A RANT & AN UPDATE | Lydia Elise Millen
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- A RANT AND AN UPDATE
WHAT I GOT AND DID FOR VALENTINES
THE NEW MEMBER JOINS THE TEAM
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“ I cannot change for you” 😍😍😍😍😍👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Your chat about not changing for people is an important message both for other content creators and for women in general. We need to stop judging people for their differences and quirks and mannerisms. You're literally not hurting anyone for touching your hair (personally I love it when you do that because it just shows off how gorgeous your hair is, also I'm constantly playing with mine subconsciously so I totally relate lol). I shared a couple snippets of that chat on my Insta stories because it's such an important message. Keep being you Lydia. That majority of us really appreciate your authenticity. :) xx
As someone who did Invisalign for over a year, I would not change your trays early, let alone changing them at different times. If you do, your top teeth could start moving at a different pace than the bottom ones and they won't fit together. There's a reason why the trays are supposed to be 2 weeks at a time - so your teeth can get used to the new position before moving again. xx
“I am not going to change for you”. Thank you for saying this! I think that was brave. We all want to be liked and accepted by other people, but trying to mold yourself into what everyone else wants you to be is only going to leave you exhausted, dissapointed and confused about who you actually are, so just be yourself even if not everyone can appreciate it. Everyone’s expectations are so different and trying to cater to all of them is never going to work. “You can be the ripest, sweetest peach yet there’s always going to be someone who hates peaches”. This year I want to say no to changing, downplaying and adjusting myself to be liked more by people who I quite frankly don’t even really like myself!
Would love to see a current “no foundation” makeup tutorial vs. “with foundation” makeup tutorial! 💕
Lydia, Keep touching your hair. Does not bother me at all. For all the people who it does, STOP WATCHING!
In the light of recent events in the media and the focus on being kind to each other, it made me so sad that Lydia felt the need to have to defend herself (hair touching, lips)... people need to take a serious look at themselves if they are making people feel they have to justify being themselves. I couldn’t do Lydias job as I couldn’t cope with the hate... so sad.
Donna Moore couldn’t agree more!
I’m not going to change for you........yes Lydia! My god I love you!!!!! Well said no one should change for anyone! You do you! 💕💕💕💕💕
LOVE THE HAIR TOUCHING RANT YESSSSSS!! People who find it annoying are most likely just jealous cos your hair is insanely gorgeous. And like you say, its so simple.... DONT WATCH HER VLOGS ffs xxxx
“ I’m not going to change for you” preach 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️
Good for you for standing up for yourself. Please be you and don’t let super critical people change YOU! I enjoy watching you and Ali. Such a sweet and adorable couple. You rock!
Lydia we love you for who you are, exactly as you are. This is why we watch you. I am sick and tired of all these rude, overbearing people who have the audacity to pick you apart on YOUR channel. Ignore them and their comments loaded with negativity. Jealousy is never reasonable, so explaining yourself is in vain. Most people would be surprised at their idiosyncrasies and habits if they began to record themselves. I look forward to each time I get a notification. You NEVER disappoint. Your growth and confidence are inspiring. I wish you and Ali every success and I’m so happy for all the opportunities you get and share with us.
Lydia, you are not the only one who touches her hair a lot throughout the video. Literally, everyone does it. I have five favorite VLOGS that I watch regularly, and all 5 of you touch your hair throughout the whole video. Not only the whole video but every video the 5 of you, individually, put together. No worries. I totally get it. You probably only do it because you are always seeing your own reflection. I think I would probably do it too. At first, I thought it was like a nervous tic, but all 5 of you are seasoned VLOGers, and I think you are beyond the nervous tic phase. The people on TV don't see themselves, which is probably a good thing because they would not only be touching their hair but touching and repositioning constantly to fix the reflection that they see. If I was walking down the street and could see my reflexion, I would always be adjusting something or another for sure. The flowers are gorgeous. You really are fabulous, Carrie. Lydia would be lost without you. Lydia would continuously be touching her hair if you weren't there to take a lot of the stress out of her life. LOL What, too soon, Lydia? Another great VLOG. Watching you at the end of a shift in the ICU takes away my stress. Thank you for that! I never touch my hair, and by the reflection in the mirror, at the end of the day, that's not a good thing. Enjoy the rest of your week, and don't forget to dance!
This is not a horrible comment but I don’t understand why there needs to be 6 adverts during the video.
Apparently that’s down to youtube
You go girl! I never thought your hair touching was abnormal. I touch my hair more when it's straight because it has a tendency to fall toward my face, and I'm always pushing it out of the way. I cant imagine how much I'd touch it if I was looking at myself in a camera all the time! I'm glad you stood up for yourself and said it's not something you're going to change. People who comment about ssomething like that need to find something better to do with their time!
"But if you zoom in, it could almost be Spring" this made me chuckle, so true!! I wish I could share my Saucer magnolia tree pics with you, I call her Maggie and she is just covered in pink flowers, cheers me up so much. I need the sun.
So good to see Carrie’s reaction to your flowers, that was sweet. And honestly I don’t think I noticed the hair touching. Touch your hair, I don’t care!💙!
My favorite quote of yours was “I am not you”. I appreciate your authenticity. You be you, and I’ll be me as well as a subscriber. Best, Morgan
YOUR HAIR LOOKS GORGEOUS! I love this length, it suits you so well ❤️
I have been following you since the start! And I really trust you when it comes to your recommendations. I gifted myself the GHD deluxe box limited edition in rose. You made a video about it maybe 1-2 months ago. I´ve heard so many positive things about GHD over the years but I never could afford their products. But I am so happy that I bought it! The difference is insane! As you said in this video, your hair gets smooth after using the hair dryer. That have never happen to me before! And the straightener is from another world! I´m so happy that I bought it and it was you that gave me that extra push ❤️
As with everybody else here, I hadn't actually noticed that you regularly touch your hair! I do it all the time too. If anybody actually has a problem with that then they need to re-evaluate themselves 😂. Keep doing you Lydia!
I loved the hair rant😂 People can be so petty... Who cares if you touch your hair! ❤️❤️
I APPLAUD you for the "rant." Glad you addressed it quite frankly. Enough said!!🤗
I haven't even thought about you touching your hair LOL, thanks for the video, Lydia)
Dear Lydia I hope u see this ..what you said about not going to change was powerful to me .am struggling with those around me to be the real me and it’s very hard .if I could say it the way you did firmly but so nicely put ..assertive but not aggressive I would be much stronger . I love your positivity . We all need to accept ourselves and love ourselves more but many of us are not able to ..you gave me hope . Thank you .please do a chat on why it’s vital to self care and love ones self . Corrin D
I just adore you Lydia! You do you amazingly well so please please please do not change! The hand gestures and little flicks of your hair give us that feminine side of your personality that lifts our hearts and makes you shine so brightly. LY xxxx 😘🌸⭐️
creativeartwellbeing I find it so endearing and relatable.
That’s right Lydia!!! Let them know. If they don’t like, then don’t watch. Boom!
Bravo Lydia! I personally think it's a great thing to see a strong successful woman, such as yourself, being a role model for women of all ages. Telling people straight up.that you're not changing.for them is something all women should have the confidence to say. (Ok, my rants done) Really enjoy watching your videos Lydia, keep up the great work!
“I’m not gonna change for you” you’re not doing it to hurt you’re being the way you want to be THANK YOU 🙌🏻 This mental space is the best to watch and be friends with ugh love it thank you.
It’s actually very normal to touch your hair when speaking to a camera, many RUclipsrs and Intagrammers do it. I do it when I video chat my friends, it’s a normal human tick or nervous gesture but everyone does it, even the people who complain to you about it ☺️
I can’t believe you’re not wearing foundation. Your skin looks flawless. Skin envy.
Would love an update in the future on how your mums doing with her hair! ❤️
I need the clap emoji! "I'm not going to change for you." New motto for 2020. Tell them Lydia, gracious!! :)
Lydia, I have super thick, long hair and it used to take forever to dry! So much so, I only wash my hair twice a week to avoid. I recently bought a microfibre hair turban and it’s cut my drying time dramatically. Whack it on to take out the majority of the moisture, so your skin care/make up then blow dry and style 👌🏼 x
I never noticed you touching your hair. I noticed how fabulous you are. I noticed how stylish you are (that's why I watch you). I noticed how successful you are. I noticed how kind you are. I noticed how friendly you are. I noticed how beautiful you are. I think people who 'notice' __________ (fill in the blank) are jealous of you. They watch and comment to try to cut you down. I noticed how gracious you are (in response to their comments).
@Tima Thank you
Absolutely loved Carrie's bouquet & the protea is beautiful & South Africa's national flower.
Greetings from South Africa
I'm surprised people have said something about you touching your hair - I don't think I've ever noticed it. People really will look for something to complain about unnecessarily!
Honey! We women do not have the same set of skills throughout the month! After our period is over with, we experience new energy, motivation, stamina... - it is an outgoing time where we can get a lot done and our society rewards this type of behavior most! When we approach that 'time of the month', we are called to slow down, it is a cleansing period in which we can access all that isn't working, find new solutions that we weren't able to access prior, rest & restore and prepare for the next dynamic phase! Without honoring this process, we burn out. Expecting to always be motivated and hard-working isn't the way to success for women. Tapping into all of our heightened abilities that aren't linear but rather cyclical throughout the month amounts to greater success and fulfillment. Love your channel, you're my favorite xoxo
ps. you can discover your heightened abilities by simply observing what is your natural pull during these 'not so productive or motivated phases'. Many women experience a burst in creativity but first, they need to be ok with the fact that they need to rest and relax a bit more. It is unbelievable how much we can move forward and get more results this way. Think about it, when did you get more inspiration and 'aha' moments... when forcing it to happen mentally or when in a relaxed, playful state? It is scary because society tells us we always need to be on the go to experience success, it's not true :)
Lydia, I've literally never noticed you touching your hair and I've been watching since you started RUclips! No need to explain yourself, you're a A+ person as you are and it says more about them! Love the make up chat in your video this week. And your lips are fine! Keep doing you x
Whomever is whining about you touching your hair, is probably very jealous that y’all are so gifted genetically! To hell with them! You work it and be proud!
I appreciated the way you handled the whole hair touching thing!. Good for you for standing your ground, why the hell should you change for such a trivial thing! I cant say it bothers me.. all the things going on in the world ,hair touching is nothing LOL.. love your videos Lydia ,you bring a touch of luxury to my day..im loving it!..:D
So nice of you to gift Carrie some flowers. I think you are wearing the invisalign a lot better than some others. I sometimes hardly notice you wearing it at all! I also do RUclips videos and notice I touch my hair a lot more in videos than in real life. Like you said, talking in front of the camera really changes things.
Love you & hate that you have to keep explaining yourself. Let the haters hate... just block them & keep on moving.
Yaaaaaas Lydia!!! That’s the spirit 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻. You touch that hair of yours all you want. I’m always baffled by the things that people find themselves annoyed by. I love how you are old enough to be able to say that you can’t change for anyone. That is an important message to get across the internet. Regards Hege from Norway
I’m not normally bothered about if content is an ad or not but this I’m happy to see - I just order the GHD Helios yesterday after my hairdryer blew up! I’m so excited to use it! 😊😄💕
Omg! I find it satisfying and soothing when you touch your hair! They are so perfect 💕💕💕
Lydia ignore ignorance!! Your absolutely stunning in every way! I love your videos more than you know! Thank you for your videos that bring me so much joy and I feel like I’m catching up with one of my best girlfriends!
Ha ha love it Lydia. Girl this is YOUR youtube channel, people need to get a grip. "If you don't like me touching my hair then don't watch" Preach girl!!!!
I touch my hair a lot too! I’m sorry you’ve been made to feel like that and good for you for standing up for yourself xxx
your skin is so beautiful without foundation, literally wow! xxx
Watching The Stranger on Netflix and the stranger looks like you!!!
Lydia we are all fiddly people, you play with your hair as much as you like hun 😂😂💖xxx p.s it is lovely when friends appreciate each other 🥰
What sort of absolute loser cares if she touches her hair!! OMG People are actually pathetic! I love that Lydia said she won't change for anyone!! Lydia you shine brightest when you let your own real personality and traits shine through! 💚
Loved the hair rant. You are a BOSS!😘💛
you go girl! the whole touching hair segment is brilliant. i never even noticed it! people are awful sometime, it's a reflection on them not you so definitely do not change
I agree with you! Stay strong 👌🏽❤️ It is your beautiful hair 😍, touch it as much as you want to
I’m glad you are standing up for yourself! I don’t at all mind you touching your hair. I do the exact same thing!
Hi Lydia the announcement about touching your hair greatly caught my attention. That is one of the best proclamation’s I have ever heard. Kudos to you I say. I love how emphatic and absolute you are about touching your hair and what you can do if you don’t like it. You have inspired me today. Love you.💜💜💜💜
Most importantly, let me give you kudos and woo hoos for not only recognizing and appreciating loyalty and hard work being done on your behalf, but also voicing and showing your appreciation for all the wonderful things Carrie does for you and your business. It is such a morale boost for someone’s hard work and dedication to be acknowledged and celebrated! Yea, Carrie, but also yea, Lydia!
Also, can you believe the huge difference a little architectural detail makes? Your gym is going to look so fabulous! And lastly, bravo to you on standing up for yourself to the silly hair trolls. Can people be more nit picky, critical, and absolutely ridiculous? Don’t answer that, because we all know they can and sadly you’ve experienced more than anyone ever should. Clearly they never learned basic manners or the simple concepts of consideration and kindness. #bekind
LOVE YOU HUN! I love your unapologetically hair touching!
OMG, Lydia, I'm so ready for spring too! And this amazing bouquet that you presented reminds that spring is right around the corner! P.S. Touching your hair is absolutely normal, it doesn't bother me at all!
Well done Lydia don't change. I love the video as always xxxxxxxxxxxx
I hope the pain in Ali's leg has improved now. Love you both xxxxx
Lydia I love it when you tell those silly people moaning because you touch your hair REALLY I couldn’t believe it,you do you I never noticed you doing that any way and I been watching you for a long time .xxx
Do you prefer the ghd dryer or the dyson dryer more? Just wondering which is worthwhile to purchase
I hope the ghd its wayyyyyyuu cheaper 😂
No worries about your hair...looks natural. BTW, how’s your mom’s hair doing? Is she happy with all they’ve done to help her?
What a lovely thought with Carries Flowers ! She was so shocked they were for her , so sweet ♥️ it's your hair sweetie , you touch it ! Doesn't everyone when they are talking ? I twirl mine around my finger and so does my daughter ♥️ Lovely catch up vlog , thank you xxx
It's amazing that you recognize your friend's efforts like that! You and Carry make an amazing duo
loved the rant!😁 keep touching your hair, I’m sure it’s nice and silky
Try a large ceramic roller brush, like a 4” diameter, while you blow dry your hair. I found if you just blast dry, hair gets frizzy after drying. But the large ceramic surface helps with the heat transfer and smooth out the hair. It’s like have a blow dry and straightening at the same time. I have long thick hair and I can get away with just hair dryer and my big roller brush unless I want perfect hair. Oh don’t forget to use cold air to complete cool the hair for a good 2-3 mins at the end. It really adds shine to it and prevents hair get frizzy. Hope you find my trick useful.
Good for you re your hair. You do you. I never notice it. I love your videos - they bring me much joy and I'm very grateful for them and look forward to them. Keep up the good work! From a fellow gin lover.
It's your video; you can touch your hair or whatever you like. You are great!
I have a tip for your Invisalign: Swap your braces at night, like before you go to bed. So when you wake up your teeth have already moved and your mouth is a little bit used to it. It's less painful.
The flowers for Carrie was the best part! And the little dance back to the camera lol!
Yes, you touch your hair. A lot. It's just part of who you are. I love it!
Lydia I love you for being you!✨
Lyds, could you please consider putting subtitles on, when there is someone you talk to? I love seeing your convos with Carrie, Ali or other people but sometimes it is really difficult to hear what they say :( (especially Ali, I feel like he talks so quietly on your videos, which is actually sad because he is often so hillarious!)
Honestly, the hair thing is hilarious! Glad you aren't stopping - touch your hair more :D Loved the vlog :D
Oh god I laughed so much at the lisping and touching their hair! Go on Lydia, keep at it, you are all good the way you are!
The hair thing, I can relate to it so much. I also always touch my hair while filming and honestly your hair is beautiful so I would totally be touching it too! (okay that sounds wrong haha but you get my point).
Just the sweetest to see Carrie surprised with her flowers. She is a jewel! And, you were so sweet to treat her!
Omg your rant is everything. Keep touching your hair girl! Anyone who complains about it can piss off!!
YAY Lydia .. touch your hair.. do it more, I have only ever noticed you do it when you mention it, however I notice I do it when I'm talking to people and I'm not feeling 100% confident!
To anyone that find it an issue .. move along .. please you are not part of this crowd! Positive ppl only ✌🏻
Lydia you will definitely get used to the Invisalign. When I first started wearing them I thought for sure I would go nuts. Eventually talking will become more normal and it doesn’t take that long. Also, ignore the criticism about touching your hair. Sometimes women have nothing better to do than to critique and criticize other women. Annoying!!! Long time watcher from Atlanta, Georgia in the USA.
Recently found your channel and I find it so interesting and inspiring although I’m a few years older,a mom of two and work as an assistant nurse whos most expensive bag is a Marc Jacobs.You look stunning,your bags are amazing and I find you very humble,especially since I saw your video explaning how you think before a purchase.I’ll keep following 💕
Lydia, just a thought... have you ever had your bloods checked for your tiredness? I felt exhausted all the time and after having my bloods checked I had really low vitamin d levels and an under active thyroid. I was shocked but also relieved, felt amazing since I’ve been on the tablets. It might be something to think about.. x
Esther Catherine Winter I agree. Also I wonder if it might be seasonal disorder. I had a friend whose mood was affected by the weather and I think it was called that. But yes def thyroid should be checked. Also you can get vitamin D drops and they are a lot more concentrated. I have low vitamin D as well.
Ooo well this is exciting, this is the first time I have Subscribed, I did not know what it meant but it was pretty easy to do. I like watching you, hubby and puss cat, so sorry to hear about your boy puss. I am an Aussie in Australia and am a big animal lover. I love watching your videos and thank you for being so informative about what you buy and wear and sharing with us. Enjoy your weekend, Debs xo
I have followed you for so long both on YT and IG, but don't usually comment. It is so frustrating that Lydia is having to explain herself again. She is a human being, she shares so much of her life with us and if you find something annoying, you can just stop watching and leave it at that. There is no need to write or leave negative comments, if any of us were doing Lydia's job, I am certain we would do the same because we are all IMPERFECT BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEINGS.
For all the negative/trolls out there, if you have NOTHING nice to say, say NOTHING at all. Lydia hasn't asked for your opinion. It's HER life, HER channel and all of us that are part of Lydia's community, we get HER and love HER because she is beautiful (inside and out), humble, down to earth and kind. Our life on this planet is so short, there's already so much negativity and sadness, let's be KIND to each other both online and in real life.
Lydia thank you for sharing your life with us.
C x
Claudia couldn’t agree more. I just don’t watch people if I’m annoyed by them. It’s such a waste of time and energy,
@@jessicastunden5562 Thank you. Wishing you a lovely day :)
Keep being you! Hair touching, lisp, and all! Love watching you - personality, fashion, beauty, and decor sense, everything!!
With invisiline I found it better to change them before bed so you are asleep for the worst of it.
Lydia you know I’m so interested in your content that I don’t catch ever move you make. I honestly feel like if someone is watching you for the right reasons that should not be an issue! My husband tells me if I didn’t have my hands I couldn’t talk and. We just laugh 😂 about it, enjoy life. That was the most beautiful bouquet for Carrie and I know she deserved them because you can see how hard she works and what an awesome friend she is too. KUDOS TO CARRIE, love watching all of yours and Ali’s content. Life is Good, no Great 👍🙌🏻😊💛
How is your Mom's hair recovery coming along, Lydia?
Good for you! You are right if things bother people don’t watch! People can be very judgemental particularly on line . Xx
Play with your hair all you want!!! You’re amazing and keep being you
EVEN I WANT TO TOUCH YOUR HAIR it looks so amazing. Gracious, if my hair looked half that good id never take my hands off it!!
The people leaving you rude comments are jealous and they could never vlog. I love you and your hair touching habit. 🥰💋
Just keep going, you're amazing! Can't believe that people have time and feel the need to write negative comments.
Thank you for being you!
Love you Lydia... nothing bothers me. Love you for beeing you. Send you a big hug from germany. 😘
In regards to the hair chat, well said! 🎉💝
Don't change because what people said. That's is part of who you are. Just simple.