Not only would i charge him rent i would have demanded a room switch. The master bedroom goes to the master of the house. Thats why its called master bedroom
As a commenter said on the short version : "turnabout is fair play", step-dad should've kept his fucking mouth shut instead of trying to hide behind a bullshit "financial responsibility" excuse, everyone knows the asshole was in it for the money and not to be a "father".
The solution to the problem is simple. Tell him that financial responsibility is indeed important, so he needs to pay rent. If he argues tell him you won't be spoken to that way in YOUR house and if he doesn't like it he's free to leave YOUR house. And he can take your gutless, milksop mother with him. She KNEW this is your house yet she was willing to let this man demand money from YOU! She's worse than he is. She needs to learn, the hard way. Kick their asses out of your house.
I’d not only charge him rent I’d send him a bill for back dated rent from the day he moved in. If he wouldn’t pay I would evict him and I wouldn’t be happy with my mother for not telling him it was my house not her house.
Evidently the stepfather didn’t own a home when he married the mother. She moved him into the family home. Normally if both are homeowner’s they either sell both and buy a new one together or keep both, lease them out, and use that income to pay for the new home. The stepfather was out of pocket for not discussing any of this with his wife beforehand before approaching the son. The mother should have explained before marriage that the house was her son’s inheritance. They should have bought a home together and leased the other until it could be properly inherited by the son at 18. The son would have a place of his own, and they’d have their place. They could have involved him in the leasing process and taught him about fiscal responsibility from that point. Why wait until he turns 18? What a mess! At least he learned a lesson from it all. Pretty sure the adults learned a valuable lesson as well. Happy ending.
i would have told him...........fair? you dont treat family that way? funny you didnt care about any of that yesterday. im out of line? thats pretty funny coming from the guy that stupidly thought he could charge me rent in a house he doesnt own. my mom doesnt have to pay rent but you do and you will be handing me 1100 on the first of every month or you can get out of MY house
He’s been living there all this time and not paying a dime except for the bills? He should have quite a savings then I would charge rent and half the bills
Well no. When it comes to houses and cars the kid has no control until they become legal adults. That's why he said they had to start paying rent when he turned 18 and not immediately
But who will be paying the property tax or repairs in the house after the OP turns 18? And I’m sure the mom or the stepdad were paying all this before the OP turned 18.
I think the mom was legally obligated to since she is the caretaker until OP is 18. Also it is not uncommon to get a job at 18 so OP could pay the taxes himself.
Nta but some of the commenters are... y'all are wrong to verbally attack the mom, she was the one paying the bills and taxes on that house while raising her son. Him contributing to the up keep after 18 is reasonable. Yes the step father should have been contributing from the time he moved in so he was tah.
If it were for me.. I would have let my mom live there for free forever as she already lives rent free in my heart.. Even though my dad is alive and i admire him.. Lets say i have a step dad and he did this to me.. Well, i would have just done the same as the op.... But a bit differently... As op said he wasn’t helping them financially... I would have ofc charged him of rent or tell to get a job in 3 months.
Okay so if his stepdad wanted him to pay rent and he wanted his mom and his stepdad to pay rent afterwards who the hell pays the bills in the house? If no one wants to spend money who’s paying the bills
I would disagree and say the stepdad is a bit of an AH because he didn't even discuss charging OP rent with the "owner" of the house. I'm willing to bet that the stepdad would've pocketed all the rent money.
I think he should move out but charge them cheap rent and all utilities. That way he can have passive income and not have to live with parents forever. Or he can just pick them out.
This is the dumbest thing ive ever read its easy to tell that you and half the people that posted comments have family issues considering you are so fast to jump to kicking you own family out
Its not black and while like that, from a parents point of view (who owns his home) I will have some rules when my children become adults, one of those is, if you arent studying, I will be charging rent, its tough love meant to teach responsibility like the step dad said. Now many parents who do this will make a account and not touch the rent money, so they can gift it back to the child when they steike out on their own to help with a wedding or home purchase. Your reaction was rash, but you are a teen and that is expected, the stepdad didnt know and thats on your mom and you. The stepdad should habe discused this with mom first and thats on him. Truth is, everybody sucks a bit here, but no one is the ahole I'd say.
These comments at the end of the video are ass lmao. These are the fastest ways to break up a family especially since none of those folks know the dynamic of this guys house hold or the relationship of him and his step dad. Now i agree its lame that he didnt talk to his mom prior about asking him to pay rent but its also not to bad of an idea to teach him financial lessons. Rent wouldn’t even had to of been to much if it was actually their house. OC made a really good decision which was very “adult” of him to make. Especially since it was the best of all worlds and left no one feeling hate or malice towards anyone. Its sad to see how many people immediately assume the worst intentions in what people say
Nope. Just because a man married his mother doesn't gives him the right. He has to go through a few court dates and sign a piece of paper to get that right
@@HalfAnd_Halfif he marries the mom with a child he does take on the responsibility of the child also. What are you on about? Why do you think most men avoid women with children? Lol
If step-dad treated mc poorly nta but otherwise yta. If step-dad treated him like his real son he may really wanted to teach him finance since its too important for adult life. I didnt get any sensation of bad step-dad from story so I think yta. You may make a joke but dont escalate it since people may be fragile.
I have to disagree here. If he truly wanted to teach OP about finance he would have included the mother in the talk with OP. Since he didn't he went behind the back of who he thought was the owner of the house. Which is a betrayal. I'm willing to bet that the stepdad wanted to pocket the rent for himself.
I agree with writing up a rental contract for just HIM to sign. Don't charge your mama. You always take care of mama, but charge HIM to live in your house....
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Not only would i charge him rent i would have demanded a room switch. The master bedroom goes to the master of the house. Thats why its called master bedroom
😂 but yes!
I mean, I'd definitely charge the step-dad rent, not my mother. She didn't know or would have done it. Her husband definitely gotta go. 😂😂
She was ok with bringing in a random man who demanded rent from the homeowner, so womp womp
@thevalorousdong7675 it's not like she knew he would ask for rent. She can't read minds.
@@K1NGALPH4 Exactly what I was saying. She didn't start any of it, it was the stupid dad in law. 😂
Although I agree any rental talk should have come from mom, she did marry and let step dad think for 12 years SHE owned the house.
@@koleycraytor6034 Did she, or did he just assume her first husband left it to her, and not the son?
Over a decade they lived in the house for free. Surely they saved enough to buy their own home
OP was way too nice. Mother should have told stepdad that it was her kid’s house.
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Man, this 18yo is more level headed then the rest of us.
Pay rent for the house you own💀
Im not gonna pay rent even tho i told you to.💀
As a commenter said on the short version : "turnabout is fair play", step-dad should've kept his fucking mouth shut instead of trying to hide behind a bullshit "financial responsibility" excuse, everyone knows the asshole was in it for the money and not to be a "father".
The solution to the problem is simple. Tell him that financial responsibility is indeed important, so he needs to pay rent. If he argues tell him you won't be spoken to that way in YOUR house and if he doesn't like it he's free to leave YOUR house. And he can take your gutless, milksop mother with him. She KNEW this is your house yet she was willing to let this man demand money from YOU! She's worse than he is. She needs to learn, the hard way. Kick their asses out of your house.
Mom didnt know stepdad asked. And she didnt try to weasel - said flat out, "its sons inheritance." Shouldnt cut out Mom bc stepdads a douche canoe.
I’d not only charge him rent I’d send him a bill for back dated rent from the day he moved in. If he wouldn’t pay I would evict him and I wouldn’t be happy with my mother for not telling him it was my house not her house.
Evidently the stepfather didn’t own a home when he married the mother. She moved him into the family home. Normally if both are homeowner’s they either sell both and buy a new one together or keep both, lease them out, and use that income to pay for the new home. The stepfather was out of pocket for not discussing any of this with his wife beforehand before approaching the son. The mother should have explained before marriage that the house was her son’s inheritance. They should have bought a home together and leased the other until it could be properly inherited by the son at 18. The son would have a place of his own, and they’d have their place. They could have involved him in the leasing process and taught him about fiscal responsibility from that point. Why wait until he turns 18? What a mess! At least he learned a lesson from it all. Pretty sure the adults learned a valuable lesson as well. Happy ending.
i would have told him...........fair? you dont treat family that way? funny you didnt care about any of that yesterday. im out of line? thats pretty funny coming from the guy that stupidly thought he could charge me rent in a house he doesnt own. my mom doesnt have to pay rent but you do and you will be handing me 1100 on the first of every month or you can get out of MY house
Charge him rent!
Who is paying utilities, property taxes? And upkeep on the house?
Your more mature than the dad good for you.
He’s been living there all this time and not paying a dime except for the bills?
He should have quite a savings then
I would charge rent and half the bills
Step dad tried to flex.got punked 😂 and back petaled
My question is since before your 18th birthday, were you sleeping in the master bedroom since it was your house?
Probably not. Otherwise the stepdad wouldn’t believe the mom owned the house.
Well no. When it comes to houses and cars the kid has no control until they become legal adults. That's why he said they had to start paying rent when he turned 18 and not immediately
😭step dad finna have dad lore🙏🏾
This is pissing me off… why it’s always the victim who is always too hard on the perpetrator ???
Don’t let MATT wash hear you he might have a heart attack lol😂
But who will be paying the property tax or repairs in the house after the OP turns 18? And I’m sure the mom or the stepdad were paying all this before the OP turned 18.
I think the mom was legally obligated to since she is the caretaker until OP is 18. Also it is not uncommon to get a job at 18 so OP could pay the taxes himself.
Good boy this shows your a good kid . ❤
Nta but some of the commenters are... y'all are wrong to verbally attack the mom, she was the one paying the bills and taxes on that house while raising her son. Him contributing to the up keep after 18 is reasonable. Yes the step father should have been contributing from the time he moved in so he was tah.
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If it were for me..
I would have let my mom live there for free forever as she already lives rent free in my heart..
Even though my dad is alive and i admire him.. Lets say i have a step dad and he did this to me..
Well, i would have just done the same as the op.... But a bit differently...
As op said he wasn’t helping them financially... I would have ofc charged him of rent or tell to get a job in 3 months.
Okay so if his stepdad wanted him to pay rent and he wanted his mom and his stepdad to pay rent afterwards who the hell pays the bills in the house? If no one wants to spend money who’s paying the bills
Neither are the a**hole as in the end you struck up an agreement
I would disagree and say the stepdad is a bit of an AH because he didn't even discuss charging OP rent with the "owner" of the house. I'm willing to bet that the stepdad would've pocketed all the rent money.
I think he should move out but charge them cheap rent and all utilities.
That way he can have passive income and not have to live with parents forever.
Or he can just pick them out.
What a weak op🙄
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This problem was caused cause the mother wouldn't tell the truth, both need to go
Im willing to bet stepdad never asked, assumed, and Mom never thought it was important.
@@TehAnshiTunes that's BS, she should of told him
@@WTC-1990 but... why?
@@TehAnshiTunes lying by omission is still lying
This is the dumbest thing ive ever read its easy to tell that you and half the people that posted comments have family issues considering you are so fast to jump to kicking you own family out
oh the irony
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Its not black and while like that, from a parents point of view (who owns his home) I will have some rules when my children become adults, one of those is, if you arent studying, I will be charging rent, its tough love meant to teach responsibility like the step dad said. Now many parents who do this will make a account and not touch the rent money, so they can gift it back to the child when they steike out on their own to help with a wedding or home purchase. Your reaction was rash, but you are a teen and that is expected, the stepdad didnt know and thats on your mom and you. The stepdad should habe discused this with mom first and thats on him. Truth is, everybody sucks a bit here, but no one is the ahole I'd say.
These comments at the end of the video are ass lmao. These are the fastest ways to break up a family especially since none of those folks know the dynamic of this guys house hold or the relationship of him and his step dad. Now i agree its lame that he didnt talk to his mom prior about asking him to pay rent but its also not to bad of an idea to teach him financial lessons. Rent wouldn’t even had to of been to much if it was actually their house. OC made a really good decision which was very “adult” of him to make. Especially since it was the best of all worlds and left no one feeling hate or malice towards anyone. Its sad to see how many people immediately assume the worst intentions in what people say
He has no business parenting you? He is your step PARENT
Nope. Just because a man married his mother doesn't gives him the right. He has to go through a few court dates and sign a piece of paper to get that right
@@HalfAnd_Halfif he marries the mom with a child he does take on the responsibility of the child also. What are you on about? Why do you think most men avoid women with children? Lol
If step-dad treated mc poorly nta but otherwise yta. If step-dad treated him like his real son he may really wanted to teach him finance since its too important for adult life. I didnt get any sensation of bad step-dad from story so I think yta. You may make a joke but dont escalate it since people may be fragile.
I have to disagree here. If he truly wanted to teach OP about finance he would have included the mother in the talk with OP. Since he didn't he went behind the back of who he thought was the owner of the house. Which is a betrayal. I'm willing to bet that the stepdad wanted to pocket the rent for himself.
I agree with writing up a rental contract for just HIM to sign. Don't charge your mama. You always take care of mama, but charge HIM to live in your house....
NTA and he needs to pay rent to the 18 y/o
Thing is he should've been helping with bills and everything already.