How to Get Over a Breakup | How to Get Over Your Ex Wife | How to Move on From a Relationship

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  • Опубликовано: 13 дек 2024

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  • @Mensdivorcecoach
    @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад +5

    Make your free 90 Minute Consultation at calendly.com/renesance/free-consultation because you should go through this alone. 3/4 of divorced men seek professional help, why not hire someone that's highly specialized only in divorced men.

  • @stanmoney8470
    @stanmoney8470 Год назад +7

    My second divorce,my wife divorced me. Its hard to move on . Im doing it, but i think about her everyday! I wanted us too keep working on things! She quit!

  • @stanmoney8470
    @stanmoney8470 Год назад +4

    I unfriended my ex wife on social media. Sometimes I regret, but then I don't feel as bad because she divorced me! That hurted me like hell! It still hurts like hell! I still laugh and talk with others. They just dont know the hurt i feel inside. She is divorced me like I wasn't nothing to her! No respect for our marriage!

  • @fernandomacedo9586
    @fernandomacedo9586 9 месяцев назад +1

    Going through a very painful divorce, it's been 5 months since the breakup, it's been hard because I have a beautiful daughter with my ex-wife, and it makes it more difficult because I have to be in contact with her, I don't know how to behave around my ex, if I behave indifferent or like nothing happened, or happy or what??? This videos are amazing and very helpful, keep up the good work, see you on the other side!!!

  • @gamrleomord937
    @gamrleomord937 3 года назад +14

    My wife just left me 3 weeks ago and I can’t even bring myself to get the divorce papers! This video was super helpful, I’ve been in the depressed phase and have drank nearly every day since she left but I am seeing now that alcohol is only making it worse, I want to feel positive about myself again and just co parent with her. I know that moving on is for the best I just can’t seem to do it

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад +1

      Josh, I'm sorry, terribly sorry you're going through this. You're not alone. Please join our free and confidential FB Group. It's for guys and it's to help give you hope. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978 I've worked with so many men and am very confident I can help. Please, for you, for your well being, make a 1 on 1 with me www.mensdivorcecoaching.com I don't "sell" it's an oppotunity for you to be heard and come up with an action plan and first appointment is free.

    • @Thewiseone205
      @Thewiseone205 2 года назад

      Damn bro keep your head up and keep putting in the work on yourself !

    • @MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
      @MGTOWmademeMillionaire777 Год назад +1

      Do not be a simp, study mgtow, you are lucky that that para site went away

  • @stephenhenson7973
    @stephenhenson7973 Год назад +4

    Me and my wife of 38 years had just over a year where we slept in Separate rooms and didn't talk. Then 6 months ago I found out she was sleeping with someone when I confronted her she left and went to her parents and is still seeing this other man. I'm devastated and have tried to talk to her but she doesn't want to know me. I just don't know what to do as I'm 60 now and feel life's ended

  • @andyc3537
    @andyc3537 4 года назад +8

    Great advice...my now ex wife divorced me and I didn't know it was coming at all...I threw myself back into training and boxing and I feel better than I have for years...
    I will not allow her actions to dictate how i will live my life... get busy and do the things you love..
    Health and happiness to you all all.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад +2

      I love your attitude. It hurts man. I know. Thank you for your comment. I hope you're doing well and thriving.

    • @andyc3537
      @andyc3537 4 года назад +1

      @@Mensdivorcecoach thank you so much I really appreciate your reply and your so so right..Getting busy is the best thing you can do. And I had to laugh at the ring tone and names.. it does help for sure. And most of all. The most important.. dont look for her life on social media or anywhere. I'm embarrassed to say she controlled everything.. her deciding to divorce me without me knowing was the best thing to happen to me for a long time..
      She probably hates I'm doing well right now. She loves her job of power..
      Proper narcissist behaviour..
      Better off without her even though it made me homeless.. Every cloud has a silver lining if you work at it...
      Great advice for anyone going through a break up whether it be weeks or years.. if your the only person fully committed your wasting your love on the wrong person... wishing you a super day every day...and thank you..👍

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад +1

      Andy, my pleasure. You're the reason why I started this channel. Hope you join our FB Group. Would love to continue our communication.

  • @fernandocabanillas8133
    @fernandocabanillas8133 3 года назад +7

    I love your video brother, it’s just so fucking hard after 27 years and 4 children with the youngest is six years old. I really don’t want to have to start over again but I know eventually I have to.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Thank you for your comment and there are 1000s of guys like you so you're not alone. Why don't you join our free and private FB Group? It's the fastest growing group regarding divorce. All I ask is you answer the questions saying that I invited you. Here's the link you wont be disapointed: facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

  • @pearlfisher2813
    @pearlfisher2813 4 года назад +6

    19 years, and still hurting. Years and years of anti depressants, and 15 years of post break up heroin addiction have rendered me an empty vessel. Constant melancholy, darkness, and pain. I can't find a way out apart from the obvious ( which I contemplate constantly ) . I hate being like this but at 59 years of age I couldn't get back into the dating, meeting potential partners game etc, I have neither the inclination nor the energy to go down that route.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад +2

      Pearlfisher: Rather than assume what you're going through, instead, under the comment section, there's my FB Group. Join it so we can communicate. Let's talk one to one. I'd love to hear from you and hear your story.

    • @craignodder6051
      @craignodder6051 4 года назад +1

      Orr bless you l sore you will get throw this all the best n see a doctor 🙏

    • @novaheads
      @novaheads 2 года назад +2

      You have to move on for yourself man. You control your emotions

    • @joaquinfigueroa3640
      @joaquinfigueroa3640 2 года назад +2

      Turn to God, my man. Jesus is the way.

  • @karlaobolanos2178
    @karlaobolanos2178 3 года назад +4

    I identify with what you said in this video 100% brother, you were talking about me! I only wish I had seen this video three years ago when the shit hit the fan, things would’ve been easier but that only made me a tougher mofo. I’m slowly getting my mojo back and now feel effin awesome about myself and what I’ve accomplished. Kudos to you brother!! Chingao!!!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      What a great compliment Carlos. Men need to work together on this. I hope you joined our group on FB.

    • @carlmarch9591
      @carlmarch9591 3 года назад

      Good to hear mate 💪💪

  • @stanmoney8470
    @stanmoney8470 Год назад +2

    It doesn't make you weak, it's normal.

  • @gilbertperez1589
    @gilbertperez1589 2 года назад +4

    My wife just left me after 22 years of marriage and she is filing for divorce . I don't know what the heck happened!!!
    I want to thank you for your videos they are very helpful!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад +1

      Thank you Gilbert.. I hear that a lot, guys say it was all of a sudden but signs are always there. A guy once told me his ex left him and that it came out of nowhere. She had cheated on him several times before as he would catch her and he said it came out of nowhere. That's of course an extreme example but signs are always there. I work with guys and caution them about this because they're in danger of repeating the same mistake if they don't know. Relationships, they repeat themselves if no growth has taken place and I'm perfectly aware of this because I am guilty of it also in my past.

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 года назад +4

    There’s no such thing as being boring are weak minded because you’re upset that your marriage failed. All that says is that you cared about it. I’m not going to pin the blame on women or men but I will say this not everybody is committed to their relationships. This gentleman just pretty good advice in my opinion.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for your kind comment. I did a study to see what works best. Hope you got the opportunity to see it. It's under 4 ways to get over your ex. The results surprised me.

  • @Mackonreal
    @Mackonreal 3 года назад +7

    Going through my second divorce, I appreciate your videos and motivation

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Thank you. Brandon, curious, which one has been harder for you (put yourself in your situation during your first divorce), your first or second divorce? Please, join our FB Closed Group. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

    • @stanmoney8470
      @stanmoney8470 Год назад

      ​@@Mensdivorcecoach My second divorce is far much harder!!

    • @rodjackson5015
      @rodjackson5015 8 месяцев назад

      Stop getting married

    • @mysteria5804
      @mysteria5804 6 месяцев назад

      Start praying about it. That's the only thing these coaches never recommend. Every woman isn't bad, you have to fix your character so you can be with a good one otherwise you keep running them off without realizing it. I'm here because as a young single woman with no kids, I find that divorced men are scary to date. They're angry, insecure, bitter, in denial and are holding on to all the toxic traits that dissolved their marriage in the first place. All the non-toxic women will run from you if youre unhealed. Because you're a danger to her and yourself. HEAL! Ask God to show you the filth, face it and take it out. Living in denial isn't helping you. Stop running from your ugly, face it and fix it. Ask God to help you, God truly exists, don't wait till you're 85 and finished to find out there was a higher power that could have helped you if only you'd cared to call on Him and do the work

  • @jasoncarnicelli144
    @jasoncarnicelli144 4 года назад +4

    Fantastic video. And it really is Renaissance period that a man must go through as Rene indicates. A man must be willing to give himself permission to be really attentive to himself during this time where he works to find himself, reinvent himself. Rene's insight will help many men, and helps me!

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 2 года назад +1

    I love this video Coach Rene!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад

      Thank you brother. You know what's crazy, this was the video that ultimately made me decide where I was supposed to go. To become a DiVo coach.

  • @mattlofty5884
    @mattlofty5884 2 года назад +1

    Great vid , it’s been 17 months for me, I’m gonna draw a line in the sand at 2 years !💪

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад

      2 years for what? To begin living? Why? She didn't die, she left, no need to mourn someone that left

  • @novaheads
    @novaheads 2 года назад +2

    You are the best, realest advice coach. Thank you

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад

      Thank Yoyo12 O. Are you in our group? Should join if not. Appreciate your feedback.

  • @carlmarch9591
    @carlmarch9591 3 года назад +2

    This is gold advice my friend God bless from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Thank you. Feel free to join our free and confidential FB Group. It's the only Group that actually comes with instructions to help. All I ask is you answer the questions because about 30% of the people requesting access are not accepted..
      facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

  • @brandonsmith302
    @brandonsmith302 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty. It’s very supportive.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад

      You're welcome brother. Hope you requested to join our team my friend. linktr.ee/renesanceman

  • @YesToTech
    @YesToTech 4 года назад +5

    Such amazing advice on how to get over a breakup! This will certainly help many people out! :)

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад

      Thank you Marina. As men, we have such a difficult time finding someone who listens because it's not a masculine trait.

  • @NavD1
    @NavD1 3 года назад +2

    thank you for the advice brother

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Bro, I did so much research here it was sick. Feel free to join our free FB Group. Just say who you are to confirm your identity. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

  • @Zfaith_fitness_detox
    @Zfaith_fitness_detox 4 года назад +4

    Love your advice! Getting away from being a victim!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад

      Thank you so very much. Often we overlook the fact that it is us that do it to ourselves. We really have to look within us and open our eyes. To me, it was arrogance that kept me from believing she would cheat. I just never thought it would happen to me.

  • @seahaltura7116
    @seahaltura7116 4 года назад +2

    Great insights. This advice is what many people need to know especially those who are having issues with their relationships.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад

      Thank you Seah, you're correct. Often, we confuse love and limerence. Such a dangerous zone.

  • @charlesdial7152
    @charlesdial7152 6 месяцев назад

    I am going through a hard time right now and it hurts so bad but I realize the part that I played in this relationship 💔, I am getting better but it still pisses me off. I am trying to heal from the past and start to understand my feelings better. I just need to talk with other guys about the situation because I know that I'm not the only one who is dealing with smthg like this 💯

  • @juancarlosalvarado3904
    @juancarlosalvarado3904 4 года назад +2

    Excellent advice, it really hit the spots. It took me 9 years to get thru this. I wished I had seen this video back then, it would had help me tremendously. Thank you Mr Renesance man...excellent advice.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад

      Thank you Juan Carlos. That means a lot. It's so important to change your paradigm in life and that's such a challenge to do when you go through such trauma.

  • @DjAlexMiamiDj
    @DjAlexMiamiDj 3 года назад +2

    Great advice.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Thank you and hope it helps. Feel free to join our Divorce Men's Group on FB at the link: facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

  • @ortallevitan1
    @ortallevitan1 4 года назад +2

    This video was EXCELLENT! thanks so much for all the information

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  4 года назад

      Thank you for the kind compliment. If you need help, feel free to reach out. I'm always available and join the FB Group for help if you need to. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978/

  • @brelendwiggins7238
    @brelendwiggins7238 Год назад +1

    Going through a divorce. I was married for 5yrs. Two kids, an I lost my business. I’m starting from scratch. I just got a 3bedroom townhome an I got my kids for now but man I feel like shit.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  Год назад

      I hope you continue to watch some videos and see the progress you can have. No woes brother. Don't do that to yourself and if you continue with your woes, mark my words, you're going to have problems with your kids.

  • @roelberador4536
    @roelberador4536 3 года назад +2

    I finished watching your videos and appreciated how you get over your ex wife.
    I am 38 years old. Married. We were together for two years and five months. suddenly my wife has infidelity towards me that i only knew later. This time it's almost 7 months since we separated. But it's very painful to me. Until now i still thinking about her. I want her back but i don't know what to do coz she is with the other guy already. How could i get over this feeling and a kind of depression in me.?

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Roel, I'm terribly sorry about your pain. Worked with thousands of men to help them heal. I'd start with joining our FB Group. It's free and confidential. Just make sure you answer the entrance questions because we don't accept just anyone. It helps when you say you saw me on YT. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
      I'd make a 1 on 1 appointment with me. First one is free buddy. They're goal oriented and often cathartic. Here's the link with the price, the way it works, etc. www.mensdivorcecoaching.com I hope to see you at both.

    • @rivalchavez9250
      @rivalchavez9250 2 года назад

      Try 15 years.

  • @johnsantos3392
    @johnsantos3392 Год назад

    Gold 💪💪💪💪

  • @mystic_tacos
    @mystic_tacos 3 года назад +5

    The problem is... We are still friends, we must still be in contact because of the kids anyway. She still loves me, she just isn't IN love with me anymore, the same can't be said for me.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад +1

      Why don't you join our divorced group for men. It's free and confidential. It's good and refreshing you 2 have a friendly relationship. I would say, you have to push yourself away from her from friends to friendly. You will be hard pressed to move on if you don't. Can't be celebrating holidays together nor anything like that. It's like telling an alcoholic to have 1 drink. Can't happen. Sorry but that's the truth. Here's the link if you wanna join us. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

    • @karlaobolanos2178
      @karlaobolanos2178 3 года назад +2

      Same here bro and that’s ok, part of the process of moving on is letting her know that you’re doing great without her, it’s not easy but it can be done with a lot of work!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад +1

      @@karlaobolanos2178 I mentioned on one of my videos that I can't say I won because that puts us on the same playing field and we're not on the same league. Instead I like to say I ended up winning out. Glad you're part of the team brother.

    • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
      @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 года назад +1

      I don’t know what to tell you dude. My advice to you is center on your children. The children did not asked to be brought into this world and I’m telling you man to man you over to them to help them ever way you can. Best regards from the state of Kentucky.

  • @kristin1533
    @kristin1533 2 года назад +1

    A lot of this advice is good for women, too.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад

      Thank you and you're very much correct. Reason why I didn't address much of this for women is because my research is done on men and I didn't want to represent. If you're going through a divorce, I'm terribly sorry. It's not easy

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад

      Kristin,. I wanted to offer you some guidance just in case you need help. There is a Divorce Coach for females that I trust. Here is FB group link. facebook.com/groups/587034699538031

  • @billcross3790
    @billcross3790 3 года назад +1

    Thank you

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      You're welcome. Feel free to joing our group, it's free and confidential. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

  • @physiciansassist1
    @physiciansassist1 3 года назад +1

    I needed that

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      I'm glad to hear. Please, join our FB Group. It's the fastest growing group for divorcing men. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

    • @physiciansassist1
      @physiciansassist1 3 года назад +1

      @@Mensdivorcecoach currently on mi road bicycle riding to the beach. Got to take your first step I guess..

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      @@physiciansassist1 Where do you live? What beach?

    • @physiciansassist1
      @physiciansassist1 3 года назад

      @@Mensdivorcecoach Oceanside CA

    • @physiciansassist1
      @physiciansassist1 3 года назад

      @@Mensdivorcecoach I was living in beaitiful Dana Point before the wife left me few months ago

  • @zombiekilledmytoast2655
    @zombiekilledmytoast2655 2 года назад +1

    i went for a run and it did help im more focused on my breathlessness lol

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 года назад +2

    This is the real world! May sound like I’m being harsh but don’t waste your life and people did you not care about you.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад +1

      In the real world you do my friend. It's reality. We're humans not machines.

    • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
      @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 года назад

      @@Mensdivorcecoach Very well said dude in there is something to be said about looking at the cruelties of life.

  • @julianlloyd9557
    @julianlloyd9557 3 года назад +2

    Going through a divorce now

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  3 года назад

      Sorry to hear that. You're going to need a good support group. Here, join us. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978/announcements

  • @j.lee13collins45
    @j.lee13collins45 2 года назад +1

    Found out my wife of 16 years is now a lesbian. We have 2 kids and she will move out in a few months. It's a weird place to be in. She still loves me as a best friend she says. Makes this hard to move on emotionally.

    • @yomismo1888
      @yomismo1888 4 месяца назад

      How are you doing today?

  • @MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
    @MGTOWmademeMillionaire777 Год назад +3

    Mgtow gives you the knowledge to not even have a wife!
    Mgtow is the best that has ever happened to me!!!
    Every men should study mgtow

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  Год назад

      Not a fan. MGTOW reminds me of someone that got their ass kicked by a bully and when they run anywhere near that bully, they run the opposite direction. They gave up and threw in the towel. What level MGTOW are you? Are you in the cabin, alone saying you're at peace with the world only to really be alone? It's fine if you chose to live that way. I prefer to live and feel and taste and smell. My 2 cents.

    • @MGTOWmademeMillionaire777
      @MGTOWmademeMillionaire777 Год назад

      @@Mensdivorcecoach jaja no, i have 2 girls, 1 is 18 and the other 22. I told them that they are not my GFs, just fun...
      I'm a surgeon, i have a 3 floor mansion, sports cars, beach house, several rentals, 0$ in debt, no para site wife or kids 🥳!
      And monster, but monster bank account.
      You have a wrong concept about mgtow, mgtow is a blessing and no judge is going to tell me to give the beach house or my mansion to a woman, just for sign a contract where i do not have a chance to win...
      I do not have to pay to mantain an old wrinkled woman all my life when i change girls when they turn 23.
      I feel like i would marry if i was poor, or i could not get free sex from young hot girls, or if i was short or ugly, a beta...
      Life is good. Mgtow, no wife rich life
      And Remember the huge gap between alone and lonely 😎

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 года назад +2

    Life is just kick you in the balls! Well now, don’t beat around the bush say what you’re thinking be straightforward😀😀😀😀

    • @Mensdivorcecoach
      @Mensdivorcecoach  2 года назад +1

      LOL,,,,, as I continue to write and produce I've gotten more comfortable in front of the camera. Ever seen my first video? It's horrible but I keep it so I can show men that it's OK to try and suck and try and suck and try and you get the rest. Now I have fun with it. If you look at a few I'm wearing earpieces because I listen to music to pump me up (while recording) and just enjoy the session.

    • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
      @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 года назад

      @@Mensdivorcecoach Thanks dude greatly appreciate your videos be cool.