@@kiranchoudhary382 ngl bro i didn't liked how he literally exaggerated things i mean isn't it common thing to make 2hr podcast i respect him for his patience to listen all that crap
ngl, but bruh i personally feel u are very possessive,u like being dominating i feel, u seem ur drinking to be fine, but her grooming herself waste of money or show off! some people unlike u likes to well dress,people cn do what thy wanna do,wear wht thy wanna wear, u were too obsessed to with her,if u know she is nt giving ur wrth , not appreciating ur sacrifices as u said(personally i feel helping neighbors is a part if our moral good hbits,idk why people take proud of things tht should be anways done normally!). if a person dont treat u ur wrth ,leave themm mann, find someone who values u, and stop being so needy,work on urself,live ur lifeee ps - am not saying her cheating was fine,but we all should not be such a pity! PLENTY OF FISHES IN THE SEA PEOPLE! please give me ur reviews on my pov guys
Miss Kavita he was not pretending to be nice, he was actually nice, there is a difference. When a man truly loves, he provides and protects more and more, that's how masculine energy shows love. It was the girl's bad luck, she lost such a gem. Don't you think he himself knew that the girl is now not interested in him but still because he loved him he kept on doing and doing because it was his true love.
The thing is,I feel log ek relation me dono perspectives ko samajh hi nahi paate. If she would have ever thought of sacrifices this man has made for relation,I don't think she would have left him this bad.
The guy who is speaking also needs counselling... In a humble way..as a anchor u can also guide the speaker that as a girl... Any girl n mostly girl like to colour hair..wear heels..which is not at all wrong... N many other flaws in thinking of speaker can be corrected dear
Yes I agree he can be, but I use to do it we got back lashes from ahdince as they are here for story not for correction hence we do that post the lod cast
You just stole my words. I felt the same. He just wanted her to follow what he wanted. He can drink alcohol and give a nonsensical reason for it, but the girl can't dress up like the way she wants. He can do bakwaas jobs instead of sitting idle at home, but she can't. Hypocrisy at levels !!!!!!
he said after then he accepted her all things. usne apna liya na uski chijo ko or long term relationship me dress ko leke or bhi dusri chijo ko leke jhagde or argument hote he bahut common think hai. friends with benefit or tinder wale relationship me esa nahi hota he kyu ki waha target physical hona hi hota hai long term relationship me emotion, feeling, expectation hoti hai. questions dress or hair color ka nahi he us bande ne jo itne year sacrifice kiya he us ladki or uske famliy walo ke liye kiya ap negate nahi kar sakte ho or jab uska bad time aya like finance issue health issue to uske sath rehne ki jagah mental issue nahi dena chahiye
its good that you decided to bounce back from the situation and pain which you gone through. you deserve much better than this. 1 day she will realize her mistake.
Stop playing victim card and blaming the girl for everything. You are happy only when she follows what you like, your idea of what she should wear, etc. You need not tell each and every item you brought for her, etc. At every step, you’ve imposed your decisions on her and cleverly you say that you weren’t stopping her. Is this a joke? Just move on. Having said that, I appreciate your dedication on your transformation and also that you were responsible with your studies etc.
isnt it same for girls? like choti si choti cheez unke hisaab se honi hai.. ek msg ka kya nahi kia jaghda shuru ! subah se sone thak ka saaru decisions tumhari konsi ghar meh rahenge..ghar ke paint kya hai. kapde kya pehna hai kya khana hai kab khaana hai. banda tareef karna hai reply dena padega usko phalana dhinkana sab aapke hisab toh horaha hai ....lol...u people r psychos...
and aapne yeh 'move on' likha na yeh toh aapse hi hoga..kyunki aapko na sharam hai ijjat hai morals hai.. aap ek aadmi ko maarkhe usike paas aaram se so sakthe ho... toh huthiyapa aaap ke paas ki rakho aad aap hi follow karo
Wahi toh yaar.. i am surprised to see this podcast!! I would really like to hear that girl... for real... because after listening to him,i feel bad for her! I've been in similar type of situation where the boy was literally obsessed with me, stalking and emotional torturing were regular things for me then😭.. bhagwan ne bacha liya tha us waqt!
She showed in every which way that she was not into you! She rejected you, ignored you, blocked you.. All these signs should’ve been enough for you to have moved on long ago! Obsession in overdrive!
Wahi bolte h ki apne se zayda kisi k liye itna mat kro ki woh phir aapko halke me lene lag jaaye First respect yourself then do for others!!! And seriously bro heads off to you aap jaise aur ache ladko ki zarurat h iss kalyug me...
Well as a honest viewer! This guy needs to stop portraying himself as victim..its not her fault entirely..ofc she is wrong...totally wrong but in a lot stages of her life he has overtaken snd shadowed her.. doesn't give a good vibe to be with ! That also can't be ignored...Ek tatoo pe itna discussion... tumhare ghar pe nahi karte understandable but issue kyu karna hai.. usko acha laga usne ksr liya ..whats a big deal..uske maa baap koi dikkat nahi ho .tum kya uske maa baap se badhke hogaye
I think apne pura suna nahi hai. Bat tattoo ki nahi he wo bande ki effort ki he jo wo uske liya laga raha tha starting se wo kisi or ke sath thi uska breakup hua usko pata tha fir bhi usne usko apnaya fir apna ke bhi usko liye effort dikha raha he uske ghar kam karte wo log ki help Kar ke wo sab apko dikha nahi. Or ye kya hota he ko insna apke liye itna kuch kare or ap bolo mene kaha tha karne ko mene bola tha mere liye kar or usko chhod ke kisi or ki baho me chale jana wo apko sahi lag raha he .
Am not saying the girl is right..she is totally at fault!!! Pura galat hai...but at some point this guy has also taken a lot of charge against her as he said
Sher apni manpasand aurat ko khone se or apne rishte ko bachane ke liye apni self respect ki dhajiya udha deta he. Or bhai tumko salute he bhai itna kuch hua fir bhi tum tute nahi or kuch galat nahi kiye khud ke sath and acha come back kiya you r such a brave man ......
Dude I feel u did this to yourself more than she did anything, she kept her distance and you kept forcing ur self on her theirs nothing u can blame her for if she had blocked u and you are still buying her gifts it's not her mistake it's yours. What makes u think u can buy someone's love by giving gifts they don't mean anything. can't force someone to love u just because u love them and r ready to do anything, that is a reflection of u as supposed to on them. If anything you're showing sociopathic traits of not letting go of her since childhood, what sort of weird obsession is that? And why are you heading on this channel now posing as a victim,! In every line that he said he did something for her, he did it only to seem good! Then spoke more about himself than what happened in the relationship itself, his mentality seems very backward
I also felt like that But I think that the girl was also at fault somewhere in all this, as the girl used to unblock this boy again and again. Another place where I found fault with that girl was that if she had fallen out of love with him for whatever reason, she should have told him long ago or she should not have unblocked him at all
Starting drinking and partying is okay, but when the girl wants to groom herself up by earning her own money, then saying her 'simple hi achha hai, kyu change hona'. Bulshit. Direct saying maat kar, and doing jhagra, and then saying I'm not stoping. lol
Didn’t understand the point of this podcast .. yes she did wrong to him but block hone k bad bhi me ye krta tha vo krta tha.. she didn’t asked u to do such stuff when u r blocked. In entire podcast he was just showing what materialistic things he had done for her
Didi esa nahi hota hena koi ladka itne lambe time se kisi ke sath rehta Hena wo kabhi nahi chahega usko khona apne riste ko bachane ke liye kuch bhi kar sakta he ye wahi kar raha tha ab ladki ko chapari log pasand arahe the to uski kya galati or jab usko pata chala ki wo cheat kar rahi he to usne usko chhod ke move on hua na kitna acha transformation kiya woto dekho yaar sirf negative thing nikalni hai
What nonsense fellow who thinks in std 7 th whom he liked should love him also expecting too much first saying be a friend of mine then getting expecting too much from the opposite sex then doing everything for his good image
@@himanshusharma1204 absolutely bcz the girl should nt have waited 10 yrs she should have told him at that tym I m sorry not interested I m dating someone...
Bhai agar tum tumari cheez thopoge tho what you expect.. Pretending to be nice and you are kind off possessive.. space naam ki cheez hi nahi relationship meh.. Tera pyaar Sacha ho accepted with due respect but somehow harkat thodi toxic hai.
@@BeYourself709 ha na apke sister ke sath karta koe ashi harkat tabhi shayad aap usko ignore karoge shayad look at both the side if she cheated on him which is absolutely wrong bhai but yeh bhi dhekho ki banda kisi ko itna control kar raha hai which is also wrong. Stop being gender biased and start looking for both the sides if you are mature enough.
Part:2 But bro, you asked her to come, and she clearly told you she didn't love you, didn't want to be with you, but still, you're clinging to her and now blaming her. Where there's love, bro, there's a matter of respect, whether it's one-sided or mutual. But here, you've shared her screenshots with those guys you wanted to protect her from. What respect is left, bro? You got your family involved, bro... and if you end up committing murder tomorrow, your family will try to save you... If her family does the same, they're toxic? Bro, you've even counted filling out her ITR's... seriously? How could you? And after all that, whatever you asked her for, she gave it all, proving she wasn't after money. And you only asked for stuff for a year or two... if you had asked for everything old, maybe she would have given it too. If she were after you, she wouldn't have done all that. I'm not defending cheating here; I'm just laying out the truth. Don't live in delusions, bro, get out. If everything you've told me is true, she must have spent money too, but you've blown it out of proportion. So if you're materialistic, she's also equally at fault? She's rejected you multiple times to your face, yet you keep clinging to her... there's no fault of hers in that. And after that, she's free to date anyone, whether they're good or bad... and if she thought you were bad, then you probably went downhill while working from home. My two hours have been wasted, bro, all because of the nonsense you've made of my mind! Bro, don't play the victim, be wise Victim nahi, Gian hai aap! And the title shouldn't be Toxic Girlfriend, it should be Toxic Delusional Boyfriend!"
she deserves the worst for cheating but you are stupid for being so blinded by love. she clearly did not want you and kept blocking you but you sent her gifts 😭 i mean this is so clear that you should move on and have some swlf respect. in her defense, you couldnt keep up with her changes and how she grew into her own person as you kept repeating ki simple hi pasand thi ye tattoo hair dye western dressing pasand nahi etc but what she did was TOTALLY wrong and in the end only the good ones get hurt
Well.. where everyone is calling him controlling, manipulating and over obsessive, i do believe he is not! Everyone is just coping each others opinion without thinking by there own mind. ¹ He just tried to provide her best things. ² A partner should always respect his or her partner's likes and dislikes. His mistake: ¹ He over loved her. ² When she directly said she wants break up. He didn't end. I'm not saying that I'm totally right as I'm only saying this by listening one sided story.
Bro, I'm still struggling to understand what exactly her fault was. I get it, man. You've been head over heels for her, doing everything for her, but right from the start, she's made it clear she's not interested. She doesn't want to be with you, but you kept hoping, trying to impress her, thinking if you did this or that, she'd be yours? Seriously, dude. Let me simplify it so you don't waste two hours on this nonsense: You wanted to impress her, she turned you down. Then, when she broke up with her boyfriend, you thought it was your chance. That's how you thought you'd get her. You wanted her to do everything exactly as you advised. Like, seriously? You switched your career from engineering to IT, and you wanted to make decisions for her life? Dude, we're in an era where people don't blindly follow their parents' every word; they want to make their own decisions in life. And here you are, dictating what she should do? And if she doesn't agree, she's wrong? Dude, you're doing all this out of love, but she's a human being. If she makes a wrong decision, she'll learn, fall, and then pick herself up. There was no need to show her gratitude. Bro, when you became stable, you started drinking and stuff, and that was okay? She wanted to do whatever she pleased with her own money... so why couldn't you just keep it simple? Look, when you met her, she hadn't even hit puberty properly yet. Now, as time passes, preferences change. She thinks tattoos are cool now. So who are you to accept or not accept her? If her family has no problem, who are you? Acceptance means accepting her as she is. If you don't like it, just leave her. But no, you're sitting here calmly saying you accepted her, as if she didn't leave you because you were tolerable... And let's talk about efforts and gifts. You were doing all that because you wanted something from her. There are no expectations in true love. You're doing all this because it made you feel good, satisfied your ego as a boyfriend. You counted candles, a scarf? Seriously? When you do things out of love, you don't even remember them.
No sirf boys nhi dekhte mai v dekhti hu aur iss ladke ki galati ye the k nature nhi samajh paya agar koi aapko use kr rha hai to Wo pta chal jata hai bt he ignored it never ignore if you r feeling used just leave that person dukh to hoga bt Phir v aise cheat hone k baad dukhi hone se Aacha aap khud uss person ko leave kr do aur ye satisfaction rakho I rejected that person to dukh v thoda Ka m hoga
Everything is your fault if you are a man even if she cheats on you.May be you got needy,may be you became boring,When you overwhelm your girl with too much affection, that's when she starts to subconsciously worry whether she is too good for you
Heard it all for 2 hrs at 2x speed 🤡 and i feel he has given all his efforts and got taken for granted. He did more than he could. Sometimes he didn't liked her changes but still accepted all of it. He is someone who was literally protecting her from problems, helping her at all times, providing her financially and mentally. I feel noone in our generation is doing for not getting appreciation. So stop saying her did something thats normal coz noone do constantly. He has done constantly for that person for 15 years in total. Noone can think about the mental trauma he has got. And yeah we all come from different backgrounds where not everything is common to us. Just because he doesn't like one thing according to his choice u cant say he is toxic. Everyone has its own choice. Look at his efforts. He did more than thought of. He could have left her easily anf got someone else but still he wanted to be with her coz he really wanted her to be a part of his life. Just because of that he was holding on to her so hard after getting blocked and everything.
That girl was total red flag!! He ignores each and every red flag of her.. But once a red flag is always a red flag!! He is educated and mature.. He should made some boundaries and should leave her. But he chooses to ignore these things..
Aur earrings, scarf ye sab gift wapas maang raha tha ye😂 Bhai ye toh hum aise hi kisi k liye bhi le aate hain Aur tu gift de raha tha coz u expected something in return
Podcaster bar bar puch rha hai ke main problem kha se suru hui Bhai be like: maine itna kia mai esa krta tha muje acha dikhna tha, mai gina nahi raha, par gina raha hu Pehle block pe hi side ho jana tha tumne. Apni achai ka fayda uthane dena jan bujh kr taki log damaad smzhe is going to cost you only.
Ye khyd kitna toxic banda hai yaar.... Offcourse ladki ne bht bura kiya but ye khud bhi kon sa bht accha hai .. poore podcast me sirf apni tareef... Ye Diya wo diya ye kiya wo kiya... Gift to chhodo.. jo advice di uska tak ehsan jata rha hai... Accha hua dono alag ho gye... Dono hi ek dusre ke layak nhi the
Horrible toh uski behen hai Jo bol Rai hai ki attachment ho jati hai, loyalty naam ki cheez hoti, I have seriously hatred against such kind of people who cannot afford loyalty. Ladki toh faltu hai hai. N uski behen bhi uska sath de rai hai. Jis ladke itna kiya n ye sab kar rai thi
Whole time he is like maine usse smart watch diya maine uske liya Pizza order Kiya Maine inke ghar walo kr liye ye kiya maine wo kiya yrr itna ginwa kyu rahe ho....😅😅
Meine bhi mere gf ko isliye chhoda kyunki uska MSG wagera bohat late ata tha aur uska snap 2lakh + tha rooj uska snap badta tha pr mujhe ek bhi MSG wagera nahi ata tha ........meine usse chhoda aur haar jagha se block krdiya...... phir baad mein pata chala dosto se ki wo ladki aur bohat ladko se baat krti thi ,......mein Bach gya
Phele usne bola ke vo gina nai rha h but pure video m usne itni chize bata di jo jo di thi like bro this is so cheap brk up ke baad saman mangna agar badme magna tha to diys hi kyu?pretend krne ke liye that u love her and agar vo pyaar nai krti to saman deserve nai krti vapas lelo ngl u are the biggest red flag😂
Gajab aadmi h ye....ldki ne no. tk nhi diye aur insta p baat krti thi. As soon he found out she is lying....He could have just continue fucking her and find a new girl for relationship
Iska gala aur muh sukh raha hi bolte samay he is not comfortable sharing his story lagta hi abhi bhi pachta raha hi usase pyar kar ke helpless aur dukhi bhi hi galat tha 7th se pyar ke chakkar me pada
80/90% ladkiya or ladke bhi kuch aise hi hote hai.. ye baat sach ki jo wafadar hota hai uske sath hi dhoka hota hai. 1:29:50 hath per thande pad jate hai iss situation me
Ladka hona bada mushkil he kuch kare kisi ke liye to problem ki mene bola karne ke liye sunne milta he na karo to mere liye kabhi kuch nahi kiya esliye mujhe sath nahi rehna hai kare to kare yaar ye
Lekin aap karte toh bohot jada rok tok the….bandi tattoo banayenge toh ghr mai problem hoga lekin bandi k liye ghrwalo ko nhi mana shakta lol😂 you’re a big red flag actually jab aapne pehle bar toka tha na tabhi chor deni chahiye thi ushko
It's a one-sided love affair from your side. In any love affair it should be from both the sides equally. You are fortunate that she moved out of your life of her own before marriage. Get yourself deeply involved in prosperity of your future life.
Aap sochrhe the ki usne cheat bhi chaprio k sath kia pr aap ki bhi choice wesi hi thi...she was not at all serious about you and you were all alone in that relationship.
Saar yeh nikla story ka ki woh ladki gf nahi PANAUTI thi tumhaare liye..itna bhi nahi giraana chaahiye khud ko kisi unworthiness insaan ke liye..achha hota is ghatiya aurat ko pehle hi chhod dete..other than that..all the best for your new life!✨😊✨
I was personally very relating to ur every other earlier videos..also to the intellectual people I shared..they also liked...but this particular videos n mentality showing particularly towards women n girls is not right
This man is a problem like he's so controlling and toxic and the most important thing he always have someone known wherever she was applying for jod or courses😂
He is like.. is ladki m to khud ka dimag nai h though she was more intelligent thn him. Apna to khud ka set ni hora.. kisi or ka kaise kroge.. use jine do!
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The spice starts at 59:21
You're doing God's work
@@kiranchoudhary382 ngl bro i didn't liked how he literally exaggerated things i mean isn't it common thing to make 2hr podcast i respect him for his patience to listen all that crap
@@subliminalfreak He's exaggerating like a mother in law 😆
@@kiranchoudhary382 oml so real
Gt road c🎉😢
she told you in many ways she doesn't want to be with you , you should have left her way before this time .
Innocent is something which is rare nowadays and at no doubt the boy is so humble ans down to earth
ngl, but bruh i personally feel u are very possessive,u like being dominating i feel, u seem ur drinking to be fine, but her grooming herself waste of money or show off! some people unlike u likes to well dress,people cn do what thy wanna do,wear wht thy wanna wear, u were too obsessed to with her,if u know she is nt giving ur wrth , not appreciating ur sacrifices as u said(personally i feel helping neighbors is a part if our moral good hbits,idk why people take proud of things tht should be anways done normally!). if a person dont treat u ur wrth ,leave themm mann, find someone who values u, and stop being so needy,work on urself,live ur lifeee
ps - am not saying her cheating was fine,but we all should not be such a pity! PLENTY OF FISHES IN THE SEA PEOPLE!
please give me ur reviews on my pov guys
Real
Exactly my thought!! i was getting extremely creepy vibe watching this podcast🙄
yeahh rightt!@@kavitatrivedi
She was a girl not a women
Agreed with you 💯
Bhai one more red flag i learn from this podcast is never get back to your ex 😢
Never ✌️
Never ever
You can never expect respect or love when you are PRETENDING to be nice!! Kab tak karoge? Shadi hone tak.. right?
Miss Kavita he was not pretending to be nice, he was actually nice, there is a difference. When a man truly loves, he provides and protects more and more, that's how masculine energy shows love.
It was the girl's bad luck, she lost such a gem.
Don't you think he himself knew that the girl is now not interested in him but still because he loved him he kept on doing and doing because it was his true love.
@@syedmohmmadmaroof you are right 👍🏻
Agree with you kavita, he himself is admitting that he was nice to her parents because he wanted to good in their eyes
There many boys who stays nice to good to parents of girl until marriage
People lose permanent things over temporary things 🙂 I seriously don't understand ki log ache logo ke saath itna bura kaise kr lete h
The thing is,I feel log ek relation me dono perspectives ko samajh hi nahi paate. If she would have ever thought of sacrifices this man has made for relation,I don't think she would have left him this bad.
Perhaps God saved our future
True 100%
Yes....
The guy who is speaking also needs counselling... In a humble way..as a anchor u can also guide the speaker that as a girl... Any girl n mostly girl like to colour hair..wear heels..which is not at all wrong... N many other flaws in thinking of speaker can be corrected dear
Yes I agree he can be, but I use to do it we got back lashes from ahdince as they are here for story not for correction hence we do that post the lod cast
You just stole my words. I felt the same. He just wanted her to follow what he wanted. He can drink alcohol and give a nonsensical reason for it, but the girl can't dress up like the way she wants. He can do bakwaas jobs instead of sitting idle at home, but she can't. Hypocrisy at levels !!!!!!
he said after then he accepted her all things. usne apna liya na uski chijo ko or long term relationship me dress ko leke or bhi dusri chijo ko leke jhagde or argument hote he bahut common think hai. friends with benefit or tinder wale relationship me esa nahi hota he kyu ki waha target physical hona hi hota hai long term relationship me emotion, feeling, expectation hoti hai. questions dress or hair color ka nahi he us bande ne jo itne year sacrifice kiya he us ladki or uske famliy walo ke liye kiya ap negate nahi kar sakte ho or jab uska bad time aya like finance issue health issue to uske sath rehne ki jagah mental issue nahi dena chahiye
@@parths-u9p amazing how PPL justify their own concept of long term relationship.. waah.. isiliye tikti nahi relationship.very sad
its good that you decided to bounce back from the situation and pain which you gone through. you deserve much better than this. 1 day she will realize her mistake.
Stop playing victim card and blaming the girl for everything. You are happy only when she follows what you like, your idea of what she should wear, etc.
You need not tell each and every item you brought for her, etc.
At every step, you’ve imposed your decisions on her and cleverly you say that you weren’t stopping her. Is this a joke?
Just move on.
Having said that, I appreciate your dedication on your transformation and also that you were responsible with your studies etc.
isnt it same for girls? like choti si choti cheez unke hisaab se honi hai..
ek msg ka kya nahi kia jaghda shuru !
subah se sone thak ka saaru decisions tumhari
konsi ghar meh rahenge..ghar ke paint kya hai. kapde kya pehna hai kya khana hai kab khaana hai.
banda tareef karna hai
reply dena padega usko
phalana dhinkana
sab aapke hisab toh horaha hai ....lol...u people r psychos...
and aapne yeh 'move on' likha na yeh toh aapse hi hoga..kyunki aapko na sharam hai ijjat hai morals hai.. aap ek aadmi ko maarkhe usike paas aaram se so sakthe ho... toh huthiyapa aaap ke paas ki rakho aad aap hi follow karo
@@sudir_ebi you're right bro😶
arey kisko invite kar liya ....he is so obsessed , possessive....
Wahi toh yaar.. i am surprised to see this podcast!! I would really like to hear that girl... for real... because after listening to him,i feel bad for her! I've been in similar type of situation where the boy was literally obsessed with me, stalking and emotional torturing were regular things for me then😭.. bhagwan ne bacha liya tha us waqt!
Exactly.. ladki khud sab signs de rahi ki unko interest nahi.. yahi pagaal jaise uske piche pada
@@kavitatrivediexactly even I went through this situation 😖😖
She showed in every which way that she was not into you!
She rejected you, ignored you, blocked you..
All these signs should’ve been enough for you to have moved on long ago!
Obsession in overdrive!
Oo didi to 10 ladke ke saath wo kr rhi h wo v to dekho
@@footballclub9218 jande bhai nahi samjege unlog .. kuch mat vivad hojayega
@@footballclub9218 all girls are same bro 😓😓😓😓 CHEATERS 🤧🤧
Wahi bolte h ki apne se zayda kisi k liye itna mat kro ki woh phir aapko halke me lene lag jaaye
First respect yourself then do for others!!!
And seriously bro heads off to you aap jaise aur ache ladko ki zarurat h iss kalyug me...
so truee
Well as a honest viewer! This guy needs to stop portraying himself as victim..its not her fault entirely..ofc she is wrong...totally wrong but in a lot stages of her life he has overtaken snd shadowed her.. doesn't give a good vibe to be with ! That also can't be ignored...Ek tatoo pe itna discussion... tumhare ghar pe nahi karte understandable but issue kyu karna hai.. usko acha laga usne ksr liya ..whats a big deal..uske maa baap koi dikkat nahi ho .tum kya uske maa baap se badhke hogaye
I think apne pura suna nahi hai. Bat tattoo ki nahi he wo bande ki effort ki he jo wo uske liya laga raha tha starting se wo kisi or ke sath thi uska breakup hua usko pata tha fir bhi usne usko apnaya fir apna ke bhi usko liye effort dikha raha he uske ghar kam karte wo log ki help Kar ke wo sab apko dikha nahi. Or ye kya hota he ko insna apke liye itna kuch kare or ap bolo mene kaha tha karne ko mene bola tha mere liye kar or usko chhod ke kisi or ki baho me chale jana wo apko sahi lag raha he .
Am not saying the girl is right..she is totally at fault!!! Pura galat hai...but at some point this guy has also taken a lot of charge against her as he said
@@ashwinrajput9318pura bhi suno toh yahi galat hai ...
Bro tum kuch zyada he care or dominance dikharaheho aut uske decisions woah kudh nahi le sakti he essi liye uski dimak mature hi nahi ho paya
He is such a darling person. Every nice girl needs a person like him who takes care of his girl like a guardian 💕
Sher apni manpasand aurat ko khone se or apne rishte ko bachane ke liye apni self respect ki dhajiya udha deta he. Or bhai tumko salute he bhai itna kuch hua fir bhi tum tute nahi or kuch galat nahi kiye khud ke sath and acha come back kiya you r such a brave man ......
Dude I feel u did this to yourself more than she did anything, she kept her distance and you kept forcing ur self on her theirs nothing u can blame her for if she had blocked u and you are still buying her gifts it's not her mistake it's yours. What makes u think u can buy someone's love by giving gifts they don't mean anything. can't force someone to love u just because u love them and r ready to do anything, that is a reflection of u as supposed to on them. If anything you're showing sociopathic traits of not letting go of her since childhood, what sort of weird obsession is that? And why are you heading on this channel now posing as a victim,! In every line that he said he did something for her, he did it only to seem good! Then spoke more about himself than what happened in the relationship itself, his mentality seems very backward
Exactly!!
Agreed 💯
I also agree
I also felt like that But I think that the girl was also at fault somewhere in all this, as the girl used to unblock this boy again and again. Another place where I found fault with that girl was that if she had fallen out of love with him for whatever reason, she should have told him long ago or she should not have unblocked him at all
@@sneha_0 ya fair enough
Starting drinking and partying is okay, but when the girl wants to groom herself up by earning her own money, then saying her 'simple hi achha hai, kyu change hona'. Bulshit. Direct saying maat kar, and doing jhagra, and then saying I'm not stoping. lol
Hats off to your patience bro... You're a good listener too.. a very good one 👍🏻
Bhai one thing i learn from it is never been in friendship with people who you like
Didn’t understand the point of this podcast .. yes she did wrong to him but block hone k bad bhi me ye krta tha vo krta tha.. she didn’t asked u to do such stuff when u r blocked. In entire podcast he was just showing what materialistic things he had done for her
Didi esa nahi hota hena koi ladka itne lambe time se kisi ke sath rehta Hena wo kabhi nahi chahega usko khona apne riste ko bachane ke liye kuch bhi kar sakta he ye wahi kar raha tha ab ladki ko chapari log pasand arahe the to uski kya galati or jab usko pata chala ki wo cheat kar rahi he to usne usko chhod ke move on hua na kitna acha transformation kiya woto dekho yaar sirf negative thing nikalni hai
What nonsense fellow who thinks in std 7 th whom he liked should love him also expecting too much first saying be a friend of mine then getting expecting too much from the opposite sex then doing everything for his good image
😂😂😂😂😂 you are like his girlfriend I think khub chu$$I kro ha ye bewakuf h but tum b chalu item ho jasa tumne comment kia
You have not understood whole of his story he is stupid for sure but that girl was more like you given your comment
@@himanshusharma1204 absolutely bcz the girl should nt have waited 10 yrs she should have told him at that tym I m sorry not interested I m dating someone...
Exactly 💯
Bhai agar tum tumari cheez thopoge tho what you expect.. Pretending to be nice and you are kind off possessive.. space naam ki cheez hi nahi relationship meh.. Tera pyaar Sacha ho accepted with due respect but somehow harkat thodi toxic hai.
Exactly my feelings after while watching the video
Actually girls are vulnerable and demands vulnerability
To chhod deti h yr isko.... Jyada toxic ho tha to...
9-10 ladko ke sath muh marne ki kaha jarurat thi yr
Relex boys pseudo faminiest found 🫡🫡🫡
@@BeYourself709 ha na apke sister ke sath karta koe ashi harkat tabhi shayad aap usko ignore karoge shayad look at both the side if she cheated on him which is absolutely wrong bhai but yeh bhi dhekho ki banda kisi ko itna control kar raha hai which is also wrong. Stop being gender biased and start looking for both the sides if you are mature enough.
OBSESSION 😢
Part:2
But bro, you asked her to come, and she clearly told you she didn't love you, didn't want to be with you, but still, you're clinging to her and now blaming her.
Where there's love, bro, there's a matter of respect, whether it's one-sided or mutual. But here, you've shared her screenshots with those guys you wanted to protect her from. What respect is left, bro? You got your family involved, bro... and if you end up committing murder tomorrow, your family will try to save you... If her family does the same, they're toxic?
Bro, you've even counted filling out her ITR's... seriously? How could you? And after all that, whatever you asked her for, she gave it all, proving she wasn't after money. And you only asked for stuff for a year or two... if you had asked for everything old, maybe she would have given it too. If she were after you, she wouldn't have done all that.
I'm not defending cheating here; I'm just laying out the truth.
Don't live in delusions, bro, get out.
If everything you've told me is true, she must have spent money too, but you've blown it out of proportion. So if you're materialistic, she's also equally at fault?
She's rejected you multiple times to your face, yet you keep clinging to her... there's no fault of hers in that.
And after that, she's free to date anyone, whether they're good or bad... and if she thought you were bad, then you probably went downhill while working from home.
My two hours have been wasted, bro, all because of the nonsense you've made of my mind!
Bro, don't play the victim, be wise Victim nahi, Gian hai aap!
And the title shouldn't be Toxic Girlfriend, it should be Toxic Delusional Boyfriend!"
Kitna loyal banda hai yaar..🙁her x don’t deserve this man !!
I don't think she was toxic, she was just never interested in this guy
Watch it on 1:25 or 1:5x speed thanks me later😉
He is really a good boy which anyone can only expect
Bhi bolona sa kuch nahi hota ha
she deserves the worst for cheating but you are stupid for being so blinded by love. she clearly did not want you and kept blocking you but you sent her gifts 😭 i mean this is so clear that you should move on and have some swlf respect.
in her defense, you couldnt keep up with her changes and how she grew into her own person as you kept repeating ki simple hi pasand thi ye tattoo hair dye western dressing pasand nahi etc
but what she did was TOTALLY wrong and in the end only the good ones get hurt
Well.. where everyone is calling him controlling, manipulating and over obsessive, i do believe he is not! Everyone is just coping each others opinion without thinking by there own mind.
¹ He just tried to provide her best things.
² A partner should always respect his or her partner's likes and dislikes.
His mistake:
¹ He over loved her.
² When she directly said she wants break up. He didn't end.
I'm not saying that I'm totally right as I'm only saying this by listening one sided story.
great transformation bro you are warrior and brave.
You are among the brilliant RUclipsrs I know. Thanks for putting in the effort 👍🏻
This comment means alot thank you, I shall do my duty to best.
Bro sorry to say you forced her to be with u she from dayone gave you all red flags
Bro, I'm still struggling to understand what exactly her fault was. I get it, man. You've been head over heels for her, doing everything for her, but right from the start, she's made it clear she's not interested. She doesn't want to be with you, but you kept hoping, trying to impress her, thinking if you did this or that, she'd be yours? Seriously, dude.
Let me simplify it so you don't waste two hours on this nonsense:
You wanted to impress her, she turned you down. Then, when she broke up with her boyfriend, you thought it was your chance. That's how you thought you'd get her. You wanted her to do everything exactly as you advised. Like, seriously?
You switched your career from engineering to IT, and you wanted to make decisions for her life? Dude, we're in an era where people don't blindly follow their parents' every word; they want to make their own decisions in life. And here you are, dictating what she should do? And if she doesn't agree, she's wrong? Dude, you're doing all this out of love, but she's a human being. If she makes a wrong decision, she'll learn, fall, and then pick herself up. There was no need to show her gratitude.
Bro, when you became stable, you started drinking and stuff, and that was okay? She wanted to do whatever she pleased with her own money... so why couldn't you just keep it simple? Look, when you met her, she hadn't even hit puberty properly yet. Now, as time passes, preferences change. She thinks tattoos are cool now. So who are you to accept or not accept her? If her family has no problem, who are you? Acceptance means accepting her as she is. If you don't like it, just leave her. But no, you're sitting here calmly saying you accepted her, as if she didn't leave you because you were tolerable...
And let's talk about efforts and gifts. You were doing all that because you wanted something from her. There are no expectations in true love. You're doing all this because it made you feel good, satisfied your ego as a boyfriend. You counted candles, a scarf? Seriously? When you do things out of love, you don't even remember them.
His story is perfect example of why bad boys always win and nice guys always loose
No sirf boys nhi dekhte mai v dekhti hu aur iss ladke ki galati ye the k nature nhi samajh paya agar koi aapko use kr rha hai to Wo pta chal jata hai bt he ignored it never ignore if you r feeling used just leave that person dukh to hoga bt Phir v aise cheat hone k baad dukhi hone se Aacha aap khud uss person ko leave kr do aur ye satisfaction rakho I rejected that person to dukh v thoda Ka m hoga
Totally red flag with controlling behaviour and just showing off his abilities I had done these all and all!!!!!
@@ariba2467 didi apse koi Mtlb h kya inn bhaiya ka?
Everything is your fault if you are a man even if she cheats on you.May be you got needy,may be you became boring,When you overwhelm your girl with too much affection, that's when she starts to subconsciously worry whether she is too good for you
Kaam ki chij to last main hai. He really did work on himself. Take all the positives that you can...from anyone 😊
I recently discovered this channel and now it has become my stress buster ....roz ek ek video with earphones
One of the best podcast ❤
This guy be like - i me and myself
Agree yeh sirf me sahi hun mera attitude sahi hai.
@@anikettayde5597 Haan bro, almost 1 hour apna hi bolta raha, bahat boring episode hai
Exactly 💯..... God saves his future partner 🙏😢
Someone pls tell him that onesided love is not a relationship 😢
I think he was in his delululu 😂the whole time. She never really dated her from her side after 2018
He seems very controlling and manipulative
What a brave man seriously 💯❤️ you deserve better bro..she will regret
Why is this guy so much of i Me myself…. God this the first podcast I felt bored..
💯..... Maine yhe kiya, maine vo kiya.... Bla bla bla ..... Taali ek hath se nhi bajti.... Iski " mai mai " se he iski ex pareshan ho gyi hogi....
Heard it all for 2 hrs at 2x speed 🤡 and i feel he has given all his efforts and got taken for granted. He did more than he could. Sometimes he didn't liked her changes but still accepted all of it. He is someone who was literally protecting her from problems, helping her at all times, providing her financially and mentally. I feel noone in our generation is doing for not getting appreciation. So stop saying her did something thats normal coz noone do constantly. He has done constantly for that person for 15 years in total. Noone can think about the mental trauma he has got. And yeah we all come from different backgrounds where not everything is common to us. Just because he doesn't like one thing according to his choice u cant say he is toxic. Everyone has its own choice. Look at his efforts. He did more than thought of. He could have left her easily anf got someone else but still he wanted to be with her coz he really wanted her to be a part of his life. Just because of that he was holding on to her so hard after getting blocked and everything.
This boy is having correct view of point about reality of life. Because he is want to do best for her... Also want secure future
Cheating is choice not a mistake.
That girl was total red flag!! He ignores each and every red flag of her.. But once a red flag is always a red flag!! He is educated and mature.. He should made some boundaries and should leave her. But he chooses to ignore these things..
😮😮😢😢koi nhi Bhai jane do jisko jana hai 😡 ap khush raho bas bagwan apke liye kuch achi soch rakha hoga aage sayed😊😊❤🎉
Aur earrings, scarf ye sab gift wapas maang raha tha ye😂
Bhai ye toh hum aise hi kisi k liye bhi le aate hain
Aur tu gift de raha tha coz u expected something in return
Ap sahi the esliye apke sath kuch galat nahi huaa par samne wale ke sath 💯 galat hua hoga ya hoga
Podcaster bar bar puch rha hai ke main problem kha se suru hui
Bhai be like: maine itna kia mai esa krta tha muje acha dikhna tha, mai gina nahi raha, par gina raha hu
Pehle block pe hi side ho jana tha tumne. Apni achai ka fayda uthane dena jan bujh kr taki log damaad smzhe is going to cost you only.
Ye khyd kitna toxic banda hai yaar.... Offcourse ladki ne bht bura kiya but ye khud bhi kon sa bht accha hai .. poore podcast me sirf apni tareef... Ye Diya wo diya ye kiya wo kiya... Gift to chhodo.. jo advice di uska tak ehsan jata rha hai... Accha hua dono alag ho gye... Dono hi ek dusre ke layak nhi the
Horrible toh uski behen hai Jo bol Rai hai ki attachment ho jati hai, loyalty naam ki cheez hoti, I have seriously hatred against such kind of people who cannot afford loyalty. Ladki toh faltu hai hai. N uski behen bhi uska sath de rai hai. Jis ladke itna kiya n ye sab kar rai thi
54:26 kuch bhi lia kaar to mujhse puchh lia kaar😂 epic line.....😂😂😂
Chipku hai ye toh...distance rakhna hi chahiye affair me bhi.
Whole time he is like maine usse smart watch diya maine uske liya Pizza order Kiya Maine inke ghar walo kr liye ye kiya maine wo kiya yrr itna ginwa kyu rahe ho....😅😅
I like every podcast of this channel but this one i dont like kuki Bhut sari bate illogical lgi mko iss podcast me
This guy is so boring. He is self centered and obsessed. Anyone will want to move away from him😅
@@sumitrakonch1030 offcourse 😂
Mene pura dhyan se sune bhai isme sabse achi chij lagi apka Bhai apka support kiya apko help kiya mahadev bless you bhai sahab
Don't be nice to women. Behave with her just like any other human 😊
One red flag from you counted each n everything bcoz you wanted her u wanted to impress her n get back to her
Meine bhi mere gf ko isliye chhoda kyunki uska MSG wagera bohat late ata tha aur uska snap 2lakh + tha rooj uska snap badta tha pr mujhe ek bhi MSG wagera nahi ata tha ........meine usse chhoda aur haar jagha se block krdiya...... phir baad mein pata chala dosto se ki wo ladki aur bohat ladko se baat krti thi ,......mein Bach gya
If a girl blocks you and tells you that she is no more interested then there is zero percent chance that she will be back again. Ek jaegi dusri ayegi.
Phele usne bola ke vo gina nai rha h but pure video m usne itni chize bata di jo jo di thi like bro this is so cheap brk up ke baad saman mangna agar badme magna tha to diys hi kyu?pretend krne ke liye that u love her and agar vo pyaar nai krti to saman deserve nai krti vapas lelo ngl u are the biggest red flag😂
Heyy do a podcast with anmol jayce chuadary!!!
Wow🥺❤️🔥
Hats off 🤠 this man 👏🏻itna kuch tolerate Kiya 🙃 don't trust someone blindly 😌
He wanted her to be like him. He was being her parent!! He himself seems toxic
Yeah I guess relationship bhi khud ki side se hi chalra tha lol
Tu hi woh gf hai kya😅
Gajab aadmi h ye....ldki ne no. tk nhi diye aur insta p baat krti thi. As soon he found out she is lying....He could have just continue fucking her and find a new girl for relationship
Yehi hai wohh ladki 😂😂 atleast try speaking English properly and then judge the person
Shut ur mouth up
He controls her on everything what she should do n wht she shouldn't, he's controlling her in a way....
1:50:07 चलो फाइनली अपना दिया हुआ सामान वापस ले लिए इस बात कि मुझे खुशी है 😂😂
Such a bioooring podcast
Iska gala aur muh sukh raha hi bolte samay he is not comfortable sharing his story lagta hi abhi bhi pachta raha hi usase pyar kar ke helpless aur dukhi bhi hi galat tha 7th se pyar ke chakkar me pada
The boys is so genuine. Such people are rare nowdays
This is so sad. 😢
How to get connected with you? please lemme know
Direct dm or email
80/90% ladkiya or ladke bhi kuch aise hi hote hai.. ye baat sach ki jo wafadar hota hai uske sath hi dhoka hota hai. 1:29:50 hath per thande pad jate hai iss situation me
The spice start at 2:10 .... When you switch for another podcast 😂😂😂😂
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Bhai i not been in a relationship but i learn new things for This about relationship
Ladka hona bada mushkil he kuch kare kisi ke liye to problem ki mene bola karne ke liye sunne milta he na karo to mere liye kabhi kuch nahi kiya esliye mujhe sath nahi rehna hai kare to kare yaar ye
Lekin aap karte toh bohot jada rok tok the….bandi tattoo banayenge toh ghr mai problem hoga lekin bandi k liye ghrwalo ko nhi mana shakta lol😂 you’re a big red flag actually jab aapne pehle bar toka tha na tabhi chor deni chahiye thi ushko
It's a one-sided love affair from your side. In any love affair it should be from both the sides equally. You are fortunate that she moved out of your life of her own before marriage. Get yourself deeply involved in prosperity of your future life.
Unfortunately, this is an acute case of main character syndrome.
So good ❤
Pyaar ya toh barbad karta hai yaa toh amar kardeta hai 😄
Aap sochrhe the ki usne cheat bhi chaprio k sath kia pr aap ki bhi choice wesi hi thi...she was not at all serious about you and you were all alone in that relationship.
Saar yeh nikla story ka ki woh ladki gf nahi PANAUTI thi tumhaare liye..itna bhi nahi giraana chaahiye khud ko kisi unworthiness insaan ke liye..achha hota is ghatiya aurat ko pehle hi chhod dete..other than that..all the best for your new life!✨😊✨
"Wanna be Intelligent"
God bless you 😇 please move on snd live your life
I was personally very relating to ur every other earlier videos..also to the intellectual people I shared..they also liked...but this particular videos n mentality showing particularly towards women n girls is not right
This man is a problem like he's so controlling and toxic and the most important thing he always have someone known wherever she was applying for jod or courses😂
one simple suggestion keep the podcast duration of 1hr 30mins please look after it.
To be honest app story ki time 1 ghante ki as pas rakhiye kisika itna time hota nehi ki 2 ghante kisi podcast ko de sake
He is like.. is ladki m to khud ka dimag nai h though she was more intelligent thn him. Apna to khud ka set ni hora.. kisi or ka kaise kroge.. use jine do!
Isne kya kya diya yahi ginwa raha pure 2 ghate.. he even count candles he is petty and boring
Dono ek dusre ke sath timepass kar rahe the 🙂