I had to stop for a second at 2:48 and took a deep breath and in my mind all I kept repeating was "Hes basically calling her/us fat. He should have chosen more words to say that. No one can help you now"
**asking her to join him at the gym** "There's something I wanted to talk to you about. Do you mind?" Oh no. Don't do it. Don't do it. DON'T DO IT. Oh my god. This is gonna be bad. Holy shit. He's doing it. Uh oh. Oh no. Oh, they may never find his body. **doesn't listen when she simply says 'no thanks'** Oh fuck, he's still talking. Oh my God. Stop talking, babe. This-- "And she's about as skinny as a girl can be." Oh shit. He just did a comparison. Holy fuck. ...Oh my god, he's still talking. **covers her face** Unnngh, god. "Yes, I'm saying you've gained weight and it shows. Happy?" CODE RED! CODE RED! CODE RED! This is going to be nuclear fallout. Oh my god, don't follow her. "I swear, I was just trying to help." Helped by saying she's gained weight and it shows. Ooh boy. Hnnngh. That was bad. So bad. Wow. -- **body drop sound** Ope. Annnd she's down. Oh, wait... Did she stop eating? Oh, there it is. **clues in** Is there a pool? "This isn't because of what I said, is it?" **Yes. Yes, it is.** You have officially damaged her self-esteem and her psyche. This is how eating disorders start. Communication is important, but if you know your partner is sensitive about this kind of thing, maybe just invite her to gym and keep asking whenever you go. I mean, honestly, you could be stealth about it: You gotta like, take her on dates that require walking -- an aquarium, the zoo, an amusement park, a botanical garden, stuff like that. You're spending quality time together, and these are all fun things to do. And park far away so you both have to walk further to get to wherever you're going together. -- Dude, that was a TRAINWRECK, but I could NOT stop listening.
@TheMillionaireMafiaBoss There is nothing wrong with creating content like this, but you need to include a disclaimer or at least acknowledge the toxic and harmful behaviors exhibited by both the narrator and the listener. His actions are absolutely inexcusable and caused the listener to engage in disordered eating behaviors that will likely lead to a longer more serious problem unless the listener gets proper support and possibly therapy to help them recover from this traumatic event. There's nothing wrong with caring about your partner's health and well-being, and encouraging them to practice healthier eating and lifestyle habits, but his approach was completely wrong, he shamed her, compared her to another girl, and told her that she wasn't putting in effort to look attractive all while saying he was "just trying to help". She does not have to meet a certain level of attractiveness for you, that's not her job. When you are in a relationship, yes, physical attraction is very important, but it is not more important than kindness, empathy, and some fucking compassion and tact. Sometimes I don't think people realize how much power they have over their partner's self-esteem, especially women in m/f relationships. I'm not sure why, maybe no one ever told them, but when you are in a committed loving relationship you can recognize the other person's flaws and insecurities, but it is not your job to try to change them or "improve" them, and if you don't like something about the person you are with, you are allowed to break up with them, no matter how superficial it is. That may not be the right thing to do, but it's a choice that is yours to make, don't try to change the person you're with because you don't like something about them or they don't do things the way you do, that just leads to pain and frustrations on both sides that could easily have been avoided. Again, there is nothing wrong with wanting your partner to become a happier and healthier version of themselves, but this is NOT how you do it! The way he talks to her is degrading, shaming, objectifying, hurtful, insensitive, and abusive. Intention doesn't matter. You are allowed to create whatever kind of content you want, but for a topic as triggering and serious as eating disorders, you should know to warn your viewers ahead of time. I am very lucky as a cis woman to have been raised in house of loving and supportive people, but even so, I've still suffered from disordered eating. Thankfully mine was short-lived and not very harmful, but I still found this incredibly upsetting and triggering. It brought me right back to being a 13-year-old girl who hated herself. I have enjoyed some of your other content, but you need to remember that you are the one with the power in this parasocial relationship. Make sure your viewers know what they are getting into before they watch your videos so that they can click away if they need to.
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The fact that my family always says this to me🙂🙃
Omg I would legitimately be mad if someone told me I'm fat because my insecurity is High
I had to stop for a second at 2:48 and took a deep breath and in my mind all I kept repeating was
"Hes basically calling her/us fat. He should have chosen more words to say that. No one can help you now"
I say this to myself every time im not wearing a hoodie
WHAT DO YOU MEAN IM GOING TO THE GYM. NO IM GOING TO BREAK UP FREE ME
**asking her to join him at the gym**
"There's something I wanted to talk to you about. Do you mind?"
Oh no. Don't do it. Don't do it. DON'T DO IT.
Oh my god. This is gonna be bad. Holy shit. He's doing it.
Uh oh. Oh no. Oh, they may never find his body.
**doesn't listen when she simply says 'no thanks'**
Oh fuck, he's still talking. Oh my God. Stop talking, babe. This--
"And she's about as skinny as a girl can be."
Oh shit. He just did a comparison. Holy fuck.
...Oh my god, he's still talking.
**covers her face** Unnngh, god.
"Yes, I'm saying you've gained weight and it shows. Happy?"
CODE RED! CODE RED! CODE RED!
This is going to be nuclear fallout.
Oh my god, don't follow her.
"I swear, I was just trying to help."
Helped by saying she's gained weight and it shows. Ooh boy.
Hnnngh. That was bad. So bad. Wow.
--
**body drop sound** Ope. Annnd she's down.
Oh, wait... Did she stop eating? Oh, there it is.
**clues in**
Is there a pool?
"This isn't because of what I said, is it?"
**Yes. Yes, it is.** You have officially damaged her self-esteem and her psyche.
This is how eating disorders start. Communication is important, but if you
know your partner is sensitive about this kind of thing, maybe just invite her to
gym and keep asking whenever you go.
I mean, honestly, you could be stealth about it: You gotta like, take her on dates that require walking --
an aquarium, the zoo, an amusement park, a botanical garden, stuff like that. You're spending
quality time together, and these are all fun things to do. And park far away so you both have to
walk further to get to wherever you're going together.
--
Dude, that was a TRAINWRECK, but I could NOT stop listening.
Your play by play was pure gold, though.
4:47 this is about where we/(y/n) fainted
No it was at like 6:00
This is so good fr
The fact I just got out of the hospital after passing out on concrete in front of my mom and grandma and little siblings 💔😭
Htf this video has 28 likes 😡
It should have 9 other 0 behind the 8
@TheMillionaireMafiaBoss There is nothing wrong with creating content like this, but you need to include a disclaimer or at least acknowledge the toxic and harmful behaviors exhibited by both the narrator and the listener. His actions are absolutely inexcusable and caused the listener to engage in disordered eating behaviors that will likely lead to a longer more serious problem unless the listener gets proper support and possibly therapy to help them recover from this traumatic event. There's nothing wrong with caring about your partner's health and well-being, and encouraging them to practice healthier eating and lifestyle habits, but his approach was completely wrong, he shamed her, compared her to another girl, and told her that she wasn't putting in effort to look attractive all while saying he was "just trying to help". She does not have to meet a certain level of attractiveness for you, that's not her job. When you are in a relationship, yes, physical attraction is very important, but it is not more important than kindness, empathy, and some fucking compassion and tact. Sometimes I don't think people realize how much power they have over their partner's self-esteem, especially women in m/f relationships. I'm not sure why, maybe no one ever told them, but when you are in a committed loving relationship you can recognize the other person's flaws and insecurities, but it is not your job to try to change them or "improve" them, and if you don't like something about the person you are with, you are allowed to break up with them, no matter how superficial it is. That may not be the right thing to do, but it's a choice that is yours to make, don't try to change the person you're with because you don't like something about them or they don't do things the way you do, that just leads to pain and frustrations on both sides that could easily have been avoided. Again, there is nothing wrong with wanting your partner to become a happier and healthier version of themselves, but this is NOT how you do it! The way he talks to her is degrading, shaming, objectifying, hurtful, insensitive, and abusive. Intention doesn't matter. You are allowed to create whatever kind of content you want, but for a topic as triggering and serious as eating disorders, you should know to warn your viewers ahead of time. I am very lucky as a cis woman to have been raised in house of loving and supportive people, but even so, I've still suffered from disordered eating. Thankfully mine was short-lived and not very harmful, but I still found this incredibly upsetting and triggering. It brought me right back to being a 13-year-old girl who hated herself. I have enjoyed some of your other content, but you need to remember that you are the one with the power in this parasocial relationship. Make sure your viewers know what they are getting into before they watch your videos so that they can click away if they need to.