Honestly, i feel ur parents are the ones to be blamed for. They didnt need to pay off their mortgage. They could of borrowed some money and continue to pay monthly. Or, they could have sold their property and live in an apartment. At least this is what they could’ve done to prevent dramas. Why? They are already getting sick and old..why need to pay off the mortgage? The house is going to be sold anyway. Right when the bro was about to move in, they should’ve told the bro to give u 40k since the title will be sign to them. Or, u guys should have written a contract between u and ur bro when the title was being sign over to him. Moreover, u guys should have speak up for ur money. He is a married man, I wouldn’t even trust his wife as well. If one js greedy, both may become greedy. Lesson learn. I wouldn’t feel remorse for ur bro and his wife. Though a life is important and worthy, they chosen to be unworthy. Sad, ur 40k went to waste that u wouldn’t be able to get it back. Thank you for sharing ur story. This teaches us to be aware at all times even with families. ❤
$40,000!!! You are made of money to loan that amount. If you are daughter, you should have just let the brother take care of the debt loan for your parents. Despicable brother
Yus los ruam lis ruam thiab los mas. Tsis muajbib qrho pov thawj qrhov twg los lis thiab. Yeej paub tias nyiaj ces thaum mus ces luag ntxhi thaum los mas dub txig xwb nawb. Yog ncaj tus zoo ces tsis nyuaj. Ncaj tus phem ces kawg nyuaj.
Qhov tag lawm ces cia tag mus. Lub neej niam no neeg phem2 lawm txawm yuav yog niam txiv me tub me nyuam, nkauj muam nus muag viv ncaus los yuav tsum sau ib daim ntawv rau sawv daws kos npe ua pov thawj tseg hnub nram lub ntsi thiaj li tsis muaj teeb meem zoo li zaj neej neeg ntawm no.
Neb ruam dhau ces tsum los mas vivncaus! Thaum nkawv muag kiag lub tsev xwb ces twb tso kwvtij hais lawm. Tsis tag li ntawd thaum nkawv muab tau $29,000 txais rau nkawv koj tsis yuav neb.
I hate to say this but was their lives worth more than the money? Kuv yog koj mas kuv tu siab tsis tag vim kuv hlub kuv tus nus os. I know they were in the wrong to take the money like that. But you didn't even sound remorseful either that lives were ended due to this curse. Who's is worse than who now? Idk
Tim neb muab nyiaj yoojyim dhau. 40k+, tsimnyog neb ntxiv npe rau lub tsev title deed los yog liens against lub tsev kom lawv txhob nyiag muag tau. Vim nej tsis kaw niam&txiv cov lus tseg, ua ntawv cia. Nej yeej paub zoo2 tias nkawd yuav nyob tsis ntev ces rho lub tsev nyiaj tawm los them neb. Nyab nus mam them qhov nqi. Thaum nws npav tuag, koj hu ntuj kom nws txhob tuag, yuav tsum mob txomnyem los lees txim, them nqi tas mam tuag.
Mom txheej yuam cai ne tos muaj kev npam loj npaum li no na
In every Hmong family there is a corrupt brother or sister. Too sad
Honestly, i feel ur parents are the ones to be blamed for. They didnt need to pay off their mortgage. They could of borrowed some money and continue to pay monthly. Or, they could have sold their property and live in an apartment. At least this is what they could’ve done to prevent dramas. Why? They are already getting sick and old..why need to pay off the mortgage? The house is going to be sold anyway. Right when the bro was about to move in, they should’ve told the bro to give u 40k since the title will be sign to them. Or, u guys should have written a contract between u and ur bro when the title was being sign over to him. Moreover, u guys should have speak up for ur money. He is a married man, I wouldn’t even trust his wife as well. If one js greedy, both may become greedy. Lesson learn. I wouldn’t feel remorse for ur bro and his wife. Though a life is important and worthy, they chosen to be unworthy. Sad, ur 40k went to waste that u wouldn’t be able to get it back. Thank you for sharing ur story. This teaches us to be aware at all times even with families. ❤
$40,000!!! You are made of money to loan that amount. If you are daughter, you should have just let the brother take care of the debt loan for your parents. Despicable brother
Nkawv zoo siab hlo ris 40,000 txhiab nyiaj ntaws mus cuag miam pog thiab txiv yawg nkawv xwb.
Yus los ruam lis ruam thiab los mas. Tsis muajbib qrho pov thawj qrhov twg los lis thiab. Yeej paub tias nyiaj ces thaum mus ces luag ntxhi thaum los mas dub txig xwb nawb. Yog ncaj tus zoo ces tsis nyuaj. Ncaj tus phem ces kawg nyuaj.
Qhov tag lawm ces cia tag mus. Lub neej niam no neeg phem2 lawm txawm yuav yog niam txiv me tub me nyuam, nkauj muam nus muag viv ncaus los yuav tsum sau ib daim ntawv rau sawv daws kos npe ua pov thawj tseg hnub nram lub ntsi thiaj li tsis muaj teeb meem zoo li zaj neej neeg ntawm no.
Ua cas ho tsis txhob rawm them 20000 qhov qiv ntawm nkawv pob.
siab phem npaum kom kav tswj tuag mug
Ib tug neeg siab phem lim hiam li koj tus nus no tsim nyog npam lawm.
Kom ob niam txiv tuag kom tag tib sis kom tsis muaj ib tug twg tau noj cov nyiaj no ntag hos.
Cov aub kheev noj luag tug li no ces ntshe tuag tsawg xwb.
Neb ruam dhau ces tsum los mas vivncaus! Thaum nkawv muag kiag lub tsev xwb ces twb tso kwvtij hais lawm. Tsis tag li ntawd thaum nkawv muab tau $29,000 txais rau nkawv koj tsis yuav neb.
Cas nej yuav npav txais Nyiaj ntau ua luaj na Hmoob aw….
Twb hais dab neeg ntev ntev lawm xyaum hais kom zoo es tsis txhob muab ib lo lus hais ua ob peb lwm thiaj zoo mloog ma.
I hate to say this but was their lives worth more than the money? Kuv yog koj mas kuv tu siab tsis tag vim kuv hlub kuv tus nus os. I know they were in the wrong to take the money like that. But you didn't even sound remorseful either that lives were ended due to this curse. Who's is worse than who now? Idk
Tim neb muab nyiaj yoojyim dhau. 40k+, tsimnyog neb ntxiv npe rau lub tsev title deed los yog liens against lub tsev kom lawv txhob nyiag muag tau. Vim nej tsis kaw niam&txiv cov lus tseg, ua ntawv cia. Nej yeej paub zoo2 tias nkawd yuav nyob tsis ntev ces rho lub tsev nyiaj tawm los them neb. Nyab nus mam them qhov nqi. Thaum nws npav tuag, koj hu ntuj kom nws txhob tuag, yuav tsum mob txomnyem los lees txim, them nqi tas mam tuag.
Ua cas koj ho nqa qhov nyiaj rov qab mus rau koj tus nus ma
Zaum no ces Tas li no lawm Lauj😭😭😭