They Tried To Break You But It Backfired.. You Broke Them Instead Because Of This

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025

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  • @beamtweez1210
    @beamtweez1210 2 года назад +15

    I hope this HUMAN Gets Recognition for His Contribution to The World 🌎

  • @JackNance22
    @JackNance22 2 года назад +218

    So true, I've caused countless narcissistic injuries to toxic people, simply by being authentic with good intent. When my predators attack, it NEVER goes the way they expected. Their biggest mistake is equating a kind spirit with stupidity, and karma gives them a hard slap across the face every time, just as they deserve. Thanks for the continued inspiration, Joel.

    • @AbsoluteMdot
      @AbsoluteMdot 2 года назад

      AMEN!!!!! They thought they could destroy us and failed. We are walking miracles!!!!

    • @bxpak1975
      @bxpak1975 2 года назад +21

      You did your thing on this post!! Nothing but truth being spoken here.

    • @leeleslie5518
      @leeleslie5518 2 года назад +8

      💯

    • @bunique650
      @bunique650 2 года назад

      Jack I’ve done the same to these people, just being my genuine self. They will never take accountability and they will always slander you. They are demented, broken, mentally retarded and scum.

    • @tomosen4427
      @tomosen4427 2 года назад +12

      What goes around comes around is a yin and yang cycle ☯
      I'm tend to be karma for people in general
      I literally walk away from everyone whatever their intentions might bring.
      I rather stay alone with God to hear his voice and stay away from humans if it has to go this far...
      to stay protective over my energy in general

  • @grumpeechat
    @grumpeechat 2 года назад +28

    Dont mistake my kindness for weakness.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад +17

    They don't win because they always consistently pissed off sad anxious and mad ! Those individuals have serious mental issues , like borderline disorders

  • @davido6819
    @davido6819 2 года назад +107

    They are fools. They don’t know how strong our spirit is the chosen ones. Ended up breaking themselves instead. When they figured out they didn’t break you. They realise how much of an idiot they were to even try that.

    • @YEAH-I-SAID-IT
      @YEAH-I-SAID-IT 2 года назад

      +*+

    • @kathie6585
      @kathie6585 2 года назад +15

      I don't truly believe they ever realize anything they ever could have done wrong. Sad, so sad

    • @missycallihan7510
      @missycallihan7510 10 месяцев назад +1

      They just need Jesus

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot 2 года назад +35

    They tried to throw dirt on my name, but flowers grew!!!

    • @YEAH-I-SAID-IT
      @YEAH-I-SAID-IT 2 года назад

      +*+

    • @Bruce-z6m
      @Bruce-z6m 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah when life hands you sour lemons you make lemonade out of it.

  • @Chocolate-vr9cm
    @Chocolate-vr9cm 2 года назад +22

    He who fights the monster, should not become the monster himself.

  • @girlygirl9766
    @girlygirl9766 2 года назад +18

    I’m tired of people always trying to break me or people mad at me because I can get myself things. I’m also tired of people using me.

  • @davidmannion5362
    @davidmannion5362 2 года назад +39

    Delayed gratification is a skill learned in childhood. If someone gets into their 20’s without the ability to have patience, they are usually screwed.
    Corporations encourage immediate gratification because an undisciplined consumer is their best customer.

    • @grimesgrindelwald6100
      @grimesgrindelwald6100 2 года назад

      You sound well read or well rounded. Genuinely I would want advice from people like you.

  • @user-hq8jj8ei9d
    @user-hq8jj8ei9d 2 года назад +22

    EXACTLY what I am going through now, she is losing her mind because she can't control me anymore, and I'm focusing on myself and my health

  • @hendrixsun9372
    @hendrixsun9372 2 года назад +7

    You know when the truth comes, redemption never feels like you think bc they are hurting. That’s why God protects us and rakes the revenge himself.

  • @IDEALTARGETWA
    @IDEALTARGETWA 2 года назад +14

    CHEATERS NEVER WIN!

  • @medicalsecrets2504
    @medicalsecrets2504 2 года назад +31

    Truth spoken! Don't concern yourself about when or how they get their "Karma", keep moving forward even if you have to go it alone... Live righteously & know that value and success come in many forms. Shalom~

  • @mariebarnes5714
    @mariebarnes5714 2 года назад +15

    Terri the Bible says that what you sow is what you will reap! Thank you!
    These people need to stop trying to ruin other people, and things might improve for them!

  • @carmenc777
    @carmenc777 2 года назад +30

    Not just going through the pain, but growing through the pain is winning! 🎉

  • @lindseyivetun
    @lindseyivetun 2 года назад +1

    Exactly !! Worry about your self and leave people alone.

  • @jadehart4082
    @jadehart4082 2 года назад +5

    We ain’t fitting to get played bro that’s right, we do respect love loyalty & Honor 💜

  • @doubleinverselololol
    @doubleinverselololol 2 года назад +17

    It’s true once you realize what these people are doing. Someone you thought was your friend and they were just grooming you since ur a kid… you’ll never fall for it again after you catch them

  • @marilynlandis5058
    @marilynlandis5058 2 года назад +37

    I can so relate to this video, dealt with the most entitled, manipulative, no empathetic in-laws including my sister-in law for almost 40 years. Especially my mother-in-law who controlled her son til he died of cerebral brain hemmorage 4 years ago on her frigging birthday (Karma!!) I'm free from this narcissistic family, all about money & entitlement. Free at almost 69 years old in a week, so strong 💪 My husband was so messed up in head, died at 64 , just before he was to retire 😢

    • @BeautifulLife000H
      @BeautifulLife000H 2 года назад +4

      Yikes. That didn't sound fun. I hope things are better.

    • @kathie6585
      @kathie6585 2 года назад +3

      💙💓 Ooh my gosh glad you're still holdin on. ! Glad you are free friend. Bless you - Hug !!

    • @Doidao-xx5vf
      @Doidao-xx5vf Год назад +1

      I left my narcissistic family 6 years ago. Best thing I’ve ever done. Since I was basically my moms emotional punching bag when I left my dad became her emotional punching bag. He begged for me to come back I was like nah dude you deal with her now. I ain’t dealing with that bullshit lol.

  • @johnsmith-rd3zx
    @johnsmith-rd3zx 2 года назад +3

    ive blocked people who tried to abuse me otherwise the abuse would have continued

  • @ArtisanX_
    @ArtisanX_ 2 года назад +9

    Ignorance is terrifying to me more than anything. That’s why I grind so hard to make the best possible life I can for myself and people really be mad at that for no reason. Also people who play on other peoples ignorance for they own personal gain never seemed human to me..It’s something about they spirit and energy thats just a red flag. I ain’t perfect, but I’ve never left someone in a worse position than they were before.

  • @ZozoZephettoZak
    @ZozoZephettoZak 2 года назад +15

    Pray with me..
    Lord, you will be with us when we take a stand for you in faith. When we defy the world's standards and refuse to fit in with the surrounding culture, we may pay a price. But we, like Daniel's three friends, must resolve not to bow to idols even if you do not rescue us from resultant suffering or even death. But we know that you can always deliver us and trust you will work all things together for our good. Amen.

    • @joshuaanzalone2060
      @joshuaanzalone2060 2 года назад +1

      Yes indeed and our reward in heaven is going to be amazing

    • @robbiegreen7023
      @robbiegreen7023 2 года назад

      Yes Lord, you who ordered genocide, infanticide, mass slavery and rape. Yes o lord you who practise child sacrafice then encourage the symbolic canabalism of said sacrifice, yes lord what we need is your maniacal and genocidal with us, amen, idiot.

  • @chrisr7597
    @chrisr7597 2 года назад +2

    They will cry for respect not even knowing what disrespect is FIRST

  • @Angela-us8zh
    @Angela-us8zh 2 года назад +4

    So true, Im still here seeing it all unfold.
    What others have planned & projected onto me is being served to them. Unreal what the bigger agenda is. God rewards good hearts good intentions humans that have good in there heart. Be wise with how n who u work with.
    #self love!!!

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Год назад +1

    Once you embrace your purpose you become bulletproof... you will get inspirational downloads to guide you....

  • @sandy4230
    @sandy4230 2 года назад +7

    The earth is reserved for fire 🔥 Best to detach from this fleeting world. Jesus is coming back so very soon.

    • @JOHN-ei2tn
      @JOHN-ei2tn 2 года назад +1

      🙏🏽💜Amen!

    • @shelly-annjohn4965
      @shelly-annjohn4965 2 года назад +2

      Amen oh yes that is why we have to stay in prayer and live in obedience.

    • @JOHN-ei2tn
      @JOHN-ei2tn 2 года назад

      🤠🔥🕊humility, transparency, Love all .

  • @twins213rb
    @twins213rb 2 года назад +3

    “Th punishment of desire is the agony of unfulfillment” - Hermes Trismegistus

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 2 года назад +3

    Being used is soul destroying, so is a very comforting video.

  • @Eurone333
    @Eurone333 2 года назад +4

    It is crazy how SPOT ON this is for me right now. Wow!

  • @lifeofaseven
    @lifeofaseven 2 года назад +9

    And that's another good thought I was just talking about this last night the entitlement on some people
    To just go out and get in other people's lives knowing they are full of problems and issues and too needy and broken and they don't have themselves together and they haven't worked on it they haven't prepared for that
    Just like you're talking about to me that's a reward that is a privilege to either be able to get in a high value relationship, with another human being that is loyal and loving and caring and brings value to the table that's a privilege it's a reward
    Or to be able to mix and mingle and keep people close that are of high value that bring good things to our lives
    Well we first have to have done some of the work we have to have worked on our issues and prepared ourselves and worked our way up for that kind of thing to fit into that
    And toxic and narcissistic people really think they can just go out and snap their finger and they are entitled to have that kind of reward and have a high value partnership or friendship in their life just like that
    without doing any of the damn work and preparation that the rest of us have to do on our emotional intelligence, our emotional maturity, just overall emotional and spiritual growth....
    And you're so spot on about that no nobody's entitled to that
    Just like you said the best thing to do is take your time work on yourself don't go running around with a bunch of riff Raff and a bunch of different folks and getting distracted
    And then after some of that work is done
    We attract better and better people into our lives and less is more
    Quality over quantity for sure when it comes to that.

  • @grumpeechat
    @grumpeechat 2 года назад +7

    Thank you Joel. You are so right. Ive seen this happen. Karma does exist.

  • @carlgoodwin9323
    @carlgoodwin9323 2 года назад +3

    My grandpa told me as a child good things come to those who wait. patients.

  • @RiseAbove-wc2hs
    @RiseAbove-wc2hs 2 года назад +7

    I haven't spoken to the "specific person" for over a year now. (Your videos helped me get over him as he was an emotionally abusive narcissist) I don't ask about him to the few people we have mutually in association because they stopped talking to him too. I blocked him on social media so I haven't checked up on him to see if he has received any karma from the stuff he put me through when I was helping him with his business last year. I learned my lessons I needed to learn from that whole situation and I moved on completely.

  • @garaseer584
    @garaseer584 2 года назад

    The worst mind set anybody could have equals TRUE. So much funny here as he reveals facts. I laughed. And then I laughed again. 😂😂

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад +1

    To show my noble royal Chinese family to everybody I met ? Stupid me stupid ! Really really stupid ! Cut these people out ! Out

  • @joshuaanzalone2060
    @joshuaanzalone2060 2 года назад +3

    I hate enablers of toxic behavior

  • @hourcircleentertainment4114
    @hourcircleentertainment4114 2 года назад +2

    This is what I’m going through right now bro 🤯

  • @jacalyntaylor6721
    @jacalyntaylor6721 2 года назад +4

    True. Im still alive. Lol I'm motivated to keep going. 💯

  • @SurroundedByClowns1926
    @SurroundedByClowns1926 2 года назад +4

    You crack me up OAG tell it how it really is I hear you 😂😂😂

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад +1

    I am very contained in my own frame but very very aggressive 🦅🐎🏇💨

  • @blackout8105
    @blackout8105 2 года назад +3

    They actually cheat themselves in the end. Great Message. God Blessings to you
    Thank you. Point!

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    I am way ahead above 99% people in this world , but without engage with evil people evil chosen ones bro ! Stay safe stay happy first !

  • @lifeofaseven
    @lifeofaseven 2 года назад +5

    You're exactly right
    That is a very deep way of looking at it, you do not have to be filthy rich or have a lot of material wealth, or think of it in a context that people would instantly think of it in
    To add value to this world and to bring value to other people
    It's all about the mentality and the heart...
    Living by example, our choices...
    There are people that show up in our lives that may not have money...
    May not have anything material to offer may not be able to do any of those things for us
    But they have so much light inside, encouragement, faith, motivation,...
    Perhaps they are very self aware, full of depth and wisdom, to pass along to us...
    Perhaps they are people that won't sugarcoat things and they will shoot us straight and give us the sense of direction we need when we need it...
    Those types of things are high value to me
    People that instead of bailing out on us, or they're so bored and impatient
    People that actually can have the patience and compassion to come and sit near us in our darkest times and just give us a little encouragement.. Etc
    That type of thing is high value!
    And right on, just not being the type of individual that is always on the lookout to use, abuse, get by on somebody else, feel Superior to, bring somebody else down, etc etc
    Again great video...💯

  • @jillwanamaker8535
    @jillwanamaker8535 2 года назад

    I’ve made the year 2022 of getting toxic people out of my life! I’m keeping quality people around me👍🏻

  • @jessewatt5528
    @jessewatt5528 2 года назад +31

    People used me when I had a bag of weed, when I ran out, so did them ppl. Only there for the good times. Now I have a decade in of clean time. Some ppl ask why i quit, I mainly quit, so I can better myself, so I can provide a better life for myself and finally confronted the narc parents why I started partying in the 1st place due to there bs abuse, finally over came the root of the problem.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад +1

    I hope they don't around me , that's my best blissing ever

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 2 года назад

    Of course :)
    Best way to " succeed " IS yourself. No one else knows your definition of success anyway !
    only you, know your ....definition of success

  • @Believiate
    @Believiate 2 года назад +4

    Just wanted to say I'm very impressed with the amount of wisdom you have at such a young age. I'm older than you but I've learned a lot from you. God Bless 🙏

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 2 года назад

    Patience, with relationships,
    Is VERY important.
    Because, yeah , it takes time , you got to have faith, and over time.....your relationships will grow.
    It's not a short one off thing.
    A one day, one off thing, is NOT, a relationship.

  • @Bxl19
    @Bxl19 2 года назад +2

    One thing about those tables they will always turn be careful how you treat people or how you talk about people

  • @thomasgyebi8717
    @thomasgyebi8717 Год назад

    There karma is having to watch to grow and progress knowing full well there can’t stop it and have no choice bc to watch. They hate bc they know they can’t stop where ur going. They punishment is to feel that simple powerlessness they instilled in u

  • @manwithanamethystheart
    @manwithanamethystheart 2 года назад +7

    You are absolutely correct 💯 🎯

  • @FilmForU369
    @FilmForU369 2 года назад +13

    I like watching your videos cause when I need to hear what you say at times helps me pull my head out of my ass and tighten back up again..thanks for doing what you do through these videos👍 Keep killin it brotha

  • @shereepurkiss7562
    @shereepurkiss7562 2 года назад +1

    Young face ,wise mind,I will send this to my son your an inspiration to the young generation 💖🌷

  • @Markie999
    @Markie999 2 года назад +12

    Justice is Real dawg and yes I tried my best to help them, instead they 💩 on me.
    It's in God's hands now.
    Thanks for all your power and love man, God bless you always man! Have a great weekend.

    • @sylviamjames
      @sylviamjames 2 года назад +1

      Well said.

    • @Markie999
      @Markie999 2 года назад +1

      @@sylviamjames thank you sir!
      Have a blessed weekend my new friend.

  • @hendrixsun9372
    @hendrixsun9372 2 года назад +3

    You are right. That’s why I’m alone. It been 5-6 years now. I have children and until they are on their own. It’s ok to be alone. Guys rein when they realize you actually do things by Gods law., they run and I don’t miss them. I miss the friends that crossed the line. I can’t imagine being in bed, naked and unmarried when God cubes back. Absolutely terrifies me. Yet can’t touch me bc I do my best to live by law and order.

    • @patrickyeates9516
      @patrickyeates9516 Год назад

      I got touched by a weird homosexual trying to entice me into a gay marriage with him and I escaped the scene like a hero, it was so scary being touched by a creepy evil man, this guy loved bombed me to hell thinking he had power over me in Soham, England, I live in Ely and Soham is the town onwards from Ely, I don't go out into the public to much now because England's society is full of these homosexuals freaks, any advice on the future because I feel like how women must feel when they get inhumanely touched, this fool was a right dickhead in Soham, glad I don't enter that weird town, the good folk are outnumbered there, so many pricks running around.

  • @tonifool7423
    @tonifool7423 2 года назад +1

    I'm cool IM COOL.and I'm on point with my ish.VALUE IS LOVE TRUST FAITH HONESTY RESPECT HONOR. LOYALTY.AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR SELF AND WORKING HARD

  • @MrDigitalIcon
    @MrDigitalIcon 2 года назад +2

    This is so real bro, i am dealing with some stuff right now and felt weak cuzz all i did was the right thing and got screwed over but this video has lifted me up. Ill continue to do the right thing and work hard. Thank you

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Год назад

    Our character speaks for itself.....

  • @elanahammer1076
    @elanahammer1076 2 года назад +5

    Terri… I am honored to be in your presence for this RUclips presentation. You are so on point in this message. Your goodness love and light shines through as you speak freely and in truth. You rock! Sending goodness and love in humanity to you from Oregon.🤔❤🇺🇸

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад +1

    I am on fasting under Allah's light ! God and academies always protect me , real chosen one

  • @garaseer584
    @garaseer584 2 года назад

    When you spoke of impatient people being DAMAGED and screwing with the public (don’t remember ur wording but minute 28 or so..I 😂😂😂 for 10 mins straight. Thanks! All of your videos are Excellent.

  • @CNyceTheDirector
    @CNyceTheDirector 2 года назад +3

    Alot of the stuff you say is biblical. Thanks for the message. Bro.
    Grace and peace.

  • @bradsmith2066
    @bradsmith2066 2 года назад +3

    If I cared about watching thier demise I would probably enjoy the hell out of it, but I could care less about that anymore....to infinity and beyond!!!

  • @phill8260
    @phill8260 2 года назад +1

    🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾 I was like that then got swept up had a business started up /and Job freedom lost it Messing with some people/ but I don’t care anymore but I move in silence and everyone who ghost me is a dub.and trust I’m doing all the right things just have to move In silence.

  • @AldenAbleAlvarez
    @AldenAbleAlvarez 2 года назад +2

    Man I love listening to these every single morning and every night before bed literally helps my mindset so much

  • @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure
    @MakeHipHopaconsciencetreasure 2 года назад +5

    Things learnt is the knowledge. Great honest message 🙏🏼💕 people use to think I had no future and then.... See I'm my own best supporter 👑 when blessings come to you after a specific female got in contact with you and is genuine may be poor, but capable- that's who you choose over Meghan Good and Meghan Fox. But again guys choose short term many times over long term. I'm no short term person.

  • @realrare2366
    @realrare2366 2 года назад +7

    You dead on today speaking straight facts❤️🏁💯💯💯

  • @hendrixsun9372
    @hendrixsun9372 2 года назад

    Presence you must give your presence they can’t command it of you.

  • @Joshandthedog
    @Joshandthedog Год назад

    You answered my question, don’t focus too much on the end result. how am I improving day to day?... What task is in front of me to improve myself

  • @kimberlymansinon8860
    @kimberlymansinon8860 2 года назад +1

    Gotta love brutal honesty!!! I appreciate it. 🙏

  • @kisigma1011
    @kisigma1011 2 года назад

    the crazy part is we both took each other soul

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 2 года назад

    Trust honesty devotion and unconditional love I am everything rolled into one

  • @savedforever1
    @savedforever1 2 года назад

    100%%%%%%%. They STILL trying too!!!!!

  • @ngekiny1246
    @ngekiny1246 2 года назад

    As a matter of fact
    They were ALREADY BROKEN!

  • @va4808
    @va4808 Год назад

    Terry - You can be my wing man anytime! ............

  • @graniteonion6799
    @graniteonion6799 2 года назад +1

    High 5 that dude… thank you, intention is everything along with trust

  • @annealicea9007
    @annealicea9007 2 года назад +1

    Hi Thank You for saying that remark when your doing something right for the right reaseaon your always going to win

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 2 года назад +1

    My friend you're exactly right you're preaching the right words I agree with you 100%. That always did from day one

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    If I talk with bunch of people , I am lower my value to those individuals level , I don't talk I don't socialize I don't pull alcohol with it , I dismiss

  • @Pascal79-p1r
    @Pascal79-p1r Год назад

    Hey Terry. I´ve listened your video. You speak directly out of my heart. I am also a TI from Germany. Attacked since 2013. I feel with you.

  • @katie_seyward
    @katie_seyward 2 года назад +7

    Damn straight 💪💯❤

  • @katiekidman007
    @katiekidman007 2 года назад +2

    Very Valuable Lesson. Thank you.💌

  • @BrianKarmo
    @BrianKarmo 2 года назад +1

    I see you're getting up there on your likes fam, good for you you deserve it. I hope the algorithm blesses you as well

  • @Designer_TopG
    @Designer_TopG 2 года назад

    * Know thy self *

  • @paulbelearde5023
    @paulbelearde5023 2 года назад +1

    Thank you God bless you in Jesus name amen

  • @michellebennett4030
    @michellebennett4030 2 года назад

    Divine timing. It seems forever but it's not so not .

  • @annnaconndaa
    @annnaconndaa 2 года назад +4

    bro stole from me and my family said shit to hurt me but guess what bitch imma win in the end and everything that you stole from me is gonna be taken from you 10 fold . i’m on and poppin now everything is a blessing in disguise thank you god for removing negative people out of my mf life

    • @joshuaanzalone2060
      @joshuaanzalone2060 2 года назад +1

      Anna for the lord says vengeance is mine

    • @annnaconndaa
      @annnaconndaa 2 года назад +1

      @@joshuaanzalone2060 thank you thank you 🙏🏻 appreciate it!

  • @stevejohnson747
    @stevejohnson747 2 года назад +4

    Appreciate the talk, support and validation.

  • @marcuswilliams7108
    @marcuswilliams7108 2 года назад +14

    Dude you a Godsend I just went through this experience the last few days now everybody back in they place 😤💪🏾

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 года назад

    I am going to pray each single morning under the sun 🌞

  • @jesuslives4us249
    @jesuslives4us249 2 года назад

    Smile bro we have won

  • @ScarpiEsther84ever
    @ScarpiEsther84ever 2 года назад +3

    Right on point 💯

  • @SilverBullet77
    @SilverBullet77 2 года назад +2

    You got your head on straight. Appreciate this!!!

  • @joycehagins9900
    @joycehagins9900 2 года назад

    God has already won the battle!

  • @FatmataConteh-pw4ol
    @FatmataConteh-pw4ol 10 месяцев назад

    Now this is Wisdom! Thank you! 🎉

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 2 года назад

    Hello to you reader peace be with you and your followers prayers 😇🙏💯❤

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 2 года назад

    You're right only you would know that feeling you know you know you know what's going on nobody would know better but you and that's what makes you strong

  • @michellebennett4030
    @michellebennett4030 2 года назад

    Tell it man. Real.

  • @rise2power4400
    @rise2power4400 2 года назад +2

    Bro make a video about the importance of consistency