So I Went On A Date...🫠
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That actually happened to me in Denmark, but honestly as someone who’s experienced it before I was like OK this is my moment to shine!
When I say this was the EQ awards lol no but for real it’s disappointing but it’s also kind of what those Grindr guys do in real life because it can really make you feel objectified. So I really wanted to treat this guy the way I wish I was treated.
I just shut it all down shared my own exprience of how people can take it personally and that sucks so I said let’s roll back and just enjoy each others company and we really did! I think we spent like an hour talking, he was such an interesting person and it was still an awesome date. No vibe was killed! I let go of my expectations of s*x but I wasn’t being cool so he’d get hard, I was genuinely doing it cause I felt bad and I guess I wanted to prove myself lol
I don’t know if you’ve ever had that happen to you or if you’re not that kind of performer. But coming from dating girls in that moment it was such a plus that we were two guys who’d been through that. We got each other’s struggle lol and it was kinda beautiful tbh 😊
And after that I got where I needed to go 😊
I walked out of there proud like a mf I felt I rose to the occasion no pun intended 😂
That's amazing lol yes I've had a few experiences where I calmed the guy's nerves to the point where he was able to perform ;) It's actually pretty sexy when you're able to have that impact on someone. But it didn't work this time unfortunately!
I think you should get off of Grindr if you really are looking for a potential soulmate / long-term boyfriend. Have guys met their soul mates on Grindr? Sure! But given the "transactional nature" of Grindr, you are waaay more likely to find a hook-up there than a soulmate. This particular guy may be so far in the closet that when things began getting too real for him (with you) he mentally freaked out. Another tip when looking for a serious gay male relationship: Do not go out with guys on the DL, guys who are just coming out, etc. No one's first time is the best ever. Give me a guy who knows his way around the male body, ya know? I will take you on a fantastic, romantic date, Keven, if you ever visit the city of Chicago. And I would stay VERY ready when looking into those gorgeous green eyes of yours and running my fingers through your fabulous chest hair. I would definitely not have performance anxiety with you!! 😅❤❤❤❤
Recently this minor gay celeb couple Lukas gage and Chris Appleton separated after very short marriage. Previously they were acting obsessed with each other. I think especially with gay relationships once the sexual lust obsession is over it’s harder to keep going if there is no greater goal of raising a family etc. I’ve noticed this too that after sleeping together on first date, it kind of creates a now what?
I don't think sleeping on a first date is inherently "bad" - but I think it's how the sexual chemistry goes that can dictate whether there's a date #2 or not.
Agree, the sexual chemistry has to be very good to keep it going
Wishing you Happy Holidays Keven!🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄☺️
Thank Ryan, you as well! ❄️🥳
Have you ever found yourself attracted to what you label alpha male toxic masculinity?
Did you mean have I ever? Yep all the time lol
@@KevenTalksI thought as much.
Is all gay life a waste of time? Is it pointless going to bars and Pride as well?
Your life is never pointless 💜
Hope you get to see some of Caesar Santos' works.
Had to Google. Don't think I saw his work there!
Maybe he's using his "straightness" as an excuse as to why he performed badly? He was probably embarrassed. Because what performance anxiety and performing badly usually implies is the person is socially awkward or has a porn addiction so he'd rather go with the "I'm new to this" thing.
Interesting point!
Interesting topic. I agree with you. It’s better to work up to intimacy. Unless both parties feel safe , dysfunction is likely.
i totally would not make it a habit. but moments like that can be magical.
The comments haha im-opp 😳🤣💀. I think your date was so thoughtful especially considering it’s from Grindr. It’s so refreshing when you establish some dialogue/ develop a spark on these apps, instead of the first line simply being “looking” or “be my human toilet” so I totally get it.
100%! It was such a breath of fresh air
I have had the same thing happen to me as your date. You handled the situation very well. When this happened to me, I would usually do my best to get my partner off and would offer a raincheck. I have learned over time that I am demisexual and probably a highly sensitive person. While I am happily partnered now, I wish I would have known years ago about why my emotional needs sometimes override my physical needs. BTW, usually the raincheck was accepted and things went better.