The award goes to Mom!!! I promise you I can’t deal with all that screaming and unnecessary hollering. The way my nerves are setup. Never!!! God Bless you all 💚💯👏🏾
@@queenbeej3023well first of all they are still young kids everyone almost did that when they didn’t want their hair to be done and it’s not about the way they raise their kids to make them scream loud it’s just them tryna do there hair and they don’t want it done regardless and they are not bad children you would know that if u looked at their channel
@@Vlogsbylayy well second of all I watch there channel and yes they r a little grown for there age u know bad kids when u see them not saying all the time but most of the time it depends on what level bad u understand however I commented because that what they ask for u too do and to make this message not so misunderstood I don't small kids mines is grown so you don't have to reply back to me Good day ✌🏽
Whew mama power to you! I am praying for this kind of patience but my my my. You are a saint! You both are. Big sister is awesome with them as well, so big shoutout to her as well!
Between all the fighting they do to screaming and crying, I understand your feelings Renee. I pray God sends you loads of strength, prosperity and patience. ❤
Wrong. Jaelyn helps to get her way and Hits her sisters. She brags to her step dad about getting what she wants like the navel piercing and cell phone at night. She hit Deval on the head with a Broom and pushed him out the way all the time. She yells at Devale. Watch last video when she called at him saying don't tell at my dog. She gets way when she wants to her girl/boyfriend
Next time wet it and get some conditioner with extra slip or use fresh Aloe Vera gel from the plant to detangle going forward, Aloe Vera provides a lot of slip which makes detangljng less painful and also less pulling and tugging. Aloe Vera is also good for the hair and scalp. Also Hello Essence, Hello Hydration in the blue bottle is amazing for detangling because it has A LOT of slip. FYI, if her scalp became tender or sore from all of tugging, Aloe Vera is great. Put it on her scalp and hair and cover with a plastic cap or saran wrap for a couple to a few hours or even overnight, you'll be happy and so will Julianna. Aloe Vera is a natural healing plant.
Thank you!!! Great advice. That's what I shared. When you comb dry knotted or matted hair, of course it's going to hurt!!! Especially if your using a non wide tooth comb.
Yes, I love this comment. Thank you for sharing this because I was thinking the same thing. My little girls hair got tangled really bad one time and I tried rewet it which helped a little bit but I really needed it something with the slippage that is key.!
My Mom would of given me something to cry about, I have to give them both credit. I couldn't take it. God Bless them both! Jaelyn is the perfect big sister, she helps everybody. I hope they realize how blessed they are to have her!
The award goes to JuJu!! For best dramatic actress in a scene with not a real tear to find. 😂 Renae is a good one because my mother would have knocked my head off and would have bet me to cry! 🫣
Why yall say no real tear she literally has tears coming down and her eyes are watering like dam always like jacey and not juju like her eyes are literally watering
@camdenbeliever856 Some people do not understand, when black natural hair gets matted. It takes alot to detangled it and it really does hurt. I was tender headed when I was a little girl and scared of hair washes I cried the same way. Also when I became natural I noticed that my scalp felt sore. It's not an act I was literally in tears and JuJu was too. Leave her alone that's my baby❤. Some conditioner will soften the hair n make it more easier to detangle. Sorry, for Renee and Jalen I know it can seem overwhelming, but y'all had so much patience with her. ❤❤
Renee said she had to take a breather but I seen the emotions in her eyes, she didn't know if she wanted to be mad or cry, and Jae is the Big sister everybody wants, she know how to stay calm but she also know how to be stearn with them when mommy and daddy can't and I think that is good to have, because she got Jacey right together without raising her voice or quitting. So I send my hugs and love to you, Renee, because you are an MVP baby girl.
@@starryniights09 She's probably watching this vid on yt kids it's an app which sorts different videos into diff age groups so specific age groups don't see what they don't need to .😊
Can they have privacy while in distress, especially JuJu. She has issues handling her emotions and that is ok. Nobody’s perfect. I’d protect her space/gain her trust by not recording and showing the world her meltdowns. Who knows how this will affect her as she matures. Imagine having TONS OF FOOTAGE - courtesy of your parents to possibly be used against you. She can also read comments, people are mean. These are critical years in a child’s life. Please protect her. I’m coming from a caring/sincere place…I know how it feels!
I agree and she and the other kids made a comment about being scared of their classmates finding their RUclips channel and seeing embarrassing things. That’s something to think about how that affects the child and can cause bullying too
I agree! Everything doesn't have to be for us to see. Juju is very emotional and may need to process some things in private. When teaching a lesson doesn't always mean because she didn't listen is what she gets. She's still a kid, and sometimes they make mistakes. We as parents know our children personality and may need to reinforce our rules with the intention of knowing what the outcome can be.❤
Some people don't like to be told what to do with their children even if it's good sound advice so I have learnt when it came to Renee to let her do her rather it be right or wrong......and my oldest child is 49 and I don't a 47,36&24 yr old 8 grandchildren 32,30,29,28,24,22,&7 & 6 great grand children 11,8,6,5,2&1 so I know a lot and I've made mistakes along the way I was a 15 yr old teenager when I became a mother but I've learned if it's not requested then don't impose on someone else and how they rasie their child/ children 🤷🏽♀️
IT NEVER BOTHERED ME WHEN THEY HOLLERED BECAUSE I JUST DID WHAT I HAD TO DO. ALL MY GIRLS HAD HAIR. I GOT NERVES OF STEEL. SHE DISOBEYED HER MOM AND NOW SHE'S PAYING THE CONSEQUENCES FOR HER ACTIONS.
@@asiacapriiitrue but you can’t blame her I mean just listen to what she did to her I mean don’t get me wrong I agree with you but you can’t blame her it’s her fault
@asiacapriii exactly they were definitely putting on. These girls never act like this getting their hair done. Even when it's being braided. Now the boys are tender headed but they girls never acts like this.
When we see Juju's transitions from one emotion to another, she really is the drama girl par excellence. She manages to get you all. That said, she will end up being mocked by her classmates if she continues. Jaelyn's calmness no longer needs to be demonstrated
Hey Renee and Duvall 🌸 When I was having my children I used to want daughters so bad and ended up having boys. After watching this I’m glad that I had boys because this is probably what I would have gone through too. Whew Chile, 🩵🩵🩵
This is totally ridiculous I am an adult and very tender headed but never ever acted this way growing up. These girls are something eles Renee you and Jalen did a great job with patience. They are sometimes very grown in behavior and needs to listen more too what's being told to them.
@@Wheresnay Exactly! JuJu should have listened to her Mama.. Renee didn't get mean with her which is what Mama's should do Renee's a patient good Mama.. I don't agree with some people saying JuJu should have been disciplined the extra pain she went through for not listening was punishment enough poor baby.. Some people said on here their Mama hit them on the head with the brush if they cried.. I don't agree with that..
@@lorileew2337 i was tended headed in the back of my head and used to hate combs (mom is heavy handed) used to also get popped with a comb here and there but now i do my own hair if they detangle Juju hair with the conditioner in it. It will release tension off of her head and be more easy to deal with but its also what products you use
Whewww weee. I love a patient mom but I’m giving my kudos to the big sister. She did not have to put up with that at all. All of those kids are lucky to have her. I wish I had siblings and big family like that but since I didn’t grow up with one I can grow one myself. Blessings to your beautiful family❤
Mom and big sis you have patience of a Saint. My 9yr old granddaughter is very tender headed (suctioned at birth) and I have the patience keep her hair combed.
Juliana is tender headed. Y’all cute though ❤️😍😘 man jayceon looks just like Juliana. They are twins. Can’t wait to go on the journey and meet the new baby. I pray it’s a girl❤
First off mom...PROPS TO YOU!! The patience you display is AWESOME!! .You have to wet their hair and put in leave in conditioner or conditioner then detangle!! Why are you using your fingers?? You are literally ripping her hair😢 I only know because I experienced this same thing with my daughter who has the same hair texture. Super curly!!! My daughter was being dramatic but I believe it really hurt her so I wet her hair then put in conditioner then used a wide tooth comb to detangle.
Her hair was really matted, that's why they were finger detangling first. Finger detailing is a widely used method it's not ripping out her hair it's almost like it clearing a path for the comb to go through easier without getting caught in really big snags and tangles which would be more painful and would indeed rip out hair
@@lindasamba4816 there is no need to get in your feelings! We all have opinions! You have yours and I gave mine...keep it cute. Don't let your ugly show🥱👹🙃
cosmetologist here. part in sections, wet the hair, use leave in conditioner to soften it up. use a wide tooth comb or the “unbrush “ brush works very good. * also when detangling on dry hair, it will damaged the strands/ cause breakage.
Ooh wee as a cosmetologist this hurt to watch. That rough brushing on tangled hair, & the wrong type of brush can cause major hair lost.. please use a Boar bristle brush.. The comments about this child being dramatic is sad. This really hurts because the tools and technique is wrong. The child literally feels like her hair is being pulled out😢
Renee you are an amazing mom and Jaelyn a great big sister. You both handled that so well and with so much patience. I don't think I could have done it. Love this family so much.❤❤❤❤❤❤
I can relate my girls are tender headed and all have my curly locks so when its time to brush there hair.. omg I tell you they start crying before I even pick up the brush. But it must be done. So, much love to you mama we do what we gotta do even through the crying.
Man I couldn’t put my child on camera crying wether their exaggerating or not. I just believe some moments should be private especially when it comes to kids
I have never seen Renee this quiet 🤣🤣🤣🤣the look she gave Jordan I was ready to run 🤣😂🤣😂🤣……..After last night prank and this today I think we deserve a live
This was recorded before the prank lol. This was a few weeks ago when juju and jacey took their braids out and washed their own hair when the mom told them not to. She been posted this on Facebook and ig but just now posted it on here
What an amazing mum Renee, yes sometimes you must let them feel that this is what I knew would happen but it was your choice to do the opposite of what I wanted you to avoid, now you’re suffering the pain of your disobedience. Hopefully next time you’ll remember, I your mum love you and only want to protect you from all pain, and discomforts. Lol a wee bit of Juju’s screaming was, the mere fact she couldn’t control this situation, she loves to control, to Renee goes the Mum of the year 2023, and the Most Patience award. Outstanding family. Love ❤️ & blessings, a Holy & Glorious Christmas to everyone, be joyful & don’t forget to wish our Lord and Savior a Happy happy Birthday. 🎁🎉🎈
Well she should have listened to her mother and do what she’s told. This wouldn’t have happened she better be glad she wasn’t raised in my house she would got her behind tore up for not listening. And for all that screaming for nothing. That’s why the old folks say a hard head makes a soft behind.
@@justinkendrick8164 Amen to that!!! My mother, grandmother & great grandmother all asked us to do things for our own good/protection/to make things easier. When we chose not to listen, we suffered all around. Not only we were hurting & uncomfortable with the tugging & pulling of our hair but the adults had to listen to us whine, cry & complain. It took 3x as long to comb out, stiff fingers & hands for my grandma & great grandma with arthritis and a lot of unneeded anxiety. We actually thought they enjoyed torturing us!!! LOL 😢. They even explained to us why they wanted us to do it that way but “oh no, did we listen~NO~that would have been too easy.” When we suffered, everyone suffered! And did we call for our daddy? Hell No~ it was hair day, and he was nowhere to be found. He took care of his boys at the barber shop.
@@justinkendrick8164now you just being weird that’s not ur child to talk about and what was there to listen about the momma ain’t say nun cuase it obviously probably happened before in life if u don’t know she has a lot of kidd
Detangling spray and the daily use of cantu leave in conditioner is great for her hair. This leaves the hair soft and managable along with a good hair promade. If she gets her hair wet just rub in the leave in cantu and brush or comb no tangles. I have her type of hair and those matted tangles really do hurt!!!
My son has that type of hair, it seems as though nothing worked, and I used to be a hair stylist. He was also tender headed but never wanted his haircut. He’s 24 now and wears a big free formed kinda fro😂
Renée is like me dealing with my boys screaming and fighting all the time I keep calm always I am happy with my level of patience … she is bless kids will be kids during those years of mine my mother was like a fierce lion one single cry she will beat me like crazy… I will never treat my kid in such way ever ..: I decipline them in proper manner not beating just because they cry .
I remember at her age. I did the same thing when it was time to gety braid done or taking out 🪥my mamma would say. Your tender headed when I got older. I did not want no one doing my hair again 😢 i learnef to do my own hair
And….breathe out 😮Girll I know this feeling. My only daughter is now 22 and still tender headed. But I used to use Pantene conditioner and water in a spray bottle.,Part in sections to comb out. Crowns/hats off to u mom 💪🏽
Awwwwwww she crying for daddy like he will be able to stop the pain. Mom will be as gentle as she can, it’s ok just get thur babe girl. You’re in the best hands, stay still.
😊Hey ya'll 😊 Just calm down, Ms. Renee. You're doing such an amazing job with your girls. This is the reason they don't need make up they are still crying about getting their hair comb..just saying
You, and your older children patience was better than mine. The dramatics were on full effect. But she is old enough to understand, and listen to you when you tell her not to do something. So unfortunately this is what comes with not listening. Hopefully next time she will remember how painful this was, and not get her hair wet when you tell her. God bless y'all
Whew child this about did me in. All that hollering and screaming and fake tears. Lord help them. I’m sorry and I’m not one for corporal punishment but she would have gotten a pow pow from that brush. Also, you not about to tell your father my husband on me like I’m going to get in trouble. The Lord definitely blessed you with the patience and heart of a saint! Cause this ain’t it!
This is literally me when I get my hair done my hair is really thick when I’m talking about think I’m talking about thick and it hurts really bad so I can imagine what they’re going through
This reminds me of when I was younger and my Mother would do my hair… whenever I started acting up, she’d Pop the mess out of me with whatever tool she was using to do my hair with 😂 Nostalgia 🤦🏾♀️ Power ✊🏾 to you, Ms. Beauty! ❤
Aww you guys got it done!! This brings back memories 😭. A product that’s not very known but works amazing on kinky hair and Afro hair is Redkin leave in conditioner heat treatment/protectant it works very well on my 4c hair on smoothing it, dry angle and excellent moisture! ☺️ check it out If you want.
This is the same reason why I am installing micro loc's in my 11y daughter head. Detangling her hair hurts, and I don't like putting her through all that pain. I too am tender headed in certain areas of my head so I totally understand. #ItReallyHurts
@@elizabethirvin9954I agree. They can damage the health of the hair and most type's of locs aren't attractive. Leaving your hair natural or other types of hairstyles do look attractive..
Hell, it looked like they were punishing her for what she previously did before getting her hair done in order to teach her a lesson by not using detangler and leave in conditioner so that it would hurt her and cause her to cry. Now you want her to be punished for crying while getting it done.
The award goes to Mom!!! I promise you I can’t deal with all that screaming and unnecessary hollering. The way my nerves are setup. Never!!! God Bless you all 💚💯👏🏾
They bad little girls anyways why she allows them to do all that screaming is crazy to me when they talk they be yelling like bring your voice down
@@queenbeej3023well first of all they are still young kids everyone almost did that when they didn’t want their hair to be done and it’s not about the way they raise their kids to make them scream loud it’s just them tryna do there hair and they don’t want it done regardless and they are not bad children you would know that if u looked at their channel
@@Vlogsbylayy I agree with you.❤❤😊😊
@@Vlogsbylayy well second of all I watch there channel and yes they r a little grown for there age u know bad kids when u see them not saying all the time but most of the time it depends on what level bad u understand however I commented because that what they ask for u too do and to make this message not so misunderstood I don't small kids mines is grown so you don't have to reply back to me Good day ✌🏽
@@queenbeej3023well said. They are very spoiled as well.
Whew mama power to you! I am praying for this kind of patience but my my my. You are a saint! You both are. Big sister is awesome with them as well, so big shoutout to her as well!
Amen🙏🏽❤️
I'm sorry for the Mom because the Mom is tired 😢😢😢
Shout out to big sis for being patient with her lil sis and standing strong. She did not let the hair go she finished thst ponytail.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
😂 Juju is doing all that screaming and then tells the dog to shut up 😂
🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Now that was funny kid's are a trip .. 🤣..
That was so funny
1:59 not really lol😂😂
Lol
Between all the fighting they do to screaming and crying, I understand your feelings Renee. I pray God sends you loads of strength, prosperity and patience. ❤
😢😭😭😭😭😣😖
Jalen is so sweet. She so helpful without even being ask. She’s a great sister very mature.❤️
Wrong. Jaelyn helps to get her way and Hits her sisters. She brags to her step dad about getting what she wants like the navel piercing and cell phone at night. She hit Deval on the head with a Broom and pushed him out the way all the time. She yells at Devale. Watch last video when she called at him saying don't tell at my dog. She gets way when she wants to her girl/boyfriend
So u talking down on kid@@Shoshana-yk9re
@@Shoshana-yk9reThat kid is rude zero respect 😮
@@Shoshana-yk9re all the siblings hit each other.. imagine writing a long ass paragraph on less than 20 minute videos you see of a 16 year old 😂 bum
@@spicefix_cooking what do you mean
Next time wet it and get some conditioner with extra slip or use fresh Aloe Vera gel from the plant to detangle going forward, Aloe Vera provides a lot of slip which makes detangljng less painful and also less pulling and tugging. Aloe Vera is also good for the hair and scalp. Also Hello Essence, Hello Hydration in the blue bottle is amazing for detangling because it has A LOT of slip.
FYI, if her scalp became tender or sore from all of tugging, Aloe Vera is great. Put it on her scalp and hair and cover with a plastic cap or saran wrap for a couple to a few hours or even overnight, you'll be happy and so will Julianna. Aloe Vera is a natural healing plant.
Omg the dog too you needed some slippage conditioner😮
They had already gotten their hair wet, before she got to detangle it, I think they tried everything they had
Thank you!!! Great advice. That's what I shared. When you comb dry knotted or matted hair, of course it's going to hurt!!! Especially if your using a non wide tooth comb.
Mayonnaise will also detangle hair that is matted as well. That's an old skool recipe!! Put lot's of mayonnaise on the dry hair. 😢
Yes, I love this comment. Thank you for sharing this because I was thinking the same thing. My little girls hair got tangled really bad one time and I tried rewet it which helped a little bit but I really needed it something with the slippage that is key.!
I like how Jaylen helped you with Jaycees hair she's a good big sister🤗🤗
My Mom would of given me something to cry about, I have to give them both credit. I couldn't take it. God Bless them both! Jaelyn is the perfect big sister, she helps everybody. I hope they realize how blessed they are to have her!
Yep a pop up side the head will make you shut up and sit still😂😂😂😂😂😂
I said the samething my mom didn't play at all..The kids these days Sad Sad
Well that's unfortunate and cruel .. I'm glad Renee and her sister aren't hitting them and being cruel ..
What are they taking out? You can see their head jerking as Mom's pulling it out ..
#FACTS , Mine would've popped me in the head with that brush
Renee is so calm during this ordeal. I love it!
I wonder how Christmas is for them
The award goes to JuJu!! For best dramatic actress in a scene with not a real tear to find. 😂 Renae is a good one because my mother would have knocked my head off and would have bet me to cry! 🫣
Why yall say no real tear she literally has tears coming down and her eyes are watering like dam always like jacey and not juju like her eyes are literally watering
@@mrsdtravelsbecause there delusional and have no sense at all
Your talking you don’t know how she feels
@camdenbeliever856 Some people do not understand, when black natural hair gets matted. It takes alot to detangled it and it really does hurt. I was tender headed when I was a little girl and scared of hair washes I cried the same way. Also when I became natural I noticed that my scalp felt sore. It's not an act I was literally in tears and JuJu was too. Leave her alone that's my baby❤. Some conditioner will soften the hair n make it more easier to detangle. Sorry, for Renee and Jalen I know it can seem overwhelming, but y'all had so much patience with her. ❤❤
@@mrsdtravelsexactly she’s a child ! Like folks be always bad mouthing juju and I don’t like that !!
Use some type of moisture for their hair. They have beautiful hair, to avoid breaking and damaging the hair. Poor babies 😢😢😢
She sure is a great sister! they did an awesome job beautiful mom get you some rest. Blessings to you.
Renee said she had to take a breather but I seen the emotions in her eyes, she didn't know if she wanted to be mad or cry, and Jae is the Big sister everybody wants, she know how to stay calm but she also know how to be stearn with them when mommy and daddy can't and I think that is good to have, because she got Jacey right together without raising her voice or quitting. So I send my hugs and love to you, Renee, because you are an MVP baby girl.
Girl, I feel bad for you, but yeah yeah but I’m gonna six I’m gonna six but I feel bad for her but have a good day ma’am😊😢
@@zanarush4599 if you don't have anything positive to say, then don't reply. I have a great day
@@zanarush4599you’re six? U shouldn’t be on here
@@starryniights09 She's probably watching this vid on yt kids it's an app which sorts different videos into diff age groups so specific age groups don't see what they don't need to .😊
@@zanarush4599lil ah kid 😂
Can they have privacy while in distress, especially JuJu. She has issues handling her emotions and that is ok. Nobody’s perfect. I’d protect her space/gain her trust by not recording and showing the world her meltdowns. Who knows how this will affect her as she matures. Imagine having TONS OF FOOTAGE - courtesy of your parents to possibly be used against you. She can also read comments, people are mean. These are critical years in a child’s life. Please protect her. I’m coming from a caring/sincere place…I know how it feels!
Yes especially when she ask to cut the camera, that would have been it
I agree and she and the other kids made a comment about being scared of their classmates finding their RUclips channel and seeing embarrassing things. That’s something to think about how that affects the child and can cause bullying too
I agree! Everything doesn't have to be for us to see. Juju is very emotional and may need to process some things in private. When teaching a lesson doesn't always mean because she didn't listen is what she gets. She's still a kid, and sometimes they make mistakes. We as parents know our children personality and may need to reinforce our rules with the intention of knowing what the outcome can be.❤
Managing her emotions is not the problem...she overly dramatic and disrespectful. They created a monster.
Some people don't like to be told what to do with their children even if it's good sound advice so I have learnt when it came to Renee to let her do her rather it be right or wrong......and my oldest child is 49 and I don't a 47,36&24 yr old 8 grandchildren 32,30,29,28,24,22,&7 & 6 great grand children 11,8,6,5,2&1 so I know a lot and I've made mistakes along the way I was a 15 yr old teenager when I became a mother but I've learned if it's not requested then don't impose on someone else and how they rasie their child/ children 🤷🏽♀️
I feel like you guys have more patience than all of us and may god bless you all
They are so tender. headache😢
this happens to me too, my two daughters are always sooo DRAMATIC thinking it's not a big deal
Get Juju in some acting classes immediately 😂😂😂😂 S/O to Renee and Jaelyn for the patience they showed her 🤍🤍
Beautiful mom and big sister
IT NEVER BOTHERED ME WHEN THEY HOLLERED BECAUSE I JUST DID WHAT I HAD TO DO. ALL MY GIRLS HAD HAIR. I GOT NERVES OF STEEL. SHE DISOBEYED HER MOM AND NOW SHE'S PAYING THE CONSEQUENCES FOR HER ACTIONS.
I can't watch this.
You need to wet her hair and put moisturizer in their hair to detangle .
No this is just brutal to watch and the audacity to post this crap! ❌❌ uh uh no ma’am!
@@asiacapriiibro their just kids.
@@asiacapriiiexactly and jacey ain’t start acting a fool until Julianna was being all extra
@@asiacapriiitrue but you can’t blame her I mean just listen to what she did to her I mean don’t get me wrong I agree with you but you can’t blame her it’s her fault
@asiacapriii exactly they were definitely putting on. These girls never act like this getting their hair done. Even when it's being braided. Now the boys are tender headed but they girls never acts like this.
I love how expressive her eyes are! The concern, hope that momma understood and she was saying the word correctly!!!
You are soooooo calm! I could never
When we see Juju's transitions from one emotion to another, she really is the drama girl par excellence. She manages to get you all. That said, she will end up being mocked by her classmates if she continues. Jaelyn's calmness no longer needs to be demonstrated
Hey Renee and Duvall 🌸
When I was having my children I used to want daughters so bad and ended up having boys. After watching this I’m glad that I had boys because this is probably what I would have gone through too. Whew Chile, 🩵🩵🩵
Fng😮😊
The boys will act the same but a little bit dramatic
The calmness Renee has is remarkable. I have 4 girls & the strength I need to do it… I’m gonna channel your strength
that’s really uncalled for I know I’m late but this is just crazy she is definitely one of the best mom I know besides my mom 😊❤❤
This is totally ridiculous I am an adult and very tender headed but never ever acted this way growing up. These girls are something eles Renee you and Jalen did a great job with patience. They are sometimes very grown in behavior and needs to listen more too what's being told to them.
She is a kid she probably tender-headed what do you expect
JuJu doesn't have a single tear running down her face...She's something else ..lol
Yes she did you can also see her head jerking when whatever it was was being yanked out of her tender head..
@@lorileew2337 which is why she should of listened to what her mom said not to wet her hair
@@Wheresnay Exactly! JuJu should have listened to her Mama.. Renee didn't get mean with her which is what Mama's should do Renee's a patient good Mama.. I don't agree with some people saying JuJu should have been disciplined the extra pain she went through for not listening was punishment enough poor baby.. Some people said on here their Mama hit them on the head with the brush if they cried.. I don't agree with that..
@@lorileew2337 i was tended headed in the back of my head and used to hate combs (mom is heavy handed) used to also get popped with a comb here and there but now i do my own hair if they detangle Juju hair with the conditioner in it. It will release tension off of her head and be more easy to deal with but its also what products you use
Whewww weee.
I love a patient mom but I’m giving my kudos to the big sister. She did not have to put up with that at all. All of those kids are lucky to have her. I wish I had siblings and big family like that but since I didn’t grow up with one I can grow one myself. Blessings to your beautiful family❤
Mom and big sis you have patience of a Saint. My 9yr old granddaughter is very tender headed (suctioned at birth) and I have the patience keep her hair combed.
You pack the patience Renee God bless you❤❤❤❤❤
You blind cause her or her daughter has no patience in them kids hair girl bye she was even slamming down the hair stuff at the end
Juliana is tender headed. Y’all cute though ❤️😍😘 man jayceon looks just like Juliana. They are twins. Can’t wait to go on the journey and meet the new baby. I pray it’s a girl❤
Her kids are so beautiful
Your a bloody saint and yr older girl, wow dont know how you kept your cool, love to you all and merry Christmas from the UK ❤❤❤
First off mom...PROPS TO YOU!! The patience you display is AWESOME!! .You have to wet their hair and put in leave in conditioner or conditioner then detangle!! Why are you using your fingers?? You are literally ripping her hair😢 I only know because I experienced this same thing with my daughter who has the same hair texture. Super curly!!! My daughter was being dramatic but I believe it really hurt her so I wet her hair then put in conditioner then used a wide tooth comb to detangle.
Her hair was really matted, that's why they were finger detangling first. Finger detailing is a widely used method it's not ripping out her hair it's almost like it clearing a path for the comb to go through easier without getting caught in really big snags and tangles which would be more painful and would indeed rip out hair
@@lindasamba4816 no..she is ripping her hair. You could hear it
@@Mo-ug6zn 🙄 I'm not about to be arguing, I've said my piece think what you want
@@lindasamba4816 there is no need to get in your feelings! We all have opinions! You have yours and I gave mine...keep it cute. Don't let your ugly show🥱👹🙃
cosmetologist here. part in sections, wet the hair, use leave in conditioner to soften it up. use a wide tooth comb or the “unbrush “ brush works very good.
* also when detangling on dry hair, it will damaged the strands/ cause breakage.
I agree
Ooh wee as a cosmetologist this hurt to watch. That rough brushing on tangled hair, & the wrong type of brush can cause major hair lost.. please use a Boar bristle brush.. The comments about this child being dramatic is sad. This really hurts because the tools and technique is wrong. The child literally feels like her hair is being pulled out😢
@@lbplease right! i was cringing the whole time!
Agreed!
Renee you are an amazing mom and Jaelyn a great big sister. You both handled that so well and with so much patience. I don't think I could have done it. Love this family so much.❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love that her mom is so calm she doing all of those yell
I want to cry with them too good job mom and big sis
Best MVP GOES TO MOM & SISTER..... I bet they listen next time.😢❤️🥰
All dat screaming with no tears and fussing her siblings, mom is not hurting her!!😅😅😅 She is such an actress😂😂😂
Awww it hurts watching this to see them both crying
I can relate my girls are tender headed and all have my curly locks so when its time to brush there hair.. omg I tell you they start crying before I even pick up the brush. But it must be done. So, much love to you mama we do what we gotta do even through the crying.
I love how Renne and jaelyn try to keep their calm and not quit and yell. My love goes to you and your family ❤❤
God bless u if that was my mum my mum would say do it ur self and ur blessed u have a sister who does ur hair
Renee, I need you to teach me how to be as patient as your are here because my 7 year old puts me through it when I do her hair 😂.
The big sis is so helpful it’s like she’s the second mom Reena I’m sorry u had to go through that I acted like that growing up
They are some tender headed babys
Man I couldn’t put my child on camera crying wether their exaggerating or not. I just believe some moments should be private especially when it comes to kids
I have never seen Renee this quiet 🤣🤣🤣🤣the look she gave Jordan I was ready to run 🤣😂🤣😂🤣……..After last night prank and this today I think we deserve a live
This was recorded before the prank lol. This was a few weeks ago when juju and jacey took their braids out and washed their own hair when the mom told them not to. She been posted this on Facebook and ig but just now posted it on here
She’s just being dramatic; Renee is dramatic sometimes 😂😂😂😂 even Jewels is being dramatic in the background 🐕
I LIKE THE WAY JAELYN SAID TO JACEY GET AWAY FROM HER SHE IS NOW THE BIG SISTER EVER❤❤❤❤
She did the right thing some people talk and say like stop moving and stop screaming instead she stayed calm for her kids
Renee's a good understanding Mama for not yelling and hitting on Ju Ju Mama knows it hurt.. Obviously Ju Ju is more tender headed..
What an amazing mum Renee, yes sometimes you must let them feel that this is what I knew would happen but it was your choice to do the opposite of what I wanted you to avoid, now you’re suffering the pain of your disobedience. Hopefully next time you’ll remember, I your mum love you and only want to protect you from all pain, and discomforts. Lol a wee bit of Juju’s screaming was, the mere fact she couldn’t control this situation, she loves to control, to Renee goes the Mum of the year 2023, and the Most Patience award. Outstanding family. Love ❤️ & blessings, a Holy & Glorious Christmas to everyone, be joyful & don’t forget to wish our Lord and Savior a Happy happy Birthday. 🎁🎉🎈
Idk how y’all are so calm dealing with this. You mama, ans Jaelyn are the real MVPS 🤍
Awwww such a good family god bless y'all ❤️
? Idk what ur watching!
Amen🙏🏽❤️
@@rachelRife. What?
@@Womensbasketballncaaw Amen 🙏❤️
This is my favorite vlogmas fam
It's ok everyone ❤❤
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There are no tears...just hollering and screaming for being disobedient.
Clearly she’s in distress she don’t even know what to do… Although she was disobedient she’s still a kid and that looked traumatic
Well she should have listened to her mother and do what she’s told. This wouldn’t have happened she better be glad she wasn’t raised in my house she would got her behind tore up for not listening. And for all that screaming for nothing. That’s why the old folks say a hard head makes a soft behind.
@@justinkendrick8164I see someone keeping it real
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Amen to that!!! My mother, grandmother & great grandmother all asked us to do things for our own good/protection/to make things easier. When we chose not to listen, we suffered all around. Not only we were hurting & uncomfortable with the tugging & pulling of our hair but the adults had to listen to us whine, cry & complain. It took 3x as long to comb out, stiff fingers & hands for my grandma & great grandma with arthritis and a lot of unneeded anxiety. We actually thought they enjoyed torturing us!!! LOL 😢. They even explained to us why they wanted us to do it that way but “oh no, did we listen~NO~that would have been too easy.” When we suffered, everyone suffered! And did we call for our daddy? Hell No~ it was hair day, and he was nowhere to be found. He took care of his boys at the barber shop.
@@justinkendrick8164now you just being weird that’s not ur child to talk about and what was there to listen about the momma ain’t say nun cuase it obviously probably happened before in life if u don’t know she has a lot of kidd
The mom look like she cussing that girl out in her mind. She got the patience of Job.
Poor girls.... I certainly understand the pain with getting your hair combed. To the mother I feel your stress.❤🙏🏾
Big sister takes after her Mama, so patient 😊…. continued blessings and Happy New Year to you all ✨
Detangling spray and the daily use of cantu leave in conditioner is great for her hair. This leaves the hair soft and managable along with a good hair promade. If she gets her hair wet just rub in the leave in cantu and brush or comb no tangles. I have her type of hair and those matted tangles really do hurt!!!
My son has that type of hair, it seems as though nothing worked, and I used to be a hair stylist. He was also tender headed but never wanted his haircut. He’s 24 now and wears a big free formed kinda fro😂
A lot of ppl say cantu got chemicals in it😭
Sis you are the best mother in the world to stand there with a cool head while she scream like that omg you get all the flowers 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐.
aww Jalen the best big sis she worked with jc all the way through it.
Renée is like me dealing with my boys screaming and fighting all the time I keep calm always I am happy with my level of patience … she is bless kids will be kids during those years of mine my mother was like a fierce lion one single cry she will beat me like crazy… I will never treat my kid in such way ever ..: I decipline them in proper manner not beating just because they cry .
I remember at her age. I did the same thing when it was time to gety braid done or taking out 🪥my mamma would say. Your tender headed when I got older. I did not want no one doing my hair again 😢 i learnef to do my own hair
That happened to me, but not like that🤨
And….breathe out 😮Girll I know this feeling. My only daughter is now 22 and still tender headed. But I used to use Pantene conditioner and water in a spray bottle.,Part in sections to comb out. Crowns/hats off to u mom 💪🏽
Jealynn is such a beautiful big sweet sister, she took Julian as hair out softly.
Awwwwwww she crying for daddy like he will be able to stop the pain. Mom will be as gentle as she can, it’s ok just get thur babe girl. You’re in the best hands, stay still.
Heart breaking be brave ❤ I feel bad for Juliana
Them intentionally screaming would have sent me off the grid , they would have wondered if mommy is crazy
That’s a shame you are such a good mom going through that I feel your pain.
My PTSD from childhood kicked in after watching this. 😫😫😫
😊Hey ya'll 😊 Just calm down, Ms. Renee. You're doing such an amazing job with your girls. This is the reason they don't need make up they are still crying about getting their hair comb..just saying
Congratulations Jaycee wow how come she's calmer than her older sister
Oh Renee I feel your frustration. My daughter and now one of her daughters are very tender headed. My daughter used to hide the comb. 😂
You, and your older children patience was better than mine. The dramatics were on full effect. But she is old enough to understand, and listen to you when you tell her not to do something. So unfortunately this is what comes with not listening. Hopefully next time she will remember how painful this was, and not get her hair wet when you tell her. God bless y'all
Dadddy daddy!!! I can't 😂
I love y’all videos I hope ur kids are okay 🙂
The way Juju took off in the end 😂😂😂 oooh girls with curls 🥰😍 I deal with my nieces just the same 🤗
"It is never that serious breathe"😂😂
Dang, that’s messed up that juju saying shut up to dog😂😂😂😂
Whew child this about did me in. All that hollering and screaming and fake tears. Lord help them. I’m sorry and I’m not one for corporal punishment but she would have gotten a pow pow from that brush. Also, you not about to tell your father my husband on me like I’m going to get in trouble. The Lord definitely blessed you with the patience and heart of a saint! Cause this ain’t it!
A round of applause to Mommy!!!! You are patient girl!!! God bless u ❤
O my word!!!!! How old are They??????? 🤦🏽😡
and why does that matter?
7 & 9
Mom at the end. I feel you!
Juju is doing all that screaming, but she’s telling me the dog to shut up, that’ll make no sense at all 😂
Renee, you got to get the spray bottle with water and conditioner to get out the knocks.
This is literally me when I get my hair done my hair is really thick when I’m talking about think I’m talking about thick and it hurts really bad so I can imagine what they’re going through
This reminds me of when I was younger and my Mother would do my hair… whenever I started acting up, she’d Pop the mess out of me with whatever tool she was using to do my hair with 😂 Nostalgia 🤦🏾♀️ Power ✊🏾 to you, Ms. Beauty! ❤
Juju been crying since she was a baby, I remember she would cry and cry, play then cry, it’s her personally trait. She’s a blessed child. 😌❤
Aww you guys got it done!! This brings back memories 😭. A product that’s not very known but works amazing on kinky hair and Afro hair is Redkin leave in conditioner heat treatment/protectant it works very well on my 4c hair on smoothing it, dry angle and excellent moisture! ☺️ check it out If you want.
This is the same reason why I am installing micro loc's in my 11y daughter head. Detangling her hair hurts, and I don't like putting her through all that pain. I too am tender headed in certain areas of my head so I totally understand. #ItReallyHurts
So ruin her hair cause you don’t wanna deal with it ? Makes sense
@@elizabethirvin9954right
@@elizabethirvin9954I agree. They can damage the health of the hair and most type's of locs aren't attractive. Leaving your hair natural or other types of hairstyles do look attractive..
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I can see what. They feel and I can feel it to😊😊😊
I know Renee sometimes it's stressful but you had to do what you had to do
They want to be grown Soooooo Bad😂😂😂😂...
Kudos to you Renee and Big sis came thru in a clutch!❤❤❤
“DADDEEEYYYYYY😭😭😭😭😭😭😭!!!!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I now understand my momma when she would say “yall scream like somebody killing yall”😂😂😂
Lol true
OMG! THAT WAS HARD TO WATCH! I HOPE SOME TYPE OF PUNISHMENT WAS INFORCED FOR THAT BEHAVIOR! IT WAS NOT GENUINE.
Hell, it looked like they were punishing her for what she previously did before getting her hair done in order to teach her a lesson by not using detangler and leave in conditioner so that it would hurt her and cause her to cry. Now you want her to be punished for crying while getting it done.
Why thankfully Renee isn't abusive to her children..
@@christytea1798For real and people wanting Ju Ju hit on or punished probably have their own young children that's sad ..