नवरा-बायकोच्या भांडणांची नेमकी कारणं काय? | Interview with Advocate Rama Sarode | Mitramhane
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- In this thought-provoking interview, we have the privilege of sitting down with the highly respected advocate, Rama Sarode. With over two decades of experience in her field, Rama is helping couples navigate the complexities of their relationships.
#marriage #couplegoals #relatioshipgoals #mitramhane #soumitrapote
• नवरा-बायकोच्या भांडणां...
ही बाई पुर्ण पणे स्त्रीवादी आहे. तोंड वर करून सांगते -" पुरुष case घेऊन आला तरी मी स्त्री वादी भूमिका सोडत नाही.". हे unprofessional आहे. अहो बाई - तुमच्या सारख्या वकीलांमुळे पुरुष case घेऊनच येत नाहीत.
खर आहे
सौमित्र दादा मुलाखत छान होती पण फक्त मुलीची/महिलांची बाजू मांडली असं वाटतंय... पार्ट २ ची अपेक्षा आहे ज्यात पुरुषांची पण बाजू बघायला मिळेल अशी आशा आहे .. धन्यवाद
बरोबर आहे.
मुलिची एकच बाजू मांडली आहे.असे वाटते.मुलाचे काय?
कृपया, अशीच मुलाखत पुरुष वकीलासोबत देखील घ्यावी....वकील बाई एकांगी बोलतायत असं वाटतं....
मुलाखत विषयाला अनुसरून वाटली नाही, केवळ डिव्होर्स का होतात ह्याचाच उहापोह वाटला....
पोटे साहेब. . तुम्ही सरोदे मॅडम ला एकदम बरोबर कात्रीत पकडलं एका प्रश्नाने .. 45:30. . मॅडम नक्कीच फक्त आणि फक्त स्त्री वादी भूमिका घेऊन च कुठल्याही केसेस कडे बघतांना दिसतात. एक मध्यस्ती म्हणुन त्यांनी पुरुषांच्या बाजुने पण विचार केला पाहिजे.
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
आज काल मुलींचा लग्न करण्याचा उद्देशच पुरुषांना लुटणे हा आहे
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
पुरुषांनी आणि महिलांनी आणि स्वतःची जबाबदारी ओळखून राहावे म्हणजे त्यांना त्रास होणार नाही बायको स्वयंपाक करत असेल तर स्वतः पण जाऊन मदत करावी आणि जर ती जॉब करत असेल तर तिच्याकडून घरकाम आणि ऑफिस काम दोन्ही ही करायला लावणे कृरता आहे कारण स्वतःला जे करता येत नाही ते दुसऱ्याकडून एक्स्पेक्ट करणे ही चुकीची गोष्ट आहे
Agadi barobar..👍
Saglya Kamala Bai astat. Konihi gharchi kame aata karat nahi. Evdha karun pan muli sukhane Rahat nahi. Navryacha pagar baikochya 2 pat asto mhanje tyachi zababdari, office chya Vela pan baiko peksha zasta. Varun 50,000 cha Ghar kharcha ala tar baiko 25,000 det nahi. Mhanje navryane 80% Ghar karcha pan karayacha Ani 50% gharatla kaam pan karayacha. Varun baiko bolnar mala majhya aai vadilanna paise dyayache ahet. Mhanje navryala Ghar kharcha + tyachya aai vadilanna paise pathvave lagtat. Varun itka sagla karun divorce zala tari potgi dyavi lagte. Kiti hi hypocrisy
Jyanna sobat rahayacha ahe te rahtat. Pratyek zodplyala 50-50 kaam Varun ghena shakya nasta. Anek Vela navra 14 tas kaam kartoy Ani Tyanna ghari Yeun pan kaam karava hi apeksha dharnach chukichi ahe
Pratyek ghari ase asat nahi, mahilanvarach gharkamacha boja asto
100% agree with you, shivay maximum gharkam karunhi mahilancha anadar kela jato
घरकर्ती सर्व स्त्री व्हावी आणि सर्व पुरुषांनी घर सांभाळावे एक प्रयोग करून पहावा किमान आठ महिने तरी...सर्व काही समजेल आणि समज होतील आणि गैरसमज विरघळतील.
Hhahaha yess...doghehi tychy pathivach oz sodun ekmekachi baju samju shktil
मी उत्तम समुपदेशक आहे. अनेक घटस्फोट थांबवले आहेत. अनेकदा समस्या खूप गंभीर नसतात. अशावेळी निर्णय घ्यायला योग्य मार्गदर्शन त्यांना उपयोगी ठरतं.
मी पुण्यात असते. आत्ता ऑस्ट्रेलियात आहे. इथूनही मी फोनवरून समुपदेशन केलं आणि एक घटस्फोट थांबवला मी. माझी मुलं छान संसार करतात; मला वाटतं की सगळ्याच मुलांचा संसार छान चालला तर माझ्या मुलांना चांगला समाज मिळेल.या भावनेतून मी हे काम करतेय.
खूपच छान. भावना खूप छान आहे.
Contact kasa karaycha sir
बर लग्न लवकर नाही करायचं म्हंटल तरी नातेवाईकांना त्रास होतो आणि त्यांना त्रास होतो ते घरातल्याना बघवत नाही मग मुलाला आणि मुलीला का त्रास होईन त्या नात्यात राहून....
मुलाखत स्थळ वेगळे आहॆ का? कारण असं वाटतंय दोन स्क्रीन एकत्र केलंय
Purushani bhaji chiravi, chaha karava, swayampak karawa, mag striyani sudha 14-16 tas gharchya bahe rahun kam karave, naukri madhe risk gyavi, shivya khavyat.
जर त्या मुलाने मुलीसाठी स्वतःचे करिअर बाजूला ठेवलं, आणि जर divorce file करायची वेळ आली तर कायदा मुलीला त्या मुलाला alimony देण्यासाठी बांधील करतो का? नसेल तर कायदे equal आहेत असे भंपक गैरसमज नको पसरवायला आपण. At many points in this interview the current stereotypical hypocrisy can easily be spotted.
Ekdam बरोबर बोललास मित्रा. मॅडम, मुलींबद्दल एकपण वाईट गोष्ट बोललेल्या नाही.
@@tejastupe Correct. Equal pay, equal household work, equal responsibilities are idealistic expectations not realistic. If a man is getting paid twice than women, imagine what the company would be expecting from him, at least 12hrs of work, busy holidays, almost no vacations, no work-life balance. If women want man to work at home, then she should be earning as equal to him. Then that is fair ask or else its totally unfair for men. And btw, many earning men hire multiple maids to reduce her burden. He has also got life!
म्याडमना विचारा जागतिक पुरुष दिन कधी असतो? 🎉
एकट्या पुरुषाला कोण खातय्, पण एकट्या बाईला तेच पुरुष् गिधाडा सारखे तिचा अवतीभवती फिरत तिला नको जिव करतात.
It seems this lady is women oriented and more than counselling and avoiding seperation she might be specialist in divorce granting to women..no doubt its her profession..men also face problems as women do..facts..Intellectual compatibility was and will never be in man and women but in past there were saunskars, understanding and importance of joint family and ofcourse importance of marraige..now bec of high money earning and more definition of freedom for both sex this understanding has gone..this will only increase and only solution is importance of joint family & importance of marraige..definition of love is only limited to partying and moving around
I don't think you have watched whole video.
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
Mulakhat ghenare khup ghai madhe hote. Ramatainche balne chalu astana te madhech todun next prasn vicharat hote. At least give her time to complete what she says. Prasn changle hote. Pn vicharaychi padhhat nahi aavdli. She was very patient with the interviewer. The interviewer needs to be a good listener. Mala he prashn vicharayche aahet mg te mi ghai ghai karun vicharnar he changle nahi.
Host is not ready to listen...he is in a hurry to give his reaction super fast...sir, please develop your listening skills first
host is listening properly, the guest is speaking totaly one sided, totally biased
मॅडम मुलाखती मध्ये जेव्हा सौमित्र दादा म्हणाले की पुरुष एकटे पडतायेत तर हे खर आहे पण हा मुद्दा सहज हसण्यावारी घेण्यात आला पण हा खरंच त्रास आहे पुरुषांना .दुसरी गोष्ट मॅडम म्हणाल्या की मुलांना तितकं ऍडजस्ट करावं लागतं नाही तर हे चुकीचं आहे .त्याला ही खूप ऍडजस्ट करावं लागतं .उदा त्याच्या जबाबदाऱ्या अजून वाढतात त्याला प्रत्येक गोष्टी मध्ये तिला प्राधान्य द्यावं लागत .तसेच आई ची आणि बायकोची बाजू ऐकून राहावं लागतं इत्यादी...
तिसरा मुद्दा ...मॅडम म्हणाल्या डोमेस्टिक वायलंस म्हणजे लिव्हिंग बद्दल जे बोलल्या त्या बद्दल मी बोलतोय त्या केसेस मुलींच्या बाबतीत जास्त दिसतात कारण मुली साठी तो कायदा आहे तसा मुलानं साठी नाही ....आणि असा काही घडलं की मुलगाच चुकला असेल त्यानेच फायदा घेतला असेल अशी लोकांची मत झाली आहे ....पण लिव्हिंग म्हणजे दोघांचा निर्णय असतो आणि त्यात जे जे होत. मग सगळाच असेल ते दोघांच्या म्हणण्या नुसार होत मग तो डोमेस्टिक वायलस कसा ......
ही मुलाखत मला तरी एकच बाजू मांडणारी वाटली .....माझं हे वैयक्तिक मत आहे .
नातं टिकवण्यासाठी उगाचंच ओढाताण करण्यात अर्थ नाही, मुलंबाळं आहेत म्हणून नात टिकलं पाहिजे हा अट्टाहास तर फारच वाईट, कारण ते नवरा बायको जर एकमेकांबरोबर comfortable नसतील तर ते त्या लहान मुलांना पण न्याय देऊ शकत नाही.. उगाचच सोसायटी साठी एकत्र राहण्यात काही अर्थ नाही...
Only mature comment
Laws must be made neutral. All Laws are severely Women centric. Equality is a sham in this country. Women are showered with privileges by lawmakers.
Me sampurna mulakhat agdi shantapane aikli...khup sundar mulakhat zali.
Pan maza vaiyaktik mat asa ki Madam che vichar kinva judgements ha biased ahet.
Ankhi ek mudda asa ki jya kahi marriage related cased madam kade alya ahet ashya cases cha spectrum ha Maharashtra purata limited ahe ki National level.
Ek purush mhanun maza asa mat ahe ki Purushanvar zalelya Domestics violence cases che pecentage kalana garjecha ahe, karan madam kade ashya cases kami alya yacha artha ashya cases national level la kamich ahet asa nahi.
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
मुलगी जेंव्हा सासरी येते तेंव्हा मुलाच्या आईला सासू म्हणून का समझते ़ मुलीची आई जरी तीला काही बोलली तरी ती बरोबर बोलते आणी सासुबाई बोलल्या ते चुकीचच हे का ......मग ईतक टेंशन सांभालण्यापेक्षा रिलेशनशीप मध्ये रहा, ......... बाकी बरच काही आहे. ........
Nisargani
Hi Rachanach keleli hoti ki mulan karta shrine ghari Asava.
I.m.p.......
36:55 hya case madhye ji gavakadchi/garibachi mulgi mothya sreemant gharat kashi kay dili tichya aai-baapane, nusta fakt paisach baghitala ka?
He tar kaamwali bai sarkhi tya gharachi mule janmala ghalnari bai banali, hya vyatirikt tichi kahi ek injat navhati.
किती कॉम्प्लिकेटेड आहे हे लग्न विषय कधी कधी वाटत कशाला उगाच ही सगळी लफडी करायची? पैसे कमवा आई वडील यांना सांभाळा जग फिरा आणि सुखी राहा 😓
Feels only women oriented angle. Mostly women take advantage of being female and so shall get better preference in the bargain.
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Here is some facts about from Men's side:
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
जर मुली त्यांचा profession सोडायला तयार असतील तर तुम्ही तुमची मतं त्यांच्यावर लादू नका.. माझ्या family मध्ये अश्या अनेक मुली आहेत ज्यांनी लग्नानंतर स्वेच्छेने त्यांचे जॉब्स सोडून एन्जॉय करतायेत... Plz don't create unnecessary pressures or new stereotypes.
Ata chi new generation barich sudharli ahe only parents should not interfere basically mothers
खरच पुरुष एकटा पडतो जसे रवींद्र महाजनी सरांसारखे. कुणी कुणी आई वबहिणीची काळजी किंवा त्यांना समजून घेतात. वडीलांना नाही.
Ravindra Mahajaninch example far chukich dilat..... "Mitr mhane" cha ch Gashmir chi podcast bagha mag kalel. Salute to Gashmir❤
ह्या बाईचं काय मला खरं वाटत नाही... हिच्या मते " एका बाईची intellectual level जर तिच्या नवऱ्याशी जुळली नाही तर ती divorse घेऊ शकते. पण, एका पुरुषाची intellectual level जुळली नाही तर तुम्ही त्याला दोषी ठरवता "....🙄
Point to be Noted
एक नंबर.. बाई फारच एकतर्फी बोलत आहेत.
@@mitramhane I don't think so. You I think you have not heard what she said.
I have seen my father harassed by my mother, that hurted us. I loved both of them. I not biased yet.
I heard she spoke balanced. Her views are based on real experience.
On other side you have a mindset without any experience. You are biased.
@@npb5258everyone that has lived above 25-30 years has lived experience of their particular gender. This woman is biased towards women.
Khup mothi तडजोड
Mhanjech lagn.
आत्मपरीक्षण करून जगायाचे सहजीवन.
Really love the way the host asks the question . Really draws the best answers and information from the invitee .
Host is great. Jokingly he even exposed her extreme feminist views. Her brother is good BUT rest men cannot even make their own tea.
Where equality gone
I have observed worst than this in all area girls want equality....but husband is working 12 hrs earning for famali they also he should equally help I. Houuse hold chores ????
Parents of girl don't say anything to daughter?
They want donkey for their daughter 😂😂😂
But when women are also working?
Correct. Equal pay, equal household work, equal responsibilities are idealistic expectations not realistic. If a man is getting paid twice than women, imagine what the company would be expecting from him, at least 12hrs of work, busy holidays, almost no vacations, no work-life balance. If women want man to work at home, then she should be earning as equal to him. Then that is fair ask or else its totally unfair for men. And btw, many earning men hire multiple maids to reduce her burden. He has also got life!
मी हया चॅनेल चया मुलाखती बघितलया मला सतत जाणवत मुलाखत घेणारे फार कोरडे पणा दाखवतात .पण सगळयाचया बाबतीत नाही . महीला कलाकार असतील तर .....ओलावा असतो
😂😂😂
खुप छान मुलाखत झाली. मी शेवगावसारख्या तालुका असलेल्या गावात 20 /22 वर्षे याच विषयावर समुपदेशन करत आहे.ग्रामीण भागात अजूनही पारंपारिक प्रश्न आहेतच शिवाय नवीन प्रश्नांची भर पडली आहे.काहीही असो कौटुंबिक कलह मात्र निश्चित वाढले आहेत.हे चिंताजनक आहे.
Madam shevgaon ला समुपदेशन सुविधा आहेत
Saari mulini ka jaych mulala tumacha ghari anun bagha
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Thanks for selecting this topic Dada!
But, as you said Madam explained very well, but only from feminist point of view. Here is some facts about from Men's side:
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
37:33 ... cheating / extra marital affair ला छान पणे intellectual compatibility च कारण दिलं मॅडम ने..."office spouse" ह्या नवीन सज्ञेशी आमची ओळख करून दिली तुम्ही धन्यवाद 🙏😂...पुस्तकांची चर्चा without sexual relationship लग्नापर्यंत जाऊ शकते का?😂😂...त्रिवार वंदन तुम्हाला मॅडम...बायको 10 वी असेल आणि नवरा नंतर अधिकारी झाला आणि त्याने असं केलं तर चालेल ना मॅडम ला...अश्या विचारांचे लोकं आपल्या संस्कृतीला घातक आहेत...सगळ्याच compatibilities हव्या असतील मग करा सुरू बालविवाह सोबतच वाढवा दोघांना...मग सगळंच जमेल (take this sarcastically)...
आपण पब्लिक ओपिनियन देताना pros आणि cons दोघांचा विचार केला पाहिजे
पुरुषांच्या domestic violence च्या केसेस ची टक्केवारी कमी आहे मान्य...पण मग तो त्यांचा दोष आहे का की टक्केवारी कमी आहे म्हणून कायद्याचं संरक्षण मिळणार नाही...टक्केवारी वाढायची वाट बघायची म्हणजे आपण...मग विचार करू
मॅडम कडे मुली as a client जास्त येत असतील मग त्यांचीच बाजू घेणार ना
मुलाखतकार योग्य बोलताय पण मॅडम सोयीने counter करताय
Correct !
Well said bro. Jyoti Maurya (case) la justify kartay madam. Majority cases madhe purush jasta educated ahe, chalel ka tyanni pan he karan deun. Pn kay karnar, kasa sodnar, alimony & maintenace laws cha bamboo lagel mhanun gapp baslay. Chalel ka madam?
छान संवाद!!अगदी गरजेचा व मार्गदर्शक!....फक्त एक सूचना....मागचा वॉलपेपर ब्रेक होतो दोन अँगलमधे आणि ते चांगले नाही वाटत...सलग समोरासमोर का चर्चेस बसत नाही?दोन कँमेरे आहेत का?सेट छान असावा.
😂😂😂 Interview cha conclusion A male should never go to Rama Sarode if he is going through the phase. Paise deke bhi apna hi katvaoge bhaiya😅
थोडक्यात मुद्दे मांडता येत नाहीत बाईना. पकवतायत उगीच.
पोटे साहेबांना गोष्टी समजून घेण्यापेक्षा जज करण्यात जास्त रस आहे असं दिसतं. "असं का होतं, तसं का होत नाही, काय करतात मग" असले प्रश्न तुच्छतेच्या सूरात जास्त विचारताहेत.
तुमचं रीडिंग चुकतंय. आपल्या मताचा आदर आहे ते नोंदवून घेतलं आहे. 🙂
@@mitramhane The problem is in all such discussions, it is assumed that continuing the marriage means the problem is "solved". The reality is it is just postponed. In many marriages with clashes, it is simply better to separate in a friendly manner. The lawyer here is simply assuming the women to be the victims without data collection. It has been documented in the west at least that more than 60 percent cases with domestic violence, it is the woman who starts the violence and when men react with even stronger reaction, they run to the law.
Totally 👍 agree. This was so annoying to watch. Rama Tai handled it so well
Agreed
Agadi barobar aahe
मुलाखत घेणाऱ्याने कमी बोलावे
Ho tumhi ladies ahat tumhala khataknarach
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@@shashankvanjari1865😂😂
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Why mam , He asked right questions
इगो, हा मुद्दा आहे आजकाल. दोघेही शिकली असल्यामुळे पडती. बाजू कुणी घ्यायची. हे करायला कमी पणा वाटतो .भांडणे यामुळे वाढत जातात. ......
छान विषय घेतला. ...चर्चेसाठी. धन्यवाद.
Bainkadcha data irrelevant ahe…Rojcha paper vachla tari kalel.
Stereotype cha prashana nahi. A woman’s natural subconscious drive is to raise children. Kittek successful bayka pan mul ani sansarala eventually miss kartat. Ek pokli rahate ji bharun nighat nahi. Purushancha mulancha sahawas kami jhala tari tashi pokli yet nahi ji baykanna yete.
Hi divorce lawyer sarkhi Mansa divorce Karaycha ahech yach uddeshane cases pahat asnar nahitar yancha vyavasay kasa chalnar 👍
Saglya jodpyanna samajavun sangitla tr kasa chalel, tyamule Nati todna hech yanchya kamvayche sadhan ahet
ते त्यासाठीच पैसे घेतात तसं अजिबात नाही.. आधी तो तंटा मिटवण्याचा खूप प्रयत्न करतात.. अर्थात त्याचा इथे पैसे घेतात. तू मुद्दाम घटस्फोट घडवून आणणं हा हेतू नसतो.. पण काही ठिकाणी तो नीट घडून येणं हेही महत्त्वाचं असतं ना.. सरसकट असं म्हणणं योग्य नाही.. म्हणजे हेअर कटिंग सलून मध्ये केस कापायचे घेतले जातात म्हणून तो दुकानदार टक्कल करत नाही डायरेक्ट 😬 तसं आहे हे..
Court sudha tadjod honyasathi sangte.
पुरुषांना वेठीस धरून मॅडम बोलत आहेत
yes because she is feminist...
Madam fakt baykanchya bajune bolat aahe.. She is completely streewadi aahe..
She is completely biased towards women and feminist…. It is also very stereotypical as a society….. men are mostly at fault in divorces…… Did not discussed both perspectives 👎🏼
पुरुषांना most of the times पसरून बसायचं असत. They think house kids upbringing is only women's responsibility. Definitely अपवाद आहेत काही जण they share every task. But बायका त्यांचं स्वतःच घर सोडून येतात. त्यांनी सगळं सांभाळून घेतल च पाहिजे. असा अट्टाहास असतो. And this thing takes tol on women's health. Physically as well as emotionally. Please think of it.
And try to.give women their own space n time.
@@sublimeranger you must be doing this for your wife. I have already mentioned काही अपवाद आहेत. Look at the majority men. Coolie तर बाईकाच झाल्या आहेत. कुटुंबाचा rahatgada ओढून ओढून. May God bess you to be a women for your next birth. N then only you can surely enjoy all the facilities provided by your man. N see if it's worth.
@@sublimeranger what a joke. My husband is very happy with me. Please look after your wife.तुमची मानसिकता खूप काबिलेतरिफ आहे.
@@sublimeranger thank you for caring so much for my family. I also do the same thing. Cool down bro. थंड घे जरा . इतका कशाला भडकत आहेस.
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
40:01 navra jevha khup shikalela asato aani bayko jemtem shikaleli asate tevha mag navryane tila sodun dyave ka?
As per own observations since more than a decade ,what I have noticed is 1.newly married man is not clear about his own role ,so he does not understand the balance between his parents n life partner 2.the expectations from daughter in law is too much ,and even though she adjust n do sacrifices it's taken for granted 3.in laws are orthodox when it comes to daughter in law 4. in some families sister in law acts as catalyst in arguments 5.in some families daughter in law is over smart 6.mother in law is insecure about her position in newly married son's life ,she thinks daughter in law is taking over her position 7.father in law interfere a lot in newly married couples' life 8. In laws discuss family matters outside family n relatives take advantage n exploits things
I have seen these reasons...but if all of them decide to adjust few things , ignore some things , the family can live happily and if that is really not possible then stay nearby but not in same house because joint family is by heart not by the place where you live together.
Some times the couple fights due to all the above issues and doesn't get enough space n time to know each other in real sense.
Marriage,kids are social status most of the times rather than own happiness, satisfaction in real sense.
Its true and Very Deep.
@@mitramhanethnx...i have seen many cases ,have given opinion/suggestions to dear ones , handled some relationship issues of other couples as councellor even if my study area is different I do this because I want people to be happy as couple, as family.I know many people do not like my views because they are not adaptive.
Even the education doesn't made them sophisticated in reality. People think wearing cloths ,make up make them modern and that is quality life ,the real quality life lies in thinking and behaviour that many people forget .
Talking about family planning, necessary medical tests , sexual fantasies and responsibilities to the to be life partner,is difficult to so called educated people.
And too much is expected from the girl , mainly she is expected to be super woman in every front which I am strongly against of due to my experience and observations because the more you try to balance more responsibilities you get and at certain point it becomes unbearable and unbreathable ...i think newly married couple both of them must learn to say NO to unrealistic expectations from families.
Ho baba, sagla tumchach barobar, purush aani purushach kutumb janmataha chukichach asta, tumhich aani baykaach barobar.
@@sublimerangerekdum barobar bolalat,aajkal mulachya family la sagale villain cha karun baslet,so pity.He je murkh ahet na tyani jara basic vichar kela pahije ki tya aai bapala Kaya vatat asel ki evadhe kabad kashta karun mulala vadhavala toch gunha zala!!!Kiti murkha log ahet!!!dusare shabd khupach uncivilized vatatil mhanun ithech thambato!!!
anchor unmatured प्रश्न विचारतोय 👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿
Let her talk man… the whole interview you’ve interrupted her. Apologise her for this behaviour.
सौमित्र तुम्ही खूप छान पाॅडकास्ट चॅनल सुरू केले आहे.वेगवेगळ्या मान्यवरांच्या मुलाखती घेतल्या आहेत.मला तुमच्या बरोबर एक माझ्या घरातला अनुभव शेअर करायचा आहे,जे सध्या चालू आहे,ह्या संबंधी इंटर्व्हूशी रिलेटेड आहे, क्रुपया तुमचा मेल आयडी दिलात तर खूप बरं होईल.
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sanvad khup chan pan mulakhat ghenare bhau…jara namrtene bolle aste tar char chand lagle aste.sorry.
रमाताई बद्दल नितांत आदर आहेच.. पण प्रश्न विचारणं आपलं काम.. चांगली हसत खेळत झाली की मुलाखत.. 😊
दादा तुमचे व्हिडीओ आम्हाला खूप आवडतात... आम्ही नियमित बघतो. तुमची संवाद करण्याची पद्धत सुद्धा आवडते आम्हाला. सिनेमा नाटक तसेच सामाजिक विषयांवर व्हिडीओ बनवत रहा... शुभेच्छा तुम्हाला
मनस्वी आभार. चॅनल जरूर बघा सबस्क्राईब करा शेअर करा.. चांगली माणसं जोडली जावोत.
@@mitramhaneदादा ह्या मॅडमना आमच्या तक्रारी विचारू शकतो का? आणि त्या विचारायच्या असतील तर काय करावे?
@@abhijeets.4471 अगदीच विचारू शकता मी त्यांचा नंबर कमेंट मध्ये पिन केलेला आहे.
चांगली चर्चा
काही पटलं काही खुपलं
आवर्जून प्रतिक्रिया दिल्याबद्दल धन्यवाद. काय खुपलं? काही आवडलं नाही का?
Madam is talking about intellectual compatibility... but all this goes down the drain when there is a lack of empathy. The basic purpose of relationship is mutual care with a sense of security. If that's lacking, however compatible the two people might seem, they can never stay together for long... the spark always fades away !
Good job Saumitra for your sharp and strong point of view !!!
Hi mulakhat ek tarfi aahe.. Yevdhe pursh aatmahyata kartat tyach kay
ती बाजू पण आपण आणू लवकरच प्रकाशात
@@mitramhane thanks sir
सगळ्या गोष्टी मध्ये....? प्रत्येक गोष्टीत नकारार्थी .... वकील साहेबा तुम्हचा बोलण्यात बालिश पन खुप आहे
"In today's times, one should not get married without financial stability. If there is no financial stability, you will have to listen to others. When getting married, the boy and girl should write down their expectations from each other after marriage on a piece of paper. This is called a prenuptial agreement. Apart from this, they should also get to know each other's household habits. If you get married into a different caste or linguistic community, it can be difficult to adjust to each other, especially for girls. In today's times, if you want to live independently, both the boy and girl should be working, and this should be understood. It is not possible to run a household on a single person's salary. The current job market or business environment is unpredictable, so this should be kept in mind. One should not get married without understanding each other properly. Getting a divorce after marriage is not easy, it can take at least 5-10 years in court proceedings, and lawyers' fees are also involved. Even after that, living independently can be financially and socially challenging."
advice or a set of guidelines for young people considering marriage.
Even i feel due to certain laws ladies are taking undue advantage for alimony i do agreee with da interviewer
Some ladies might be taking advantage but one of my friend lady police officer told me that sufferer lady hardly goes to police station. Otherwise such ladies goes goes to police station when situation reach extream
Correct.
जास्त समानता ठेवने ही महागात पडतात
This interviewer is so irritating, it seems he himself is not into this topic. he is male chauvinist and very male centric. See no matter how in these days laws in favour of women but in fact past centuries n centuries women have suffered and faced a lot and still men are far away to understand women’s situation with respect to unreasonable social expectations and demand and top of that women are facing the brutal crimes … men issues are not even near to it. If you are saying todays laws are in favour to women then i would say the men are only responsible for this due to their past karmas towards women
#CrimeHasNoGender #NoAlimonyNoDowry
Men suicide rate were 72.5% as against women at 27.4%. Married men who killed themselves is 1.82 times higher than married women.
The top reason stated by NCRB (Govt. data) in their latest and previous report was- Family & Marital problems (attribute to women ofcourse).
So in conclusion, men are facing a serious mental health epidemic. And major cause is that after getting married, men are subjected to lot more stress and atrocities by women and their families, along with abuse through misuse of laws related to IPC 498A, domestic violence, maintenance, alimony and divorce.
None of these media channel will talk about it because either they are big time simps or radical feminists who think pulling one gender below is the best way to progress the other one. Also I strongly support banning alimony laws, because it is also archaic and outdated as dowry. And maintenance, should be equal to the standard of living in the city and duration for which should be half of the duration of the marriage. No maintenance for less than two year marriage. This solution will stop alimony-maintenance scam by wifes and save families, marriage, and court burden.
Giving you some links to Men's NGO:
voiceformenindia.com/
facebook.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/voiceformenind/
instagram.com/deepikanarayanbhardwaj/
instagram.com/menwelfare/
Moreover you 'past karma' argument is useless. So, you mean allauddin Khilji as a man caused Jauhar of rani padmavati and thousands of women, and that is why men in present (after 800 years ago), should face their karma of past men. This make me pity about your ignorance. Remember, men are also the ones who defended and died for you. When rani padmavati was having jauhar, her husband Ratan Singh and thousands of Men was carrying out kesariya on the battlefield, died there. So, grow up!
Pseudo feminist rants.... 😂
मुलगी जेंव्हा सासरी येते तेंव्हा मुलाच्या आईला सासू म्हणून का समझते ़ मुलीची आई जरी तीला काही बोलली तरी ती बरोबर बोलते आणी सासुबाई बोलल्या ते चुकीचच हे का ......मग ईतक टेंशन सांभालण्यापेक्षा रिलेशनशीप मध्ये रहा, ......... बाकी बरच काही आहे. ........
घराबाहेरच्यांसोबत भांडण सोपं आहे.. घरातलेच माणसं सोबत कसं करावं
😢😢😢...
क्षमतेपेक्षा जास्त ओझ उचल्यास स्नायू दुखावले जातात तसचं मनावर जास्त ओझे असल्यास तर खुप फरफट होते माणसाची....
निसर्गाने स्त्रीपुरुष भेद हा रहाणारच आहे आणि त्यामुळे होणार्‍या अटळ गोष्टींमुळे निर्माण होणारी परिस्थिती दोघांनीच हाताळायला हवी. बाहेरुन अन्न आणता येतं पण ते किती चांगलं असतं हा पण एक प्रश्न आहेच. त्याची उत्तरं लग्नाआधी शोधायला हवीत. It shall never be too late.
Bayka aajkal sasri maher netat aani tichi aai tr rojch faltu salle dete bayka fakt ghar dambhalun snsar kru shakt nahi ka
Very much a women oriented talk or probably the lady has only had exposures to cases where women's were victims. There should also be a discussion where men are victims ...
तुमचे विचार फक्त मुली च्या बाजूने होते कारण पुरुष कमवतो घरा दाराला आणि बाई कमिटी स्वतःसाठी
तसेच 45.22 ला तुम्ही जेव्हा उलट प्रश्न केला तेव्हा त्या मॅडम खूप सहज रित्या बोलल्या की असेल ...मग त्यांनी नाही मारायच्या इच्छा हे त्या वर उत्तर असूच शकत नाही ....आणि मॅडम नी सगळी उदाहरणही महिला च्याच बाजूची दिली ......मी महिला विरोधी नाही परंतु एकच बाजू ठोस मांडायची आणि दुसरी बाजू अगदी जर तर उत्तर देऊन मारून न्यायची हे चुकीचं वाटत .....🙏
पुरुषांनी नात्याला न्याय दिला पाहिजे आणि मुलाच्या आईने मानसिकता बदलावी ती बायको आहे तिलाही काळजी आहे, ती दासी नाही तस वागवलं जात, आणि मुलींनी लक्षात घ्यावे की महेर सोडून सासरी गेल्यावर जबाबदाऱ्या असतात त्या पार पडायच्या आणि माहेरचा हस्तक्षेप असेल तर तो वैयक्तिक सांभाळावा
डॅाक्टर इजिनियर वकील मुलीनी आपले करीअर करावे पण सध्याकाळी घरी आली पाहिजे घर कामात. मदत एकमेकाना मदत करावी अनयता घरात मोलकरीण ठेवावी यामुळे शारीरिक मानसिक समाधान मिळेल
If Alimony is removed from the law, how many women would initiate or be iterested in divorce?
मॅडम मुलाखती मध्ये जेव्हा सौमित्र दादा म्हणाले की पुरुष एकटे पडतायेत तर हे खर आहे पण हा मुद्दा सहज हसण्यावारी घेण्यात आला पण हा खरंच त्रास आहे पुरुषांना .दुसरी गोष्ट मॅडम म्हणाल्या की मुलांना तितकं ऍडजस्ट करावं लागतं नाही तर हे चुकीचं आहे .त्याला ही खूप ऍडजस्ट करावं लागतं .उदा त्याच्या जबाबदाऱ्या अजून वाढतात त्याला प्रत्येक गोष्टी मध्ये तिला प्राधान्य द्यावं लागत .तसेच आई ची आणि बायकोची बाजू ऐकून राहावं लागतं इत्यादी...
तिसरा मुद्दा ...मॅडम म्हणाल्या डोमेस्टिक वायलंस म्हणजे लिव्हिंग बद्दल जे बोलल्या त्या बद्दल मी बोलतोय त्या केसेस मुलींच्या बाबतीत जास्त दिसतात कारण मुली साठी तो कायदा आहे तसा मुलानं साठी नाही ....आणि असा काही घडलं की मुलगाच चुकला असेल त्यानेच फायदा घेतला असेल अशी लोकांची मत झाली आहे ....पण लिव्हिंग म्हणजे दोघांचा निर्णय असतो आणि त्यात जे जे होत. मग सगळाच असेल ते दोघांच्या म्हणण्या नुसार होत मग तो डोमेस्टिक वायलस कसा ......
great interview
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यामधे एक महत्त्वाचा मुद्दा आला नाही तो म्हणजे मुलींच्या आई - वडिलांचा तिच्या संसारात नको इतका हस्तक्षेप
Outstanding.jwalant questions u discussed fr prabodhanatmk❤
मुलीची आई आणि बहिणी यांचा अवाजवी हस्तक्षेप हा जास्त प्रमाणात व्हायला लागलाय.
Intellectual compatibility nasli tar itar kuthli compatibility asu shakte he vichar karayla hava divorce ghyaychya aadhi? Mitra sobat intellectual intimacy asu dyavi gair nahi. Prem nashta zalay ani mag divorce ghetayet tar goshta vegli, tehi workout hou shakta ichcha asel tar
Power dynamics complete change zlaa ahe. Muli danger ahet aajkal
Ya sarvacha ek main reason ahe ki laws are inclined towards women!!!
Mulina Ghar kaam "share" karnara mulga hava asto.
Pan Purna vel ghar kaam karnara mulga Nako asto.
"Mala career nahi, me house-husband mhanun rahin lagna nantar" asa matrimonial site var likhun pahave boys ne. Baghu kiti response yetoy 😊
Kiti he modern jhalya streeya, tari financial responsibility he purshanich ghyavi ashi apeksha aste. Paisa kamavne ha men cha traditional role aahe.
In other words, stree ne traditional role ideally karu naye, te regressive aahe. Parantu, men ne tynchya traditional role kadhich sodu naye.
This is highest level of hypocrisy and root of all marital problems, in my view.
Rama Tai, tumcha patience 🙏 this interview reinstated my respect for you; the clarity, rationality and tolerating the insensitivity from the interviewer *Prajakta from Muskaan*
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Special case var jast bolane zale nhi...tyavarnvar abortion krun divorce zala ki thambla..as really hot fakt mul bal sathi lagn keli jatat
अजून एक जी सासू-सासरे यांची असते त्यांचे काही म्हणणं असतं ते ऐकून घ्यायला हवे
आपलाw A नंबर द्या.
Important 👍
I am glad i could save myself from this woman, she has destroyed too many families
Marriiage Council is a must thing now a days
She is a feminist and a lawyer where do you think it will end up?
आपण पुरूषांनी बाईसमोर इगो बाळगू नये
कमिट मेंट पुर्वी होती असे आपल्याला वाटते का
Barobar ahe baikadun ofc and Ghar ashi same unrealistic expectations thevu naye..😢 jar asel tr swata pn purashane ti kame karavit ❤
Nidan tila due respect dyava.
ultimately its my choice . kay upyog mug.
Madam kahi muli Asha aahet ki tyana kasalich jawabdari ghaychi nahi aahe. Me majha bayko la job Lavala tr ti n tiche gharche Mala mhantey ki tu capable nahi aahe mhanun bayko la job karayla lawatoy.
@ 22:04 min madam sangat aahet jar mulagi khup mothya padavar aahe tar mulala ha prashn vicharna ki tula ti chalel ka aani tu ghar sambhalshil ka ? kiti murkh pana cha aahe ek mulagi aanun dakhva ki ji asa mulaga swikar karel ???
mulina fakt soiskar equality havi aahe jithe tyancha fayda aahe. Muli swtalach equal samjat nahit karan equality is very costly for her
Ata reverse hoat ahe pidit patinchi sankhya ata vadhat ahe. Muli ata laws la khoop misuse karun patila ani tyachya gharchyancha manasik chal kartat
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