@@Jaxsinholt OK, tough guy. Only losers lash out at random people in the comment section for giving someone a compliment… Clearly your parents did a shitty job on you.
To acknowledge and say, "In those 6 yrs, that YOU could have gotten up and done so yourself as well," speaks highly of you...first time watching your guys video and they are awesome!!
@@LiveLoveLaugh22I understand...he is everywhere else doing free stuff for everyone else but she is ok with it so I have to applaud her for taking initiative and doing it herself🤷🏼♀️
Way to go! Woman power! Concerning our "NESTS", our menfolk are not usually so concerned about the same things we ladies are concerned about. I am glad you had the strength to put feet to your desires to have that walk. It is beautiful! Complaining just makes them feel bad, and makes a rift between us. Actually DOING what they are not enthused about is such a sweet true woman thing. God bless you, Dear. You are rare jewel to your husband.
Perfect. The walkway, and your attitude about it. There's nothing wrong with being independent or asking for help, and I love your confidence in doing it on your own
There's not ONE person living in our society that's "independent". Not one. We are All dependent upon one another. The delusional thinking is beyond foolish.
@@MoonLitFRANK Ah so does that not imply to some husbands that don't even help their wives with chores, kids or give them a break? Ofc we're all dependent on one and another but the point of saying you can independently do a task is by you doing it yourself. And I mean getting the work done. Maybe her husband helped her pay for it or stayed and accompanied her whilst she was doing it or maybe she did it INDEPENDENTLY by herself, either way there's nothing wrong with either. Let ppl independently do what they want if they can and stop trying to br negative and bring them down. Some ppl really hate to see a woman doing a "man's job" smh🤦🏻♀️
GREAT JOB!!! My husband died in our early 40s. Had to pick up two part time jobs and already had 4 twelve hour shifts every week. So, money was tight and had to do household repairs myself. No uTube to go to in the 80s but managed with a subscription to a couple of magazines and bought a book also. I’m 78 now and will start painting the inside of my home for the third time come Spring! A woman’s got to do what she’s got to do! The walk way is beautiful!! 😋
I appreciate your comment. My husband died 34 years ago in his mid-30. We would’ve been married 49 years on November 22. I too, had to pick up where he left off and raise our three young boys. Now they are three young men doing very well in society, so keep your head up as we remember our husbands 😊
I’m sorry for your loss at such a young age! I’m 40 and can’t imagine losing my hubs now- but anything can happen 😢 You’re an inspiration to me to do more independently. Thank you
The best part of this walkway is the way you word it. Honestly, I can see many women who right away blame their husbands or boyfriends but the truth is that we can do anything ourselves too ladies. I love your attitude and great job.
Love you two! The accents are like warm butter on a beignet! Chef’s kiss. 😘 Could listen to you two talk ALL DAY LONG! Beautiful work. Y’all are earth angels. Keep on being awesome.
Wait , is nobody going to talk about the guy in the background.. in full army gear.. protecting the vicinity😅😂 Edit: Woooo - Thanks for all the engagement guys.. Happy Holidays.. No Diddy😅
I don’t usually comment, but I just explained to my grown son that there is a difference in being a self-sufficient woman and an independent woman. She needs her man, but she knows when she needs to step up when he can’t or won’t.❤
"Hold on babe, you can't talk for me. I did this work let me speak for myself".... Loving that!!!! I have mad respect for any woman that truly know her worth, values herself and carries herself with tremendous respect!!
Really?! Maybe it's me but, I find it quite disrespectful he cannot speak for her when hubby is the head of the household. The better way in my perspective is to say "babe, I got this" But like I said, it might just be me.
@@zaam231 ok but he's not so stop trying to make your fantasy a reality .................... because he's not ............ they obviously formatted this NOT for you.
Basically, you did it - because you wanet to!! Felt the need and took command!! Bravo 👏 It was in you the whole time, little did you know. You accomplished: self worth, gratitude, triumph, and strength, all in one shot!! You did an Amazing job!! Looks absolutely beautiful. 🤩
Yes!! I grew up with only my dad, and it has been a blessing to be a woman who was taught to understand and use tools, know how a car engine works, and to be confident enough to learn new skills. You looked happy, strong, and created something beautiful for yourself and your home!
Go ahead then. I used to work as a mechanic before I was paralyzed so seeing a lady do her thing brought a huge smile to my face. Good job hubby letting your wifey do her thing.
@@detroitman9309Hello! A woman wanting to do projects and respectfully telling her husband, “I want to be more confident in doing some things myself that benefits the family” Is not a “Jezebel spirit.” She is a capable woman who is serving her household. I recommend reading Proverbs 31. That goes into detail on how a godly woman works hard, blesses her husband and family from that hard work, and is capable.
Heck yes girl!!! Many years back, I worked for one of my BFF doing residential construction and remodels.... I did it for 6 mos, as a side hustle. It was so much cooler than expected, AND I learned some really valuable skills, and it boosted my confidence as a single woman!!! ❤
@joycevaughn5913 right?!!! My favorite thing is woodworking! There is something about sanding and staining wood that is so relaxing!!! Oh! And believe me when I say I can install a toilet all by myself 💪🏼
I’m 65 and had to construct a garden belt on the side of my home. The ground was solid, compacted clay soil. I needed a pick axe to remove the soil where I built a cinder block wall and a walkway. I needed a sledge hammer to pound in the rebar. Then I hauled concrete bags, 60 lbs each, and used it to firm up my wall. Like you, I hauled bags of paver base and laid 45 pavers. So I say, never underestimate the fortitude of a woman! You did all that and did it with style. You go girl! ❤
I love how you explained it in a way that I've never thought to: you're not trying to be "independent" but to build your confidence in your ability to do things if you HAVE to. WOW! Thank you for this. I'm 62 and struggle to explain why I don't hire people to do things -this right here my little sister! Thank you!❤ you and your husband are amazing people!
right? people ask ME why i do hire people to do things i COULD do myself. i say because i don't want to do it and i can afford help. we can never make choices that strangers will approve of.
That's right sista. I've been married for over 50 years and I have to tell my husband that I need to know how to do stuff because he won't be around always...I hope he didn't take it the wrong way.
@jenniferharris1280 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and you employ other capable people in the process. It's a win-win for both parties. The first time I utilised a laundry service after a long-term hospitalization and a maid service/moving company to facilitate a major residential move is when I realized that seeking support from skilled, vetted laborers is a powerful form of self-care😊😅
If you are doing something to, build your confidence in your ability to do this if you have to, is a beat around the bush way of saying, having independence. The illogic of shunning independence is based on this false premise males have conditioned yall with believing Independence is bad. It is in fact important for every person to have independence, especially Black women.
Thank you so much for watching and for the kind words! Sometimes you just gotta get things done, no complaints here! Your support means the world! 🙌😊 Hi Desire
I grew up doing for myself. I changed out auto alternators, brake shoe pads, faucets and plumbing, took out & put in toilets, windows, I built a 6ft. Wide entertainment center, my childrens captains bunk beds complete with drawers and I finished each piece. I learned to and taught my kids to can and put up foods from our garden as well as make jams and jellies. I made patterns and sewed my children's clothing, curtains, drapes, bed spreads and quilts. There are so many projects that I got to do with my kids that they are too numerous to name. We had a blast doing every one of them. Necessity is the mother of invention. You did an awesome job and we made some great memories. I'm now in my 70's and he has passed and the kids grown married and gone all said and done I can take care of me. I'd love to see you do your thing.
I loved this. She didn't act helpless and showed how capable she is. Yes, he could have done it instead of helping others but by her doing this, she enabled her man to help others. So, bottom line, she did this and helped others at the same time! High quality folks here
But if you start small, just gardening. You'll build that strength up. Woman gave Extraordinary amounts of strength in our legs and lower backs. Because we carry children. Our bodies are built. My children doesn't matter because your body is still designed for that ability and because of this. You have extraordinary amounts of strength in your back and your legs. You just have to use them. Make a point of bending over and picking up a 1 gallon jug. A 1 gallon jug of milk or water weighs 8.73 pounds I think . I googled and double checked. Think how often you carry a gallon jug. Now a half full jug and swing it around your body, I hand to the next. Tie a rope to it for easier handling. That is one of the best workouts for your core. It activates stomach, back and arm muscles. Then you just add water to the jug to increase your workout. Put some fun music on, and you'll be not just feeling stronger but more confident. So when you see a video like this, you'll say, "I want to do something like that one garden!" The only one holding you back is ypu, as your mew self appointed bestie, I won't let you discourage my friend.
I have health issues now,but when I was able I did it all by myself from putting in my own door to laying my own carpet and everything in between 😂I didn't have or needed a man I was the fix it woman in my household,good work young lady👍👍
I'm 68 and I've paved 2 patios painted the entire interior of a 5 bedroom 2 1/2 bathroom house . Demo 2 bathrooms and then remodeled w/tiling installed sinks lightning AND! Removed old carpet and laid Vinyl Plank flooring for the entire house! Just saying "Yes we can!" You go girl! Great job!
@@detroitman9309your comment itself is a red flag you are not husband material sorry you seem like a misogynistic idiot who never had a good mother so now you project onto other people the things you'll never have like real love😂😂
@@powerpuffdemon8706fr haha this feminist chick talking about you don't need no man to do it yet her entire existent is based off men, that's a feminist chick, delusional, she does a lil drive way and think she don't need a man, imagine when chicks get a lil career and money, they think they don't need a man. that's the most stupidest, dumbest, feminist response any woman can say haha. her phone, wifi, social media, apps, her house, doors, beds, sofa, car, operative machine, factories. everything is done by men. this bitch talking about you don't need no man after learning from a man, women that know how to do stuff like this 90% learned from a man how to do it. useless and insecure without us. you best believe you need a man to do that, he's your teacher and taught you in the first place, how bout you be humble and say you couldn't have done it without a woman cause you're useless haha
Girl, you are FIRE! I used to do stuff like this, but now I'm 61 and need a hip replacement. It's SO frustrating because I can't do what I used to do. This is awesome!
I wish you the best recovery ever for your hip replacement journey. My father had one years ago, also frustrated at his limitations to this day but take it easy please!! It’s your time to rest and relax.
❤ I LOVE IT!! You did a great job!! I have been thinking about extending my driveway to the side of my house. I closed on the house in April; but every time I contact anyone about ANYTHING-tree removal, fence installation, porch enclosure, garage/basement door replacement, etc, they ALL had the first instinct to over quote me. While I am still fairly young (46) and strong enough to do it on my own, these are skills I never had that opportunity to learn as a youth. My husband is going on 72, cannot lift those bags anymore, and lol still gets in his feelings about his wife being able to lift and learn. (He is not used to women being able to do things on their own.) I have been having bags of paver base in my basement for weeks lol, and I would love to see you give a breakdown of the step, tools, and materials for projects like this. Thanks ✊🏽
Y'all are a team. Happy to see y'all love doing this stuff for yourselves. Y'all are precious. You're a good man and you are a good woman. Let's go! Keep going!
I like this energy. My partner and I try to be like this. We split chores down the middle because we both want to learn and grow. He can cook and I can build a bookshelf! The world can take a lot from you, but your knowledge and confidence stay with you!
exactly to help, learn my bf practically raised me he taught me everything and he was the smartest i got 13 yrs learning and i wasn't done yet! rip babe
I think its great that you are doing this! Please add more of your diy teachings to the channel as well for those of us women who would like to learn. I love watching both of you and hearing how much you give compliments to each other
Y’all’s videos give people/women like me the confidence that I can do it too. Thank you so much for sharing. You two are amazing. Blessings to you all ❤
You go girl. 🎉.. I love everything about this video. This is lesson I've been learning for the last 35 years. Nothing like getting your husband to do something than by doing it yourself. Lots of love from Australia ❤
Brava!!! Don’t know why the algorithm sent this to me but as a woman who likes tools and DIY I love to see women feel confident and adept at handling power tools and completing projects like this one. And like you mentioned it’s more fun than going to the gym. I hope your husband had dinner waiting for you too cause you worked till sundown! 😂😂 Gold job ma’am.
Beautiful job!! 👏🏽👏🏽 Did anyone see the guy across the street, fly backwards or am I trippin? lol When she started putting the stones down....congratulations on the beautiful job!!👌🏾👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Great job. I love it too. There nothing like a beautiful yard and a walkway You bad .❤ and help . I m 71 yrs old , and this year, I had my knee replaced. But God is goin to send me some help. Beautiful job.
@obazoot To want to do something is of course a legitimate reason. In the long run, every square feet of soil covered with dead stone is detrimental for our planet.
@@conciseyoga Yeah, when I first saw the first one, I was thinking that he was bold to do that bc I'd be scared someone would shoot me or call the cops. LOL. Then, I could see in the 2nd one that it appears to be another video.
Love this. Men and women have their own opinions on certain things, however this warms the heart. He tried to help but she wanted to do it on her own. They’re still a team and possibly have a good balance. Who said a man has to do EVERYTHING? There are different lifestyles for a reason. People must do what works for them. Thank you for being a great example.
Its kinda sad women can't just say we want to be independent anymore without people getting mad. There's nothing wrong with being independently capable of doing tasks even if you have a husband.
@@andrewbailey9453Because she doesn’t need her husband to do every little thing for her. In the modern day, getting married no longer means the woman 100% submits to the husband. They’re more often than not partners, and both can work together to help the family unit while they work in different skills. This is just one of her skills she’s honing, and thus is very independent with tasks within her skillset.
You will find out, that this kind of work, gives you much better results then a gym. I think it has something to do with, being outside, breathing fresh air, and connection to nature. You go GIRL
I have no idea what it is but strength built from working and strength built in the gym is completely different. I used to help fit carpets and lifting massive rolls everyday made me stronger after a month than I was from going to the gym.
its cuz physical labor jobs works muscles that you use everyday for hours at a time, gym workouts are localized to arms Monday, core Tuesday, legs Wednesday, etc.
@@treubaking I didnt hear that , also Im old enough to know the definition of the word.But the dicotomy of being independent whilst owning half your partners salary and assets, is laughable!
Its awesome this lady feels this confident to do to her own work and her hubs wanted to show off her work. It's great that you two have such a good relationship.
Good relationship ?? Wtf she clearly disrespected him and could have gotten her point across without throwing him under the bus. But if a man did what she did. He would be problem ? 😂
@vickg9218 If the guy felt truly disrespected, why would he have posted this video basically, flaunting the fact that his wife did a beautiful job and let her take the reins about her process? It's possible she's overbearing and actually disrespectful, but I get the impression that they can rib each other like this and not have it destroy their relationship.
@@vickg9218 it's okay bro, you may have trauma with women, but not every woman is condescending and rude. it's obvious that her and him joke and go back and forth like that lightheartedly. It is HIS channel after all, so if he didn't like it, why would he post it?
@@emperorwai not likely, of course he would post the video. Because despite being disrespected he obviously loves her and he’s clearly proud of her able to do some work around the house with him. Doesn’t discount the fact that she did come off rude. Maybe they joke like that but come on he clearly doesn’t give off joking vibes come on not hard to see.
We're men ....not immortal ...you should learn things for yourself tomorrow is promised to anyone..plus you go girl i been watching you do the dam thang and have borrowed at least one of you shorts to make small benches and im a man and a carpenter ..keep it up your man was blessed from above as was i .... real wifes are beyond awsome❤❤❤❤
This what the world needs. Man or woman you got a heart, hands, and legs. Dont blame anybody else when things you couldve done dont get done. Just go get at it. Respect to both of you.
Yesss pleaseee as a woman trying to get into carpentry I love love seeing other women doing stuff like this. You are so good at what you’re doing with a great attitude and work ethic.
Hooray for you. I was the handy girl in my family. He was the provider. When I stopped, now I wished I had given my tools to you. I laid the walķway, built the gazebo, painted the fence, built my sewing table... You go girl. Husband sit back and enjoy.😊😊
Oh Sweetie! Go for it! As time goes on you can do less. So the affirmation of the completed projects around you, rather than those needing to be done, it priceless. Watching you helps me feel like 'I still can'. 💌
We need more women like this that knows that the man is here too help but they can figure it out and do it their selves as well as us strong 💪🏾🏋🏾♂️ men can in the process💯....
First off, the work looks amazing 👏. A single mom who was raised in the country of rural Texas raised 2 boys. I know what women are capable of. That tells me that you and your husband make one HELLUVA TEAM!!!!! KEEP SUPPORTING ONE ANOTHER AND HOLDING EACH OTHER DOWN
You two are wholesome AF. The world needs you guys to teach us how to operate.
1000th like. Your welcome😘
@@Jaxsinholt OK, tough guy. Only losers lash out at random people in the comment section for giving someone a compliment… Clearly your parents did a shitty job on you.
@@Jaxsinholtlmaooo frfr
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Learn how to be happy on your own. Stop looking at youtube couples. This is all for a video and some likes.
To acknowledge and say, "In those 6 yrs, that YOU could have gotten up and done so yourself as well," speaks highly of you...first time watching your guys video and they are awesome!!
And so could have her husband
@@LiveLoveLaugh22😑
@@LiveLoveLaugh22”…done so yourself AS WELL” the husband was already included in said statement 😂😂😂
@@LiveLoveLaugh22I understand...he is everywhere else doing free stuff for everyone else but she is ok with it so I have to applaud her for taking initiative and doing it herself🤷🏼♀️
@@LiveLoveLaugh22that was so uncalled for that comment she did it and was happy she still kartier don’t she
Ok.. it's the drama in the background for me, lmao 🤣 😂
Was looking for this comment 😂😂 saw a body fly down to the ground 😂😂
Like what is up with the gun fight in the background????
I was like...what in the swat team assault....in the zero dark 30...is going on in the background!!😂😂😂
That part! 😂😂
I was like, " Am I seeing things. " ....lol 😅😅😅 Had to rewind a few times 😅.
Way to go! Woman power! Concerning our "NESTS", our menfolk are not usually so concerned about the same things we ladies are concerned about. I am glad you had the strength to put feet to your desires to have that walk. It is beautiful! Complaining just makes them feel bad, and makes a rift between us. Actually DOING what they are not enthused about is such a sweet true woman thing. God bless you, Dear. You are rare jewel to your husband.
I ain’t reading allat
Put the fries in the bag lil bro
@@Soulz356😂
The wife sounds like a female version of him, they even talk the same 😂❤️
I know🤣🤣👏🏽
How cute
😂😂❤🎉❤🎉❤❤❤❤❤
and the humor
Love them. ❤
Perfect. The walkway, and your attitude about it. There's nothing wrong with being independent or asking for help, and I love your confidence in doing it on your own
Exactly! Well said. This is impressive. Much admiration.
I wonder if anyone noticed the person in the background is on guard with a gun... hmmm.
@sharonposton8784 and looks like he got laid out right lol hmmm??
There's not ONE person living in our society that's "independent". Not one. We are All dependent upon one another. The delusional thinking is beyond foolish.
@@MoonLitFRANK okay then i guess your mother had help giving birth to you and taking care of the house.
@@MoonLitFRANK Ah so does that not imply to some husbands that don't even help their wives with chores, kids or give them a break?
Ofc we're all dependent on one and another but the point of saying you can independently do a task is by you doing it yourself. And I mean getting the work done. Maybe her husband helped her pay for it or stayed and accompanied her whilst she was doing it or maybe she did it INDEPENDENTLY by herself, either way there's nothing wrong with either. Let ppl independently do what they want if they can and stop trying to br negative and bring them down. Some ppl really hate to see a woman doing a "man's job" smh🤦🏻♀️
GREAT JOB!!!
My husband died in our early 40s. Had to pick up two part time jobs and already had 4 twelve hour shifts every week. So, money was tight and had to do household repairs myself. No uTube to go to in the 80s but managed with a subscription to a couple of magazines and bought a book also. I’m 78 now and will start painting the inside of my home for the third time come Spring! A woman’s got to do what she’s got to do!
The walk way is beautiful!! 😋
I appreciate your comment. My husband died 34 years ago in his mid-30. We would’ve been married 49 years on November 22. I too, had to pick up where he left off and raise our three young boys. Now they are three young men doing very well in society, so keep your head up as we remember our husbands 😊
Exactly and God bless you both ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'd love to learn how to do these things myself. I will.
I’m sorry for your loss at such a young age! I’m 40 and can’t imagine losing my hubs now- but anything can happen 😢 You’re an inspiration to me to do more independently. Thank you
Truly inspiring !
You are not alone; excellently done. I'm so glad to see another female during
her own landscape.
Husband in the back just fooling around killed me
Bro that's edited in
I didn't notice it until the 3rd time I watched it😂😂😂
So you're not an adult? always a man have to help your goofy azz out?
@@joshuaburski5776 FR
He should help her with heavy stuff.
The best part of this walkway is the way you word it. Honestly, I can see many women who right away blame their husbands or boyfriends but the truth is that we can do anything ourselves too ladies. I love your attitude and great job.
Preeeaacchhh
Also if we got the men doing everything, when he gon rest? 😂 the walkway looks GOOD!!
@@GoobebehNo
Who saying we havent already? Do your research.
Look whats happening in the background 😂😂😂
Damn, I’m impressed asf. Great execution, great attitude, and only 4.5 hours to get that done? Good work!🔥
Wow very great job 👏👏👏👏
So freaking impressive! The timing, damn 🎉
Fr, that shit woulda took me another 6 yrs
Pardon my ignorance: what does asf stand for?
@@xinalorreen2031 As fuck, usually people go with “af”
My wife and I absolutely love these two. Stay strong! God Bless!
Love you two! The accents are like warm butter on a beignet! Chef’s kiss. 😘 Could listen to you two talk ALL DAY LONG! Beautiful work. Y’all are earth angels. Keep on being awesome.
That’s so kind of you! You’re a real one. 🙏
Who puts butter on a beignet lmao
One of my favorite couples❤
Oooh yes, we want to see you the Mrs. do more projects You give us women confidence and inspiration to start or finish projects 🙏💪
@@daphnea5447 big backs do thats who LOL
Wait , is nobody going to talk about the guy in the background.. in full army gear.. protecting the vicinity😅😂
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Woooo - Thanks for all the engagement guys.. Happy Holidays..
No Diddy😅
Damn I thought I was the only one who saw that
What? That man is in full tactical gear locked and loaded. Ma’ma you have some explaining to do.
I did and I thought he was playing with a VR Game Set...too funny ! .
Thought I was going mad 😂
It was a whole shootout. 😳😳😳🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂
71 year-old great grandma here been like this all my life. I am very happy to see another woman being self-sufficient you go lady!
Yea, I’m 71 also and I’ve always been independent It’s good to see young women like this!
I don’t usually comment, but I just explained to my grown son that there is a difference in being a self-sufficient woman and an independent woman. She needs her man, but she knows when she needs to step up when he can’t or won’t.❤
I love how she talks just like her husband. Love your videos. You guys are great people. Thanks for all you do we need more people like you.
"Hold on babe, you can't talk for me. I did this work let me speak for myself".... Loving that!!!! I have mad respect for any woman that truly know her worth, values herself and carries herself with tremendous respect!!
Really?! Maybe it's me but, I find it quite disrespectful he cannot speak for her when hubby is the head of the household. The better way in my perspective is to say "babe, I got this"
But like I said, it might just be me.
@@zaam231 ok but he's not so stop trying to make your fantasy a reality .................... because he's not ............ they obviously formatted this NOT for you.
@@zaam231head of the household?? Dude this isn't the 1800s anymore what the fuck
@@zaam231 but he isn't the head of the household.
@@zaam231yea it’s just you. It was nothing wrong with the way she said it🤷🏽♂️
This is a beautiful thing!! The relationship and respect is priceless!!! Much Respect!!!
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Literally started the video off disrespecting him
Bro in the back securing the perimeter
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Exactly😂👑
😂 Ay I checked the comments first to see if anyone else noticed
😂 Same! Subbed for sure. I think you two are perfect for me and my wife to follow together. We both get our hands dirty remodeling our house.
I thought I was the only one who saw that lol
@@WildophAvrilienno fr
Basically, you did it - because you wanet to!! Felt the need and took command!! Bravo 👏 It was in you the whole time, little did you know. You accomplished: self worth, gratitude, triumph, and strength, all in one shot!! You did an Amazing job!! Looks absolutely beautiful. 🤩
The fact you responded by saying "I just wanna be more confident doing things on my own" is great. Go you! 🙌
That line was my favorite part of the video 😁
But she got help?
So you’re wrong
Yes!! I grew up with only my dad, and it has been a blessing to be a woman who was taught to understand and use tools, know how a car engine works, and to be confident enough to learn new skills. You looked happy, strong, and created something beautiful for yourself and your home!
Go ahead then. I used to work as a mechanic before I was paralyzed so seeing a lady do her thing brought a huge smile to my face. Good job hubby letting your wifey do her thing.
I'm sorry, "letting"? I wasn't aware he owned her.
@@litsci1877 His words in the video not mine. You should watch it and listen to it again.
@@lesissmilinglytryin1436i mean no he didn't say that but go off
@@lesissmilinglytryin1436 ur right
@@litsci1877 omg, theres always ONE...
WELL DONE looks amazing you done better job than professional gardener 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Gorgeous, smart and independent! You go girl! Very inspiring!
And what about the men that can do it themselves?? Are they considered independent?? No lol
You clowns are always onto something
How was she independent she obviously learned this shit from her husband. Can you just shut the fuck up?
“Im not trying to be independent, I just want to be more confident in doing things myself.”
That's what I was saying That's literally what she said😂😂😂😂@@MakenWaves
@@MakenWaves she is independent though... she did it all by herself
the .. "ok, well go head" ..from him that fades him out is AWESOMENESS..
get that workout in while getting that work done!!!
SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL 😍
Lol yes that tickled me 😅
What lol@@detroitman9309
@@detroitman9309 boooo my brother in christ it is ok for a woman to be capable lol! go ahead and read proverbs 31 again
@@detroitman9309Hello! A woman wanting to do projects and respectfully telling her husband, “I want to be more confident in doing some things myself that benefits the family” Is not a “Jezebel spirit.” She is a capable woman who is serving her household. I recommend reading Proverbs 31. That goes into detail on how a godly woman works hard, blesses her husband and family from that hard work, and is capable.
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Amen.
Heck yes girl!!! Many years back, I worked for one of my BFF doing residential construction and remodels.... I did it for 6 mos, as a side hustle. It was so much cooler than expected, AND I learned some really valuable skills, and it boosted my confidence as a single woman!!! ❤
During 2020, I renovated my home office. Never did any kind of work like that in my life. Now I'm hooked.
@joycevaughn5913 right?!!! My favorite thing is woodworking! There is something about sanding and staining wood that is so relaxing!!! Oh! And believe me when I say I can install a toilet all by myself 💪🏼
It’s not that you don’t need a man, it’s the fact that you can do it if you want to. It’s an honor for us men to do it for our women.
I’m 65 and had to construct a garden belt on the side of my home.
The ground was solid, compacted clay soil. I needed a pick axe to remove the soil where I built a cinder block wall and a walkway. I needed a sledge hammer to pound in the rebar. Then I hauled concrete bags, 60 lbs each, and used it to firm up my wall. Like you, I hauled bags of paver base and laid 45 pavers.
So I say, never underestimate the fortitude of a woman!
You did all that and did it with style. You go girl! ❤
Ah, a pick ax will get through hard clay and potato-like rocks. Thanks for the tip.
I bet you have a buff body at 65 after doing all that
I salute you.
Send pics, girl!
I love how you explained it in a way that I've never thought to: you're not trying to be "independent" but to build your confidence in your ability to do things if you HAVE to. WOW! Thank you for this. I'm 62 and struggle to explain why I don't hire people to do things -this right here my little sister! Thank you!❤ you and your husband are amazing people!
right? people ask ME why i do hire people to do things i COULD do myself. i say because i don't want to do it and i can afford help. we can never make choices that strangers will approve of.
That's right sista. I've been married for over 50 years and I have to tell my husband that I need to know how to do stuff because he won't be around always...I hope he didn't take it the wrong way.
@jenniferharris1280 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and you employ other capable people in the process. It's a win-win for both parties. The first time I utilised a laundry service after a long-term hospitalization and a maid service/moving company to facilitate a major residential move is when I realized that seeking support from skilled, vetted laborers is a powerful form of self-care😊😅
If you are doing something to, build your confidence in your ability to do this if you have to, is a beat around the bush way of saying, having independence.
The illogic of shunning independence is based on this false premise males have conditioned yall with believing Independence is bad. It is in fact important for every person to have independence, especially Black women.
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I love the way you speak and then say, "I should've done it, I ain't complaining." You did an awesome 👌 job!!!! 👏 👏 👏 👏
Thank you so much for watching and for the kind words! Sometimes you just gotta get things done, no complaints here! Your support means the world! 🙌😊 Hi Desire
Yasssss It looks amazing.🙌🏾
I grew up doing for myself. I changed out auto alternators, brake shoe pads, faucets and plumbing, took out & put in toilets, windows, I built a 6ft. Wide entertainment center, my childrens captains bunk beds complete with drawers and I finished each piece. I learned to and taught my kids to can and put up foods from our garden as well as make jams and jellies. I made patterns and sewed my children's clothing, curtains, drapes, bed spreads and quilts. There are so many projects that I got to do with my kids that they are too numerous to name. We had a blast doing every one of them. Necessity is the mother of invention. You did an awesome job and we made some great memories. I'm now in my 70's and he has passed and the kids grown married and gone all said and done I can take care of me. I'd love to see you do your thing.
You are inspiring.
Did you take training classes using tools and wood, or any other creative classes to enhance your skills
Wonderful Well done
U go girl!!!
I loved this. She didn't act helpless and showed how capable she is. Yes, he could have done it instead of helping others but by her doing this, she enabled her man to help others. So, bottom line, she did this and helped others at the same time! High quality folks here
We clapping for people being functioning adults now?
@@MisterPugglesonly for women
Whether she did it to help others or not, it looks awesome and so does she, it's obvious who wears the pants in this house, you go girl!!
@@MisterPugglesthe same thing happens when men clean dishes
@ no, clapping for people who cooperate and give more than they take.
I'd do it if I physically could. My back hurts just watching this. She's a powerful woman. 💪
But if you start small, just gardening. You'll build that strength up. Woman gave Extraordinary amounts of strength in our legs and lower backs. Because we carry children. Our bodies are built. My children doesn't matter because your body is still designed for that ability and because of this. You have extraordinary amounts of strength in your back and your legs. You just have to use them. Make a point of bending over and picking up a 1 gallon jug.
A 1 gallon jug of milk or water weighs 8.73 pounds I think . I googled and double checked. Think how often you carry a gallon jug. Now a half full jug and swing it around your body, I hand to the next. Tie a rope to it for easier handling. That is one of the best workouts for your core. It activates stomach, back and arm muscles. Then you just add water to the jug to increase your workout. Put some fun music on, and you'll be not just feeling stronger but more confident.
So when you see a video like this, you'll say, "I want to do something like that one garden!" The only one holding you back is ypu, as your mew self appointed bestie, I won't let you discourage my friend.
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YES! You rocked it out the park! Looks amazing!!!💚
I have health issues now,but when I was able I did it all by myself from putting in my own door to laying my own carpet and everything in between 😂I didn't have or needed a man I was the fix it woman in my household,good work young lady👍👍
Wife got talent uncle John!! She did a great job on this walk way. Blessings to all!!
Yes, the walkway looks great. I also like when they work together on projects.
your so right
I'm 68 and I've paved 2 patios painted the entire interior of a 5 bedroom 2 1/2 bathroom house . Demo 2 bathrooms and then remodeled w/tiling installed sinks lightning AND! Removed old carpet and laid Vinyl Plank flooring for the entire house! Just saying "Yes we can!" You go girl! Great job!
Wow ❤❤❤❤ Cheers for you
Who needs men wen u can do it urself
Show your accomplishments! We want and need as much inspiration as possible!!!!!!❤
🎉Let’s go!!! You represented for the ladies and you did a great job!!!!
@@detroitman9309your comment itself is a red flag you are not husband material sorry you seem like a misogynistic idiot who never had a good mother so now you project onto other people the things you'll never have like real love😂😂
@@detroitman9309 First off who tf and where tf did you get all that?? Y'all be so chronically online and over exaggerating shit it's so crazy 💀💀
@@detroitman9309Why are you replying to every comment with this bs, us women are capable of a lot. We are allowed to be strong and hands on.
@@medina4926are u muslim
@@powerpuffdemon8706fr haha
this feminist chick talking about you don't need no man to do it yet her entire existent is based off men, that's a feminist chick, delusional, she does a lil drive way and think she don't need a man, imagine when chicks get a lil career and money, they think they don't need a man.
that's the most stupidest, dumbest, feminist response any woman can say haha.
her phone, wifi, social media, apps, her house, doors, beds, sofa, car, operative machine, factories. everything is done by men. this bitch talking about you don't need no man after learning from a man, women that know how to do stuff like this 90% learned from a man how to do it.
useless and insecure without us.
you best believe you need a man to do that, he's your teacher and taught you in the first place, how bout you be humble and say you couldn't have done it without a woman cause you're useless haha
Proud of you Sis!
Very impressive!!! Love to see women accomplish this type of stuff. You did a wonderful job!!!
Girl, you are FIRE! I used to do stuff like this, but now I'm 61 and need a hip replacement. It's SO frustrating because I can't do what I used to do. This is awesome!
I wish you the best recovery ever for your hip replacement journey. My father had one years ago, also frustrated at his limitations to this day but take it easy please!! It’s your time to rest and relax.
❤ I LOVE IT!! You did a great job!! I have been thinking about extending my driveway to the side of my house. I closed on the house in April; but every time I contact anyone about ANYTHING-tree removal, fence installation, porch enclosure, garage/basement door replacement, etc, they ALL had the first instinct to over quote me. While I am still fairly young (46) and strong enough to do it on my own, these are skills I never had that opportunity to learn as a youth. My husband is going on 72, cannot lift those bags anymore, and lol still gets in his feelings about his wife being able to lift and learn. (He is not used to women being able to do things on their own.) I have been having bags of paver base in my basement for weeks lol, and I would love to see you give a breakdown of the step, tools, and materials for projects like this. Thanks ✊🏽
Anyone see what's happening on the background. Hope it's just a paintball party.
You're lil walkway looks just gorgeous ,go girl 😂🎉😂
Y'all are a team. Happy to see y'all love doing this stuff for yourselves. Y'all are precious. You're a good man and you are a good woman. Let's go! Keep going!
I like this energy. My partner and I try to be like this. We split chores down the middle because we both want to learn and grow. He can cook and I can build a bookshelf! The world can take a lot from you, but your knowledge and confidence stay with you!
exactly to help, learn my bf practically raised me he taught me everything and he was the smartest i got 13 yrs learning and i wasn't done yet! rip babe
I think its great that you are doing this! Please add more of your diy teachings to the channel as well for those of us women who would like to learn. I love watching both of you and hearing how much you give compliments to each other
Will do!!
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@@UncleJhonnShowwhat’s that soil/dirt thing called in the beginning called the maroon/lightbrown colour one
Y’all’s videos give people/women like me the confidence that I can do it too. Thank you so much for sharing. You two are amazing. Blessings to you all ❤
What a great example of a DYI woman. I am feeling and following you.
A "DYI" woman??
@@sophroniel Probably meant DIY.
Nice work. It turned out real nice. It is nice to see husband and wife helping each other.
IT LOOKS SO GOOD!
You go girl. 🎉.. I love everything about this video. This is lesson I've been learning for the last 35 years. Nothing like getting your husband to do something than by doing it yourself. Lots of love from Australia ❤
Brava!!! Don’t know why the algorithm sent this to me but as a woman who likes tools and DIY I love to see women feel confident and adept at handling power tools and completing projects like this one. And like you mentioned it’s more fun than going to the gym. I hope your husband had dinner waiting for you too cause you worked till sundown! 😂😂 Gold job ma’am.
Darling..even without the walkway....don't let anyone speak for you. That work was top notch girl😊
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Beautiful job!! 👏🏽👏🏽 Did anyone see the guy across the street, fly backwards or am I trippin? lol When she started putting the stones down....congratulations on the beautiful job!!👌🏾👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Yeah, it was funny....
Yea 😂 a cut in the video
Lmao I saw it too
@rebecca8866 👌🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣
Looked like he got Shot😮
Girl FOR REAL??????😮😮😮😮😮😮
THAT IS WONDERFUL, LOOKS FABULOUS!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Great job. I love it too. There nothing like a beautiful yard and a walkway You bad .❤ and help . I m 71 yrs old , and this year, I had my knee replaced. But God is goin to send me some help. Beautiful job.
Actually God Almighty Love is far better way better A forgiving God The Glory is God 's
God bless you queen 🩷 may u continue to get blessings
Why would you replace a perfectly okay piece of lawn with stones?
@@Hanno300bccause they.. wanted to? did that not cross your mind?
@obazoot To want to do something is of course a legitimate reason. In the long run, every square feet of soil covered with dead stone is detrimental for our planet.
😂😂😂😂I had to watch it twice to catch all the action that I eventually noticed in the background.....👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Great Job on the walk way it's gorgeous!
I was looking for this comment
What is actually happening back there?
Looks like her husband is reenacting a video game 🤷🏾♀️😂 whatever it is it escalated rapidly!
@@Jamika2009it’s fake
@@conciseyoga Yeah, when I first saw the first one, I was thinking that he was bold to do that bc I'd be scared someone would shoot me or call the cops. LOL. Then, I could see in the 2nd one that it appears to be another video.
Love this. Men and women have their own opinions on certain things, however this warms the heart. He tried to help but she wanted to do it on her own. They’re still a team and possibly have a good balance. Who said a man has to do EVERYTHING? There are different lifestyles for a reason. People must do what works for them. Thank you for being a great example.
Girlllllll, you did a FANTASTIC JOB ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Its kinda sad women can't just say we want to be independent anymore without people getting mad. There's nothing wrong with being independently capable of doing tasks even if you have a husband.
its fragile masculinity. they get really upset when women dont want a man
How is she independent with a husband. That makes no sense
exactly it's so sad
@@andrewbailey9453Because she doesn’t need her husband to do every little thing for her. In the modern day, getting married no longer means the woman 100% submits to the husband. They’re more often than not partners, and both can work together to help the family unit while they work in different skills. This is just one of her skills she’s honing, and thus is very independent with tasks within her skillset.
Love this… get it girl. Come to my house I got loads you can do for me
That walkway is beautiful! As well as the one your husband made for the neighbor. You two do amazing work! A power couple!
Appreciate you! We’re trying to do our part 💯👑
It is beautiful. I love these videos.
Beautiful work‼️
Какая УМНИЦА,ВОСТОРГ❤
Does anyone else see what's going on in the back ground. Someone gets shot with a gun. WTF.
I'm a diy person, but this, gives me the extra motivation I need. Thank you young lady. Prime example of a help a mate.God bless.🙏🏾❤️💪✝️
You will find out, that this kind of work, gives you much better results then a gym. I think it has something to do with, being outside, breathing fresh air, and connection to nature. You go GIRL
I have no idea what it is but strength built from working and strength built in the gym is completely different. I used to help fit carpets and lifting massive rolls everyday made me stronger after a month than I was from going to the gym.
its cuz physical labor jobs works muscles that you use everyday for hours at a time, gym workouts are localized to arms Monday, core Tuesday, legs Wednesday, etc.
Piss on anyone who comes at you about being independent. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't!! You do what makes you happy!❤ Great job!🎉
She pays 50/50 on mortgage, works the same hours, thats independent, not one DIY job.
@@alimantado373Independent means not relying on someone. She clearly stated she does not want to be independent.
@@treubaking I didnt hear that , also Im old enough to know the definition of the word.But the dicotomy of being independent whilst owning half your partners salary and assets, is laughable!
@@alimantado373- Who said she lives off his salary? Chances are it's the opposite nowadays...
As a home owner iAM inspired. Point me in the direction of a beginner guide, and THANK YOU young lady‼️
Yes please do more videos like this. ❤😊
Is that... Seal team 6 in the background? Is someone playing CoD IRL? 🧐
Yeah wtf lol
Maybe something fun to drop in to the background to see if people notice? Raises engagement if people comment on it.
I thought it was cute!
He's sitting there
So u really are watching...
I was wondering if anyone was going to mention that lol
WHY IS HER VOICE SO COMFORTING 😂❤
Sisssd! You did that! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you hubby for trying. ❤❤❤ Great work sis! Came out great!
I can't lie: I love this. I love your content, I love your approach. I hope you are massively successful and influential with this channel.
Awesome job by an awesome lady!!!
You go, girl!!
You are very talented ❤️❤️❤️
It's A Beautiful Walk Way, I Would Like To See More Video's Like This
theres a whole soldier in the background getting gunned down 💀
Its awesome this lady feels this confident to do to her own work and her hubs wanted to show off her work. It's great that you two have such a good relationship.
Good relationship ?? Wtf she clearly disrespected him and could have gotten her point across without throwing him under the bus. But if a man did what she did. He would be problem ? 😂
@vickg9218 If the guy felt truly disrespected, why would he have posted this video basically, flaunting the fact that his wife did a beautiful job and let her take the reins about her process? It's possible she's overbearing and actually disrespectful, but I get the impression that they can rib each other like this and not have it destroy their relationship.
@@vickg9218it’s clearly satire you complete and utter dweeb. Why do you think they uploaded it? You definitely don’t get invited to parties
@@vickg9218 it's okay bro, you may have trauma with women, but not every woman is condescending and rude. it's obvious that her and him joke and go back and forth like that lightheartedly. It is HIS channel after all, so if he didn't like it, why would he post it?
@@emperorwai not likely, of course he would post the video. Because despite being disrespected he obviously loves her and he’s clearly proud of her able to do some work around the house with him. Doesn’t discount the fact that she did come off rude. Maybe they joke like that but come on he clearly doesn’t give off joking vibes come on not hard to see.
Love love love this! You do some amazing work, sis!
You did a great job! I love doing things like that too! We women can do anything we set our minds to do!
We're men ....not immortal ...you should learn things for yourself tomorrow is promised to anyone..plus you go girl i been watching you do the dam thang and have borrowed at least one of you shorts to make small benches and im a man and a carpenter ..keep it up your man was blessed from above as was i .... real wifes are beyond awsome❤❤❤❤
Well said
Wow girl you did one awesome job on the patio walkway oh my goodness that turned out great
It looks great! 👏🏽😃
It is a blessing to have a woman who is willing to help out in the yard and do physical work. I am looking for such a woman.
This what the world needs. Man or woman you got a heart, hands, and legs. Dont blame anybody else when things you couldve done dont get done. Just go get at it. Respect to both of you.
Yesss pleaseee as a woman trying to get into carpentry I love love seeing other women doing stuff like this. You are so good at what you’re doing with a great attitude and work ethic.
!!WOW!! U ARE ABSOLUTELY CREATIVE 💯 WELL DONE 👍
He's a good man and he's got a good woman❤
Yes indeed, do more. A couple who actually communicate. Bravo
Hooray for you. I was the handy girl in my family. He was the provider. When I stopped, now I wished I had given my tools to you. I laid the walķway, built the gazebo, painted the fence, built my sewing table... You go girl. Husband sit back and enjoy.😊😊
I love your courage. Something I have not had. You inspired me ........ going to start a project tomorrow.
THANK YOU 😮
SHE MUST Have been really into it!!!!!!!! She didn't notice the craziness in the street behind her!!!!!!!! Great work on the walkway!!
Yes, what the heck was that? It was like a video game or something playing. 😮
Glad I wasn't the only one that noticed lol
Me too😂😂😂
Woman to Woman….love to see your work! Inspires me!❤❤❤ Thank you Auntie!!!! …and Uncle!
You got this girl! ACTION ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!! BEAUTIFUL JOB AND GREAT ATTITUDE!!!!!
PATTI YOU ARE RIGHT ON IT!!! LIKE GIRL COME ON'
I'm impressed I must say I'm very impressed........ Great job Queen
Oh Sweetie! Go for it! As time goes on you can do less. So the affirmation of the completed projects around you, rather than those needing to be done, it priceless. Watching you helps me feel like 'I still can'. 💌
“i did this myself!”
yes you did!!! you go girl!!!!🫶
I appreciate your skills. I am 62 and I am just like you. Love to your hubby too . Blessings 🙏🏻
Me encantó! Me llena de orgullo y de ganas de hacerlo! ❤🎉
We need more women like this that knows that the man is here too help but they can figure it out and do it their selves as well as us strong 💪🏾🏋🏾♂️ men can in the process💯....
First off, the work looks amazing 👏. A single mom who was raised in the country of rural Texas raised 2 boys. I know what women are capable of. That tells me that you and your husband make one HELLUVA TEAM!!!!! KEEP SUPPORTING ONE ANOTHER AND HOLDING EACH OTHER DOWN
I like your attitude. Polite, and confident. No wonder he loves you.
You GO GIRL!!!! That is awesome and such a beautiful walkway!!!!