There is no problem with people been not ok, but the problem is when they let themselves drown in darkness. also some people specially young people, are just been dramatic they really have no reason to be sad yet they are. Maybe it's greed.
This is so weird. I remember listening to this song when I was 13~14 years old. At that time I wasn't that good in english so I just enjoyed the music, barely known any hardship in my life... but now the song hit different. Not only do I understand the lyrics but also the crushing feeling. From an inocent teen to deeling with youbg adult stuff.
THIS HITS me hard I just lost my wife to covid and after 13 years together we were so close and then Death MY head hurts My heart hurts but not as much as my KIDS yeah three kids .....WHY!!!!!
My condolences to you and your family. It’s really hard to get through LIFE with the grid and pain of losing someone you love but you gotta be strong enough for your kids and for yourself. Take care and stay safe. :)))
I cant say much, but at least you have eachother. Your wife would be proud of you if your taking care of your children and yourself for her, them, and you. I lost my neighbor, and he was close to my brothers. I'm pretty sure that he would want me telling people online, but we can try to live for a better tomorrow. I'm sorry for your loss.
For y'all read this on Sad and Depressed state, I hope you will doing okay, Because this is a part of life, We feel the same about Pain, you doing it great, you Can survive, I wish I could calm you down but We're separated by distance, I've tried my best
"All i ever thought I was.... Was a mistake....." This fits me so well. Every day for years people tell me how awful and selfish and scummy i am, but they dont need to say those things when I think them about myself everyday as it already is....
hey, im sure you're a lovely person. don't let people tell you otherwise. take care of yourself and stay hydrated. cheers, and i hope everything turns out alright.
pov: your me, you listened to her music when you were in 7-9th grade (usa) and we're really depressed, kinda in a night core art phase, needed to feel smth, snuck headphones in class so you could listen to her music and your going back now and listening to her beautiful music. sound familiar?
I'm so tired of everything I want to cry out my feelings but I can't, poisons are in my head and I'm scared of myself. I just want to be ok. I don't want to be different, I've tried to run from my mind but you can never out run it for long, it always catches up. I'm so scared but I'm even more scared to say. What if they hate me? What if my friends hate me? What if my siblings hate me? My parent's already are going through a divorce, I... I don't want to make it harder for them... I'm just so sad and this song hit me on a very deep level. Even deeper then my friend almost breaking our friendship. Even deeper when my mom stole me from my father, it's my father let me chose. And even deeper then any Christian song about God or Jesus. No it hit me where it hurt, it hurt me cuz it's true. Edit: I'm so sad I feel like two of my best friend's hate me. I'm just trying to be fun and sweet and they're being so ignorant they can't see it. I feel like I'm losing myself and everyone us just ignoring the fact that I'm sad, scared, and I kind of want to hurt myself. I don't want to which is why I'm scared. It's hard to smile. Please advice?
Hey, even tho I don't have any advice for you, let me say that I understand your fears. I don't know how you feel, because I'm not you, but I understand that you're scared of the future. I can't promise that everything will be okay, but I can tell you that if you give life a chance you will experience happiness and peace at some point. Even if these challenges that you have to face right now seem impossible to master, you can do it. You will possibly loose some people you saw as friends or family on the way, but you'll never truly be alone. Life is like a good book, it'll only truly make sense when you finished reading it. Stay determined, I believe in you ♡
hey Im kinda going through the same thing your going through. things have been pretty bad for a year but this February was unbearable. After a really bad day I completely broke and tbh wanted to kill myself right then.. after talking to a few close freinds on my phone for what I thought would be my last time I realized what I would be leaving behind if I did go through with my plan and that I may hurt them. that week I reached out to a couple adults I trusted my mom was one of them. she schuedal a doctors appointment which was sadly a month away but i hanged tight. they gave me a few things to help. at that point too I was determined to try to pick myself up. I tried getting a daily schuedal happen or daily goals like doing yoga, going on walks, selfcare, ect, since then Ive had a few rough times here and there but its slowly getting better. even though... Im still pretty depressed. but its progress. i really recommend reaching out to a person you trust in rl and work on small goals even if its just eating something. self care can help a lot.
@@g.gsgeekchannel7779 I would tell my mom but I already don't really trust her not to steal my money. She's not the nicest to me either... I'd tell my dad but we only see him so often and I don't wabt to burden him with bad news since he's already sad and tired. My siblings already say I'm the wrost thing that happened to them and one of them hates my guts. I'd tell my friends but one of them is the same way but she talks about ut like it's a joke almost, and refuses to tell her parent's cuz they say they'll send her to a emitional center to live or something like that. I'd tell my counselor but I had a traumatic experience with one when I was little so, even though it's not the same person, I can't look at her as a nice person when it comes to her career. I have been trying to detox myself though. Last night I decided that I was gonna take all the sad songs and bad songs in my playlist to one playlist, then I'd not touch them unless I wanted to remind myself why they are there. I'm also starting a fitness plan because my fitness is another reason I'm so sad. I hate the way I look and I probably don't even look bad. It's hard but I'm trying to fix it with out telling anyone. But I don't know if that's the right decision...
@@sugarcubefam Oh sweetheart, promise me you'll live through this and get stronger, ok? There are people rooting for you, wanting to see you succeed, people in the future waiting for your story to be their inspiration to keep going to keep breathing. The pain you feel today will be power tomorrow, I can promise you if you take this if you turn the pain into power it will change you, it will force you to go deeper to grow stronger. I can promise you you will get stronger, sometimes the pain never goes away but it gives you the ability to feel and have more compassion than you ever would without the pain. And usually, eventually, days get better there is a light not every day, not every year but it will come back. There will be happiness if you don't give in to the hell in your head. As for detoxing by trying to change your playlist, I've tried that before, I think the attempt helped me but it also made me even more depressed and moody and weak because I'd start to numb out or be in denial. I like expressive writing, just a little every day, to get some of that pain out and also talking to someone who'll listen if you don't have someone find someone or...lol chat it out with your imaginary friend that's how I survived 13-16 yrs and chat it out with God too if you can. Take hot showers when you're upset, make yourself tea when you're aware that you're numbing, walk around the house or outside when you start to get sucked into scrolling pinterest quietly dissociating. Be ok with only being able to do one task in a day and be sure to reward yourself for it, or acknowledge it. Treat yourself like the beautiful jewel you are, worthy of care and kindness, capable of greatness, accountable for your own decisions. And always remember, we're dying to see you succeed, but because it's good for YOU. You are important and we'll love you whether or not you succeed. Always.
@@thisisnotanalien ty Grace, I've been a LOT better after taking my songs out of my playlists and going through them. I'm still sad every now amd again but I haven't thohght of death very often unless I'm very very sad. It would be better if my friends talked to me but other then that I've been a lit happier since the stress at school ended.😊 but ty so much, I'll look at your comment when I'm sad I think!😇
Excuse me two months ago you made this comment on something I had put down I am so sorry I did not know what that meant I thought that was tears I've since found out that was something really nasty you must forgive me I'm a Christian and I thought my friend had sent that said song to me because we just broke up so I thought I had put tears and hearts to say it was okay I sent change the message please forgive me I did not know that's what that meant please get back with me and let me know you understand I'm kind of a dumb hick Country Girl.
This is how i feel everyday i lost my dog who was my best friend for the 9 years of my life a year back and this is how my miserable life goes on :)))))))
i just lost my rabbit who was the only one there for me for 2 years of my life lost him august 2nd 12:45am i miss him dearly so i know what its like to lose animals i also lost my grandma almost a year ago and havent been the same since
I have lost more people Then I care to a Say but after you lose A parent it's the hardest thing I Have ever Go through that I would Turn 18 and my dad wouldn't be there, I lost him a couple of months ago to covid
sorry , but i remember listening to this song in 2018 same background and everything, was it your account? or did you just repost it because it got deleted?
When I try to seize my in-test Was it ever the best? While I sit in the nest of my growing mess, Thoughts infest and break the yielding and pealing person I once was
The picture is kinda scary tho: people who are so lost because even our own life we don't understand it because we feel so alone and yes alone is something that we should not be friends with. We need to know how to love or at least something to hold on to like _hope_ mostly people feel that way when they feel alone it can lead to suicide. That's why we at least need someone in our life to share our problems with because we cannot do it alone. _JUST_ _TRY_ _TO_ _FIND_ _SOMETHING_ _NEW_ OR SOMETHING TO DISTRACT YOU WHEN YOU FEEL ALONE
Just a piece of advice for music fans out there. If the song covers heavy themes like depression, suicide, etc, then avoid the comment section. It’s almost always filled with cringy edgy teenagers who think they know what depression is ^^’ It makes it hard to listen to good music like this without thinking about just how many children are gonna be in the comments, saying things like “the demons in my head, aaah, i’m so cool, give me attention”
Ptsd, depression, anxiety, 29 Bullied since I met the world at 2 years old. Abused for years by someone I thought I would grow old with. And a lot in between. I still have nightmares of people I haven't seen for 20 years.. But it scars someone if no one understands you. No one does something to help.
You are who you choose to be and nobody can change that. You have a community that cares about you if others don't. You will find people who will understand what you are going through I'm sure of that.I personally don't know what you're going through but you can educate me. You have a purpose and you have a story to tell.If you help one person that's one more person who will learn to appreciate themselves. I do know how it feels to be suicidal but I'm a big coward when it comes to hurting myself. Been in therapy since I was a teenager for depression and I'm still seeing a psychiatrist at age 58. I have 4 kids and 3 grandkids and this was my purpose. I have a daughter who's bipolar 1 since she was 5 years old and we have been through hell and back but I never gave up on her and never will. She's 29 with a child now and still struggling and can't get help or meds because she has no insurance and I'm afraid for her everyday. We are in different cities but I try my best from afar by talking and sending her inspirational videos everyday. Just don't let people make you not love yourself. I know it's hard cause there are a bunch of stupid a-holes out there. Don't give them the pleasure of victory over you. Sorry for writing so much, just want to assure you that you are not alone in this world. DON'T GIVE UP. We don't know each other but I truly admire you sharing a piece of your life with strangers. We are here for you. "I LOVE YOU, NO MATTER WHAT"
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2 years ago I've been listening to this song while my depression phase.
Now I stumbled upon this piece and I can finally fully appreciate its beauty
the one dislike is from a person who thinks people aren't allowed to not be okay
Avoid them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life. 💙
@@malissahyatt2425 agreed 😔 some people just need to learn acceptance i swear
nah I bet they were crying and couldn't see properly so misclicked... ❤
@@kayw-s2391 that too lmao
There is no problem with people been not ok, but the problem is when they let themselves drown in darkness.
also some people specially young people, are just been dramatic they really have no reason to be sad yet they are. Maybe it's greed.
This is so weird.
I remember listening to this song when I was 13~14 years old. At that time I wasn't that good in english so I just enjoyed the music, barely known any hardship in my life... but now the song hit different.
Not only do I understand the lyrics but also the crushing feeling.
From an inocent teen to deeling with youbg adult stuff.
this song hits *just* right 🥲
THIS HITS me hard I just lost my wife to covid and after 13 years together we were so close and then Death MY head hurts My heart hurts but not as much as my KIDS yeah three kids .....WHY!!!!!
My condolences to you and your family. It’s really hard to get through LIFE with the grid and pain of losing someone you love but you gotta be strong enough for your kids and for yourself. Take care and stay safe. :)))
I wish you all the best, don't give up
I cant say much, but at least you have eachother. Your wife would be proud of you if your taking care of your children and yourself for her, them, and you. I lost my neighbor, and he was close to my brothers. I'm pretty sure that he would want me telling people online, but we can try to live for a better tomorrow. I'm sorry for your loss.
Ah mann🥺💔I can't imagine the pain. I'm praying to God to heal your heart and help you be strong for you and your kids 🥺
At this point I’m dancing to these types of songs😁
Ditto
okay congratulations
@@moco3161 🎉🥳
@@rosyrose4763 🤓
For y'all read this on Sad and Depressed state, I hope you will doing okay, Because this is a part of life, We feel the same about Pain, you doing it great, you Can survive, I wish I could calm you down but We're separated by distance, I've tried my best
"All i ever thought I was.... Was a mistake....." This fits me so well. Every day for years people tell me how awful and selfish and scummy i am, but they dont need to say those things when I think them about myself everyday as it already is....
hey, im sure you're a lovely person. don't let people tell you otherwise. take care of yourself and stay hydrated. cheers, and i hope everything turns out alright.
@@sunkano tysm 💖💖💖 you take care of yourself too
@@beejustfell will do! have a lovely day!
pov: your me, you listened to her music when you were in 7-9th grade (usa) and we're really depressed, kinda in a night core art phase, needed to feel smth, snuck headphones in class so you could listen to her music and your going back now and listening to her beautiful music. sound familiar?
0:35 "Am I only living to survive?" 💯
I luv this song
this song describes how i feel every day perfectly!
emo
@@flissykaboojah2160 no u
@@themisfitstudio992 no u
@@flissykaboojah2160 sorry, u can't use a "no u" after someone already has. UwU
@@themisfitstudio992 no u
I haven’t heard this in so long, woah
Love this song 🔥🔥
I just feel okay for listening to this master piece!
Describes my mental state perfectly 😔
for real bro! :(
@@themisfitstudio992 yh I mean what can you do but keep in crawling ig ......
@@volnog oof ikr
"No one knows what goes on up inside my head". Mine also same..
How did this song find it's way inside my playlist?
it didnt you added it
Same tho
I'm so tired of everything I want to cry out my feelings but I can't, poisons are in my head and I'm scared of myself. I just want to be ok. I don't want to be different, I've tried to run from my mind but you can never out run it for long, it always catches up. I'm so scared but I'm even more scared to say. What if they hate me? What if my friends hate me? What if my siblings hate me? My parent's already are going through a divorce, I... I don't want to make it harder for them... I'm just so sad and this song hit me on a very deep level. Even deeper then my friend almost breaking our friendship. Even deeper when my mom stole me from my father, it's my father let me chose. And even deeper then any Christian song about God or Jesus. No it hit me where it hurt, it hurt me cuz it's true.
Edit: I'm so sad I feel like two of my best friend's hate me. I'm just trying to be fun and sweet and they're being so ignorant they can't see it. I feel like I'm losing myself and everyone us just ignoring the fact that I'm sad, scared, and I kind of want to hurt myself. I don't want to which is why I'm scared. It's hard to smile. Please advice?
Hey, even tho I don't have any advice for you, let me say that I understand your fears. I don't know how you feel, because I'm not you, but I understand that you're scared of the future. I can't promise that everything will be okay, but I can tell you that if you give life a chance you will experience happiness and peace at some point. Even if these challenges that you have to face right now seem impossible to master, you can do it. You will possibly loose some people you saw as friends or family on the way, but you'll never truly be alone. Life is like a good book, it'll only truly make sense when you finished reading it.
Stay determined, I believe in you ♡
hey Im kinda going through the same thing your going through. things have been pretty bad for a year but this February was unbearable. After a really bad day I completely broke and tbh wanted to kill myself right then.. after talking to a few close freinds on my phone for what I thought would be my last time I realized what I would be leaving behind if I did go through with my plan and that I may hurt them. that week I reached out to a couple adults I trusted my mom was one of them. she schuedal a doctors appointment which was sadly a month away but i hanged tight.
they gave me a few things to help. at that point too I was determined to try to pick myself up. I tried getting a daily schuedal happen or daily goals like doing yoga, going on walks, selfcare, ect, since then Ive had a few rough times here and there but its slowly getting better.
even though... Im still pretty depressed.
but its progress.
i really recommend reaching out to a person you trust in rl and work on small goals even if its just eating something. self care can help a lot.
@@g.gsgeekchannel7779 I would tell my mom but I already don't really trust her not to steal my money. She's not the nicest to me either...
I'd tell my dad but we only see him so often and I don't wabt to burden him with bad news since he's already sad and tired.
My siblings already say I'm the wrost thing that happened to them and one of them hates my guts.
I'd tell my friends but one of them is the same way but she talks about ut like it's a joke almost, and refuses to tell her parent's cuz they say they'll send her to a emitional center to live or something like that.
I'd tell my counselor but I had a traumatic experience with one when I was little so, even though it's not the same person, I can't look at her as a nice person when it comes to her career.
I have been trying to detox myself though. Last night I decided that I was gonna take all the sad songs and bad songs in my playlist to one playlist, then I'd not touch them unless I wanted to remind myself why they are there.
I'm also starting a fitness plan because my fitness is another reason I'm so sad. I hate the way I look and I probably don't even look bad.
It's hard but I'm trying to fix it with out telling anyone. But I don't know if that's the right decision...
@@sugarcubefam Oh sweetheart, promise me you'll live through this and get stronger, ok? There are people rooting for you, wanting to see you succeed, people in the future waiting for your story to be their inspiration to keep going to keep breathing. The pain you feel today will be power tomorrow, I can promise you if you take this if you turn the pain into power it will change you, it will force you to go deeper to grow stronger. I can promise you you will get stronger, sometimes the pain never goes away but it gives you the ability to feel and have more compassion than you ever would without the pain. And usually, eventually, days get better there is a light not every day, not every year but it will come back. There will be happiness if you don't give in to the hell in your head.
As for detoxing by trying to change your playlist, I've tried that before, I think the attempt helped me but it also made me even more depressed and moody and weak because I'd start to numb out or be in denial. I like expressive writing, just a little every day, to get some of that pain out and also talking to someone who'll listen if you don't have someone find someone or...lol chat it out with your imaginary friend that's how I survived 13-16 yrs and chat it out with God too if you can.
Take hot showers when you're upset, make yourself tea when you're aware that you're numbing, walk around the house or outside when you start to get sucked into scrolling pinterest quietly dissociating. Be ok with only being able to do one task in a day and be sure to reward yourself for it, or acknowledge it. Treat yourself like the beautiful jewel you are, worthy of care and kindness, capable of greatness, accountable for your own decisions.
And always remember, we're dying to see you succeed, but because it's good for YOU. You are important and we'll love you whether or not you succeed. Always.
@@thisisnotanalien ty Grace, I've been a LOT better after taking my songs out of my playlists and going through them. I'm still sad every now amd again but I haven't thohght of death very often unless I'm very very sad. It would be better if my friends talked to me but other then that I've been a lit happier since the stress at school ended.😊 but ty so much, I'll look at your comment when I'm sad I think!😇
😥 this brought me to tears. This is way too real
"it's okay to not be okay," -an old friend
This song explains my feelings.. M crying 💔
Still listening to 3 years
BLESS YOU 🙏🙏🙏❤😇
Yeah...this song is..my life😔
If you are needing me to console you...it means I have failed.
🤟So Real D.C
Excuse me two months ago you made this comment on something I had put down I am so sorry I did not know what that meant I thought that was tears I've since found out that was something really nasty you must forgive me I'm a Christian and I thought my friend had sent that said song to me because we just broke up so I thought I had put tears and hearts to say it was okay I sent change the message please forgive me I did not know that's what that meant please get back with me and let me know you understand I'm kind of a dumb hick Country Girl.
This is how i feel everyday i lost my dog who was my best friend for the 9 years of my life a year back and this is how my miserable life goes on :)))))))
Take care
@@orsolyacsintalan1183 Thank you 🤗
i just lost my rabbit who was the only one there for me for 2 years of my life lost him august 2nd 12:45am i miss him dearly so i know what its like to lose animals i also lost my grandma almost a year ago and havent been the same since
@@luna_wolf_55123xxx I'm very sorry for your loss! I hope you feel better about it soon! ❤
@@M0TH.W1NGZZZ me to! I hope you feel better soon to 🥺🥺
I have lost more people Then I care to a Say but after you lose A parent it's the hardest thing I Have ever Go through that I would Turn 18 and my dad wouldn't be there, I lost him a couple of months ago to covid
Stay safe
I understand how you feel I lost my mom in December
sorry , but i remember listening to this song in 2018 same background and everything, was it your account? or did you just repost it because it got deleted?
I think this is a repost
i had this same question, i was so confused when i saw the release date
@@gracelyn5966 me too,
The caption really knows when to make a sad song a funny song. 😂😂😂CHECK THEM OUT
This is a very nice song
thank you!
omg the og lyric video reuploaded .
middle school really hurt .
literally i did a song project on this in like 7th grade, damn a year later and i feel worse :/
things will get better, look towards the sun! it will be ok! :)
@@themisfitstudio992 looking at sun will blind you
@@hellwalker9356 its called a metaphor
@@themisfitstudio992 Well, either way, they aren't wrong :'D
When I try to seize my in-test
Was it ever the best?
While I sit in the nest of my growing mess,
Thoughts infest and break the yielding and pealing person
I once was
That drive got some saved files...it needs to be found.
The picture is kinda scary tho: people who are so lost because even our own life we don't understand it because we feel so alone and yes alone is something that we should not be friends with. We need to know how to love or at least something to hold on to like _hope_ mostly people feel that way when they feel alone it can lead to suicide. That's why we at least need someone in our life to share our problems with because we cannot do it alone.
_JUST_ _TRY_ _TO_ _FIND_ _SOMETHING_ _NEW_
OR SOMETHING TO DISTRACT YOU WHEN YOU FEEL ALONE
Just a piece of advice for music fans out there. If the song covers heavy themes like depression, suicide, etc, then avoid the comment section. It’s almost always filled with cringy edgy teenagers who think they know what depression is ^^’ It makes it hard to listen to good music like this without thinking about just how many children are gonna be in the comments, saying things like “the demons in my head, aaah, i’m so cool, give me attention”
💞💗💞💗💞💗💞
Your okay.
"I just want to be okay" 🥺
❤️💔🤕
Stay safe
*im scared of myself*
Pansexual, Transgender, 13, and suicidal. How bout you?
Hope you're feeling better!
Are you all right?? 💙
Ptsd, depression, anxiety, 29
Bullied since I met the world at 2 years old. Abused for years by someone I thought I would grow old with. And a lot in between. I still have nightmares of people I haven't seen for 20 years.. But it scars someone if no one understands you. No one does something to help.
You are who you choose to be and nobody can change that. You have a community that cares about you if others don't. You will find people who will understand what you are going through I'm sure of that.I personally don't know what you're going through but you can educate me. You have a purpose and you have a story to tell.If you help one person that's one more person who will learn to appreciate themselves. I do know how it feels to be suicidal but I'm a big coward when it comes to hurting myself. Been in therapy since I was a teenager for depression and I'm still seeing a psychiatrist at age 58. I have 4 kids and 3 grandkids and this was my purpose. I have a daughter who's bipolar 1 since she was 5 years old and we have been through hell and back but I never gave up on her and never will. She's 29 with a child now and still struggling and can't get help or meds because she has no insurance and I'm afraid for her everyday. We are in different cities but I try my best from afar by talking and sending her inspirational videos everyday. Just don't let people make you not love yourself. I know it's hard cause there are a bunch of stupid a-holes out there. Don't give them the pleasure of victory over you. Sorry for writing so much, just want to assure you that you are not alone in this world. DON'T GIVE UP. We don't know each other but I truly admire you sharing a piece of your life with strangers. We are here for you.
"I LOVE YOU, NO MATTER WHAT"
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