Yah so right no child would wish for parents separation but if it's for good , the children just need guidance with love from both sides they will understand
Woiye Tee is like my own 8 year old 😅,kids sees everything,love can fade away but bonds holds forever 😊 Peaceful co parenting is a beautiful thing!Mama Tee is so Mature !Love the family Dinamic
I think this was the best time to tell them the truth.... because Naseeb junior is also growing up and he will want to spend time with his Dad...it's better they grow up knowing each other and accommodating their other siblings
Its ok to break up whether with kids or not. If it's not working out, no point in forcing. Sometimes people function better without each other. Staying with someone just cause you got kids together is not only gonna weigh you down but it negatively affects the kids as well. 2 separate happy parents is better than a passive aggressive household 😊
Have you had the opportunity to explore this theory thoroughly? I firmly believe that life's complexities are far from being merely black and white. Each situation and every family is a unique entity, influenced by an intricate interplay of factors such as beliefs, culture, and personalities. Consequently, there exists a diverse spectrum of plausible solutions tailored to each specific circumstance. It is my contention that individuals should refrain from clinging to the notion of possessing a universally perfect recipe for all relationship challenges. In all likelihood, such a one-size-fits-all solution does not exist. The contemporary Western feminist perspective, often advocating for separation when issues arise, is just one viewpoint among many.
That's selfishness to think of yourself alone and not others involved. How did you start in the first place? If you didn't take time to consider marriage as a lifetime thing, then you'll find break OK. Breakup should only happen in extreme cases. Otherwise, it should never be an option. And no, no one can be happy after break up. That's a lie from the pits of hell.
they will get hurt, yes. but when they grow up they will understand coz for sure for sure, I ain't staying in a toxic marriage just to keep my babies happy
@@lile_8266 No one said you should stay in any toxic relationship but that doesn’t change the trauma experienced by kids and what kind of society we tend to build
@@kikilifestylemajor hey, you you dont get my point right, you just rush to respond. You said kids get hurt the most when partents separate and my point was in some cases situation is worse by staying rather than by separating. What part is not clear then?
Zari, inappropriate to poison the kids against their father or expose them at that age to adut issues. Their dad messed up. Why share the pain in your heart with them. That is not the behaviour of a strong confident woman.
To be honest after watching this video I realized how much these two people still loves each other ,I only pity people who are dating these two,bcse it's only matter of time, these two will be back together very soon
this was the perfect chance to tell the kids the truth but you both downplayed their questions.They grow so fast and with social media,they will come to know everything.I feel for them.They might seem okay but deep down it is traumatizing.
He just lied to his kids that he doesn't have any other kids damn poor kids they will find out eventually So he doesn't consider the kids he has with tanasha and hamisa ??? Huh
Why is zari even telling kids grown stuff they're still too young to understand to be telling them "Papa broke up the family" & "papa is having a baby with another girl" she's corrupting the kids mind against their father. Its okkay for their Dad to move on. Let them enjoy their fatherly love because When time Comes they will know the reality.
The fact that Diamond can’t be accountable to his kids about his actions says a lot about how self-centered he is. Why not admit you messed up? What does flipping the script to make Zari look like the one who broke up the family do to the kids? They end up blaming their mom yet it’s the dad who caused all this. Man this guy is a lot of work. Zari, keep your head up!
Mwizi wa hela unaiba hela zetu zote kiuchawi una maisha kutegea hela za kuiba umeiba Dunia nzima hela kiuchawi mwanga mkubwa umetoka Mombasa unajifanya hujui kiswahili Mimi SI nilikuona njiani unaongea kiswahili fasaha umalaya unakazi kubadilisha na lugha kwa ajili ya kujiuza
We malaya unaye onea nyumba yangu wivu kahaba uliye oza hunijui sikujui dakika mbili tumekutana njiani malaya mkubwa Mimi mgeni ukanipeleka nyumba ya wasomali ulivyo kuwa mchawi ulikuwa unaningojea njiani wewe na mama mmoja mweusi. Watengeneza mikoba wewe na familia yako unaroga watoto wangu wamekukosea nini unaye shindana na Mimi na sikujui. Na Kila unavyo Fanya kushinda Mimi najua kutaka kumuuulia mtoto wangu shuleni
Zari 🦠🦠will have a problem with these two kids .. these are fathers kids .., they will hate the mother because she loves other men . So zari atakuta shida kabisa
So Zari's kids do not appreciate her relationships with other men.. its high time Zari settles down once and for all to set a good example to her kids and especially her daughter.. Tiffa is being serious, and they are taking it as joke.. Diamond didn't have to deny other kids , he should have promised to tell them when the time is right in stead of denying.. That won't only hurt Dylan and NJ but Tiffa and Nillan will get hurt too upon finding the truth.. Parenthood its not all about money or good life,its all also about being a role model to your kids
Ummm don’t have grown folk talk with kids. No matter what happens. Let the drama stay between the paternal party and always be United and be good parents. Period
Nilikuwa nimekosana na my wife 2years na yule alifanya tukarudiana ni mtoto. Nikiongea na yeye kwa simu I used to tell he I love you. Ananiambia I love you too dadie Ambia mum I love you na yeye. The rest Mungu anajua.
I just have a request Munga Eve ..plis drop the case of the man who jailed plis let it go coz he apologized to you but you didn't listen have mercy on him let it go plis
The kids Dreams always to grow old with both of their parents , we all know dat.. but when we wanna blame we can blam yes both parents but after that have to appreciate da living without da struggle bcoz alot of kids have faced big struggle after da break up of parents
Because kids need to know. Why would you want your children growing up speculating and experiencing trauma. For me I talk to my kids and help them understand situations.
@@zaburahzaburahh1784 thats fine. Although there's no need to get into details on why they seperaaated. And in front of cameras? It's a private matter that needs to be discussed alone.
Me I can't judge him having lots of money and lots of women is lots of disaster..but his still human the only problem I have no hizo nguo amevaa short na chest yote nje na ako na watoi..... otherwise he isn't the first dead beat or man to reject his other kids dunia imejaa such men
sorry man.. but atleast yours know you and the mum. mine are 6 and 4 years and know their step dad is their father. their real dad left 4 years ago and has seen them not more than 5 times since, so they forgot him. the last time they saw each other they called him 'uncle'. i told the older one but I think hakushika story and I always dread the day I will have to have an in-depth conversation
When we say break up affect kids ..it's so painful that they can't understand, childhood trauma is real
Yah so right no child would wish for parents separation but if it's for good , the children just need guidance with love from both sides they will understand
Yes i broke up with my baby daddy and its not easy I try to give my son the best.
Sending all the people who have gone through this love.🥰🥰🥰
The children need to know the truth especially when parents lives separately. As early as possible
Woiye Tee is like my own 8 year old 😅,kids sees everything,love can fade away but bonds holds forever 😊 Peaceful co parenting is a beautiful thing!Mama Tee is so Mature !Love the family Dinamic
I think this was the best time to tell them the truth.... because Naseeb junior is also growing up and he will want to spend time with his Dad...it's better they grow up knowing each other and accommodating their other siblings
They are still young to understand
Diamond will always be diamond 😂💎
ZUCHU hope you are seeing this let this man raise his kids you are still young and can get ur own man
Was the best time to tell the kids the truth 😢
Not really acha wajue wakiwa na akili ya kuelewa... sai hawaezi jua maana ya kucheat ni nini na vile inaffect mtu, wao wataona tu mtu ni mmbaya
Nop.its not the right tym first inafaa watoi wote wawe pamoja ndio.afsnye intro not now
For us for him was nit appropriate i know one day yes
These kids will one day kill me, Diamond has to be prepare for more questions from these children coz they are so bright and intelligent
I like how this kids are insisting 😅😅😅mond family 🔥🔥 keep them coming 🔥💯
The look on diamond's face when tifa said zari is in love with another 😂
Zuchu are you seeing this ??? Utazunguka zunguka zunguka zungukaaaaaeeeeee.....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 heaven is a no go zone for you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Say what😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The children are good looking. Children speak their hearts always.
aaauuuuchhhh kids of these days grow up fast... give me them likes people
Diamond love zari sana Hawa watoi will make them come back together walai
Tiffah is a very intelligent girl😍
Since Toddler stage.
Zari just told her kids the truth which is very important. Diamond will have to deal with the repurcussions of his decisions.
Did Zari say that they too(Diamond's kids) are another man's kids? 😂😂😂😂😂
Yaani tumepiga hapa Kambi kuona watanzania wakibonga kizungu😂😂😂🙌🙌🙌,fame is some really dope shit 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Meeeehn😂😂😂😂
Its ok to break up whether with kids or not. If it's not working out, no point in forcing. Sometimes people function better without each other. Staying with someone just cause you got kids together is not only gonna weigh you down but it negatively affects the kids as well. 2 separate happy parents is better than a passive aggressive household 😊
Have you had the opportunity to explore this theory thoroughly? I firmly believe that life's complexities are far from being merely black and white. Each situation and every family is a unique entity, influenced by an intricate interplay of factors such as beliefs, culture, and personalities. Consequently, there exists a diverse spectrum of plausible solutions tailored to each specific circumstance.
It is my contention that individuals should refrain from clinging to the notion of possessing a universally perfect recipe for all relationship challenges. In all likelihood, such a one-size-fits-all solution does not exist. The contemporary Western feminist perspective, often advocating for separation when issues arise, is just one viewpoint among many.
That's selfishness to think of yourself alone and not others involved. How did you start in the first place? If you didn't take time to consider marriage as a lifetime thing, then you'll find break OK. Breakup should only happen in extreme cases. Otherwise, it should never be an option. And no, no one can be happy after break up. That's a lie from the pits of hell.
Amen
Diamond Will always be diamond he will never change no cap
Ohhh God protect this family 🙏🙏💖💖💖
We love them so much
this is extreme... wueeeh... parents let's see our kid's through... they are sweet souls.. and whenever they ask you something just be truthful
Il like this family i would like them to solve whatever the differences and be together i pray🙏
I wish so too😭😭it's so heartbreaking 💔 😢
Go get back with your exes too
Me too
Prince does not love his father that much... it just goes like that... mother-son, father-daughter
So painful when a relationship lasts for so long and boom its no more all the love,efforts and time the only thing left are memories.
They are intelligent akii 🤣
This is sad to watch 😢 Zee is a strong woman 🤦🏿💪🏿🙏🏿
My dear….Tiffa brought tears to my eyes. And I just don’t know how Zari gets this strength. It’s too painful a situation🥲
Mama broke up the family .......ooooh noooooo Dad's kids ......Jameni tunalea kizazi kipya
It’s sad that parents hardly realize that kids get hurt most when they separate.. sad 😔
they will get hurt, yes. but when they grow up they will understand coz for sure for sure, I ain't staying in a toxic marriage just to keep my babies happy
@@lile_8266 No one said you should stay in any toxic relationship but that doesn’t change the trauma experienced by kids and what kind of society we tend to build
Not always, in some cases being in unhappy marriage is the worse thing kids can experience
@@ericron6115 Did I ask anyone to stay in unhappy marriage ?! No!! Stop misunderstanding my statement!!
SMH 🤦🏽♀️
@@kikilifestylemajor hey, you you dont get my point right, you just rush to respond. You said kids get hurt the most when partents separate and my point was in some cases situation is worse by staying rather than by separating. What part is not clear then?
This family is goals, i wish they can get back together
I wish they get together, oh my God
These two still love each other,I guess one day they will get back,and when they get back, they will never break up ever again.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kids needs to know the truth as early as possible especially when parents lives separately
I loved this couple
Waaah, watoto wanaamini mama yao ndio alivuja ndoa cos wanaona mama na mwanaume mwengine na wanaspent time together every day, watu shap Mashallah
Zari, inappropriate to poison the kids against their father or expose them at that age to adut issues. Their dad messed up. Why share the pain in your heart with them. That is not the behaviour of a strong confident woman.
To be honest after watching this video I realized how much these two people still loves each other ,I only pity people who are dating these two,bcse it's only matter of time, these two will be back together very soon
You're right and it seems like they still love each other..
this was the perfect chance to tell the kids the truth but you both downplayed their questions.They grow so fast and with social media,they will come to know everything.I feel for them.They might seem okay but deep down it is traumatizing.
But I can see the mother was trying to explain to them the truth but they don't trust there mother so no blame to the mother
He just lied to his kids that he doesn't have any other kids damn poor kids they will find out eventually
So he doesn't consider the kids he has with tanasha and hamisa ??? Huh
Diamond is the factor, Zari. A man is man nothing will change that gender, God bless you beautiful family
Hawa watoto wanapenda baba yao so much
Jamani mbona mondi ananungunika sijasikia neno hata moja 😂😂😂
😂 😂 😂
Wow this Kids like their papa too much!!😘😘😘
Sijaskia kizungu ya mondi hapo 😂😂😂
This is painful to watch. That one can have so much money but can't buy a perfect family for your children.... This so sad. Our reality but sad.
🥰🥰🥰🥰 children are always right
Wow , watoto waambiwe ukweli
Zari hajui kuficha 🤣🤣 let's call a spade a spade not a big spoon
And when kids will know Naseeb Jnr ,they will love their mom for being open
@@lisperkagendo5269 sure and that's when they'll know what their mom tried to let them be aware of. Wako na step bros nje n wenye pia hatuwajui
This kids will hate that man zari is flirting with
Kuna mengi ya kujifunza kwenye maisha ya hawa celebrates. Kuhusu familia.
Why is zari even telling kids grown stuff they're still too young to understand to be telling them "Papa broke up the family" & "papa is having a baby with another girl" she's corrupting the kids mind against their father. Its okkay for their Dad to move on. Let them enjoy their fatherly love because When time
Comes they will know the reality.
So is it zero who broke up??he has kids so what's wrong?
But she ain't lying tho
@@bornstrong2227 doesnt matter who started what. The kids dont need to know all of that blame games.
now I understand why Diamond doesn't want to come out clearly on dating with zuchu 🤣
Aki🤣🤣🤣
Akiii 😂😂😂
Akiii
Waliachana. Huna habari?
@@sallyshiko_ alaaaa😂😂😂
Tiffa ni kasnitch🤣🤣🤣
Can't imagine can defeat them out
The fact that Diamond can’t be accountable to his kids about his actions says a lot about how self-centered he is. Why not admit you messed up? What does flipping the script to make Zari look like the one who broke up the family do to the kids? They end up blaming their mom yet it’s the dad who caused all this. Man this guy is a lot of work. Zari, keep your head up!
TRANSPARENCY IS VERY IMPORTANT💯
Mwizi wa hela unaiba hela zetu zote kiuchawi una maisha kutegea hela za kuiba umeiba Dunia nzima hela kiuchawi mwanga mkubwa umetoka Mombasa unajifanya hujui kiswahili Mimi SI nilikuona njiani unaongea kiswahili fasaha umalaya unakazi kubadilisha na lugha kwa ajili ya kujiuza
Girls girls girls, they will never ever betray their dad's.. I love my daughters... Hope this break up doesn't affect or traumatise them...
Kizungu ya Diamond iliisha kitamboooooooooooo,heartache
Hawa watoto wameamua violation,kwanza the English wana suffocate simba nayo bwana be ready kuona diamond na zari together.
We malaya unaye onea nyumba yangu wivu kahaba uliye oza hunijui sikujui dakika mbili tumekutana njiani malaya mkubwa Mimi mgeni ukanipeleka nyumba ya wasomali ulivyo kuwa mchawi ulikuwa unaningojea njiani wewe na mama mmoja mweusi. Watengeneza mikoba wewe na familia yako unaroga watoto wangu wamekukosea nini unaye shindana na Mimi na sikujui. Na Kila unavyo Fanya kushinda Mimi najua kutaka kumuuulia mtoto wangu shuleni
Woiii this family was very beautiful it's only that hawakuelewana
Diamond watoto wamewaketisha chini mujue ni maneno makubwa sanaaa mufikilie sanaaa
Ewooo😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣vile wameruka mamayao woiu
THANKS FOR WATCHING
Zari ana focus kwa other kids, Diamond ana focus kwa what the mom said 😂😂😂Drama.
Zari 🦠🦠will have a problem with these two kids .. these are fathers kids .., they will hate the mother because she loves other men . So zari atakuta shida kabisa
Imagine being heartbroken twice: poverty and divorce
So Zari's kids do not appreciate her relationships with other men.. its high time Zari settles down once and for all to set a good example to her kids and especially her daughter.. Tiffa is being serious, and they are taking it as joke.. Diamond didn't have to deny other kids , he should have promised to tell them when the time is right in stead of denying.. That won't only hurt Dylan and NJ but Tiffa and Nillan will get hurt too upon finding the truth.. Parenthood its not all about money or good life,its all also about being a role model to your kids
Kijana tangu ajue kizungu..anakipepeta utadhani alizaliwa marekani kumbe wa Samia Tu hapa jirani🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🇰🇪
Ummm don’t have grown folk talk with kids. No matter what happens. Let the drama stay between the paternal party and always be United and be good parents. Period
Nilikuwa nimekosana na my wife 2years na yule alifanya tukarudiana ni mtoto. Nikiongea na yeye kwa simu I used to tell he I love you. Ananiambia I love you too dadie Ambia mum I love you na yeye. The rest Mungu anajua.
Weeh aki watoto ❤❤❤❤
So demeaning indeed, seeing the kinds and hearing them asking crucial question. That's mental torture
Let we leave Zuchu alone, let her enjoy her timing.
But Simba has to get time for these kids to know their other siblings.
I just have a request Munga Eve ..plis drop the case of the man who jailed plis let it go coz he apologized to you but you didn't listen have mercy on him let it go plis
The kids Dreams always to grow old with both of their parents , we all know dat.. but when we wanna blame we can blam yes both parents but after that have to appreciate da living without da struggle bcoz alot of kids have faced big struggle after da break up of parents
Tell the children the truth about your relationship with their mother...otherwise they might despise her that she separated the family...
Tiffah you asked mum a question comn maama 😍😍😍
Noo diamond twisted everything 😮
😂😂😂😂 platinumz amh English inampiga chenga💔💔💔🙌
Good mungai eve. Please repost my link
The man should make a powerful decision for the seek of his kids.
Ningetamani watudiane halafu watengeneze something like reality show of their life. I am sure it will sell.
Daaah li diamond umeona lilivo shangaaa😂😂🤣😂😂 kama haelewi kinacho endelea daah yani Shkamooo Bongooo
This is a strategy women use on their ex husband to get them back
Nawapenda sana hii familia
Why are they putting their kids this young talking about sensitive information.
Because kids need to know. Why would you want your children growing up speculating and experiencing trauma. For me I talk to my kids and help them understand situations.
It's OK for them to know that they have other siblings though diamond ignored
@@zaburahzaburahh1784 thats fine. Although there's no need to get into details on why they seperaaated. And in front of cameras? It's a private matter that needs to be discussed alone.
Mtanzania kwa uongo yani Diamond mkavu utasema hadanganyi
She shouldn't have her children involved. If he needed to reinforce the fact that he loves them no matter.
Me I can't judge him having lots of money and lots of women is lots of disaster..but his still human the only problem I have no hizo nguo amevaa short na chest yote nje na ako na watoi..... otherwise he isn't the first dead beat or man to reject his other kids dunia imejaa such men
The same thing I am facing 😥
sorry man.. but atleast yours know you and the mum. mine are 6 and 4 years and know their step dad is their father. their real dad left 4 years ago and has seen them not more than 5 times since, so they forgot him. the last time they saw each other they called him 'uncle'. i told the older one but I think hakushika story and I always dread the day I will have to have an in-depth conversation
Cute baby cute family
The way he turnt it on her... of course.
Tanasha's baby will grow up and see this video, anawakana wanao mbele ya Dunia. I hate this kind men
Hawa naona wakishi pamoja😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Maama Tee break up the family Nfwaaa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is crazy 😂😂😂😂😂
Bt Diamond anadanganya watoto tu
Hawa watahamia kwa baba
Zara is using her hurt to get to Diamond. That’s it!