This is so important. Some people will ask you intrusive questions and give you pushback when you remain private and don’t give them information about your own life that they are demanding from you. Moving in silence is key. Some things don’t need to be shared. It is indeed a calling. Thank you Lord.
Chidimma Kelechi double like and agree! So nosey just to sound caring which can make so many people paranoid...which also leads us does prayer lead us into psychic bondage just like being one with the holy trinity??? Blasphemy ?
God told me this 6 months ago, and I've deleted all my socials and have learned to value privacy. People seem more drawn to me now because I have this new-found confidence in myself (+ God) knowing that I have limited people's access to me, thus limiting the evil eye from seeing what I am doing. Amen.
I did the exact same thing!! God is blessing me more in my medical practice because my patients feel safe Although I did Not share any medical stuff on social media it’s just make patients who are close friends or associates feel comfortable And I only want the best for my patients 🙏🏿❤️
I have always been private. Even family members can be demonic, not just associates. I keep all things inside and ponder them in my heart. I only give testimonies as led by His Holy Spirit. #BattleAndBuild
Amen. Exactly. Thanks for sharing. God bless. I pray that the Lord continue to call, carry, keep, lead, guide, carry (again), and protect you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
A lot of people think that I’m building walls and being so secretive.... but being private save a lot of drama, confusion with people and it brings peace of mind, joy, less stress... and respect ✊. The Bible say the wise man see trouble from far and run. No everyone cares about your life so why would you care so much to share . We need to know the purpose of why we sharing certain information about our life. Thank you Dephne for yr wise words.
I believe I was warned by God last week. Like I always say, I ask the Holy Spirit to guide my hands. And it landed on when Absolam conspired against David. And that was his son! I was like, "God, what are you saying to me." Later on that day a "family member" called me regarding family gossip (he said she said). I got so upset, I developed chest pains. And what was unsettling was I could tell this "family member" enjoyed getting me upset. After that conversation, I felt the Holy Spirit told me to forgive but stay away. Cut off contact because the enemy is using that person to throw me off track. I am currently in the process of building. Weeks ago, I was about to share with this person what I am doing. But they started talking over me. I was offended at 1st, but I believe that was God's way of telling me, "Shhhh!"
I was called names when God called me to privacy 10 years ago. I was called 'evasive' and 'hiding things'...what was funny is I was never asking others for inner details about their lives but they always demanded mine. Strange curiosity not a pure concern. This has dramatically changed y life. Others still dont like me for it but it's better with what God said. Even this year He reiterated, share on a need to know basis only.
This is soooo real. People ridicule me. I feel paranoid n isolated for being private, but I saw how unkind people are and will continue to know that strategic silence and privacy is power.
This is confirmation. I realize that God gave me the grace to live privately. The quarantine has helped me to appreciate this quality more and more. There are people in my life who are constantly trying to devalue me and my accomplishments yet they want me to open up to them about my personal life. I have been accused of not being vulnerable enough but I have seen the same people and others secretly compete with me and also devise schemes to try to make me fail. God separated me as a child yet I have made my share of mistakes. 👑❤🙏😇👣😊👂💎
Right Time. I’ve been off Social Media for 5+ yrs. I always saw myself as the silent builder, And this has always felt like a calling as I Love my Privacy. I tell you there’s zero distraction on your own Lane. God doesn’t have to compete with traffic but can speak to you audibly.
The insecurity part is true. When you can’t enjoy the moment because you’re worried about your image there’s pride there. God revealed that to me on my graduation day. Bad things were happening to me that day and I felt so insecure and ashamed that I couldn’t just be in the moment because I wanted to appear to my friends and family a certain way. That pride for me is rooted in being hurt by others that made me feel like I was this and I had to be like them to be accepted. I realized I’m not healed from it yet.
Just when I was about to make a phone call and talk too much about what God is doing in my life, your video popped up in my recommendation list. Thank you girl for stopping me. Continue to be God voice to us.
Saints don’t feel bad if you’ve had to learn this the hard way! It truly shows how much God loves you to give you the grace to live & learn, this issue holds many back for years and they refuse to wise up & learn! Social Media has/ is ruining a lot of destinies! We must be WISE in ALL THINGS!
Joseph shared his dream to his brothers without using wisdom and it took him to a pit. Thank goodness for his grace where he turned it around for his good 🙏💜
I always pray for the lord to hide me from my enemies, out of sight, out of mind,that's what I call a private life,And I have more time to spend with God and pray, this message was confirmation for me....
Private out of fear was how I often walked. Then I started sharing thinking I needed to share to fight against fear. Thank you for sharing this prayer. 💕 P.S. your dress is amazing,
@@DephneAviyah How do know the difference? Fear vs Wisdom or both? I recently went through a very traumatic event which has caused me to decide to live my life more privately than I had ever before. I'm convinced that the enemies of my ex husband are the cause of this traumatic event. I've distanced myself from him anyone associated with him. I've deleted all my social media platforms and I just decided to keep whatever I have going on my life (accomplishments, career, plans, goals) to myself.
Hi dear, The bible says in 1 John 4:18 that fear involves torment. I would say indecisive thoughts, anxious thoughts, pressure and so on. Wisdom, I would say brings peace and reassurance in your inner heart. It leads and does not force or drive you to do things. It comes with understanding that pleases God. There’s a fine line between isolation and privacy. Make sure that in being private you are not edging into the side of isolation; which is dangerous and leaves you spiritually and socially vulnerable.
This is a major confirming word and prayer. I had a situation literally last week where a close “friend” shared information I shared in confidence. And I’ve also dealt with people who smile but are secretly envious. God has been showing me that I have to say less. I am going to be obedient. Thank you for your constant wisdom, revelation and obedience Dephne! God is moving through you in a mighty way.
Deleted my Facebook app and instagram . I’ve always been private way before social media existed . As a teenager I didn’t have drama in high school because I didn’t tell people my business . I lived many years in my early 20s in privacy . But at age 28 I opened Facebook and I regretted sharing so much . Now I want to be cleanse from that . I don’t need to have people I don’t even associate with anymore (high school classmates ) or people I’m no longer close with to know every detail of my life . Even sharing quotes and memes that’s opening peoples curiosity wondering if your going through that . Thank you for this video bless you !
It's even worse than you know, Daphne. The enemy has advanced and the weapons aren't just carnal anymore. Even our thoughts are exposed. We must learn to move quickly and decisively in our purpose.
Everything you've said was spot on!!! I asked that you keep myself/ family in your prayers. The devil will use the closest ppl to you to hurt you. However, I do know that God is still in control.
THIS IS THE LIVING GOSPEL!! “When you share you allow people in your HOME”..Ouch felt that! Removed myself off of social media every 3 months..I only share now Gods Grace with my business and how I’m serving his community!!! I’m so at peace now since I started my social media break last March!! 🙏🏿🙌🏿
This is my struggle. I'm either too private or overshare information, then feel vulernable afterwards. I need to find a middle ground. I actually overshared information last week so it's bizzare hearing this message today.
Yes Lord, I realize for years now that this was a calling. Jealousy arouse around me and when I have released things in the past my goals were stagnant and nothing worked out. When I remained private and moved in silence things flourish for me and my daughter . This is a definite confirmation from God
This is a good good prayer! Shut the doors Holy Spirit. And we repent for the pride and being self centered. You are the helper and the teacher!! In Jesus name. Amen!!
Yes, now I understand where the spiritual warfare came from with my mother and I after I shared something with her that was revealed to me in the spirit. I now know something's have to be kept private until it is manifested in my life, so Lord give the power of grace, wisdom and discretion to keep private in what you're calling and showing me in the spirit. In Jesus name, amen!
Wow. I identify with this! I also read the blog post about this. The Lord has been impressing on me to start focusing on refining my life in several areas of my life for this upcoming year. I wanted to share my thoughts and plans with my mom, who's also a Christian and in leadership. As hard as it is, I must withhold my life plan and vision from her, not because she may pray against me, but because she may not be where I'm at in this season nor does she have my assignment, and God hasn't spoken to her concerning this.
@@ladyofdivinegrace87 Definitely me. My spiritual mother told me the exact same thing, that my mom is not where I'm at, nor is God speaking to her about the vision for my life.
I just over shared today and felt like the Holy Spirit was telling me to stop. Thankfully the coworker I was talking to is a pastor. Once I sensed I overstepped a certain boundary, she turned to her computer and the conversation was ended. I was really there to help her with a job related issue. When I got back to my desk, I went to youtube, and this video appeared. Perfect confirmation that I need to learn how to shut my mouth already. I've had other things tell me in the past, but I thank you Dephne because you actually pray about it for me. Sometimes it doesn't cross my mind to pray for certain things.
As a RUclipsr myself, sometimes the times we personally receive from God, we be ready to share with the world!!! After dreams/visions/revelations; we know that a dying world needs to be resurrected and spiritual testimonials can help but at the same time we need Wisdom as well. Thanks friend for reminding us. God bless you all 👍
Before I listened to this teaching, I took a while off social media and since then, I started thinking about living a private life, not letting people know so much about me. As God would have it, while going through some of Dephne's videos, I saw this video and I'm glad I listened to this and Building In Silence. Thank You So Much For This Teaching, God Bless You For Sharing This!
Thank you Holy, Spirit. Now I understand what you was trying to say to me about remaining humble, and not being a people pleaser. You can easily get caught up in that. Lord please help us, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Hey Queen this is a Touchy topic for me Being Private is a Blessing I be quick 2 brag and tell all my Dreams and Goals People will do anything 2 Bring u Down Started Cutting off and keeping Track of the People in my Life Toxic Small Minded People are the Worst People are Cutthroat
"The power to live a private life", this is exactly the same thing today and few days back during the intense prayers , God has been revealing something to me. To learn to keep my life private. Not every one is happy to hear, what my God has in store for me. Everytime I share something with good intentions, somewhere down the life I face the negative vibes from those who are very close to me. They do not want me to succeed or be happy. This is important prayer and lesson for me. I know this is a call from God to keep my life private. My Lord continue to teach me not to reveal any plans I have yet, give me grace and wisdom for this new call. Even when we are about to finish the year 2019 for the remaining days , through the power of Holy Spirit , please Lord teach me to be quite and guide me through. Even for the year 2020 I pray the same. There is a reason why his almighty has been showing all the signs of keeping my life in private. Thank you Jesus and thank you Dephne for sharing this wise message. In the name of Jesus, I decree and declare that as of today 2019 and day forwards I will keep my life in private even when I start the new year 2020 for plans i have in every areas of my life. In Jesus name,AMEN.
Amen just by the titles itself speaking through me well said WOG. I've learnt in life Silence is a key to your achievement prosperity and success less talking and do work GOD will reward you. 🙏 ❤️ Stay blessed and stay private in Jesus might name Amen shalom🤐 Il
I needed this,sometimes we post pictures to create image about us,to show people we living ,we can afford this and that.How many people waste money to prove they can afford certain trips,friends,meals,schools etc .We post all achievement graduation ,our partners, jobs and expose all this and in the end they fail because we became part of discussion in many gatherings.lord I pray not to have the spirit of fear but wisdom to be private !Lord gracious hear us🙏
Thank God for you Dephne! Children of God do not share details of your love life. Not one single detail. For 2020 my response will be all is well every time. When they call and try to pry , start talking about God and scriptures watch how fast they hang up! At work talk about Jesus all day I promise you they won’t be by your cubicle scanning your monitor.👀
This is so true and it’s confirmation for me. I’ve been debating for a long time about switching to a private life. I’ve realized that the Lord has called me to live a private life. I always felt uneasy sharing information.
i'm learning to be private. I find people who want to know what i'm about and my family but they can so hide what is going on with them. that God for being a fast learner and having a sensitive I remember Elizabeth only made known her pregnancy after 5 months. May God give us wisdom
I need this so bad... I deleted my social media accounts and have been feeling the need to just be private, stay private, lead a private life. I was feeling bad about it. Thank you for this confirmation.
Wow I felt in my heart to live a life of privacy for God and just stopped looking at Facebook completely unless God tells me to go and post anything or look at anything. What a blessing to have found this message. Praise you Jesus🙏
This is so true! Great video reminder and confirmation. I believe God is getting ready to do something amazing in my life, yet at the same time He’s telling me to keep it quiet. 2 weeks ago, He showed me the same verse Dephne spoke on about Elizabeth becoming pregnant and going into seclusion for 5 months in Luke 1: 24-25. ♥️🙏🏾
Wow this is very inspirational just the other day I felt like I'm spending so much time on Facebook I finally decided to sign out and stay out I felt so free after omg I'm no longer on Instagram neither. I can't believe u came with this message right on time God bless you mama🙏
..💗🙏🏽 Divine timing. I believe I stumbled on this video at the right time. I’m naturally a quiet & private person. For me, it just doesn’t feel natural to allow everyone to have access to me. I like to maintain my mystery. I work in a hospital and before I got really strong in the faith, I guess you could say I had quite a few “word of knowledge.” I had three that really stuck out to me. But one of my patients told me that I needed to confide in God, not other people and that people would envy me not realizing what it is that I actually go through. I had others that really stuck out too but it’s just amazing how God will use someone to speak to you. Thank you for sharing this wisdom💗
Thank you Daphne. Ive been struggling with attention seeking lately. Post stuff frequently just to have social media notifications of people liking my posts or commenting on my posts. And If don't receive any attention, I begin to think that something is wrong with me and I get so low. But thank you for this. You are God send.
Hallelujah! I pray for a reputation of Christ Jesus, walking in the Spirit in all that I do no need to live a life that pleases others. Privacy in Wisdom and I repent of not using discretion, pride and people pleasing in my past. Thank you for helping me live in peace, humility & wisdom
As in a state of war , or before a military attack or operation , there is a news blackout enforced by military intelligence with the media, etc, , i.e. there's no point telling the enemy what you're up to or about to do , coz then you help defeat yourself. . . . "Confuse them with your silence, shock them with your results" . . . i.e. tell the enemies nothing
Woooow I have been this I dont know since when you invite someone in your life and you wonder what's happening I thought I was making friends but I was rising enemies for myself. But I thank God.
You know what’s funny? This is so dominate in African culture & i noticed this growing up. The calling of being private was revealed to me by my parents & i thank God that they raised me in the way of the Lord. I’ve also heard the wonderful voice of the Holy Spirit telling me to be private, especially in the season that I’m in right now. I thank God for this video Daphne. Thanks for the prayer. God bless you ❤️
I have been dealing with this . I dont have a fb account and im living a reserve life i have always been this way and alot of people dont agree with it. This in confirmation for me.
I mean even if you have an account, the most important thing is to not put all your business on there, and not connect to any and everybody on there. I don't fool with Facebook, and barely got back on Instagram recently.
I needed to hear this just this moment. It's mother's day. I had posted on FB that I hate mother's day. I deleted because I felt like I should keep it to myself. No one needed to know anything. And I have been feeling a prompting to say less overall. I'm repenting and asking God to reverse whatever I've ruined with my oversharing. 🤦🏾♀️
Oh God I am happy that I saw this lady on Facebook which led me to thus RUclips channel. This is so me.. I suffered so much for sharing my dreams and visions with people. I've always been happy for people but they're never happy for me. It's more of jealousy, competition
I did that...😔😭 I spoke on some things I had gone through as a child without telling my mother and I forgot she was on my page😔😭 she's so upset with me. I really wasn't doing it to hurt her I was in a realm of praise and intended to glorify God in my testimony.. that didn't work. I didn't use discernment. Forgive me Father, take over O God. I want to live a private life if that is my calling. Help me to have wisdom please Holy spirit in Jesus Christ mighty name. Thank you for grace and mercy
I remember watching this when it aired and could not wait for the book! Refreshing my thoughts and prayers while waiting for tomorrow at the release of this wonderful ( know it's going to be powerful) book. God Bless you!
This massage I will tell my boys they are in college and they love social media. I been noticing that when tell there friends or hit the social media their plans become block. Thank so much Daphne for your obedience in Christ.
Thank you so much for sharing. I have overshared and watch plans cancelled and intercepted by the enemy. 2020 is the year of the mouth and God has been showing me that some things are only between me and him and to use discernment of the Spirit and to be responsible with my story.
This is timely again I do not have a lot of social media because it is time consuming and useless. I use to live to please people because of what they thought about me but I stopped that. I do not post on social media like that but once in a while i will post something I have someone who I thought was a friend but is really negative and toxic and i have cut off communication with her she constantly watches everything I do. I just posted a video on Snap chat today she immediately sent me a message to ask me if I was Pregnant?? Also my Narc mother and other people always want to know what is going on in my life and what I am doing as well they are obsessed.
I’m grateful for this message , I’m a private person, you can’t share with everyone , I’ve learned to be wise through sharing with wrong people and using against to hurt .
It's imperative to hide yourself when you are walking with the Christ- because people want answers! but if you reveal too much of your life your dream can be aborted! stay diligent and stay in the word.Amen
Same here. I stopped all contact with all my friends, past co workers, even cousins. I don't have snapchat, Install, Twitter, tiktok. Me n my husband share fb but we dont even post on it. They think im weird. But no I'm not. I know God wanted it this way. My eyes are opening to the truth, slowly. The lord is revealing to me who I need to avoid
Lord we connect ourselfs and we ask you to please give use more GRACE TO STAY PRIVATE and always acknowledge you first before we share any information in Jesus Name Above Every Name Amen.
I bought your book on Building in Silence and it has blessed my life! Oh my Lord I am learning so much. I was one who use to offer too much info about my life but not anymore!😊 I am walking in wisdom.
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This is so important. Some people will ask you intrusive questions and give you pushback when you remain private and don’t give them information about your own life that they are demanding from you. Moving in silence is key. Some things don’t need to be shared. It is indeed a calling. Thank you Lord.
Well said
Chidimma Kelechi double like and agree! So nosey just to sound caring which can make so many people paranoid...which also leads us does prayer lead us into psychic bondage just like being one with the holy trinity??? Blasphemy ?
AMEN!!!!
Chidimma people can even ask your plans and you ask yourself why do they want to know 🙌
DISCERNMENT, knowing when and what to speak,,,
"People can't MISQUOTE your SILENCE. When you move in SILENCE people don't know what to attack."
Special Kaye Good point
@@tracywalker244 Thank you luv🤗
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AMEN! I've found this out thru Much trial and error...unfortunately!
It more about not enabling toxic people to attempt death over your situation. It is not about worrying about someone misquoting you per se.
God told me this 6 months ago, and I've deleted all my socials and have learned to value privacy. People seem more drawn to me now because I have this new-found confidence in myself (+ God) knowing that I have limited people's access to me, thus limiting the evil eye from seeing what I am doing. Amen.
Amen
I did the exact same thing!! God is blessing me more in my medical practice because my patients feel safe Although I did Not share any medical stuff on social media it’s just make patients who are close friends or associates feel comfortable And I only want the best for my patients 🙏🏿❤️
Yes, same!. It's been 4 month for me. 🙈 Best thing ever.
Exactly!
God made me this way...private
I have always been private. Even family members can be demonic, not just associates. I keep all things inside and ponder them in my heart. I only give testimonies as led by His Holy Spirit. #BattleAndBuild
True
Yes I agree that family members can be demonic I realized this for years now.
Yeah. She mentioned family, and they are the main one's.
We are not here to be isolated. There is a difference between being private and being isolated. 💜
@@ladennayoung2939yes indeed; siblings and cousins
I have always felt guilty for being so private and introverted. This gives me such peace. Thank you, Praise God. 💜
Same here😭 and I really hate attention.
To God be the glory for clarity and peace! Amen 🙏🏽
That is a trick from the enemy. You should come out of that, and just do and be you.
1 Thessalonians 4:11 11 aspire to live quietly, to attend to your own matters
Amen
Translation: mind your business lol
Amen. Praise God
@@ebonysharee and let no one know yours's
Amen. Exactly. Thanks for sharing. God bless. I pray that the Lord continue to call, carry, keep, lead, guide, carry (again), and protect you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
I learned this lesson the hard way. God showed me that the people who are attacking me most are close friends and family.
Same with me, my mom and brother attacked me most
I have always loved Solitude
God made me to value peace, privacy and solitude
I am learning it the hard way... I need this wisdom
A lot of people think that I’m building walls and being so secretive.... but being private save a lot of drama, confusion with people and it brings peace of mind, joy, less stress... and respect ✊. The Bible say the wise man see trouble from far and run. No everyone cares about your life so why would you care so much to share . We need to know the purpose of why we sharing certain information about our life. Thank you Dephne for yr wise words.
Lysa this is spot on. amen 🙏🏽
I believe I was warned by God last week. Like I always say, I ask the Holy Spirit to guide my hands. And it landed on when Absolam conspired against David. And that was his son! I was like, "God, what are you saying to me." Later on that day a "family member" called me regarding family gossip (he said she said). I got so upset, I developed chest pains. And what was unsettling was I could tell this "family member" enjoyed getting me upset. After that conversation, I felt the Holy Spirit told me to forgive but stay away. Cut off contact because the enemy is using that person to throw me off track. I am currently in the process of building. Weeks ago, I was about to share with this person what I am doing. But they started talking over me. I was offended at 1st, but I believe that was God's way of telling me, "Shhhh!"
Amen! Absolutely!
Shhhhhh..Yes and Amen
Woow this is a powerful testimony to be private!
I was called names when God called me to privacy 10 years ago. I was called 'evasive' and 'hiding things'...what was funny is I was never asking others for inner details about their lives but they always demanded mine. Strange curiosity not a pure concern. This has dramatically changed y life. Others still dont like me for it but it's better with what God said. Even this year He reiterated, share on a need to know basis only.
This is soooo real. People ridicule me. I feel paranoid n isolated for being private, but I saw how unkind people are and will continue to know that strategic silence and privacy is power.
This is confirmation. I realize that God gave me the grace to live privately. The quarantine has helped me to appreciate this quality more and more. There are people in my life who are constantly trying to devalue me and my accomplishments yet they want me to open up to them about my personal life. I have been accused of not being vulnerable enough but I have seen the same people and others secretly compete with me and also devise schemes to try to make me fail. God separated me as a child yet I have made my share of mistakes. 👑❤🙏😇👣😊👂💎
Right Time. I’ve been off Social Media for 5+ yrs. I always saw myself as the silent builder, And this has always felt like a calling as I Love my Privacy. I tell you there’s zero distraction on your own Lane. God doesn’t have to compete with traffic but can speak to you audibly.
It must be a calling. While others are open without conviction, some of us feel strong conviction when being too open. Thank you for sharing.
The insecurity part is true. When you can’t enjoy the moment because you’re worried about your image there’s pride there. God revealed that to me on my graduation day. Bad things were happening to me that day and I felt so insecure and ashamed that I couldn’t just be in the moment because I wanted to appear to my friends and family a certain way. That pride for me is rooted in being hurt by others that made me feel like I was this and I had to be like them to be accepted. I realized I’m not healed from it yet.
Just when I was about to make a phone call and talk too much about what God is doing in my life, your video popped up in my recommendation list. Thank you girl for stopping me. Continue to be God voice to us.
Wow.. I can attest to what you just said 🙏
This pandemic has certainly shut down the showoffs.
I love it, move in privacy, not in the spirit of fear, but in the spirit of wisdom!
Saints don’t feel bad if you’ve had to learn this the hard way! It truly shows how much God loves you to give you the grace to live & learn, this issue holds many back for years and they refuse to wise up & learn! Social Media has/ is ruining a lot of destinies! We must be WISE in ALL THINGS!
Joseph shared his dream to his brothers without using wisdom and it took him to a pit. Thank goodness for his grace where he turned it around for his good 🙏💜
They might I dare to say that he was meant
I always pray for the lord to hide me from my enemies, out of sight, out of mind,that's what I call a private life,And I have more time to spend with God and pray, this message was confirmation for me....
Private out of fear was how I often walked. Then I started sharing thinking I needed to share to fight against fear. Thank you for sharing this prayer. 💕
P.S. your dress is amazing,
Amen privacy out of fear is not good but privacy out of wisdom is good! God bless you and keep winning 🙏🏽
and thank u :)
@@DephneAviyah How do know the difference? Fear vs Wisdom or both? I recently went through a very traumatic event which has caused me to decide to live my life more privately than I had ever before. I'm convinced that the enemies of my ex husband are the cause of this traumatic event. I've distanced myself from him anyone associated with him. I've deleted all my social media platforms and I just decided to keep whatever I have going on my life (accomplishments, career, plans, goals) to myself.
Hi dear, The bible says in 1 John 4:18 that fear involves torment. I would say indecisive thoughts, anxious thoughts, pressure and so on.
Wisdom, I would say brings peace and reassurance in your inner heart. It leads and does not force or drive you to do things. It comes with understanding that pleases God.
There’s a fine line between isolation and privacy. Make sure that in being private you are not edging into the side of isolation; which is dangerous and leaves you spiritually and socially vulnerable.
This is a major confirming word and prayer. I had a situation literally last week where a close “friend” shared information I shared in confidence. And I’ve also dealt with people who smile but are secretly envious.
God has been showing me that I have to say less. I am going to be obedient.
Thank you for your constant wisdom, revelation and obedience Dephne! God is moving through you in a mighty way.
Great teaching. Holy spirit lead my life and give me grace, wisdom, favor, honor and prosperity. ❤😇👣🙏
Deleted my Facebook app and instagram . I’ve always been private way before social media existed . As a teenager I didn’t have drama in high school because I didn’t tell people my business . I lived many years in my early 20s in privacy . But at age 28 I opened Facebook and I regretted sharing so much . Now I want to be cleanse from that . I don’t need to have people I don’t even associate with anymore (high school classmates ) or people I’m no longer close with to know every detail of my life . Even sharing quotes and memes that’s opening peoples curiosity wondering if your going through that . Thank you for this video bless you !
Thank you Dephne, I so need this !!!!!!!!!!!! ,A lot of my problems came because I over shared with people who turnout to be my enemies.
Yes I will live my life in private 😊
I've been called to a life of privacy with everything!I'm pursuing my diploma in paralegal studies!and God told me be Private!
This is a wonderful message. I use to be ashamed of having this trait . I'm very reserved lady.
It's even worse than you know, Daphne. The enemy has advanced and the weapons aren't just carnal anymore. Even our thoughts are exposed. We must learn to move quickly and decisively in our purpose.
You mean flesh? Cause carnal is also flesh too
Everything you've said was spot on!!! I asked that you keep myself/ family in your prayers. The devil will use the closest ppl to you to hurt you. However, I do know that God is still in control.
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THIS IS THE LIVING GOSPEL!! “When you share you allow people in your HOME”..Ouch felt that! Removed myself off of social media every 3 months..I only share now Gods Grace with my business and how I’m serving his community!!! I’m so at peace now since I started my social media break last March!! 🙏🏿🙌🏿
This is such a profound teaching , build in silence, Amen
This is my struggle. I'm either too private or overshare information, then feel vulernable afterwards. I need to find a middle ground. I actually overshared information last week so it's bizzare hearing this message today.
Yes Lord, I realize for years now that this was a calling. Jealousy arouse around me and when I have released things in the past my goals were stagnant and nothing worked out. When I remained private and moved in silence things flourish for me and my daughter . This is a definite confirmation from God
This is a good good prayer! Shut the doors Holy Spirit. And we repent for the pride and being self centered. You are the helper and the teacher!! In Jesus name. Amen!!
Yes, now I understand where the spiritual warfare came from with my mother and I after I shared something with her that was revealed to me in the spirit. I now know something's have to be kept private until it is manifested in my life, so Lord give the power of grace, wisdom and discretion to keep private in what you're calling and showing me in the spirit. In Jesus name, amen!
Wow. I identify with this! I also read the blog post about this. The Lord has been impressing on me to start focusing on refining my life in several areas of my life for this upcoming year. I wanted to share my thoughts and plans with my mom, who's also a Christian and in leadership. As hard as it is, I must withhold my life plan and vision from her, not because she may pray against me, but because she may not be where I'm at in this season nor does she have my assignment, and God hasn't spoken to her concerning this.
@@ladyofdivinegrace87 Definitely me. My spiritual mother told me the exact same thing, that my mom is not where I'm at, nor is God speaking to her about the vision for my life.
I just over shared today and felt like the Holy Spirit was telling me to stop. Thankfully the coworker I was talking to is a pastor. Once I sensed I overstepped a certain boundary, she turned to her computer and the conversation was ended. I was really there to help her with a job related issue. When I got back to my desk, I went to youtube, and this video appeared. Perfect confirmation that I need to learn how to shut my mouth already. I've had other things tell me in the past, but I thank you Dephne because you actually pray about it for me. Sometimes it doesn't cross my mind to pray for certain things.
As a RUclipsr myself, sometimes the times we personally receive from God, we be ready to share with the world!!!
After dreams/visions/revelations; we know that a dying world needs to be resurrected and spiritual testimonials can help but at the same time we need Wisdom as well. Thanks friend for reminding us. God bless you all 👍
Proverbs 2:11
Discretion will protect you and understanding will guard you.
Before I listened to this teaching, I took a while off social media and since then, I started thinking about living a private life, not letting people know so much about me. As God would have it, while going through some of Dephne's videos, I saw this video and I'm glad I listened to this and Building In Silence. Thank You So Much For This Teaching, God Bless You For Sharing This!
Father please help me to be more private and not sure my business with fake people , and haters in Jesus name amen 🙏🏾
Thank you Holy, Spirit. Now I understand what you was trying to say to me about remaining humble, and not being a people pleaser. You can easily get caught up in that. Lord please help us, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Hey Queen this is a Touchy topic for me Being Private is a Blessing I be quick 2 brag and tell all my Dreams and Goals People will do anything 2 Bring u Down Started Cutting off and keeping Track of the People in my Life Toxic Small Minded People are the Worst People are Cutthroat
I have learned to zip my mouth and be private.
I don't blame you. That is a nice picture.
"The power to live a private life", this is exactly the same thing today and few days back during the intense prayers , God has been revealing something to me. To learn to keep my life private. Not every one is happy to hear, what my God has in store for me. Everytime I share something with good intentions, somewhere down the life I face the negative vibes from those who are very close to me. They do not want me to succeed or be happy. This is important prayer and lesson for me. I know this is a call from God to keep my life private. My Lord continue to teach me not to reveal any plans I have yet, give me grace and wisdom for this new call. Even when we are about to finish the year 2019 for the remaining days , through the power of Holy Spirit , please Lord teach me to be quite and guide me through. Even for the year 2020 I pray the same. There is a reason why his almighty has been showing all the signs of keeping my life in private. Thank you Jesus and thank you Dephne for sharing this wise message. In the name of Jesus, I decree and declare that as of today 2019 and day forwards I will keep my life in private even when I start the new year 2020 for plans i have in every areas of my life. In Jesus name,AMEN.
Amen just by the titles itself speaking through me well said WOG. I've learnt in life Silence is a key to your achievement prosperity and success less talking and do work GOD will reward you. 🙏 ❤️ Stay blessed and stay private in Jesus might name Amen shalom🤐
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I needed this,sometimes we post pictures to create image about us,to show people we living ,we can afford this and that.How many people waste money to prove they can afford certain trips,friends,meals,schools etc .We post all achievement graduation ,our partners, jobs and expose all this and in the end they fail because we became part of discussion in many gatherings.lord I pray not to have the spirit of fear but wisdom to be private !Lord gracious hear us🙏
Help me Lord to keep my month close now a day we don't know who is the enemies 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank God for you Dephne! Children of God do not share details of your love life. Not one single detail. For 2020 my response will be all is well every time. When they call and try to pry , start talking about God and scriptures watch how fast they hang up! At work talk about Jesus all day I promise you they won’t be by your cubicle scanning your monitor.👀
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This is so true and it’s confirmation for me. I’ve been debating for a long time about switching to a private life. I’ve realized that the Lord has called me to live a private life. I always felt uneasy sharing information.
i'm learning to be private. I find people who want to know what i'm about and my family but they can so hide what is going on with them. that God for being a fast learner and having a sensitive
I remember Elizabeth only made known her pregnancy after 5 months.
May God give us wisdom
I need this so bad... I deleted my social media accounts and have been feeling the need to just be private, stay private, lead a private life. I was feeling bad about it. Thank you for this confirmation.
Wow I felt in my heart to live a life of privacy for God and just stopped looking at Facebook completely unless God tells me to go and post anything or look at anything. What a blessing to have found this message. Praise you Jesus🙏
This is so true! Great video reminder and confirmation. I believe God is getting ready to do something amazing in my life, yet at the same time He’s telling me to keep it quiet. 2 weeks ago, He showed me the same verse Dephne spoke on about Elizabeth becoming pregnant and going into seclusion for 5 months in Luke 1: 24-25. ♥️🙏🏾
Wow this is very inspirational just the other day I felt like I'm spending so much time on Facebook I finally decided to sign out and stay out I felt so free after omg I'm no longer on Instagram neither. I can't believe u came with this message right on time God bless you mama🙏
..💗🙏🏽 Divine timing. I believe I stumbled on this video at the right time. I’m naturally a quiet & private person. For me, it just doesn’t feel natural to allow everyone to have access to me. I like to maintain my mystery. I work in a hospital and before I got really strong in the faith, I guess you could say I had quite a few “word of knowledge.” I had three that really stuck out to me. But one of my patients told me that I needed to confide in God, not other people and that people would envy me not realizing what it is that I actually go through. I had others that really stuck out too but it’s just amazing how God will use someone to speak to you. Thank you for sharing this wisdom💗
Thank you Daphne. Ive been struggling with attention seeking lately. Post stuff frequently just to have social media notifications of people liking my posts or commenting on my posts. And If don't receive any attention, I begin to think that something is wrong with me and I get so low. But thank you for this. You are God send.
Hallelujah! I pray for a reputation of Christ Jesus, walking in the Spirit in all that I do no need to live a life that pleases others. Privacy in Wisdom and I repent of not using discretion, pride and people pleasing in my past. Thank you for helping me live in peace, humility & wisdom
As in a state of war , or before a military attack or operation , there is a news blackout enforced by military intelligence with the media, etc, , i.e. there's no point telling the enemy what you're up to or about to do , coz then you help defeat yourself. . . . "Confuse them with your silence, shock them with your results" . . . i.e. tell the enemies nothing
Yes God i will live my life in private because i am wise in Jesus name Amen
Woooow I have been this I dont know since when you invite someone in your life and you wonder what's happening I thought I was making friends but I was rising enemies for myself. But I thank God.
You know what’s funny? This is so dominate in African culture & i noticed this growing up. The calling of being private was revealed to me by my parents & i thank God that they raised me in the way of the Lord. I’ve also heard the wonderful voice of the Holy Spirit telling me to be private, especially in the season that I’m in right now. I thank God for this video Daphne. Thanks for the prayer. God bless you ❤️
I have been dealing with this . I dont have a fb account and im living a reserve life i have always been this way and alot of people dont agree with it. This in confirmation for me.
Because they wanna be nosey. I had people stalk me on there. It was so scary.
I mean even if you have an account, the most important thing is to not put all your business on there, and not connect to any and everybody on there. I don't fool with Facebook, and barely got back on Instagram recently.
I love this Dephne. Confirmation for me. I don't have to prove myself to anyone or share anything.
I needed to hear this just this moment. It's mother's day. I had posted on FB that I hate mother's day. I deleted because I felt like I should keep it to myself. No one needed to know anything. And I have been feeling a prompting to say less overall. I'm repenting and asking God to reverse whatever I've ruined with my oversharing. 🤦🏾♀️
Yes lord,,i will learn to live my life in private way.LORD guide me!Amen!
So true I tell my children that all the time
Oh God I am happy that I saw this lady on Facebook which led me to thus RUclips channel. This is so me.. I suffered so much for sharing my dreams and visions with people. I've always been happy for people but they're never happy for me. It's more of jealousy, competition
My God, why is no one talking about how beautiful her Spirit language is?
God bless you Dephne. I'm always grateful🙏🏾
It really is. It sounds like Spanish.
I did that...😔😭 I spoke on some things I had gone through as a child without telling my mother and I forgot she was on my page😔😭 she's so upset with me. I really wasn't doing it to hurt her I was in a realm of praise and intended to glorify God in my testimony.. that didn't work. I didn't use discernment. Forgive me Father, take over O God. I want to live a private life if that is my calling. Help me to have wisdom please Holy spirit in Jesus Christ mighty name. Thank you for grace and mercy
Praise God for your lesson & revelation on how to walk wisely in the Spirit.
I really feel a tuck in my spirit about being private.. Thank you Dephen for making it more clear..
Amen, you are most welcome dear :)
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I've been feeling a Spirit of being private for YEARS! God bless you for sharing this is confirmation. AMEN!
On time message. In the past I was accused of being shady and having an ulterior motive because I would keep some things to myself.
I remember watching this when it aired and could not wait for the book! Refreshing my thoughts and prayers while waiting for tomorrow at the release of this wonderful ( know it's going to be powerful) book. God Bless you!
I appreciate this teaching in 2024. It's so relevant ❤
This ministered to me. This blessed me. This opened my eyes. Yah bless you.
I agree, believe,and receive in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ Amen!🙏🏽🌈💖
Father Jehovah, help me God, I need your grace for privacy. Have mercy! You are speaking to me. Help me to walk in wisdom
I also prayed Jehovah about it. It's necessary to be discreet and silent. People have hidden intentions 🤔 and pray sometimes against your blessings 😲.
Amen sister. I had to let my Facebook go because of dealing with pride and caring too much about how others viewed me.
Amen! This message is for me.
This massage I will tell my boys they are in college and they love social media. I been noticing that when tell there friends or hit the social media their plans become block. Thank so much Daphne for your obedience in Christ.
i dont need atention from people i have grown up from this long time ago
thank God for it amen
Thank you so much for sharing. I have overshared and watch plans cancelled and intercepted by the enemy. 2020 is the year of the mouth and God has been showing me that some things are only between me and him and to use discernment of the Spirit and to be responsible with my story.
WOW. I know that this is from the spirit of the Lord. Amen. Exactly.
I stand in ageeement with this prayer! Thank you ❤️🙏🏽
For 7 years I've been private.. God told me not to share everything.. 🙌🙌❤
Lesson learned 😩😩
Glory to God! This was definitely for me!
We must make this video viral 🙌🏾🔥
This is such a powerful message for this generation...
Thank you for uploading. I’m so encouraged. What a powerful prayer! May God bless you and your family.
You look fabulous in this dress. The colors look great on you.
This is timely again I do not have a lot of social media because it is time consuming and useless. I use to live to please people because of what they thought about me but I stopped that. I do not post on social media like that but once in a while i will post something I have someone who I thought was a friend but is really negative and toxic and i have cut off communication with her she constantly watches everything I do. I just posted a video on Snap chat today she immediately sent me a message to ask me if I was Pregnant?? Also my Narc mother and other people always want to know what is going on in my life and what I am doing as well they are obsessed.
I Agree and Receive Privacy is Important!!!! Try to keep things private!!!! In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen
I’m grateful for this message , I’m a private person, you can’t share with everyone , I’ve learned to be wise through sharing with wrong people and using against to hurt .
I needed to revisit this. Lord give me Grace to be private.
Amen 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 "Being Private Is A CALLING" I Receive This Prophetic Prayer Over My Life In Jesus Name Amen 🙏🕊️🕯️🛐✝️
Yes and amen. Thank You sister Dephne for this powerful teaching. This is on time and on point for this season. Have a blessed day family.
Just Wonderful So important in Jesus name Amen Amen Amen!!!!!
Love this teaching...first time I have heard this type of message yet it still resonates with me. Thank you!🎯
It's imperative to hide yourself when you are walking with the Christ- because people want answers! but if you reveal too much of your life your dream can be aborted! stay diligent and stay in the word.Amen
Same here. I stopped all contact with all my friends, past co workers, even cousins. I don't have snapchat, Install, Twitter, tiktok. Me n my husband share fb but we dont even post on it. They think im weird. But no I'm not. I know God wanted it this way. My eyes are opening to the truth, slowly. The lord is revealing to me who I need to avoid
Lord we connect ourselfs and we ask you to please give use more GRACE TO STAY PRIVATE and always acknowledge you first before we share any information in Jesus Name Above Every Name Amen.
I bought your book on Building in Silence and it has blessed my life! Oh my Lord I am learning so much. I was one who use to offer too much info about my life but not anymore!😊 I am walking in wisdom.
that prayer touched me, thank u so much woman of God and all praises to the most high 💓