I have always had that "needing to be acceptable to others" - as you say it is sad and for me a hopelessness feeling. Be worthy to yourself first, then practice, then we can be worthy to others. I just wrote down (pen and paper) Michael's magic algorithm points. Pretty sure I need to repeat them for a while. I wonder if I wrote them every morning would that send /emphasis the message to my subconscious.
Dang, you just blew my mind a little bit more! Thank you. I always saw myself as a background character in others lives... but this is my life... I’m my main event.. and I’m the star! Michael! That was a game changer. Thank you... sharing this everywhere.
* be a star of your own movie 0:00 * think/mindset change - "how other person can get my approval" * say no to other people * put yourself first * self-love * try to be independent on your own
I also think it's very respectful not to "lead people on" by acting like you like them when you don't really. It is maybe a bit painful in the no-phase but down the road it is for the better for both of you. This applies to both romantic and platonic relationships. I find it very sad to imagine my friends hanging out with me just to be kind. I want them to want it either way.
When I used to be like “how can this person get my approval”, I used to be “an annoying person” or “a person who doesn’t like anyone else”, as someone said a lot to me. 😂
Man! Been doing that subconsciously for a year and a half now without realising I’ve actually begun to choose myself over others.. good for me I guess!
This video came across my recommendations today and I haven’t seen your channel since the period of time when you paused it, but I needed to hear this message today. I’ve been having a huge block to my clarity and block to my intuition, which is very unlike me. This was great, thanks.
Love this! Breaking free from people pleasing has changed my life and when I started applying it to business..... I started attracting my DREAM CLIENTS and with so much more ease! 🔥 Awesome video, Michael Dennis!
Thank you so much for this. Like you said, its good advice that has been shared many times but its good to have a reminder. And so thanks for that reminder. Wishing your channel the best
I have lost who I am. I seek positive responses from people to my posts. I heard that I am here to have a positive impact to the people and the world around me
Nice approach. The way I figure this out is by realizing, my need for approval has nothing to do with other people. I’m the one wondering and seeking approval, that is my issue. If you add strong self responsibility on top of that and you are self aware that that is your problem it will change your life forever. If you have the word people in your equation you’ll end up seeking approval, one way or another, even through self confidence or by putting yourself in the position you explained.
I found this video really helpful. Thank you so much for trying to help others in that way. I actually suffer from really bad social anxiety and even just leaving a comment here is a big deal for me. I'm in the process of getting better about that constant seeking of approval, so everything is okay. Thank you! Greetings from Spain.
I'm so happy to hear the video helped! I'm not sure if you've seen my older videos, but for the first few months the channel was about overcoming social anxiety so maybe some of those could help you out! P.D. Estudié en España 8 meses y hablo español😜
Michael Dennis well i just found out your channel yesterday and i saw one of your other videos talking about social anxiety, which resulted really helpful for me too. Now i will definetely take a deeper look into your videos! Thank you for the content you make. Me alegra saber que sabes español jajajaj, que casualidad!!
Yeah me too I am a nice person I like others to be happy. I like the strategy of taking responsibility and changing your mind set "this is my movie" "knowing and living my own standards" - this does help to set healthy relational boundaries and expectations 😊
Totally relate. I have issues when people have an opinion of me. And it doesnt fit me. But they make it truth to them I know i should not care. But it bothers me! 😊 Ive been working on this and even watch aaron doughty. He is great. But i have some family members that i for some reason cant get it to go away. I have to be around them once in awhile and when i am they are so negative towards me. And make me feel they dont believe me. Which i dont lie! I cant seem to get past it. I giess looking at it as its their movie. Not mine. Is what i have to try. What they think of me is none of my business 😊
Wow that was awesome! ♥️ It took me years to change this mindset but still couldn't . This simple yet effective trick was just life changing.. thank you so much 💕
My personal tip is to just make a mindset that "if they are my friends they should give me a advantage" i mean like a good way not a manipulation type of stuff make sure that the friend comforts u in your bad times helps you out and is a true friend .
Some people are naturally empathetic and others don’t deserve such energies sometimes . The energy of the earth on all continents has been inverted . What people need is to first raise there own unique energies and on top of that stop letting others auras over power your own . You are not just a spec of dust or a monkeys descendent or . Grandson of a slave owner or a slave. You are not your past mistakes . What you are is flesh and blood with impulses and the gift of discernment use your gifts wisely .ase
I think that depends on your standards. If you are a nice person you would naturally like nice people. And I actually kinda like his idea because it means you don't judge yourself, you judge others which is healthy for you because u are filtering the wrong people. And it will also make u drive conversations with other people to get to know them. You don't have to be picky and be a narcissist about it. You just filter out the very few toxic peoole
Thank you for this, I’ve been trying to break out of seeking external validation and trying to find tips but nothing I found gave me a straight up method to combat this. A lot of it was “things you need to stop doing” or “love and trust yourself” which is true but HOW to do that? What does it look like?? So thanks for this 😊
Thanks for this bro. Seeking approval is something I can be bad for. I did it quite often with my ex-girlfriend in particular unfortunately. "Be the star of your own movie" is an awesome way to look at things.
There are other people who I want nothing to do with. Yet there they are always seeking attention and validation from me only to try and cut me down to there level.
gave me a great tip which I'm gonna use again and again, made me laugh with the alexa bit and you said you're a very nice person........ are you single? 😏
Seeking validation from others makes me feel ugly and insecure
I just want to be worthy the way I am and the way I lead life
I have always had that "needing to be acceptable to others" - as you say it is sad and for me a hopelessness feeling.
Be worthy to yourself first, then practice, then we can be worthy to others.
I just wrote down (pen and paper) Michael's magic algorithm points. Pretty sure I need to repeat them for a while.
I wonder if I wrote them every morning would that send /emphasis the message to my subconscious.
Dang, you just blew my mind a little bit more! Thank you. I always saw myself as a background character in others lives... but this is my life... I’m my main event.. and I’m the star! Michael! That was a game changer. Thank you... sharing this everywhere.
Yes exactly! I'm glad it resonated so well with you :)
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When you put somebody on a pedestal, you force them to look down you.
Good video as always, man! You’ve really grown as a host and presenter.
* be a star of your own movie 0:00
* think/mindset change - "how other person can get my approval"
* say no to other people
* put yourself first
* self-love
* try to be independent on your own
I also think it's very respectful not to "lead people on" by acting like you like them when you don't really. It is maybe a bit painful in the no-phase but down the road it is for the better for both of you. This applies to both romantic and platonic relationships. I find it very sad to imagine my friends hanging out with me just to be kind. I want them to want it either way.
When I used to be like “how can this person get my approval”, I used to be “an annoying person” or “a person who doesn’t like anyone else”, as someone said a lot to me. 😂
Saying No is saying Yes to yourself! 👏🏾👏🏾
“Be the star of your movie!” This video is 🔥
You dont need my approval...but this is the best video I've seen on this topic!
He has got my approval as well.
Man! Been doing that subconsciously for a year and a half now without realising I’ve actually begun to choose myself over others.. good for me I guess!
This video came across my recommendations today and I haven’t seen your channel since the period of time when you paused it, but I needed to hear this message today. I’ve been having a huge block to my clarity and block to my intuition, which is very unlike me. This was great, thanks.
Short. Straight to the point. Practical. Thank you❤ I will try this from now on and pretty sure it’s gonna work!
I’ve heard this advise before & it’s just now really clicking for me. I get it. I agree & I alike it! Thank you for sharing 😊
Well said, living your life as the leading role oscar winner. Got it, THANKS
Exactly!
Love this! Breaking free from people pleasing has changed my life and when I started applying it to business..... I started attracting my DREAM CLIENTS and with so much more ease! 🔥 Awesome video, Michael Dennis!
Yess exactly, I'm glad you resonated with this!
Thank you so much for this. Like you said, its good advice that has been shared many times but its good to have a reminder. And so thanks for that reminder. Wishing your channel the best
You just made my day. Thanks.
Thankyou so much, this is exactly what I needed.
I love you.
I have lost who I am. I seek positive responses from people to my posts. I heard that I am here to have a positive impact to the people and the world around me
Thanks dude this is fr what I wanted.
this is an awesome lifehack! thank you for the video!
Wow. I had to rewind this video. Amazing content. I needed your advice. I appreciate it.
Facts man, I always reminded myself that it's not worth it to get approved by other people no matter how hard you try to be cool with them.
Wow! This just blew my mind
Thanks for the great advice, this mindset will help me a lot
New sub, really needed this, and thank you for sharing 🙏🏻
Nice approach. The way I figure this out is by realizing, my need for approval has nothing to do with other people. I’m the one wondering and seeking approval, that is my issue. If you add strong self responsibility on top of that and you are self aware that that is your problem it will change your life forever. If you have the word people in your equation you’ll end up seeking approval, one way or another, even through self confidence or by putting yourself in the position you explained.
Great video this advice definitely helped me out
The best video I have listened to so far!
Thank you for this video!
I found this video really helpful. Thank you so much for trying to help others in that way. I actually suffer from really bad social anxiety and even just leaving a comment here is a big deal for me. I'm in the process of getting better about that constant seeking of approval, so everything is okay. Thank you! Greetings from Spain.
I'm so happy to hear the video helped! I'm not sure if you've seen my older videos, but for the first few months the channel was about overcoming social anxiety so maybe some of those could help you out!
P.D. Estudié en España 8 meses y hablo español😜
Michael Dennis well i just found out your channel yesterday and i saw one of your other videos talking about social anxiety, which resulted really helpful for me too. Now i will definetely take a deeper look into your videos! Thank you for the content you make.
Me alegra saber que sabes español jajajaj, que casualidad!!
Thanks for this insight and way of thinking about it! I'm going to try and implement this for future interactions 😊
Glad you found it helpful! Best of luck :)
Yeah me too I am a nice person I like others to be happy. I like the strategy of taking responsibility and changing your mind set "this is my movie" "knowing and living my own standards" - this does help to set healthy relational boundaries and expectations 😊
you helped vocalize all the feelings ive been having, thank you haha made it easier to understand myself
Glad to hear it! :)
God bless you! Thank you so much for this!
Thank you, i wasn't being honest to myself in respect to my opinions of other people and things and i think i should do my own things too
Great advice! TY 🙏
This is the best explanation of frame control i have ever heard.
Hell yeah that means a lot! Glad it helped
this is so good! you rock !!!
Thank you so much man!
This video can change my life
Appreciate it man🙏
Am subscribing night now. Honesty and good advice is enough for me..good job brother and it was hepful.
I really appreciate that! Glad it helped
Your advice is amazing
I'm 50 years old and I know I have always done this...but I was just able to put it in a thought phrase today...so I looked it up..o
God you’re gorgeous.. I’m going to learn so much because I’ll watch any video of you!! Thanks for the great content!❤
Another great video. Thank you so much!!
Glad you liked it! Thanks for watching🙏
Your hack has been life improving
U don't know this but u played a big role I changing my life
Well earned like, thanks mate
I liked this Michael.... good one
Totally relate. I have issues when people have an opinion of me. And it doesnt fit me. But they make it truth to them
I know i should not care. But it bothers me! 😊 Ive been working on this and even watch aaron doughty. He is great. But i have some family members that i for some reason cant get it to go away. I have to be around them once in awhile and when i am they are so negative towards me. And make me feel they dont believe me. Which i dont lie! I cant seem to get past it. I giess looking at it as its their movie. Not mine. Is what i have to try. What they think of me is none of my business 😊
Wow that was awesome! ♥️ It took me years to change this mindset but still couldn't . This simple yet effective trick was just life changing.. thank you so much 💕
Glad it was helpful!
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Thank you broo this really helped me.keep up the good work.!!
So glad to hear it man thank you!
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It’s so trueee, I really agree
Glad you liked it :)
Great Frame!
This made me shift my perspective ..tysm ❤️
So glad to hear it!
This was really helpful, thanks man.
Glad to hear it!
LOVE your videos!
Thanks I'm glad you like them!!😁
Awesome video.
Very cool video, we should always be grounded in our own validation, no one cn approve or dissaprove of u
Exactly, life's a lot better that way!
very inciteful thanks a lot
Good advice 👍
Solid advice! Ty brother and stay healthy
Thanks! And a little late for that haha, pretty certain I got corona😬 it's okay though it wasn't too bad and I'm mostly better already
@@MichaelDennis1234 yeah did a test myself on thursday... You better get well again!
My personal tip is to just make a mindset that "if they are my friends they should give me a advantage" i mean like a good way not a manipulation type of stuff make sure that the friend comforts u in your bad times helps you out and is a true friend .
Thank you very very helpful the way you demonstrated it more clear
Glad I could help!💪
I love this
Wow, this is just a game changer
Damn! That’s good.
I am a people pleaser but now micheal will make me a bad ass dude 😁
Haha glad to hear it!!
God bless you 🙏😇
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Thank your for this advice ❤
Any time!
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Some people are naturally empathetic and others don’t deserve such energies sometimes . The energy of the earth on all continents has been inverted . What people need is to first raise there own unique energies and on top of that stop letting others auras over power your own . You are not just a spec of dust or a monkeys descendent or . Grandson of a slave owner or a slave. You are not your past mistakes . What you are is flesh and blood with impulses and the gift of discernment use your gifts wisely .ase
Great content it really helped
Thanks, glad to hear it!
My best video ever❤
Lovely
Thank you so much bro!
That’s right.
Man, the last thing I want is to meet a person who's thinking, "how can this guy gain my approval?" That would suck.
I think that depends on your standards. If you are a nice person you would naturally like nice people. And I actually kinda like his idea because it means you don't judge yourself, you judge others which is healthy for you because u are filtering the wrong people. And it will also make u drive conversations with other people to get to know them. You don't have to be picky and be a narcissist about it. You just filter out the very few toxic peoole
Love the message. Do you happen to provide one on one coaching? Would absolutely be interested.
Very underrated channel, I think you should upload +10 min video to improve your game.
Thank you so much! Yeah I usually try to, this was a rough week though haha
Thank you for this, I’ve been trying to break out of seeking external validation and trying to find tips but nothing I found gave me a straight up method to combat this. A lot of it was “things you need to stop doing” or “love and trust yourself” which is true but HOW to do that? What does it look like?? So thanks for this 😊
I'm so glad to hear I helped you find what you were looking for!
*The thing is, you are special*
We all are!
Good video. Thanks. Yeah i agree somewhat, but i don't understand it how it works fully... but then again. What do i know? Nothing, kinda.
Thanks for this bro. Seeking approval is something I can be bad for. I did it quite often with my ex-girlfriend in particular unfortunately. "Be the star of your own movie" is an awesome way to look at things.
Absolutely man, glad you found it helpful! It's definitely a trap that can be easy to fall into if you're not careful
saw this video, and subscribed right awayyy!
Glad it was helpful! I'm not posting anymore but hopefully some of my old videos are just as good :)
@@MichaelDennis1234 haven't seen all of them, but I surely will, when in need of life advice. Your videos has the power of good influence.
@@MichaelDennis1234 hey why? you should continue making more videos like these
nice video man
Thanks!
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Yeh.. this is so 🆒
im becoming the mc with this one
2:58 #facts; it's exhausting, but it's very true.
Exactly!
Word
Great advice. Except for what if with the mindset, I never interact with any person from here on out more than 1 time?
Good
There are other people who I want nothing to do with. Yet there they are always seeking attention and validation from me only to try and cut me down to there level.
I am going to practice Michaels Magic Algorithm.
Thank you this has helped a bunch! I listen the Aaron as well amd he has helped me and its nice to see the awareness spread theoughout the community.
gave me a great tip which I'm gonna use again and again, made me laugh with the alexa bit and you said you're a very nice person........ are you single? 😏
Thanks to your video I'm a NPC no more
Why I put approvals in both ways? I just want to socialize with people 🤷🏻♂️
I tried everything and nothing help. But to act is one thing but the other thing is to heal from rots my own insecurity
My friend you are very handsome
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