Video Chapters: 0:00 - intro 1:14 - Selena Cheating On Benny? 2:23 - Selena defends herself 3:14 - Selena's history of being touchy 5:10 - Selena-No Boundaries-Gomez 7:31 - Loving the publicity 9:10 - Selena's Messy Relationship Etiquette 11:08 - Selena & Benny's relationship 16:13 - Selena complaining...again 18:33 - Selena hates doing music I hope you guys enjoyed this video ❤☕Do you guys see Selena making a comeback to music or is she going to continue with her acting career? Can you see Selena and Benny lasting as a couple? Let me know your thoughts!
She would be able to carry a baby if the father were Justin Biebs. Also, she'd have his family name as well. She's just a fraud. Also, you forgot to mention how she manipulated her friend into donating her kidney and called her "just one of the people she knows" only after public pressure when she didn't recognized her as an "industry friend" though that kidney donor friend has been in the industry for decades.
Leave Selena alone,, she has been through so much in life,,she can't even carry a baby of her own,depression is real, monitoring spirit 😊 stop telling people how to live, Selena never told you she is perfect,she is human, STOP
i hate that video with the young girl talking about her education and how she’s getting an opportunity to study and she’s like “do you believe in love”…Like read the room. Also that young woman was likely going to be married off to someone didn’t know well or love. That’s the moment i realized Selena is WEIRD
Right? I’m glad others felt this way too because for so long, Selena would ALWAYS bring up her relationship and being heartbroken at the worst times possible… it’s like read the room. I always used to question why is there multiple interviews about her heartbreak but never on big things happening in her life like her transplant… or any personal struggles … or family or even happiness. So the girl couldn’t bring up education without Selena once again shifting the narrative to her topic of choice despite how irrelevant
Watch the full documentary that is edited, i watched the documentary full, and she never asked during the girls talk about education. Its was later when they were chilling
@@theroyalebunny8239The video was edited. If you watched full documentary, you'll know she never asked her that time, it was later when they were having fun.
I've ALWAYS felt like Selena (and Taylor Swift, tbh) like to portray themselves as the 'nice girls', the 'good girls', the 'girls girls' ... but low key, they're mean girls.
Don't bring taylor in this..........she is clever but she was always right about her song and feelings. And i never felt that taylor even tried to become a good girl.
@@rossitossi3016 I’m lying? Maybe you’re naive. It was a big thing, unless you’re living under a rock. After Hailey announced she was pregnant, Selena fans or people who are still stuck on Selena and Justin being end game, started spamming her comments hoping she’d miscarriage. You can say I’m lying, but I know I’m not. You’re either an idiot, or you are too young to have instagram, which is where the hate was.
I used to like her until I realised that she was fake. She is just playing this victim card to gather sympathy and sell a lot of makeup and I can give that to her she made it.
What really set me off was when she literally let people bully and bullied Haley herself, especially after she had a stroke which I’ve gone through both of those things and it’s not nice. It is not fun now I just can’t tolerate Selena Gomez. That was the last straw for me to not like her. She speaks out about kindness and all that and does this shit. She needs a brutal awakening.
People need to understand, tat true victims are "beggars" who ask for something, in our case - recognition, reward, praise, simply because something negative happened to them. Selena receives awards for - good roles, good songs, good cosmetics, good attitude, good attitude towards ordinary people. Selena is NOT a victim, she is a fighter. Please don't twist the meaning of words! Personally, I don't feel sorry for Selena, she inspires admiration, she inspires people who have health problems - to live as they dreamed and achieve something. there are many people who think like me.
@@Kitten_Metropolis uh? she's said MULTIPLE TIMES for her fans to be kind and to never talk bad about other people and TWICE defending Hailey. She even took a pic with Haileh to stop the rumors. Are u living under a rock? You sound type of person believes anything a news show or gossip video says 😂
Selena Gomez is Justin Timberlake's woman version. I hope Justin Bieber will also publish a book like Britney. He has an important story that he didn't get a chance to tell. If he publishes a book like Britney everything we never imagined happened and she did, she'll be extremely hated with 0 fans like Justin Timberlake. Nostalgia can only protect you for 20 years at most. When next generation comes and you start to hit 40s nostalgias effect dies out. Only raw you remains with karma.
I don't know much about Selena and it's clear to me that you're describing someone with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. Emotionally chaotic, impulsive, insecure, vain and petty, obsessed with their image, charming and persuasive, has a victim complex, manipulative, lacks empathy and sees others as objects to be used and discarded; cruel, maybe even sadistic..... she's textbook.
Yeah I’ve thought this was a personality disorder she has for a decade now but I’m not her personal doctor so I never categorize her with that as a fact but I do talk about it in theory
All of these celebrities are so out of touch with REAL LIFE! They are entitled, arrogant, fake brats and people need to stop looking up to them! I’d love to see them all try to make it in a normal job and start shining the light on real role models and people who actually make a difference for others. Because of the Diddy situation it sounds like most of these celebrities are compromised and have not conducted themselves in appropriate ways. The days of worshipping them are OVER! 😂
I stopped watching only murders in the building because of her. Her voice was so annoying and her energy on screen was flat and not a wide range. I don’t think she is a great actress, more mediocre
Yea bitter when she literally took her time to heal and then has a boyfriend of a year and live together... 😂 you talking not about facts like I gave but looks like u know her thoughts 😂
Yes this is spot on. What I've always thought about her hypocrite. Britney Spears said the same thing about Selena and Britney Spears was Selena's idol...
No, Britney spears has shown really erradic behavior. She now has shown many times her love for selena even posting her many times and the same video over and over. Idk and idc what she has but she didn't talk bad about selena if she's posting her admiring her.
@@Capszuleh I think they force drugs on Britney or possibly she’s MK Ultra programmed beyond her control. You can’t blame the Victim for what these wicked handlers did just like you can’t blame Justin for what happened to him. Sadly, they both are broken. Please pray for them and their health.
Taylor and Selena are probably 2 of the most savvy and intelligent women in the industry. The reason why Selena gets caught red handed, so to speak, is because she’s too emotional, unlike Taylor. Taylor is certainly someone I admire in the sense of being able to flip her sadness, downfall, depression etc and monetize it to then come back on top. I wish I had an ounce of her cold nature. I’m way too emotional to be able to operate that way. But I do wish I could, in some aspects.
It's so easy not to care once your realize that nobody else cares either. If you can't put yourself first without feeling guilty then you've still got lots of work to do. Take it from Selena, becoming a wreck because you spent your youth looking for love and validation will make you bitter.
@@y2kmeangirlshe is not bitter she is shining and clapping back to haters .The problem is that you want to bring her down and we all know who fans you are of course you are the Kardashians fans, Hailey fans Justin fans Diddy fans . You must calm down the more you dig the past the more she is shining bullies.
I can’t believe she’s still harassing the Biebers by following and commenting on accounts that bash them and uplift her!🙄 Gurl give it a rest! You’re in a whole new supposedly “happy” relationship 🤦🏽♀️ Also I noticed that it’s always Benny praising her in interviews like she’s a goddess or something. He can’t stop showering her with praises and gifts however she never gives the same energy back to him. You almost never hear her talk about him. The most she will do is post a Insta pic
Selenas never harassed the Beibers,Scandalous Media is that Scandalous dum dum,but they have something personnel against Selena,1st of all Orlando Selena and Katy all said that Orlando never went out with Selena and sees her like a lil Sister,Go look at all the disgusting various post they've made about her,what pisses me off is that they lie on her and I can fact check every big lie they've said about Selena and mind you never never never post about Justin or Hailey s fuck ups,only kissing ass...You believe those lies because you want to..SCANDALOUS...don't you get it...shit...Benny came out dancing with her costar so you guys can see that they trust each other and she wasn't Grinding on him...could you see that,of course not,Scandalous Media is petty stupid and jealous and everyone has gone on with their life except for them...I'm making sure a block this site with a Grievance
Are you serious she can’t be still doing this lmao like i like Selena i think she’s beautiful , she serves looks , i like some of her songs and watched her show but man this is absolutely sad and ridiculous the man moved on and has a family get over it now its just weird and needs help!
Lmao she does talk about Bennie and in fact she would praise him a lot in social media and interviews... the interviews just weirdly would ask him a lot about selena because he's low-key and has less projects, whereas selena has many things going on such as TV shows, movies, music, cooking show, beauty make up brand, philanthropy, producer, etc.. so it gets buried because Benny just has a cook book and composes music
I used to idolize Selena Gomez because of her good speeches on mental health and I like her music but yeah... I've started to learn that celebrities are just people and shouldn't be idolized or worshipped 😅 If I like the celebs music, I'll listen to it but i won't like treat them like a goddess and think they are the purest souls I hope this makes sense
Omg I'm glad someone did a thorough video of this! For YEARS I noticed that she would always date her friends ex's and I always knewwwww she was the problem because she never stayed friends with them after! Very VERY messed up👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾
Every celebrity date the ex boyfriends what about Kendall dating Justin he was Selina ex what about Kyle dating drake he was Hailey ex what about Hailey sharing Justin with the Kardashians her friends you all hate Selina leave her alone
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya.These people should be ashamed of themselves! My God, get a life you'll, enjoy yours, be nice to someone, help your siblings...but please do something constructive and see how wonderful life can be. Don't destroy someone else's because of gossip like this. Have a bless one.
@PhatutshedzoMoleya Kendall never dated Justin and Selena was never friends with the Jenner girls. She tried to get close to them and get signed by Kris that year when she attended Coachella with Kylie and Kendall but it went belly up with Selena's antics and paranoia. She tried smearing them in the media then got exposed for it.
Celebrities date each other.. stop living under a rock 🤦♀️ selena dated jb first as theh were each others first love as they said. Then she dated the weekend, but she wasn't friends with Bella, only chit chatted with Gigi in an event once in a while... actually bellas close friend called SIMI is the one dating the weekend now (she was also selenas friend) lol and selena has hung out with Simi because there is no bad blood. If you gonna gossip and talk trash, learn your facts
You guys go back so many years to bring up old dirt, but never address the way she was bullied. It just shows how jealous these creators are. At least she never attended Diddy parties.
@@trudimclaren4301 No but thats the thing. Her type is the rough older man. So if she dated a girly man it was probably just to use him, and she'd be able to manipulate them easily. Look how she treated our girly king Justin.
I'm so sick of narcissists who seem to end up super rich. Didn't she ghost the friend who gave her a KIDNEY? That would be enough for me to walk away and never look back.
It's the fact us normal people have to wait for someone to literally PASS ON to get vital organs and selena can just go around asking for it. No thanks. Not ever buying into someone like that.
1) she didn't ghost her 2) they are still friends and even called themselves best friends months ago.... you know their friendship more than them and what they wanna show? They're both private ppl and hide well so there isn't many paparazzi pics (yea I'm crazy and have looked them up lol)
They're all so messy... Selena Gomez, Ariana Grande, Demi Lovato, Taylor Swift. The only one I can think off that actually seems like a decent person is Zendaya. I love you, Z!
Am I the only who thinks she isn't smart? On my opinion she is just lucky. She was that pretty good looking girl and in this world this can help you very much for success and lucky in having a good team (they are the ones wo r smart) without them she'd have been unknown yeeaaars ago
shes smart in knowing how to play and use people. when you can spin any narrative and are beautiful, it can lead to many opportunities, especially in hollywood
Nah I hate her with a passion but I gotta agree she's smart af maybe not as smart as taylor (no one in the industry is smart as taylor) but she's smart she emotionally manipulates people used Justin to stay relevant for years without putting much music (2albums in 8 years is not what u expect from one of the main popstars with millions of fans ) she hung out with Justin just before every album or movie release she tricked people into believing she got abused and cheated to create sympathy she used her disease and mental health to gain sympathy (but I don't blame her tho she didn't ask for it it ain't her fault) she still has fans today with very less promo and even less songs and movies this is all cuz she's smart
Brooklyn Beckham also said something along the lines of Selena being his first crush!! Nicola is STRONG as hell getting so close to her and I always found that whole friendship weird af
And everyone cheats in Hollywood, it’s like psychotic but I think it’s this theory that everyone has too many options so when I see something sus in Hollywood I always remember everyone cheats
@@ScandalousMediaTeatrue..it's hardly u can give logic of genuine relationship on her..they are like animals now..but still feel to put some positivity as we don't know there might be genuine relations too..
@@ScandalousMediaTeait's more like that they have sexualised everybody..so ofc they think there's too many options..but problem is they don't even have guts to be single and go around..they r just mess
@@noorie_noorie_ especially with me by her side none of these people would do this stuff with me by my wife side Ohhhhhhh nooooooo none of this trash from that guy who will never get her creep
yeah she's very manic and erratic online. she will spend hours talking to haters and then she'll disappear for 12 mins. she has even said that she has an addictive personality to things like social media and her phone, to the point where she would have an assistant post for her so she doesn't post
@@ScandalousMediaTealiar hater how much did they pay you to bring her down .of you knew if you bring Selina topic you will gain views bully .You must follow Diddy to jail hater.
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya lol Selena is bringing herself down, no need for other interventions 🤣 when are u ppl gonna understand that Selena is Selena's no.1 enemy?
If her acting takes off she will get rid of Benny, loose wait ( is she on Ozempic or some kind of alternative??) and get into another high profile relationship with some young/ hot actor or a singer!! Mark my words!! She keeps Benny around in case It doesn’t work out and she will get bored again. I think she likes him as a support system but not in a million years will I believe she is in love with him!! He is more like a brotherly/fatherly figure to her that makes her feel like a little spoilt princess.
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya I feel like Bella is genuine but I don't get good vibes from gigi . somebody in comments said that she was hooking up with zayn when he was still with Perry .i don't know about that matter but I feel like all of Taylor's friends are with her because of her influence.i really want demi Lovato and taylor to be best friends because demi is a genuine friend and both need each other.
I'm at the "do you believe in love" part while doing laundry and it's like that girl online who does skits and POV of "that girl on a movie you can't stand" and Selena is that personified lmao
Great video, and it reminds me of how quickly the Internet forgot about selena and Orlando thing. And funnily enough, those who remember it only blame JB since "it starts with him being close to Miranda [Orlando's ex]." I just checked on so many people, and I believed that the infamous pic of them in the club wasn't even when he was with Katy. Like selena's pr team did the job!
Thank you! And totally. The photos of Selena and Orlando were the night of her Revival album party release and Orlando & Katy were together. The night before, Katy was talking about growing old with him on Twitter so when these photos came out, people were like wtf...? To this day, I find that whole thing very odd but according to sources... they allege that Orlando always cheats on Katy so
Talk about attention seeking @5:46!!! That is high school maturity level with the, "Ur prettier than me", "no Ur prettier than me" type bullshit that 15 year girls carry on with or the, "I'm so ugly" with friends saying "no Ur beautiful, i wish i was as beautiful as u". Immaturity & attention seeking at it's finest on social media where she knows all her high school age fans will all be telling her how pretty she is.
Yea ,I hate the fact that other people see that she is gorgeous ,but the fact that she can’t see that for herself is so unattractive.I think behaving so insecurely and talking down on herself are traits of low self esteem. Hope she keep working on herself, that inner beauty.
@@iamtoogummy5590 yea, signs do show and she herself has said she's working on self Esteem. As someone that used to have that, it's a big reason of anxiety (also perfectionism) hope and can see signs she getting more confident, I hope. If we are compassionate, we can only wish such
I remember during that time Bella was getting mean comments saying she's ugly as she looks so old due to plastic surgery (especially as it was during the time bella look super skinny and ber cheeks seemed to be so hollow) so selena put that video. (I'm not saying she isn't insecure and she doesn't act in an awkward or weird way)but I remember that.. I think it was her bipolar (it shows in different ways but sometimes the ppl who suffer this say such out of the ordinary things lol like selena has said in the past lol) still i hope she gets better with time. Mental health is a big thing. I suffer with the low self Esteem one in past and thanks God I'm done with that 😊
I used to follow her every like and comment and actions with receipts 😅 yea I had a mental issue and now I just see another human I don't like people judging like I protect and hold accountable other people irl as that's been my career
@ElizRued Uhm. By the way, Selena fan, watch the video. What are you doing here? You have no right to boot me out. You're all so toxic. We all have the right to follow what we choose. Stop bullying people.
why should she retire? the world without her is boring like shes entertaining and does good work and makeup line and events but she needs to actually be in wizard beyond waverly place
I can't believe what she has done to her face with all that plastic surgery and botox/fillers. She didn't even look like this when she had her health surgery. Made her age terribly.
The worst part is her fans are in denial she had anything done. Apparently lupus changes bone structure, makes your boobs go up 2 cup sizes in 3 weeks time, gives you veneers, raises your eyebrows and fills your thin upper lip til it is fatter than your bottom lip. Sad thing is, she was naturally beautiful. She messed that up..
She was literally praised for her natural beauty back in the day to the point where people would put down other celebrities who did get work done and compare it to her, and she was the envy of a lot of girls. Idk how she thought she needed anything done.
All you can see in the whole of America is only Selina who did surgery most of the celebrity did plastic surgery Kyle,Kim Hailey did it.And Kylie looks older than Kris her mom but because it's Selina you bully her
She’s secretly polyamorous and doesn’t want to admit it because she thinks polyamory is a bad thing. She needs to come clean and be upfront because there’s no excuse to cheat on her boyfriends
I think she wants to be poly and sleep with multiple guys but also WON'T let the guy have any female interaction or closeness. That's not polyamory, that's plain manipulation and control.
@ makes me wonder if Selena purposely do it for strategic promotion or she wanted to poke the bear (Hailey’s group). She is one sneaky and clever girl.
She isn't a narcissist, she has bipolar which isn't being a narcissist. We all have narcissism to some degree but this doesn't make someone a narcissist for having a few traits 🙌💕
Bipolar disorder is the female version of narcissism. In the sense that it is mostly females diagnosed with it. And males mostly diagnosed with narcissism. As some else already pointed out, both are cluster B disorders.
@ToworshipHIMilive1 Bipolar has nothing to do with narcissistic personality disorder and neither are gender specific. I have known men to have bipolar as well as women and I have a father with NPD and he is nothing like a person with bipolar. You need to get your facts straight and do your research before calling people narcissist's
Selena has problems, probably mental disorders. It is quite amazing that she functions at a high level of success. Good on her for achieving that level of work . But the nasty way she trolls Justin and Haylie and the way she has always gone after men with a woman is gross. She loves drama and is trying to fill a hole inside herself . But she has been the best at hiding the nasty side of herself . Great analysis .
@@ScandalousMediaTea Degrading a successful women that's what you do? As if those biebers are not problematic. That hailey girl always craves attention which she doesn't get. You are paid pr of beibers. That's clear. No human is perfect So to scrutinize every move or word of any human is senseless and illogical. If you start observing any normal human, you will keep counting thousands of mistakes, double standards and flaws. The things you do is absurd and disgusting. Shame on you.
Benny is 5/10 But if he went to a gym for a while and got fit and got a makeover Got A better haircut and shaved his unibrow He would easily be 8/10 and girls will be all over him Benny is not bad He just needs to take care of himself more
Selena Gomez has been diagnosed and medically treated for Borderline personality disorder. Anyone who has dealt with such a condition knows how disruptive it is for the patient, therapist and anyone else around. Is borderline a variant of narcissism? Uncertain. What is certain: Selena is living in a personal hell which draws anyone in her orbit into the chaos and drama of the condition. Untreatable. Happiness is unattainable. Limerance (addicted blind 'love' ) is part of it. Absence of boundaries part of it. The ability to see/understand where/how/why she keeps getting it wrong is impossible for her. Her brain is wired wrong. Very sad.
Anyone who has experienced the vicious cruelty, cold-heartedness, and even sadism of a borderline knows that it is definitely related to narcissistic personality disorder. They are both cluster B personality disorders. The main difference is that a borderline is full of emotional chaos and pain, and can sometimes feel genuine remorse for their horrible behaviour, while a narcissist is cold and controlled, and never feels or expresses true remorse. However, feeling remorse doesn't stop a borderline repeating their abûsîve behaviour. They don't really change, they still see themselves as the victim and their cruelty as justified self-defence.
@@fatimanaveed9721 Bipolar symptoms (manic episodes followed by depressed lows) is part of it. Medication treats those symptoms but the cluster of behaviors, beliefs and practices are part of the borderline condition. Sometimes related to cptsd (complex post traumatic disorder) stemming from childhood. Living hell.
she said she’s bipolar not borderline also borderline looks very different from the typical media presentation and it very much depends on the person in how it shows up
I cringed when that video of her asking if she believes in love to a girl who was going to be forced in an arranged marriage with someone way older than her .. is disgusting. She’s so.. self involved & oblivious it’s crazy
Honestly I've never understood the hype about Selena. People treating her as she's the best diva of our times... Why? She gives me 'sneeky' vibes tbh. She always pretends to be the good girl in the room but she's probably the mean girl. Time will tell.
@@danialrafiq3290yes, Kendall and Kylie (and the Hadids to a small extent) are mean girls, but you know what you are going to get with them. They don’t pretend to be nice. You know they’re cliquey and snobby. But they don’t pretend to be these innocent nice girls. They’re not narcissist like Selena. I’d rather deal with mean girls like Hailey’s crew than sneaky Selena
Media is full of BS. She has been put on a pedestal, while her exs wife is ripped apart. Now, we get anti Selena sentiment. Selena is unstable, she has been this way for a long time.
Oh tell me more of what selena told u.... 😊🍿 if she wanted to do that, she would've gotten a rebound right away 🤦♀️ she had many chances and I'm sure many guys even hotter o richer have tried dating her
I agree. Now a part of me does believe Benny does make her happy. It appears to be a stable relationship. He makes her feel loved. However, Selena isn’t truly happy with Benny because he isn’t her type (he’s not masculine enough nor is he that goodlooking). But she doesn’t have any insecurities about him ever cheating on her or making her feel bad about her weight. That’s why she won’t date someone more conventionally attractive. She’s also unhappy with her overall life (depressed, narcissistic) despite having millions of dollars, a successful beauty brand, and her acting career is taking off. It’s truly sad to see given that she also has a close knit supportive family. Yet she’s so deeply unhappy. She will never get over Justin
Same. Tbh I first read this blog back in 2014 so I knew about Selena’s behavior for a decade. But I still liked Selena because of childhood nostalgia and because she’s pretty. But by 2021 she lost her good looks and she started outwardly showing her shady behavior and mean girl pick me attack online. She is her own downfall. Now I dislike her.
Speaking of Selena victimizing herself on her Spanish-speaking skills, could you do a video on how Eugenio Derbez criticized her Spanish in "Emilia Perez" and her response?
I love how we know her better than her die hard fans. I came to comment this. I'm a Spanish speaker. I just watched a clip from the movie and her acting was very off because she was mixing all the words together and she had no idea what she was saying so the intonation was on the wrong words. She received awards for this mess which is crazy. Eugenio was just saying what we were all thinking. Her responding in the video comments was the typical victimizing behavior she always does to get people to feel sorry for her and hate on the other person.
She's sold her soul so many times. We all do, but in her state when you don't learn from it to bounce back, it just drags you down. The plastic surgey, the sickness, the attention seeking and self sabotaging its all a result of a broken soul that's forgotten who they are. Selena doesn't need anymore people, perhaps she just needs to spend a while alone somewhere without the influences. You can't expect to heal when you're searching for a doctor in every person that you meet. The world is cruel, for people like her its even crueler. She needs to wake up. This isn't disney channel anymore. Its adulthood, and for overly emotional people a life like that will crush you.
I cant believe someone made me feel bad for Benny Blanco. If he was a good person I wouldnt care, but he is actually a creep. I guess they deserve each other.
AS PER USUAL, We get another AMAZING video from Scandalous Media!! You girls are truly the only ones brave enough to call out Selena and her weird behaviour because most people are scared of her fanbase! Love that we get the tea about her in the most thorough and well-explained video ever! Love love love! I also need a PICK ME video about Selena! She's the poster child for being a PICK ME! hahaha
I can’t believe she’s still harassing the Biebers by following and commenting on accounts that bash them and uplift her!🙄 Gurl give it a rest! You’re in a whole new supposedly “happy” relationship 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly. And I hope people understand what I meant by calling her dangerous bc her victim behavior PROVOKES insane behavior in return that ultimately harm other people
So shes just using Her boyfriend to feel beautiful & doesnt really love him !! Shes insecure, a user & a narcissist ....happy that Justin ended up with Haley ..Haley B is lovely in comperason to Selena!!
If Benny is truly happy and aware of everything, it's none of our business. Even if he isn't happy or clueless about her flirtatious ways, we don't know any of these people.
Even without knowing all that i hated her , i felt her evil energy.. 🤐 and i felt like the only one who sees through her but now everyone is catching up
No, that has nothing to do with the bipolar diagnosis and everything to do with narcissistic personality disorder! Only narcissists and people who have histronic or antisocial personality disorder need this much attention!
She probably has borderline personality disorder. It explains these behaviours outlined in the video more than bipolar does. She could definitely have bipolar too; not mutually exclusive and actually frequently co-morbid
At some point i think she literally pays benny blanco to be her boyfriend and to speak ab her like that in public. Others (nikita dragun even) paid men to be their boyfriend and we all know how much selena cares about others opinions and what others think
I definitely think it comes from feeling a strong sense of insecurity. This industry breaks people and imagine not being the best of singers/actors and having to be constantly reminded; I have sympathized with her many times over it but sometimes there’s a line to how much pats on the back one could get but I do believe her behavior is somewhat from the industry
Could u do a video about how she cant take critizism and how she send her stupid fans to attack eugenio derbez because he said her acting was horrible shes stupid
Finally everyone sees Selena Gomez for Who she is...she might be the kind girl but she can be this type of women Who does things and acts like everyone does it to her... finally exposed.. i love her songs but i am disapointed for the person she really is.. i saw it but i was trying to not believe my eyes .. but i guess her actions really speaks louder than her own words
What you’re saying makes a lot of sense. However, it’s very obvious she has mental health issues. And that should always be taken into consideration when making judgments. I’m not saying to excuse the behaviour. But just to maybe be a little less harsh. Damn. If I were her, and I saw this video, it would put me in a severe depression that would be very hard to get out of, and I wouldn’t be able to get out of it for a long time. …. unless she harmed you? Even if it was emotionally. That may maybe warrant this kind of video. I 100% agree that she doesn’t love justin at all anymore.
I'm sorry but why is it all Selena Gomez's fault that these taken men are touching her and being inappropriate with her while they are in a relationship. I'm still not seeing how it's her fault. They know what they're doing they know how to say no
Im not a selena stan, or fan for that matter., but the hated of benny because of how he looks is disgusting. So hes not "hollywood gorgeous" but not everyone in the world is. If my husband went soley on looks i most certainly wouldnt have him right now. I am heavily scarred on very visible parts of my body, i am missing my hair, i am misisng fingers, he loves me regardless. Someones looks does not determine their actual self and everyone calling him ugly is actually the ugly ones. You should be so lucky as to find someone that loves you enough to Express it, regardless of how they look.
@@AliceWanders exactly. finally someone mature n with common sense. people say in hollywood is hard finding love, so im sure if benny is nice human being and partner, that makes him the best in her eyes. But her toxic fans are so superficial and controlling thinking hes too ugly and she deserves a brad pitt figuratively speaking and her haters think she's just there for the comfort, talking from their high ground like they perfect. Its sad because its her life and only she knows but she adnitted to have low self-esteem and big scars in belly, so being empathetic i can only assume shed see as best whoever appreciates her as she is with scars and all like benny
lmao you have read this girl for filth...i think you hit the mark with her. shes the type to be full of drama and to instigate it but to turn around act like she hates it.
Yea many of her fans are crazy and are so superficial. Also, they are childish and immature. I was in that Fandom for a long while and never behaved like that. At rhe end, it's her life and sometimes they want her to be like a barbie that dresses as they deem cool
Their friendship has issues because of Taylor being too involved in Selena’s life and giving advice that Selena doesn’t wanna hear and then Selena lying about JB, drug use, other things so they definitely have their own share of issues behind closed doors
what i don't get is that selena is still obsessed with jelena to the point of single white femaling hailey but she literally cheated on justin? make it make sense girl you helped jelena fail.
youre so delusional wow , like jb did everything fine and didnt cheated multiple times, the single white female is that fame obsessed (like everyone else in hollywood) hailey.
I would like the video of you explaining her pick me behaviors! I used to like her when I was younger and ngl I used to hate this channel back in 2015-2017 because I thought you were just posting bs. Once the drama with Hailey and Kylie happened I realize that you were kinda right about her then I started to do a deep dive on your blog about her and a lot of things added up.
Awesomeness as always thank you for the tea! Im looking forward for the Tell All answers for sure! Tunning into the Biebers for sure sure and i would love for you to cover the fallout between Madison Bailey and Rudy Pankow from OBX!!!!
Glad you enjoyed! The Tell All REVEAL is coming soon 😉 and OMG I was gonna surprise you guys with a video on Rudy & Madison. I’ve been collecting receipts and watching from afar 🕵️♀️ I was hoping you guys would be interested so I’m so happy you mentioned the OBX drama!
@ScandalousMediaTea omg tea is coming in hawt with the Tell All (#5 was so heartbreaking yet amazingly redacted!!!) And the OBX dramaaaaa! I truly love this channel and how unafraid you guys are to call out ANYONE who needs to... what is more amazing is that despite being a Tea Channel you gals know how to a brew nice teas as well as how to keep a secret 🙊 😉
Video Chapters:
0:00 - intro
1:14 - Selena Cheating On Benny?
2:23 - Selena defends herself
3:14 - Selena's history of being touchy
5:10 - Selena-No Boundaries-Gomez
7:31 - Loving the publicity
9:10 - Selena's Messy Relationship Etiquette
11:08 - Selena & Benny's relationship
16:13 - Selena complaining...again
18:33 - Selena hates doing music
I hope you guys enjoyed this video ❤☕Do you guys see Selena making a comeback to music or is she going to continue with her acting career? Can you see Selena and Benny lasting as a couple? Let me know your thoughts!
She would be able to carry a baby if the father were Justin Biebs. Also, she'd have his family name as well. She's just a fraud.
Also, you forgot to mention how she manipulated her friend into donating her kidney and called her "just one of the people she knows" only after public pressure when she didn't recognized her as an "industry friend" though that kidney donor friend has been in the industry for decades.
Leave Selena alone,, she has been through so much in life,,she can't even carry a baby of her own,depression is real, monitoring spirit 😊 stop telling people how to live, Selena never told you she is perfect,she is human, STOP
She is a billionaire and u are a hater 😊
Your entire video is nothing but 💩
@@beautyistifanus8794 👏👏👏
i hate that video with the young girl talking about her education and how she’s getting an opportunity to study and she’s like “do you believe in love”…Like read the room. Also that young woman was likely going to be married off to someone didn’t know well or love. That’s the moment i realized Selena is WEIRD
Right? I’m glad others felt this way too because for so long, Selena would ALWAYS bring up her relationship and being heartbroken at the worst times possible… it’s like read the room. I always used to question why is there multiple interviews about her heartbreak but never on big things happening in her life like her transplant… or any personal struggles … or family or even happiness. So the girl couldn’t bring up education without Selena once again shifting the narrative to her topic of choice despite how irrelevant
And her face after she asked that. She looked smug and thought she was being funny…
Selena Gomez wanted that person to find love, though.
Can you blame her?😞
Watch the full documentary that is edited, i watched the documentary full, and she never asked during the girls talk about education. Its was later when they were chilling
@@theroyalebunny8239The video was edited. If you watched full documentary, you'll know she never asked her that time, it was later when they were having fun.
I've ALWAYS felt like Selena (and Taylor Swift, tbh) like to portray themselves as the 'nice girls', the 'good girls', the 'girls girls' ... but low key, they're mean girls.
That’s what I’m saying…no sweet girl who her fans say are nice let’s them bully and send death threats to a pregnant woman
Don't bring taylor in this..........she is clever but she was always right about her song and feelings. And i never felt that taylor even tried to become a good girl.
@ that's YOUR opinion. You don't get to tell anyone else what they think. I stand by what I said.
@@Viewerfor Sent death threats? Stop lying.
@@rossitossi3016 I’m lying? Maybe you’re naive. It was a big thing, unless you’re living under a rock. After Hailey announced she was pregnant, Selena fans or people who are still stuck on Selena and Justin being end game, started spamming her comments hoping she’d miscarriage. You can say I’m lying, but I know I’m not. You’re either an idiot, or you are too young to have instagram, which is where the hate was.
I used to like her until I realised that she was fake. She is just playing this victim card to gather sympathy and sell a lot of makeup and I can give that to her she made it.
All celebrities are fake, for some reason they think having millions in the bank makes them ‘better’ somehow….
What really set me off was when she literally let people bully and bullied Haley herself, especially after she had a stroke which I’ve gone through both of those things and it’s not nice. It is not fun now I just can’t tolerate Selena Gomez. That was the last straw for me to not like her. She speaks out about kindness and all that and does this shit. She needs a brutal awakening.
@@Kitten_Metropolis she herself is a bully... I was pissed off with her "my name is bella hadid video"
People need to understand, tat true victims are "beggars" who ask for something, in our case - recognition, reward, praise, simply because something negative happened to them. Selena receives awards for - good roles, good songs, good cosmetics, good attitude, good attitude towards ordinary people. Selena is NOT a victim, she is a fighter. Please don't twist the meaning of words! Personally, I don't feel sorry for Selena, she inspires admiration, she inspires people who have health problems - to live as they dreamed and achieve something. there are many people who think like me.
@@Kitten_Metropolis uh? she's said MULTIPLE TIMES for her fans to be kind and to never talk bad about other people and TWICE defending Hailey. She even took a pic with Haileh to stop the rumors. Are u living under a rock? You sound type of person believes anything a news show or gossip video says 😂
Hi, did you see Blanco was included in the list of the sexiest men according to PEOPLE magazine in 2024. How???😂
Lmao sexiest man in lalaland
Nah what 😭 he's cute but not sexiest man cute
I literally asked the same thing.
at this point, i honestly think he likes being humiliated 😂 he’s got a lot of confidence i’ll give him that
Well...and did you know that some girls mind find him just that🤨?
😂😂😂😂😂not me ofc lol eww!
Selena Gomez is Justin Timberlake's woman version. I hope Justin Bieber will also publish a book like Britney. He has an important story that he didn't get a chance to tell. If he publishes a book like Britney everything we never imagined happened and she did, she'll be extremely hated with 0 fans like Justin Timberlake. Nostalgia can only protect you for 20 years at most. When next generation comes and you start to hit 40s nostalgias effect dies out. Only raw you remains with karma.
So if you know so much, tell us lol
*womanizer by britney spears playing in the background* 😂
@@ecemfendal2172 wow at 49 I feel that so hard ✨
true
You seem well informed lol.
I don't know much about Selena and it's clear to me that you're describing someone with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. Emotionally chaotic, impulsive, insecure, vain and petty, obsessed with their image, charming and persuasive, has a victim complex, manipulative, lacks empathy and sees others as objects to be used and discarded; cruel, maybe even sadistic..... she's textbook.
Yeah I’ve thought this was a personality disorder she has for a decade now but I’m not her personal doctor so I never categorize her with that as a fact but I do talk about it in theory
This is Hailey's story
Selena actually claims to have Bipolar disorder
@@ansh1147 no it’s not. Hailey is well adjusted and down to earth
@@60sbabydoll777how do you know that? You live with her ass or something?
All of these celebrities are so out of touch with REAL LIFE! They are entitled, arrogant, fake brats and people need to stop looking up to them! I’d love to see them all try to make it in a normal job and start shining the light on real role models and people who actually make a difference for others. Because of the Diddy situation it sounds like most of these celebrities are compromised and have not conducted themselves in appropriate ways. The days of worshipping them are OVER! 😂
yep
actually the ones you talking about are non famous people nowadays
Did you say... BRAT ?! #BratSummer
FINALLY AND WELL SAID 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This!!! Pin this comment! I hope people stop worshipping these evil weirdos
you've been telling us this since 2013 and her fans still don't listen lmaoooo
period, veteran readers know the tea
Your obsession with bashing Selena is unhealthy @@ScandalousMediaTea
@Daniebraids when does accountability ever play in?? Honest question.
@@DaniebraidsHer focus isn't solely on Selena and pointing out Selena's actual behavior is not bashing, it is honest reporting, receipts included.
@strawberrtskygirl44 2013...... good times. 😆😆 She was relentless back then, and still is!! ( ﾟ∀ ﾟ)
I'm always shocked how flat and monotone her voice is.
Such a strange voice
I stopped watching only murders in the building because of her. Her voice was so annoying and her energy on screen was flat and not a wide range. I don’t think she is a great actress, more mediocre
@@Diana-bq9ql it's really jarring.
it may be like that because of meds
@@whodis2792wow making fun of someones voice nice bully
Hope she finds peace with herself. And can keep stable relationship. And stop being bitter to others.
She is not bitter you are bullies leave her alone.
@@PhatutshedzoMoleyahere is the enabler
@@PhatutshedzoMoleyaso you can be a fan but not accepting what reality is and what they did is wrong that's stupidity
Yea bitter when she literally took her time to heal and then has a boyfriend of a year and live together... 😂 you talking not about facts like I gave but looks like u know her thoughts 😂
@@shanelgarcia no matter what you say I love her Shame bullies.
Yes this is spot on. What I've always thought about her hypocrite. Britney Spears said the same thing about Selena and Britney Spears was Selena's idol...
I love britney for my entire lifetime and I'm happy I do 😂
No, Britney spears has shown really erradic behavior. She now has shown many times her love for selena even posting her many times and the same video over and over. Idk and idc what she has but she didn't talk bad about selena if she's posting her admiring her.
@@ElizRued ya that's what meth does to humans...
@ElizRued just because she's acting erratic doesn't make her a bad person be so fr rn
@@Capszuleh I think they force drugs on Britney or possibly she’s MK Ultra programmed beyond her control. You can’t blame the Victim for what these wicked handlers did just like you can’t blame Justin for what happened to him. Sadly, they both are broken. Please pray for them and their health.
Taylor and Selena are probably 2 of the most savvy and intelligent women in the industry. The reason why Selena gets caught red handed, so to speak, is because she’s too emotional, unlike Taylor. Taylor is certainly someone I admire in the sense of being able to flip her sadness, downfall, depression etc and monetize it to then come back on top. I wish I had an ounce of her cold nature. I’m way too emotional to be able to operate that way. But I do wish I could, in some aspects.
It's so easy not to care once your realize that nobody else cares either. If you can't put yourself first without feeling guilty then you've still got lots of work to do. Take it from Selena, becoming a wreck because you spent your youth looking for love and validation will make you bitter.
@@y2kmeangirlshe is not bitter she is shining and clapping back to haters .The problem is that you want to bring her down and we all know who fans you are of course you are the Kardashians fans, Hailey fans Justin fans Diddy fans . You must calm down the more you dig the past the more she is shining bullies.
@@ReeCrowsFray really love your take on this 👏👏
@@PhatutshedzoMoleyalol how are people who don’t like her diddy fans. Some people are just so delusional.
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya clapping back at haters is cringe and should have been left in 2016, change my mind ✨️
I can’t believe she’s still harassing the Biebers by following and commenting on accounts that bash them and uplift her!🙄 Gurl give it a rest! You’re in a whole new supposedly “happy” relationship 🤦🏽♀️ Also I noticed that it’s always Benny praising her in interviews like she’s a goddess or something. He can’t stop showering her with praises and gifts however she never gives the same energy back to him. You almost never hear her talk about him. The most she will do is post a Insta pic
Did the same with Charlie Pluth
Selenas never harassed the Beibers,Scandalous Media is that Scandalous dum dum,but they have something personnel against Selena,1st of all Orlando Selena and Katy all said that Orlando never went out with Selena and sees her like a lil Sister,Go look at all the disgusting various post they've made about her,what pisses me off is that they lie on her and I can fact check every big lie they've said about Selena and mind you never never never post about Justin or Hailey s fuck ups,only kissing ass...You believe those lies because you want to..SCANDALOUS...don't you get it...shit...Benny came out dancing with her costar so you guys can see that they trust each other and she wasn't Grinding on him...could you see that,of course not,Scandalous Media is petty stupid and jealous and everyone has gone on with their life except for them...I'm making sure a block this site with a Grievance
@@zah936 le her fans:oh my god She's an angel suffered a lot for bieber..
Are you serious she can’t be still doing this lmao like i like Selena i think she’s beautiful , she serves looks , i like some of her songs and watched her show but man this is absolutely sad and ridiculous the man moved on and has a family get over it now its just weird and needs help!
Lmao she does talk about Bennie and in fact she would praise him a lot in social media and interviews... the interviews just weirdly would ask him a lot about selena because he's low-key and has less projects, whereas selena has many things going on such as TV shows, movies, music, cooking show, beauty make up brand, philanthropy, producer, etc.. so it gets buried because Benny just has a cook book and composes music
I used to idolize Selena Gomez because of her good speeches on mental health and I like her music but yeah... I've started to learn that celebrities are just people and shouldn't be idolized or worshipped 😅
If I like the celebs music, I'll listen to it but i won't like treat them like a goddess and think they are the purest souls
I hope this makes sense
Selena was never a good person from the start
They are human like the rest of us. Judge not
she bullied katy, demi, miley, cailin, kendall, gigi, bella, kylie, hailey, sofia yovanna and barbara
It makes complete sense. That's a smart way to look at it. I used to be the same way about Selena.
Omg I'm glad someone did a thorough video of this! For YEARS I noticed that she would always date her friends ex's and I always knewwwww she was the problem because she never stayed friends with them after! Very VERY messed up👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾
Every celebrity date the ex boyfriends what about Kendall dating Justin he was Selina ex what about Kyle dating drake he was Hailey ex what about Hailey sharing Justin with the Kardashians her friends you all hate Selina leave her alone
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya.These people should be ashamed of themselves! My God, get a life you'll, enjoy yours, be nice to someone, help your siblings...but please do something constructive and see how wonderful life can be. Don't destroy someone else's because of gossip like this. Have a bless one.
@PhatutshedzoMoleya Kendall never dated Justin and Selena was never friends with the Jenner girls. She tried to get close to them and get signed by Kris that year when she attended Coachella with Kylie and Kendall but it went belly up with Selena's antics and paranoia. She tried smearing them in the media then got exposed for it.
Celebrities date each other.. stop living under a rock 🤦♀️ selena dated jb first as theh were each others first love as they said. Then she dated the weekend, but she wasn't friends with Bella, only chit chatted with Gigi in an event once in a while... actually bellas close friend called SIMI is the one dating the weekend now (she was also selenas friend) lol and selena has hung out with Simi because there is no bad blood. If you gonna gossip and talk trash, learn your facts
You guys go back so many years to bring up old dirt, but never address the way she was bullied. It just shows how jealous these creators are. At least she never attended Diddy parties.
I felt bad when benny said she is doing charity and her fans mock him and call him ugly
i don't he's not a good person
He's not ugly!!!!!!!
@@MaryPetrauskas-z1g yes infact I find him cute 🥺
@@henry2650 I don't know about that but calling someone out because of looks doesn't make anyone a good person either
he is way more talented than her, i think she just want to use him to produce music for her
'Rough looking men' and then showing charlie puth is wild to me
😂😂
Plus how was Justin Beiber ever 'rough' looking - he still just looks like a 10yr old with tattoos 😅
@@trudimclaren4301 No but thats the thing. Her type is the rough older man. So if she dated a girly man it was probably just to use him, and she'd be able to manipulate them easily. Look how she treated our girly king Justin.
Yeah, that part just didn't make sense. Every man looked very different and none of them resembled the aforementioned gay man.
I'm so sick of narcissists who seem to end up super rich. Didn't she ghost the friend who gave her a KIDNEY? That would be enough for me to walk away and never look back.
Yes and she even picked out franca while telling her it was just a random pick like no she picked someone who couldn't back out.
It's the fact us normal people have to wait for someone to literally PASS ON to get vital organs and selena can just go around asking for it. No thanks. Not ever buying into someone like that.
1) she didn't ghost her 2) they are still friends and even called themselves best friends months ago.... you know their friendship more than them and what they wanna show? They're both private ppl and hide well so there isn't many paparazzi pics (yea I'm crazy and have looked them up lol)
@ElizRued I don't see anything selena related on britneys insta or Twitter
@@ElizRuednah..
They're all so messy... Selena Gomez, Ariana Grande, Demi Lovato, Taylor Swift. The only one I can think off that actually seems like a decent person is Zendaya. I love you, Z!
Zendaya is a good egg
All Hollywood is messy
Am I the only who thinks she isn't smart? On my opinion she is just lucky. She was that pretty good looking girl and in this world this can help you very much for success and lucky in having a good team (they are the ones wo r smart) without them she'd have been unknown yeeaaars ago
shes smart in knowing how to play and use people. when you can spin any narrative and are beautiful, it can lead to many opportunities, especially in hollywood
@ she a narcissist
I think pretty privilege got her really far in the industry
Idk if she is smart or not. Sometimes she sounds slow indeed. She has been acting from a young age. She was in Barney show. Idk man
Nah I hate her with a passion but I gotta agree she's smart af maybe not as smart as taylor (no one in the industry is smart as taylor) but she's smart she emotionally manipulates people used Justin to stay relevant for years without putting much music (2albums in 8 years is not what u expect from one of the main popstars with millions of fans ) she hung out with Justin just before every album or movie release she tricked people into believing she got abused and cheated to create sympathy she used her disease and mental health to gain sympathy (but I don't blame her tho she didn't ask for it it ain't her fault) she still has fans today with very less promo and even less songs and movies this is all cuz she's smart
Brooklyn Beckham also said something along the lines of Selena being his first crush!! Nicola is STRONG as hell getting so close to her and I always found that whole friendship weird af
And everyone cheats in Hollywood, it’s like psychotic but I think it’s this theory that everyone has too many options so when I see something sus in Hollywood I always remember everyone cheats
@@ScandalousMediaTeathat’s so true! Everyone sleeps around with one another it’s truly gross
I think Nicola lowkey was using Selena to promote her own movie and clout after the movie came out no news of them together
@@ScandalousMediaTeatrue..it's hardly u can give logic of genuine relationship on her..they are like animals now..but still feel to put some positivity as we don't know there might be genuine relations too..
@@ScandalousMediaTeait's more like that they have sexualised everybody..so ofc they think there's too many options..but problem is they don't even have guts to be single and go around..they r just mess
But do you believe in love??
Cracks me up 😂
i feel bad for the girl talking about her education though. she wouldn’t feel comfortable calling selena out during that conversation.
@@noorie_noorie_oh I agree absolutely!
@@noorie_noorie_ especially with me by her side none of these people would do this stuff with me by my wife side
Ohhhhhhh nooooooo none of this trash from that guy who will never get her creep
@@steviasativa9803 I do I belong to love and was created by love
HIS NAME IS MESSIAH JESUS
Her behavior is so scary as hell even her social media behavior too
yeah she's very manic and erratic online. she will spend hours talking to haters and then she'll disappear for 12 mins. she has even said that she has an addictive personality to things like social media and her phone, to the point where she would have an assistant post for her so she doesn't post
@@ScandalousMediaTealiar hater how much did they pay you to bring her down .of you knew if you bring Selina topic you will gain views bully .You must follow Diddy to jail hater.
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya lol Selena is bringing herself down, no need for other interventions 🤣 when are u ppl gonna understand that Selena is Selena's no.1 enemy?
@@ShakiraSmylie no it’s not it’s weird creeps trien to play with her name
There predators stalkers like fans that are simply creeps
@@ScandalousMediaTea that's one of the few truths u said and because she's talked about it and she's shown with action, not just your interpretation.
She does not have traditional values. Women with traditional values don’t act like she does. We do have boundaries and respect those boundaries.
Exactly that's total hypocrites
Actually it does not have to be traditional tho..it's just basic decency and standard..but yea what to expect from Hollywoodies
Werk nun!
If her acting takes off she will get rid of Benny, loose wait ( is she on Ozempic or some kind of alternative??) and get into another high profile relationship with some young/ hot actor or a singer!! Mark my words!! She keeps Benny around in case It doesn’t work out and she will get bored again. I think she likes him as a support system but not in a million years will I believe she is in love with him!! He is more like a brotherly/fatherly figure to her that makes her feel like a little spoilt princess.
I think she used ozempic too. She got fat shamed right around the time it blew up and dropped that weight really quick after. Too quick.
She has been acting since she was tiny on the Barney show. I think she will always have a successful acting career
I noticed it too I said she prob on ozempic or another alternative but her fans will say it’s lupus that’s why she isnot so swollen anymore 🫠
Nobody was meant to stay together forever. She has a right to Move on from what doesn’t serves her anymore.
@@kittycaruso50name one big movie she's been in on the last 5-8 years?
Anyone friends w Taylor gives me snake vibes
😂true
@@Leslie-zn9ly so u mean Gigi Hadid give you a snake vibe she is best friends with Taylor like closer to Taylor.
Okay Candle Jenner's pr!!! 🤣
@@PhatutshedzoMoleyathey said anyone friends with Taylor gives them snake vibes. So obviously that includes Gigi. And definitely Blake lively, fs
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya I feel like Bella is genuine but I don't get good vibes from gigi . somebody in comments said that she was hooking up with zayn when he was still with Perry .i don't know about that matter but I feel like all of Taylor's friends are with her because of her influence.i really want demi Lovato and taylor to be best friends because demi is a genuine friend and both need each other.
It’s so annoying that people don’t see past her facade
I'm at the "do you believe in love" part while doing laundry and it's like that girl online who does skits and POV of "that girl on a movie you can't stand" and Selena is that personified lmao
It really is omg 😭😭😭
The student describing her situation of being married off looks so young, maybe not even 14 years old! How could anyone respond as Selena did?
It was a normal question not really a big deal
@@beauty_red5984how should a 14 yr know that it was wrong
Yes please make a video of her pick me moments and jealousy
I second this.
I want that too!
Im more curious about man stealer stalking queen Hailey's pick me copycat videos
YESSS, her "relatable" moments are so cringe
Yall are cringe and she keeps winning ruclips.net/video/AuOpnLpXXh0/видео.htmlsi=_mQT--oLv0UT5Kn9
Great video, and it reminds me of how quickly the Internet forgot about selena and Orlando thing. And funnily enough, those who remember it only blame JB since "it starts with him being close to Miranda [Orlando's ex]."
I just checked on so many people, and I believed that the infamous pic of them in the club wasn't even when he was with Katy.
Like selena's pr team did the job!
Thank you! And totally. The photos of Selena and Orlando were the night of her Revival album party release and Orlando & Katy were together. The night before, Katy was talking about growing old with him on Twitter so when these photos came out, people were like wtf...? To this day, I find that whole thing very odd but according to sources... they allege that Orlando always cheats on Katy so
@@ScandalousMediaTeaKaty’s last album confirmed it. That lady is dead inside😮💨
Its not selena and orlando thing its miranda and justin thing lol
Lmao yea, mother theresa... u were on their bed sheets? Yea now a woman can't be sitting with a man because then she's had a relationship and all..
@@ElizRued they made out - why is she friends with someone that attacked jb physically
She reminds me of JLo...
And mix Chrissy Teagan
@@KosmicTearsand Megan markel all these beeches
I have a video about selena you may be interested in.
@alwayspopular1992 cool I'll watch it.
Man stealer HAILEY'S???
Talk about attention seeking @5:46!!! That is high school maturity level with the, "Ur prettier than me", "no Ur prettier than me" type bullshit that 15 year girls carry on with or the, "I'm so ugly" with friends saying "no Ur beautiful, i wish i was as beautiful as u". Immaturity & attention seeking at it's finest on social media where she knows all her high school age fans will all be telling her how pretty she is.
Yea ,I hate the fact that other people see that she is gorgeous ,but the fact that she can’t see that for herself is so unattractive.I think behaving so insecurely and talking down on herself are traits of low self esteem. Hope she keep working on herself, that inner beauty.
@@iamtoogummy5590 yea, signs do show and she herself has said she's working on self Esteem. As someone that used to have that, it's a big reason of anxiety (also perfectionism) hope and can see signs she getting more confident, I hope. If we are compassionate, we can only wish such
I remember during that time Bella was getting mean comments saying she's ugly as she looks so old due to plastic surgery (especially as it was during the time bella look super skinny and ber cheeks seemed to be so hollow) so selena put that video. (I'm not saying she isn't insecure and she doesn't act in an awkward or weird way)but I remember that.. I think it was her bipolar (it shows in different ways but sometimes the ppl who suffer this say such out of the ordinary things lol like selena has said in the past lol) still i hope she gets better with time. Mental health is a big thing. I suffer with the low self Esteem one in past and thanks God I'm done with that 😊
I used to follow her every like and comment and actions with receipts 😅 yea I had a mental issue and now I just see another human I don't like people judging like I protect and hold accountable other people irl as that's been my career
So over this woman. She needs to get real and retire.
Well, only you are over. Her numbers and success say otherwise. Bye bye. You're not needed. Leave the space for us who like her work 🤷♀️
@ElizRued Fair. It's just me. You do you.
@ElizRued Uhm. By the way, Selena fan, watch the video. What are you doing here? You have no right to boot me out. You're all so toxic. We all have the right to follow what we choose. Stop bullying people.
why should she retire? the world without her is boring
like shes entertaining and does good work and makeup line and events but she needs to actually be in wizard beyond waverly place
@meralEdwtDawlatly You are right. Just tired of being disillusioned.
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I can't believe what she has done to her face with all that plastic surgery and botox/fillers. She didn't even look like this when she had her health surgery. Made her age terribly.
The worst part is her fans are in denial she had anything done. Apparently lupus changes bone structure, makes your boobs go up 2 cup sizes in 3 weeks time, gives you veneers, raises your eyebrows and fills your thin upper lip til it is fatter than your bottom lip. Sad thing is, she was naturally beautiful. She messed that up..
Her along with many others. I despise the current "beauty standard". Being a human version of a bratz doll is not the good look seem to think it is
She was literally praised for her natural beauty back in the day to the point where people would put down other celebrities who did get work done and compare it to her, and she was the envy of a lot of girls. Idk how she thought she needed anything done.
All you can see in the whole of America is only Selina who did surgery most of the celebrity did plastic surgery Kyle,Kim Hailey did it.And Kylie looks older than Kris her mom but because it's Selina you bully her
@@PhatutshedzoMoleya it's bc everybody says that it's from lupus😂 yeah,you get fox eyes from it too🤦♀️
She’s secretly polyamorous and doesn’t want to admit it because she thinks polyamory is a bad thing. She needs to come clean and be upfront because there’s no excuse to cheat on her boyfriends
Oh that’s interesting
I think she wants to be poly and sleep with multiple guys but also WON'T let the guy have any female interaction or closeness. That's not polyamory, that's plain manipulation and control.
@@supreme.justice lmao u talking like you're selenas 🐈
@@ElizRued i wouldn't wanna be any Western woman's 🐈 coz they are so overused by too many guys bye
@@supreme.justice that's true. it's sadly a worldwide phenomenon. ew. it's hard to find someone who still saving for marriage like me out here :/
I told you all. Selena is not who you think she is. Period!
Wasn't Selena trying to cuddle with Rema while he was dating Justine Skye?
She really needs to "Calm down"... 😅
@ makes me wonder if Selena purposely do it for strategic promotion or she wanted to poke the bear (Hailey’s group). She is one sneaky and clever girl.
@@jyn88 yall are sad dude
Yall need mental help
@@jyn88 she wasn’t trien to cuddle with no one yall are minions of Lucifer it’s crazy and sad dude
@@jyn88 people wish ahahhahahahah
isn't she basically a narcissist? (just asking, I don't really know but it seems like it)
Just like her …frenemy.🐍🤢😡
She isn't a narcissist, she has bipolar which isn't being a narcissist. We all have narcissism to some degree but this doesn't make someone a narcissist for having a few traits 🙌💕
Bipolar disorder is the female version of narcissism. In the sense that it is mostly females diagnosed with it. And males mostly diagnosed with narcissism. As some else already pointed out, both are cluster B disorders.
@ToworshipHIMilive1 Bipolar has nothing to do with narcissistic personality disorder and neither are gender specific. I have known men to have bipolar as well as women and I have a father with NPD and he is nothing like a person with bipolar. You need to get your facts straight and do your research before calling people narcissist's
@@Space_Princess 100%. agree. diagnoses are always full of stigma and stereotypes and it's sad
Selena has problems, probably mental disorders. It is quite amazing that she functions at a high level of success. Good on her for achieving that level of work . But the nasty way she trolls Justin and Haylie and the way she has always gone after men with a woman is gross. She loves drama and is trying to fill a hole inside herself . But she has been the best at hiding the nasty side of herself . Great analysis .
Perfectly said! She’s a very complex person with struggles for sure but as you said … the way she goes about it is disgusting. Thanks for watching! ❤️
I mean, you have to be nasty to be that successful, especially when the right talent was lacking at the beginning of her career.
@@tinan266 Good point what did Rihanna said, "Well behaved Women , seldom make history" But who wants to be remembered as being a petty Bit*h?
@@ScandalousMediaTea Love your work ! 100% 💘
@@ScandalousMediaTea Degrading a successful women that's what you do? As if those biebers are not problematic. That hailey girl always craves attention which she doesn't get. You are paid pr of beibers. That's clear. No human is perfect So to scrutinize every move or word of any human is senseless and illogical. If you start observing any normal human, you will keep counting thousands of mistakes, double standards and flaws. The things you do is absurd and disgusting. Shame on you.
She was always overrated to me. Both as an artist and a person
"she feels special and loved because he holds her on this pedestal of 'i can't believe you're my girl and you took a chance on a hobo, like me'" 😭
You just made me laugh again LOL
Benny is 5/10
But if he went to a gym for a while and got fit and got a makeover
Got A better haircut and shaved his unibrow
He would easily be 8/10 and girls will be all over him
Benny is not bad
He just needs to take care of himself more
@@MateLeob you could say that about anyone lol
Why does she sound like she's drunk, that nasally voice of her is rather annoying if that's how she talks.
That's how she talks 😂
@@ElizRuedthat is not how she naturally talks….
Selena Gomez has been diagnosed and medically treated for Borderline personality disorder. Anyone who has dealt with such a condition knows how disruptive it is for the patient, therapist and anyone else around. Is borderline a variant of narcissism? Uncertain. What is certain: Selena is living in a personal hell which draws anyone in her orbit into the chaos and drama of the condition. Untreatable. Happiness is unattainable. Limerance (addicted blind 'love' ) is part of it. Absence of boundaries part of it. The ability to see/understand where/how/why she keeps getting it wrong is impossible for her. Her brain is wired wrong. Very sad.
Anyone who has experienced the vicious cruelty, cold-heartedness, and even sadism of a borderline knows that it is definitely related to narcissistic personality disorder. They are both cluster B personality disorders. The main difference is that a borderline is full of emotional chaos and pain, and can sometimes feel genuine remorse for their horrible behaviour, while a narcissist is cold and controlled, and never feels or expresses true remorse. However, feeling remorse doesn't stop a borderline repeating their abûsîve behaviour. They don't really change, they still see themselves as the victim and their cruelty as justified self-defence.
Is it not bipolar?
@@fatimanaveed9721 Bipolar symptoms (manic episodes followed by depressed lows) is part of it. Medication treats those symptoms but the cluster of behaviors, beliefs and practices are part of the borderline condition. Sometimes related to cptsd (complex post traumatic disorder) stemming from childhood. Living hell.
she said she’s bipolar not borderline
also borderline looks very different from the typical media presentation and it very much depends on the person in how it shows up
i thought she was bipolar not borderline personality disorder??
I cringed when that video of her asking if she believes in love to a girl who was going to be forced in an arranged marriage with someone way older than her .. is disgusting. She’s so.. self involved & oblivious it’s crazy
How is she a singer? Can’t listen to her speak for more than 2 seconds
Im sorry but why is she still relevant
Honestly I've never understood the hype about Selena. People treating her as she's the best diva of our times... Why? She gives me 'sneeky' vibes tbh. She always pretends to be the good girl in the room but she's probably the mean girl. Time will tell.
Hailey literally hanging out with the mean girls anyway
Exactly
@@danialrafiq3290yes, Kendall and Kylie (and the Hadids to a small extent) are mean girls, but you know what you are going to get with them. They don’t pretend to be nice. You know they’re cliquey and snobby. But they don’t pretend to be these innocent nice girls. They’re not narcissist like Selena. I’d rather deal with mean girls like Hailey’s crew than sneaky Selena
Media is full of BS. She has been put on a pedestal, while her exs wife is ripped apart. Now, we get anti Selena sentiment. Selena is unstable, she has been this way for a long time.
The justin and selena drama never fails to piss me off. The fact that her fans ruthlessly harass him and Hailey is disgusting.
Wow like it doesn't go both ways.This channel is example how Bieber's are still obsessed with her
i think people must stop connecting them
Sonactually you are mad at the fans that like to harass? Ok
She loves the beauty and the beast dynamic another (possibly emotionally immature) trait… she is very cute
The way her Stans defend her even when she is wrong is insanity to me
She needs to pretend she’s happy with her so-called bf so people will think she’s moved on from her ex. She’s pathetic!
And who told you that..Selena , benny , or some jb fan? Huh👂
Oh tell me more of what selena told u.... 😊🍿 if she wanted to do that, she would've gotten a rebound right away 🤦♀️ she had many chances and I'm sure many guys even hotter o richer have tried dating her
People have zero common sense
How about man stealer HAILEY'S
I agree. Now a part of me does believe Benny does make her happy. It appears to be a stable relationship. He makes her feel loved. However, Selena isn’t truly happy with Benny because he isn’t her type (he’s not masculine enough nor is he that goodlooking). But she doesn’t have any insecurities about him ever cheating on her or making her feel bad about her weight. That’s why she won’t date someone more conventionally attractive. She’s also unhappy with her overall life (depressed, narcissistic) despite having millions of dollars, a successful beauty brand, and her acting career is taking off. It’s truly sad to see given that she also has a close knit supportive family. Yet she’s so deeply unhappy. She will never get over Justin
She unironically said she wanted a kid to 'check a box' ...
I really liked her until I realized the truth about her.
What's the truth?🤔
Same. Tbh I first read this blog back in 2014 so I knew about Selena’s behavior for a decade. But I still liked Selena because of childhood nostalgia and because she’s pretty. But by 2021 she lost her good looks and she started outwardly showing her shady behavior and mean girl pick me attack online. She is her own downfall. Now I dislike her.
Speaking of Selena victimizing herself on her Spanish-speaking skills, could you do a video on how Eugenio Derbez criticized her Spanish in "Emilia Perez" and her response?
I love how we know her better than her die hard fans.
I came to comment this. I'm a Spanish speaker. I just watched a clip from the movie and her acting was very off because she was mixing all the words together and she had no idea what she was saying so the intonation was on the wrong words. She received awards for this mess which is crazy. Eugenio was just saying what we were all thinking.
Her responding in the video comments was the typical victimizing behavior she always does to get people to feel sorry for her and hate on the other person.
She's sold her soul so many times. We all do, but in her state when you don't learn from it to bounce back, it just drags you down. The plastic surgey, the sickness, the attention seeking and self sabotaging its all a result of a broken soul that's forgotten who they are. Selena doesn't need anymore people, perhaps she just needs to spend a while alone somewhere without the influences. You can't expect to heal when you're searching for a doctor in every person that you meet. The world is cruel, for people like her its even crueler. She needs to wake up. This isn't disney channel anymore. Its adulthood, and for overly emotional people a life like that will crush you.
Can you explain how she sold her soul ?
By the way this is the best cooment ❤
I cant believe someone made me feel bad for Benny Blanco. If he was a good person I wouldnt care, but he is actually a creep. I guess they deserve each other.
AS PER USUAL, We get another AMAZING video from Scandalous Media!! You girls are truly the only ones brave enough to call out Selena and her weird behaviour because most people are scared of her fanbase! Love that we get the tea about her in the most thorough and well-explained video ever! Love love love! I also need a PICK ME video about Selena! She's the poster child for being a PICK ME! hahaha
So Selena Gomez is Ariana Grande who never got caught?
Yes. Selena is good at hiding her flaws more than Ariana.
Selena Gomez being a hypocrite as usual.
I can’t believe she’s still harassing the Biebers by following and commenting on accounts that bash them and uplift her!🙄 Gurl give it a rest! You’re in a whole new supposedly “happy” relationship 🤦🏽♀️
Well apparently Benny is sexiest man alive so hey , what do we know? 😂😂😂 like how delusional can people be ?
Well even though it isn't true, it must be nice for him that he is getting some kind of benefit of dating her considering she dances on other men.
Next up, Ariana's man
LMAO I hope it made Benny feel good after all this hate about his looks
Pay to play. Prince Harry was on the list as well. It's well known that these accolades are all paid for.
Her behavior is so dangerous and people really need to see this video and stay away from her 😬
Exactly. And I hope people understand what I meant by calling her dangerous bc her victim behavior PROVOKES insane behavior in return that ultimately harm other people
@ScandalousMediaTea how about you make a video about stalker Hailey if you have guts pointing out what she did wrong?
So shes just using Her boyfriend to feel beautiful & doesnt really love him !! Shes insecure, a user & a narcissist ....happy that Justin ended up with Haley ..Haley B is lovely in comperason to Selena!!
When Liam passed away she didn't care at all she was posting pictures of her happy even though she knew him personally
If Benny is truly happy and aware of everything, it's none of our business. Even if he isn't happy or clueless about her flirtatious ways, we don't know any of these people.
Even without knowing all that i hated her , i felt her evil energy.. 🤐 and i felt like the only one who sees through her but now everyone is catching up
I don't like her voice when she talks it does sound monotone and or drunk.
Finally more people realize this fact about her
Maturity is when you realise Selena is the actual mean girl who knows how to play victim very well😅
I’m glad someone is finally calling her out on her sus behavior
I feel so sorry for benny
He seems like a very nice guy to be honest
He deserves better
You must not know how he exploited his toddler
That's what I wanted to say, he's WEEEEEIRD around kids
She can't keep friends. That says it all 🫢
I guess her behaviour can also be quite indicative of bipolar.
Yep, which she says she is
No, that has nothing to do with the bipolar diagnosis and everything to do with narcissistic personality disorder! Only narcissists and people who have histronic or antisocial personality disorder need this much attention!
My best friend is bi polar and she isn't this messy. Selena is spoiled and entitled and surrounded by yes people.
She probably has borderline personality disorder. It explains these behaviours outlined in the video more than bipolar does. She could definitely have bipolar too; not mutually exclusive and actually frequently co-morbid
@@mistypedhi u now not all bipolars behave the same, right? Thats common sense.....
I was done with her after the kidney drama with Francia.
At some point i think she literally pays benny blanco to be her boyfriend and to speak ab her like that in public. Others (nikita dragun even) paid men to be their boyfriend and we all know how much selena cares about others opinions and what others think
O que será que significa ela se importar tanto assim com o que os outros pensam?
Damn Benny needs a real loving woman! Man... Hes too good for her actually.
I just wonder if her behaviour comes from the same abuse in the industry that Justin received, Just it Comes out in a different way
I definitely think it comes from feeling a strong sense of insecurity. This industry breaks people and imagine not being the best of singers/actors and having to be constantly reminded; I have sympathized with her many times over it but sometimes there’s a line to how much pats on the back one could get but I do believe her behavior is somewhat from the industry
Could u do a video about how she cant take critizism and how she send her stupid fans to attack eugenio derbez because he said her acting was horrible shes stupid
8:03 .. crying with no tears
Her voice is so annoying.
Finally everyone sees Selena Gomez for Who she is...she might be the kind girl but she can be this type of women Who does things and acts like everyone does it to her... finally exposed.. i love her songs but i am disapointed for the person she really is.. i saw it but i was trying to not believe my eyes .. but i guess her actions really speaks louder than her own words
Selena LACKS self confidence.... Nothing less, nothing more. Pretty simple to figure out without having to post an entire video over it. 😏
What you’re saying makes a lot of sense.
However, it’s very obvious she has mental health issues. And that should always be taken into consideration when making judgments.
I’m not saying to excuse the behaviour. But just to maybe be a little less harsh.
Damn.
If I were her, and I saw this video, it would put me in a severe depression that would be very hard to get out of, and I wouldn’t be able to get out of it for a long time.
…. unless she harmed you? Even if it was emotionally.
That may maybe warrant this kind of video.
I 100% agree that she doesn’t love justin at all anymore.
❤ me some Scandalous Media!😂🎉
and we ❤️ you!
Thank you!!! I’ve always got a weird aura from her, like through a fucking screen, like I knew there was something there
I'm sorry but why is it all Selena Gomez's fault that these taken men are touching her and being inappropriate with her while they are in a relationship. I'm still not seeing how it's her fault. They know what they're doing they know how to say no
Im not a selena stan, or fan for that matter., but the hated of benny because of how he looks is disgusting.
So hes not "hollywood gorgeous" but not everyone in the world is.
If my husband went soley on looks i most certainly wouldnt have him right now. I am heavily scarred on very visible parts of my body, i am missing my hair, i am misisng fingers, he loves me regardless. Someones looks does not determine their actual self and everyone calling him ugly is actually the ugly ones. You should be so lucky as to find someone that loves you enough to Express it, regardless of how they look.
@@AliceWanders exactly. finally someone mature n with common sense. people say in hollywood is hard finding love, so im sure if benny is nice human being and partner, that makes him the best in her eyes. But her toxic fans are so superficial and controlling thinking hes too ugly and she deserves a brad pitt figuratively speaking and her haters think she's just there for the comfort, talking from their high ground like they perfect. Its sad because its her life and only she knows but she adnitted to have low self-esteem and big scars in belly, so being empathetic i can only assume shed see as best whoever appreciates her as she is with scars and all like benny
It takes two to tango. She could tell them to stop or move away but she doesn’t seem to have a problem with it.
lmao you have read this girl for filth...i think you hit the mark with her. shes the type to be full of drama and to instigate it but to turn around act like she hates it.
I honestly feel bad for Benny, he gets so much hate due to the way he looks/dresses from her fans and she doesn't do anything about it
Cuz she doesn’t care! And long as she’s the one being praised that’s all that matters right?🤷🏽♀️😂
Yea many of her fans are crazy and are so superficial. Also, they are childish and immature. I was in that Fandom for a long while and never behaved like that. At rhe end, it's her life and sometimes they want her to be like a barbie that dresses as they deem cool
Because she secretly loves that the fans have put on her a pedastal. She wants Benny to know his place
For real curious, how is she friends with tay tay for so long, being this self involved?
Their friendship has issues because of Taylor being too involved in Selena’s life and giving advice that Selena doesn’t wanna hear and then Selena lying about JB, drug use, other things so they definitely have their own share of issues behind closed doors
Uh? Like any friendship.. or are you perfect? Ofc they see when they can, that's all.
@@ElizRuedthat toxic friendship
Loyalty and friendship
Unmasking a monster at its finest!
what i don't get is that selena is still obsessed with jelena to the point of single white femaling hailey but she literally cheated on justin? make it make sense girl you helped jelena fail.
youre so delusional wow , like jb did everything fine and didnt cheated multiple times, the single white female is that fame obsessed (like everyone else in hollywood) hailey.
When did she do that to hailey? 1🤔
I would like the video of you explaining her pick me behaviors! I used to like her when I was younger and ngl I used to hate this channel back in 2015-2017 because I thought you were just posting bs. Once the drama with Hailey and Kylie happened I realize that you were kinda right about her then I started to do a deep dive on your blog about her and a lot of things added up.
She's a pick me and a hypocrite. 😒😒
That’s mean
Omg james franco looked uncomfy
James Franco makenothers uncomfy
My comment was in the video 😆 that’s kinda cool tbh
Yay!
Awesomeness as always thank you for the tea! Im looking forward for the Tell All answers for sure! Tunning into the Biebers for sure sure and i would love for you to cover the fallout between Madison Bailey and Rudy Pankow from OBX!!!!
Glad you enjoyed! The Tell All REVEAL is coming soon 😉 and OMG I was gonna surprise you guys with a video on Rudy & Madison. I’ve been collecting receipts and watching from afar 🕵️♀️ I was hoping you guys would be interested so I’m so happy you mentioned the OBX drama!
@ScandalousMediaTea omg tea is coming in hawt with the Tell All (#5 was so heartbreaking yet amazingly redacted!!!) And the OBX dramaaaaa! I truly love this channel and how unafraid you guys are to call out ANYONE who needs to... what is more amazing is that despite being a Tea Channel you gals know how to a brew nice teas as well as how to keep a secret 🙊 😉
Poor Benny I feel bad for him that Selena was the one,when in reality she's not.