How to shake hands properly and look confident

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @JamilaMusayeva
    @JamilaMusayeva  4 месяца назад

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  • @amyethridge1798
    @amyethridge1798 2 года назад +66

    I can’t wait to share this with my 21yr old son. He’s currently looking for an internship and this will be a great refresher for him. 😊👌🏼

    • @smsmsdws
      @smsmsdws 2 года назад +2

      So sweet!

    • @sitbone3
      @sitbone3 Год назад

      what took you so long ?

  • @lovethildah7340
    @lovethildah7340 2 года назад +27

    Her Angelic voice soothes my heart and for a moment I tend to forget what's happening in our world today,, the wars, hatred, scramble for power and all that🥺.
    To be honest it's the reason I subscribed to her Channel, not to mention about the beauty and how she teaches us of things we never knew we needed .
    Thanks darling ❤.
    #prayforUkraine&Russia.🤞

    • @karenpigage2818
      @karenpigage2818 2 года назад

      Same thing I'm thinking. Definitely a breath of fresh air and calming influence.

  • @piku6006
    @piku6006 2 года назад +21

    This is interesting.....My boss once gave me a dead fish handshake while wishing me happy birthday..... it's not that he doesn't know about handshakes it was purposely done to draw a line.....showing that it's just an obligation for him to do so.....small things show so much about a person.

  • @juliachrobok3734
    @juliachrobok3734 2 года назад +126

    Great video! Would you be willing to make a video about handshakes regarding other rules like „who should extend their hand first in different situations” etc.? In my opinion this could be very helpful for people too

    • @Divya_B
      @Divya_B 2 года назад +3

      Yessss

    • @akankshasrivastava7216
      @akankshasrivastava7216 2 года назад

      @@Divya_B yes

    • @grazsts3005
      @grazsts3005 2 года назад +7

      Also when handshake is needed or not needed. Handshake x kiss x no contact? What if the other person doesn't extend their hand.

    • @ditarezkiautami8753
      @ditarezkiautami8753 2 года назад +7

      In another video Jamila has mentioned that generally, let women decide whether they want to go for handshakes or not. I forgot in what video. But I am sure she mentioned this in one of her videos.

    • @bsteven885
      @bsteven885 2 года назад +2

      @@ditarezkiautami8753, yes -- the video with that instruction is called the 10 Most Common Etiquette Mistakes:
      ruclips.net/video/K46XoxenwLM/видео.html

  • @mylifeinthecountryside
    @mylifeinthecountryside 2 года назад +2

    I never really thought I needed a video about hand shaking etiquette until I see this one. Jamila is the best!!!

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 2 года назад +4

    Amazing video! Who loves her outfit 🙌🏽💕 she looks so elegant as always 💕✨

  • @englishsounds6461
    @englishsounds6461 2 года назад +12

    Thanks for making me a civilized human

  • @sophiecutegirl
    @sophiecutegirl 2 года назад +23

    Dear Jamila, this video was very informative and finally explained the etiquette of handshakes. I have, from a young age, had friends in Japan. In Japan a full bow or a head bow accompanied by a wai (hands in prayer position) is a usual greeting either amongst friend or when networking to make new contacts. The deeper the bow and higher the wai depends on the status of the person you are speaking to. My Thai teacher also told me it was a very similar way to greet in Thailand and we always greet each other in such a way at the start and end of each lesson. It is a good enough way to show respect and friendliness. I generally avoid those who prefer to shake hands especially as we are now in a pandemic era. Even so, it is good to see how the etiquette of handshakes works as it may be good to know should I ever need to break my own rule of avoiding handshakes. :-)

  • @CaptBinoyVarakil
    @CaptBinoyVarakil 2 года назад +6

    Wow, very useful and informative 👏👏👏👏 Congratulations. All the best 👍

  • @misssunshine537
    @misssunshine537 2 года назад +5

    Kindly make a smile etiquette video tutorial. Thank you for your wonderful content Ms. Jamila Musayeva.

  • @Carmen0777
    @Carmen0777 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for taking a time and share your knowledge with us @Jamila Musayeva. It is indeed very informative video. I shake a lot of hands after closing a business/sale, I noticed when I give a firm handshake, eye to eye contact and genuine smile people tend to Trust me more. As always you are much appreciated Jamila, please do the second video. Thank you!
    Sending Peace and Blessings, Kahrmen.

  • @SarahEdensOfficial
    @SarahEdensOfficial 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much Jamila! I also read once that you should shake hands with elderly people very gently because many of them have painful arthritis in their hands and even a firm grip can cause pain. Personally, I’m grateful that COVID convinced many people to stop shaking hands altogether: I have small, sensitive hands and always seemed to run into bone crushers 🥺. What I do now when meeting new people is to place my hand over my heart, introduce myself, and do a very slight micro-bow. It works so well, and sometimes people will even mirror that behavior back to me! I feel like people get the first impression that I’m warm, caring and pleased to meet them which was also my goal back pre-COVID when I was still shaking hands. The only thing I dislike more than bone crushers is the fist bumpers, in practice it might be more hygienic than a hand shake, but always feels like a fist bash 🤜

  • @Thebox55
    @Thebox55 2 года назад +4

    I just love the topics that you talk about!!

  • @ContentCrave
    @ContentCrave 2 года назад +15

    I don't where did I learn all those manners but I already knew most of those. Thank you for your exquisite lesson.

  • @leahsomething9741
    @leahsomething9741 2 года назад +6

    Wow, I totally needed this! I had no idea there was so much to a hand shake! Thank you!

  • @juliachrobok3734
    @juliachrobok3734 2 года назад +5

    😍 I’m watching right away ❤️ This is such a good topic

  • @nusrat783
    @nusrat783 2 года назад +3

    Your voice is sooo heavenly 💘

  • @lindacurtis2358
    @lindacurtis2358 2 года назад +5

    Great video! Looking forward to part 2!

  • @jaimeduncan6167
    @jaimeduncan6167 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for sharing your expertise. Yes to more.

  • @akankshasrivastava7216
    @akankshasrivastava7216 2 года назад +5

    Eagerly waiting for the Part-2 of this video.. You explained all kinds of handshakes in great detail.. thank you for such an amazing video .. thank you Jamila .

  • @chrissy107
    @chrissy107 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for the useful tips. I really hope that you make part 2. I'm always timid when doing any kind of handshake so it's nice to know the rules to bring some confidence!

    • @Lili-xq9sn
      @Lili-xq9sn 2 года назад +1

      Me too. I'm the dead fish :/

  • @momoblood
    @momoblood 2 года назад +10

    Oh no! I'm so guilty of looking at my hand when giving a handshake! Thank you, I'll work on that! :')
    Also, I never gave it much thought, but IT IS uncomfortable when people grab you closer during a handshake, specially when the othe person is an older man.

  • @deannapickman4867
    @deannapickman4867 2 года назад +4

    Loved this! Yes, please do the second video

  • @041Val
    @041Val 2 года назад +14

    Hi Jamila, thank you for sharing that with us. Could you please tell me should the women always accept the handshake and how to avoid it, when wanted, decently? I read somewhere that the woman should initiate the handshake, never the man.

  • @avni349
    @avni349 2 года назад

    Hello Jamila, I absolutely admire the way you speak so softly and elegantly. Please make a video on how to speak that way 💜💜

  • @vedikashaw6809
    @vedikashaw6809 2 года назад +7

    Really loved the video and it's content. Please do make a part 2 related to social etiquettes and all.
    😊

  • @knchan5560
    @knchan5560 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for your video. I've learned a lot from you always. Have a good March, Jamila! Love you.

  • @katelynbritton3840
    @katelynbritton3840 2 года назад +16

    I would love to know if there is a proper way to avoid handshakes? I am unable to handshake right now because of a chronic pain reason but I often feel very awkward, and unsure if I should say something or what to do.

  • @everydayshiningyou1141
    @everydayshiningyou1141 2 года назад +4

    It is a small gesture that can change everything to the positive! Etiquette is in the details and you convey that message so marverllously

  • @tanisha6406
    @tanisha6406 2 года назад +2

    You look stunning Jamila❤

  • @shawnnorman3822
    @shawnnorman3822 2 года назад

    This crossed my mind due to coid situation. Thank you so much.

  • @hugopico4912
    @hugopico4912 2 года назад +1

    I would really appreciate if you can make the second video, for me, it's something quite interesting, both in a personally and socially way, how dominance is made in a handshake. I think you can always have a very precise perception of how someone is with a handshake

  • @Belle-yw4gd
    @Belle-yw4gd 2 года назад +3

    Wow👏 very informative and useful video. A great tips for everyone. Very well said. Thank you❤️

  • @preranajoshi2661
    @preranajoshi2661 2 года назад +3

    in india we simply put our hands together to greet other people. the problem of sweaty hands, aggressive pumps and encroaching personal space all are solved with a simple namaste :)

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 года назад +3

      Absolutely. There is beauty in that gesture. Yet, there is also beauty in handshaking.

    • @preranajoshi2661
      @preranajoshi2661 2 года назад

      @@JamilaMusayeva yes, even in india we use handshakes in formal settings

  • @shayroshan3546
    @shayroshan3546 2 года назад

    I would appreciate more Etiquette videos about work place. It's time to get back to office and educate ourselves about the right or wrong would be beneficial.

  • @princessroxyvincenzo2593
    @princessroxyvincenzo2593 2 года назад

    These outfit is wonderful. I need this.

  • @giovannafederico7321
    @giovannafederico7321 2 года назад

    Thank you Jamila! Please share the second part of the video at your earliest convenience.

  • @callmemaybe0123
    @callmemaybe0123 2 года назад +1

    What an interesting video! Here in Peru 🇵🇪 we still greeting people with a slightly Fist 🤜 🤛😊

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 года назад

      It is different everywhere but people are slowly going back to handshaking.

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b 2 года назад +2

    Hi, can you please show us how you do your makeup? It’s looks so natural.

  • @trish200
    @trish200 10 месяцев назад

    Part 2 please! Awesome video :)

  • @zennrising
    @zennrising 2 года назад +1

    I loved learning all of this thank you

  • @dr620
    @dr620 2 года назад +2

    I always have to watch your videos more than once because your voice is so soothing and relaxing that it relaxes me too much. 😄 Ever considered doing an asmr video?

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 года назад

      Thank you. I will consider it ☺️

    • @dr620
      @dr620 2 года назад

      @@JamilaMusayeva you"ll be fabulous. U can still educate us at the same time. Luv ur videos.

  • @anikaanjum446
    @anikaanjum446 2 года назад +1

    Hi, I always admire your videos. I was wondering if you can make a video about "Buffet etiquettes"

  • @blueice011
    @blueice011 2 года назад +6

    This was very useful and helpful, reminding me of very unpleasant moment of utter embarrassment - I was sure that rule of a thumb was that female should remain sitting while shaking hands with male only to be overwhelmed by a strong sense of shame, realizing that it didn't felt right. I was simply rude in attempt to be proper. To make things worse, I was also sure that it was female prerogative to decide if she wanted to initiate handshaking with a male if the age difference is not significant - otherwise, if a male is significantly older, it's his prerogative to initiate handshaking if he chooses to do so. Anyways, I'd love to hear your suggestions in regard, since the etiquette is evolving and rules have changed. Are we still keeping gloves on while handshaking (females)? Are we still taking sunglasses off while greeting/handshaking/talking to another person? I'd also appreciate if you'd be so kind to share your thoughts on introduction process in general - when we introduce ourselves to other person and when we introduce two or various persons to each other. I'm struggling with priorities in such situations (do I introduce older person to younger or vice versa) and Bridget Jones 2 scene of introduction of Perpetua to Mark Darcy comes to mind. :) Much appreciated! Stay safe. XO

  • @Drcrazy0
    @Drcrazy0 Год назад

    Your voice is quiet and outstanding

  • @jfdomega7938
    @jfdomega7938 Месяц назад

    What a lovely voice, it almost lulled me to sleep!

  • @saiswarigochhayat300
    @saiswarigochhayat300 2 года назад

    WE NEED A SECOND PART OF THIS AMAZING VIDEO ❣❣

  • @nouhab2383
    @nouhab2383 2 года назад +2

    Could you do the second part of the video?
    Thank you 😊

  • @shrutidadhich9813
    @shrutidadhich9813 2 года назад

    Please also make one video on handshake types, when to use them & who should initiate it, etc.

  • @rogerroberts5402
    @rogerroberts5402 2 года назад

    Hi .I would love a video on the other part to this handshake video.every thing you teach is tools that create peace .
    It's nice to see your recording more videos .every thing you know about socializing or anything involving etiquette. Tonight was a good one.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 года назад

      Thanks

    • @rogerroberts5402
      @rogerroberts5402 2 года назад +1

      @@JamilaMusayevaThank you too.

    • @rogerroberts5402
      @rogerroberts5402 2 года назад

      I'm very flattered by your presence because I know you are armored with the most impressive examples of class .and superior manners .if all women were like the way you appear .It would make men respect women and children would-be prouder of their mama .this is including the whole human race .I love it !

  • @soniarasul1950
    @soniarasul1950 2 года назад +7

    It’s very useful, but in covid times people at don’t shake hands and try to greet differently and sometimes use elbow which I don’t like as it’s not formal. Can you guide about that also. Thank you

    • @joeshanley9908
      @joeshanley9908 2 года назад +1

      I die inside a little every time someone tries to elbow bump me

  • @geetiara1112
    @geetiara1112 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this, this was the most needed one

  • @Zena-e2l
    @Zena-e2l 2 года назад +2

    It s very useful video thank u.

  • @gm591
    @gm591 2 года назад

    Sometimes I wonder if Jamila is a Robot, everything so perfectly aligned & that extraordinary Hair line!

  • @lorna6965
    @lorna6965 2 года назад

    Looking forward to seeing the second part of this topic,thank you!

  • @rohithpadamadan8145
    @rohithpadamadan8145 2 года назад

    More power to this video, so sweetly explained 🎉

  • @tanishka-pt8hi
    @tanishka-pt8hi 4 месяца назад

    Thankyou Jamila

  • @chathumithisanaja31
    @chathumithisanaja31 2 года назад +1

    TYSM FOR THIS VIDEO❤️

  • @las_aventuras_de_glenda
    @las_aventuras_de_glenda 2 года назад

    thanks Jamila for sharing it!

  • @tshegofatsopholoholo1457
    @tshegofatsopholoholo1457 2 года назад

    In south Africa our president introduced an elbow to elbow greeting instead of handshake because of covid 19 but knowing how to handshake will be useful in the near future. I like your content.

    • @qed456
      @qed456 2 года назад

      the less said about that elbow to elbow horror the better

  • @zhmo6795
    @zhmo6795 2 года назад

    Really eager to watch the part 2 to 🔥🔥🔥

  • @brightphoebesays
    @brightphoebesays 2 года назад +1

    I hate it when a person squeezes my hand really hard, as if to say, I'm stronger than you, I can destroy you if I want to. Makes me not want to shake anybody's hand. I have had my hand kissed by men, and I prefer that. It shows respect to my dignity and femininity. Watching this video is making my palms sweat!

    • @qed456
      @qed456 2 года назад

      i think it shows a higher respect for you as a lady also - the gentlemen who do this have good manners and I am sure treated you well with consideration

  • @danyf.1442
    @danyf.1442 2 года назад +6

    Met my fair share of dead fish and bone crushers hehehe! I'll be more mindful to keep eye contact, I know sometimes I tend to look at the other person's hand. Thank you!

  • @amazing954
    @amazing954 2 года назад +1

    We miss you so much💗💗💗.

  • @shivangimukherjee3377
    @shivangimukherjee3377 Год назад

    Yes, I'm interested in learning how to establish dominance in a handshake. I would also like to learn how to maneuver someone trying to establish dominance.

  • @gdretired4385
    @gdretired4385 2 года назад

    I would like to see your video on establishing dominance, or deterring dominance.

  • @edye.1074
    @edye.1074 2 года назад +5

    Also thumbs up to the Gentleman who survived your bone breaker handshake :-)

  • @sarahalmeida1336
    @sarahalmeida1336 2 года назад +1

    Very useful! Really liked it :) thank you 🙏🏻

  • @hebmann997
    @hebmann997 2 года назад +1

    the way you throw baby powder 4:11 lol

  • @mariamaria0123
    @mariamaria0123 2 года назад +4

    hii I have problem when there is a meeting or party where I have to talk to people standing , I don't know how to pose or where to put my hands so I look so silly , could u please help me with that

  • @TheMcleodGirl
    @TheMcleodGirl 8 месяцев назад

    I am really enjoying your videos...I have always wondered about the handshake when someone in addition to shaking your hand also wraps their other hand around your forearm..I'm not sure how to interpret it. It seems as if they are trying too hard to be likeable. Thank you again for all the wonderful content.🌹

  • @jaydeeppatel6302
    @jaydeeppatel6302 2 года назад

    Thank you for giving us helpful information.

  • @Boop-beep-bap
    @Boop-beep-bap 2 года назад

    Another gem from Jamila💎 💎.
    Can you please do a video on informal (like jeans and tunics/tops) yet elegant clothing for women

  • @swapnanilkar4786
    @swapnanilkar4786 2 года назад

    Ohh really a very very much wonderful, amazing, beautiful n as well as informative video also. Really ma'am, you've explained each n every type and rules of handshake in details. Learned a lot. Really a very much useful n fantastic video. 🙂😊🥰.

  • @Dokhtaremah
    @Dokhtaremah 2 года назад

    Jamila has mastered the art of applying a talcum powder without having a spec of it on her black dress

  • @wooottff
    @wooottff 2 года назад +1

    What about someone who is culture is modest and has a larger personal space, how do I show them I appreciate, acknowledge their greeting but without a handshake?? I greet them with my hand on my chest but sometimes I'm doubtful if I'm doing it right

  • @glassgoddess8646
    @glassgoddess8646 2 года назад

    Will you make a follow up to this video on how to handle the handshake when it is the other persons faux pas? Look forward to all you videos. Thank you.

  • @daofitlife-fitnessforbusyp320
    @daofitlife-fitnessforbusyp320 2 года назад +5

    Jamila thank you for your amazing videos. I’m going to be blogging about several of your business etiquette collections on my fitness blog for professionals. These are soft skills many of us have “forgotten.” Important question I would love to know for my article- how do you gauge if someone is comfortable shaking hands or if they prefer not to have contact for health safety reasons? I have taken to just asking someone if I can shake their hand rather than waiting for the person to extend theirs first. Or should I just extend my hand and wait for them
    to react? About to go to a conference in Europe. I’ll definitely send the post your way when it is published and mention your book to my readers as well. Thank you!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 года назад +3

      It is safest to first wait for them to extend their hand. If that does not happen, simply nod and smile and greet them verbally. Otherwise, it is not considered acceptable to ask people if they are fine with handshaking. It is better not to extend the hand for a handshake rather than put the other person in an uncomfortable position where they feel obliged to extend their hand.

  • @annamarieholstpahus8910
    @annamarieholstpahus8910 Год назад

    🇩🇰👋 new follower- is there a part 2 of the handshake post? I hope so - this post is relevant especially inter-culturally. So I’d like to learn more!

  • @sophiesalamova
    @sophiesalamova 2 года назад

    Thank you, Jamila
    Your videos are so useful and motivating
    I have a suggestion to make a video about home wear etiquette
    I think it will be interesting for many of us...

  • @engyzidan920
    @engyzidan920 2 года назад +3

    Hey, Jamila! Great video.
    I wanted to add that I've read women are the ones who extend their hands and if she doesn't it means she doesn't want to handshake (to a man, I mean) I hope to know if this is correct. I really struggle with that because I'm a Muslim woman and so I can't shake hands with men other than some of my family. I have to constantly explain how I can't and it gets embarrassing especially when men extend their hands and I can't help but apologize. I hope I'm not embarrassing anyone 😅 but deep inside..I wish it was common sense and they knew they shouldn't..

  • @ambassadorsofchrist6531
    @ambassadorsofchrist6531 11 месяцев назад

    This hand shake video is really nice I learnt a lot. I would really like it if you do a video on eating elegantly in public. Thanks Jamila.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  11 месяцев назад

      I have done two videos. Check out my Etiquette playlist.

  • @ronkedare7923
    @ronkedare7923 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for this Video. But can you do a Video for 'Hugs etiquette'

  • @umarnazeer1002
    @umarnazeer1002 2 года назад

    Please can you make a video on the topic of elegant way to introduce yourself ☺

  • @susandevine3907
    @susandevine3907 2 года назад

    Thank you for this help! By the way, the word “rapport” is pronounced “ra PORE.” The t is silent, and the accent is on the second syllable.

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 2 года назад +2

    Tysm Jamila for giving and sharing tips on handshake because it is very important for us you are my inspiration and please make daily videos and I wish you reach 700K Subscribers very very soon!♥️🥺💓💫✨😘🌸😊🥰

  • @lpko6592
    @lpko6592 Год назад

    Hiii
    Thank you for your great videos🙇🏼‍♀️♥️✨
    If it's possible, can you make a video about how to have a great eye contact with others?
    I'm a little shy and i don't know when and how long should i have eye contact with others😅🤦🏼‍♀️💔

  • @sonukhan1044
    @sonukhan1044 2 года назад

    Thank you so much❤

  • @danah5161
    @danah5161 2 года назад

    Very useful, thank you!

  • @Crqzy6
    @Crqzy6 Год назад

    Hey thank you for the lesson.but I want to know why some people keep one arm behind while shaking hands?what does that express?

  • @Prakashkior771
    @Prakashkior771 2 года назад +1

    Thanks 💝

  • @terraena1010
    @terraena1010 2 года назад

    I'm always confused about the hand shake. In my country women were not offered in the past in the handshake. They would receive a greeting or a hand kiss. The hand kiss doesn't happen anymore and nowadays in business meetings woman are sometimes included in the handshake. I would love to know more about how woman should behave in regards to handshakes. I hope you make a part 2. I love your videos and I appreciate your hard work!

  • @miaveranika30
    @miaveranika30 2 года назад

    Please make about conversation in formal and informal

  • @rocioruiz9537
    @rocioruiz9537 2 года назад

    Great video 🥰

  • @irene4633
    @irene4633 2 года назад

    Where is the dress from? So pretty

  • @jfdomega7938
    @jfdomega7938 Месяц назад

    Hi, when you were seated with your laptop and the guy shook your hand you pumped it once, didn't you say no less than three?

  • @مياسة-غ8غ
    @مياسة-غ8غ 2 года назад +1

    Hey, what if i cannot shake the opposite genders for religious reasons. People always reach out for a handshake and idk what to do?

  • @karimamiller7837
    @karimamiller7837 Год назад

    There are some cultural and religious situations where particularly women do not shake. hands with men. Or there may be medical reasons to refrain from shaking hands. Any tips of how to deny a handshake politely?

  • @marialuzmaytorena7095
    @marialuzmaytorena7095 2 года назад

    Thank you 😊