Bata ka pa naman, madami pang opportunity na darating sa'yo. Mahalin mo din ang sarili mo, para di ka masktan kung mawala man sya. Accept the reality of life. Magpray ka para iguide ka ni God sa right path atvmga dapat mong gawin.. Huwag kang umiyak at kaawaan ang sarili mo. Isipin mo, ilang milyon ang lalaki sa mundo at ang isa doon ay ang tamang tao na nakalaan sa'yo.. Cheer up..
Madaming nag sasabi na iprivate mo yung problem mo pero for me may mga idea akong nakuha sa story mo which is good. Thanks for being open pretty. Bata ka pa marami pang mangyayari sa buhay mo atleast sa bawat failures may learning tayo sa buhay at makakatulong yan to improve yourself. Laban inday.❤
Masakit talaga pag naghiwalay kayo ng taong mahal mo, Pero blessing in disguise yan kasi may makikilala kang taong mas Mahal na mahal ka at di ka iiwan.
Umuwi ka sa inyo at doon ka mag move on. Wag kanang mahpumilit pa sa wala ng hahatungan. Buhay mo asikasuhin mo at wag mong problemahin ang kanya. Magkanya-kanya na kayo para matahimik na isip mo. Doon ka magsimula at makikita mo kapayapaan ng isip at damdamin. Tigilsn na emote-emote. Hanap ka trabaho kahit magpakatulong ka. Ipunin sweldo mo tutal libre kain ka naman. Pag may kaptal na kahit simpling negosyo simulan na at magtyaga, magtipid makikita mo unti-unti aadenso ka.
A lot of them now does know what privacy is very important especially if your married. We have to respect our privacy because social media can ruin ur relationship. You are the only one can solve your own issue not the social media. Mostly foreigners they want privacy.
Yes dapat problema ng mag Asawa is private lang. Minsan may tampuhan kami never ko peno post Asawa ko f Galit Ako kagi maraming marites. Naka abang sa issues
May nakilala yan ma'am na iba kaya ganun na lang biglang lumamig. It's not the end of the world , stay strong and be prayerful , sooner or later you will realize that God has a better plans than your own planned.
Inday Badiday mag trabaho ka huwag kang umasa sa foreigner to support you..Ang baba ng tingin sa atın ng mga foreigners kasi they thought pumatol tayo sa kanila to get thier support..Ita-as natin ang ating Filipina Pride.Be strong Inday maghanap ka ng trabaho don’t be a slave to thier dollars..
Oi hindi nman lhat maba2 ang tingin noh! Siguro sa mga name2ra lng tlgA at palaasa Pati buong pamilya iasa sa afam! PRO sa Katulad nming professional nku hindi kmi takot mwala cla! Mr q pag naga2lit aq sinasabi q maghiwalay n kmi umiiyak!😂
Kaya ang anak ko kaht nagkabf ng afam aba katwiran nya sa sarili nya ayaw kong susumbatan ako balang araw kaya d sya nagttamggap ng kung anu ano ag d sya naasa na lahat ipaako ang gastus kapag nalabas sila.sorry kanlng kung ang turing syo mutsasa ganyn nmn sila kaso eala kayo kadala dala
Be thankful na nangyari jan sa Pinas kung saan may family kang uuwian, kung sa US nangyari mahirapan ka lalo na kung walang tutulong sayo. Don’t lose hope, I’m sure God is saving you for someone better. Keep going and pray for guidance and strength. Take care!
Sa umpisa lang Yan, mahirap at masakit. Makakarecover ka rin. Huag na huag mong ihabol Ang sarili mo. Buti nga Wala pa kayong Anak. Stay strong not just physically but emotionally, mentally and spiritually as well. Take care and God bless 🙏
Your still young ,you can find another man that will love you unconditionally..set him free and go on with your life..maybe in the future the right man will come ,just trust God in his perfect time😊😊😊
Im married to black american for almost 20 years but i never ask for anything kusa siyang nagbibigay at hindi ako nagresign sa work ko, hindi ako umasa sa kanya. Maayos ang relasyon namin awa ng Diyos. Advice ko sa mga kabayan ko, huwag na huwag kayong umasa lang sa asawa niyo magtrabaho or magnegosyo kayo para may sarili kayong pera.
Depende naman sa asawa. Asawa ko Scottish, been married for 36 years with 4 children never I worked since we are together. We had lived in 4 continents because of his job. We are still happily married and we are now empty nesters as are children are all adult and professional. Kaya depende sa lalaki. I am 4 years older than him.
May afam din Ako pero never akong matakot makipaghiwalay dahil I know how to find money...relate ko rin na hinde Sila talaga faithful Sayo so need talaga be strong wag ma inlove at maniwala sa tamis nilang dila..
Tama po kau dahil alam kc nila pag pinoy poor kailangan jan may sarili ka pera kc yung kaibigan ko may sarili cya pera ayaw nila nga ganon isipin ng afam nga foor cya
Tama ka ayaw nila na umaasa kalang sa kanila especially umaasa lang sayo ang pamilya mo ayaw nila nang ganya kasi sanay sila sa kultura nila na napaka independent nila
Hindi totoo yan. Husband ko foreigner din. Ayaw niya ako mag trabaho. So lahat ng kailangan ko sinosoportahan niya ako. Never siya nag kwenta ng pera sa akin Nag open ng Account para sa akin. Mga foreigners ay mga responsable sila. Naka focus lang sila sa family nila.
In my points of view lang miss ha.. baka gusto ng afam mo na most of ur time para sa kanya.. baka ayaw nya lagi ka nakahawak ng celphone.. galing pa Kasi xa sa US tas dito sa pinas sana for his relaxation. Kaso lagi ka naka celphone. Dapat magsaya Kay. Bonding time. Ayaw ka lang seguro nya pagsabihan about sa pag celphone mo lagi.. dapat quality time being with him ka sana. Huwag celphone ng celphone😊
Baka hindi ka marunong mag alaga sa asawa mo dapat maasikaso ka sa asawa mo bk may katamaran ka at puro puro pera ka na lang malay mo sinubukan ka lang sa pag loloan loan, baka dika marunong mag hawak ng pera. Gusto ng mga afam maasikaso ka sa kanya. Dapat maging malambing ka. Baka may nakita sya sayo na hindi nya na gustuhan.
If there's no way that the two of you has the love and care for each other . Perhaps it's better to just break up and move on . Say good bye and the rest will become a lesson to learn for both of you . Remember everything happens for a reason . It's not too late for you to have another chance to find the Mr . Right who is really meant for you .
Jusko ate gurl ang bata mo pa bkit ka magtitiis sa gurang na wala naman na pagmamahal let it go dai move on na hanapin mo sarili mo umuwi kana sa pamilya mo you're young mkkhanap kapa ng mas deserving at very responsible man let him go.. Wag mo na antayin na paalisin ka sa tirahan nyo ikaw na mismo ang kusang umalis wag mo masyado ibaba ang diknidad mo sa isang lalake katulad ng asawa mo from the first place matanda na yan gurl ang ganda mo wag mo sayangin. Magtrabho ka if you want to full fill your goal and dream.
Mhirap din karelasyon afam...swerte nlng ung nktagpo ng stable minded..ok lng yn at least as early lumabas real attitude nya..let him go..mgnda ka At bta kpa
Naranasan ko to sa asawa ko ang bait bait niya sa Pilipinas pag dating dto sa America wla ako makain wlang grocery sa freezer tas ang meron Lang pasta tas Sabi niya wag na ako mghanap ng wla grabi enabot ko dto tulog nalng walang kain but nlng may kaibigan akong pinay binigyan ako ng begas at ulam..yang mga afam na yan mabait Lang yan pag nasa pinas
Yan ang mahirap kasi pabago-bago ang isip ng afam mo sis. Dilikado yan. Dapat ni re search mo yang pagkatao nya para may idea ka at kung bakit ganun ang attitude nya.
Very good inday huwag kang mag tanggap ng pera , wala naman nangyari sa inyo ...oh at least buo pa ang pagkatao mo.. let him go...start a new one inday...laban..umuwi na yan. Hayaan mo kung anong sasabihin ng family mo , ng mga tao...what matter is you....go ahead inday...pray ha... you did your best ...good luck inday... relax ...breath and start...
hi, inday I watch again your old video, And I can relate your situation. Anyway, inday buryat and you are not alone and just continue to do the things that you really love and I know that God has a better plan for you..
Ako may asawang, afam laking pasalamat ko palagi sa asawa ko kasi, mahal na mahal nya talaga ako na walang kupas 20 years na kaming kasal nag ppasalamat din ako itaas palagi❤❤❤
I met my husband from university, magkaklase at naging friends kami habang nag-aaral kmi ng adult nursing (2017).. To cut the story short, after namin ma-qualified naging kami and got married.. May dalawa na kaming anak ngayon and at sa awa ni God never pa kami nag-away.. I would say, me and my children are very lucky..
Nakapag asawa din ako ng afam my apat kaming anak puro lalaki. Pero humantong din sa hiwalayan, harap harapan akong binababoy pero nag bulagbulagan ako dahil may mga anak kami tiniis ko lahat. Ng bumalik sya sa America hindi na ako naghabol. Nagpapadala sya kung kaylan lang nya gusto hindi ako humihingi. Ang swerte mo pa nga dahil maaga mong nalaman, sa tutuo lang ang hirap magkunwsri. Malampasan mo rin yan dadaan lang yan kaya mo yan.
Afam din husband ko pero I am so blessed because he is very caring,loving and very responsible husband. Just leave it all to God and he will do the rest
Korek, don't waste your time , never cry to a person who doesn't value your importance. OMG, he kicked you out , it shouldn't be like that. Kicked him out of our country .
Hello ma'am, this is the first time i watch your vlog. It's so sad that you're in this situation. The thing is your mind is sooo clear , both of you are not really meant for each other . Just give up coz both of you are not happy anymore . Life is so short & you're still young. Focus on yourself, your career. Bear in mind that your happiness doesn't depend on other people . If you keep on relying your happiness to other people, you'll only be disappointed. Go back to your family , look for a job & eventually you'll have a self pride . Cheer up girl. Always use your brain coz feelings are deceitful. Life's experiences will teach you to become stronger & wiser.
Alam ko mahirap at masakit yan..be strong..ikaw lang makaka tulong sa sarili mo..it takes time bago mag heal ang sakit ..bata kapa at ang ganda mo...makahanap kapa nang lalaki na mas deserve sa love na binibigay mo..wish ko sana maging matatag kapa lalo..e iyak mo lang para gumaan ang bigat at pray ka kai god..
Ang MGA foriner magsasawa din pag palagi inaasahan SA kpmlya Dapat magtrbho Ka para maysarili kang Pera, KC ayaw nila Ng ganyan Panay tulong SA kpmlya, Iba ang kultura nila Ok p.lng Yan SA sa umpisa at Ilan buwan, pagtumagal, tatalikuran knA Nyan Tama Ka huwagmo ipilit ang sarili mo Kung ayaw na sayo Just be happy sis Life must go on Ingat nlng jan
Kaya mo yan ma'am. Let him go mas may taong nararapat sa pagmamahal mo. Yes, mahirap maka move on sa taong mahal mo pero andyan si God para gamutin ang sugatan mong puso. God bless you po
Dapat may blessings ni God yung pagsasama nyo. Wag kang mawalan ng pag asa Inday Buryat. Dadating ang right time para sainyo ni Afam. Kung love nya si God, he will do right thing. Mag focus ka muna sa sailing mo.
I can tell na talagang you loved him. You both tried na mag work ang relationship nyo. It’s easy for us viewers to give you an advise or opinion on what you should and not to do. You are the one in this situation, you got to know him personally. Weigh in on the positives and the negatives which is higher, the positives or the negatives. It will help you make the decision. Ultimately, you will decide, make a wise choice, it’s for your future, you are young, smart and beautiful, so many fish out there iha. I have been married 42 years. My husband(he is an American and I’m a Filipina) and I tell our children, when they are having a relationship issues, na timbangin ang negatives and positives, is it worth saving the relationship or let go. Basta nag try kayo, kung na reached nyo na ang end, then let go na. Kung ngayon at hindi pa kayo kasal, ilan beses ka ng umiyak, what more pa kung kasal na kayo. Gusto mu pa bang pa kasal kung ganyan, parang Yo-yo ang relationship nyo, up and down and up and down. Think it through iha. Seek Gods guidance.
sana palagi kang handa importante may pera ka lagi para kong may mangyari sa inyo meron kang savings at pera at ipagpatuloy mo yong blog mo para sa kinabukasan mo move on lang bess good luck sa yo god bless you always
sinabi na nya sa iyo iuwi ka na kong saan ka nanggaling, mas mabuti yan humiwalay ka na sa kanya habang maaga pa kc Kong ipilit mo makisama sa kanya 100% masasktan ka lang at iiyak ka lang hanggang sa pagtolog mo.😢
Paying kapatid,kung ako sayo thats it, huwag ka ng bumalik maging friends na lang kayo,kasi tandaan mo kapatid ,ang ugali ay ugali, at patuloy kang manalangin kasi nakikita ni Lord ang pinagdadaanan mo, kaya bago ka pa magsisi,mabuti pang nagiisa ka na lang kaysa laging may kaba ang puso,at isa pa kapatid ,may makita lang yan na hindi nya magustuhan,umpisa uli yan ng kalbaryo mo ! Kaya bata ka pa,magisip ka at oaging makipag- usap sa Dios nakikita Niya ang paghihirap mo, Godbless !
First thing you have to do is to look for a place to stay. Gather your thoughts and strength to move on. Mas maigi na masakit now kaysa magka anak ka pa. Be strong, be safe and be happy.
I think you should let him go, I know it's not easy. but, I think what he's doing to you is emotional abuse. Stress is not good for anyone. Take care of yourself first. Good luck and may God bless you.
It’s really important that we have our own money and job. Been married to my foreign husband for 20 years. I never rely on him pagdating sa money dahil karamihan sa kanila independent hindi sila sanay na umaasa tayo sa kanila. Be strong and never chase a man!
@@nometacabrera875 tama. Dami ko kakilala at kabatch na nahiwalay kc nga d nakadepende s asawa n lalaki tas nagabroad si lalaki at nakakita ng makakasundo at may trabaho so iyun na lang pipiliin nila kasi less stress at financially stable pa babae na nakita. Iba tlga may trabaho iyung kaya lng na trabahuhin hwag maging palaasa at mataas masyado ambisyon kadalasan kc iyun ang dahilan ng pagkawasak ng buhay at pamilya.
Lesson learn: kahit nakapag asawa kayo ng afam. Magtrabaho parin kayo. Hwag umasa kahit kanino. Para kahit ano man mangyare may makakain kayo. Hwag umasa sa asawa. Marami kayong opportunities para magtrabaho dyan.
korek but im jobless na ngayon na we are married kasi my work bfore is overseas in hongkong,, sya lang nagwowork sa amin and yung sahud nya direct to my bank he decide that i dont need to work kasi ang liit lng ng sahud sa pinas, he wants me to be with him all the time daw since he is just WFH and his boss is his friend.. well, we have different situation maybe when we both decide na magstay in US i will find part time job since mas worth it mag work doon.. also im a super kuripot kind of a person, i dont spend if not needed :D he allows me to buy what i want but i refuse.. lage ko cnasabi im good i already have everything i needed..... thanks for your advice..
Baka nagsawa na sa nakikita nya sa paligid ..at hindi ka din mag effort para makita nya na karapatdapat sya mag spent ng TIME, MONEY And LOVE as well kc alam mo. Pag Foreigner.. Gusto nila pagsilbihan mo sila.. Kaya nga kahit dito ako sa Europe since dalaga pa ako.m I still choose to marry a Filipino.kc atleast pag pinoy.. Kung gusto mo magtamadtamaran.. Matulog buong maghapon..pag not in the mood. Still nkakaintindi..
I just passed by and viewed this vlog. As I see it it is very hard to invest your emotions tapos you are not married yet. I am not judging you pero as a Christian, even if you are not into premarital sex pero you both live in the same place, mahirap talaga yon and you both planned like you are married couple as I see it. I am married to a foreigner also, just newly married but when he came here in the Philippines, we did not stay together. I mean nagsama lang kami ng makasal na kami. When we were still applying for our marriage license, di kami nagsama sa isang bubong. I visited him sa tinuluyan niya tapos uuwi ako sa amin kinagabihan. We both agreed as Christians na magsama lang kami pag kasal na. Kasi mahirap sa ganoong sitwasyon na magkasama kayo at di pa kasal dahil ang tentasyon is always there kahit sabihin mong mga Christians kasi kami. I know you are still young, makakahanap ka pa ng kaedad mo. Don't settle for less. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Ask God's grace na sa susunod yon talagang will mo na Lord. Pag will ni Lord, you won't be stressed out. God bless you! 🙏🏼✨💖
Hndi talaga lahat makukuha natin pero kaya mo yan kabayan may awa ang Diyos pray ka lang hindi ka pababayaan ni God laging may paraan si God para sa mga taong nahihirapan.. God Bless kabayan!❤❤❤
Huwag ka nang umasa mabuti nalang wala pa kayong anak alam mona ang ugali niya wala siyang plano para sa inyong dalawa bata ka pa go. Hanap ka ng iba na compatible kayo may nagbigay buhay at nagmamahal sa iyo❤
Be strong💪 ako nga hiwalayan ko asawa ko 2 anak namin nag file ako devorce dito sa Europe Wala ako work walang pera nag apply ako work sobrang hirap walang kamag anak na hingian ng tulong or friends Dios lng ang hugutan ko ng lakas ng loob finally my stable work na ako🙏
Ur still young, beautiful & whole life ahead of u. Life is short so don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t feel lucky to have u. One day u will look back & thank ur lucky stars. Don’t hold on to people that’s not 100% sure . Be independent & u can be proud of your own achievement. C’est la vie. I wish u all the best for the future.
Move on na Dai.Dont waste your time with that kind of relationship.Your young,& a lot of beautiful things waiting for you.Dont wait for the worse things to happen. 😊
Let it go dzai. Kung dili namo happy let it go. Don't stay just because of security or unsa imohang makuha. Pag save ug imohang money. Naa pay maabot nga mas nindot. Ayaw ipilit ang dili najud. Don't hold on to something thats no longer yours. You don't have the hearts to love him, he doesn't have the hearts to love you. Someone else better will come along.
Pray to God . Hindi sa LAHAT ng Oras smooth ang relationship ... May up side down .. sabi nga nila kung gusto nyo mg stick to one together .. dapat isa ang mgpakumbaba .. sa relasyon lagging opposite ... Kmi din dumaan sa pagsubok but I surrender to God ngaun happy together 9yrs
Mabuti dto ka sa Pinas, paano na kung sa ibang bansa ka, mas mahirap, give it up at least nalaman ng maaga ang ugali niya, Blessing na yan maaga mo nalaman ang ugali niya
Ngayon lang ako napadpad sa channel nyo ka inday pero kung ganyan ang sitwasyon eh tanggapin mo na lang at ganyan ang buhay umiikot lang may masaya at may malungkot. Pero tandaan mo na maraming bukas pang darating. God is love, pray lang
Move on and love yourself value yourself, start to have a vacation with your families or friends, as early as good to unburden yourself. You deserve love more than anything..
Pack your things and move on. Mas okay na maaga pa lang nalaman mo na. Yes masakit at mahirap tangapin. I've been there before. I thank God help me to heal my heart. Now I'm already married to a foreigner that loves me more than i do. Kaya stay positive lang sis. Kaya mo po yan. You still young and beautiful.
mahirap din mag Asawa ng afam.swertehan lang din .marami din naman mnga Pinay nakapag Asawa ng afam na sinuwerte at nakatira na ngayon sa america.minalas ka lang jn sa afam buti dito ka pa rin sa pinas eh paano na lang kung nasa america ka at ganyan ang ugali niya.much better umuwi ka na sa probinsya mo marami pang pagkakataon darating sa iyong buhay..pursue mo yun real state career.move on di dapat panghinayagannyan ganyang klaseng nilalang higit sa lahat put god in the center of your life you will see you have ease the pain..keep on praying ok?
Ako din may asawa na foreigner abroad din ako nag tigil dahil nsg pakasal ksmi sa awa ng mahal ns panginoon di kami mayaman pero walsng lukuhan tiis tiis lang companionship wala nsman kaming anak sya din nag hahawak ng pera nya binibigyan Lang ako ng allowance para sa sarili ko budget lshat sya contento na din ako at masaya .. ksys mo yan te.
Naku inday, sayang ang luha mo, di mo sya deserve, ayusin mo ang buhay mo na di umaasa sa iba, wag mong sayangin ang kabataan mo, May mas magandang plano si Lord sa yo!wag mo ng ipilit ang sarili mo sa kanya, marami pang magandang pangyayari sa buhay mo!Trust the Lord!
You know kapated, kung anong plan nya just follow it, mas maganda naman nasa probensya nyo ikaw habang wala sya, wag mo sya palagi ipupushed ng mga tanong mo lalo gugulo ang isip nya. Let it flow, kung talagang babalik an ka nya babalik sya, ganyan sa relasyon..........Wag ka palaging negative just pray, dahil lahat ng nangyayari sa bawat tao ay will ni God....
Find yourself as your best friend. Your awareness about your relationship with him is something that you need to free yourself from being tied up with him. Go without him instead, find time with your family and friends for bonding with laughter and crying with them and by then, you will realize that you've finally got your peace as single and most ready to mingle to somebody you can call, "soulmate". ☺️ That right man will come to you at the right time and place 🙏❤️
Napakabata ka pa Inday.wag mo ipilit ang sarili mo kung ayaw ka na nya.hes not worth it for you.may makiala ka ng mas nabuti kesa sa kanya. Maghanap ka ng trabaho mo para malibang ka. Pray lagi gagabayan ka ni Lord
Wag k n manghinayang n mhiwalay k s kanya.maganda k nmn.isipin sarili mo at mgwork k.mhirap tlg mkrelasyon tg ibang bansa.sigurado my nkita n yan iba.laban lang
Don’t worry. Be strong to face reality. You do not need that person in your life. Things will work out. You will feel degraded and lose your dignity as a person if you will let him treat you like trash. You Need to move on.Get on with your life. Without him. Don’t let him lay his hands on you or abuse you. Start saving money on your own. Like a business. Don’t depend on him financially. Separate your money from him. Baka Perahan Ka pa niyan. Whose name is in the condo title? Both your names? Or just his?
Found this video by accident 😢 i realize napaka swerte ko pala sa afam ko thank you lord...ako lng talaga ang hnd makontente kase i still want a party life mali pala... goin 9yrs na kami ng fiance ko ,,, hnd ako marunong magluto sya pa nagluluto for me ... sunud lanat ng luho ko ang ayaw lng nya mag iinom ako kasama old frinds ko and uuwi ako ng lasing na lasing 😂😂😂tama pala ang afam ko wala nako makikita na katulad nya napaka alaga saken may yaya pa kami as in wala ko ginagawa sa bahay ....
Dai if he told u that u are not compatible each other its time for u to move on ...huwag mong ipilit ang sarili mo sa kanya ....time to say goodbye mas maige nga yan dahil nakilala nyo the true feeling nyo sa bawat isa atleast naging honest sya syo he tell you what he realy feel about you...its hurt but you have to move on ...let him go....dont waste ur time....
Inday the brother is a player. I’ve been with the brothers for long time when I was in the service and most of them are Casanova’s. They act cooool bro!😂 I bet you he got a lot wives and kids here in the states. He looks familiar to me.
We are married for 18 years with 3 kids. My advice is dont lose hope and be positive. I work 2 jobs 10 to 12 hours a day 5 days a week. Work if you can and be independent. You will feel better. Be strong woman and i wish you good life and happiness.
Tayong mga babae,huwag na wag natin hahayaan na tapakan ng kahit sinong lalaki ang pagkatao natin ,dapat matuto sila rumispeto sa babae,galing sila sa tyan ng babae kaya dapat alam nila rumispeto sa babae,hanapin nyo yun lalaki na magalang talaga,kahit hindi ma pera basta meron respeto sapat na yun,pero kung ang lalaki na pangit na nga pangit pa ugali 😂naku wag mo iiyakan ,hindi mo deserve ang ganyan.ang dami na sa forest katulad ng ganyan 😂 don sya sa forest sa ka uri nya😂✌️iwanan mo na yan,maryusep sayang ang beauty mo dyan,stress lang kaya nya ibigay,wag kayo kukuha ng lalaki na gagawin lang kayong parausan at taga ligpit ng kalat nila,hindi kayo katulong sa bahay,.kaya huwag mo iyakan yan,sayo mis Ganda sa halip na umiyak ka mag isip ka ng paraan kung ano ang maganda para umayos ang buhay mo,total hindi pa naman kayo kasal,ngayon palang stop mo na yan,meron mas makaka buti na tao na deserve mo,wag ganyang tao,juskoporudy, maawa ka sa sarili mo,positive ka l ang💪
That’s why it’s important to be secure before you settle and don’t rely to those people who think that you are only after their money. Who needs that kind of person if he is not really serious on your relationship 😌. Don’t deserve to stay with him, and waste your tears for him. Start a new life and move on . You can do it, the right guy will come . Focus on yourself ! It’s hard to live in the Philippines but I guess if you are committed to what you want to do ,you’ll be successful😉and finish your goal in a short time . Your life isn’t going to stop for him , lots of opportunities out theren😊.GOD is with you always.❤️
Laban lang kabayan be strong 💪 God bless you ❤ Maka hanap kapa Inday ka gwapa nimo bata kapa basin dili kamo ang tinadhana dai, basin naay nakalaan sa imuha by God Grace❤
This is one good example of another type of a "boy" which is called, a manipulator a.k.a, a user. She stated, when he was in the province, he made sure there were plenty of food in short, he was very giving. Tapos, noong sila na lang sa condo, wala. Ang ibig sabihin niyan is, he was putting on a show. Building his image. A man with true intentions and the love is real, wala ng paligoy ligoy pa. This is to strenghten you and to teach a lesson. This is a major red flag so please, your woman's instinct is now telling you so please listen to it. Huwag ka padadala sa lambing at pumayag na pakasalan tapos dadalin dito sa U.S. kasi, maraming naabuso dito. May mga red flags na, pinilit parin. This will make you stronger. Nothing is worth risking your life for unless it is to save a love one.
There is no perfect relationship talagang darating sa point na mawawala ang spark, pagsubok lahat Yan sa relasyon nyo ang panghahawakan mo Lang ay ang love nyo sa isat Isa, timbangin mo ang sarili mo kun Mahal mo talaga sya at kun nararamdaman mo paring na Mahal kp rin nya ilaban mo. Wag Kang mahiyang sabihin sa kanya kun anu ang toroong nararamdaman mo at tanungin mo din sya kun Mahal kp nya, kun ang sagot ay oo walang dahilan pra maghiwalay. Magdasal ka ganun din sya and for sure malalagpasan nyo Yan. Laban Lang girl.
Pag nag Asawa ka Ng Afam, kylangan handa ka dapat matibay yong dibdib mo. Ganun tlga Sila dahil iba Ang nature nila. Kung kasal ka sa kanya tiis2x lng at magwawagi Karin. Pero kung hind at tingin mo Hindi nadin magwowork yong relasyon nyo, bakit kapa nagtitiis. Kaya mo Yan dahil Hindi ka nag iisa na nakaranas Ng ganyan. Nasasayo Ang desisyon. Ingat nLNg girl❤❤❤❤❤
Bata ka pa naman, madami pang opportunity na darating sa'yo. Mahalin mo din ang sarili mo, para di ka masktan kung mawala man sya. Accept the reality of life. Magpray ka para iguide ka ni God sa right path atvmga dapat mong gawin.. Huwag kang umiyak at kaawaan ang sarili mo. Isipin mo, ilang milyon ang lalaki sa mundo at ang isa doon ay ang tamang tao na nakalaan sa'yo.. Cheer up..
Don’t waste your time with him. You are still young. Action speaks louder than words. Wake up. I know it hurts but time heals. Move forward. God bless
Agree.
Madaming nag sasabi na iprivate mo yung problem mo pero for me may mga idea akong nakuha sa story mo which is good. Thanks for being open pretty. Bata ka pa marami pang mangyayari sa buhay mo atleast sa bawat failures may learning tayo sa buhay at makakatulong yan to improve yourself. Laban inday.❤
Masakit talaga pag naghiwalay kayo ng taong mahal mo, Pero blessing in disguise yan kasi may makikilala kang taong mas Mahal na mahal ka at di ka iiwan.
Umuwi ka sa inyo at doon ka mag move on. Wag kanang mahpumilit pa sa wala ng hahatungan. Buhay mo asikasuhin mo at wag mong problemahin ang kanya. Magkanya-kanya na kayo para matahimik na isip mo. Doon ka magsimula at makikita mo kapayapaan ng isip at damdamin. Tigilsn na emote-emote. Hanap ka trabaho kahit magpakatulong ka. Ipunin sweldo mo tutal libre kain ka naman. Pag may kaptal na kahit simpling negosyo simulan na at magtyaga, magtipid makikita mo unti-unti aadenso ka.
Oo nga Inday uli kana sa inyo.yung sasakyan mo ibinta mo
Avoid social media. Your issues with him should be private and Crying is NOT the solution, but PRAYER, it is very POWERFUL.
A lot of them now does know what privacy is very important especially if your married. We have to respect our privacy because social media can ruin ur relationship. You are the only one can solve your own issue not the social media. Mostly foreigners they want privacy.
Haha umiiyak pa sa harap ng camera kaloka...ang dami ng gusto maging artista nowadays!!
Gusto ng financial support para mkabili ng pagkain walang laman ang ref😅😅😅 family prblm gawing content kaloka@@everythingtoknow5381
Padamihin Ang views para makatulong sa kanya Yan lang Ang inaashan nya RUclips kita.
Yes dapat problema ng mag Asawa is private lang. Minsan may tampuhan kami never ko peno post Asawa ko f Galit Ako kagi maraming marites. Naka abang sa issues
You have to let go and move on. Wag pilitin ang sarili sa taong ayaw na. Be practical
May nakilala yan ma'am na iba kaya ganun na lang biglang lumamig. It's not the end of the world , stay strong and be prayerful , sooner or later you will realize that God has a better plans than your own planned.
Inday Badiday mag trabaho ka huwag kang umasa sa foreigner to support you..Ang baba ng tingin sa atın ng mga foreigners kasi they thought pumatol tayo sa kanila to get thier support..Ita-as natin ang ating Filipina Pride.Be strong Inday maghanap ka ng trabaho don’t be a slave to thier dollars..
Oi hindi nman lhat maba2 ang tingin noh! Siguro sa mga name2ra lng tlgA at palaasa Pati buong pamilya iasa sa afam! PRO sa Katulad nming professional nku hindi kmi takot mwala cla! Mr q pag naga2lit aq sinasabi q maghiwalay n kmi umiiyak!😂
Korek
Just move on don't wallow in self pity ,work continue your career ,love yourself
Yes true need din tayo mag work para hindi masupalpal..at hindi tayo takot Iwan..just saying ❤
Kaya ang anak ko kaht nagkabf ng afam aba katwiran nya sa sarili nya ayaw kong susumbatan ako balang araw kaya d sya nagttamggap ng kung anu ano ag d sya naasa na lahat ipaako ang gastus kapag nalabas sila.sorry kanlng kung ang turing syo mutsasa ganyn nmn sila kaso eala kayo kadala dala
Be thankful na nangyari jan sa Pinas kung saan may family kang uuwian, kung sa US nangyari mahirapan ka lalo na kung walang tutulong sayo. Don’t lose hope, I’m sure God is saving you for someone better. Keep going and pray for guidance and strength. Take care!
The best comment of all
Move on girl don’t waste your time for him your beautiful and young you can still find the right guy to love you unconditionally
Your pretty and young move on❤❤❤
Sa umpisa lang Yan, mahirap at masakit. Makakarecover ka rin. Huag na huag mong ihabol Ang sarili mo. Buti nga Wala pa kayong Anak. Stay strong not just physically but emotionally, mentally and spiritually as well.
Take care and God bless 🙏
Your still young ,you can find another man that will love you unconditionally..set him free and go on with your life..maybe in the future the right man will come ,just trust God in his perfect time😊😊😊
Absolutely correct
Move on
God has a better plan for you!
Mr. Right that you deserve will be on the way- just keep on praying
Good luck
Look-like ka ni Judy ann Santos. Ganda mo, you deserve better than him. Move on...
Kapag ayaw sayo, huwag mo ipagpilitan ang sarili mo! Huwag ka magmahal ng hindi ka binibigyan ng pagmamahal.. Mag-isa ka. Mas maganda!
Tama mahirap yang afam mo
ekwvafam humanda pinagsasawaan mo na boring ka na walang awa ..dios na bahala sa eyo carma ka.
Im married to black american for almost 20 years but i never ask for anything kusa siyang nagbibigay at hindi ako nagresign sa work ko, hindi ako umasa sa kanya. Maayos ang relasyon namin awa ng Diyos. Advice ko sa mga kabayan ko, huwag na huwag kayong umasa lang sa asawa niyo magtrabaho or magnegosyo kayo para may sarili kayong pera.
I am married to Af-Am too, i can relate to your statement. i don't ask but he gives. thank God he is kind, and
a good provider.
Dios ko kong ganun ka pangit asawa mo 😅dina makita pag gabi hayst walang kilig po hahaha sorry pero di siya kawalan buhay
True mahirap pag naasa klng sa llki,tas lalo pag nakakaalam buong sambayanan nakkahiya din😂😂
Daming babae ang afam d sila makuntinto sa isang babae
Depende naman sa asawa. Asawa ko Scottish, been married for 36 years with 4 children never I worked since we are together. We had lived in 4 continents because of his job. We are still happily married and we are now empty nesters as are children are all adult and professional. Kaya depende sa lalaki. I am 4 years older than him.
May afam din Ako pero never akong matakot makipaghiwalay dahil I know how to find money...relate ko rin na hinde Sila talaga faithful Sayo so need talaga be strong wag ma inlove at maniwala sa tamis nilang dila..
Ayaw ng ayaw nila yung mga tao na lage naka depende sa kanila. It's really important that women have their own source of income.
Tama po kau dahil alam kc nila pag pinoy poor kailangan jan may sarili ka pera kc yung kaibigan ko may sarili cya pera ayaw nila nga ganon isipin ng afam nga foor cya
Tama ka ayaw nila na umaasa kalang sa kanila especially umaasa lang sayo ang pamilya mo ayaw nila nang ganya kasi sanay sila sa kultura nila na napaka independent nila
This is a big 'AGREE'
Totoo yan
Hindi totoo yan. Husband ko foreigner din. Ayaw niya ako mag trabaho. So lahat ng kailangan ko sinosoportahan niya ako. Never siya nag kwenta ng pera sa akin Nag open ng Account para sa akin. Mga foreigners ay mga responsable sila. Naka focus lang sila sa family nila.
In my points of view lang miss ha.. baka gusto ng afam mo na most of ur time para sa kanya.. baka ayaw nya lagi ka nakahawak ng celphone.. galing pa Kasi xa sa US tas dito sa pinas sana for his relaxation. Kaso lagi ka naka celphone. Dapat magsaya Kay. Bonding time. Ayaw ka lang seguro nya pagsabihan about sa pag celphone mo lagi.. dapat quality time being with him ka sana. Huwag celphone ng celphone😊
True ayaw nila yan yung palagi hawak mo cellphone haha
Baka cguro kinu kumusta nya Ang X nya kaya Puro Celpon😂
Tumpak,,,, Ang mga lalaki,,,, ayaw na ayaw Yung puro nalang celpon hawak ng partner,,,, psychological effect,
He pressume di i cya importante ..😅😅😅
Baka hindi ka marunong mag alaga sa asawa mo dapat maasikaso ka sa asawa mo bk may katamaran ka at puro puro pera ka na lang malay mo sinubukan ka lang sa pag loloan loan, baka dika marunong mag hawak ng pera. Gusto ng mga afam maasikaso ka sa kanya. Dapat maging malambing ka. Baka may nakita sya sayo na hindi nya na gustuhan.
If there's no way that the two of you has the love and care for each other . Perhaps it's better to just break up and move on . Say good bye and the rest will become a lesson to learn for both of you . Remember everything happens for a reason . It's not too late for you to have another chance to find the Mr . Right who is really meant for you .
Jusko ate gurl ang bata mo pa bkit ka magtitiis sa gurang na wala naman na pagmamahal let it go dai move on na hanapin mo sarili mo umuwi kana sa pamilya mo you're young mkkhanap kapa ng mas deserving at very responsible man let him go.. Wag mo na antayin na paalisin ka sa tirahan nyo ikaw na mismo ang kusang umalis wag mo masyado ibaba ang diknidad mo sa isang lalake katulad ng asawa mo from the first place matanda na yan gurl ang ganda mo wag mo sayangin. Magtrabho ka if you want to full fill your goal and dream.
Bayot guro
Mhirap din karelasyon afam...swerte nlng ung nktagpo ng stable minded..ok lng yn at least as early lumabas real attitude nya..let him go..mgnda ka At bta kpa
@@arries3995yess agree d lahat Ng afam maalwan meron din na hindi
Sa tingin ko nga baka bading.
😂😂😂
wag kang matakot na ibalik sa bukid....dhl jn tau lumaki at nabuhay...pwera nlng kung mayaman ka ta hindi ka nakaranas magbukid
Kasal kayo?
Naranasan ko to sa asawa ko ang bait bait niya sa Pilipinas pag dating dto sa America wla ako makain wlang grocery sa freezer tas ang meron Lang pasta tas Sabi niya wag na ako mghanap ng wla grabi enabot ko dto tulog nalng walang kain but nlng may kaibigan akong pinay binigyan ako ng begas at ulam..yang mga afam na yan mabait Lang yan pag nasa pinas
You're right! They thought they can control us. But when you're a resilient being, you can stand on your own at di aasa sa kanila.
Nasa pinas po cla nkatira ,sa cebu cla nktira n condo bka mas worst p yan kung jsa 🇺🇸
Nagsawà na yan kc, 18 y/o yan cla independent na, sarili lng nila iniintindi nila. Move on, wag kn mkisama
Mukha kang mabait sis, maganda kapa. Humanap ka ng kapwa mo pinoy yung mamahalain ka ng totoo .
Maganda pinoy kisa banyaga
You’re still young and you can be a productive citizen without depending others . Be wise and keep moving .
Huwag mo na ipilit yung sarili mo sa taong di ka na gusto, you still young and mkakahanap ka pa nang deserving sa love mo.
Yan ang mahirap kasi pabago-bago ang isip ng afam mo sis. Dilikado yan. Dapat ni re search mo yang pagkatao nya para may idea ka at kung bakit ganun ang attitude nya.
Very good inday huwag kang mag tanggap ng pera , wala naman nangyari sa inyo ...oh at least buo pa ang pagkatao mo.. let him go...start a new one inday...laban..umuwi na yan. Hayaan mo kung anong sasabihin ng family mo , ng mga tao...what matter is you....go ahead inday...pray ha... you did your best ...good luck inday... relax ...breath and start...
hi, inday I watch again your old video,
And I can relate your situation.
Anyway, inday buryat and you are not
alone and just continue to do the things that
you really love and I know that God has a better
plan for you..
Thank you so much 🙂
Ako may asawang, afam laking pasalamat ko palagi sa asawa ko kasi, mahal na mahal nya talaga ako na walang kupas 20 years na kaming kasal nag ppasalamat din ako itaas palagi❤❤❤
Good for you ma'am
I met my husband from university, magkaklase at naging friends kami habang nag-aaral kmi ng adult nursing (2017).. To cut the story short, after namin ma-qualified naging kami and got married.. May dalawa na kaming anak ngayon and at sa awa ni God never pa kami nag-away.. I would say, me and my children are very lucky..
Nakapag asawa din ako ng afam my apat kaming anak puro lalaki. Pero humantong din sa hiwalayan, harap harapan akong binababoy pero nag bulagbulagan ako dahil may mga anak kami tiniis ko lahat. Ng bumalik sya sa America hindi na ako naghabol. Nagpapadala sya kung kaylan lang nya gusto hindi ako humihingi. Ang swerte mo pa nga dahil maaga mong nalaman, sa tutuo lang ang hirap magkunwsri. Malampasan mo rin yan dadaan lang yan kaya mo yan.
Inday bata kapa.
Humingi ka ng tulong sa mga pilipino diyan
Wag padadala sa sakit ng damdamin mo.be positive
Afam pa more....huwag kayo umaasa kasi sa afam..mas maganda sipag at tiaga sarili sikap lng sa awa ng dios puno ang ref namin sa pagkain.
❤😢
Afam din husband ko pero I am so blessed because he is very caring,loving and very responsible husband. Just leave it all to God and he will do the rest
Afam din mr ko 30yrs in service...
Walang pera afam mo
Magsumikap ka para sa sarili mo para maging successful ka. You don't need him. Love yourself.
Stay strong! Show him that you are,strong. You are still young, dont waste your time . Get a job and love yourself first.
yes make strong inday, as you said pursue your career you can do it inday
@@BePositive829 Yes, women.power God willing.
Maghanap ka ng trabaho mo anak at huwag pabayaan ang sarili mo.
Korek, don't waste your time , never cry to a person who doesn't value your importance. OMG, he kicked you out , it shouldn't be like that. Kicked him out of our country .
Hello ma'am, this is the first time i watch your vlog. It's so sad that you're in this situation. The thing is your mind is sooo clear , both of you are not really meant for each other . Just give up coz both of you are not happy anymore . Life is so short & you're still young. Focus on yourself, your career. Bear in mind that your happiness doesn't depend on other people . If you keep on relying your happiness to other people, you'll only be disappointed. Go back to your family , look for a job & eventually you'll have a self pride . Cheer up girl. Always use your brain coz feelings are deceitful. Life's experiences will teach you to become stronger & wiser.
Bakit hindi Kaba nya binigyan ng pera lol
Magtrabaho ka. Bata ka pa..x
Alam ko mahirap at masakit yan..be strong..ikaw lang makaka tulong sa sarili mo..it takes time bago mag heal ang sakit ..bata kapa at ang ganda mo...makahanap kapa nang lalaki na mas deserve sa love na binibigay mo..wish ko sana maging matatag kapa lalo..e iyak mo lang para gumaan ang bigat at pray ka kai god..
Ang MGA foriner magsasawa din pag palagi inaasahan SA kpmlya
Dapat magtrbho Ka para maysarili kang Pera, KC ayaw nila Ng ganyan Panay tulong SA kpmlya, Iba ang kultura nila
Ok p.lng Yan SA sa umpisa at Ilan buwan, pagtumagal, tatalikuran knA Nyan
Tama Ka huwagmo ipilit ang sarili mo Kung ayaw na sayo
Just be happy sis
Life must go on
Ingat nlng jan
Kaya mo yan ma'am.
Let him go mas may taong nararapat sa pagmamahal mo. Yes, mahirap maka move on sa taong mahal mo pero andyan si God para gamutin ang sugatan mong puso.
God bless you po
Dapat may blessings ni God yung pagsasama nyo. Wag kang mawalan ng pag asa Inday Buryat. Dadating ang right time para sainyo ni Afam. Kung love nya si God, he will do right thing. Mag focus ka muna sa sailing mo.
I can tell na talagang you loved him. You both tried na mag work ang relationship nyo. It’s easy for us viewers to give you an advise or opinion on what you should and not to do. You are the one in this situation, you got to know him personally. Weigh in on the positives and the negatives which is higher, the positives or the negatives. It will help you make the decision. Ultimately, you will decide, make a wise choice, it’s for your future, you are young, smart and beautiful, so many fish out there iha. I have been married 42 years. My husband(he is an American and I’m a Filipina) and I tell our children, when they are having a relationship issues, na timbangin ang negatives and positives, is it worth saving the relationship or let go. Basta nag try kayo, kung na reached nyo na ang end, then let go na. Kung ngayon at hindi pa kayo kasal, ilan beses ka ng umiyak, what more pa kung kasal na kayo. Gusto mu pa bang pa kasal kung ganyan, parang Yo-yo ang relationship nyo, up and down and up and down. Think it through iha. Seek Gods guidance.
kasi porke afam marami ng pera yun ang pagka alam ng ibang filipina hmm
sana palagi kang handa importante may pera ka lagi para kong may mangyari sa inyo meron kang savings at pera at ipagpatuloy mo yong blog mo para sa kinabukasan mo move on lang bess good luck sa yo god bless you always
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sinabi na nya sa iyo iuwi ka na kong saan ka nanggaling, mas mabuti yan humiwalay ka na sa kanya habang maaga pa kc Kong ipilit mo makisama sa kanya 100% masasktan ka lang at iiyak ka lang hanggang sa pagtolog mo.😢
Paying kapatid,kung ako sayo thats it, huwag ka ng bumalik maging friends na lang kayo,kasi tandaan mo kapatid ,ang ugali ay ugali, at patuloy kang manalangin kasi nakikita ni Lord ang pinagdadaanan mo, kaya bago ka pa magsisi,mabuti pang nagiisa ka na lang kaysa laging may kaba ang puso,at isa pa kapatid ,may makita lang yan na hindi nya magustuhan,umpisa uli yan ng kalbaryo mo ! Kaya bata ka pa,magisip ka at oaging makipag- usap sa Dios nakikita Niya ang paghihirap mo, Godbless !
Ganyan ang black american marami ng naghiwalay may mga anak pa iwanan ka lang at walang suporta .
First thing you have to do is to look for a place to stay. Gather your thoughts and strength to move on. Mas maigi na masakit now kaysa magka anak ka pa. Be strong, be safe and be happy.
He',s already old enough to raise a family. Why make urself miserable.
I think you should let him go, I know it's not easy. but, I think what he's doing to you is emotional abuse. Stress is not good for anyone. Take care of yourself first. Good luck and may God bless you.
Don't waste you're time,at nakapag aral ka naman...God bless you 🙏
It’s really important that we have our own money and job. Been married to my foreign husband for 20 years. I never rely on him pagdating sa money dahil karamihan sa kanila independent hindi sila sanay na umaasa tayo sa kanila. Be strong and never chase a man!
wun kano manang
Magtarbaho ka day . Wag paratinga mag blog di ka makakain nyan oiiii. Ayyyy nako
Kapag wlang pera walang spark talaga
@@nometacabrera875 tama. Dami ko kakilala at kabatch na nahiwalay kc nga d nakadepende s asawa n lalaki tas nagabroad si lalaki at nakakita ng makakasundo at may trabaho so iyun na lang pipiliin nila kasi less stress at financially stable pa babae na nakita. Iba tlga may trabaho iyung kaya lng na trabahuhin hwag maging palaasa at mataas masyado ambisyon kadalasan kc iyun ang dahilan ng pagkawasak ng buhay at pamilya.
Lesson learn: kahit nakapag asawa kayo ng afam. Magtrabaho parin kayo. Hwag umasa kahit kanino. Para kahit ano man mangyare may makakain kayo. Hwag umasa sa asawa. Marami kayong opportunities para magtrabaho dyan.
Tama po kayo hinde maganda iaasa mo sa kanya salamat Nalang sa dyos ang asawa ko hinde ganyan sya pa nagkukusa syang bumili ng pagkain kong pinoy
korek but im jobless na ngayon na we are married kasi my work bfore is overseas in hongkong,, sya lang nagwowork sa amin and yung sahud nya direct to my bank he decide that i dont need to work kasi ang liit lng ng sahud sa pinas, he wants me to be with him all the time daw since he is just WFH and his boss is his friend.. well, we have different situation maybe when we both decide na magstay in US i will find part time job since mas worth it mag work doon.. also im a super kuripot kind of a person, i dont spend if not needed :D he allows me to buy what i want but i refuse.. lage ko cnasabi im good i already have everything i needed..... thanks for your advice..
Seguro nakakita na ng iba..
May anak ba kayong dalawa inday?
Baka nagsawa na sa nakikita nya sa paligid ..at hindi ka din mag effort para makita nya na karapatdapat sya mag spent ng TIME, MONEY And LOVE as well kc alam mo. Pag Foreigner.. Gusto nila pagsilbihan mo sila..
Kaya nga kahit dito ako sa Europe since dalaga pa ako.m I still choose to marry a Filipino.kc atleast pag pinoy.. Kung gusto mo magtamadtamaran.. Matulog buong maghapon..pag not in the mood. Still nkakaintindi..
I just passed by and viewed this vlog. As I see it it is very hard to invest your emotions tapos you are not married yet. I am not judging you pero as a Christian, even if you are not into premarital sex pero you both live in the same place, mahirap talaga yon and you both planned like you are married couple as I see it. I am married to a foreigner also, just newly married but when he came here in the Philippines, we did not stay together. I mean nagsama lang kami ng makasal na kami. When we were still applying for our marriage license, di kami nagsama sa isang bubong. I visited him sa tinuluyan niya tapos uuwi ako sa amin kinagabihan. We both agreed as Christians na magsama lang kami pag kasal na. Kasi mahirap sa ganoong sitwasyon na magkasama kayo at di pa kasal dahil ang tentasyon is always there kahit sabihin mong mga Christians kasi kami. I know you are still young, makakahanap ka pa ng kaedad mo. Don't settle for less. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Ask God's grace na sa susunod yon talagang will mo na Lord. Pag will ni Lord, you won't be stressed out. God bless you! 🙏🏼✨💖
Hndi talaga lahat makukuha natin pero kaya mo yan kabayan may awa ang Diyos pray ka lang hindi ka pababayaan ni God laging may paraan si God para sa mga taong nahihirapan.. God Bless kabayan!❤❤❤
Huwag ka nang umasa mabuti nalang wala pa kayong anak alam mona ang ugali niya wala siyang plano para sa inyong dalawa bata ka pa go. Hanap ka ng iba na compatible kayo may nagbigay buhay at nagmamahal sa iyo❤
Be strong💪 ako nga hiwalayan ko asawa ko 2 anak namin nag file ako devorce dito sa Europe Wala ako work walang pera nag apply ako work sobrang hirap walang kamag anak na hingian ng tulong or friends Dios lng ang hugutan ko ng lakas ng loob finally my stable work na ako🙏
Maggtrabaho ka kasi.
Kung magasawa ka ng puti magtrabaho ka huwag mong iasa ang buhay mo sa kanila.
Saan po kayo dito sa Europe?
@@olgacabusao1202 Norway 🇳🇴
@@josefinabalolong1729 ako ba sinabihan mo mag Work?eh may may work na ako😂 may regular work ako😁
Ur still young, beautiful & whole life ahead of u. Life is short so don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t feel lucky to have u. One day u will look back & thank ur lucky stars. Don’t hold on to people that’s not 100% sure . Be independent & u can be proud of your own achievement. C’est la vie. I wish u all the best for the future.
'wag magtiwala sa mga pangako,
Kc mahirap kung s kanya k lng aasa
mas.maganda p din may sariling pera, at mabibili mo ung gusto mo...
Move on na Dai.Dont waste your time with that kind of relationship.Your young,& a lot of beautiful things waiting for you.Dont wait for the worse things to happen. 😊
Baka may iba na sya kaya ganyan sya .kaya mo Yan be strong ❤
Let it go dzai. Kung dili namo happy let it go. Don't stay just because of security or unsa imohang makuha. Pag save ug imohang money. Naa pay maabot nga mas nindot. Ayaw ipilit ang dili najud. Don't hold on to something thats no longer yours. You don't have the hearts to love him, he doesn't have the hearts to love you. Someone else better will come along.
Pray to God . Hindi sa LAHAT ng Oras smooth ang relationship ... May up side down .. sabi nga nila kung gusto nyo mg stick to one together .. dapat isa ang mgpakumbaba .. sa relasyon lagging opposite ... Kmi din dumaan sa pagsubok but I surrender to God ngaun happy together 9yrs
swertehan lang yan sa mga asawang afam, may mga afam na totoo at marami din na pleasure lang ang hanap.
Mabuti dto ka sa Pinas, paano na kung sa ibang bansa ka, mas mahirap, give it up at least nalaman ng maaga ang ugali niya, Blessing na yan maaga mo nalaman ang ugali niya
Just keep vlogging, we can support you by watching your videos. Better move on Himalayan mo na
Thank you 🙌
@@Heart_Academianaku ate gurl, ang Chaka Chaka nia gurang pa. Tas Ikaw ang bata mo pa. Makakamove on ka agad jan. Take care and keep safe.
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Ngayon lang ako napadpad sa channel nyo ka inday pero kung ganyan ang sitwasyon eh tanggapin mo na lang at ganyan ang buhay umiikot lang may masaya at may malungkot. Pero tandaan mo na maraming bukas pang darating. God is love, pray lang
maraming salamat po mam
Am here from US, I can tell you, Hindi na sya babalik. Sau ba ok Lang na Hindi ka nya papakasalan.
you;re still young .. reach for your goal.. everything is temporarily setback, life is an obstacle... just move forward!
Bakit ganun. Alam muna ang attitude na mgutom ka nyan pero pilit mo parin pinag siksikan sarili mo kahit nakita mo ng red flag nyan
Tama
Mag work ka na lng ate at iwan mo na sya
Let gooo Kung dina kayo both happy kesa naman nagsasama kayo na malamig na relasyon nyo
Move on and love yourself value yourself, start to have a vacation with your families or friends, as early as good to unburden yourself. You deserve love more than anything..
Let it go, know that if someone truly loves somebody he or she will not turn his back. You deserve way more than what youre getting now.
Mahirap talaga ang ganyang sitwayon sis pero laban lang sa buhay derating din ang tamang tao para sau sa tamang panahon ❤❤
Be strong just move on nalang sis kaya mo yan 😊God bless you 👍 😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are not meant of each other. Hiwalayan mo na. Bakit mag titiis ka pa. Habang wala pa kayong anak.
Pack your things and move on. Mas okay na maaga pa lang nalaman mo na. Yes masakit at mahirap tangapin. I've been there before. I thank God help me to heal my heart. Now I'm already married to a foreigner that loves me more than i do. Kaya stay positive lang sis. Kaya mo po yan. You still young and beautiful.
mahirap din mag Asawa ng afam.swertehan lang din .marami din naman mnga Pinay nakapag Asawa ng afam na sinuwerte at nakatira na ngayon sa america.minalas ka lang jn sa afam buti dito ka pa rin sa pinas eh paano na lang kung nasa america ka at ganyan ang ugali niya.much better umuwi ka na sa probinsya mo marami pang pagkakataon darating sa iyong buhay..pursue mo yun real state career.move on di dapat panghinayagannyan ganyang klaseng nilalang higit sa lahat put god in the center of your life you will see you have ease the pain..keep on praying ok?
Ako din may asawa na foreigner abroad din ako nag tigil dahil nsg pakasal ksmi sa awa ng mahal ns panginoon di kami mayaman pero walsng lukuhan tiis tiis lang companionship wala nsman kaming anak sya din nag hahawak ng pera nya binibigyan Lang ako ng allowance para sa sarili ko budget lshat sya contento na din ako at masaya .. ksys mo yan te.
Tama magwork ka rin kasi. Bata ka pa marami ka puede makuha work. Do not depend to somebody else.
Naku inday, sayang ang luha mo, di mo sya deserve, ayusin mo ang buhay mo na di umaasa sa iba, wag mong sayangin ang kabataan mo, May mas magandang plano si Lord sa yo!wag mo ng ipilit ang sarili mo sa kanya, marami pang magandang pangyayari sa buhay mo!Trust the Lord!
Laban lng Ms. Inday , everything's gonna be okay maybe not now But in time it will be 😊💚
YES AGREE laban lang inday were here to support you in your journey
You know kapated, kung anong plan nya just follow it, mas maganda naman nasa probensya nyo ikaw habang wala sya, wag mo sya palagi ipupushed ng mga tanong mo lalo gugulo ang isip nya. Let it flow, kung talagang babalik an ka nya babalik sya, ganyan sa relasyon..........Wag ka palaging negative just pray, dahil lahat ng nangyayari sa bawat tao ay will ni God....
So lucky ko sa asawa ko never akong nagkaroon ng ganitong isyu..Sana maging okay ka Sissy
Let ot go girl, someone waiting even better than him young and handsome
Find yourself as your best friend. Your awareness about your relationship with him is something that you need to free yourself from being tied up with him. Go without him instead, find time with your family and friends for bonding with laughter and crying with them and by then, you will realize that you've finally got your peace as single and most ready to mingle to somebody you can call, "soulmate". ☺️ That right man will come to you at the right time and place 🙏❤️
Afam pa more
Afam pa mor😢😢😢
It's hard being in a long engagement. But maybe need to have a conversation about the commitment so can move to the next step whatever way it is.
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Ang cute mo Gah,don't lose hope!👍❤
Napakabata ka pa Inday.wag mo ipilit ang sarili mo kung ayaw ka na nya.hes not worth it for you.may makiala ka ng mas nabuti kesa sa kanya.
Maghanap ka ng trabaho mo para malibang ka.
Pray lagi gagabayan ka ni Lord
Wag k n manghinayang n mhiwalay k s kanya.maganda k nmn.isipin sarili mo at mgwork k.mhirap tlg mkrelasyon tg ibang bansa.sigurado my nkita n yan iba.laban lang
Let go. You are still young. It hurts but time heals.
Don’t worry. Be strong to face reality. You do not need that person in your life. Things will work out. You will feel degraded and lose your dignity as a person if you will let him treat you like trash. You Need to move on.Get on with your life. Without him.
Don’t let him lay his hands on you or abuse you. Start saving money on your own. Like a business. Don’t depend on him financially. Separate your money from him. Baka Perahan Ka pa niyan. Whose name is in the condo title? Both your names? Or just his?
Let it go, may talagang tao na ganyan . Move on po ate and Love yourself po .
Found this video by accident 😢 i realize napaka swerte ko pala sa afam ko thank you lord...ako lng talaga ang hnd makontente kase i still want a party life mali pala... goin 9yrs na kami ng fiance ko ,,, hnd ako marunong magluto sya pa nagluluto for me ... sunud lanat ng luho ko ang ayaw lng nya mag iinom ako kasama old frinds ko and uuwi ako ng lasing na lasing 😂😂😂tama pala ang afam ko wala nako makikita na katulad nya napaka alaga saken may yaya pa kami as in wala ko ginagawa sa bahay ....
Hello sis, first time watching your video. Hoping that you'll stay strong and put everything to God.🙏
Kaya mo yan bata ka pa. Cguro nman independent ka, hanap ka ng source of income mo, mag negosyo ka.
Kung mahal nyo isat isa trust at respect.
Always pray 🙏 indai be strong then continue Vlog by helping ❤
Dai if he told u that u are not compatible each other its time for u to move on ...huwag mong ipilit ang sarili mo sa kanya ....time to say goodbye mas maige nga yan dahil nakilala nyo the true feeling nyo sa bawat isa atleast naging honest sya syo he tell you what he realy feel about you...its hurt but you have to move on ...let him go....dont waste ur time....
My heart goes out to you both. I sincerely hope that you find your way back to each other one but this time for all the right reasons 😢❤
Wag lang mawalan ng pag Asa bata kapa marami pang darating sa buhay mo.
Inday the brother is a player. I’ve been with the brothers for long time when I was in the service and most of them are Casanova’s. They act cooool bro!😂 I bet you he got a lot wives and kids here in the states. He looks familiar to me.
We are married for 18 years with 3 kids. My advice is dont lose hope and be positive. I work 2 jobs 10 to 12 hours a day 5 days a week. Work if you can and be independent. You will feel better. Be strong woman and i wish you good life and happiness.
Tayong mga babae,huwag na wag natin hahayaan na tapakan ng kahit sinong lalaki ang pagkatao natin ,dapat matuto sila rumispeto sa babae,galing sila sa tyan ng babae kaya dapat alam nila rumispeto sa babae,hanapin nyo yun lalaki na magalang talaga,kahit hindi ma pera basta meron respeto sapat na yun,pero kung ang lalaki na pangit na nga pangit pa ugali 😂naku wag mo iiyakan ,hindi mo deserve ang ganyan.ang dami na sa forest katulad ng ganyan 😂 don sya sa forest sa ka uri nya😂✌️iwanan mo na yan,maryusep sayang ang beauty mo dyan,stress lang kaya nya ibigay,wag kayo kukuha ng lalaki na gagawin lang kayong parausan at taga ligpit ng kalat nila,hindi kayo katulong sa bahay,.kaya huwag mo iyakan yan,sayo mis Ganda sa halip na umiyak ka mag isip ka ng paraan kung ano ang maganda para umayos ang buhay mo,total hindi pa naman kayo kasal,ngayon palang stop mo na yan,meron mas makaka buti na tao na deserve mo,wag ganyang tao,juskoporudy,
maawa ka sa sarili mo,positive ka l ang💪
👍👍 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Talagang tatapakan tayo ng lalaki pag tamad tayo, at lalaki lang Ang nag provide. Kailangan may trabaho din tayo.
Hwag kang mag alala dami pang afam.makatagpo kapa ng mabait at marunong magmahal.hwag ipilit ang sarili kanya..
That’s why it’s important to be secure before you settle and don’t rely to those people who think that you are only after their money. Who needs that kind of person if he is not really serious on your relationship 😌. Don’t deserve to stay with him, and waste your tears for him. Start a new life and move on . You can do it, the right guy will come . Focus on yourself ! It’s hard to live in the Philippines but I guess if you are committed to what you want to do ,you’ll be successful😉and finish your goal in a short time . Your life isn’t going to stop for him , lots of opportunities out theren😊.GOD is with you always.❤️
Laban lang kabayan be strong 💪 God bless you ❤ Maka hanap kapa Inday ka gwapa nimo bata kapa basin dili kamo ang tinadhana dai, basin naay nakalaan sa imuha by God Grace❤
This is one good example of another type of a "boy" which is called, a manipulator a.k.a, a user. She stated, when he was in the province, he made sure there were plenty of food in short, he was very giving. Tapos, noong sila na lang sa condo, wala. Ang ibig sabihin niyan is, he was putting on a show. Building his image. A man with true intentions and the love is real, wala ng paligoy ligoy pa. This is to strenghten you and to teach a lesson. This is a major red flag so please, your woman's instinct is now telling you so please listen to it. Huwag ka padadala sa lambing at pumayag na pakasalan tapos dadalin dito sa U.S. kasi, maraming naabuso dito. May mga red flags na, pinilit parin. This will make you stronger. Nothing is worth risking your life for unless it is to save a love one.
Day gamitan lang ang pakipagpartner ng afam. So now u learned a lesson. If ur not married layasan mo sya at isumbong mo yan sa Immigration.
There is no perfect relationship talagang darating sa point na mawawala ang spark, pagsubok lahat Yan sa relasyon nyo ang panghahawakan mo Lang ay ang love nyo sa isat Isa, timbangin mo ang sarili mo kun Mahal mo talaga sya at kun nararamdaman mo paring na Mahal kp rin nya ilaban mo. Wag Kang mahiyang sabihin sa kanya kun anu ang toroong nararamdaman mo at tanungin mo din sya kun Mahal kp nya, kun ang sagot ay oo walang dahilan pra maghiwalay. Magdasal ka ganun din sya and for sure malalagpasan nyo Yan. Laban Lang girl.
Pag nag Asawa ka Ng Afam, kylangan handa ka dapat matibay yong dibdib mo. Ganun tlga Sila dahil iba Ang nature nila. Kung kasal ka sa kanya tiis2x lng at magwawagi Karin. Pero kung hind at tingin mo Hindi nadin magwowork yong relasyon nyo, bakit kapa nagtitiis. Kaya mo Yan dahil Hindi ka nag iisa na nakaranas Ng ganyan. Nasasayo Ang desisyon. Ingat nLNg girl❤❤❤❤❤
BA KAPA, MARAMI KAPANG MAKIKILALA AT I HOPE YOU LEARN FROM THIS AND ABLE TO MOVE ON. GOD BLESS YOU.