As Judge Judy said, "Don't pee on my leg and tell me it's raining." The amount of manipulation and gaslighting she is doing is unreal but Dan saw thru it. Nice job my guy.
Laundry should only be needed to be done once a week as well. It's not like that's being done every day. I hardly ever have to do dishes too, since I mostly just make sandwiches.
GENTLEMEN NEVER NEVER EVER accept an unemployed/ underemployed woman who contributes little to zero mentally, physically, financially to the relationship, household. ALWAYS investigate your relationships criminally as well as financially.
So she was happy for Dan to pay all the bills, do all the maintenance for the house, work long hours to bring in the main income,but for her meagre 2-3 hours of work a day that was just too much so he had to do his equal share if it. Yeah, sounds real fair
"where was the man who would do anything to keep me happy?" You've proven that you can't be made happy and Dan finally figured that out. He's not interested in exercises in futility.
A partnership is built upon specific expectations and if someone isn’t carrying their weight these specific expectations need to be reevaluated. Dead weight needs to be discarded.
Guys it’s just not worth it anymore. The cancer that has grown and spread has made being alone a goal for us. Why do we want a marriage that she can end taking 1/2 of everything even when we made no mistake. Do not put up with crap, do not be disrespected, do not let someone walk all over you, and do not let someone direct your life. we are lucky in that our biology in someway can handle being alone and actually enjoy the solace.
They are both to blame. She is too insecure to get a full time job, and he is feeding her insecurity by paying for everything. She needs to get a full time job.
"those are occasional tasks" So is housework for two people one of which is barely home. There aren't even kids so her job doing housework is a cakewalk.
My calculations ( always wrong, btw) the guy works, whit 1 h unpaid lunch & 1 h gym, 90 h in a 168 h week. Part time workers usally do not get lunch, she works 30 h a week…. Kick her out!!!
Dan is paying 90% of the bills and 100% of maintenance... She is pissed about having a maid, which would lighten her load even more? I am a former simp, and even in that state I would have never allowed her to get that far.
All the entitlement Claire has is flabberghasting. She works part time, and he works over 70 hours each week. He does the maintenance on the cars, house, and etc and all she has to do is cook, clean, and have sex on occassion. What does she think she deserves? She would have a valid argument if she worked full time, but she doesn't.
Do more housework? She’s cracked!!! I’d get it if they had kids messing up the house, but she’s got plenty of home time to take care of everything!! Who’s making the house messy??? If she doesn’t want to do the housework, the. Move out and he can hire someone to handle the cleaning. What did she need her for??!!!
To pay for college, I worked as a maid. Two families, total of eight hours per week. Sweet. It would be better for him if he hired a maid. More cost effective.
Well said …….. you forgot to mention that the tumor was malignant and would metastasize (spread aggressively)………until it was removed by a personal resurgence of testosterone and a surgeon of analytic sulfur confidence !! 👍👏
Let’s be honest here she was doing maybe an hours worth of work on house work rest of the time she doing God knows what and then maybe five hours a day at a part-time job she was just a lazy ass
All women can learn something from this. Men like women sure but when we are the providers and started the relationship with a deal like what is represented here. We provide and do the hard things outside the home then the least you can do is keep the house clean and keep our needs met in bed. To us that is 98 percent of your value. Beauty fades with time. So that is not value. just a temporary benefit to be enjoyed while it lasts. being a true partner tho is valuable. its the only thing that lasts, if she lets it that is.
I love how women talk about emotional labor, or emotional intelligence, or emotional support - you only need those things when you are dealing with a woman.
So she agrees to take care of the house, he would cover 90% of money and the traditional MAN BS!!! Of course she wants equal of only her chores not his dollars and traditional man crap. Yup listen to friends and end up "SINGLE"!!!
This just proves that most not all but most women don't want to work and rather stay at home but don't want to clean, cook, do dishes or laundry. But to stay home, have fun and no accountability or responsibility. They are not worth having around anymore.
Does Dan realize it would be cheaper for him to get rid of the girlfriend and just hire a maid .
Hell considering how good he is
He could get a friend to do it for free
A maid and regular visits to an escort.
Yep, maids and prostitutes are far less expensive and far less taxing on the nerves.
@@popstarprincess123 Why should he get a friend involved especially for free? There's NOTHING free, it ALWAYS comes with a cost..
@@MrModamanReviews Agreed, they both perform a service then the job is over the end.
Better alone than in bad company.
As Judge Judy said, "Don't pee on my leg and tell me it's raining." The amount of manipulation and gaslighting she is doing is unreal but Dan saw thru it. Nice job my guy.
"I carried the emotional weight " The "trophy girl" with the massive debt who thinks cleaning is beneath her...
Notice how men don't use idiotic terms like "emotional weight" or "mental load" when talking about their responsibilities.
So w/o her what housework is there?
Dishes for 1, Laundry for 1, Vacuum 1 time a week, Dust 1 time a week and buy food for 1?
Exactly! He wasn't home enough to get the house dirty.
Laundry should only be needed to be done once a week as well. It's not like that's being done every day. I hardly ever have to do dishes too, since I mostly just make sandwiches.
@@allamericanslacker2378 And it's not hard to load a dishwasher, get a Roomba, and a dry cleaner.
GENTLEMEN NEVER NEVER EVER accept an unemployed/ underemployed woman who contributes little to zero mentally, physically, financially to the relationship, household. ALWAYS investigate your relationships criminally as well as financially.
THEIR problem... is that she doesn't feel good about herself.
HE can't fix that.
Yup. You have to make yourself happy. No one is going to do that for you.
$370k salary!? Get a housekeeper and tell her to get a damn job.
Yep. She can work 70hrs a week and pay half the bills.
It’s always gender roles when they’re in a relationship
But it’s not gender roles to keep your own space clean when she’s single 😊
So she was happy for Dan to pay all the bills, do all the maintenance for the house, work long hours to bring in the main income,but for her meagre 2-3 hours of work a day that was just too much so he had to do his equal share if it. Yeah, sounds real fair
Don't hear her volunteering to pay 50 percent of the bills
She wasn't even a WIFE. W T F ??
"where was the man who would do anything to keep me happy?"
You've proven that you can't be made happy and Dan finally figured that out. He's not interested in exercises in futility.
It’s hilarious.
Without fail, the woman’s opinion is that all of ‘his’ responsibilities are his alone, and ‘her’ responsibilities need to be shared.
Just like it is with the money
@@danishdude6750What's mine is mine and what's yours is 90% mine.
Yeah, that makes sense. Not!!
A partnership is built upon specific expectations and if someone isn’t carrying their weight these specific expectations need to be reevaluated. Dead weight needs to be discarded.
Guys it’s just not worth it anymore. The cancer that has grown and spread has made being alone a goal for us. Why do we want a marriage that she can end taking 1/2 of everything even when we made no mistake.
Do not put up with crap, do not be disrespected, do not let someone walk all over you, and do not let someone direct your life.
we are lucky in that our biology in someway can handle being alone and actually enjoy the solace.
Typical feminist: EQUALITY!!! NO gender ROLES!!!
ok, let's split EVERYTHING 50/50.
WHAT??!?!? NO, THAT'S DIFFERENT
Tell her to pay half the bills and fix the cars
08:15. Those attitudes and actions would have me packing up her stuff and calling her parents to remove her.
Apparently she takes after her mother who advises her to go find another rich man to provide for her.
I bet she isn't doing 70 hours a week doing home chores.
Kick her out..unless and lazy
Women *just* don't get it, until it's too late.
So if he did literally everything... Would she still be bitching?
Yes, yes she would. _Nothing_ would ever be enough.
They are both to blame. She is too insecure to get a full time job, and he is feeding her insecurity by paying for everything. She needs to get a full time job.
So she works maybe 2 hours a day at home and 25 a week at work. So what.
She should be happy he wants to stay in shape and bring home the bank. My ex wife tried the same games. These modern 304 are never happy
Well she is foolish to try to push for a division od the housework. Foolish foolish
It's funny that in these stories, she is always trying to lessen her load. She's not trying to pay half the bills.
Isn't that true
"those are occasional tasks"
So is housework for two people one of which is barely home. There aren't even kids so her job doing housework is a cakewalk.
maybe my dad was right i should have just kept my mouth shut about the housework hahhahaha and he even hired a maid
My calculations ( always wrong, btw) the guy works, whit 1 h unpaid lunch & 1 h gym, 90 h in a 168 h week. Part time workers usally do not get lunch, she works 30 h a week…. Kick her out!!!
Hire a maid
Dan is paying 90% of the bills and 100% of maintenance... She is pissed about having a maid, which would lighten her load even more? I am a former simp, and even in that state I would have never allowed her to get that far.
All the entitlement Claire has is flabberghasting. She works part time, and he works over 70 hours each week. He does the maintenance on the cars, house, and etc and all she has to do is cook, clean, and have sex on occassion. What does she think she deserves? She would have a valid argument if she worked full time, but she doesn't.
Do more housework? She’s cracked!!! I’d get it if they had kids messing up the house, but she’s got plenty of home time to take care of everything!! Who’s making the house messy??? If she doesn’t want to do the housework, the. Move out and he can hire someone to handle the cleaning. What did she need her for??!!!
To pay for college, I worked as a maid. Two families, total of eight hours per week. Sweet.
It would be better for him if he hired a maid. More cost effective.
ohhhHHH you dun did it NOW!
😂😂😂
Dan, you just lost a 135 Lb tumor.
Well said …….. you forgot to mention that the tumor was malignant and would metastasize (spread aggressively)………until it was removed by a personal resurgence of testosterone and a surgeon of analytic sulfur confidence !! 👍👏
@@RonaldMayDMD-nt3fd Indeed.
Emotional labor??
Let’s be honest here she was doing maybe an hours worth of work on house work rest of the time she doing God knows what and then maybe five hours a day at a part-time job she was just a lazy ass
Well he didnt get hit with the baby trap
All women can learn something from this. Men like women sure but when we are the providers and started the relationship with a deal like what is represented here. We provide and do the hard things outside the home then the least you can do is keep the house clean and keep our needs met in bed. To us that is 98 percent of your value. Beauty fades with time. So that is not value. just a temporary benefit to be enjoyed while it lasts. being a true partner tho is valuable. its the only thing that lasts, if she lets it that is.
I love how women talk about emotional labor, or emotional intelligence, or emotional support - you only need those things when you are dealing with a woman.
The definition of emotional labor is living with a woman
So she agrees to take care of the house, he would cover 90% of money and the traditional MAN BS!!!
Of course she wants equal of only her chores not his dollars and traditional man crap.
Yup listen to friends and end up "SINGLE"!!!
Bf not Husband there is a difference.
Never let a GF get complacent.
Even husbands shouldn't be doing this.
Yea dude get a maid then marry her.
Wrong answer. Dump her and hire a maid and have no drama.
@@User-nx7rsI think that dw meant that he should marry the maid, not the parasite.
Too bad it took that long before Dan took action.
This just proves that most not all but most women don't want to work and rather stay at home but don't want to clean, cook, do dishes or laundry. But to stay home, have fun and no accountability or responsibility. They are not worth having around anymore.