I have no relation with my half sister because she was the product of my mother's affair but.
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- I have no relation with my half sister because she was the product of my mother's affair but she wants to move into my HOUSE! And everybody is against me...
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For clarity, the abbreviations used by OOP are:
HS = half-sister
BM = biological mother
Rando = BM's current husband
GM = maternal grandmother
AP = HS's bio father
RO = restraining order
TO = no trespassing order
TRO = temporary restraining order
i thought BM stood for "B!tch Mom"
@@BlackHawk21ification Same
Very sensible
I thought it meant bad mom
Thank you!🎉
It's so weird how she has both, an awesome helpful and protective family, AND a despicable parasitic one.
It reflects on the parents
The dichotomy is striking.
The irony of the mom of a woman who abandoned both of her kids talking about "raising selfish children" is palpable
gotta protect her own ego
Also shows how much a failure she is her daughter raised her kid to be awful while the dad raised his daughter to be great
there were two more updates after this. thanksgiving nothing happened and then
Update mainly from Concern Cousin
Got an update from my cousin about my half-sister and the situation with her step-brother.
First off, half-sister was arrested after stealing her grandmother's car and credit cards. When she was booked, she apparently made it known she was pregnant, but then refused to do a pregnancy test. State laws mean they couldn't force her to. Our cousin says that her period came on while in jail and she claimed it was a miscarriage - it wasn't.
She eventually admitted that her grandmother told her to claim pregnant because that was the only way anyone would want to help her. It worked for a time, but her antics made everyone stop beyond trying to push her onto me. She's claiming she had a mental breakdown and that's why she stole the car and so on.
Next, the step-brother. Concern Cousin did involve child protective services, mainly for the younger of the two step-brothers since the eldest is 18 already. Both of us were worried half-sister had been involved with him in some capacity too. Their mother was also worried when she got the full extent of what was going on - she had filed her own report and told Concern Cousin about it when they reached out after the older step-brother had a tirade online (essentially saying he was legal and slept with half-sister because he wanted to).
It hadn't been a one-time thing either. He and her slept together multiple times, but he's adamant that it was only when he was legal and never before.
The younger of the two revealed that half-sister offered to sleep with him too, but emphasized the "when you're legal" part to him every time she brought it up. She was grooming them, at least that's what I feel like she was doing. He described conversations that made him uncomfortable like asking about girls he liked, constantly complimenting his looks, bringing up his age and maturity, so on. Unlike his brother, he never got comfortable with her, but also never said anything because this isn't the first time he's dealt with creepy older women.
Both step-brothers are in therapy, solo and family, and their father has lost custody entirely. Hopefully both get the aid they need. I feel disgusted by what I learned, especially because the younger opened up about actually having told his mother about his discomforts - he just wasn't taken seriously by her.
My maternal grandmother was also arrested this morning alongside her son, the one that gave her the idea of me taking in my half-sister. Both came by my house trying to plead a case for me to pay half-sister's bail because they can't afford it. The police were called and both were arrested. Maternal grandmother was in direct violation of the restraining order, so I hopefully won't be seeing or hearing from her again after this.
NTA. The girl was never OP's sister and OP should never have to act like she is. For any family mad at OP for not taking her in, they need to open their own doors for the HS and shut up.
BM's family is a circus lol.
Absolutely
BM is the biggest clown of them all.
a zoo, more like
So that's how poly gamy looks like lol
neglectful and emotional abusive family aside, no one else wants her round for a reason...they obviously know something you dont.
I was reading these reddit posts since the start. I have a bad feeling when Thanksgiving begins for the OP. I gave some advice to keep the party as small as possible, invite only the ones she trusts, and to have someone with her at all times during the party. A party can give HS and her acquaintances to break in and do god knows what.
It's been a few days of silence from OP which kind of worries me greatly for her. I already have a bad feeling she may have gotten kidnapped or something worse. I hope she gives an update soon before, during, or after Thanksgiving to let us know she is safe. But, I think it's better for her to move away to somewhere HS's family won't find her. They sound very determined to have HS stay with OP.
You’re crazy
@@BoofDoofus I'm just paranoid. Humans have been capable of doing real effed up stuff to each other.
@@BoofDoofusfor once i agree with this kind of comment
Like kidnapped really?
And you can always find the new address
Keep us updated on if op posts any more
@@shadowthedarkshadow6960 I thought about moving as well, but having the dad and the rest of the family close by, as well as good relationship with the neighbours, is better than going far away and risking them finding out and coming for her when she has no support.
As rSlash says... "THEN YOU DO IT!!!"
The nerve of these people... they want OP to step up, but none of them are willing to do it themselves.
We also have no relation. I'm moving in!
Each of these reddit stories have some sort of cheating involved
Hell no i don't want my brothers near me let alone moving in my home with me and my wife
How does OP unblocking and muting, at lime 1:41 help him out? If this is for phone calls then would it not really be of any help since to mute a call you'd need to be on the line with someone else. Right? Or is there another way to do what OP is heeding to do to use the unblock and mute functions on a phone?
Ip doesn't owe her HS or her other side of the family anything
I feel so bad for her😭
For the half sis or op
Lol, she should be responsible of her self she is an adult
After this video was posted, there was a new Update from the OP u/Specialist-Ball9777
Update:
Update mainly from Concern Cousin
Got an update from my cousin about my half-sister and the situation with her step-brother.
First off, half-sister was arrested after stealing her grandmother's car and credit cards. When she was booked, she apparently made it known she was pregnant, but then refused to do a pregnancy test. State laws mean they couldn't force her to. Our cousin says that her period came on while in jail and she claimed it was a miscarriage - it wasn't.
She eventually admitted that her grandmother told her to claim pregnant because that was the only way anyone would want to help her. It worked for a time, but her antics made everyone stop beyond trying to push her onto me. She's claiming she had a mental breakdown and that's why she stole the car and so on.
Next, the step-brother. Concern Cousin did involve child protective services, mainly for the younger of the two step-brothers since the eldest is 18 already. Both of us were worried half-sister had been involved with him in some capacity too. Their mother was also worried when she got the full extent of what was going on - she had filed her own report and told Concern Cousin about it when they reached out after the older step-brother had a tirade online (essentially saying he was legal and slept with half-sister because he wanted to).
It hadn't been a one-time thing either. He and her slept together multiple times, but he's adamant that it was only when he was legal and never before.
The younger of the two revealed that half-sister offered to sleep with him too, but emphasized the "when you're legal" part to him every time she brought it up. She was grooming them, at least that's what I feel like she was doing. He described conversations that made him uncomfortable like asking about girls he liked, constantly complimenting his looks, bringing up his age and maturity, so on. Unlike his brother, he never got comfortable with her, but also never said anything because this isn't the first time he's dealt with creepy older women.
Both step-brothers are in therapy, solo and family, and their father has lost custody entirely. Hopefully both get the aid they need. I feel disgusted by what I learned, especially because the younger opened up about actually having told his mother about his discomforts - he just wasn't taken seriously by her.
My maternal grandmother was also arrested this morning alongside her son, the one that gave her the idea of me taking in my half-sister. Both came by my house trying to plead a case for me to pay half-sister's bail because they can't afford it. The police were called and both were arrested. Maternal grandmother was in direct violation of the restraining order, so I hopefully won't be seeing or hearing from her again after this.
Restraining order.
If this OOP don't became paranoid in this whole situation she is a legend, imagine you can't sleep in you own damn house because Radom ppl of your family want to break in
You were 8 when you were kicked out abandoned not a grown as adult of 25 your not family.
Nope not in the wrong
7:50 Theese Ghasts look so funny and cute OMG!!! 😍🤩🤗
Woah im a november 29th baby too
It didn't take long for me to think that this story is not true at all. She was born exactly 9 months after her? Can we collectively agree that that's impossible?
You mom found someone who wanted to cehat on a woman leaving the hospital having given birth. Thays proably the weirdest thing in the whole story.
The narration is repetitive.
She’s your sister step up..
It’s not about other family this is about who you want to be..
She’s your sister really should not need anything more then that but let’s try
You mother cheated your sister has nothing to do with that, the fact that you keep mentioning it suggest you hold resentment about the act?
it’s sounds like your punishing your sister for your mothers betray and that just wrong..
I could understand if you limited her stay because you need/wanted safe guards as you don’t know your sister yet, but just how you responded to her..
As children you did not claim her (as oldest that on you), she never claimed you in response..
who would claim a sister that did not want to claim a sister?
Sure, the Half-Sister is a cheater, a thief and a liar, who has stolen valuables from others in order to sell them, slept with both her mother's lover and his under-aged son, and has had no contact with OP for SEVENTEEN years (since they were both 8), claims to be pregnant and is trying her best to get into OP's house long enough to have tenancy rights - even if she has to lie or break in to do so - but it is OP's responsibility to take in this train wreck and care for her. If you honestly believe that OP should let in her Half-Sister, I have this friend who is a Nigerian Prince who needs your banking info...
Hi boomer, and I can openly say that because only a boomer would say something so stupid. This is what you should do since you’re so worried about out OP’s sister. Reach out to OP and offer to help her sister since you’re so worried and invested 🥰🖕🏽
Never never never let anybody move into your house unless you are completely sure they are not going to ruin your castle. Siblings living together generally is a great thing, Especially whenever everybody is still fledgling adults and everything is so expensive. Siblings that grow up together generally have the same mannerisms and habits that are easy to live with because everyone is so similar. But siblings you didn't grow up with might as well be strangers when it comes to living together. Mom made her leave for a good reason despite raising her and knowing her very well. Don't pick up what a parent puts down. Not your circus.
she is b+stard.
Ah yes the typical family that uses the word family when convenient. Don't you just love to see family when problems show up for you, they basically ignore you and/or belittle you. On the other hand, when problems show up within the family, they call you to solve their problems
Also notice how they do nothing but expect you to do things they don't want
The fact that BM family thinks abandoning an 8 year old child and a 25 year old adult is the same thing, and that OP should feel sympathetic because she went through the same thing before is insane
Lol one was genuinely abandoned, the other was kicked out because she screwed her moms husband
They don't think it's the same thing they are just making excuses cuz they want to get rid of the half sister as she is just as awful as the mom
If all of this "family" is so concerned about your half sister, why don't they open up their doors to her?
Yeah, Cousin explained it's because she steals stuff. Apparently some family let het stay for a while and she stole a car, and some stuff to pawn, so one of the uncles had the idea of shoving HS into OP. And since 7 days would make HS a tenant, that's why she says "i only need to stay somewhere for a week so i can get back on my feet.
Honestly, they could just be narcissists or hypocrites from the start
@@xxfoursevenninerxxclawcrus6000 nah i think this is more of a semi regular family, but then HS is the one that everyone hates so they are looking for a quick way to make her dissapear and who else but the other person they dislike and lives 6 hours away?
Cause they KNOW she is trouble, so they would rather have the family scapegoat take all the crap than invite the proverbial wolf into the sheep's den.
Relatives: “You have to help her, she’s FAMILLLYYY!”
Me to the relatives: Then YOU GUYS HELP HER OUT IF THAT IS SO IMPORTANT TO YOU!
They can't. Didn't you read the post? Mom kicked HS out for sleeping with her second AP. And grandma is full up/s 🙄
Me: I always missed the part where that's your problem
I'm so glad OP has a support system from her paternal family. Uncle sounds like a top G with her safety in mind, and I'm sure dad is just as supportive. This story could have been a lot different without that support system in place. I hope things work out, and from what is in the story, things should be okay.
Typical toxic family pushing you to take someone in/pay for someone because "family" but not willing to do it themselves.
Well said. Not only should OP go complete NO CONTACT with her mother, maternal relatives, and half-sister, she should also move to another state, buy another house, find another job therein, and make her own family that consists of supportive friends, a trustworthy therapist, plus, a warm-hearted man whose family are good people. OP can invite her dad and his family to her new state, any time she wants.
Everyone loves being generous with other people's money, space, things and resources.
Rslash said; if a family member tell you that "family should help other family", then they should do it!!
Didn't head what the cousin said lol they did but she robbed everyone that helped her. They didn't want to abandon her so they decided to just dump her on the sister.
I think the MVP was the cousin who informed her of the diabolical plan of getting the sister in to claim tenants rights. 😂
Man I don't even want my brothers who are fully by blood near me, imagine in my house. I'd be damned lmao
"i don't have a sister"
"I need my sister's help!"
I have a similar situation my father had a daughter with another woman when he divorced my mom the first time around. Her mother is trash, a very vengeful and vindictive person. My father considers her his daughter, but he's never done a DNA test, etc. So I don't really know. I don't really consider her my sister because I just don't know her, never have seen her, etc. She's just family biologically, but not family to me in terms of emotional, etc. To me she's just a stranger. She only calls for money, my father last time asked me for "help" for money, I said hell no. I just don't know her and honestly I don't care. As far as I'm concerned. So I can relate to OP. Just because they are family doesn't mean jack squat.
It’s not your sister’s fault, who her parents are.
@@actioncity5026 its also not their responsiblity to help out their family. Calling for money all the time. What if they need that money for themselves because they're in a tight spot due to life being a bit crap and throwing a few expensive problems in their way.
You’re speaking a hypothetical situation, I’m speaking facts, therefore your argument is inconsequential.
@@actioncity5026 facts is also that she isn't responsible for her half sister
@@actioncity5026 We have the same sociopath you see in these stories here folks!!
Ahahahaha the AP actually wifed up the cheater and expected her to be loyal 😂😂😂😂😂 I have zero sympathy for people that get with cheaters.
Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat.
There's only one set of people that get with cheaters sympathy is for; the ones also being lied to and played, however that sympathy should be stripped away if they stay because they already learned that the cheater's a POS.
Than the cheater gets cheated on and it's her own daughter that is the AP 😂
@mshake7056, Yep, they're nasty!🤢👎🏿
HS: *shows up at the front door*
OP: GET OUT OF MY SWAMP!!!
HS Family: YOUR SWAMP???
You made me snort laugh into my soda 😂
NTA, OOP wasn’t a sister until HS needed someone.
Edit , further into the story - they go through ALL of this to get her into OOP’s house. But won’t take her in? What the fuck is up with OOP’s maternal side of the family????
Edit again - omfg bless that cousin. Go NC with the whole family EXCEPT* for that cousin.
Maybe listen to the whole story before commenting?
Am I the only one that thinks that 25 is too old to be unable to find anyone to live with/rent. A parent shouldn't just kick you out but If she's this bratty and entitled, maybe this model of husband doesn't want a 25 woman child in the house and the fact the whole family is dumping her 6 hours away screams "get her away from us"
Not wanting to be bothered or unsafe isn’t the same as hating someone.
I feel like I won the lottery with my family, mother and father, owned their own home stayed together, and always had time for us as kids, no dramas, no affairs and I always felt secure.... Fast forward to now, All 7 of the siblings get along. On my insistence my mom, my younger sister and her boyfriend moved into my house temporarily because my sister is getting the home place, and she's making a lot of changes to the original structure... I didn't ask for rent and actually I got pissed off when they tried to give it because I love them and the money they'll save on rent could furnish their house when it's done. I have the room and there's very little left on my mortgage, I like the rest of my siblings are all financially secure Everyone keeps everything clean, everyone gets along and they're set to move out soon.
Similar thing to me, but it had made me have a very high expectation in dating pools and it is almost impossible to find what my parents have. The ironic thing is my parents had arranged marriage but it worked because both of them were mature emotionally and understanding always respected each other
@@Baby_shark_du_du_du that's truly amazing, surely that's not typical of arranged marriages?
I've been burnt in the dating pool too, It's not even that my expectations are ridiculous, there's just a slight tendency to leave myself vulnerable, from getting robbed, cheated on and to end up with absolutely toxic partners, it seems I automatically trust everyone and that's probably a noble attitude but it's not pragmatic.
There is a difference between being abandoned as a fucking adult and a 8 year old
HS = Hell Sister.
You can't change my mind.
At the beginning of the video I was so confused thinking why the half sister was so unprepared at being kicked out at 25 y/o due to being married now thinking why can’t the new husband and his family help if the half sister was that unprepared to live on their own and since the mom’s side of the family was that unwilling to help too, and especially since she’s newly married wasn’t moving in together (half sister and new husband) the next eventual step anyway? Then to hear the real context from the cousin that the half sister was kicked out for sleeping with her Mom’s husband and his kid, who also may have been underage at the time eeek, to then hear she has no work history (meaning she’s likely not working now either) then it was all clicking / making sense. But yeah you can’t sleep with your Mom’s new husband and son and be surprised that she finds out and decides to kick you out, like come on now, half sister doesn’t have common sense or was just unwilling to face the consequences.
Her mom sure did a great job raising her lol if I was op I'd be so happy that she abandoned me after hearing all that.
Story 1 nta if the relatives care so much then they can give her a place to stay.
That's exactly what I was going to post but you beat me to it. 😄
Wdym story 1? There’s only 1 story
They did and she robbed them lol why they were dumping her on the sister
Interesting story. Glad she's got good family on her dad's side. I wish the story didn't use a bunch of abbreviations, though. I don't like having to try and translate who is who in real time while I listen to the story.
The most unbelievable part she is 25 and has a home in this economy
exactly bruh. I wanna know which state she lives in and how are the property rates there lmao
At this point, get a very aggressive dog's, like a hellhound or a pitbull, and when they come and you feel threatened, let the dogs free.
It’s karmic justice, the affair baby and the family your mother chose over you and your father, turned out to be shit. While you and your father are doing well.
I hope OP told her dad what the cousin sent her if she did lol I bet the dad had a huge smile on his face. AP got cheated on and betrayed by his daughter than ex wife gets cheated on with her AP being her own daughter than APs daughter is homeless and a child molester. "Jerry Jerry Jerry" lol but just goes to show you who was the better parent. He raised his girl right
The part that killed me the most who won the grandma preaching about going to hell like she not going for being a deadbeat grandma
But HS I thought you didn't have a sister, so which is OP to you huh not a sister or she is a sister?
funny how now you got kicked out and abandoned by your mother, now you need something, that OP is suddenly a sister to you.
oh so OP is a horrible sister according to mom's family but they aren't horrible uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents whatever they are, why aren't any of them taking HS in if she's so wonderful and deserves a place to stay?
This mans upload schedule my god
It's easy once you have AI doing the work.
yeah it just going on reddit, filtering by most popular and copy pasting the text to be read by AI.
he does a good job, but it's not that hard tbh
Nothing screams more American than having 2 bio parents, 20 step-parents, 200 half-siblings and each one of them more vindictive, asinine and psychopathic than the last.
What a fun journey this story was.
Abandoning an 8 year old child at her dad's house because your partner doesn't want to bring a child that's not his to his family for Christmas is not the same as dropping a 25-year-old dot off mooches off the parents
Sad you both had to have that awful mother. It sounds like much of this was set into motion before the sister could really even control it, but she has to learn to be better than her garbage family. Don’t be like that mother. More than abandoning her two children, she cheated on two separate husbands, and only cares about herself.
Exactly. My heart seriously bleeds for OP, i mean, she'll end up having to move to a far away city to get away from her half-sister and maternal relatives, delete her social media accounts, and disconnect her phone number, to keep them from tracking her down, next, she'll marry a guy who's as awful as her mother is, and become an expectant mother, on the verge of homelessness, when her husband kicks her out, then, move with her kid to another state, to provide him with a safe home environment, find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, and another job to keep her one-parent household afloat. But sadly, she'll lose contact with her father, and her paternal relatives, and her kid will never get to know his grandfather; the only family OP and her kid will have in her new state is each other, and to avoid making the same mistake her mother is making, OP will need to focus on raising her kid, and being a better mother to him than her mother ever was to her.
OP's latest post says they had Thanksgiving and nobody showed up or texted, or called. Basically nothing happened and there is nothing to update
Being literally abandoned when you were 8 years old is worlds apart from being kicked out at 24/25. One was a minor and one is a grown ass woman. The capable adult SHOULD be able to take care of themselves, and the minor can not.
Whenever family tells you you have to because family, "you take her in then"
Tell them the same thing. They should help your sister themselves because "family"
The fact that her mother had the time to start a whole affair WHILE recovering from pregnancy is WILD. Considering the time between is 9 months, I assume pregnancy + recovery went... Surprisingly smooth lol.
Cheaters are some of the most 🦇💩 individuals, I swear. 😂
Gosh I am not even 6 minuts in and...everyone is an A hole
It doesn't matter how the story progresses at this point...like just the way OP also reacted in the first place without even the first update (with the information OP had at that point and what happens)...A-hole..
But like I said...everyone is the A hole!
At the end you can do with your house what ever you want...you can invite and exclude everyone...you do you....doesn't mean you are a nice person.
And OP wasn't just ''not nice'' but did actively act rude! Was it ''horrible''? No...still rude...still an A-hole...still in the right! You can be in the right and an A-hole!
The family? The rest? The sister? Father? Mother...also A-holes...all of them. For there own reason each to a varying degree...some more some less.
HS sounds trouble, how BM family doesn't help her but harrass OP.
i kinda feel bad for the half sister, it wasnt her fault she was an affair baby she could have had a different life if she grew up with op and ops dad
She is old enough to know how to behave. They are 9 months apart.
Growing up in a household created through an affair probably warped her views on loyalty and cheating. But as an adult how long can you blame your parents.
She's the monster of their creation and they abandoned her. Why are they surprised she has no loyalty. I feel like the ones who should take her in should be her mom or dad
I felt bad to until I reached the part where it came out that she helped her mother cheat on her father was sleeping with her mothers new boyfriend and his son steals from people and accused others of sexual assault she just as evil if not worse then her mother.
She is 25 she is old enough to know better she got herself in trouble by sleeping with her moms husband, molesting a underage boy, betraying her father and stealing from her family.
I have a half brother, i dont care for him like family, just a fellow human.
I was thinking OP was the asshole until it was said little sister also didn't want a relationship with her and never spoke for 17 years.
It sounds to me like OP was probably not very nice to HS from the start. Being so happy to ditch her at a young age, i wouldn't want a relationship either. HS was definitely not a good person, but o get the feeling OP is ommiting a lot of their own misdeeds
@@raeishimura a young age? they were both young. either way expecting someone you have-not spoken to for 17 years to take you in is a joke
@@raeishimuraOP's family abandoned her when she was *EIGHT* years-old. She hasn't seen HS since. They are only 10 months apart, so HS was either 7 or 8 at the time, too. OP did not ditch HS - Birth Mother and Affair Partner ditched OP.
blood does not make you familyit just makes you related and being related does not matter at all
Why tf didn't the grandma take her since she's soo concerned
This sounds like the american dream
I dont like when video has comments, i donr care about comments i want story
I agree with you. It's better to have a link to allow everyone to read the posts.
@@jobi6953
Yes i agree with you too
Best uncle fr 😭
You cant kick people out after a week? Such a strange law. Seems counter-productive too, as it means people wont be willing to help out a friend for more than 6 days.
It would be wrong to hate some one for who the persons parents are, however, they ain’t hating, they just don’t want to interact, and u can’t force a stranger into somebody’s house
I love that family members help other family members mentality but won’t open up their own houses to her. Kind of hypocritical there assholes.
So she cheats for many years and he still has to give up the house 😂😂 I'm really thankful for your sacrifice. Now i have another reason to never take a woman seriously.
I haven't finished the story
But
Where was this family?, who was concerned about OP being kicked out
Family is not determined by Blood but by action also if someone is being a piece of s*** to you because you're not letting someone live with you and they're complaining about you not doing that and saying well you should give them a place to stay or yada yada yada or some b******* like that well just ask them are you going to do it then you seem to give a lot of s**** what happens to this person I don't but you do why don't you take them in
Op also needs to get a will set up as well as hospital records stating unequivocally that hs, bm and mbm can not be there.
OP has a great paternal family that kind of offset the awful ones on the other side.
Also, the karma of AP being cheated by the woman that cheated with him AND the cheater mom being cheated by the daughter that helped her cheat XD better than any latin soap opera
Just more info - the man she slept with is her FATHER. She didn’t know, but he did
Jesus the mother had an affair baby the mother and affair baby mocked and threw away OP now the irony is mom abandons AP affair baby and all the ship she slings now wants to pretend they are sisters now and help her god dam what toxic people.
Her mom's side of the family are a bunch of SOB's I can see why her mom is so evil now they got the nerve to preach about family but yet they don't want to step up and help her
it's funny how when the person with the house was abandon nobody really took her in but when nobody wants or can't take the pregnant person the grandma deicdes to judt drop her off at the sister's place even though the sister said no multiple times and at yet when she aka the owner of the house came home the grandma sped off leaving the pregnant sister on the owener of the house's porch with a suitcase like i have or had a feeling that they tried leaving her aka the pregnant sister with the other sister so she can try and claim sa or tenant rights or whatever and try and get the other sister in toruble
Wait, if their birthday is almost exactly 9 months apart, that means the mother cheated right after giving birth?…
if you had gone through a similar thing where was your mother's family then? They have not right to demand these things of you and if they really wanted your sister to have somewhere to go then they would let her in their home
I would've ask what mom family is doing to help then
So in most states the law if you let them in after 7 days you will go throw hell to git her out. Don't let her in. She will use you.
Loce how bon of tge family took her in so go after another family member and expect them to take her in wow.
It kills me that AI keeps saying "oop" and not O.P.😂😂
Na you good op why moms kick her out because of her fling please
Can we take a moment to appreciate the uncle. Props to him on security mindness
Story 1: I hope OP called the police and had HS removed.
I might have allowed it on the condition that HS took another pregnancy test in front of me and only allowed her to stay if it was positive. That and if by day 6, the behaviors that didn't have anything to do with HS supposedly having a kid on the way, like breaking or stealing things, show up, call the cops again to put her in a homeless shelter. I'd also be tempted to get a written and notarized agreement that if HS is expecting, the aunt (OP) be granted full guardianship of the kid upon birth since it sounds like she'd provide the with a much more stable environment than anyone else in the poor kid's entire maternal family.
I would ask them what my birthday was and whats my personality.
OP: get a Good Lawyer and file lawsuits 👍