SHE HOOKED UP WITH HER COUSIN FOR ONLYFANS... CANCELLED EP 27
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
- In this episode Tana and Brooke are joined by Stella Barey aka The Anal Princess. They discuss sex parties, anal, having intercourse with homeless people, and how Stella's sexual relationship with her cousin skyrocketed her OnlyFans.
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to the young girls watching this:
-there’s absolutely no problem with exploring your sexuality when you are young, you are allowed to be a sexual person and explore being (safely) sexual with partners that are in your age group
BUT
-your boyfriends desires, or any sort of media (twitter, pornography he or you consume, podcasts, tv shows) should not dictate what you are comfortable doing sexually. only YOU, your sexual desires (according to your boundaries) should influence your sexual interests.
-a healthy, respectful, decent partner will NEVER pressure you (or try to glamourize or talk about their fantasies in order to try and push you) to do ANYTHING out of your comfort zone. a decent and respectful partner will take NO as a No, and never push through your hesitation to try and convince you. It shouldn’t even be brought up unless YOU decide to open up the possibility at a later date.
-YOU. DONT. have to do Anal, or participate in any sort of hitting, degrading kinks that push your boundaries in order to fulfill your partners fantasies, or in order to be considered a sexual person. You are free to explore these things if they turn YOU on, if you feel safe with a partner that isn’t pushing you, but don’t make anal some sort of goal to reach in order to “fully” sexually fulfill your partner. sex can be dirty, filthy, hot AND completely vanilla at the same time, I promise. Your partner can be more than fulfilled by sex that is within your boundaries, and if he disagrees, or pushes you, that is the biggest red flag. LEAVE him.
-NEVER do ass to mouth. Edit: (To clarify i mean doing oral AFTER the p has already been inside a butthole. Not eating ass then oral, even tho that’s not 100% safe either, but less risky.) You can get the worst infections, parasites, worms, things you don’t even know are there until they get really severe years later once they eat away at your digestive system. basically all kink/ decent sex positive people/educators will tell you this because it’s NOT considered a safe sex practice. Thinking it’s “hot” in the moment should be outweighed by the (shockingly high) probability of contracting literal parasitic organisms living inside you.
-Be mindful and think critically about media that frames unhealthy sexual boundaries as something to fantasize about. Real life incest, is a crime and is the most severe way traumatize and completely disfigure someone’s brain chemistry and ability to form healthy relationships in the future. I work with child victims of almost every crime imaginable, and sex crimes/ incest is by far the most severe trauma you can inflict on someone, and should be considered COMPLETELY separate from step/sibling porn/kink. Stuff like mommy/daddy step/sibling kinks should be conceptualized completely differently than it has been reflected in media like this. It should be examined with a critical lens that understands that it can often be a result of someone who navigating their own incest/sexual abuse trauma. This isn’t always the case and it’s a nuanced conversation, but the bottom line is, the lines between actual incest and kinks/fantasies should never be blurred, and discussions about this topic need appropriate clarification/trigger warnings. (the kink community have resources that do a good job of breaking this down!)
-I cant even begin to unpack the guest crossing professional boundaries with the guy from the shelter. honestly could write an academic dissertation on it. it made me feel sick bc it’s the logic we hear all the time when foster parents/group home staff rape children, toddlers, under their care. The populations you work with as a counsellor/volunteer or anyone who works with homeless people, are inherently struggling and extremely vulnerable. You have a legal and ethical responsibility to protect the people you work with, as other comments have discussed extensively. Publicly glamourizing and normalizing breaking this boundary also puts workers at risk for harassment in their fields.
-framing sex as something you need to keep pushing in order to be sexually satisfied can be a dangerous pattern, and can also be signs of an unhealthy compulsion/addiction. If you have to keep pushing the “taboo” in order to be sexually satisfied, it could be a sign that you have an unhealthy relationship with sexual gratification and unpacking this with a therapist might be beneficial.
-the BDSM community is actually a very healthy, consent-focused community that will echo these sentiments, if kinky sex is something that you’re interested in, i encourage you to seek out creators such as Evie Lupine, who can explain healthy ways to explore kink.
-I think stella is cool, i don’t necessarily want to villanize her, i think she’s internalized a lot of harmful/misogynistic ideas that permeate the porn industry & reflecting these in her career probably made her a lot of money which have reinforced them in her mind. a lot of the things she says i see as ways to market herself to the pornografic male gaze as much as possible, which makes her a shit ton of money so i mean, it’s working in her favour. being as degenerate as possible is the best way to get money in the mainstream porn industry lol.
-as much as i love sex positive & empowering female led discussions about sex, episodes like this should not go uncriticized especially when the audience is soooo young and impressionable. :)
-hi brooke love you
Thank you for taking the time to write out such a thoughtful, educational message! This episode has the potential to be so damaging, and I fear for those young people who are only listening to it and won't be reading comments like these.
Thank you for this ❤️
You’re amazing and the kind of woman who should have a podcast
Thank you dor this
so hypocritical.
As a social worker the reason we don’t engage in relationships with those we serve is because it’s considered an abuse of power… working with vulnerable populations you are meant to support them not take advantage of them… consensual or not it’s not jus taboo it’s completely unethical. If she was an older unattractive man who engaged in a sexual relationship with a young homeless woman YALL would NOT by hyping her up so much.
accurate! this chick seriously needs some therapy when it comes to sex and the way she "loves" people. Ik she said she doesnt have sexual boundaries and thats a problem forsure.
She’s even said on her tik tok that she gets to gets to have an open relationship with him on the condition that she pays for his place to live and gives him a job
@@jordank1430 how is that not abuse of power ???
@@alondraanaya5124 Yes, thank you. Most people in the comments aren’t aware about how bad it actually is so I figured I’d share some additional context to emphasize it
@@ogglitterqueen It very clearly is complete abuse of power….? I was adding to the original comment; I don’t understand how else that would be interpreted
Okay I worked at a homeless shelter and let me just tell you she is romanticizing homelessness. The people I worked with were traumatized every single day. Many of them were sexually physically and mentally abused before they became homeless and none of them chose to be homeless. They became homeless on purpose because their mental health is so extreme that they cannot live in a normal society anymore or they ended up homeless because of other trauma that caused them to lose their job and then lose their home.
The only thing she got right is the homeless community is a wonderful community that deserves respect.
Sounds like she was more with a wanderer and drifter than an a actual homeless person ya know but I agree with everything u are saying
She even referred to him as manic if anything she’s taking advantage of someone in need
p
@@MM-vu3jk he’s bipolar and has been hospitalized numerous times for manic episodes. that’s the reality of bipolar: sometimes you’re manic.
This podcast just highlights her privilege i watched sofia with f with her and she talks about never paying rent, never working a job, her dad hushing her up with money, spending 100k on shopping while in college and shes gonna say being homeless is ideal
I feel like I got bacteria vaginitis just from listening to this and need an antibiotic! PSA girls: sometimes if you go anal to vagina you get an infection and will have to get an antibiotic to treat it. Especially if you are typically sensitive to things down there. Not trying to be a Debbie Downer but it needs to be said after this!
my jaw literally dropped when she said he did that bc of this, and then her putting it in her mouth too?!?! actually fckng repulsive 🤢
@@lexiwhitecotten yes! I’m all about “being in the moment” or how when you LOVE someone you tend to be more comfortable with certain things but…you’re just asking for problems doing this. Some female’s don’t even want to use spit as lube because it completely throws off their PH balance. It’s not always cool to be “freaky” when your vagina starts to smells like rotten seafood. You gotta keep your stuff healthy. Not shitty🤭. Literally
Facts
Yeah or putting it in your mouth 🤮 she hasn’t heard or E coli?
thank you for putting this out there many don’t know !
Sex positivity is one thing, this ain’t it ladies.
Can you elaborate? I don’t see what’s bad about this
@@crisp7575 chlamydia
At all
@@crisp7575 they asked her if she would fuck her step brother and she literally brought up her newborn baby brother. She romanticized homelessness and so much more…. Did we watch the same podcast?
@@crisp7575 You should never ingest your own feces. It’s dangerous and the implications are long and dangerous. You should never fuck a relative and call it empowerment. This isn’t empowering. This woman has deep and serious traumas that she hasn’t worked through and shouldn’t be given sex advice.
Nurse practitioner here 🙋🏼♀️ speaking for all health care professionals…please do not ingest your own feces and these behaviors are dangerous. The list of repercussions is long 🥴
Thanks for saying this, young girls need to know this.
literally, the girls from 2 girls one cup died afterwards. nothing to joke about
@@nayi999 dang I didn't know that
But yeah being kind to yourself and your body by protecting your health is extremely important
I couldn't get past the incest cousin onlyfans collab
@@nayi999 they didn’t die, they are still scat porn actresses for the same director. but there’s speculation that they use a mixture of ice cream, peanut butter, etc for the poop, otherwise they actually could have died
You cannot say “empowerment” in the same sentence as talking about literal incest.
@Eden they are still glamourizing incest "babeeee"
@Eden doesn't matter if they're not blood..they are glorifying incest..
@Eden but the part where Tana says half brother, not step..
Truly. None of the things they are talking about is empowering. This is ep actually unwatchable
They’re not related
i’m actually disgusted with this… why is incest being hyped up by these girls? it’s not “empowering” to have sex with your cousin. this should not be something that is glorified & this is the issue with hypersexuality. i’m all for genuine female empowerment, but when it becomes overtaken with toxicity and glorifying something as vile as that, it becomes distorted. where is the morality, where is the line?
It’s not real incest they aren’t blood related
@@Achilles553 doesn’t matter. Young naïve girls listen to this and will think this is a “normal” conversation when it’s not at all. This girl probably has serious trauma or something that she’s suppressing and eventually she’ll have to deal with it, it’s really sad.
@@Achilles553 and regardless if they aren’t really cousins she’s glorifying it which is actually super creepy
Don’t forget an*l is empowering too even tho it’s purely for the man’s satisfaction and not your own 🥰
@@user-np8yf8fj2w as porn is also. there is nothing empowering about sex work, I'm sorry ladies you're selling yourself for men's pleasure but continue with 'taking the power' you still don't have.
“She’s so smart”
- Eats her own fences during sex and goes back to front to mouth
Nah y’all
😂gross
Talking about a new born baby.. let alone your half brother in a sexual way is just disgusting!
So gross and disappointing. I have a half brother and he is 15 years younger than me (he’s 7) I could NEVER even form a sentence like that out of my mouth
I missed that part, thankfully. WTF!
glorifying behaviour that obviously stems from trauma, then doing an ad read for online therapy and meds is wild
It’s really irresponsible that this girl is talking so casually about eating her shit and going back to front with no preparation… literally infections everywhere
THIS, AND SHE WAS PRE-MED... 🤨 *edited, not in med-school, but still same point
@@spiceypickles3006 I don't think she was in Med School. You can study for the MCATS, but the fact that she boasted that she was a counselor at a homeless shelter and had sex with her clients, that's already illegal, and her license would be permanently revoked. She probably didn't even get into med school. It sounds like she has experienced a lot of trauma or mistreatment the way she overly sexualizes everything
@@MmmKimboSlice she was pre-med at UCLA
I was thinking the exact same thing! Yuck!
Oh noo.. from someone who is prone to utis that’s just nooo
tana, i love you. you have raised me. but sitting there for an hour+ repeating “you are my president” after Stella described her incestuous relationship, romanticization of homelessness, and blatant dangerous sex (due to uncleanliness), it’s a bad look. you can do better. please do better.
I feel like when you look at Tanas track record… can she really do better?? She has never been one to do better
Eh i don’t think she actually can do better 😩
And ppl in the comments are enabling it wtf
"you have raised me" oh my gosh we as a society are doomed. There are so many better people you could have looked up to at the time. Tana has no morals at all
@@jordank1430 her storytimes in the beginning were like "here is the dumb shit i did, PLEASE DONT DO IT"
How is this girl equating love to sex? I’m very glad she didn’t go into medicine because that would be a complete disaster - this girl must have some serious trauma and then goes out into community and preys on vulnerable (i.e. homeless) to try and “love” them with her privates. The more I listen the scarier it sounds. Engaging in unsafe sexual practices and invest is NOT empowering. Cringe.
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Said it before & will say again: Thank God for Brooke Schofield. She is the morals Tana & this show need.
I enjoy an*l and I still resonated more with Brooke in this episode. It’s a bedroom not a circus tent lol
@@abbyz13 let people do what they enjoy
Fucking love Brooke
Yesssss Brooke is A1 💯💯💯💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Lol that’s your moral high ground? She hookups extremely easy, and with guys who repeatedly don’t treat her well. An** princess at least sounds like her guy is good to her, and thoughtful. Make it make sense lol
Tana calling this empowering and “an inspiration for younger generations” 💀💀 absolutely not
This whole video is d e g e n e r a c y on top of d e g e n e r a c y.
wtf is going on here??? i’m all for supporting sex workers but eating shit and incest??? tana and brooke u can do better than this.
Maybe they can't
@@grimtessa95 they definitely can
Lol if you support sex “workers “ are you really surprised this what you support? It’s a slippery slope
Tana can’t
This girl is not right...and her eyes are empty. Also kids dont just start having sex with everyone they love...unless theyre taught that.
Yea I for real think something traumatic happened to this chick because she can’t understand why sex isn’t always appropriate, especially when talking about your baby brother, family, or someone you’re in a position of power over.
I agree. She’s always got this blank stare even when Tana or Brooke make a joke. She just seems completely out of touch and brain washed.
It is glaringly obvious that she was seggsually abused as a child.
Thank GOD I’m not the only one that was fully disgusted this whole episode 😂
Funny how they never discuss STDs or sexual health, this is just setting people up for BV and disappointment 😂
Ikr protection,hello , std checks etc
That shows how clean these girl are🤮 I’m disappointed in her w the lack of sexual health she didn’t discuss
They do seem to sleep around a lot. I hope they are at least being safe!
Omfg just the phrase “BV and disappointment” is soooo funny I’m dying😂😩
We’ll.. it’s entertainment. They don’t really have to give the assumed adult audience a disclaimer
Why are they condoning incest?
I enjoyed a lot of what was said, but even the CONCEPT of incestuous porn is disgusting and encourages and normalizes sexual abusers to continue what they do in real life. And the homeless discussion felt super tone deaf. I think being sexual and open about it is awesome bc it’s stigmatized for women, but compulsive sex and needing to be punched in the face seems like you went through some trauma to enjoy that in the bedroom or see it as “empowering.” I also feel like she should have delved into the not-so-great aspects of losing your virginity at such a young age, like not being able to do it safely bc of not having the resources to or not even knowing how to. And to glorify eating your own shit and going back & forth from behind to vagina just bc it was in the moment?? So irresponsible. Like I love her message of being open about sex, but I lowkey feel like they both need therapy.
I agree w u about the incest shit that shit was so weird, but I also think you have no right to comment on her sexual preferences and when she lost her virginity.
It’s not real incest they aren’t blood related
Therapy is a big YES lol
@@random19273 i dont agree. why does trauma have to be attached to enjoying bdsm etc some people just have kinks like damn let people like what they like
@@random19273 also she never said losing your v card young is empowering she just said that was her experience and she doesnt need to feel ashamed of it.
The idea that a girl who was talking about her baby brother & incest in the same breath was “babysitting here & there” @ one point is honestly terrifying.
She has serious issues and a history of
@@habibtiz4335 history of?! Of what?
@@alexisstrother I never want to put this on anyone - but childhood neglect or , SA, or abuse . There are topics frowned on by universally ALL SOCIETY CULTURE AND RELIGION (incest is unacceptable globally) . I hope no one looks up to her and she gets the help she needs because this is perverse and not normal at all
The fact that they filmed this, someone EDITED it, and uploaded it and not a single person saw anything wrong with this is insane 😒
sorry but empowering women does not start with pleasing the patriarchy, that's literally what incest porn is. like no, sorry but no.
Men aren't the only people who enjoy kinky snex. I understand the intention behind what you're saying but it just comes off really misogynistic.
THIS ! wtf is this
i don’t like incest porn and i think it’s disgusting but what does it have to do with pleasing the patriarchy specifically? women have sexual drive too
THIS.
@@kphoria1009 facts, it’s giving internal misogyny
i can’t even pay attention to the rest of the podcast because this woman just said SHE ATE HER OWN SHIT
I mean this is disgusting and they are just like “yes queen” … who gone tell her!
seriously 😭
Yessssss 😭☠️
like it’s actually disturbing and sad. where in your mind would you think it’s alright to belittle yourself that much over some money? like what happened? this shit is so much worse than everybody is seeing.
I thought I was the only one I was disgusted at Tana hyping her up for certain things she said. Good for the girl for being so upfront and not caring but eating/licking your own shit is so unhealthy in so many ways like that’s just gross
Dear Brooke,
Don’t ask this woman back. She broke so many workplace rules when she initiated a relationship with a client who was part of a vulnerable population that she was meant to provide counsel to. Brooke I think you’re a good person, you have potential, and I admire your interest in interviewing sex workers and shedding light on these topics. However, there are other sex workers who are more deserving of sharing your platform. No offence to Ms. Barey but her flagrant disregarded of workplace policies that are meant to protect the vulnerable, her exploitation of a homeless and mentally ill man, and her endorsement of (actual sibling) incest (which is illegal) make it hard to admire her or her work in any shape or form. Ms. Barey needs to revaluate herself and her morals. I hope you can explain this to Tana as well so she can understand why these things are wrong and harmful. There is nothing wrong with sex or sex work but there are certain lines that should not be crossed in professional situations.
Love you Brooke 💕
I love how you totally understand their dynamic and address Brooke and ask her to explain these things to Tana. Spot on, and you’re right ❤️
I guess Tana is too far gone in this situation 😭
I agree. As someone who works for homeless people as their case manager, her admission to exploiting that man was disturbing.
@@rebeccaelwood5735 Stella is an interesting case study on privilege. She talks about eating her own shit, shitting and bleeding all over the place, breaking the code of conduct at her place of employment to sleep with a client, exploiting a mentally ill unhoused man, fucking her cousin, referencing her infant brother in a question about incest, but because she is thin, pretty and white she is praised. What if she wasn't pretty? What if her body wasn't a universally worshipped shape? What if she were a woman of color? She also says things like "You can shit on men, they don't care!" Yes, the homeless man you have seduced in the back of his car may not care bc you're objectively hot. Her input applies to such a small fraction of people.
an old grown veteran man was not violated from this shit. it was consensual
Idk something not right about hyping up a woman of privilege bc she went to bc college and decided to do porn instead. “Everyone thinks ppl don’t do porn bc they want to” yeah? Because that’s what it’s like for a majority of women in sex work. Pretending like it’s not an extremely dangerous career that many women resort to and become entrapped in is gross. Good for her that it was a liberating choice, that’s not what it’s like for most.
this was so irresponsible and dangerous, this is actually terrifying that you posted this and had the nerve to talk about this shit being empowering
These people are crazy. Oh my God…
Right!!
It’s extremely obvious that the guest (self proclaimed “Anal Queen”) has been sexually abused in childhood. The amount of internalised misogyny she has is insane. She has CHILDHOOD ABUSE written all over her. Anal sex inherently serves the man at the expense of a woman (as for most women it really hurts the first few times), men like anal cuz now our vaginas are not good enough for them. And the way she admits she has 0 boundaries… and admitting she gets validation by being completely used & objectified by a man… it’s extremely obvious she was raised to please a man’s sexual desires, as she was a victim of patriarchy brainwashing her that giving her body for complete, boundary-less use to men is FEMALE EMPOWERMENT. No, it’s MALE empowerment. 💔 It’s absolutely dangerous that she’s spreading the message to women that this is empowerment.
Im sorry, I love this podcast but the incest thing.... how tf were they all normalizing that. Like I actually feel sick thats so gross.
it's not really incest since they are not blood related
@@cassienatalie2721 Agreed it's one of the sickest things out there. These people are weird.
Fr!! Incest is way too glorified
I agree.... talk about grasping for straws.
and the way she brought up her baby half brother …. like girl…. u need to check into a mental hospital 😭 this is not being “free”. this is some weirdo shit.
Is it just me or does this type of hypersexuality not feel like women empowerment the way they try to frame it? It seems like the opposite to me lol
exactly!
I feel that, its still all rooted in the male gaze
Agree...this trend is one of my biggest pet peeves, I feel like Call her Daddy really put it on the map. It comes across as so extremely performative and try-hard to me, I actually find it hard to believe that these women really enjoy doing it or that they truly feel confident
Female Chauvinist Pigs is a great book written about this phenomenon. If you can get women to exploit and objective themselves under the idea of empowerment , it only benefits an anti woman sentiment. I'm completely sex positive but there's a lot of what they're saying that feels forced or just trying to be edgy or something.
@@jayzt705 OF in general did, it’s one thing to just do it as a job which I think is totally fine but to encourage it and push it on others by calling it empowering? Nah
It’s sad how she is acting like the sex industry is so safe. Be realistic.
Don’t tell her she’s doing anything with the younger generation. It can be very dangerous
exactly!
I thought the same thing
but reading the comments makes me think that they may have added a lot of value to the debate by being so honest about this fucked up industry
“i realized i probably shouldn’t do medicine” well, at least one sound thought is running through her mind.
the fact that she brought up her literal NEWBORN half brother in the conversation they were having is giving literal predator vibes why is a baby even on her mind about that I’m genuinely sick
Fr like that wasn’t even the circumstance they were referring to
Honestly and w how normalized it seems to be with all of em and how Tana Continues to support Shane Dawson to the side this says a lot
No fr i was like uhhh…. Ew
wouldn't you just love for her step mom to hear her say this shit about her newborn son
Shut up please
Sometimes wish Brooke wasn’t fully engulfed in tanas friend group cuz she has her own vibe that I like
She’s nothing without them
ON GOD I THINK THIS ALL THE TIME TOO!!! I like love them both truly but You said it perfectly. If she wasn’t so engulfed in her friendship she would shine totally, she is like full package
Right
This shit is absolutely disgusting. I’ve never heard a more disgusting conversation in my life. Y’all should be ashamed.
I’m so confused why they just skipped past the fact this girl was supposed to be a counselor at a homeless shelter and she had relations with one of her clients? That’s like not ok at all lol?
Pretty sure she was just volunteering. She was a pre med student
Ur so mad for no reason
At one point she definitely says she was acting as a counsellor, not just volunteering. What gross conduct
@@maddisonhussey6489 she has a right to be mad. Lots of homeless people are reaching out for help and in one of the hardest spots of their lives. When you work with the homeless you are there to support and care for them not take advantage of them. But I know you’re getting upset because you would or have done something like this
I work at a drug treatment facility and someone was fired for this, lost their license, and blackballed from working at any other OTP in our city. Super gross and unethical of Stella, of course someone like tana would support it. And the “omg being homeless is so wild and hot of him, I’d be homeless 🤪” so tone deaf. Brooke is better than this
Going to sex parties at 14 is disgusting
Probably how she got so fucked up
Going to sex parties period is disgusting
As a SW this is so so irresponsible 😭 glamourising homelessness, incest and dangerous sex (unclean!), power imbalance in relationships. Just gross behaviour.
It’s the going in the butt than the meow & not mentioning bacterial infections for me🤦♀️
I’m a sex worker and I completely agree ! The industry is not the way this girl portrays it at all ! We do not engage in dangerous sex
@@leahjenner6765
The industry is changing with only fans opening the door for so many.
yea no... i'm not a fan of her making it seem like sw is a walk in the park with no consequences and encouraging young girls to get into it!! as a former sw who had my life ruined by it this is horrifying to watch. also no one is going to talk about how her cousin was doing it at 17?? that woman is a victim.
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly
the way she romanticizes homeless-ness is also questionable
There is a part of me that thinks that this entire episode is just to troll us.
Girl no one asked if you would fall in love with your baby brotjer
no literally what the fuck was that lol
It was fucking disgusting. I turned it off after that, I'd heard enough
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly
RIGHT. I was like…why tf is that where your head goes?
Well that's gonna be the last episode of this podcast that I'll ever watch. Making light of incest, cp, violating workplace ethics as a counsellor, unsafe sexual practices... This crossed the line, even for Tana's standards.
Fuuggg for real
true. disgusting
Wait when did they talk about cp?
and also talking about her baby brother in this context!!! fucking sick in the head
It’s porn it’s suppose to cross the line tbh
when she said the part about eating her own shit brooke said “that’s okay” and “that’s amazing” like why are people saying she wasn’t into it? she said multiple times that she needs to “grow” to be like stella, fucking weird
she called her cute and smart and eloquent… nope
This. Like the entire interview Brooke was riding this chick. And everyone’s like “Brooke didn’t seem into it” while coming for Tana in the comments. If anything Brooke seemed like she was more into that than Tana was… they BOTH are equally at fault for thi
I missed that part! No Brook!
this episode is not it. at alllllllllll. the comment about the baby? why is stella being applauded as a person... no tana
Talking about if she "fell in love with her baby brother????" that is p*d* shit. The FBI needs to get onto her, she's weird
Honestly so disgusting
“It’s empowering”
Tana talking about literal incest… this podcast is weird 🥴
She word vomits sometimes trying to praise and hype up people she’s new around. lol.
If you listened to the podcast you’d hear that they’re not related by blood.
Blood related or not, promoting as if it is-is toxic for many reasons.
@@rayne95sato still extremely gross and not something to be normalized or put under the thin guise of “female empowerment”
I actually want Brooke to have her own podcast.
Same
See people keep saying that but she has very few views and subscribers in her channel so Idk how that would work
Hahahha no
after this episode…. uh yeah
Exactly- I know it would thrive
Well I’m sure a lot of incest survivors could’ve used a big ol trigger warning for this episode. And truly even people who aren’t incest survivors could’ve used a trigger warning for this episode. This was really upsetting to watch in that it actually made me physically and mentally upset. I don’t say this lightly, she has a whole ere about her that gives off “groomer” and it was extremely triggering for me to watch. I’m just so baffled that they edited this and at no point felt like there should be some type of warning at the beginning. I get it’s the cancelled podcast and they always talk about controversial topics in very scandalous ways but this is not what we, as the dedicated supporters and fans of this podcast, expect (or want) when we hit play. Tana used to say she started RUclips to be an escape for those who maybe have difficult home/personal lives because that’s what it was for her when she was growing up in an abusive household. That’s something she’s taken pride in, in the fact that no matter what her fans are going through, they can watch one of her videos and escape for however long that story time or vlog is. This podcast episode almost definitely retraumatized victims of incest and confused those who are still living with it. I understand this podcast is meant to be a slight departure from tanas regular RUclips channel and story time content however her fan base largely comes from that and she’s well aware of the age group of those fans. I think I remember her even mentioning one time on the podcast that her fan base is still largely teenagers and whoever the guest was was shocked. All I can say is where was this lawyer that is always watching off camera ? Tana references them enough that you’d think they may have maybe stepped in at some point?
This 🙌 the whole anal thing at the beginning was super upsetting to hear just because of things in my past that have happened to me, i wished they gave a trigger warning for this episode. Not only that everything else was super sick and disturbing to hear too.
Was the title not your warning?
@@ang_isnotcool honestly please seek help, the fact that you are defending this is not right or healthy. Sane, normal people DO NOT try to say the title was a warning for these sick fucks who talk about how they would fuck their half brother who is an infant, using positons of power to have sex with a homeless person and fucking their cousin. Seriously hoping you were trolling because its kind of sick.
@@ang_isnotcool All titles are clickbait so you really don’t know how exaggerated or truthful it is until you actually listen to it. The title seemed to be enough for you though?
@@bottombagfrenchfry7127 So if you're that sensitive, don't take the chance. And they get "into" talking about what's clearly outlined in the video. Stop trying to make other people responsible for how YOU handle YOUR trauma. Get a handle on it yourself and understand your own boundaries.
I'm not sure what's worse: Tana acting like this girl is a role model and someone who is inspiring or her reading the Ads.
On a real note, I feel sick watching this. This girl is not right and Tana is not right if she truly finds ANYTHING they talked about in this video inspiring. I only watched to figure out what the backlash was about and wow. I really really hope there are no girls listening who take anything said seriously. Extremely dangerous and disgusting.
Stop hyping this incestuous weird bs up. That doesn't make you a confident woman just because you're doing some gross crap. That's just low standards.
It’s not real incest. They aren’t blood related
@@Achilles553 true but its definitely weird to feed into and profit off the whole incest kink thing
@@Achilles553 they’re still glorifying it, weirdo
@@Achilles553 u keep justifying it bc u like this type of shit huh
She glorified attending sex party's at 14 or 15. Bio-Chem majors, 250K a year membership.. Surprised she didn't give a shoutout to Ghislane & Jeffrey Epstein. This is giving me deep consipracy thoughts about child traffickers breaking victims so much that they get stockholm syndrome and just start participating in the sick shit that alot of the victims have no choice in.
I fear that this poor girl has something deeply wrong with her. It’s one thing to me sexual empowered in a feminist way but the way she speaks of incest and her sexual drive is concerning
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly
She seems very sexually deviant with very little morals
Right? Wanting to sleep with everyone you get close to is… not within the range of normal feelings?????
Some women love sex. Get over it
@@rennyg8627 People who were sexually abused in childhood often equate love (so; romantic, friendship love, and sibling love) to sex - because the first display of love & intimacy they were shown is by being sexually abused. This girl was OBVIOUSLY sexually abused as a child!! And Tana had an abusive childhood too. They both have extremely poor boundaries.
“destigmatizing” isn’t hyping up poor sexual health but go off i guess
the way no one said anything about her eating her own sht like that's disgusting and extremely unsanitary. Gross.
honestly it was worse when she said she went straight from anal to vaginal. that's so dangerous!
yeah some of the stuff she was saying was a liiiiittle much
She’s so sad
I mean I’m not taking shit but can’t you get like Hep A and E.Coli from doing stuff like that… lmao
She also totally contradicted herself by saying it’s not messy even one time after doing it multiple times a day for a year …
Well this definitely had shock value, but I’m truly disappointed in this ep. There were so many things that didn’t need to be said, and so many things that weren’t said that should’ve been. I can say that I don’t think Tana invited her on the pod expecting her to be so bold about really disgusting and controversial topics. Tana’s reactions and constantly hyping her up actually seemed to me like she was really shocked by what this girl was saying, but since when does Tana actually call someone out for saying something totally out of pocket. She has to stay “on brand” lmaoo. I definitely enjoy the episodes where they talk openly about s*x as women because it can be empowering, but this totally crossed the line into the realm of tasteless, trashy and most of all, concerning. So glad I’m not the only one who was disturbed watching this..
Yes honestly if she had said she’s had anal sex every day for three years, cool. She doesn’t prepare for anal, cool. Giving the advice, cool. But like I wanted a personality outside of anal. It was an hour and 14 minutes worth of straight up disturbing facts
I agree! I like listening to the podcast first and then watching the episode here on RUclips and as I was driving and listening I was so shocked. Hooking up with family is just plain out weird! I do gotta say this is not the first time I have been disgusted/ashamed by listening to something, I once was listening to call her daddy and I had to change it Immediately because they were empowering women to dress like little girls, and put ponytails in their hair, and bla bla. That’s just not okay imo. :/
Yea to me I think she seemed kind of uncomfortable. Maybe she didn't know how deep the river of trauma went lmao...this girl was like "I ate my own shit" and tanas like oh coooool! In real life I would HOPE she would have been repulsed. I mean that's fucking disgusting. Among all the other things she said.
I can’t remember if it was Tea Spill or Spill Sesh but they used ur comment for their video covering this ep!
@@4943melody I did see that this morning and I was freaking outtt! It was Spill Sesh. I follow both of them and I was SHOOK watching her video this morning when all of the sudden she’s reading MY comment. Like whaaattt?! 😂
Her taking about how she fell for a homeless man who she was supposed to be helping and she had the power with makes me wonder if someone took advantage of her the same way
why were they hyping her up for incest, that’s disgusting…
Literallyyyyy lmfao
I was a wee bit confused on that part
They aren’t blood related
Shut your trap before commenting, watch the entire video and you’d realize they aren’t even blood related.
@Brittany Mulcahy-Denza lolol
What yall is forgetting is that Brooke Glorified this girl in many podcast before as well.
true, im just hoping she didnt know about the incest and gnarly stuff this girl advocates for
Thank you! I like Brooke but I'm sick of seeing people act like she's the moral, intellectual backbone of this podcast lol
100% and talking about having Stella back on… what’s with the “innocent, moral one” narrative?
incest is something that should be VERY MUCH JUDGED! its one thing to have taboo fantasies, and its a completely different thing to go thru with sick shit
Yes! Idk why ppl are acting like it’s ok to hook up with cousins. Step should be ok either.
Should’ve probably asked this girl about the trauma that makes her act this way instead of praising her. Smh.
!!!!
Right!?!?
Facts
Assuming she would wanna tell the whole internet about it
@deku How?
I physically could not even finish this episode. This is far for even tana. I hate how tana is such a yes man and will literally agree with anything anyone says just to not cause problems. This was gross
i don't even think it was to not cause problems. i think she was just so after feeling as 'enlightened' and 'self-confident'/'empowered' this chick felt that she praised anything she said or did, thinking that just not giving a fuck about taboos is dope, period. that everything she said just implicated her as a Down Chick rather than a legitimate pervert. NOT thinking about how genuinely horrifying everything she described is. and i'm not saying this directly to you but just to add in for anyone who may scroll past ... let us not forget what everyone keeps ignoring: brooke suggested this guest. brooke also fangirled over her. just cause she didn't go as balls-to-the-walls over her as tana did in the episode, doesn't mean she wasn't fine with everything she was saying. to let someone go on like this and not make any commentary about sex safety, consent, or just plain partner-to-partner maturity when it comes to sexual relationships in general, is to enable it. if tana's lawyer really was in the room, they are a SHIT lawyer
I’m all for woman empowerment but incest is disgusting and so wrong, why are they acting like that’s okay and normal or even empowering? it’s insane even if they’re not blood related it’s your family
how is this show empowering at all ???
Cuz they’re just sell outs who sell their souls for internet views they’re beyond normal
@@slimesita9998 i said that because they were talking about how they look up to her and how it’s empowering for a woman to admit these kind of things and own it
Some people don’t believe in families. If you’re not close with your family and your parents disown you then cousins seem like strangers 🤷♀️
What bothered me more than the cousin thing was how she talked about her baby brother.. super disturbing
Tana.. no hunny. Did you just say this girl is doing so much for our upcoming generation? Lmao
Right?! I’m confused why they were acting like she was dropping GOLD as far as knowledge goes… just no.
idk what these girls are talking about, this type of living is NEANDERTHAL behavior 😭 as if we're not evolved humans with billions of people on the planet to choose to fuck.
incest and inspiring in the same sentence????
Not inspiring, quite the opposite. Now we’ll all be called “haters” in the comments for not agreeing. Love Tana and Brooke, but this girl is not it.
To the people who are defending this girl saying that they’re not “blood cousins” it doesn’t make it any better. There’s a sick group of people who like to watch incest and putting out a video saying she’s having sex with her cousin caters to those sick people.
I think sometimes people fail to realize that most incest is non-consensual and is I credibly damaging to the victims. Glorifying something like this is incredibly irresponsible and gross. I don’t think about the anal or the kinks or anything either way, people do what they like and that’s great. The homeless story and the cousin thing really just told me what I need to know about this girl.
I feel so concerned for this girl's younger brother like that felt so predatory
This is extremely irresponsible to post and it’s fucking disgusting.
Frl
The biggest gripe I had with this pod was the guest bragging about her partner going from the back door to the front door without a proper cleaning… that’s not only disgusting, it’s dangerous. Coincidentally enough, this girl on Love After Lockup this week had to be rushed to the hospital and developed a pelvic inflammatory infection within less than 24 hours of her man double-dipping…. Just don’t! Either use a condom in one hole, or wipe off with a pH balanced wipe, or shower, or just don’t attempt to go from front to back in the first place lol.
everyone is entitled to enjoy what they want but also back to front is extremely risky in terms of bacterial stuff…just saying
Was looking for this comment! Like do whatever you want but let’s not promote poor hygiene and literally eating doodooo…. Like tana is literally going to create a new disease 🦠
When you do back door play you have to properly use sanitary measures beforehand. People aren’t just rawdawging back door fun. That would be absolutely unsanitary lol. Maybe get educated on the matter…
@@reginageorge7738 did you watch the episode? She said she never prepares for small
@@carlyohmer9934 yes I watched the episode lol
@@reginageorge7738 so you know that she doesn’t prepare at all
Tana acknowledging Shane being weird but then hyping this girl up is confusing the hell out of me.
I'm a sexual abuse survivor and healthcare worker. This entire episode is insanely disgusting. The fact that some of what is described is similar to the abuse tactics used by my rapist is concerning. I also have a bachelor's degree in human biology and my minor was in sociology. The sexual deviancy talked about in this ep needs to be addressed with a licensed professional. None of this is normal and none of it should be glamourized and encouraged.
I usually love this podcast but the incest conversation is very tone deaf and so beyond disturbing
I just also want to praise brooke for how she handles all conversations and holding onto morals she stands true in instead of simply agreeing to make the other person more comfortable
this this thissss
The fact that’s they’re worshiping her for talking about all the most unsafe practices and praising her for it….what’s actually going on
You must be really fun at parties
@@LeChina if you think all of this is okay, stay away from children please
@@carinafleming I love kids, don't project you're weirdo fantasies on me.
Literally Brooke mentioning her mom was so open with sex, making her shy away from it - I’ve never resonated so hard, that helped me have a self-actualization moment af 🥺I think I just became a Brooke Stan 🥰😍
But why?
@@janalope3443 because it helped me realize why I am the way I am with sex, lol do you read? Lol I can recommend some courses to help you with comprehension if you need 😘
@@Megan-ed6vj I was asking why did your mom being so open make you shy away from it? I don’t think you understood my question. No need to get defensive. Hope everything is ok at home.
@@janalope3443 lots of attacks on this post tbh. I apologize! But to answer your question, I have no idea- it just wasn’t taboo or a big deal.
@@janalope3443 “but why” with no information on what you’re asking about seems more like just a nasty comment. There are a lot of things that could refer to in my post, so the vagueness made me think you were just a troll 🥺 so sorry
definitely having a traumatizing and neglectful childhood followed by constant exposure to hardcore dehumanizing sex and porn will do this to a person
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly💯💯💯
and internalized misogyny will validate girls like this bc they’re the ones getting “Picked” Lol
porn has had such a terrible effect on society as a whole:/
I don’t know who needs to hear this but the best sex of your life can be boring and vanilla and clean. You don’t have to have kinky and messy sex to be interesting.
wish this could be pinned… this kind of culture perpetuated around me as a teen caused me to be abused in the worse ways, and now this content is making it even WORSE for teen girls who are just figuring out their sexuality and are highly influenced… i can’t imagine growing up when this is the influence :(
Thank you!! Yes! It's honestly so nice to see so many women pushing back against this in the comments
Amen sister, amen
So true. I feel like girls try to outdo each other now with how kinky they can be and that is so wrong. Shaming a girl for liking vanilla sex can pressure them to try things they aren’t comfortable with and with sex, it’s very easy to lead to trauma.
This
Her bf doesn't care ab consent at all and she's not a sex educator don't look at her like she is. Talking ab consent and heath and stds etc and a trigger warning went out the window and sm is wrong, this isn't kink shaming but this is very irresponsible and very sexually irresponsible & uneducated. There r people and KIDS watching, you cant talk ab sex like this without these things
The worst part…is she’ll still have fans. Her audience is so impressionable, and this is DANGEROUS. This guest has trauma written ALL OVER HER and I hope she gets the help she needs. And Tana wakes TF up.
true like i hate to admit like i dont watch her anymore and havent for years but only watches this becuse a tea channel spoke about it. shows no matter what she will get attention. good or bad attention doesnt matter to tana she just wants the clicks
@@moopyymoo you saw spill sesh yoo
@@jamiedionaabbott1320 yesss
@@moopyymoo omg same lmao I was like omg I have to see what spillys talking about… kinda wish I didn’t lmaoo
sammeeeeee
Being attractive really is a life cheat code isn’t it lmao
this is so disgusting and disturbing. especially with no fucking warning. how could you hype this shit up? some people have been r@ped by family members. i myself was r@ped by a cousin and this literally is not okay. no fucking words to describe how disgusting this is.
You can tell Brooke knows this girl is CRAZYYY
for real. i’ve never seen her so silent😂
Brooke barely talked in this podcast, I think she was kinda uncomfy? I love you Brooke, you rock, you are the moral compass Tana needs💜
I think we were all super uncomfy
yes
tana ignored her because she knows people like brooke more but brooke was just as responsible for this conversation
She’s like a super fan of Stella having her on was her idea. I think she’s just embarrassed that people are seeing the type of people she enjoys the company of. Tanas just shameless lol
This should have a trigger warning or be deleted. Honestly really disappointed in this. I feel bad for this girl truly. Not a normal conversation even for a podcast
Especially if you put a mental health ad in here…
Yeah I really feel this. I usually love the podcast but this ep makes me want to stop watching altogether it grossed me out THAT much. This guest really ain’t it
@@9a2r7m6 omg same!!! I’m not kink shaming at all but so much of what she was saying made me feel sick!
Same… feel bad for this girl to be honest. Clearly suffering from some major mental health issues.
@@9a2r7m6 yeah I agree…this is my last episode I can’t yall
Okay I’m not just being petty but why are they acting like she’s a genius?….
She is smart. You can tell by the way she speaks. She is more analytical and thoughtful
Right….. like everyone keeps saying she’s so “well spoken”…. She talks completely normal???? Doesn’t mean she’s an expert on SW or is spreading completely accurate information.
Young ladies , women , men … hell ANYONE!
This lady has unresolved trauma all over her. Please do not listen and take anything she said seriously. It’s not safe for you own body and mental health.
Personal boundaries - boundaries of any kind does not make you insecure, selfish , weird etc. if you have to change, or you feel pressured to do any type of thing such as a sexual act, dressing a certain way, or even say something as “simple” as swearing The in the person, or the thing that is making you feel pressured or having you questioning if you’re going to cross a boundary you made for yourself personally, that route is not for you. There’s 7 billion people in the world, and I promise you there will be someone out there for you who loves you for you, and he’s OK with your personal boundaries and understand them.
Why was Brooke being ignored literally 90% of the time? So tired of people coming on this podcast and not respecting both of the hosts. Yes, Tana is the main host and the biggest name but Brooke shouldn’t be blatantly brushed off either.
Also Brooke personally invited Stella
this!!!! it made me so sad while watching i felt bad for brooke
Brooke has morals and they don’t, so they ignore her until she feels the need to agree to fit in :/
Yeah does her neck hurt from looking at tana the whole time??
Idk how these companies keep endorsing her, most unconvincing ad lmao
This is honestly nasty and tana needs to stop making her personality about fucking Jesus luv u tana
Yo incest and literally eating shit is beyond gross. Let’s not normalize that. Not trying to shame but like maybe don’t talk about it like it’s just morally okay or sanitary.
everyone gets to make up their own morals (:
no fully shaming her. stop sugar coating
@@puppiestgirl so if my morals say it’s ok to kill people, I should be able to murder others with no repercussions? No idiot
For once, can’t we just have content that is genuinely positive and uplifting for women? Not praising someone who exploits homeless people and is into incest with her cousin (marriage or blood related).
I’m so glad to read these comments… I was listening to this when it first came out like 😳😬 I’m all for female empowerment but this gave me weird vibes
I love Brooke and that’s why I sat through this weird ass episode
Girl same! 🫡
THIS
1000%
This shit was just off
I totally agree
What is weird about this episode? It’s people being open about their sexuality
It’s obvious Brooke isn’t vibing to anything Stella’s talking about while Tana keeps hyping her up lol. I love that Brooke’s respectful though.
Thank God for Brooke...
They talked in the beginning about how much Brooke likes her
she is just more shy and reserved i think
Brooke is the one who found her and said she loved her lol
@@maddiexxx5326 I never said she didn’t like her 🤷🏻♀️
i’d feel grossed out to even be in the same room as this women… bringing her on as a guest was a terrible move for this show tbh…
The thing is. I’m not against sex workers. But this girl is not it. She’s being so risky and not advising how to not contract STD and other harmful infections. Can y’all get a sex worker who’s actually responsible with the information they’re spreading. Your audience does include a lot of sexually inexperienced individuals so shit like this is reckless asf
Sounds like she was abused as a child it truly is sad.. Porn homelessness isn't cool y'all are so out of touch w reality
I mean she has money lots she's not homeless the dude is
@@gabisolano1205 Are you dense? That still isn’t okay.
I dont know what it is but stellas energy is off
hater
@@puppiestgirl girl yk damn well that this isn’t it
can confirm from first hand experience that broke homeless guys do NOT fuck well. if you’re reading this… no, don’t do it sis. so disappointing.
Me too!! I've been homeless and been with many homeless men and it's not as sexy as she makes it sound. Also saying having sex with a homeless man is "philanthropy " is so tone def!
Not to mention if she actually had any respect for him she wouldn’t have fucked him in the first place. Like GIRL do your job.
@@serenideehope she sounds like a girl from a very rich family who was deeply neglected by working parents.
I’ve experienced both. Good and bad I’m more worried about the hygiene pare of it all lol
@@KenzieArianna THAT
Okay .. i wanna start by saying i genuinely do absolutely love this podcast & how open & honest u are. I love that u are so open about your sexuality & sexual experiences. In fact i even loved learning a lot about what this woman had to say on this episode. I just do think it’s so so so harmful not to touch on sexual education when it comes to the age of your audience because the range is soo broad. Some kids watching are barely 14. Kids at 14 do not know a lot about STDs, UTIs, bacterial infections, CONSENT!!!!, etc. I think it’s harmful not to touch on that while you are touching on this stuff because honestly this episode was a perfect time for that to be discussed & i had full faith that it was going to come up... Also i think what she said about her boyfriend waking up and just sticking it in… it’s a very harmful mindset. And not something to be normalized unless it’s consented to. That type of thing is a convo you have w your partner prior to that. Many men do not understand just because u have sex w your girlfriend all the time does NOT mean they can have sex w their gf whenever THEY want. Sexual abuse is very real in relationships, & as someone who has been through exactly that it still makes me sad how normalized it is. Although you are NOT responsible for what triggers people, you ARE required to be mindful of triggers. & i say all of this because i love u guys & i want to see u & your business ventures succeed , literally from the bottom of my heart!!! plzzz be more mindful
You said this so respectful and tasteful, good job girlie 🤍
@@marissarios1604 thank u im so glad! i did not want it to come off hateful in any way, i just want it to be a learning opportunity for them
exactly bruh and when she talked ab her first time w anal she literally describes rape he didnt ask, imagine if she was a diff person he couldve traumatized them and what does that tell you about him? how many times has he not cared ab consent
@@nicemmmm you said it great! This was a perfect opportunity to teach about STDs and UTIs💗
TANA HAS NEVER CLAIMED TO BE A ROLE MODEL
i started watching tana years ago when i was a teenager and i used to relate to her, i enjoyed how she was so unfiltered and how she gave 0 fucks. i’ve also really enjoyed the cancelled podcast, it’s fairly entertaining, but this podcast really don’t sit right. i get a lot of stuff is said for shock value and i’ve also really gotten a kick out of saying some fucked things. but man as i get older (and i’m still so young 🤦🏼♀️) all i can think is wow this shit just adds nothing to my life. i really enjoy the “real” conversations, again people not giving a fuck but this is just so sad. do what you want w ur life but there’s just some stuff that just isn’t right
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usually love the podcast and am definitely not a prude, but glamorizing the porn industry and saying it's inspiring and empowering for young girls is just wrong. the reality is that most women in this industry except for a few popular actresses barely make any money, are often abused and do actually do it out of necessity, not just because they love sex.
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly
I totally agree but I think in the age of only fans where women have control of their pages and what they choose to show/do it is different than being exploited by a porn company. A lot of women are able to have full control of their pages and that might be empowering for them. I do understand that, that isn’t the reality for a lot women which is horrible and hopefully will and can change with websites like onlyfans but I think everyone’s experience is their own and just because she happened to have a great one because of the platform she uses doesn’t take away from the fact that women are exploited and treated horribly in the same industry.
she never said it was inspiring or empowering for young girls. maybe for herself? but she never once encouraged anyone else let alone young girls to go out & do what she does. maybe learn some comprehension skills before you get too heated there
@@allietourin3405 yeah but obviously people are impressionable and since shes being hyped up so much some people will think what shes saying is cool to do. also tana saying shes the future of empowerment or whatever she said doesnt help
@@bellak6884 sadly only fans isn't really any different. There are definitely alot of people on their who control their own page and what content they post but many of the people who post full porn vids on the site, there is usually somebody else in the mix controlling that content. I use to follow some only fan creators on insta because so many of them were cool and pretty but alot of them would go on full rants exposing only fans that many of them are in that industry because it's the only job they can get and it's exhausting creating new content like almost every week hoping people will buy it and you have to promote it all on your own. The only people on only fans who make pretty good decent money are creator's who have a background in the industry or full on professionals with skilled photographer's. Sex work is def work but it is full on demanding and even exploitive no matter what platform you're on
"I like the intensity and the pain" - this is just some form of self harm this girl is doing to herself because of her fucked up upbringing
there’s pleasure rooted in pain, there’s psych papers about it lol
@@Alex-ym5ox Then why did she say in another podcast, I think the Sofia orgasm one, that she only has had 3 orgasms from anal after years of it daily....women really need to start demanding sexual pleasure from their partners, and yes that means orgasms. Damn
This girl had rich, narcissistic parents that totally failed her. Poor girl honestly
@@Alex-ym5ox I mean it's one thing to just have a kink and be healthy but like certain styles of sex. But here the main problem is the way she's speaking about it.....not healthy. Not healthy to have sex with a homeless man, not healthy to want to have sex with any person instantly like because you "want to feel close to them." etc. There's a fine line between being sexually free/enjoying your life (totally fine and healthy) and doing things from rooted childhood issues and really just needing therapy (unhealthy)
@@Alex-ym5ox its mostly fear. Many people develop fears of bad things happening, and the brains way of coping with it is to become sexually aroused by it to turn it into something positive to them. But its not healthy.