5 Rules on How To Emotionally DETACH from Someone - DENZEL WASHINGTON MOTIVATION

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @surgeonvicryl4872
    @surgeonvicryl4872 2 месяца назад +124

    1. recognize when its necessary
    2. set clear boundaries
    3. focus on yourself growth and happiness
    4. let go of the need to control the situation and the other person
    5. give yourself permission to move on

    • @team1dixon537
      @team1dixon537 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen!👏🏾🙏🏿❤️

    • @MelissaNicoleYT
      @MelissaNicoleYT Месяц назад +2

      Thank you❤

    • @racheledmonson572
      @racheledmonson572 Месяц назад +2

      Thank you 🙏 for posted this!!

    • @MargaretLennon-i2o
      @MargaretLennon-i2o Месяц назад +2

      AMEN , WISDOM IS KEY 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @jeromenelson4093
      @jeromenelson4093 29 дней назад +1

      But man it's so hard if you already deep into it man. Every moment is a fight against yourself to let go ...wtf man :-D

  • @Contemplate-s8p
    @Contemplate-s8p 2 месяца назад +89

    If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation. You are not alone, you are loved, you have the right to feel bad and good, you have the right to feel. Be blessed by these positive vibes and live your life to the fullest. I am sending my love to the universe so that I can reach you.

  • @44kat
    @44kat Месяц назад +37

    I love Denzel Washington. He's an outstanding actor, and his words mean a lot.

    • @cuffcakemomma
      @cuffcakemomma Месяц назад +4

      This is not denzel, its AI.... the description of this channel tells you that

    • @davidmartin365
      @davidmartin365 22 дня назад

      Not really Him

  • @CoudyCanvas
    @CoudyCanvas 2 месяца назад +35

    💯- If there is no peace and consistency in behavior it’s not for you ! Always value actions over words !

  • @JessiesenaMcDuffie
    @JessiesenaMcDuffie 2 месяца назад +93

    It's very important when you meet someone to study. Their behavior. If you don't like them, go away and silent.😅❤❤❤❤

    • @vvvvlines8389
      @vvvvlines8389 Месяц назад +4

      It is not about studying them. All one needs to do,is study yourself. Know yourself uber well. That way, you would recognize what you should to change your direction, venturing a more suitable space

    • @laraslaras5527
      @laraslaras5527 Месяц назад +1

      Smart

    • @strawberryshortcake8382
      @strawberryshortcake8382 22 дня назад

      Depending how long I talked/dated them if it’s longer than a month I tell them the reasons. I don’t ghost but after that conversation, I’m done. They come back they will be blocked.

  • @Unkownheart
    @Unkownheart Месяц назад +5

    I like the emphasis on healthy boundaries and the difference between using boundaries to punish or abandon unreasonably.

  • @stevenoneill2154
    @stevenoneill2154 2 месяца назад +20

    This in my opinion, is one of the most powerful things you've ever shown people. Very powerful.
    Thank you

  • @pennyrose5988
    @pennyrose5988 Месяц назад +9

    All ya’ll need to learn discernment when it comes to AI…..when DW’s speeches say,”inspired by,” it’s not DW. Pay attention to that and find the authentic voice and site. I had to figure that out myself. This speech is him👍🏻💯🙌🏻

    • @Lukermusic
      @Lukermusic Месяц назад +1

      So many dummies in here thinking this is actually Denzel. Crazy. As soon as I see these types of videos I immediately hit do not recommend on their channel.

  • @motivamind-namu
    @motivamind-namu Месяц назад +4

    Denzel Washington is truly an inspiration! His incredible talent and unwavering determination remind us that with hard work and perseverance, anything is possible. 🌟

  • @ReneKelly-rl1zt
    @ReneKelly-rl1zt Месяц назад +10

    There are days that are amazing and there are days when I'm so sad .I cry ... I try to go to the gym or go walk in nature.... It's been a ride detaching from someone you .. but look at your score. You are still here ..still alive.you have a great track record! Keep going .you got this

    • @theresjndx4017
      @theresjndx4017 7 дней назад

      ...it takes time and you're on the right track.... there are many advantages of being alone.... you become better and better and attract better people too....

  • @tuesdaytalaga
    @tuesdaytalaga 2 месяца назад +20

    This is an AI voice just so y’all know. This is not Denzels real talking voice but this is SO convincing.

    • @dorigart6210
      @dorigart6210 Месяц назад

      Very scary hate AI it’s not going to be a good thing. People already be accused of making statements that never made them.

    • @TheAAdele05
      @TheAAdele05 Месяц назад +1

      Thus, there is no video of him talking. I hope whoever has this channel and making money, gives back to an organization that Mr. Washington supports, for using his voice. As a VO /actor and actor this is one reason I dislike AI. However, this is an important message.

  • @paulipuhakka8788
    @paulipuhakka8788 5 дней назад

    Not only is he a great actor, he’s also a good motivational speaker👍😎 Thanks Denzel🙏 You nailed it👍

  • @carolebrelo7234
    @carolebrelo7234 2 месяца назад +23

    I have been watching a lot of your video's and really appreciating your wisdom. Some of them I watch more than once. Thank you for doing these video's. They're great!!

  • @ConsuelaHouston-y4f
    @ConsuelaHouston-y4f 22 дня назад +3

    💕 Denzel videos is his Gift. Would made a good Minister. Great motivation..

  • @laurakobetich9809
    @laurakobetich9809 Месяц назад +7

    This is beautiful and just what I needed to hear right now. I gotta say thanks to the universe, Denzel, and to the algorithm

  • @AmyMcillwain
    @AmyMcillwain 2 месяца назад +17

    Thank you Mr. Washington 😢

  • @DunnaLee
    @DunnaLee 2 месяца назад +11

    Thank Mr. Washington this a powerful message Amen

  • @mcleo9935
    @mcleo9935 2 месяца назад +14

    Thank you I am that girl 😊willing to move away from nonsense, it takes times sometimes but it will happen eventually

  • @rebeccaallen7777
    @rebeccaallen7777 19 дней назад +1

    Amen yes! The perfect message at this time!! Thank you JESUS!! … and Thank you to the Faithful messenger ! GBU!

  • @forhisglory-couponingwitha5197
    @forhisglory-couponingwitha5197 Месяц назад +7

    Thank you. This is a very powerful teaching and inspiration on this subject.

  • @elainesmith5313
    @elainesmith5313 19 дней назад +2

    Alanon taught me about emotional detachment. It's funny but detaching allows you to be creative and explore a better future for yourself and your dreams. These people are on a path of destruction that they will get caught up in and will fall flat on their faces. Physically present but mentally and spiritually detached. No more hurt!

  • @PamelaReed-c1f
    @PamelaReed-c1f 9 дней назад

    Denzel I have been working on loosing weight avoiding all situations starting out at 188 now I'm down at 181. Im truly wanting to be able to be more than healthy for me. Im truly grateful for my own life I need no surgeries. It will only keep me down and claustrophobic I need not.

  • @leroyvassell4395
    @leroyvassell4395 27 дней назад

    I am so happy and grateful that some people have left my life. It is time for me to look after me, more. It was necessary to detach from certain people. Thank you universe ✨️ I am growing immensely ❤

  • @SamanthaThompson-d4h
    @SamanthaThompson-d4h 22 дня назад +3

    Well appreciated u r helping me mentally

  • @crystalbratkowski4517
    @crystalbratkowski4517 Месяц назад +9

    I appreciate this. 3000$ in court fees for sticking up for myself after 7 yrs of abuse. I finally met 🎉someone worthy of me who I want to marry for the first time ever at 43. Ive attracted narcissists my whole life as he has and he is perfect for me. We couldn’t be happier. I just wish we met sooner❤😊

  • @pennyrose5988
    @pennyrose5988 2 месяца назад +2

    Ty sir….this is exactly what’s transpiring in my 23 years of marriage that was never meant to be 😢❤

    • @lolitaboden6507
      @lolitaboden6507 Месяц назад +2

      I’m leaving after 35 years…. I’m still in the thick of it. But I see a light at the end of the tunnel. You’ll be just fine. Just move forward and don’t look back.

  • @nikkishajoshua5596
    @nikkishajoshua5596 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank -You Mr. Washington... God Bless You and Your Family 🙏

  • @JamesTrouten
    @JamesTrouten 2 месяца назад +12

    Thanks Mr Washington I needed this video 👍👍

  • @donnagilbert1039
    @donnagilbert1039 2 месяца назад +9

    Thank you, the journey is difficult.

  • @JohnDlacich-wh6mq
    @JohnDlacich-wh6mq Месяц назад +2

    You are a master of words and they are much appreciated and real. ❤

  • @marcusdavis9992
    @marcusdavis9992 8 дней назад

    day treat in Mental health classes helped me as well in this sequence. keep ur faith an understanding breath slow in an out before each start an exercise.

  • @alhoward4099
    @alhoward4099 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you, Zel. I'm proud of you for caring about people that you've never met. I would like to add a couple of things because I've detached myself from certain relatives and felt much better for it. It's important to know who you are and love who you've become. It's the key to living in peace and harmony and understanding how precious this life is...

  • @beverlystarks2674
    @beverlystarks2674 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you, Mr. Washington. Keep making these inspirational videos. This is a new calling for you.

  • @StepbyStepbyMiriam
    @StepbyStepbyMiriam 2 месяца назад +15

    Denzel you are loved and thanked.

    • @spanishDoll1
      @spanishDoll1 Месяц назад

      This is an artificial intelligence, it is not him

  • @trulystarr4507
    @trulystarr4507 2 месяца назад +4

    Denzel I don’t know if this is really you but if so-thank you, I’m going to keep going because listening to your videos empowered me to a new level of freedom & discovering the treasure I am again. You are wonderful

  • @charlettm.9816
    @charlettm.9816 2 месяца назад +2

    I love listening to every last one of his messages they're so powerful I really make you think about whatever you're going through in your life there's always a message for someone I greatly appreciate hearing this everyday please keep bringing this powerful message Thank you

  • @elizabethmoore2190
    @elizabethmoore2190 2 месяца назад +6

    I love 💕 his voice,it brings real meaning in my life.

  • @indirapaul8547
    @indirapaul8547 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you Mr. Denzil. Your voice sounds reassuring. I needed to hear this for the millionth times. ❤

  • @sueayres494
    @sueayres494 2 месяца назад +5

    Amazing, thorough, caring advice!! ❤️

  • @Bloom66y4u
    @Bloom66y4u Месяц назад +4

    Thank you so much for this powerful message ❤
    The beginning of a new chapter 😊 this light will shine even though it is sad & lonely some days I have hope faith & love for myself to keep going 😊

  • @monamohabir4897
    @monamohabir4897 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for all the encouragement ❤.. God blessings always.

  • @WendyOwen-b2e
    @WendyOwen-b2e 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much Denzel. I've been praying for help and guidance, and God gave me your wise and comforting roadmap towards a better,stronger ,wiser more joyful ME. Bless you and carry on with your powerful motivational messages. Big love. Big prayers

  • @barbarabrown4205
    @barbarabrown4205 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Denzel , needed this 30 yrs . ago , but doing it now .right Denzel only I can do it .learning to love me .Thank God for the wisdom he bless you with

    • @culenahalim9683
      @culenahalim9683 Месяц назад +1

      Yes yes and yes this was such a great topic Inspired

  • @shanokapadia6451
    @shanokapadia6451 2 месяца назад +3

    You are my Hero and admire you immenesley - thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge. Thank you. You are The BEST beyond measure. Thank you, Sir.

  • @brandyaguilar3044
    @brandyaguilar3044 2 месяца назад +6

    God always has away of showing a person when in need to be encouraged, my heart has been shattered in so many ways. And it seems as if my now ex husband and I are trying to make things work. Spiteful and jealous people always seem to find their way to stand between us. I fought a long and unbelievable fight but today I know it has been even harder to let go. My heart weeps today it has been for so long. I didn't notice the darkness if the cloud that surrounded me. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful message. I believe I can find who I need to be once again. God blessings

  • @janjackson-author
    @janjackson-author Месяц назад +1

    Very inspiring. Thank you. I do know you know! You walk your talk. Always respected who you are as a person. LOVE

  • @julieserra9001
    @julieserra9001 2 месяца назад +6

    I needed this… thank you. You teach us a lot.❤

  • @annakapp7908
    @annakapp7908 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you kindly Denzel

  • @pamelawilliamson4112
    @pamelawilliamson4112 17 дней назад

    Thank you Denzel and I Thank God for blessing you to give this awesome message. This message is for me.

  • @jenniferworth6156
    @jenniferworth6156 2 месяца назад +1

    THANK YOU FOR THIS ENCOURAGING MESSAGE ❤

  • @PattyScottBostic
    @PattyScottBostic Месяц назад +1

    Thanks Densl, this can come across in just the right time. I really needed to hear this message.

  • @sadiedeville6884
    @sadiedeville6884 Месяц назад +6

    This is the fire I need lit under me to be healthier every second.

  • @paulwest1574
    @paulwest1574 2 месяца назад +1

    Amen 🙏 thank goodness for this opportunity to make the journey

  • @EMuro-wu7uy
    @EMuro-wu7uy 2 месяца назад

    This is so very true. I'm in the best healthiest relationship I've ever had.

  • @LoveAlchemistCoaching
    @LoveAlchemistCoaching 2 месяца назад

    When you are at the edge of dying. And special words from Denzel pushes me back from the brink. I feel alone.

  • @shaynehall8173
    @shaynehall8173 12 дней назад

    I really needed to hear this today.

  • @DorisMcdermott
    @DorisMcdermott 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the spiritual teaching by your own experience.

  • @SisterrScrabbit
    @SisterrScrabbit 10 дней назад

    Made me cry 😢 thank you for this ❤

  • @MickeeMcCarthy
    @MickeeMcCarthy Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Mr Washington I will take your advice I'm going through this right now with a couple of people they were just friends God bless you sir mickee mccarthy

  • @PatriciaBailey-f3m
    @PatriciaBailey-f3m Месяц назад

    YES I THANK YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS AM GOING THROUGH THIS NOW..THANK YOU YESSS AMEN AMEN 🙏 🙌 ❤️ I AM DOING THE RIGHT THING MOVE FORWARD 🙏 😊

  • @RoshniMartin
    @RoshniMartin Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for all the advice you have given

  • @SoirEkim
    @SoirEkim 2 месяца назад +3

    Holy ****! I Seriously needed to hear this!
    Thank You the MOST!

  • @PeaceInChrist23
    @PeaceInChrist23 11 часов назад

    Thank you so much for this.

  • @chiquitohundred4663
    @chiquitohundred4663 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much for this message. This is so powerful 💪

  • @pheladiNcongwane
    @pheladiNcongwane 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you my friend ❤

  • @simplymichele-4U
    @simplymichele-4U День назад

    This was helpful. Thanks for sharing. I'm not defined by my past relationship.

  • @เพ็ญนภาศรีปัชฌาย์

    True thank you sir

  • @DionneChang
    @DionneChang 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so very much for this video ❤🎉🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @authorlaurentrubiano5140
    @authorlaurentrubiano5140 15 дней назад +1

    Yes 🙌 ❤🎉.. This And That Are Very Very TRUE .

  • @barbarastewart8066
    @barbarastewart8066 2 месяца назад +1

    I am beyond hurt because I am looking at 3 to 4 generations not having the opportunity to be in a school play or a Sinday School play. How sad we blame the system when other people from other countries come over to America and become very successful. Praying for my great great nephew that someone outside the family will rescue him. Give him the opportunities with exposure, exposure and exposure. The thought of knowing I might have to emotionally detach will be unspeakable. Blessings to you all and this dynamic speech.❤

    • @nancyinthegarden3160
      @nancyinthegarden3160 2 месяца назад

      he had to rescue himself bc nobody is coming to save anybody

  • @kekesassycutie3936
    @kekesassycutie3936 Месяц назад +1

    ❤Amen 🙏🏽Thanku Jesus , Thanku GoD , Thanku Lord & Thanku 👉🏽

  • @bernadinelett2192
    @bernadinelett2192 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing. One step at a time.

  • @user-tk3nm2ul1e
    @user-tk3nm2ul1e Месяц назад

    Denzal
    G
    Feel so good reading ur messages!
    Creates hope in
    Distance relationship !!
    Bless u❤

  • @ctgeorgia
    @ctgeorgia 2 месяца назад +27

    54 years old and trying so hard to do this right now with my fiance'...
    We've been together for 4 years and over the last year she's detached quite a bit and gotten to the point where when we have disagreements she says she is done. Within a day or two she always comes to her senses, apologizes for reacting in the moment and we stay together. I feel like I've lost all power in our relationship and it's a sickening feeling always worried that if I say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, act the wrong way then she'll leave. I'm just trying to detach and allow whatever happen to happen.
    After all, I know God's in control

    • @nt557
      @nt557 2 месяца назад +3

      I’m in the same boat as you are. Parasitic relationship, deprives all the energy, yet, sometimes heart needs more time than mind which already knows.

    • @elizabethmoore2190
      @elizabethmoore2190 2 месяца назад +1

      I was in that same situation,and he ended up breaking up with me,but still didn’t want to let me go .

    • @ctgeorgia
      @ctgeorgia 2 месяца назад +5

      @@elizabethmoore2190 so very hard. Almost weekly I think about leaving, but I can't seem to pull the trigger. The thought of starting over or being alone in mid-50s is very hard.

    • @iwasateenageninjaferret4486
      @iwasateenageninjaferret4486 2 месяца назад +3

      You are in a better position than I am.
      My Fiancée and I had been together for four years. On August 6th of this year, in an argument, she informed me that she hadn't any more romantic feelings for me. She told me she, "just couldn't live like this anymore" (whatever that meant) When I asked her, she just said, I wish you could understand". I watched her drive off in an Uber into the sunset. 😢
      By the 21st (two weeks later!?) she had changed her relationship status on facebook from me to another guy and started posting pics of the two of them together.
      I'm devastated and feel like I've slipped into a pit of despair.

    • @ctgeorgia
      @ctgeorgia 2 месяца назад +1

      @@iwasateenageninjaferret4486
      Man, I am so sorry. I've been through exactly the same thing 20 yrs ago. My fiance' at the time and I had a 2 year old daughter. I had to fly out of town for a week of work. I got a call while I was out of town from my fiance's cousin. She told me to sit down and I did. Fiance' left with another man she met at a gym a couple weeks earlier and took my daughter with her. Within a couple of weeks, they were married on the local courthouse steps. Now here I am 54 watching the love of my life walk out my door again. I just have to remember that God got me through it 20 years ago and He'll get me through it again. It's all I can hope for. It's crushing though being alone at my age. Have faith and God bless.
      PS. Other than RUclips I suggest you get off ALL social media immediately. It will keep you in complete despair watching her. It's the best thing I did all those years ago. Trust me. Delete Facebook, etc.

  • @diannstratton1998
    @diannstratton1998 Месяц назад

    I really needed to hear this. I have been attached to the wrong petson. I really care but my well being is important! Thank ayou for the message much needed❤

  • @PamelaReed-c1f
    @PamelaReed-c1f 9 дней назад

    I ty for your help with all my own life. Your support is so good for me and I have been able to change my own pattern in a lot of situations
    😂❤

  • @overcomer67
    @overcomer67 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank You👍👍👍

  • @chantellepulla5366
    @chantellepulla5366 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤ Wow Denzel this is amazing public speaking service. Thank you so much for sharing God bless

  • @sharilynnpalmer7435
    @sharilynnpalmer7435 2 месяца назад

    True words of wisdom.

  • @hila39peretz91
    @hila39peretz91 2 месяца назад

    I thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤

  • @haroldmee8222
    @haroldmee8222 2 месяца назад +2

    Thankyou Denzel 👍 ❤from Harry

  • @mini-tw1xp
    @mini-tw1xp Месяц назад +1

    Thanks!!

  • @nicolajohnson9214
    @nicolajohnson9214 2 месяца назад

    Thank you very much ❤❤❤I needed to hear this message

  • @shirlamgold8597
    @shirlamgold8597 2 месяца назад +2

    Amen Never Alone God Is Here For All Except Him In Theirs Live Universe Is On Are Side

  • @worstknightmayor4439
    @worstknightmayor4439 2 месяца назад +1

    Words of wisdom

  • @hila39peretz91
    @hila39peretz91 2 месяца назад +1

    תודה!

  • @laurieobrien4888
    @laurieobrien4888 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @Lynne-j5m
    @Lynne-j5m 2 месяца назад +1

    I needed this
    Lu🎉

  • @bettyjones3947
    @bettyjones3947 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you❤😢

  • @barbarabrown4205
    @barbarabrown4205 Месяц назад +1

    BishopPaul , forgive me ,I spoke wrong, you right, I live with pain so I know , sometimes I have to push thru pain . and do a lot of praying. Thk you Bishop

  • @gaitree5
    @gaitree5 2 месяца назад

    This was so inspirational 💯💯💯

  • @sheilayoung4043
    @sheilayoung4043 2 месяца назад

    Thank you, very encouraging, I needed to hear this 😊

    • @LorettaThomas-g9u
      @LorettaThomas-g9u 2 месяца назад

      Amen. Thank You Sir for your message and encouragement. Keeping it 9. Thank you Sweet Jesus, Angels and the Universe for blessings coming and granted to me in advance for me also. 😊❤🎉

  • @Matthew-w2b
    @Matthew-w2b 2 месяца назад +3

    Thanks again mate like wow perfectly put 👍 powerful stuff Thanks for your help mate eye needed to hear that wow 👌 power on eye shell you make me think deeply about my journey sir thanks

  • @saramakowski7963
    @saramakowski7963 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤ thank you so much your voice is incredible

  • @kristalhumphreys4621
    @kristalhumphreys4621 2 месяца назад +2

    Shared ❤

  • @DanielTorres-sb4dn
    @DanielTorres-sb4dn 2 месяца назад

    This is beautiful

  • @beryltriegaardt711
    @beryltriegaardt711 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank thank thank you

  • @sandrawaterbury6311
    @sandrawaterbury6311 Месяц назад +1

    I’m going though 😢your guidance might get me on my way

    • @lolitaboden6507
      @lolitaboden6507 Месяц назад

      After 35 years of marriage, I’m leaving… I was miserable for years… we’ll be just fine. I promise

  • @KatieQuick345
    @KatieQuick345 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much I appreciate you so much! I needed this, unfortunately it's my daughter I have to let go of!😢

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 2 месяца назад +1

    THE LAW OF DETACHMENT .... VERY INTENSE SALUTE ... 🫡 👍🏾 💯