My sister-in-law is, unfortunately, this way, and somewhat of a poison ivy - a bit of psychopathy prevalent - and her husband is a grandiose/ overt, malignant, malicious, malevolent narcissist with psychopathy, and the unfortunate part is that he and I co-own a home. It's devastating my life. Think along the terms of Delilah from the Biblical narrative and her deadly charm, deviously cunning, a surreptitious snake working its poison into people's blood, and also squeezing the very life, the joyous energy out of them, leaving nothing but a dessicated husk. Together, they are a deadly duo, and I truly feel at a loss - hopeless at rimes.😞
in a very similar situation and i too will come to co-own our family home with him in the future and although they’ve only been married a little more than a year and she doesn’t even live with us ( it’s a complicated setup ) she’s already caused so much discord in the household. always makes rude remarks about people she knows or has known and to your face as well.. seems to absolutely have no filter on her mouth. my brother is unfortunately a total pushover and was going through a stage of life that was the absolute dumps and that’s when she latched on. after that he’s only become a total nightmare, much worse than he’d been before. hope we can maintain our sanity in the midst of all this.
@@prismaticlightpods6698 no scientific evidence but I am convinced it's genetics and multi generational. His grandmother, his mother, his sister and now my daughter. I'm wiser now. I'm not giving up on my daughter. My boundaries are clear but I must stand my ground daily. It's exhausting but somehow we're managing
Behold I stand at deaths door and it's yawning mouth beacons me in. Yay though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I shall fear no evil in Jesus name amen!
I thank you again Jill Wise it's interesting to watch in real time and understand what you see. They will infiltrate working relationships and destroy them if we don't have our s*** together. It's not worth thinking you're building a relationship if you can't discuss these things openly up front. If you think Houdini was good at getting out of situations try to get a straight answer out of them. I used to hit my head on every step falling down the stairs now I miss most of them.
At last. I was getting worried that this lady was only communicating that all narcissists are only men. She has left out many very important points about the female (covert or not) narci
And you ought to see the useless things they feign generosity with what ceremony they make rubbing them hands together because they know they just threw out a baited hook. If they can they'll make sure someone was watching.
Wow, yeah, this sums it up. Not just for they need validation, all ir energy time attention 24/7 -which is exhausting, your never good enough, nothing you ever do or give is good enough, cuz they empty black holes inside. But they also will victimize themselves behind your back. Even if things seem fine" in the relationship. If there's not problems guess what, they'll make some. They need drama attention negativity 24/7 . Gossip 24/7 Use any traumas, triggers pain against you uf they can. They try to get emorional reactions, so they can do emotional abuse. They're also energetic vampires. (Starve them out by ignoring, staying posotive/ happy, seem succesful in front of them makes them mad, so seem energetic happy, SHOW TGEM YOU DO NOT NEED THEM* FOR ANYTHING* - this business how you defeat a narccist. Their only goal is power/ cobtrol. They want to feel like they're always on control of EVERYTHING. And think they have a right to cobtrol anyone. They get power off hurting others sabotaging ppls lives or feeling like they have power' boosts their ego since they need constant attention. Dealing w this rn. Leave behind the past, and toxic parasitic relationships that do not serve you deserve you, or abusive selfish people. That lack empathy remorse guilt shame introspection, and refuse to improve or grow as ppl. They are killers and I've seen narcs kill animals, beat animals and children w no remorse. Narccists are demonic monsters.
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Known a few of these they use people.
Take take take, then call the giver selfish when the giver stops giving.
Spot on, Jill.
Yes, I have seen it many times.
Truth Bombs 💣
You know my spouse?. That winch is unbelievable.
The feigning loyalty screams truth to me. 😌🙏
Bingo!
Very true because I've experienced this for decades. While also giving people the benefit of the doubt, and losing.
Very, very well said.
Yeap true
And that's why I HATED my mother-in-law
My sister-in-law is, unfortunately, this way, and somewhat of a poison ivy - a bit of psychopathy prevalent - and her husband is a grandiose/ overt, malignant, malicious, malevolent narcissist with psychopathy, and the unfortunate part is that he and I co-own a home. It's devastating my life. Think along the terms of Delilah from the Biblical narrative and her deadly charm, deviously cunning, a surreptitious snake working its poison into people's blood, and also squeezing the very life, the joyous energy out of them, leaving nothing but a dessicated husk. Together, they are a deadly duo, and I truly feel at a loss - hopeless at rimes.😞
in a very similar situation and i too will come to co-own our family home with him in the future and although they’ve only been married a little more than a year and she doesn’t even live with us ( it’s a complicated setup ) she’s already caused so much discord in the household. always makes rude remarks about people she knows or has known and to your face as well.. seems to absolutely have no filter on her mouth. my brother is unfortunately a total pushover and was going through a stage of life that was the absolute dumps and that’s when she latched on. after that he’s only become a total nightmare, much worse than he’d been before. hope we can maintain our sanity in the midst of all this.
Sounds exactly like my ex sister -in -law. All of it. I'm worried about my daughter. Whom she is obsessed with. It's psycho.
@@prismaticlightpods6698 no scientific evidence but I am convinced it's genetics and multi generational. His grandmother, his mother, his sister and now my daughter. I'm wiser now. I'm not giving up on my daughter. My boundaries are clear but I must stand my ground daily. It's exhausting but somehow we're managing
Behold I stand at deaths door and it's yawning mouth beacons me in. Yay though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I shall fear no evil in Jesus name amen!
True🎉🎉🎉
Bingo 😊
AMEN 🙏 THANK YOU 🙏 FOR YOUR MESSAGES 😢😢😢😢
Yup
Okay
So true. So says the daughter of one. My mom taught me how not to be as a lady,woman and parent.
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So true.
I thank you again Jill Wise it's interesting to watch in real time and understand what you see. They will infiltrate working relationships and destroy them if we don't have our s*** together. It's not worth thinking you're building a relationship if you can't discuss these things openly up front. If you think Houdini was good at getting out of situations try to get a straight answer out of them. I used to hit my head on every step falling down the stairs now I miss most of them.
Thank you.Thankx God im not like that
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At last. I was getting worried that this lady was only communicating that all narcissists are only men.
She has left out many very important points about the female (covert or not) narci
It's just breadcrumbs!!
And you ought to see the useless things they feign generosity with what ceremony they make rubbing them hands together because they know they just threw out a baited hook. If they can they'll make sure someone was watching.
They sure do
Yep her name is Andrea and another would be Dee Anne
Promiscuous".
Wow, yeah, this sums it up.
Not just for they need validation, all ir energy time attention 24/7 -which is exhausting, your never good enough, nothing you ever do or give is good enough, cuz they empty black holes inside.
But they also will victimize themselves behind your back. Even if things seem fine" in the relationship.
If there's not problems guess what, they'll make some. They need drama attention negativity 24/7 .
Gossip 24/7
Use any traumas, triggers pain against you uf they can. They try to get emorional reactions, so they can do emotional abuse. They're also energetic vampires. (Starve them out by ignoring, staying posotive/ happy, seem succesful in front of them makes them mad, so seem energetic happy, SHOW TGEM YOU DO NOT NEED THEM* FOR ANYTHING* - this business how you defeat a narccist.
Their only goal is power/ cobtrol. They want to feel like they're always on control of EVERYTHING. And think they have a right to cobtrol anyone. They get power off hurting others sabotaging ppls lives or feeling like they have power' boosts their ego since they need constant attention.
Dealing w this rn. Leave behind the past, and toxic parasitic relationships that do not serve you deserve you, or abusive selfish people. That lack empathy remorse guilt shame introspection, and refuse to improve or grow as ppl.
They are killers and I've seen narcs kill animals, beat animals and children w no remorse. Narccists are demonic monsters.
My mother
As seen in the movie venom
Do you know my exwife? Cause you described her to a T
Hahahahaha
Mine tooo
Sounds just like my ex
How 🤔 ❓️ did you get ❤so 💋 gorgeous 😍 💖 ✨️ 💗 💕 ❤️ lady ❤️
They came to me. You are wrong
WELL, GUESS WHAT, I AIN'T THE ONE, BUT SHE'S MADE ME THA'WORST'ONEZZZZ...🧟🫶🧟