How to overcome Loneliness? By Sandeep Maheshwari I Hindi

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  • Опубликовано: 15 дек 2024

Комментарии • 9 тыс.

  • @SandeepSeminars
    @SandeepSeminars  7 лет назад +12855

    Do not feel lonely... the entire universe is inside you!

    • @mysteriousplanet4683
      @mysteriousplanet4683 7 лет назад +137

      And even GOD is inside of us.

    • @reetuwaghmare888
      @reetuwaghmare888 7 лет назад +184

      sir you are the God gift person to this world 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🤗

    • @becreative7072
      @becreative7072 7 лет назад +52

      thank u sir for uploading this

    • @swetagohil388
      @swetagohil388 7 лет назад +36

      thank u sir for sharing this :)

    • @junak5956
      @junak5956 7 лет назад +29

      sir..u r inspr of my life....

  • @misery0907
    @misery0907 4 года назад +5018

    U r alone until u r unsuccessful once u achieve success everyone will be available for you - my experience

  • @ranjinin1872
    @ranjinin1872 5 лет назад +2868

    Blessed are those who are not shy ,can make conversation with anyone ,anytime.

    • @utkarsh189
      @utkarsh189 5 лет назад +219

      They mostly have fake frnds and can be betrayed by anyone

    • @shubham8105
      @shubham8105 5 лет назад +108

      abe shy jo hote h pehle wo baad me bahut acche extrovert bante hai

    • @Humblewrestling
      @Humblewrestling 5 лет назад +105

      I'm one of them....but still the truth is loneliness Still haunts me....I just want my best friend forever with me...share everything

    • @manmeetj4849
      @manmeetj4849 4 года назад +22

      Its a skill that anyone can develop

    • @diavi1212
      @diavi1212 4 года назад +28

      I m blessed with this things.... But still i feel lonely inside.

  • @strategyandmotivation8
    @strategyandmotivation8 2 года назад +80

    2 things independence we need for complete free happiness
    1) financial freedom
    2) internal happiness (more important)

  • @sachinchouhan1766
    @sachinchouhan1766 4 года назад +920

    A sense of loneliness is a big prblm, the solutions are these steps:-
    1. Don't take anything seriously.
    2. Love your self
    3. Observe thoughts
    4. Be peaceful , say Truth and good hearted
    5. Put yourself on someone's place to feel his/her thinking

    • @krishtiayer2825
      @krishtiayer2825 3 года назад +18

      I take things very seriously 🙂

    • @Raj-sz7rr
      @Raj-sz7rr 3 года назад +17

      Applicable only when your life is not Devastated 🙂

    • @sanketmale9946
      @sanketmale9946 3 года назад +4

      @@Raj-sz7rr same... Breakup 💔

    • @niftyquizforfun6324
      @niftyquizforfun6324 2 года назад +1

      ye mind washer video banata hai negative banata ha life

    • @anoopxsingh
      @anoopxsingh 2 года назад +8

      @@krishtiayer2825 how to love yourself... kahne ko aasan hai par karna kaise h

  • @samridhibhandari743
    @samridhibhandari743 7 лет назад +1335

    His kids are so lucky to have a parent like him!

    • @shantanu1947
      @shantanu1947 7 лет назад +167

      You are also very lucky to have your parents. The problem with human being is that he does not respect what he has.

    • @risefromtheashes821
      @risefromtheashes821 7 лет назад +30

      This didn't mean that she don't love her parents and Yeah u r right but he also said in one of his videos that don't criticize other people which I know that I'm also doing right now but I have to
      Let the other people say what they want to say, don't expect from whole world to think exactly like u, have a nice day dear don't mind😊😊😊

    • @vatsalsonigara3707
      @vatsalsonigara3707 7 лет назад +18

      Samridhi Bhandari hey listen up....your parents might have those qualities that he might lack...but those qualities are never appreciated...which is because humans have a tendency to get those things which they don't have instead of feeling pleasesd of what they already have...so don't compare your parents with him...they are unique!!😀😀

    • @themillionthdalailama
      @themillionthdalailama 6 лет назад +22

      @@shantanu1947 You have no idea what someone is going through. SO STOP MAKING ASSUMPTION.

    • @s-adi-sticaditya7810
      @s-adi-sticaditya7810 5 лет назад

      @@shantanu1947 exactly

  • @jitikanegi7371
    @jitikanegi7371 5 лет назад +2067

    Why some people firstly give you so much importance and then ignore you like they don't know u..?

    • @aliibilli
      @aliibilli 5 лет назад +125

      this is exactly the problem these days

    • @jojo_024
      @jojo_024 5 лет назад +166

      matlab TumhRi Zarurat Khtm ho Gayi Hai ,Unko Koi Naya Mil Gaya Hai.

    • @lifestyleobstacles3237
      @lifestyleobstacles3237 5 лет назад +182

      Its all n ur mind... Atfrst u were nt expecting, so everythng seemed spcl... Den wen u startd expecting, u strt seeing flaws..... Get rid of expectations..... B happy in urslf

    • @AtharvP07
      @AtharvP07 5 лет назад +34

      Yes that's a common problem many of us r facing nowadays

    • @Itsmelodic
      @Itsmelodic 5 лет назад +8

      JítîKå NëGì same feeling i have now

  • @rakhimahajan5472
    @rakhimahajan5472 2 года назад +108

    Not me watching this 5 years later and realizing it to be an absolute MASTERPIECE !!!

    • @fahadsiddique9291
      @fahadsiddique9291 2 года назад +2

      Here sir did a very genuine talk like when we love someone then automatically even we don't know that our separate identity of happiness began disappearing and at some time we become totally dependent on that person.
      and when we detached from that person we found that our happiness gone from life
      so sir here said that instead of depending on someone for happiness better to crisp up happiness in our own self.
      broken heart people even i am also in that category needs motivation or appreciation in order to move on for such Haunted situation.

    • @vanshmeshram8404
      @vanshmeshram8404 Год назад +1

      @@fahadsiddique9291 line marna band kr tujhse nhi patne wali bandi.

    • @fahadsiddique9291
      @fahadsiddique9291 Год назад

      @@vanshmeshram8404 after breakup a person can't fall in love with anyone .
      Change your mindset and see world with different eyesight not like duffer.

    • @Shortzchannal
      @Shortzchannal Год назад

      Same

    • @anuragbharti1194
      @anuragbharti1194 2 месяца назад

      Watching in 2024

  • @medvlog777
    @medvlog777 5 лет назад +2519

    I have no frnds b''cuz they think i am too boring and a bit rude and studious😕sometimes I hate myself ..I cant even share my feelings with anybody but actually now i am strong now🙏🙏

    • @NIKHILSHARMA-10
      @NIKHILSHARMA-10 5 лет назад +29

      Same Ananya

    • @Parzival047
      @Parzival047 5 лет назад +255

      Know what aanya ...
      It's better to be a powerful loner..
      Than to be with fake friends these day's 🤘

    • @NIKHILSHARMA-10
      @NIKHILSHARMA-10 5 лет назад +19

      @@Parzival047 very true !!

    • @mohdahad4208
      @mohdahad4208 5 лет назад +16

      How you became strong ??

    • @seetheyou
      @seetheyou 5 лет назад +53

      @@mohdahad4208 Get exposure in life. Let your thoughts come and go. You cannot control them. With time and with faith in God, you will be independent of yourself. You will feel good about yourself. You will start making yourself. You will not fear anymore to face your own thoughts. That's being strong in you. It's my thought to your question. Rest depends on you. All the very best 🙂

  • @thetree7694
    @thetree7694 5 лет назад +306

    This is such a strange place. Everyone is lonely but no one wants to talk to anyone.

    • @nikeetakhatri6700
      @nikeetakhatri6700 3 года назад +2

      Because PPL r not getting their company to talk or me time

    • @achakzai8193
      @achakzai8193 3 года назад +1

      feeling the same

    • @peachaesthxtic23
      @peachaesthxtic23 3 года назад +2

      Ego ego ego

    • @VikasKumar88821
      @VikasKumar88821 3 года назад +3

      @@peachaesthxtic23 j-hope का song 🤔

    • @peachaesthxtic23
      @peachaesthxtic23 3 года назад

      @@VikasKumar88821 j hope who? What I meant was that ppl have a lot of ego these days

  • @atishayjain3415
    @atishayjain3415 5 лет назад +278

    Feeling lonely alaways no frnds no college life always seeing everyone Hanging out and enjoying their life and me trying to fit in everyone's opinion to enjoy your life

    • @rg2rg260
      @rg2rg260 4 года назад +10

      Bro you deserve more likes than ever for this comment....you made it all out in one piece.

    • @sushmitadas7389
      @sushmitadas7389 4 года назад

      Uplift urself in that level people want u in their in life watch this ruclips.net/video/1_0-cCjNP2g/видео.html

    • @chillndie
      @chillndie 3 года назад +1

      @@sushmitadas7389 these things look good on paper. getting people around you cos you're successful are useless.

    • @vishalpatelful
      @vishalpatelful 3 года назад

      Yeh toh galti hai ki dusre ki opinion mai fit hone ki kosis kar rahe ho.

    • @tanyagauniyal6880
      @tanyagauniyal6880 9 месяцев назад

      Same feeling 😅 I am lonely

  • @Preetsdiaries
    @Preetsdiaries 2 года назад +19

    Be completely independent.. Emotionally mentally physically financially... Thats the best power You'll feel fantastic

  • @priyasainimahiyacallection5459
    @priyasainimahiyacallection5459 5 лет назад +810

    Akle rahane Ka ek alg hi mjaa h na kisi ke aane ki umid na jaane ka dar💯

    • @laxmanrajput8826
      @laxmanrajput8826 5 лет назад +10

      Pr nhi ho pata h ye sb

    • @muhammadzain8372
      @muhammadzain8372 5 лет назад +2

      Right👍

    • @shivampatel-ys9qr
      @shivampatel-ys9qr 5 лет назад +14

      Being too much lonely is the worst thing you are doing
      We are social creature
      If we live too much lonely we will certainly feel problem in long term

    • @mohammadadilkhan7840
      @mohammadadilkhan7840 5 лет назад +3

      PR JAYADA HI AKELE RAHTE H TO AKELAPAN HAME JAKAD LETA H WHATEVER IT IS................................?

    • @Reflex_4ever
      @Reflex_4ever 5 лет назад +1

      True

  • @ansharya9129
    @ansharya9129 4 года назад +810

    I help everyone in every possible way but at the end I am only left alone....

    • @ganeshnalawade2261
      @ganeshnalawade2261 4 года назад +25

      Hey !! Don't be sad men, i am psychologist i can help you to get out of this situation without taking any fees 😊.

    • @risingaditya4192
      @risingaditya4192 4 года назад +3

      Exactly with me this thing happens

    • @draroojfatima
      @draroojfatima 4 года назад +4

      Same 😪

    • @hemadrishrestha4025
      @hemadrishrestha4025 3 года назад +22

      Yeah me too .I accompany when others are lonely and sad.But when I am lonely anyone doesn't even care

    • @sushreenanda642
      @sushreenanda642 3 года назад +8

      nobody can help u in a time u r the only who help u if want ur destination u have to scrafice this and then every one give u importance 😀

  • @riseandshine8566
    @riseandshine8566 6 лет назад +848

    I have no friends my friends used and throw me...I have faced loneliness ..but I m strong...

    • @Abeliever000
      @Abeliever000 6 лет назад +72

      @@dhankness such a shame!

    • @dhankness
      @dhankness 6 лет назад +16

      @@Abeliever000 if you have watched the video attentively you should know why I wrote this

    • @iqrasiddiqui9618
      @iqrasiddiqui9618 6 лет назад +12

      You describe my life rn

    • @lucifer9805
      @lucifer9805 6 лет назад +9

      Hey we can be frnds

    • @javedlalani8730
      @javedlalani8730 6 лет назад +17

      I am also facing a same situation

  • @ashishsaini2327
    @ashishsaini2327 Год назад +21

    How is this possible for a young human to have such deep understanding about life. I am truly impressed by him.
    He is more than just a motivation speaker

  • @yogeshpanwar9889
    @yogeshpanwar9889 4 года назад +280

    this boy changes my thoughts every second he deserves a billion more😊

  • @prachigiri763
    @prachigiri763 3 года назад +200

    After coming to comment section I realised that I'm not the only one who feels like this ....

  • @musaibquadri191
    @musaibquadri191 5 лет назад +1095

    Loneliness is the best feeling in the world because at that time u r closest to ur self which help u to discover urself 😁 change ur perspective, it will change ur life

    • @nodistraction9134
      @nodistraction9134 5 лет назад +10

      Pkmkb

    • @shivampatel-ys9qr
      @shivampatel-ys9qr 5 лет назад +30

      Don't be too lonely or it will lead you towards several big problems

    • @amitsagar.talkstories
      @amitsagar.talkstories 5 лет назад +2

      Same in my case bhai.

    • @tanishqkureel3833
      @tanishqkureel3833 5 лет назад +21

      u mean to say solitude which is a good thing but loneliness is a negative state

    • @musaibquadri191
      @musaibquadri191 5 лет назад +8

      @@tanishqkureel3833 yaa i was talking about solitude only... Very few will know the importance of it😇

  • @VINAYGAUTAM-4543
    @VINAYGAUTAM-4543 2 года назад +104

    He is not only a motivator but also a good comedian

  • @edularadhika6489
    @edularadhika6489 4 года назад +199

    I'm a kinda girl who feels everyone do close to heart..I always try to comfort ppl around me ...at first they stay close to me and later....😑😑.no words to say....I'm a studious one and I don't even scold someone...even then I dont have frnds......they remember me in need..when they dont need me ..I'm someone ....this kills me but I know I m my best frnd .....everyone know wt am I and I don't wanna change myself for someone.........i m born to succeed an i shall not let such depression rule me ......I love myself...I'm sure one day they will realise my Importance

    • @happytripsindia
      @happytripsindia 4 года назад +3

      Good luck girl.

    • @samainagupta9798
      @samainagupta9798 4 года назад +2

      Edula Radhika Reddy Quite similar to my case!!

    • @edularadhika6489
      @edularadhika6489 4 года назад +14

      I have seen many similar comments .. I wonder why ones who are a bit studious and a kind of introvert always face such things .. ☹☹☹😔😔

    • @happytripsindia
      @happytripsindia 4 года назад +5

      @@edularadhika6489 Trust me...few years later you will be thankful for these obstacles & situations currently going on. it will open a new dimension to understand anyone.

    • @syedwaleed9125
      @syedwaleed9125 4 года назад +3

      @@edularadhika6489 Same things happens to me as a boy it isbv difficult to handle and i am not as much motivated as you

  • @bhavnakumari5475
    @bhavnakumari5475 3 года назад +51

    I'm listing this video again after 2 years and got a better perception and understanding. Want to mention one more thing "my mother is one of the strongest person I know till date"

  • @soulhunter9118
    @soulhunter9118 4 года назад +732

    I am very lucky lol that i talk to myself all the time 😂 and because of that i always think i have someone with me

  • @TopGun_-
    @TopGun_- 2 года назад +22

    Praying for every one of you reading this right now. Know that you’re not alone in this at all. We are all here in support of each other. Everyone here has a different circumstance that brought them here today. I’m 50 yrs old and have lived alone most of my adult life. Even if you’re reading this posting a year or 3 years after it was written, know that we are all still in this with you today! Simply reaching out to others in a chat forum like this can possibly bring about a conversation that may very well bring the insight you’ve needed all this time, or you may very well provide the very words of encouragement or wisdom that could change the trajectory of someone else’s dead end feeling. So please, don’t just wallow in your circumstance, but instead reach out to some complete stranger in this chat room or another and offer up your support and wisdom. It will bless them and you as well.

  • @ansharya9129
    @ansharya9129 4 года назад +529

    I am dealing with loneliness... These days... Hope I get positivity

    • @sushmitadas7389
      @sushmitadas7389 4 года назад +3

      Develop urself in such extent that ppl want u in your life watch this ruclips.net/video/1_0-cCjNP2g/видео.html

    • @bhanusaini789
      @bhanusaini789 4 года назад +9

      Me tooo ,I had not focused on anything

    • @sshrestha2245
      @sshrestha2245 4 года назад +2

      Same here this loneliness....

    • @abidaahmed6496
      @abidaahmed6496 4 года назад +2

      Allah taala ap hamasha khush rakha

    • @shunya797
      @shunya797 4 года назад

      Don't worry all r wid u
      We all love u
      God loves u

  • @Orshi04
    @Orshi04 5 лет назад +247

    I came here accidentally..
    But got hooked onto it...
    You are telling my story..
    I have learnt to be happy with myself.
    Thank you

  • @MrRespectMaths
    @MrRespectMaths 3 года назад +24

    Loneliness is better than bad company.So live along and be happy
    Give respect take respect
    Be Happy in your life
    Not wait to get respect give respect first
    You've got a beautiful heart.
    Inside out you are beautiful.
    Success for all of us
    Pray for one another
    May ALLAH success you in
    Every field of life
    We all are brothers
    And Sister

  • @aditikshirsagar520
    @aditikshirsagar520 6 месяцев назад +5

    This video changed me from within inside... 25-05-2017 this was your introduction, can said to be 1st entry in my life, and rest all changed rather got managed pre-planned and organised whether work, aim, tasks, emotions, person, relations, lifestyle, etc in my life by me, thank you sir
    - *Aditi Kshirsagar 18-06-2024*

  • @prakashchandra5332
    @prakashchandra5332 5 лет назад +236

    If your mother Love's you at the end of her life then trust me you are not #alone❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @veronicav8712
      @veronicav8712 4 года назад +11

      Everyone is not that lucky

    • @naziajamalthreetwoonezerof7370
      @naziajamalthreetwoonezerof7370 4 года назад +10

      What if ur mother doesn't loves u.....coz some people are damn unlucky😃

    • @veronicav8712
      @veronicav8712 4 года назад +7

      @@naziajamalthreetwoonezerof7370 yes some selfish mothers do exist

    • @varshasoni8338
      @varshasoni8338 4 года назад +3

      Right🤲🙏😇she is real angel f our life

    • @anshpradhan463
      @anshpradhan463 4 года назад +2

      Meri maa nahi ha

  • @akashss7148
    @akashss7148 7 лет назад +54

    TOPIC- WEIRED EDUCATION SYSTEM OF INDIA ....

  • @Deedee-ks1wh
    @Deedee-ks1wh 6 лет назад +31

    This is his best video, totally changed my perspective about loneliness, loneliness is no more destructive to me

  • @Ishwormahato-d7y
    @Ishwormahato-d7y Год назад +16

    When you reach maturity point then you can feel this is how "MASTERPIECE " it is.❤

  • @Angel-ye7xn
    @Angel-ye7xn 3 года назад +677

    Watching at 2:00am at night..being too lonely sucks :(

  • @nitishmishra2325
    @nitishmishra2325 6 лет назад +38

    I am complete
    I am infinite
    I am universe
    I am everything.
    👏👏 your words are so helpful
    😊😊

  • @vinita1792
    @vinita1792 5 лет назад +45

    loneliness can be either life changing or life devastating...

  • @daydreamer3375
    @daydreamer3375 3 года назад +20

    The man with full of positivity and blessings ❤️

    • @lubnamasud4470
      @lubnamasud4470 2 года назад

      You r great Sandeep . God bless you always

  • @achalpanchal2173
    @achalpanchal2173 7 лет назад +632

    make a video on how teenager get deal with small friend circle or no circle, shyness, nervousness,social anxiety etc....

    • @achalpanchal2173
      @achalpanchal2173 7 лет назад +4

      so nice of uh raghav...😊

    • @saikatkundu4233
      @saikatkundu4233 7 лет назад +4

      7278484052-Whatsapp

    • @subhammitra1142
      @subhammitra1142 7 лет назад +10

      Dost mera bhi nahi hai 😪.

    • @MadhuBandaru07
      @MadhuBandaru07 7 лет назад +13

      Same here i don't have any friends i do have a social anxiety and nervousness

    • @nainagoyal3634
      @nainagoyal3634 7 лет назад +10

      Achal Panchal Hey hi!! This is something I did experience in adolescence! But believe me things will change for better once you decide to challenge yourself irrespective of your social fears and surroundings.. challenging here means you have to constantly fight your inner voice and do exactly opposite i.e. make extra efforts to talk to people. Once you meet the right kind of people you'll enjoy what once you were afraid of..

  • @priyankagurav786
    @priyankagurav786 4 года назад +79

    Nice thought. Until now i was searching happiness in my friends and family and now when I am living alone I am feeling depressed and missing everyone. But now after watching this video, I will not divert my mind towards temporary happiness and be the happiness by myself. Thank you so much.

    • @mohdjunaid32527
      @mohdjunaid32527 4 года назад +2

      Is it working ????

    • @shizitechnologies9064
      @shizitechnologies9064 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/D1mczCPOQEM/видео.html

    • @1trending885
      @1trending885 2 года назад +2

      @@mohdjunaid32527 is it working Haha it's not app bro tumhe khud samajna hoga life tumhara hai

    • @helper_S
      @helper_S Год назад

      @@1trending885 yeah

  • @ShubhamGupta-wy2mv
    @ShubhamGupta-wy2mv 6 лет назад +48

    I love to live alone
    For my entire life I'm living alone for most of the time...
    But u know where is the problem
    90% of the time when I was alone I was not with myself #DEEP
    I need to change it
    I'm changing it
    Because what I have learnt
    Living alone isn't actually being alone untill u r not connected with your own self
    Sandeep sir u r just awesome
    U r a vibration that is spreading happiness
    #THANKYOU

  • @jhetalalgada6761
    @jhetalalgada6761 2 года назад +36

    It's been three years , & still way more relevant than any other motivator ❤️

  • @teenrapj3804
    @teenrapj3804 7 лет назад +21

    From today onwards I myself is sufficient to make myself euphoric. ASAAN HAI😎

  • @ruksarharoon7278
    @ruksarharoon7278 4 года назад +193

    Why on earth didn't i find this channel earlier. Dude you are heaven, your words are so motivating and speak so much sense. May God fulfill all your hearts desires and grant you happiness. Ameen

  • @Mariyathakur1
    @Mariyathakur1 4 года назад +494

    I have no frnds every person in my life judge me make my fun even my parents doesn't understand me I had loss my hopes to be alive

    • @ankitpoudel676
      @ankitpoudel676 4 года назад +61

      Nope bro share your feeling with your mom Believe me she is the one who struggle 9 months to give u birth .Focus on study or something else . It is hard to focus but slowly and gradually it becomes your habit . Watch different movies or read comics to divert your mind . Sleeping also reduce your stress. You can share with your close friend too

    • @Mariyathakur1
      @Mariyathakur1 4 года назад +12

      @@ankitpoudel676 thanks bro💗

    • @ankitpoudel676
      @ankitpoudel676 4 года назад +22

      MaRiya Thakur the main thing is divert your mind . U can start jogging and meditation . Watch funny movies . While concentrating in study . Just plan to read only 2/3 pages . After u complete that task than u start to feel that u have achieve some goal in life . Don't give burden to your mind . Chill bro life will be more challenging in upcoming days . U are strongest sperm so u able to come to this beautiful world . Your parents has sacrificed lots of things for your happiness . The Only hope for them is You . Set small goals chill and enjoy your life😊😊

    • @Mariyathakur1
      @Mariyathakur1 4 года назад +11

      @@ankitpoudel676 yah I Will try n thanks for motivating me bro
      I'm happy that there r people like u who support others in there worst time
      U might be a veey good frnd ones again thank u😊
      💗💗💗

    • @notsushant9960
      @notsushant9960 4 года назад +12

      I have 400 frds 2 bff alot of girls ready to date but still I am feeling like a loner😥😥😥

  • @behishtaazizi845
    @behishtaazizi845 3 года назад +11

    You changed my mindset(Be happy with your self). Love from Afghanistan 🇦🇫
    Your every single word worths a lot. Thanks

  • @shuvradutta8396
    @shuvradutta8396 6 лет назад +21

    Matchless talk Sandeepji!
    I am fifty years young and always love to watch your shows and learn many things.

  • @Benrhonikikon
    @Benrhonikikon 4 года назад +30

    My brother always suggested me to watch his videos.. I never did and now after a year.. I am here.. And found just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much sir sandeep. It took lifetime to understand what was missing in me... I don't need to find happiness in some other people.. Happiness lies within.😇😇😇

  • @ayanbepari4598
    @ayanbepari4598 Год назад +35

    Just Imagine agar humk school mein ye sikhaya jate ki "How to think"😢

  • @mdirfanmdirfan4236
    @mdirfanmdirfan4236 2 года назад +70

    Don't compare ur self with other..
    Be happy...don't wait for success always enjoy the journey...enjoy the hard work..💯💯💞😇😇

  • @fearlessmantra544
    @fearlessmantra544 3 года назад +13

    Most of them prefer to stay away from people who are clean, straight forward, no gossip as they themselves are of manipulating behaviour. I face this issue regularly.

  • @yawarqasim3354
    @yawarqasim3354 4 года назад +68

    When You Heart Breaks💔💔
    Your Mind Start Working 😎😎

  • @SabbirAhmedSibli
    @SabbirAhmedSibli 4 года назад +51

    My four years of a serious relationship (both of our first love also) has ended up 4 days ago. She agreed with her family and is marrying someone else. I also convinced my family but she declared she can't be able to go against her family. In the end, she told me that she doesn't want me anymore. So I have nothing to fight for anything as she herself is not on my side. I am upset, very upset. She did many things for me in the last four years. She sacrificed many for me. But in the end, she left me behind. Maybe my fault, but I tried from my side also. She is very special to me. I tried, but can't bring hatred for her. I feel so lonely thinking that my love will be someone else's for the rest of the life, in the same home sharing the same bed. And here, I am sitting alone, listening to these speeches to gain some confidence to overcome the unbearable pain of loss. Maybe I'll overcome, maybe I'll not, but I always pray for her. She is already happy, I hope she will be happier.....

    • @sunnyd3852
      @sunnyd3852 4 года назад +12

      She did what was best for her, now it's your turn. Take your time to greive the death of the relationship and then focus on finding someone who will have same goal as you. You are young, loved and with experience very few get in life. Atleast you tried your best. I'm proud of you and I hope you get back into dating pool soon. No matter who you end up with (arrange or love) , the girl will get an awesome lover such as you. :) Good luck pal.

    • @nonosh9266
      @nonosh9266 4 года назад +5

      You’ll end up in much better place one day. You’ll look back and see it as a blessing. In a mean time, grieve as much as you want. Slowly you’ll learn to cope with it and will be more much stronger and smarter.

    • @gullardeep4940
      @gullardeep4940 3 года назад +1

      Same situation be strong

    • @achakzai8193
      @achakzai8193 3 года назад +3

      if she did so many things for u and loved u alot may be u hurt her from inside shyd us waja,se ap us k dil se utar gae i dnt know k kon sahi h ya ghalat i m just saying kabhi kabhi larki bewafa nai hti jab wo dekhti h k us ko ek jaga se wo cheez kisi soorat nai mil sakti ho wo chahti he then she can also leave dnt take it wrong not blaming u ..

    • @RajatG69
      @RajatG69 3 года назад +1

      U deserve better 💪

  • @vijayagaisamudre3217
    @vijayagaisamudre3217 3 года назад +6

    In my line of education, privacy is power
    No one talks with me except one close friend snd parents and my big brother.
    Only one who entertains me is Mr. Bean- Rowan Atkinson who told that you can be happy even if you've no one to talk.
    So, I'm on my way to achieve a something that will help each and every person to educate and move forward and help each other.

  • @radrocks4512
    @radrocks4512 4 года назад +8

    My Wife refer me ur lecture it was awesome and very motivated and I am just want to say my wife I am happy very much within myself and I promise that I will keep everyone to be happy...I love you very much and I am not alone ....
    I love you Jaan

  • @shinohtv21
    @shinohtv21 6 лет назад +57

    M so alone...no frns no family n I can't get over it 😱 m dying everyday (before watching video)
    Now I feel better😃 (after watching video)

  • @sanayusuf7862
    @sanayusuf7862 5 лет назад +43

    We are really blessed to have you Sir!!!!

  • @HarpreetKaur-lf3yr
    @HarpreetKaur-lf3yr 2 года назад +8

    Your line about marriage that....it's not mandatory....Love that thing💞👌

  • @divyagowda2023
    @divyagowda2023 4 года назад +12

    I rarely hit like button but this video just made me hit like button. "Your happiness is not dependent on others" awesome line.

  • @shubhasankarbhattacharjee1623
    @shubhasankarbhattacharjee1623 6 лет назад +200

    Some common phrases of sir..
    Dekho bahot Assaaaaan Hai..
    Khacchar..
    Jamin asmaan ka pharak hai..
    Yes or no, yes or no..
    Ra samjhooo...
    Baukhla jaoge..
    Bahat interesting hai, agar pakar pao to..
    Jyada deep to nahi ho raha hai, pakar pa rahe ho na??
    Dono hi trap hai..
    Bahat bari problem hai..
    And still discovering...😀😁😂

    • @harshwardhan8458
      @harshwardhan8458 6 лет назад +3

      😂 😂 Lol

    • @soniakaur4309
      @soniakaur4309 6 лет назад +3

      Asaan hee

    • @rashione982
      @rashione982 6 лет назад +3

      Shubhasankar Bhattacharjee *Awwww* 😍😍😍😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rashione982
      @rashione982 6 лет назад +2

      Yeh toh main bhi comment karti hu abhi😂😂😂😂😁😁😁

    • @rolijain3985
      @rolijain3985 6 лет назад +5

      Lagao dimmag
      Dekh paa rahe ho
      Apnay andar ki duniya

  • @priyankade6627
    @priyankade6627 6 лет назад +9

    the man who is spreading all of his happiness among the world..the most respected person in my life

  • @sharmichakraborty
    @sharmichakraborty 2 года назад +9

    The brilliance of his session lies in the fact that even for a repeat visitor there's so much to learn, so much to explore 💞

  • @rajdeepnaik1286
    @rajdeepnaik1286 5 лет назад +49

    I feel so alone ...no frds ....no support no positivity in my life 😢

    • @bikashkoiri2692
      @bikashkoiri2692 3 года назад +5

      Same bro🥺

    • @shreyaaashi4147
      @shreyaaashi4147 3 года назад +4

      It's ok my friend,once i was also like you but as the time passed I became emotionally strong and now I have some really great friends and I am grateful for that ☺️😊

    • @shreyaaashi4147
      @shreyaaashi4147 3 года назад +2

      I hope you will also become a really happy person . May god bless you😃

  • @dewangsolanki4093
    @dewangsolanki4093 3 года назад +27

    08:26
    15:53
    Take things lightly. Its that simple :) 18:14
    No obsession 20:08
    I AM Happiness 26:10
    Conclusion : 27:24

  • @Hassan-gk4ls
    @Hassan-gk4ls 5 лет назад +9

    this girl weeping to see sandeep sir i know her feeeling towards sandeep sir .......long live

  • @technomitegamer7833
    @technomitegamer7833 Год назад +6

    Steps to have play ful life :-
    1. Enjoy every moment in life 😊
    2. having gratitude
    3. see the world as funny and lovely
    4. do not think that you are seperate from anything because tour thaught can change almost every scenerios❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shivamSingh-tz2in
    @shivamSingh-tz2in 5 лет назад +26

    Moral of the story : kismat lagaye toh bhi haste jayein . Be a Centrist.

  • @ohnana21
    @ohnana21 7 лет назад +16

    I came on RUclips just to search "I feel lonely" and I already had this on my recommendations. I've never felt this lonely before.
    I am always there for others but nobody is there in my time of need.. but that's okay.
    All I can say is thank you.

    • @ishantandon3576
      @ishantandon3576 7 лет назад +3

      thatvirgosoul ....right...same to same merre saath bhi hua

  • @usamashakeel9466
    @usamashakeel9466 5 лет назад +385

    A lonely person is a badass... Workout in the gym, Conscious about diet, Shopping, Long drive with badass music, Netflix... Many more stuff... That's me... Yeah! I'm lonely... I have 0 friends... The girl is like... She didn't like me... Dunno why... She's so sweet... I guess life isn't easy for her... And she likes someone else... The boy who don't give a damn about her... Everyday i missed her so much but just gonna sit on the couch and cry like a baby won't do the job... Work on yourself... Go to the gym... Clean your diet... Go for a long walk... Go for shopping... Love yourself... Be happy... Yeah! I know... Try to be happy... I do all of this and still sometimes i cry like a baby at nights.. Life isn't easy for anyone... Get up... If you want a friend... I'm here... Talk to me.. Try! Come on! I swear I'll reply...
    If you wanna talk.. Connect with me on Instagram.. Here's the link instagram.com/sivispacemperabellum?igshid=23ew1bdq1kht

    • @umairtalib6340
      @umairtalib6340 5 лет назад +7

      I feel you

    • @usamashakeel9466
      @usamashakeel9466 5 лет назад +1

      @@umairtalib6340 Oh do you!??

    • @swejaldhengle8996
      @swejaldhengle8996 5 лет назад +2

      Appreciated!

    • @coolsummi152
      @coolsummi152 5 лет назад +9

      I relate you soo much but that little times when i get done with doing all that things and cry my heart out alwayss again and again after doing all that just makes me wanna giveup with everything in my life.

    • @parimalpal3226
      @parimalpal3226 5 лет назад +6

      Very true..after doing all the necessary stuff again that loneliness feeling..the same thought that scares me most comes out..and sometimes we don't even want to do anything.

  • @basri40
    @basri40 2 года назад +8

    Loneliness is one of the part of the dangerous of humanbody,,,but yours solution is the heal and happiness given to body problems ,, thank you Sandeep ji your suggestion is one of the mind blowing awareness to people,,

  • @parthsable
    @parthsable 4 года назад +28

    This person has helped a lot of people in this generation full of heartbreaks !! Lot of respect for u sir.Thank you

  • @samridhibhandari743
    @samridhibhandari743 7 лет назад +39

    Sir, please make a video on 'how to overcome depression and anxiety caused by social media'.

    • @shivampatel-ys9qr
      @shivampatel-ys9qr 5 лет назад +1

      Most of Social media platform are one of the worst thing we are having presently
      Try using least .🙂

  • @pragyajain1236
    @pragyajain1236 3 года назад +7

    From childhood I don't have any real friends and still I don't have any one of them , sometimes I felt like I am not good enough in making friends but now I understand that nobody is good enough to become my friend🤞🤞

    • @sayanghosh2595
      @sayanghosh2595 3 года назад

      Tu deserving nhi hai. Tu koi khas nhi hai

    • @pragyajain1236
      @pragyajain1236 3 года назад

      @@harish2626 nothing special
      As usual I feel like I am not capable in making friends😓nor anyone look like to be my friend

    • @aindrilaganguly3810
      @aindrilaganguly3810 Год назад +1

      No friend .You are good in your own way .If you have a kind hearted loving soul you are more than good enough .May be people around you are not sensitive enough to understand you and value you.

    • @pragyajain1236
      @pragyajain1236 Год назад

      @@aindrilaganguly3810 but now
      I think that I don't need them because my permanent friend will always be me ❤️only

  • @LotusITHub
    @LotusITHub 6 месяцев назад +1

    सफलता हमारा परिचय दुनिया से करवाती है और असफलता हमें दुनिया का परिचय करवाती है..” Thank you sir 💯

  • @AyushKumar-vd6wi
    @AyushKumar-vd6wi 7 лет назад +8

    Are yar ye to bade hi aashcharya ki bat ho gayi Sandeep Sir ki pahli video Jo ki trending me hai ye RUclips walo ko kya ho gaya lagta hai unlogo ko bhi ye video pasand aa gayi hai chalo ye to bahut achchi bat hai kam se kam aur log bhi Sandeep sir ke bare me Jan sake .

  • @sushmitarao5550
    @sushmitarao5550 2 года назад +7

    Its sound so simple to find yourself...actually we get lost in pleasing others and we get addicted to that..hope i will find myself soon🤗

  • @TasnimPets
    @TasnimPets 7 лет назад +7

    From Bangladesh... By watching your video I have changed my life.. I can understand your session very deeply and can remember in different situation. Thanks a lot sandeep sir.

  • @neettools2055
    @neettools2055 Год назад +1

    thanks sir,,, aaj bht he jyda he lonely feel kr rha tha.[..before watch this session]'.. m apni khushi k liye dusro pr depend ho rha tha... but ye smj aaya iss session se ki mai khus hun already... apne aap ko aisa bnana h ki log mere paas aaye khushi maagne.. ek bikhari jiske paas khushi h he nhi jo doosro par depend h apni khushi k liye vo doosro ko khushi kya dega.. aisa lg rha tha ki jaise sir muje he ye line bol rahe ho.......bs 2 cheez karni pahla ki financially stable hona h sabse pahle or vo ho bhi rha hun,, or khus rahun taki mere aas paas k logo ka mai acche se dhyan rakh saku.... thanks sir pichle kitne dino se dipress feel kr rha tha.... ab thoda behtar feel kr rha hun.....god always bless u sir thanks....

  • @c-83raisaislamoishi6
    @c-83raisaislamoishi6 4 года назад +11

    You are the best motivational speaker in the world I have ever seen.respect to you from Bangladesh.May Allah bless you.

  • @capitaldelights-vlogs8506
    @capitaldelights-vlogs8506 7 месяцев назад +12

    No doctor no school teach this ❤

  • @shreeyacee8767
    @shreeyacee8767 4 года назад +30

    Once in my life I want to attend your speech live ❤️
    Lots of love from nepal🇳🇵❤️

  • @lightyagami47299
    @lightyagami47299 2 года назад +20

    Cured my depression along with laughs
    Thank you so much 🥺

    • @NEOfIyop
      @NEOfIyop Год назад

      Ah! Are from Serenity chat group telegram?

    • @VidyaAnand-x6f
      @VidyaAnand-x6f Год назад

      That's so much true

  • @asmr_feast6867
    @asmr_feast6867 3 года назад +13

    I get so relieved and peaceful 😌 after watching this

  • @scmt1301
    @scmt1301 5 лет назад +61

    We Are Not Here to Talk about this Loneliness
    WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT #ALONE #NoFriends #DEPRESSION #DyingInside

  • @usamazahid7703
    @usamazahid7703 7 лет назад +57

    I can't stop Listening you Even in my Exams, Now.....

    • @MrSarkarraj123
      @MrSarkarraj123 7 лет назад +1

      Usama Zahid ::) gO b[bmP ::) Ik c.f. ::) : k o k lo lO tum :P :P :P

    • @areejmughal5557
      @areejmughal5557 7 лет назад

      Usama Zahid you are also Muslim na ???

    • @areejmughal5557
      @areejmughal5557 7 лет назад

      Usama Zahid bataiye kya ap aik achy musalman hn?

    • @usamazahid7703
      @usamazahid7703 7 лет назад

      G bilkul , or shaid mai samjh raha hn jo ap kehna chahty hain so profession ky liye sandeep sir ko sunta hn

    • @areejmughal5557
      @areejmughal5557 7 лет назад

      Usama Zahid mn smjhi nhin

  • @anuragbhattacharya6898
    @anuragbhattacharya6898 2 года назад +1

    আপনার এই এক একটা ভিডিও এক একটা জীবন শেষ হয়ে যাওয়ার থেকে বাঁচিয়ে করে দিচ্ছে স্যার। You are really great ❤️❤️ Love from Kolkata ❤️✨

    • @MrTechtino
      @MrTechtino 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/MPgMvA6od84/видео.html

  • @ThakurAnujBhadauria
    @ThakurAnujBhadauria 7 лет назад +37

    this video was my ever best birthday gift.. thnk u sir

  • @shivapandey2456
    @shivapandey2456 5 лет назад +6

    first become financially independent, then happiness..... great word

  • @Satsha_1234
    @Satsha_1234 3 года назад +9

    When sir was speaking, he was speaking my heart out❤🥺. Going through same problem, but feeling much better now.

  • @rajatraut9345
    @rajatraut9345 Год назад +2

    I am the universe When I am alone I am with me(the whole universe)

  • @zainabusmaniofficial9330
    @zainabusmaniofficial9330 5 лет назад +7

    It is helpful for me I'm suffering from this situation in my relationship. I am mother of two daughters. Really I wanted to be happy with my husband now when he changed now I am looking that happiness in my daughters. Thank you for this video now I understood happiness is in me not outside me. May you live more

  • @imrahulp
    @imrahulp 6 лет назад +21

    My words.... Totally changed my vision... GBU sir

  • @SoMuch_with_Mini
    @SoMuch_with_Mini 5 лет назад +502

    Watching at 1:30 AM....just because feeling lonely 😥😥

    • @Dk-bo4vb
      @Dk-bo4vb 5 лет назад +7

      Me v
      Bht akeli feel krri

    • @nodistraction9134
      @nodistraction9134 5 лет назад +5

      WhatsApp me if you feel alone 9056282371 yamini

    • @alamworld2691
      @alamworld2691 5 лет назад +3

      Life is tuff but u r Tuffest 💪

    • @anshulpal2619
      @anshulpal2619 5 лет назад +19

      @@nodistraction9134 chutiya😂

    • @JIGGGGGGua_638
      @JIGGGGGGua_638 5 лет назад +4

      @@anshulpal2619 😂😂😂😂

  • @Nimla55
    @Nimla55 Год назад

    Sare Bramhanda mere sath hai aur mere andar pura energy bhara hai... "line by Sandeep Sir-which I got to know too" 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bhavykhandelwal1677
    @bhavykhandelwal1677 3 года назад +10

    I watched this at 2'o clock in night, and i am highly charged up because of your words, thanks a lot I was very depressed, but now I fill relief, thanku so much sir😍😍

    • @rahulnayakaofficial
      @rahulnayakaofficial 2 года назад

      @@yt_growww same here brother I have no true friends I am alon 😢 me kisi friend ko bolta hu ki kahi ghumne chle to bhi koi nai aate sach me life ko kuch bhi enjoy nahi kiya mene kyoki I hve no friend

    • @rahulnayakaofficial
      @rahulnayakaofficial 2 года назад

      @@yt_growww ha vo bhi hai brother
      But pata nai happy nahi reh pata me kya karu kuch samj me nai aa raha 🥺

    • @rahulnayakaofficial
      @rahulnayakaofficial 2 года назад

      @@yt_growww good achhi bat hai brother me bhi kuch try krta hu...

    • @rahulnayakaofficial
      @rahulnayakaofficial 2 года назад

      @@yt_growww pura padha brother

    • @InfamousHarshvlogs
      @InfamousHarshvlogs 2 года назад

      @@rahulnayakaofficial b

  • @INDIAbeastFan9988
    @INDIAbeastFan9988 7 лет назад +9

    the best topic is how to improve our disgestive system..this issue more imp. than anything

  • @ayesharafat5561
    @ayesharafat5561 5 лет назад +15

    This was exactly my case. Thanku so much sir. I got all my answers I was finding since one month.

  • @ManjitKaur-hg6me
    @ManjitKaur-hg6me 2 года назад

    Mujhe apki bate sunke bohat sukun mila sir mujhe b yhi problem h m akeli rhne se drti thi or apki bat sunke lga k nhi .m b kuch hu khud k liye kafi hu mujhe kisi dusry ki jrurt nhi jindgi me khusi pane k liye 😊

  • @LegendxGamer001
    @LegendxGamer001 3 года назад +14

    now i can relate to this topic when i m alone and go outside far from home for studying for the first time and i m also used to divert my mind by watching movies and talking to my friends on mobile for more than an hour but still trying to overcome it.

    • @arpita_kushwaha09
      @arpita_kushwaha09 Год назад

      Have you friends to overcome your lionelyness 😢😢

  • @compassion_gratitude_priyanka
    @compassion_gratitude_priyanka 7 лет назад +55

    This video really sorted one of the biggest challenge that i came across-Lonliness...Thanks for Inspiring and making me understand in such a way as if it doesn't look like a lecture but A light hearted conversation..
    please keep doing this great work as you are inspiring millions across the World.
    A Big Thanks👍

    • @prakash4508
      @prakash4508 6 лет назад

      आपमें से कितने लोग है जिन्हे वो सब मिला जो आप लोग चाहते थे ???
      आपमें से कितने लोग है जो अपने सपने पुरे कर पाए ???
      याद कीजिये क्या था आपका सपना ??? , एक बड़ी लम्बी सी गाड़ी , बड़ा सा बंगला , नौकर चाकर ...
      मिला क्या ????
      हर तरफ से ये ही जवाब आएगा कि नहीं मिला ,
      और अपनी जिम्मेदारियों को उठाते उठाते आपके सपने न जाने कहा खो गए ...
      आइये आज फिर इन सपनो को जगाते है , डॉक्टर अब्दुल कलाम साहेब ने कहा था की सपने देखो लेकिन खुली आँखों से , और उनको पूरा भी करो ..
      ,बंद आँखों से तो मुर्दे भी सपने देख सकते है ..
      तो दोस्तों जागो , उठो और आगे बढ़ो , सफलता आपका इंतजार कर रही है ,
      आपका ये एक डिसीजन आपकी लाइफ बदल सकता है ...
      मुझे आपके सिर्फ 15 मिनिट्स चाहिए , एक -एक चाय पिएंगे और डिसकस करेंगे कि आप अपने भविष्य को उज्जवल कैसे बनाये ???
      जो लोग अपने बॉस कि झिक झिक से परेशान है या अपनी जॉब से , सैलरी से खुश नहीं है वो जरूर संपर्क करे
      संपर्क करे Mr. Jyoti Prakash 9717070315

  • @a_sm98
    @a_sm98 5 лет назад +7

    I've reached to a point where I'm self satisfied. I have no expections from anyone regarding anything. That's depressing too. Human nature demands you to stay connected with other's feelings and learn from them and give back to not one but to as many people as you can.

  • @mayurnikam3323
    @mayurnikam3323 2 года назад

    Apki Koi bhi video kabhi bhi dekh lu mujhe mere problem ka solution mil jata hai...god bless you sir ... Aap India ke prime minister ban jao ....