Transgender or not, those who are engaged have no business cheating on their partners for any reason, especially against a partner who has already been cheated on. And blaming testosterone/hormones is a cop out, because some of us guys have the same testosterone-driven sex drive and remain faithful. If you want to have sex with multiple people, you should not be engaged.
This doesn't feel real at all. Buddy was holding in smirks and smiles while he was talking to his fiancé. The "friend" comes off like a bad actor. Idk I just don't believe this story. 🤷🏾♀️
Nah Steve don't fake shows now the people he has on the show can fake there story to get on TV tho n he has caught people doing it before I feel like he didn't call it out on this one cuz he didn't want to beef with the Trans community.
So many layers to unpack. She is a 31 year old woman with a child from a previous relationship and began a relationship with a person 10 years younger. The person is clearly immature and has a lot of growing to do as a human being and is still clearly still discovering themselves (identity wise and who they are as an adult). Don’t get me wrong, it is okay to date younger but at ages 20 and 30 there is a huge maturity difference versus a couple who is 30 and 40 or 40 and 50. That is something to take into consideration. The transgendered man uses excuses to why they cheated and think it is acceptable because they deliberately got drunk on both occasions. The 31 year old’s friend was never a “friend” she was clearly waiting all of those years to backstab her and finally got the opportunity. She seemingly enjoyed every moment of it.
She need to find herself a faithful woman and leave !! She’s been more than just faithful , she’s given up so much to be with somebody who is selfish . She could find a better partner and definitely a better friend .
😒Who came up with this dry idea, like watching a clip from wanna be actors on RUclips...This was awful and y'all actually aired this nonsense, 15 minutes wasted on a darn sorry, try again😒
A man can get it chopped off to transition to a woman, BUT how can a woman transition to a man? I have to see how crazy the world is so I can have examples. WOW!! This is crazy...
Most producers really do try to weed out the liars. I went to school w/ a couple that called Maury (for🧬) & actually got selected. BUT, the SECOND they got home they bragged about fooling Maury & the Crew as well as how cool it was that they were gonna be on TV. The bfs OTHER baby mama got PISSED, called the show, & put them on BLAST LMAOO so the episode never aired.
Man Steve is the bomb. Shout out to you Steve for trying to reach out to them x friends of mine and that guy that was molesting me as a kid from California and some family members of mine. Unfortunately they lied on me thats why they didnt want to come on the show with me . Thanks for trying Steve THANKS AGAIN!!RESPECT TO YOU AND YOUR TEAM FOR TRYING YOUR HARDEST TO GET THEM ON THE SHOW SO WE ALL COULD DO A LIE DETECTOR TEST. 💯💯💯✊️✊️ STEVE IS THE BEST.
I soooo freaking hate the "I was drunk" excuse! After all, they say that when you're drunk that's when you let go of whatever feelings and inhibitions that you ordinarily try to contain.
I gotta agree with others on here, definitely looks staged. We know Steve wouldn't allow that on his show, he is someone who deserves the most straight up respect. Its obvious his last job working for the late Jerry Springer was 100% staged but im also 100% sure Steve would never have that on his show. I say Steve Wilkos for president 2024!! And a happy 4th of July to him and all of you great people out there!! 💥🇺🇲💥🥂
Summary: the friend just wanted to mess up her friends relationship she had no remorse and she said she wanted to do it she definitely set it.....that's just foul you don't do a friend like that
This crazy cause I had a friend that use to fw him/her about 5 years ago in Dallas tx and she said that trans thing would wear her trap like it was real D every where they went. And we had took him to get a tattoo which is over his eye AND THEY wond up doing the nasty in her car hell he’s Ben a cheater cause he would talk to my friend and 4 other girls too on top he never even had a car and would live with his mama and never had his own money😂😂😂😂this a small world
just let them have each other its obvious they are meant to be if he already screwed up twice theres no telling he would end up doing it again the third time you know what they say two wrongs don't make a right. 🙄🤦♂🤷♂😮
Why would she give him another chance? This was disrespect on top of disrespect. Let them have each other. SMH he’ll do it again. No amount of drinks will make you willingly participate in something like that.
I work with kids and I get better, more sincere, respectful responses and attitudes from second graders than that woman gave to her supposed “friend.” Absolutely heinous behavior. Tamika did all she could for her partner, compromised and understood where he was coming from and he threw it all away for a quickie 😢I feel sorry for Tamika and hope she can heal from this ❤
That woman is Gorgeous like why would you cheat on her with her friend I mean ex friend and than she talking about she was drunk like girl you had 1 beer or liquor there's no way you were that drunk cause she knew exactly what she was doing and she should moved on and leave her alone cause she will definitely do it again
I don't like how Steve got on the friend but not the transgender tho... his ass cheated too TF ... Steve should've threw both off stage not just one WHAT THE HELL STEVE??!!!
The way I feel for the girlfriend.. she never deserved that after giving everything she could plus loyalty. You can tell by her reaction she would’ve never done that to him.
“I always bragged about this being my first relationship that I didn’t have to deal with this” lol she probably dragged all real men while “bragging” about her perfect transo, “men ain’t shit” “men are evil”, lol sure lady.
This is why i encourage young black especially. Stay away from jail and crime. Be an asset to a company or be an entrepreneur! Travel to other countries! This is acceptable in American society ! Nothing is wrong no judgment. Cool raise your children. That means not the grandparents or the school's! Eat right ✅ no fake hair eyebrows nails ect. No stupid tv shows or music! I No judgment but if he goes to jail guess what the government says😂😂😂🎉
Transgender or not, those who are engaged have no business cheating on their partners for any reason, especially against a partner who has already been cheated on. And blaming testosterone/hormones is a cop out, because some of us guys have the same testosterone-driven sex drive and remain faithful. If you want to have sex with multiple people, you should not be engaged.
I agree not good to cheat when you have someone
Full of excuses
Well her girlfriend in black is prettier She being so claim right now. And she is no he that's a female.
atleast not with one not okay with it.
@@sandratownsend6561
"That's" not a female though. That's a human being, a grown man whether u want to believe it or not.
If this story is genuine, she needs to leave and find herself a loyal woman. She shouldn't have to change her sexuality for someone who is so selfish.
True
"beat your ass to a pulp" is crazy 😂🤣 i haven't heard that in a minute
my granny use to say dat
😂😂😂😂
Same ❤
This doesn't feel real at all. Buddy was holding in smirks and smiles while he was talking to his fiancé. The "friend" comes off like a bad actor. Idk I just don't believe this story. 🤷🏾♀️
I agree it's giving "Jerry Jerry!!"😂
Okay i thought i was trippin!!! When he was in the tape telling her he cheated i was like why is he kinda smiling and looks happy
most transgenders are bad actors, thats why you can tell they are trans
Nah Steve don't fake shows now the people he has on the show can fake there story to get on TV tho n he has caught people doing it before I feel like he didn't call it out on this one cuz he didn't want to beef with the Trans community.
I feel like he just left it to the people to judge it instead. Which is smart in a way.
If someone doesn't take your feelings into consideration, then they weren't for you from the beginning
Preach!
Weren’t*
That part!!!
This is the first time that I felt like a Steve show was staged.
Yea this is bs
Same and I'm a huge fan
There were definitely a few staged ones
You think? I honestly can't tell. I wish we could find them on social media and ask lmao I'm too nosey man
You never ran into garbage guest no never had Respect day 1
Definitely staged , they wanted to be on tv
It seems like frl
I got those vibes too. Especially from the friend.
I thought the same thing
You are probably right
I said the same thing😂😂😂😂
The choker brings me back to the mid 90s. 😂
This is the perfect show for that fake friend to come to, embarrassing yourself on tv.
I haven't seen those Choker in awhile
You can find them a Claire’s and Walmart 😂 I’ve got several of them in all colors 🎉
Righttt
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@BwaKay3 is cute, just took me back
It's been trending once again. I love those chokers.
All u gotta do is buy them a drink if u want a good time 😂😂😂
They line up at last call every night
@@johnwinkelman1764 😂😂
Fake for 15mins of national tv
Ooooof. This feels SO staged. I’ve been watching Steve since 2001. Definitely gives weird vibes for the first time in 20+ years.
When Steve brought up transgender only one thing came to mind: Jerry Springer
Same... 😢
Me, too
Did destiny really ask why she’s the loser? I can’t stand ppl like that. No remorse or feelings for human emotions. Sickening tbh.
This story is not real. The transformer just wanted to be seen on tv. She probably really likes paynus but does this bcuz it brings more attention
Idk shakur seems like the elevator doesn’t go all the way up n the way Steve paused before saying young man was fckn hysterical 😂😂😂
This some Jerry Springer ish 😂😂😂😂 who else Miss Jerry✋🏾✋🏾🫶🏽🫶🏽 👊🏾❤❤❤
Them heffas just wanted a free trip
😂😂
Pure heffas 🤣
Don't Care About The Other 2 But Why Tamika Gotta Be a Heffa?! 😒
Look, if you're taking someone seriously with a random patch of hair on the back of their head, the joke's on you 😅
You're 31 dealing with a 21 year old who is yet to figure themselves out. You gotta be smarter than that.
This was obviously there anniversary trip and staged beforehand...all 3 losers.
U can tell Steve ain't comfortable 😂
He seems fine to me….
Steve is chill. I can tell you're not 😂
You’re the only one feeling that way 🤦🏽♀️
He would’ve not picked up this story. With all the wild stories that go on, on his show, this is pretty normal.
When did Steve become Jerry? This story sucks, the people in it aren’t believable at all.
I respect the proper use of the pronouns in this episode
So many layers to unpack.
She is a 31 year old woman with a child from a previous relationship and began a relationship with a person 10 years younger.
The person is clearly immature and has a lot of growing to do as a human being and is still clearly still discovering themselves (identity wise and who they are as an adult).
Don’t get me wrong, it is okay to date younger but at ages 20 and 30 there is a huge maturity difference versus a couple who is 30 and 40 or 40 and 50. That is something to take into consideration.
The transgendered man uses excuses to why they cheated and think it is acceptable because they deliberately got drunk on both occasions.
The 31 year old’s friend was never a “friend” she was clearly waiting all of those years to backstab her and finally got the opportunity. She seemingly enjoyed every moment of it.
Months without any? SMH just leave and move on don’t cheat
Girl you are too beautiful so move on and find you a real man!
A trans man is a real man.
She’s a lesbian love. And trans men are real men
I don't care what Steve says. I know it irks him to call a woman a guy.
Look at that Adam’s Apple 😂😂
What Adam's Apple? 😭
It's a woman who wants to be a dude.
You can’t cheat on someone you truly want to marry.
She need to find herself a faithful woman and leave !! She’s been more than just faithful , she’s given up so much to be with somebody who is selfish . She could find a better partner and definitely a better friend .
Destiny is like the mean girl in High School who would steal your boyfriend.
Shes very calm because i wonder if she beat that ass after the show..silent but deadly 😂
😒Who came up with this dry idea, like watching a clip from wanna be actors on RUclips...This was awful and y'all actually aired this nonsense, 15 minutes wasted on a darn sorry, try again😒
All CONFUSION. The views are so much higher when it's black people
click videos, then popular, tell me the majority race you see in the most viewed videos. you weird asl for tryna make it about race
lol no
Whats the color got to do with it? It seems staged and they wanted a free trip. Ive seen a show i thought the same with 3 white people too
Staged because she would not have been that nonchalant about it
1 minute in, it looks staged. 1st time I didn't watch a Steve clip
Those character flaws won't change with your gender decisions. Start with fixing yourself from the inside out.
The bull dagger can barely remember the story line
This doesn’t seem real to me I think they wanted to be seen nation wide. The story doesn’t seem genuine at all to me!!!!
A man can get it chopped off to transition to a woman, BUT how can a woman transition to a man? I have to see how crazy the world is so I can have examples. WOW!! This is crazy...
A trans man can literally get a penis just how a trans woman can chop off her penis
This whole story don’t add up
😂😂😂
My lord, last days. You mean she, dam, I'm so confused. Well, at least she apologized with tears. With friends like that you don't need enemies.
The two already bonded with the same colour shirts and that speaks volumes.. They will continue doing the jiggy jiggy 😢
The look of pure disgust at 1:07 😂
Most producers really do try to weed out the liars. I went to school w/ a couple that called Maury (for🧬) & actually got selected. BUT, the SECOND they got home they bragged about fooling Maury & the
Crew as well as how cool it was that they were gonna be on TV. The bfs OTHER baby mama got PISSED, called the show, & put them on BLAST LMAOO so the episode never aired.
That haircut needs a transition too 🤢 business in the front party in the back 😂😂
How can she be so calm with this news
her reaction seems way too calm ….
The Steve Wilkos Show, This made me laugh so hard, thanks for sharing!
Let them have each other
Nick cannon wilding
VERY FUNNY QUESTION FROM STEVE,,YOU EXPECT MORALES FROM IMMORAL SET OF PEOPLE IN IMMORAL RELATIONSHIPS
He think this jerry springer. Its steve tf would u even bring her to confess
1:46 excuses upon excuses. No accountability.
@2:13 Yeah I felt Bad… Just not bad enough to stop messing Around
Trans and a liar?
Well, I never!…
Man Steve is the bomb. Shout out to you Steve for trying to reach out to them x friends of mine and that guy that was molesting me as a kid from California and some family members of mine. Unfortunately they lied on me thats why they didnt want to come on the show with me . Thanks for trying Steve THANKS AGAIN!!RESPECT TO YOU AND YOUR TEAM FOR TRYING YOUR HARDEST TO GET THEM ON THE SHOW SO WE ALL COULD DO A LIE DETECTOR TEST. 💯💯💯✊️✊️ STEVE IS THE BEST.
I soooo freaking hate the "I was drunk" excuse! After all, they say that when you're drunk that's when you let go of whatever feelings and inhibitions that you ordinarily try to contain.
It’s her crying for me 😂
I gotta agree with others on here, definitely looks staged. We know Steve wouldn't allow that on his show, he is someone who deserves the most straight up respect. Its obvious his last job working for the late Jerry Springer was 100% staged but im also 100% sure Steve would never have that on his show. I say Steve Wilkos for president 2024!! And a happy 4th of July to him and all of you great people out there!! 💥🇺🇲💥🥂
Summary: the friend just wanted to mess up her friends relationship she had no remorse and she said she wanted to do it she definitely set it.....that's just foul you don't do a friend like that
Brosister should stop drinking
Babe, don’t “compromise” what you want and need for anyone. You’ll never be fulfilled, and your love tank will never reach a full tank.
This crazy cause I had a friend that use to fw him/her about 5 years ago in Dallas tx and she said that trans thing would wear her trap like it was real D every where they went. And we had took him to get a tattoo which is over his eye AND THEY wond up doing the nasty in her car hell he’s Ben a cheater cause he would talk to my friend and 4 other girls too on top he never even had a car and would live with his mama and never had his own money😂😂😂😂this a small world
There’s no slash her. He is he
I love when people say "facts over feelings" while they have 0 facts to back up their opinions. 😂
just let them have each other its obvious they are meant to be if he already screwed up twice theres no telling he would end up doing it again the third time you know what they say two wrongs don't make a right. 🙄🤦♂🤷♂😮
Transitioning?.. let's just leave pathetic sad stuff at that
Love not hate
This is giving Jerry Springer vibes
Your a uh...young guy😂😂
Heads up to Steve hopefully he dont lose his mind with peoples problems like DR PHIL 😢😮🎉
Well the anniversary today 😂
Staged
She should leave his ass
Him..??? You mean her
SO Y'ALL FIGHTING OVER A LIL GIRL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 PLEASE
How in the world did they have sex I understand they can fool around but have sex 🤔
I always wonder that! Lol
Did he or she cheat with a man or a woman. I'm confused.
How do they have kids together if they are both women? 🤷🏻♀️
Surrogacy or adoption are really the only options I’m pretty sure
Staged staged staged Steve! Rest in peace Jerry
Why would she give him another chance? This was disrespect on top of disrespect. Let them have each other. SMH he’ll do it again. No amount of drinks will make you willingly participate in something like that.
I work with kids and I get better, more sincere, respectful responses and attitudes from second graders than that woman gave to her supposed “friend.” Absolutely heinous behavior. Tamika did all she could for her partner, compromised and understood where he was coming from and he threw it all away for a quickie 😢I feel sorry for Tamika and hope she can heal from this ❤
All these people, ESPECIALLY SHAKUR, are confused as hell.
U don't understand u will when getting home
I don’t care this is sick.
im trans (ftm also) and I couldn't imagine cheating on my s/o, even more so if they were so understanding with me being trans, like that is horrid.
That woman is Gorgeous like why would you cheat on her with her friend I mean ex friend and than she talking about she was drunk like girl you had 1 beer or liquor there's no way you were that drunk cause she knew exactly what she was doing and she should moved on and leave her alone cause she will definitely do it again
I’ll treat her right anyday 😉…..Tamika if you’re reading this hmu love ❤️
Why be with a transmission when u can be with a real man!!!!..jus don’t make any sense!!!
am i tripping or is there some stray hair on the back of the mans head
It’s a weird lil patch
I don't like how Steve got on the friend but not the transgender tho... his ass cheated too TF ... Steve should've threw both off stage not just one WHAT THE HELL STEVE??!!!
You’re not allowed to be mean to the alphabet community 😂
@@Yessirski91lol I thought I was the only one that used that term
Because then he’d get cancelled for being “transphobic”
Hell no on All levels. My so called friend and I'm standing by your side through something that serious. It'd be completely over.
The way I feel for the girlfriend.. she never deserved that after giving everything she could plus loyalty. You can tell by her reaction she would’ve never done that to him.
Stop misgendering HER.
In this case this a SHE. Not a HE
He* transphobia isn't cute hun
He* it's not that hard...
She* you weirdos
@@BlurBlurr1327 He* please don't be transphobic 😊
Look a hot ass mess
Steve was about to say "young girl" that's exactly what I wudda said
“I always bragged about this being my first relationship that I didn’t have to deal with this”
lol she probably dragged all real men while “bragging” about her perfect transo, “men ain’t shit” “men are evil”, lol sure lady.
This is one of those episodes you wish that you could un-see.
It's getting dark on the Steve Wilkos show.
Cheating on beauty with a beast 😂😂😂
This is why i encourage young black especially. Stay away from jail and crime. Be an asset to a company or be an entrepreneur! Travel to other countries! This is acceptable in American society ! Nothing is wrong no judgment. Cool raise your children. That means not the grandparents or the school's! Eat right ✅ no fake hair eyebrows nails ect. No stupid tv shows or music! I
No judgment but if he goes to jail guess what the government says😂😂😂🎉
Oh boy,🙄🙄🙄