As a husband yeah its amazing that you support your wife but also your wife needed reality check. Maybe have romantic trip to calm her and fix this situation. I also glad that you are great dad who supporta kids choices 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@goldentoast69 looks like uve never been in a relatoonship. He was alittle harsh to her and she was just feeling down. Its not about what she deserves or not. Being in a relationship means communicating and compromising. He has to talk to her, talk to their daughter. Have a small celebration with just family, or at least talk it out. "Hey, sorry I was a little harsh. Why dont we call our daughter, apologize, and have a small family dinner. If our daughter refuses to meet us, just tell her you love her and that youre sorry."
She could’ve done school online as well. A few of my friends did online school and since they don’t have summer break and can move at there own pace they tend to graduate early 😊
It's more sad when they want you to have a massive wedding with the current house (market) price being expensive and the current wage rates from nearly all the active jobs being absolutely shit.
My mim cried when me and my husband got eloped. She claimed she wanted us to have a big wedding and tried to guilt trip me. I just said well i didnt want a big wedding and since you aren't going to pitching into any wedding funds this is what we decided to do.
She's lucky she's even invited to a Halloween party celebration. Mom pushed what she wanted on her daughter, surprised when daugghter pushed back. I would've told her "you weren't happy with my wedding the way i wanted. Tough toenails." Maybe mom should realize that not everyone in the world likes what she likes.
YOU HAVE TO because even if you don't like the way she look's She's still your dauter and you have to respect her and let her be how she want's to be and you should have been there in he BIG big day
Lin didn’t have a wedding….? She eloped. There was no “big big day.” She wanted a small day to begin with, got pressured and probed until she didn’t even want that and then eloped. She’s doing a celebration later in the year that hasn’t happened yet. Her dad is most proud of her out of his children for all her accomplishments. The mom is just being prissy about the fact that Lin didn’t do the wedding Mom’s way. There was nothing about looks. He was judging emphasizing how non-traditional his daughter was and how much he admired her
no, don't apologize! according to me, its the daughters choice how she spends her wedding. Being her mother you cannot hold it against her because she gets to choose how she spends her wedding day not you! Also you have other children who will most likely get married so you are not missing out on anything!
Neither are necessarily bad people, but I think the daughter was right. She didn’t want a big wedding, so she didn’t have one. I believe the mother wanted to see her child with a beautiful wedding because that’s the wedding she believes is the best kind, and she wants the best for her daughter.
I’d tell the wife SHES the reason why Lynn doesn’t want a wedding and if she keeps being a karen, don’t be surprised if the other kids skip theirs as well.
Why was the mom even involvednin the wedding planning process? The only people involved in planning my wedding was me and my husband. No one else should make decisions about your wedding day.
Both sides were in the wrong. Especially the mother since she didn't honor her daughter's wishes and for the daughter to apologize for not including her mother in the ceremony because it seems like it means a lot to the mother to be there but don't apologize for the wedding you wanted
Do the uno reverse thing and ask why she want to have a wedding again. Be a little whine and unread like her and she will realise who entitled her requests are
You should apologize for telling her to stop crying. Her feelings are valid too. If it's a good mother, they will feel especially emotionally attached to the day and attending that day. You're not wrong for the other part though. Also the daughter's choice is valid too and it's absolutely fine. The mother shouldn't feel hurt because of that choice, especially she's always been ,and dor such a long time they've known her, the "non-traditional" child
Well she missed out because she was pushing her daughter’s boundaries. What did she expect that she just comply to her mother’s will. Maybe the mom needs to understand and respect her daughter better
Don’t apologize your daughter told your wife what she wanted but your wife still pushed her to have a big wedding until she agreed. PS sorry if this offends you
You are in the right they were going to have a small wedding until your wife push them too far and then there isn’t a wedding because she was being way too pushy and that’s what happened when you try to get your own way onto other peoples own stuff and that’s what you wife needs to learn that you don’t always get it your way specially when it’s not your special day
Yea she is your wife, apologize for how you said it and sit down and have a conversation with her about why you feel that way like it’s not a yes or no answer 😭 relationships are difficult
No she should apologise. Without the mom Lynn would have had her low key wedding and they would all be going. You missed out cause her mother fucked up
Yes but actually no I don’t blame him but weddings are a big thing for mothers and mothers always push boundaries he was in the right for telling her but it does mean a lot to her
I don’t rlly like how she was practically begging her daughter to have HER dream wedding when it’s her daughters wedding not hers but you guys were being a little harsh about it, maybe you guys she try to make up
Yes you need to even tho she forced her into having a big wedding you said something so wrong like she can cry that she missed her daughter birthday who tf do that I would got a divorce
I think that you should apologize to her but reason with her after and maybe something will work out. If not the I think that you should stop talking to her
I'm most likely gonna have a bunch of hate comments but yes and no because I would be hurt to if I missed one of my kids big day but you could've said it in a kinder manner and I really don't give a fuck if you guys wanna give me hate comments I just said my opinion.
With all her accomplishments, Lynn obviously know what's best for herself. Mom you ARE the reason you missed out on her special day.
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HELL NAH!! you did good and stood up for your daughter and that's awesome
As a husband yeah its amazing that you support your wife but also your wife needed reality check. Maybe have romantic trip to calm her and fix this situation. I also glad that you are great dad who supporta kids choices 🎉🎉🎉🎉
you sound like a nice person but nah the mom doesn't deserve an apology
@@goldentoast69 looks like uve never been in a relatoonship. He was alittle harsh to her and she was just feeling down. Its not about what she deserves or not. Being in a relationship means communicating and compromising. He has to talk to her, talk to their daughter. Have a small celebration with just family, or at least talk it out. "Hey, sorry I was a little harsh. Why dont we call our daughter, apologize, and have a small family dinner. If our daughter refuses to meet us, just tell her you love her and that youre sorry."
We will be 😂
I mean she kinda had it coming
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She only had herself to blame
No one talks about how she graduated COLLEGE at 16
Ikr thats not even possible 😂 did she get accepted at 12 or 13 what country does this
@@maysmays5689 child prodigies exist!!!
She might have done super well or was super smart and got enrolled at like 12 or 13… I know someone that had that happen to them.
She could’ve done school online as well. A few of my friends did online school and since they don’t have summer break and can move at there own pace they tend to graduate early 😊
I agree you dont need to apologize 😊
Me too
Too many mothers get blinded by their own fantasies to truly know who their children are.
It's more sad when they want you to have a massive wedding with the current house (market) price being expensive and the current wage rates from nearly all the active jobs being absolutely shit.
No don't apologize she can deal with it
My mim cried when me and my husband got eloped. She claimed she wanted us to have a big wedding and tried to guilt trip me. I just said well i didnt want a big wedding and since you aren't going to pitching into any wedding funds this is what we decided to do.
OP should apologize to their daughter for not stepping in when their wife started pushing for a bigger wedding
No she was forcing your daughter to have a huge wedding when she didn’t want to and making it like she is the one getting married
Kind of apologize but not entirely because what you said is true and you should stand by that
DON’T apologize ❤
She's lucky she's even invited to a Halloween party celebration. Mom pushed what she wanted on her daughter, surprised when daugghter pushed back. I would've told her "you weren't happy with my wedding the way i wanted. Tough toenails."
Maybe mom should realize that not everyone in the world likes what she likes.
you shouldn't apologise because if the daughter doesn't like big celebrations so be it
Dramatic would be the right word.
Graduation at 16!?
Nope she should support her I am like that
No apologies... Comfort is the best thing..
God I wish my parents were as understanding of my differences as that dad
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NO WAY! The ONLY ONE that should apologize is your WIFE!
if you apologize i finna crash out
YOU HAVE TO because even if you don't like the way she look's She's still your dauter and you have to respect her and let her be how she want's to be and you should have been there in he BIG big day
Lin didn’t have a wedding….? She eloped. There was no “big big day.” She wanted a small day to begin with, got pressured and probed until she didn’t even want that and then eloped. She’s doing a celebration later in the year that hasn’t happened yet. Her dad is most proud of her out of his children for all her accomplishments. The mom is just being prissy about the fact that Lin didn’t do the wedding Mom’s way. There was nothing about looks. He was judging emphasizing how non-traditional his daughter was and how much he admired her
Give a slight apology and explain it again in different words
Don’t apologize!
When you are married you always say sorry 😅
no, don't apologize! according to me, its the daughters choice how she spends her wedding. Being her mother you cannot hold it against her because she gets to choose how she spends her wedding day not you! Also you have other children who will most likely get married so you are not missing out on anything!
Let her do her own thing but be sincere
I saw the other side of this story the daughter was happy about her wedding but felt bad
Nope as long as you're proud of her for what she did with her life that's ok you're ok what you said to your wife
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Nope. She needed to hear that.
NTA, she should know her children
Do not apologize for your wife trying to force your daughter into something she does not want to do
That was your daughters choice your Wife doesn’t have a say in her wedding so do not apologize
Both Lynn and Brad wanted a simple wedding and the mother kinda had it coming
No because she knew what to expect you were just sick of her crying for basically no reason
Nope she is the in reasonable one is this conversation
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Neither are necessarily bad people, but I think the daughter was right. She didn’t want a big wedding, so she didn’t have one. I believe the mother wanted to see her child with a beautiful wedding because that’s the wedding she believes is the best kind, and she wants the best for her daughter.
Do not apologize
They wouldn’t have went behind the moms back if she chilled out and let them have the wedding THEY wanted 😭so womp womp to the mom
Nope, no apology, he actually understands his daughter and her wants mom obviously doesn’t
I’d tell the wife SHES the reason why Lynn doesn’t want a wedding and if she keeps being a karen, don’t be surprised if the other kids skip theirs as well.
Don’t apologize
Nope do no apologies
Maybe the way he said it made her even more said 🤷♀️
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No bro you shouldn't apologize because the wedding is about your daughter not your wife.
nah.And lin is basicley my big sister
Apologize for what? She caused this now what's to play victim.😂😂😂
Nope do not apologize
Say sorry not for what you said, but maybe for the harsh tone. It's sometimes hard for people to accept the harsh truth or critic.
A little harsh but straight to the point
Why was the mom even involvednin the wedding planning process? The only people involved in planning my wedding was me and my husband. No one else should make decisions about your wedding day.
the mom did that to herself
She cries when it was all her fault they eloped😅
The wife is crazy
Both sides were in the wrong. Especially the mother since she didn't honor her daughter's wishes and for the daughter to apologize for not including her mother in the ceremony because it seems like it means a lot to the mother to be there but don't apologize for the wedding you wanted
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Do the uno reverse thing and ask why she want to have a wedding again. Be a little whine and unread like her and she will realise who entitled her requests are
my moms name is amy and my dads name is brad 😭
Thats sad😅
Hell nah get into the lottery hope u get lucky and get money and divorce her or smt
Nope you said the truth
Yo guys why is everyone actually replying cus these channels simply read Reddit stories it’s not like it was posted by the actual dude
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You should apologize for telling her to stop crying. Her feelings are valid too. If it's a good mother, they will feel especially emotionally attached to the day and attending that day. You're not wrong for the other part though. Also the daughter's choice is valid too and it's absolutely fine. The mother shouldn't feel hurt because of that choice, especially she's always been ,and dor such a long time they've known her, the "non-traditional" child
Fuck no you did the right thing
Well she missed out because she was pushing her daughter’s boundaries. What did she expect that she just comply to her mother’s will. Maybe the mom needs to understand and respect her daughter better
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Nope she tried to push something to your daughter that she didn't want
No, it's her own fault, she pushed her daughter to far
I think you should. It sounded like you said it harshly
You dont need to
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Don’t apologize your daughter told your wife what she wanted but your wife still pushed her to have a big wedding until she agreed. PS sorry if this offends you
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Child... Sounds like she's the most successful And independent child that likes to get piercings 😂
Nope it’s her fault
Yep apologize
Nope. She pushed her ideas not your daughters
You are in the right they were going to have a small wedding until your wife push them too far and then there isn’t a wedding because she was being way too pushy and that’s what happened when you try to get your own way onto other peoples own stuff and that’s what you wife needs to learn that you don’t always get it your way specially when it’s not your special day
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Op is wrong for this your daughter shouldn’t have to deal with being told by her parents that she should have a big wedind
Yea she is your wife, apologize for how you said it and sit down and have a conversation with her about why you feel that way like it’s not a yes or no answer 😭 relationships are difficult
Nop, she created the issue she needs to stop and have a think.
Yes she sad
No she should apologise. Without the mom Lynn would have had her low key wedding and they would all be going. You missed out cause her mother fucked up
Yes but actually no I don’t blame him but weddings are a big thing for mothers and mothers always push boundaries he was in the right for telling her but it does mean a lot to her
I don’t rlly like how she was practically begging her daughter to have HER dream wedding when it’s her daughters wedding not hers but you guys were being a little harsh about it, maybe you guys she try to make up
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Yes you need to even tho she forced her into having a big wedding you said something so wrong like she can cry that she missed her daughter birthday who tf do that I would got a divorce
I think that you should apologize to her but reason with her after and maybe something will work out. If not the I think that you should stop talking to her
Im she should have not been like that to your daughter but like she's upset and you just made it worse
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I'm most likely gonna have a bunch of hate comments but yes and no because I would be hurt to if I missed one of my kids big day but you could've said it in a kinder manner and I really don't give a fuck if you guys wanna give me hate comments I just said my opinion.