist79 9 месяцев назад

      @@bethanyyates1138 yep it is what it is.

  • @lonagurl1
    @lonagurl1 Год назад +5

    Child and if he said baby I want you back you’ll let that bum come live right back with you!

  • @siehop88
    @siehop88 Год назад +7

    Damnnnnn. I’m so lucky I was taught early not to be a “fun dummy” a man could neverrrrrr fool me like this 😂

    • @missbae_
      @missbae_ Год назад +5

      He didn’t fool her, she fooled herself 😂 I don’t believe he ever paid her any real attention besides sex sometimes to shut her up

  • @mikalatrice7962
    @mikalatrice7962 Год назад +13

    How you leave a domestic relationship to meet a stranger and let him just take over your life

    • @Neenaross214
      @Neenaross214 Год назад

      She was an idiot lol hopefully she is wiser now!!

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 Год назад +8

    How can a man mean that much too you in two months 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @1ewalks
    @1ewalks Год назад +4

    No she didn’t call the other woman stupid 😂 . Pot meet kettle. Smh

  • @queenebonyqueenebony
    @queenebonyqueenebony Год назад +18

    How could mathis find in this boy’s defense-she should’ve gotten paid for the damage to her door and the loan.

    • @25stallions15
      @25stallions15 Год назад

      Exactly

    • @cochrancochran66
      @cochrancochran66 Год назад

      Because he came with proof... she did not. Unfortunately

    • @Amy-ej2px
      @Amy-ej2px 11 месяцев назад

      His evidence/her own words. I was rooting for her, though.

  • @AngelRenee88
    @AngelRenee88 Год назад +3

    This man said he had a hat and a shoe fetish. He need to have a house and a car fetish. Moving backwards 😂

    • @deidregray8880
      @deidregray8880 Год назад +2

      THE comment I was looking for!!!! 🎯😂

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Год назад +4

    She made him sound like biggie “kick in the door waiving the 44” 😂😂😂😂

  • @hakeemtheplace2959
    @hakeemtheplace2959 Год назад +5

    He is a sorry excuse of a man.

  • @bakeembakeem
    @bakeembakeem Год назад +17

    I feel for her, former dv relationship and now a total loser, only wanting to be loved and appreciated

  • @reniekarenee1068
    @reniekarenee1068 Год назад +5

    People are so bad at telling stories when they’re trying to leave their part out 😂

  • @Lilyrose23
    @Lilyrose23 Год назад +23

    It's tragic to see women who go from bad men to bad men knowingly because they're used to the drama and feel so lonely without a man. Most of them knowingly choose bums hoping they'll stay, but bums have higher standards than them. The bums know there are more of them out here looking for a man like them so they are never loyal.

  • @yolandajones6789
    @yolandajones6789 Год назад +7

    Listening to both of them talk in circles, repeat themselves, and not answer JM's questions the first time he asks is making me dizzy. If that man said one more time, "I had a key"...

  • @roshandacarter3252
    @roshandacarter3252 Год назад +8

    Sometimes you got to lose to win.

  • @KINGDOMDAUGHTER
    @KINGDOMDAUGHTER Год назад +7

    Shacking up and taking care of any man or person and calling it "in a RELATIONSHIP"
    have people not heard of dating & courting whilst collecting data on each other inorder to get to know each other outside of what is deemed as okay to be shacking up and taking care of

  • @svwhett1
    @svwhett1 Год назад +14

    he a sad person, his parents are happy for him

  • @pookulj
    @pookulj Год назад +6

    The defendant had the nerve to call his current girlfriend stupid.....she the one that was stupid too

  • @ddduv1
    @ddduv1 Год назад +11

    Okay bump all the other stuff why did she make him her emergency contact?

  • @cheleftb
    @cheleftb Год назад +11

    Stop being thirsty ma'am.

  • @hlewis566
    @hlewis566 Год назад +16

    Bum bum bum

  • @Valencia5_11
    @Valencia5_11 Год назад +3

    “I thought your were here with another man” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Why did JM sound like a superhero when he said that 😂😂😂😂

  • @cynthiafreeman2995
    @cynthiafreeman2995 Год назад +3

    LMAOOOOOOOO he mad she changed her name to his 😂

  • @RamiyahParks
    @RamiyahParks Год назад +14

    She said he hadn't started working yet but @3:29 when JM asked who he was staying with now, he admitted that he had just started working... So at best she should have been granted the $475 loan. He definitely took advantage of her vulnerability. Smh!

    • @candyjones4499
      @candyjones4499 Год назад +1

      She cant be granted the money because she have no evidence and if she had text messages about the money loan or a recording she would have gotten that. She basically said she gave it to him to put in his pocket so it was a gift

    • @Amy-ej2px
      @Amy-ej2px 11 месяцев назад

      @@candyjones4499 When she said that she gave him money for whatever, that doesn't automatically make it a gift...if that's what you're saying. JM said that bc he said he'd pay when he got a job and doesn't have a job now, he can't be forced to pay...Good catch, @RamiyahParks!

  • @dearachambliss8380
    @dearachambliss8380 Год назад +4

    That top button on her shirt was hanging on for its dear life

  • @diofiglio1
    @diofiglio1 Год назад +5

    Dude went from one woman's house to another......and she thought he would be a good fit......some women have low self esteem

  • @jplaya2023
    @jplaya2023 Год назад +10

    When Suge Knight get out

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 Год назад +6

    Say, what?? **Rubs hands like Birdman**
    Listen...when things are getting out of hand, just make the grown-up decision to end things. Going back and forth, is a joke.

  • @vicdiesel6544
    @vicdiesel6544 Год назад +8

    This why u don't let these men live with you .... let a man be a man!